These are pretty funny as memes. I also think they do a great job at portraying toxic relationships without being over the top or preachy; instead of cheesy live action acting, they opted for animation to help the scenario feel more obvious with exaggerated character movements and expressions and they conveyed the scenarios themselves with a straight to the point approach, demonstrating an innocent version of the event first and then showing how it could go wrong with a toxic person. They also avoided using exclusively men as the toxic people and showed that women can be as equally toxic. The scenarios shown are also realistic and show everyday things that happen in supposedly "Good" relationships that are actually manipulative and toxic. It's honestly pretty sad that our society has people that actively abuse their power in relationships like this everyday.
Okay all memes aside, can we please appreciate this animation for not blaming the woman for sending booty pics as well as for including male victims and gay couples???
Indeed. It’s healthy relationships against aggressive, unhealthy ones. And there needs to be more healthy relationships in a world where toxic ones are the norm.
1st one (You WILL!): That isn’t love, that’s controlling. 2nd one (Seriously, can we stop holding hands now?): That’s not love, that’s being overly-attached. 3rd one (WHAT? You’re showing them my booty pics!?): That’s not love, that’s disrespect of privacy & confidentiality. 4th one (I’d be so depressed if we broke up): That’s not love, that’s reinforcing guilt. 5th one (It’s been 3 minutes): That’s not love, that’s feeling like abandonment. 6th one (Tomorrow? Wednesday?): That’s not love, that’s taking time away from others. 7th one (She… just started following me, like,… everywhere): That’s not love, that’s stalking. 8th one (F for… for… Stupid): That’s not love, that’s putting others down & undermining their intelligence. 9th one (You’re so pretty, and you’re also so LUCKY, that I’m with you): That’s not love, that’s forcing your view of love onto someone else, making them WANT to reciprocate that love back.
The 9th one is more of making your partner feel as though they’re lucky that you even gave them any attention in the first place, and that you could easily leave them if you didn’t “love them so much”. It makes your partner feel as though they’re not enough for you.
as funny as they are as a meme, its actually kind of helpful. it would have been nice to see these when i was in 9th grade, would have helped me figure out i was in a unhealthy situation before it got bad.
“Wanna come over tonight?” said the male, desperate for the geeky woman to say yes with hope in his eyes. “Nah, I’ve got plans.” said the geeky girl politely in denial. “Well you’ll get an F anyway!” said the male clutching the book relentlessly, “ F for,” said the male, trying to think of a come back that rhymes with the word, “F FOR STUPID!” as he finally snatched the book out of her hands , therefore tearing it.
1:31 okay fuck this one hits so close to home. It took me so long to figure out that if I feel sick every time my phone rings because it MIGHT be a text from her that that’s a huge warning sign.
Anger: not being able to do what makes you happy or what you need to do in fear or experience of them getting angry at you Control: feel like or you are losing something just because that person didn’t want you to do what you needed or wanted to do Disrespect: feeling like you can never trust the person in fear that your personal life will be discovered,disrespected, and shared Guilt: feeling like you’re always trapped and being guilt tripped into staying in a trashy situation usually they’ll be making you feel guilty for something they do to themselves or do to you after you say something Intensity: feeling like you can never actually get the self care you need, you may also start hiding things out Isolation: making you give all your devoted time to them and never being able to connect with others Obsession: feeling like you can never escape this person even if you’ve already left them usually the person uses this as a sign of control Put downs: shutting down your accomplishments or achievements or even whatever you need to do so they can make you feel like your time should be devoted to them while they also make you feel like what you’re doing is a waste of time and you’re not going to succeed “Valentine’s day”: making you feel like they’re the better one so you’ll feel honored to be with the and lose your own self worth If ANY of these sound like situations you’ve had please get help. You won’t get in trouble and you’re the victim so you’ll get the respect you need
0:00 Be come over 0:15 Double Couplet 0:30 Enter the photo 0:45 Eplesent 1:00 Funny class 1:15 Thormerd 1:30 Tnorned 1:45 United Class 2:00 United Best Worst True Good Bad Ending
1:15 Every day of the week Monday = Monday Funday Tuesday =Tuesday snooze day Wednesday = No friends day Thursday = Cuddle day Friday =Funny day Saturday = Marry Day Sunday = Hangout day
"Wanna come over tonight?" "I got plans-" "you will come over..." *turns into a pear* "no i won't!" "Y o u w i l l !" *TURNS INTO GRIMACE* "i won't!" "Y O U W I L L . . ." #thatsnotlove
The "F for STOOPID" will always make me laugh
I thought he was gonna say fuckwad
Satan: I just wanna say I’m a huge fan.
