When she said as men we need to have a support structure - it hit me so hard because I truly don’t have one. I try to navigate through storms alone, whether be it through a disappointment, break ups, a bad day at work etc; I just go to sleep and hope I wake up the following day feeling better.
A sister I once loved and proposed to shamed me and told me I am not up to her level to even propose to her. I stood up from there and told myself, "this is the lowest level I will ever be in life". She got married to another dude and moved on. Today am a company executive. The last time we spoke, she asked for a soft loan. Funny how life can take a new twist. I humbly made it a gift rather than a loan. The human in me showed up and took over.
Once a man tells himself this is the lowest I will ever be, it's over for every woman out there. He may marry you because he likes and admires you, that emotional connection will be gone forever
A Father of 2 here, son and daughter. My key take away here, is being aware that my Daughter will know love from a man through me first as her Father. Therefore it lies upon me to show her an example of how a man who truly loves and cares for her should be towards her.❤
She just healed every man who watched this. May this video become a trend and may more mature women speak and help turn men back to proper leaders. Proper leaders make women selfless supporters and together majority of this world may know peace. Thank you Precious.
Everything she said is true but she forgot to say one major thing that it's God's plan for a man to marry a woman and woman should submit to her man and the man should love her back..
Oh, man. I'm tearing up a bit. Thank you for seeing us as God sees us. Thank you for going against culture and reminding us that we are loved, appreciated, and needed. May the good Lord bless you for your obedience. You saved a couple of lives with this one.
"a man is a good man if he is of service and the benefit of women". Notice she can point out the practical and tangile things men need to do for society as well as what woman should take from men. Gentleman expect a fair exchange of value and nothing less. You don't owe anyone anything but respect.
Respect is earned. Even that is not a given. What I value in a woman matters. I’m not giving attention to women who trivialize what black men value in a partner. Just move on. Only 35% of our women will marry, so I wouldn’t take it personal, this is systematic and generational.
That apology is the best thing i have seen the whole year. If women could apologize to the men they've hurt like this; Things would really change. A lot of men have made a vow to never be soft again.
I realized the world as a whole is too far gone for me as an individual to change it. All I can do is influence my small circle and hope the legacy radiates to the next generation
90% of women are looking for a man who has already make it so they can jump in and enjoy men doesn't have no supportive from a woman only real male friends can do that
Your advise is very sober. May God bless and protect you my sister. I am a happily married father of 3, 1 daughter and 2 boys. I am big on being a best version of myself. I appreciate the role my lovely wife plays in our family and that makes me to want to be even a more loving husband and a caring father. I love hearing my kids calling me "Papa"....oooooh that just completes me. All the best Ms Kofi😍😍😍
This is my first comment ever on social media. She speaks the truth on healthy gender relations and appreciates the overlooked Men. We appreciate Her as well.
@PreciousKofi You are so gracious, and I am smitten to subscribe 2 her channel Thank you 4 taking the time out of your day/enjoy your experiences as a gorgeous 😍 woman in the world.
You got me / I needed that apology and I want to apologize to all the women I have hurt or acted in a way that my present self recognizes as wrong . I recognized that I wasn't well equipped and not having the guidance. I am in my fathering-my-self process and I trust will find redemption in my futures relationships on the way I will behaved God Bless you
Man, suffer alone! Don't Share negative results before you overcome. Don't commit the mistake to show your downfalls to people, people are waiting for this for ages.
Its really disappointing ,for a woman to realise a mans value in her thirties,or even admit to a mistake after years i sometimes wonder the current state and well being of a man who wasnt acknowledged and respected of his value, some are now dead, others are half dead still walking, others moved on by the grace of God, this message is not for Precious, but i wonder why does a woman has to make tones of poor decisions ,go on a world tour only to come as a glass that is almost empty damaged goods as the elders would say it ,only to realise what a real good man is ,There is plan A, B ,And a good man has been put in plan C very heart breaking
When she apologized I said to my self “I’ll just have to take this I guess.” Then she said to take it as our own for the person that didn’t apologized and it hit me hard. Thanks Also, I do feel inadequate a lot with a lot of stuff but it was my ex wife that drilled the last nail in me that killed me. I’m somehow working on it. Anyhow, thanks a bunch for your advice sis!
