Always pray two rakat of repentance, I took months for me I felt guilty I hated keeping asking Allah for forgiveness but finally after 6 years of being heavily addicted Allah helped me stop, it’s from shaytan, I used to get triggered and fall into it by a small thing, you have to keep repenting to Allah and improve your 5 daily prayers, there are times I never thought I would never stop, after failing for so many years and so many Ramadan’s, do not not give up on yourself, I wish I had stoped earlier I took too much damage and I’m afraid how it’s going to be effect my marriage in 7 years
@@noelmcdonald2605 it will seriously impact your brain. Besides that it will cause you to have sexual issues later on when you get narried. You'll have hair loss. I can go on and on. You'll feel tired all the time. But the earlier you stop the better
When we look at the addiction rather then the feelings, emotions, mentality, psychology driving the addiction.. we seek to change a behavior that is rooted in mind set and lack of heart for the person being watched. Its the idea that the person is deminished in valuee “they are JUST, there for my addiction” disregards that persons position and how they feel or what they believe themselves worthy of.. we havd to stop trying to change/alter the addiction in behavior.. and change how the person thinks about the individuals they are watching alongside if that were their mothers, sister, brother.. if they could wait and Not condition their body to respond to a hand and that Imagry.. their eventual life would not include this.. Addiction treatments arent working because We tell them “we are powerless” we arent.. we are answerless and becoming more flesh bound.. rather then see the addiction and behavior as a response of finding simple instant gratifications (like monkeys) rather then being able to have long term through short goal wins.. Understanding and Recognition of our humanity of ourselves and for others.
Ask Allah forgiveness and move on. Life is all about DISCIPLINE. Always have A WHY on if it's important to do it, or not. Without that WHY, nothing is possible.
In the end everything you must do to succeed in life , is due to doing it yourself. In the end only you can help yourself. People can guide you but only you will walk in your own shoes. Get yourself into a routine and never give up. Keep on returning to your creator for forgiveness. insha'Allah
If u have no one to tell tell Allah ask Allah for help Allah is the best friend of your he knows everything he created you why not ask Allah for help and pray for me too
Ask Allah for help of the masjid try to asked the imma about your situation if possible if not at least go to moseq do most of the things he said I don't have anyone ether am from Pakistan and it's very difficult to tell either my parents nor the imma I have no one to tell so just ask Allah
No its not, because the addict is still addicted even after marriage. So people with such an addiction shouldnt go marrying because the marriage will fail. Fist you have to get ride out of it and than go marry. Go and ask all experts in this case they will tell you the same.
I think we should know more about the topic of intimacy and sexual life in Islam, there's a book about it on darliqo, great for beginners.
Please tell me full name of books
Say: 'Allahumma innaka 'afuwwun tuhibbul-'afwa, fa'fu 'anni (O Allah, You are Forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me).'"
Always pray two rakat of repentance, I took months for me I felt guilty I hated keeping asking Allah for forgiveness but finally after 6 years of being heavily addicted Allah helped me stop, it’s from shaytan, I used to get triggered and fall into it by a small thing, you have to keep repenting to Allah and improve your 5 daily prayers, there are times I never thought I would never stop, after failing for so many years and so many Ramadan’s, do not not give up on yourself, I wish I had stoped earlier I took too much damage and I’m afraid how it’s going to be effect my marriage in 7 years
May Allah help us brother..have you decided to seek medical help here
In what ways do you feel it could affect someone’s marriage, if you feel comfortable sharing Iam going through similar situations astaghfirullah
@@noelmcdonald2605Possible problems: not being pleased with your spouse, erectile dysfunction and mental scarring.
@@noelmcdonald2605 it will seriously impact your brain. Besides that it will cause you to have sexual issues later on when you get narried. You'll have hair loss. I can go on and on. You'll feel tired all the time. But the earlier you stop the better
Try to go gym, out door games . To help you build health back and also mind
Addiction takes time. In shaa Allah we will get there.
Allah is most merciful . Alhamdulillah
Jazakallah Khair ya Sheikh may Allah guide and protect us from Shatan
Ma sha Allah,may Allah reward you shaikh.