@@Jackillantern Jesus: what
the timestamp is 1:51
F FOR STUPID NI-
"F for.. F for.. stupid!" the most inspirational quote ever
I feel he wanted to say something else but then realized saying that is frowned upon in society
😂
Wanna come over?
Can’t sorry I have plans
Turns into a grape
True
1:51
I love the minor detail in how the characters look at the screen and react at the end of each scene, like they’re actually acting in a video.
Looking at the screen, because this is The Office.
Nearly 748 my favourite number
1:55 "F for... F for... stupid!" bro was about to say the f-word 💀
i never heard of that before 1:47
He was not going to say the f word. He was thinking what he will say.
@@simslot2it was a joke 😭
@@CINNAMON_AUDIOS thank you
YO YO YO NO HOMO HOMIE HOMOSAPIENS
0:01 I CANT ITS GRIMACE TRIMACE💀💀💀
0:10 *
Lol
#tooearly
The way the 2nd dude says "sweeet" is so funny
sweeeeeett >:D
@@willzsocialswéèëēęėeeeeet >:D
mf really hit that high note🤩
ŚŜ§ŜƏĚĒĖƏƏẸȚṬÞ/Ť
0:31
"F for Stupid"
Clearly that man is a genius
F for failure
@@amickoaberin f for faget
he turned into a freaking grape
False bro insult: you'll take S (A++) for Stupid
😂
0:00 Anger
0:15 Control
0:30 Disrespect
0:45 Guilt
1:00 Intensity
1:15 Isolation
1:30 Obsession
1:45 Put-downs
2:00 Valentine's Day
Thxz
@@theautumnwind8437he was just listing the original video tactics
All of them are serious and then *VALENTINES DAY.*
F for stupid 💀
Put downs and anger are the funniest!
I love how these all represent toxic possessive relationships, it’s really nice to see to examples to show others what love they are going through.
Problems :
- forceful invite
- clingy
- not respecting privacy
- lie for love
- impatient
- clingy 2
- stalker
- disrespectful
- abuse/using people
2:07 its so funny how his voice just gets so aggressive all of a sudden
You're so pretty, *You're also really lucky* that I'm with you!
@@That0neDudebro by the time he said "you're also really lucky"I instantly lost it bro 😂😂
You’re so pretty! ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵃˡˢᵒ ʳᵉᵃˡˡʸ ˡᵘᶜᵏʸ that I’m with you :)
That bird just wasnt having it
You’re so pretty, *yøû’řę æłßø řëąłļŷ ļùçķÿ* that I’m with you!
Bro the smug face that the blue pear has at 1:20 he drags his girlfriend away to do *stuff* is literal gold
Well it is Monday Funday after all
@@Rasp_berri and then tuesday snoozday
@@Kuffkuff62 And then there's nofriendsday
friday tho🤨
😈
"You will come over"
"No i won't"
*Turns into pear*
"You will. "
"I won't"
*Turns into grimace from McDonald's*
"You. Will."
turns into oversized grape
Bro thought he was violet from charlie and the chocolate factory ☠️
@@laminectomy fr
What the shit is grimace?
1:21 not the smug face on the blue pear 💀
1:00 This one was so cute ♡
1:05 better
@@Տpringtrapno.
“Aww you’re showing them my foodie pics”
“WHAT, YOURE SHOWING THEM MY BOOTY PICS?!”
Helped me understand that one, thanks
Man I thought she said booty both times 😅
@@Maazin5”awww your showing them my booty pics”💀💀
@@Sunameeeeee ‘’thats love’’💀💀💀
0:07 Discord mods be like:
After all these years...
Finally, I found them all.
Same
That's a Gravity Falls reference isn't it?
@@samuelthegpretty sure yes
@@samueltheg yep
These are pretty funny as memes. I also think they do a great job at portraying toxic relationships without being over the top or preachy; instead of cheesy live action acting, they opted for animation to help the scenario feel more obvious with exaggerated character movements and expressions and they conveyed the scenarios themselves with a straight to the point approach, demonstrating an innocent version of the event first and then showing how it could go wrong with a toxic person. They also avoided using exclusively men as the toxic people and showed that women can be as equally toxic. The scenarios shown are also realistic and show everyday things that happen in supposedly "Good" relationships that are actually manipulative and toxic. It's honestly pretty sad that our society has people that actively abuse their power in relationships like this everyday.
wall of text
this is from a jojo fan?
purbl
that's what I'm sayin'
@@qk7x learn how to read
Wanna come over tonight
“I have plans “
*becomes CaseOh*
Banned
Too small
1:10 sadly my sister is this one example with her bf (she would be the blue guy)
Sorry bro :(
Okay all memes aside, can we please appreciate this animation for not blaming the woman for sending booty pics as well as for including male victims and gay couples???
