Games Men Play In The UAE | Let's Talk My Experience With Polygamy| Make Hijrah To The UAE
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- You would think that being in a Muslim country men would leave you alone however it's just the opposite. In the west we as Muslim women are the minority and the non Muslim men can't see us because we are covered and they know that we are off limits.
However in the Muslim lands that is not the case, Muslim men will try to pursue Muslim women and if you aren't wise then you can be easily fooled by the cunning games that men play in order to get your attention or spark conversation with you to get to know you.
I need to listen to this again while I’m not driving.. I was thurly listening 😂..questions I have, but I don’t wanna seem like I’m a retired “salafi inspector” 😂.. but as per usual.. we need more content..we know you busy, and have a life…we waiting..jazakallahu khairan
Ask away brother. I don't keep any secrets. 😂
@@hijrahemiraat2990 lemme make my coffee first
Very interesting points here, I love my wife and I was asked by my Sheikh if I wanted another but I felt like polygamy is a building process like I don’t want to just marry to just marry or even more children. My wife is new to Islam so I gave a list and one was a wife who knows her deen or has studied etc a great addition to upholding the religion in our unity plus she would understand my journey of studying etc. A benefit I think comes from polygamy is the opportunity for a sister to sit with the first wife and really talk with her, I think that would make a big difference for a sister before she got into a marriage as such.
respect from your Bosnian brother for not showing your face in front of camera! what kind of business were you managing?
I was working in a Real Estate office here but now I work independently with Real Estate developers. And besides that I am a shoe designer who works with craftsman from different countries to produce my shoe designs.
Assalaamualaikum wa rahmatuAllahi wa barakaatuh sis lol Alhamdulillah love u for Allah, I'm glad you went in with the bulldozer. Many of us have the same sentiments and are alike in the thought processea but nowhere to 'get it out there' so to speak. Please share these videos so the false narratives can be deleted really!
جزاك الله يا أخت القاضلة
هذه النصيحة الغالية لمن يريد أن يتزوز عدد الزوجات.
حياك الله يا اختي
الله يحفظك
Anyways, don't be too over confident in yourself, sister. Not all men have the intents of what some women like you think about them. You might be thinking a man is playing games with you, with some things you deem so, but however, he doesn't need anything from you, his intent is totally different from what ypu are seeing in him.
@@Habib-lo7mf Please don't think that I am assuming about the men and their games. I didn't expose the things the men were the men were saying and doing because I don't like to expose sins. So have good thoughts and a good opinion about your sister because I was only trying to convey a message and tell sisters to watch out for game players and wolves because they are out here.
@@Habib-lo7mf What do you mean by over confident? I usually mind my business and the men come after me brother with clear talk about marriage and trying tricks and games a lot. They want what they want and definitely find me interesting. Lol. But they aren't my type. Hope I didn't make you feel insecure or intimidated.
You were the only wife for 19 years and weren't in love? SubhanAllah. You feel like you wasted time?
@@KhalilAbdullah88 Unfortunately that was the case. No I didn't waste my time because I grew in ways that I didn't know I needed to. We came together for religion and I left him for religion. I was on a Hijrah mission and to save my soul, I wasn't looking for love even though it would have been nice to have it and that is what I expected to come from a " religious" marriage, but it turned out the the religion didn't go beyond the quotes, books, physical appearance and conversation. There was harm, verbal abuse, irresponsibility, and no implementation when it came to giving me my rights. I got no rights. But I'm not a quiter and I refused to break up my family and bring another man in my children's life. So I stuck it out until we made it here and then planned my divorce. And here we are .
@@hijrahemiraat2990 Alhamdulillah! I'd love to hear your thoughts on what makes a marriage harmonious and what qualities you think make a good husband. Also, how do you think polygyny can work well for everyone involved-the husband, wife, and potential co-wife? Your experience is valuable as is the wisdom you share. May Allah grant you the ability to benefit the people.
@@KhalilAbdullah88 That's actually quite interesting. I guess I can make a video about what makes a good husband and good wife even. I can give a little insight and advice about Polygamy but it takes Eman, maturity and controlling emotions on the part of the woman. Plural marriage is a touchy topic and women don't like to hear about it so I don't know if I am going to give a lot of advice about it. Lol
Especially as I see how some women even lie on Allah's book and give their own interpretation on why a man should get another wife or why in the past they would get another wife. The men usually enjoy this topic but the sisters not so much. So we shall see.
What is upon you is to discuss what is revealed from the Qur-ān and Sunnah regarding a successful polygamy, you don't mind whether your gender or opposite would like that or not. Allāh says:
"وما على الرسول إلا البلاغ المبين"