Absolutely, sis! Men and women are designed to complement and support one another, and there’s true strength in that unity. Self-care is so vital because we can only pour out what we’ve already filled within ourselves. By taking time to nurture our well-being, we become better partners, friends, and sources of encouragement to each other. May God bless you richly and continue to fill your life with joy and love. 🌺
Just yesterday, I was able to loosen up for the very first time in my life. I shared some issues I had bottled up for years, and afterwards, I felt so vulnerable. We men go through very tough phases, and as natural providers for society, we often prefer to handle things on our own. This drains us mentally and emotionally, making it difficult to give our all. I pray that all men meet people-especially women-who won’t use our worries, issues, and vulnerabilities against us. Thank you Precious. I believe this has been a safe space for most men out there!
I haven't yet seen any of your other videos, but just this one video is reason enough to Subscribe. This is really great advice for men and I do hope that women are also taking note.
There's a major reason why the world is pushing the agenda of splitting Men and Women apart creating hate because when the 2 forces are together they are unstoppable generationally.The world has to wakeup and see it though, Thruth is the awakening starts with you🙏🏾
Wow, you've just made my day. This is the message we as men need to hear, especially black men like myself. I think our lack of self worth comes from lack of compassion and meaning and purpose. And so we take our anger out on the society and women. We fail to see our true power and what it can have on our society because we think society doesnt value. So we think all that matters is making money, and no matter how you make money. We believe society automatically owes us something, but we owe our society alot. It is through building the society that we can own it. We cant drive a car or place you didnt own or built.
I was literally hyperventilating watching this video. You are talking kindly about us but also empowering us at the same time. That we can change as a man and it will influence the women in our lives and society in general. This gender war is non sense. Talking kindly to your woman is important and vice versa. Thank for this video!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, I cannot thank you enough for this. On behalf of all of your brothers I want to say you are appreciated and the value that these 15 minutes have given me and anyone I know I will share with this is unmeasurable. You are a bright light in a wold that seems to get darker and darker and your words are so inspirational! I'm a young father of 3 here, 2 boys and 1 girl-and although you look like you're still a teenager your wisdom is ageless. You have found a subscriber for life with this one ❤
I just stumbled across this video about an hour ago, and I must say, as a man that has been happily married for 10 years - thank you. Please understand that I fully received this with all the love that you intended, and I even reacted to this on my own channel that I am sharing with my mostly male audience. You really dropped a lot of gems for us men in this video and I want you to know that your video literally is going to make me be a better man, husband, brother, friend and educator. From the most sincere place, Thank you!
I clearly remember your TV show in 2009. Precious Africa. At one point you were crying about the heartache you saw on your travels it felt so authentic i remember crying with you. Good to see you still around.
Madam you are a true woman ! Very motherly spirit and great presentation of what true womanhood is. Your words of wisdom are felt and appreciated! I wish all young boys who have a struggling relationship with their mother hear this because GOODNESS !!! May God continue to bless you with wisdom and knowledge ♥️♥️✊🏾
There’s many who do but those conversations don’t have the kind of reach they should have. We need to make love, thoughtfulness and unity among genders a priority in life and on social media
Great video. Guidance is something I’ve been lacking in and that was the first thing you mentioned. Having a mentor. Everything after that was accurate and valid aswell. Thank you for releasing this video.
As a man with a daughter this video touched my heart. That apology was sincere, I dont cry but I definitely shed a tear or two. Thank you form the bottom of my heart. Be blessed ✝️
You are a blessing to the world... your passion, your energy, your reasoning, your humility, your humbleness, your standing in for others is something else on another level. May the LORD OF SABBATH RICHLY BLESS you, and BLESS your works. Timely message it is to me... I forgive all as I seek forgiveness too. A 🇿🇲m🇿🇲e🇿🇲n🇿🇲
Hi @PreciousKofi. I appreciate your content and honesty in your Advice from a married woman videos. My comment on this video is that most women have no idea what men discuss when we get together, especially the kind of men that you say you love. The men that do bad things to women or his woman would never dare say that out loud. From a very young age we men are used to holding each other accountable because that's what our father's did. So it's even tough for us to see if someone is abusing his woman behind closed doors. but those types of men either have no friends or just hides it well.
