And that’s why moving slow helps also, because when you are witnessing the things you need are being met… and you end up investing into what’s not for you… that’s a whole different animal… Finding what you REQUIRE someone else in the least likely subject is always a reason to pray and discern what the perfect path is and whether or not that person aligns is🔥. Yes, uplifting a man is a woman’s job, naturally when we tap in with ourselves and God we are healers and if I can’t provide that as a woman, I either have to go deeper in God or it just may not be for me to heal this situation. Especially if that person doesn’t want the healing… we can choose to stay un- healed ultimately… and sometimes women have to accept that and move on once it’s discovered.
I love holding my space and taking up my space. Knowing that I have personal heights to grow to prior to embarking upon a true loving relationship that promotes healing. The self work is what makes it possible to say “yes” to the question/proposal.
It’s def not easy, simply walking away from any friendship connection especially those you genuinely invested in for Gods kingdom is difficult! I commend you two for being courageous. And standing there when I’m sure you had every reason to either and sway.
I say all the time, I don’t want to be a bitter bm, so before I allow myself to get pregnant without the “foundation & union with God” I am 9/10 going to have a miserable pregnancy knowing I’ve come this far to fall short of my standards and have to live with that and think of it daily. I wouldn’t want that for myself and knowing myself and my anxieties and how they work, that wouldn’t be good for me, my child or the father… Not allowing someone to get me pregnant until my boxes are checked in order is ultimately keeping the whole process and people involved sacred. God saved me this long for the right person, why not honor that? Why give up on it because my flesh gets weak?
Thank you both for being open, honest, vulnerable and may I add transparent. Be blessed! 🥰
“Leading by example” 🔥🔥🔥
“i have every bit of confidence in you” 😩 so happy for you lay ❤️❤️❤️
Babyyyyy he have me in loveeeee. Thank you ❤
she knows things about me that the person I first married didn’t know…full confidence 🤞🏾
And that’s why moving slow helps also, because when you are witnessing the things you need are being met… and you end up investing into what’s not for you… that’s a whole different animal…
Finding what you REQUIRE someone else in the least likely subject is always a reason to pray and discern what the perfect path is and whether or not that person aligns is🔥.
Yes, uplifting a man is a woman’s job, naturally when we tap in with ourselves and God we are healers and if I can’t provide that as a woman, I either have to go deeper in God or it just may not be for me to heal this situation. Especially if that person doesn’t want the healing… we can choose to stay un- healed ultimately… and sometimes women have to accept that and move on once it’s discovered.
Sweet!!!!!!! Y’all 💕💕💕💕💕🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love holding my space and taking up my space. Knowing that I have personal heights to grow to prior to embarking upon a true loving relationship that promotes healing. The self work is what makes it possible to say “yes” to the question/proposal.
“You my woman”! 🎉🎉🎉
That’s true friendship. Be better for you first and your life, desires and goals.
Yes! Because, you are Darren Leeeee 😂😂😂‼️
When I think about it, I’ve experienced that, while healing that is bothersome to the spirit. You’re like “👀” “what the”?!
It’s def not easy, simply walking away from any friendship connection especially those you genuinely invested in for Gods kingdom is difficult! I commend you two for being courageous. And standing there when I’m sure you had every reason to either and sway.
“Understand life”. And don’t take it personal when you get that understanding…
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Plays Robin Thicke “Look Easy”
I say all the time, I don’t want to be a bitter bm, so before I allow myself to get pregnant without the “foundation & union with God” I am 9/10 going to have a miserable pregnancy knowing I’ve come this far to fall short of my standards and have to live with that and think of it daily. I wouldn’t want that for myself and knowing myself and my anxieties and how they work, that wouldn’t be good for me, my child or the father…
Not allowing someone to get me pregnant until my boxes are checked in order is ultimately keeping the whole process and people involved sacred. God saved me this long for the right person, why not honor that? Why give up on it because my flesh gets weak?
😂😂😂😂
Because, “pick me” is crazy… 👀🤷🏽♀️