Wish they got featured more though :(
Even if they would think that was her fault they wouldn't be able to connect it in any way with the kinda message they are going for.
@@alexanderthegreat-mx5zu exactly. Like... It wasn't making the point that it wasn't. It just... Didn't make the point that it was either.
@@GarrulousHerald ur making way too big a deal of it
@@SoandSo23 shut up lol so cringe
0:06 that one meme everybody wanted
"Wanna come over tonight?"
"i got plans."
*You will come over.*
*no i wont...*
@@TANNERJ1 *YOU WILL.*
0:50 is no one gonna talk about how they're causually just hanging out on some giant steps
Yeah... How will she fall so painfully?
it’s just one step
@@dizzy_jump what do you mean “it’s just one step”?! She could DIE!!!
is that a john coltrane reference
could be a pavement really
1:05
POV: That one clingy friend💀🤚
0:25 Dont even dare pause in here
The intensely concerned delivery of "What? You're showing them my booty pics?" will always make me giggle
aoaowo#pspspspsps”ssisis”? sospaoaoaoao C🎉
love how shameless the third guy is
@@qwertyuiop.lkjhgfdsa lol true
Bro became the grimace
Nah he became grape-
He became discord mod
@@Nate2010nah brother he got the deviant art treatment 💀
Jokes aside, these are actually good examples of what is and what isnt healthy
Indeed. It’s healthy relationships against aggressive, unhealthy ones. And there needs to be more healthy relationships in a world where toxic ones are the norm.
Ikkrrr
right!
Good thing they always have a board with “#thatsnotlove” in their pocket everywhere in case situation likes this
not even in their pockets, they just, SPAWN
“She just started following me… Everywhere” creeps me out ngl
i find this unreasonably funny and i don’t know why 💀
edit: yo over 1k likes?? THANKS
Same
Especially the one with the booty pics
@@e2011ugdia foodie pics😋😋😋
booty pics😈😈😈
@@e2011ugdia yeah lmao 💀
They’re bad
“F for, f for.. STUPID-“ always gets me though 😭
fjal
1st one (You WILL!): That isn’t love, that’s controlling.
2nd one (Seriously, can we stop holding hands now?): That’s not love, that’s being overly-attached.
3rd one (WHAT? You’re showing them my booty pics!?): That’s not love, that’s disrespect of privacy & confidentiality.
4th one (I’d be so depressed if we broke up): That’s not love, that’s reinforcing guilt.
5th one (It’s been 3 minutes): That’s not love, that’s feeling like abandonment.
6th one (Tomorrow? Wednesday?): That’s not love, that’s taking time away from others.
7th one (She… just started following me, like,… everywhere): That’s not love, that’s stalking.
8th one (F for… for… Stupid): That’s not love, that’s putting others down & undermining their intelligence.
9th one (You’re so pretty, and you’re also so LUCKY, that I’m with you): That’s not love, that’s forcing your view of love onto someone else, making them WANT to reciprocate that love back.
Thank you this helped me a lot
The 9th one is more of making your partner feel as though they’re lucky that you even gave them any attention in the first place, and that you could easily leave them if you didn’t “love them so much”. It makes your partner feel as though they’re not enough for you.
Or feel like youre a murderer @cupio-stardust
Who was the bad person in the 6th one?
@@AnAnimator132the boyfriend
0:05 question
0:07 jealousy
0:09 grimace
0:10 anger
0:09 LITERAL GRIMACE 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Ririna_the_IceHashira grimace is an emotion
@@pizzarollistuff I know :)
@@pizzarollistuffhe is also a mostly retired mcdonald's mascot
@@rayganparksmitchell i dont fucking care i know
“you’d get an f anyway,”
“f for- f for”
*”stupid”*
real
@@lifinale relatable
I believe it’s Fstupid
#thatsnotlove sign gets held up
I mean he aint wrong
You get an F if you are stupid
I'm glad this meme is resurging, it shows more relationship stuff :)
you again 💀
Thats gay
@@NeonUserGT *gasp* I'VE BEEN DISCOVERED??? AGAIN?????