She is True Woman of GOD. This woman deserves A real man's protection and A definition of a Real Woman who see the Strenght in Man! Thank You Little does people kno. MEN COMMIT THE HIGHEST RATE OF SUICIDE YET WE DONT CRY ABOUT OUR PROBLEMS EVERYDAY TO ANY9NE.
I remember when this popped up on my recommended and I was… skeptical. A woman telling me how to be a man (not sexist btw, just that instinctual thought say if you were a woman and a guy drops a video giving advice on women sorta thing… a natural reaction is all) But I was also curious. Always love hearing different perspectives. And so I screenshotted it and said I’ll watch. I forgot unfortunately until yesterday when once more, it came again. And I was elated. I said, this time I’ll watch it. And boy oh boy, this was refreshing to listen to. Fills me with joy that there’s great humans like you out there. Thank you for the video, opened up my mind and challenged my way of living. You seem like a great person, kindly carry on with the same energy. I’ll keep an eye out for your content. Loved this video and did I mention you’re beautiful? I guess I have now. Keep up Kofi!!
Thanks @PreciousKofi - this is an awesome video. It's timely! Maybe you're a prophetess, lol!!! But seriously this is great advice. Guys keep in all the pressure, and mostly it's for the women around them
Divine feminine energy, something extremely rare in today's world, I've had women make me feel less manly or emasculate me on one occasion or two but it gives me hope to actually see that this level of femininity exists and honestly I found healing in your words.
The world has called for women to be masculine and it’s only once we’ve suffered that we remember our core and begin that road of finding comfort and ease in the feminine
For the last 8 years, I’ve had a guys night every single Wednesday at a local sports bar… different guys come and go over the years, but all great guys, making great decisions, overcoming obstacles, getting advice from each other… it’s definitely my favorite night of the week
I love women like you making videos because when i see these podcasters showing the worst extremes of women i can never find people like you who are down to earth and reasonable to point to! 😁. You represent the everyday woman in my life who i can find just by stepping outside and touching grass. Thabk you
I'm a man, and this was refreshing to hear. As you said, nothing new but it's also nice to hear again. I think men are a bit tired of this cliff between genders, these stupid gender wars, although we all have mothers, sisters, wives/girlfriends we love, it seems like men and women are on a road to very different destinations.
I clicked on your video bc I was curious what a woman's life advice would be for a man in this day & age. I wanna say this about your 'support structure' point: there are two things you wanna beware of first (if you're a male or female), 1.) we each have a predetermined path to travel in life that is decided by the Lord, and He may block help for us during tough times to teach us to stand alone; 2.) people that you may look at as being exemplary, may not be. So take away what you can but don't lean on them. 🔑 Take care.
This was a great video ❤ You have such a non confrontational but assertive tone in your wisdom. Am happy you share your knowledge of your experiences as we can all benefit from this type of growth. Keep blessing us with these beautiful videos 🙌🏽
Thank you so much Precious for the video and words of wisdom. Discipline is the way for me. Wishing you more growth and success. Stay blessed and beautiful.
Men are divine! We women are forced to keep quiet when the socials talk about men being bad people so thank you for speaking up Precious. I absolutely need and love masculinity
Woah... I started watching being super skeptical about your advice and expecting it to be another feminine man sort of anecdote. But it was really very men centric and very much how men deal with problems etc. Whoever you have in your life who are men have great understanding and communication skills. This is pure wisdom. Thank you.
Im sorry for whatever transpired between you and your husband and my prayer is for the both of you to reconcile with your children so you can be one big happy family again!❤🎉😢
May I share something with you out love and respect as my sister in Christ because I would like to believe you are born child of God sealed with the Holy Spirit, may I?@PreciousKofi
Hey you. What happened to you. We saw you years ago on tv and then you left us hanging. Always wishing you are going to come back. We are happy to see you. That tv show you did was great. It was a start. You must try and go finish that project. ❤
The only way to check men is other women, thank you for speaking out, we hope it doesn't take seeing the end of the road for other women to understand you. Stay blessed.
you are such an intelligent woman. so graceful and beautiful inside and out. i wish this video reaches every single man on youtube. such an important message. i can't stress how poigant the message is. wishing a disciplined man for you if you don't have one already.
hey sis, not sure how i came accross your video but it is heart-warming and refreshing to get a different message about men. just feel like giving you a hug Thank you
I mean…maybe not a man at heart but raising a boy who is so wonderful that I want to do my part in preparing the world to hold him with love. A world that has room for both genders.