Jazakumullahu khayran. May Almighty Allah reward you for this great video. W
Subahanallah, may Allah guide us
Thank you ❤
When we look at the addiction rather then the feelings, emotions, mentality, psychology driving the addiction.. we seek to change a behavior that is rooted in mind set and lack of heart for the person being watched. Its the idea that the person is deminished in valuee “they are JUST, there for my addiction” disregards that persons position and how they feel or what they believe themselves worthy of..
we havd to stop trying to change/alter the addiction in behavior.. and change how the person thinks about the individuals they are watching alongside if that were their mothers, sister, brother.. if they could wait and Not condition their body to respond to a hand and that Imagry.. their eventual life would not include this..
Addiction treatments arent working because We tell them “we are powerless” we arent.. we are answerless and becoming more flesh bound.. rather then see the addiction and behavior as a response of finding simple instant gratifications (like monkeys) rather then being able to have long term through short goal wins.. Understanding and Recognition of our humanity of ourselves and for others.
Jazakallahu khairan ❤
Ask Allah forgiveness and move on. Life is all about DISCIPLINE. Always have A WHY on if it's important to do it, or not. Without that WHY, nothing is possible.
Astagfurallah!
Astaghfirullah* ❤️
I used to play games for 8-6 hours per day when I was 15-18 now only 40 minutes to 1 hour and sometimes I don’t play games for weeks ❤❤❤😂
What?!?! Is that even relevant here 😂 or you're speaking in a coded language
Cause you're getting old 😂
Maybe code words@@abu-ff8ws
@@abu-ff8ws 😂😂
@@tonymontana181 yeah but it is really boring 🥱
i have overcomeit im one month in
What is the name of your app? Is it on play store
The problem is that I do not have someone who will hear to me and support willingly. What should I do?
Keep it to yourself, don't expose your sin, pray your 5 prayers.
@@TEK-h6r inshallah, I am much better now. I pray and ask for forgiveness everyday. Thank you brother.
@@ssalishis alhamdulillah
In the end everything you must do to succeed in life , is due to doing it yourself. In the end only you can help yourself. People can guide you but only you will walk in your own shoes.
Get yourself into a routine and never give up. Keep on returning to your creator for forgiveness.
insha'Allah
If u have no one to tell tell Allah ask Allah for help Allah is the best friend of your he knows everything he created you why not ask Allah for help and pray for me too
Astaghfurlah may this comment testify with us during the judgement day
What is the name of guest speaker?
What is the reach of this content? How can this be made effective?
Ya Allah
no one has ever liked me and i've never liked anyone, im doomed i guess, i cant create those environments you mentioned
Just follow Quran and sunnah
People will like you
It's happens to me before
Ask Allah for help of the masjid try to asked the imma about your situation if possible if not at least go to moseq do most of the things he said I don't have anyone ether am from Pakistan and it's very difficult to tell either my parents nor the imma I have no one to tell so just ask Allah
I am addicted in a bad way and can not come back. I tried all the way through. 😢
@@mohamedshifan2010 I can help
@@mohamedshifan2010 ask Allah to help you. Increase you Iman. Ask Allah swt sincerely.
@@mohamedshifan2010 I had the same issue.
@@mohamedshifan2010 Best time to ask is at tahajjud Prayer.
ITS NOT YOU VS YOU , ITS YOU VS DEVIL BRO
I need help to stop this
Increase ur worship, do tahajjud, do sunnah prayer, ask Allah for help.
Astagfirrilluh 😣
What happened to you
Wdym?
Its good to talk about this to help those suffering with this disease
Okay 👍🏻 inshallah
Okay 👍🏻 inshallah
😢 I am addicted to pornography.😢
What’s porn
If you don't know it then don't seek to know. Stay far away from it brother.
the one & only solution is go & marry.
Nope. First fix the probleem. A guy tried and had the same issue. He still did bad stuf.
Afterwards Divorced.
@@NesarSayed-zb3xo then he is an immoral person..i am not talking about him i am talking about for all.. Marriage is the main solution.
@@NesarSayed-zb3xoRight. It’s best if you deal with this prior to marriage.
No its not, because the addict is still addicted even after marriage. So people with such an addiction shouldnt go marrying because the marriage will fail. Fist you have to get ride out of it and than go marry. Go and ask all experts in this case they will tell you the same.
I want marry
Are you a brother or a sister
@@abu-ff8wsHe is boy