@@corgimations yes lol
youtube comments when a gay person is gay😱😱😱😱😱😱
1:56 The way he said “Stupid!” had me laughin’ 😂😂
1:55 f for f for stupid
You will, Caseoh.
0:09 Y O U W I L L 🟣
he even became grimace to prove his point
fmaf lore revealed
Y
@@UA-camBot29-q7zO
Bro it’s gumball to Duolingo to grimace☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
Imagine pulling out somebodys arm and suddenly the bloody bone grows a sign that says #thatsnotlove
0:05 the moment that became a meme
wait i’m not aware of this meme
@@bauhausliker0 me neither
meme
This is actually a good PSA, jokes aside
"You WILL" 🥑
"I won't" 🍊
@@Halloween_is_awesome "you WILL" 🫐
@@NovikNikolovic “No i wont!”
@@zoeykhan123ŸÒÙ ŴÌĹĹ
this gives massive commercial you would see on nick in 2016-2020 vibes
Yeah because they have orange and blue
Blues mewo BLAAAAAADDDLKDK!?!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
1:56 "F for, F for, STOOPID"
Hey buddy, spell stupid.
I think he was talking about himself
1:05 my dog when I get out of the house and then come back in like a few seconds after
SAME
SO TRUE THO LOL
#thatsnotlove GRRR
Woofs happly
0:35 bro that shit is ice cream
0:55 such balancing skills
Fr tho
bro the one on the right's face at 0:42 💀💀💀
Bro went "😀" 💀💀
Bro did not care 💀
@Rosies--Dragons-1 who
wanna come over tonight? - 🔵
I have plans sorry - 🍊
You will come over - 🥑
I wont - 🍊
*You will* - 🍇
🫐
0:10
bro he's turned into grimace from the McDonald's💀
i cant stop rmembering the first one where its edited to go
“wanna come over tonight? you will come over. *you will-* ”
1:04 their smiles connect
0:14 bro said”here comes grimace*💀
0:09 is here
There's no purple at that time do u mean 0:09
@@鞥-0scaR I know
@@Lanceranddeltarunestuff then why you say 0:14?
@@鞥-0scaR0:10*
1:35: My knee when my ADHD kicks in
Me:
Same
Me:
“F for- F for-
*S T O O P I D”*
This is unintentionally funny and became a giant meme
0:40 what 💀
i wanna see what’s on that phone
Same
Ayo
@@coolcatcastle8 🤨📸
@@ianblox69what the f
as funny as they are as a meme, its actually kind of helpful. it would have been nice to see these when i was in 9th grade, would have helped me figure out i was in a unhealthy situation before it got bad.
Oh my, that sounds quite problematic
This gen…….. woke 😂😂😂😂
2:08 Dude they just look so malicious in some of these I can't 😂😂
"Wanna come over? 🙂"
"I have plans 🙂"
"You will come over 🍐😐"
"No i won't? 🤨"
"You will 🟣😡"
"i won't 😠"
" *you will 🟣☹️* "
WHY DID HE GROW PURPLE 😭
"You'll get an f anyway. F for f for stupid."
-Blue grimace
0:11 the grimace birthday meal
nah💀💀💀💀💀
1:05 literally every owner in the universe when they can't pinpoint the exact coordinates of their dog 😭
AM I GONNA REGRET HSVING A DOG
@@skydragons_143 if it runs away and an Asian finds it, yeah lol
0:11 BRO TURNED INTO GRIMACE🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
0:09 avocado reference
0:10 grimace 💀
Y O U W I L L
No I won't
@jase the silly guy! South Park pfp real!?
🍇: *Y O U W I L L*
@@stumpid_ 🪧#thatsnotlove
*"I h a v e n ' t s e e n y o u i n 5 m i n u t e s"*
the scariest thing in these is that i've got almost everything from ""#thatsnotlove""
they're like me fr fr ong
I think you need to break up
well............. thats why these videos exist, to teach you that your relationship or you are toxic
...ew
Oi retard what is the image near your name
i don’t think that’s a good thing buddy… 💀
I actually really loved these back then, and pretty glad they resurfaced.
I like how that one guy in the booty picks doesn’t even try to hide the fact he saw it and keeps smiling
“Wanna come over tonight?” said the male, desperate for the geeky woman to say yes with hope in his eyes. “Nah, I’ve got plans.” said the geeky girl politely in denial. “Well you’ll get an F anyway!”
said the male clutching the book relentlessly, “ F for,” said the male, trying to think of a come back that rhymes with the word, “F FOR STUPID!” as he finally snatched the book out of her hands , therefore tearing it.