I wish men had more positive role models, i dont know if its social media...but the online examples that get the most attention from this demographic are questionable.
Very beautiful woman. I am 37year old too, I just subscribed. I am listening🙂. Thank you for this message. As a man I say I am sorry for all the men that hurt you a woman 7:58. My goal is to partner with a woman, a woman thats my wife, my friend, my lover.
Wow i thought you was one of those typical men hating feminist i came with intentions of diss you but i'm so impressed and relieved with what i heard you actually got my respect,God Bless You Ms Kofi have a Great Weekend
When she said as men we need to have a support structure - it hit me so hard because I truly don’t have one. I try to navigate through storms alone, whether be it through a disappointment, break ups, a bad day at work etc; I just go to sleep and hope I wake up the following day feeling better.
I wish the best for you mfanakithi, may you find what you seeking.
Please build that support structure ❤️
Out here routing for you❤️
I’m sure your tribe is waiting for you. Please find them and stick to them but like Precious said, have discernment. God bless you Brother
Same with me bro🙏that is my life/reality
A sister I once loved and proposed to shamed me and told me I am not up to her level to even propose to her. I stood up from there and told myself, "this is the lowest level I will ever be in life". She got married to another dude and moved on. Today am a company executive. The last time we spoke, she asked for a soft loan. Funny how life can take a new twist. I humbly made it a gift rather than a loan. The human in me showed up and took over.
True
Best revenge
That’s what she gets for being arrogant
Ooou that humble pie with the karma on the side is sweet! Makes it almost worth it.
Once a man tells himself this is the lowest I will ever be, it's over for every woman out there. He may marry you because he likes and admires you, that emotional connection will be gone forever
A Father of 2 here, son and daughter.
My key take away here, is being aware that my Daughter will know love from a man through me first as her Father. Therefore it lies upon me to show her an example of how a man who truly loves and cares for her should be towards her.❤
Beautiful 🥹
Father of two girls, great point much appreciated!!!
Thank you so much 💓
Make sure you show your son the love as well
I've never heard a woman say "Sorry" before. Thanks I needed this
Me too... I can't remember ever hearing a women say "sorry", LOL...
She just healed every man who watched this. May this video become a trend and may more mature women speak and help turn men back to proper leaders. Proper leaders make women selfless supporters and together majority of this world may know peace. Thank you Precious.
You are very welcome ❤️
So much JOY too!!!
Everything she said is true but she forgot to say one major thing that it's God's plan for a man to marry a woman and woman should submit to her man and the man should love her back..
We thrive when we feel loved, when we feel appreciated, when we feel heard, when we're allowed to be vulnerable. God bless you Precious.
Oh, man. I'm tearing up a bit. Thank you for seeing us as God sees us. Thank you for going against culture and reminding us that we are loved, appreciated, and needed. May the good Lord bless you for your obedience.
You saved a couple of lives with this one.
"a man is a good man if he is of service and the benefit of women". Notice she can point out the practical and tangile things men need to do for society as well as what woman should take from men. Gentleman expect a fair exchange of value and nothing less. You don't owe anyone anything but respect.
TRUE,well said🖤🙏
That's the ground. It's hostile to men. Before you rope yourself with that ring think twice. Freedom is sweet.
Respect is earned. Even that is not a given. What I value in a woman matters. I’m not giving attention to women who trivialize what black men value in a partner. Just move on. Only 35% of our women will marry, so I wouldn’t take it personal, this is systematic and generational.
That apology is the best thing i have seen the whole year. If women could apologize to the men they've hurt like this; Things would really change. A lot of men have made a vow to never be soft again.
I realized the world as a whole is too far gone for me as an individual to change it. All I can do is influence my small circle and hope the legacy radiates to the next generation
Amen!
Thank you so much 😢 listening to this locked in my room as soon as you said “you matter “ i became light instantly ❤
Amen❤️be well, you’re not alone.
Change starts with such videos, Thank you Precious.
Thank you for watching!
So profound, as women we need to support our men & boys...help them be better human beings❤
And in turn they help us too❤️
90% of women are looking for a man who has already make it so they can jump in and enjoy men doesn't have no supportive from a woman only real male friends can do that
Your advise is very sober. May God bless and protect you my sister. I am a happily married father of 3, 1 daughter and 2 boys. I am big on being a best version of myself. I appreciate the role my lovely wife plays in our family and that makes me to want to be even a more loving husband and a caring father. I love hearing my kids calling me "Papa"....oooooh that just completes me. All the best Ms Kofi😍😍😍
This is my first comment ever on social media. She speaks the truth on healthy gender relations and appreciates the overlooked Men. We appreciate Her as well.
This woman is enlightened😢😢🎉🎉🎉 that's what I hv 2 say
🙏🏿
@PreciousKofi You are so gracious, and I am smitten to subscribe 2 her channel
Thank you 4 taking the time out of your day/enjoy your experiences as a gorgeous 😍 woman in the world.
I apperciate the fact that you are completely transparent!.. We need more healed woman like you to teach the younger generation!... #onelovesis
There’s lots of us but sometimes it’s the things that get attention are not necessarily the things that heal and bring unity
You got me / I needed that apology and I want to apologize to all the women I have hurt or acted in a way that my present self recognizes as wrong .
I recognized that I wasn't well equipped and not having the guidance. I am in my fathering-my-self process and I trust will find redemption in my futures relationships on the way I will behaved
God Bless you
May God bless you and keep you moving forward on this beautiful journey you’re on.
Man, suffer alone! Don't Share negative results before you overcome.
Don't commit the mistake to show your downfalls to people, people are waiting for this for ages.
Its really disappointing ,for a woman to realise a mans value in her thirties,or even admit to a mistake after years i sometimes wonder the current state and well being of a man who wasnt acknowledged and respected of his value, some are now dead, others are half dead still walking, others moved on by the grace of God, this message is not for Precious, but i wonder why does a woman has to make tones of poor decisions ,go on a world tour only to come as a glass that is almost empty damaged goods as the elders would say it ,only to realise what a real good man is ,There is plan A, B ,And a good man has been put in plan C very heart breaking
The same way men do the same thing.
When she apologized I said to my self “I’ll just have to take this I guess.” Then she said to take it as our own for the person that didn’t apologized and it hit me hard. Thanks
Also, I do feel inadequate a lot with a lot of stuff but it was my ex wife that drilled the last nail in me that killed me. I’m somehow working on it. Anyhow, thanks a bunch for your advice sis!
Sending you love and thank you for watching!
most beautiful message i have listened to in a long time, God bless you.
Thank you for listening❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely, sis! Men and women are designed to complement and support one another, and there’s true strength in that unity.
Self-care is so vital because we can only pour out what we’ve already filled within ourselves. By taking time to nurture our well-being, we become better partners, friends, and sources of encouragement to each other. May God bless you richly and continue to fill your life with joy and love. 🌺
Amen!!! What you’ve written here is exactly what the latest video titled “women are tired” is about! As always, thank you for sharing❤️
Just yesterday, I was able to loosen up for the very first time in my life. I shared some issues I had bottled up for years, and afterwards, I felt so vulnerable. We men go through very tough phases, and as natural providers for society, we often prefer to handle things on our own. This drains us mentally and emotionally, making it difficult to give our all. I pray that all men meet people-especially women-who won’t use our worries, issues, and vulnerabilities against us. Thank you Precious. I believe this has been a safe space for most men out there!
wow as men we need to organize Ms Kofi a spa treatment for this one, thank you
I haven't yet seen any of your other videos, but just this one video is reason enough to Subscribe. This is really great advice for men and I do hope that women are also taking note.
Welcome aboard!
There's a major reason why the world is pushing the agenda of splitting Men and Women apart creating hate because when the 2 forces are together they are unstoppable generationally.The world has to wakeup and see it though, Thruth is the awakening starts with you🙏🏾
Wow, you've just made my day. This is the message we as men need to hear, especially black men like myself. I think our lack of self worth comes from lack of compassion and meaning and purpose. And so we take our anger out on the society and women. We fail to see our true power and what it can have on our society because we think society doesnt value. So we think all that matters is making money, and no matter how you make money.
We believe society automatically owes us something, but we owe our society alot. It is through building the society that we can own it. We cant drive a car or place you didnt own or built.
37 buh lookin 25 😍 Great accountability tho 👏 grateful there are women like you
I was literally hyperventilating watching this video. You are talking kindly about us but also empowering us at the same time. That we can change as a man and it will influence the women in our lives and society in general. This gender war is non sense. Talking kindly to your woman is important and vice versa. Thank for this video!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, I cannot thank you enough for this. On behalf of all of your brothers I want to say you are appreciated and the value that these 15 minutes have given me and anyone I know I will share with this is unmeasurable. You are a bright light in a wold that seems to get darker and darker and your words are so inspirational! I'm a young father of 3 here, 2 boys and 1 girl-and although you look like you're still a teenager your wisdom is ageless.
You have found a subscriber for life with this one ❤
Thank you so so much! I was thinking of taking this video down but your comment says it must stay up. Thank you again!
Thank you for this!!! Not all women Feel negative about men 💚
I just stumbled across this video about an hour ago, and I must say, as a man that has been happily married for 10 years - thank you.
Please understand that I fully received this with all the love that you intended, and I even reacted to this on my own channel that I am sharing with my mostly male audience.
You really dropped a lot of gems for us men in this video and I want you to know that your video literally is going to make me be a better man, husband, brother, friend and educator.
From the most sincere place, Thank you!
I clearly remember your TV show in 2009. Precious Africa. At one point you were crying about the heartache you saw on your travels it felt so authentic i remember crying with you. Good to see you still around.
First and foremost 🍻 to the algorithm for suggesting this video!
Secondly, thank you, truly, for the message therein! ❤🔥🙏💯
Stay blessed!
Madam you are a true woman ! Very motherly spirit and great presentation of what true womanhood is. Your words of wisdom are felt and appreciated! I wish all young boys who have a struggling relationship with their mother hear this because GOODNESS !!! May God continue to bless you with wisdom and knowledge ♥️♥️✊🏾
This video was really profound. Wow new subscriber. This video was really sincere and I appreciate her vulnerability. Much much ❤️ to you Precious 🙏🏾
Absolutely love your energy! I watched this video at least 3 times, what you're sharing is what men and WOMEN should hear ♥⭐
Wow, thank you!❤️
This is needed, you turned into something special…god bless you and your journey
wow, i've neva heard a woman speak so goooood about us- music to my ears. Thanks for that Ms Kofi❤
There’s many who do but those conversations don’t have the kind of reach they should have. We need to make love, thoughtfulness and unity among genders a priority in life and on social media
I have been looking for a healed woman on UA-cam & you are that example enkosi sisi for this content I can finally move on 🙏🙏😊😊
Thank you so much!
Great video. Guidance is something I’ve been lacking in and that was the first thing you mentioned. Having a mentor. Everything after that was accurate and valid aswell. Thank you for releasing this video.
As a man with a daughter this video touched my heart. That apology was sincere, I dont cry but I definitely shed a tear or two. Thank you form the bottom of my heart. Be blessed ✝️
I really appreciate you saying this. Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words.
Video starts @1:08
Omgeeee I was hoping someone would make this comment🤭
Thank you 😪
I'm subscribing because I love the way she talks. She speaks the queen's English beautifully.
How did i get here, i needed to hear this. Thank you very much 😊.
A refreshingly intriguing talk, thanks for this!
My pleasure!
You are a blessing to the world... your passion, your energy, your reasoning, your humility, your humbleness, your standing in for others is something else on another level. May the LORD OF SABBATH RICHLY BLESS you, and BLESS your works.
Timely message it is to me... I forgive all as I seek forgiveness too.
A 🇿🇲m🇿🇲e🇿🇲n🇿🇲
Forgiveness is a gift! I’m so glad you are forgiving and seeking forgiveness too. It’s a gift to yourself and those around you. All my love to you!
Hi @PreciousKofi. I appreciate your content and honesty in your Advice from a married woman videos. My comment on this video is that most women have no idea what men discuss when we get together, especially the kind of men that you say you love. The men that do bad things to women or his woman would never dare say that out loud. From a very young age we men are used to holding each other accountable because that's what our father's did. So it's even tough for us to see if someone is abusing his woman behind closed doors. but those types of men either have no friends or just hides it well.
I love how her videos are so calm and chill`😆😆
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for this. I am in the process of building myself up to become the man I want to be.
You are so welcome! And thank you for your generosity ❤️
Thank you so much, I will keep following you, amazing wisdom, God bless you.
Thank you for this message. Im figuring myself out post break up and this definitely helped shape the perspective i was looking from
When listened correctly, Truth is never a cliche. I appreciate this video. Much love❤
She is True Woman of GOD. This woman deserves A real man's protection and A definition of a Real Woman who see the Strenght in Man! Thank You Little does people kno. MEN COMMIT THE HIGHEST RATE OF SUICIDE YET WE DONT CRY ABOUT OUR PROBLEMS EVERYDAY TO ANY9NE.
The fact that she had to aplologize on behalf of Certain types of woman SPEAKS VOLUMEs!
I remember when this popped up on my recommended and I was… skeptical.
A woman telling me how to be a man (not sexist btw, just that instinctual thought say if you were a woman and a guy drops a video giving advice on women sorta thing… a natural reaction is all)
But I was also curious. Always love hearing different perspectives. And so I screenshotted it and said I’ll watch.
I forgot unfortunately until yesterday when once more, it came again. And I was elated. I said, this time I’ll watch it.
And boy oh boy, this was refreshing to listen to. Fills me with joy that there’s great humans like you out there. Thank you for the video, opened up my mind and challenged my way of living.
You seem like a great person, kindly carry on with the same energy. I’ll keep an eye out for your content.
Loved this video and did I mention you’re beautiful? I guess I have now.
Keep up Kofi!!
You sure like to write. This was a delight to read. Thank you for your kind words and for watching once the video found you again😊
@@PreciousKofi What can I say? lol
You’re very welcome 🥂
Thanks @PreciousKofi - this is an awesome video. It's timely! Maybe you're a prophetess, lol!!!
But seriously this is great advice. Guys keep in all the pressure, and mostly it's for the women around them
Divine feminine energy, something extremely rare in today's world, I've had women make me feel less manly or emasculate me on one occasion or two but it gives me hope to actually see that this level of femininity exists and honestly I found healing in your words.
The world has called for women to be masculine and it’s only once we’ve suffered that we remember our core and begin that road of finding comfort and ease in the feminine
I love the fact you are wearing your own natural Afro hair ❤❤❤ it shows true integrity, self respect and acceptance
Faith in women, restored. Thank you 🙏🏿
For the last 8 years, I’ve had a guys night every single Wednesday at a local sports bar… different guys come and go over the years, but all great guys, making great decisions, overcoming obstacles, getting advice from each other… it’s definitely my favorite night of the week
“If u didn’t get that as a boy you need to take time now to Father ur self as a man..” Wooow! Definitely will queen 👀💯💪🏾🤲🏿I felt that👀
Thank you so much for this video sis'...great content as always.👌
Thank you for watching!!
I love women like you making videos because when i see these podcasters showing the worst extremes of women i can never find people like you who are down to earth and reasonable to point to! 😁. You represent the everyday woman in my life who i can find just by stepping outside and touching grass. Thabk you
I appreciate you watching and listening ❤️
I'm a man, and this was refreshing to hear. As you said, nothing new but it's also nice to hear again. I think men are a bit tired of this cliff between genders, these stupid gender wars, although we all have mothers, sisters, wives/girlfriends we love, it seems like men and women are on a road to very different destinations.
Gender worse take us nowhere! Thank you for watching!
Dayumn, ive never seen anything as beautiful as this lady
Based off this video I haven’t seen the rest yet… I get a feeling about her Spirit! 💪🏾💯
I clicked on your video bc I was curious what a woman's life advice would be for a man in this day & age.
I wanna say this about your 'support structure' point: there are two things you wanna beware of first (if you're a male or female), 1.) we each have a predetermined path to travel in life that is decided by the Lord, and He may block help for us during tough times to teach us to stand alone; 2.) people that you may look at as being exemplary, may not be. So take away what you can but don't lean on them. 🔑
Take care.
This was a great video ❤ You have such a non confrontational but assertive tone in your wisdom. Am happy you share your knowledge of your experiences as we can all benefit from this type of growth. Keep blessing us with these beautiful videos 🙌🏽
Thank you so much! And I appreciate you for taking the time to comment❤️
Thank you so much Precious for the video and words of wisdom.
Discipline is the way for me.
Wishing you more growth and success.
Stay blessed and beautiful.
Now i know why I loved her smart and beautiful. Moving to the US was a bad move she was still popping 😘😘
Moving to the usa from SA?
@@blessingkhalipha5059yes
Men are divine! We women are forced to keep quiet when the socials talk about men being bad people so thank you for speaking up Precious. I absolutely need and love masculinity
This video and your video about marriage feel so genuine and needed. Thank you for your insights and vulnerability 🙏🏾
Woah... I started watching being super skeptical about your advice and expecting it to be another feminine man sort of anecdote. But it was really very men centric and very much how men deal with problems etc. Whoever you have in your life who are men have great understanding and communication skills. This is pure wisdom. Thank you.
Not to discount your own observations etc. Sorry if that came off minimizing. The advice was ripe with insider knowledge of mens stuggles
I took what you said well as it’s true. I do have incredible male figures in my life and I value their advice and the wisdom they bring into my life.
Im sorry for whatever transpired between you and your husband and my prayer is for the both of you to reconcile with your children so you can be one big happy family again!❤🎉😢
I appreciate that! We’ve both now moved on and he is married. The three of us co parent the kids so all is well. ❤️
May I share something with you out love and respect as my sister in Christ because I would like to believe you are born child of God sealed with the Holy Spirit, may I?@PreciousKofi
Thank you Precious ❤
You are so welcome❤️
I always tell men to not take life advice from a woman because we live completely different experiences in life but il give this video a try.
Thank you for giving it a try and what you’ve said is valid
Hey you.
What happened to you. We saw you years ago on tv and then you left us hanging. Always wishing you are going to come back. We are happy to see you. That tv show you did was great. It was a start. You must try and go finish that project. ❤
All I wanna say is thank you! Needed this
Thank you for this video ❤
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Thank youloved it and shared.
Thanks for sharing!!
Lovely message from a beautiful woman. Thank you mama ❤
Thanks for the wisdom queen
The only way to check men is other women, thank you for speaking out, we hope it doesn't take seeing the end of the road for other women to understand you. Stay blessed.
Beautiful Message
Thanks for listening!
you are such an intelligent woman. so graceful and beautiful inside and out. i wish this video reaches every single man on youtube. such an important message. i can't stress how poigant the message is. wishing a disciplined man for you if you don't have one already.
hey sis, not sure how i came accross your video but it is heart-warming and refreshing to get a different message about men. just feel like giving you a hug Thank you
Wow, thank you
@@PreciousKofi you’re very welcome
Thank you mama you are a man at heart ❤
I mean…maybe not a man at heart but raising a boy who is so wonderful that I want to do my part in preparing the world to hold him with love. A world that has room for both genders.
Awe...you're really sweet. Thank you for the apology.
Thank you so much 🙏
When you said 'I'm sorry', it felt like you were talking to me. 😢
Please do accept the apology ❤️
@@PreciousKofi yes I do
I just love this lady at first sight
ME ❤️ AS WELL. SHE JUST HAS GREAT CHARGE ... I FELT HER DIVINITY THRU THE THUMBNAIL.. APPRECIATE HER FLOW & DIALOG...🎉💯💢🫂🌹🌹🌹🌹🌻🌻🌻🐞🌵🌵🌺
Respect to you young lady
Thank you - I've been suicidal for a year feeling so undesirable.
I wish men had more positive role models, i dont know if its social media...but the online examples that get the most attention from this demographic are questionable.
Very beautiful woman. I am 37year old too, I just subscribed. I am listening🙂. Thank you for this message. As a man I say I am sorry for all the men that hurt you a woman 7:58. My goal is to partner with a woman, a woman thats my wife, my friend, my lover.
Wow i thought you was one of those typical men hating feminist i came with intentions of diss you but i'm so impressed and relieved with what i heard you actually got my respect,God Bless You Ms Kofi have a Great Weekend
Thank you... I wish we could find the words like you have! It's so powerful!
I appreciate your effort.