Shakespeare be like
Dude thanks for uploading these
no seriously can we stop holding hands now 🙁 0:21
P O P
#thatsnotlove
@@F2SOnUA-camaw your showing them my foodie pics😀👍
@@Knife-c6ysweeet!!!1!1!1!
WHAT?!?!?! UR SHOWING THEM MY BOOTY PICS?!?!?!???
@@Knife-c6y #thatislove
Show us more photos! Sweet! Ahah. WHAT YOUR SHOWING MY BOODY PICS?!* got me dead💀
thank you so much for this i laughed so much at this in like 2021 so I'm SO happy they're back
1:31 okay fuck this one hits so close to home. It took me so long to figure out that if I feel sick every time my phone rings because it MIGHT be a text from her that that’s a huge warning sign.
0:10 grimace really wants her to try his shake lmao
I think the blue guy showed her Shake to his friends
“YoU WiLl 👹👹”
YOU WILL🟣
Anger: not being able to do what makes you happy or what you need to do in fear or experience of them getting angry at you
Control: feel like or you are losing something just because that person didn’t want you to do what you needed or wanted to do
Disrespect: feeling like you can never trust the person in fear that your personal life will be discovered,disrespected, and shared
Guilt: feeling like you’re always trapped and being guilt tripped into staying in a trashy situation usually they’ll be making you feel guilty for something they do to themselves or do to you after you say something
Intensity: feeling like you can never actually get the self care you need, you may also start hiding things out
Isolation: making you give all your devoted time to them and never being able to connect with others
Obsession: feeling like you can never escape this person even if you’ve already left them usually the person uses this as a sign of control
Put downs: shutting down your accomplishments or achievements or even whatever you need to do so they can make you feel like your time should be devoted to them while they also make you feel like what you’re doing is a waste of time and you’re not going to succeed
“Valentine’s day”: making you feel like they’re the better one so you’ll feel honored to be with the and lose your own self worth
If ANY of these sound like situations you’ve had please get help. You won’t get in trouble and you’re the victim so you’ll get the respect you need
0:00 Be come over
0:15 Double Couplet
0:30 Enter the photo
0:45 Eplesent
1:00 Funny class
1:15 Thormerd
1:30 Tnorned
1:45 United Class
2:00 United Best Worst True Good Bad Ending
the blue guy at the beginning: 🔵➡️🟢➡️🟣
The way his tone in the first clip shifts as he says "you will", God that's intense.
1:15
Every day of the week
Monday = Monday Funday
Tuesday =Tuesday snooze day
Wednesday = No friends day
Thursday = Cuddle day
Friday =Funny day
Saturday = Marry Day
Sunday = Hangout day
Friday night funkin*
@@Ihatewhores69420 lol
This just got recommended to me and I haven’t heard this in forever
Bro rlly jus turned into grimace💀
fr fr
Edit:MOM IM FAMOUS I HAVE 1 LIKE😃
0:00 busy
0:05 abuse
0:15 respect business
0:19 overattachment
0:45 hypothetically correct
0:50 overhypothetical
1:00 healthy separation reactions
1:05 separation anxiety
1:15 spending time healthily
1:20 toxic time
1:30 excitement
1:35 stalking
1:45 canceling healthily,reacting healthily
1:51 canceling healthily,reacting toxically
2:00 ending
2:08 Alt ending
@@ejelecflametails6657everything ending
the first one had me in tears💀
“You will come over” 🟣
"I won't"
@@lindacapps7863”you will”
YOU WILL!
"I wont1!! >:("
You…will.
“YoU WilL🤬🤬🤬👹👹👹”
Case oh fell off
0:10 First documented victim of grimace shake, 1971, colorized.
0:08 Becoming a discord mod💀
this is incredible for no reason
Imagine man/woman was being abusive and then the victim just pulls out a #thatsnotlove sign
"Wanna come over tonight?"
"I got plans-"
"you will come over..." *turns into a pear*
"no i won't!"
"Y o u w i l l !" *TURNS INTO GRIMACE*
"i won't!"
"Y O U W I L L . . ."
#thatsnotlove
Am I the only one who realized that the blue guy in Anger doesn't have shading on his legs in the That's Not Love version.
It’s probably easier to animate him growing in size without the shading
All jokes aside, this is some pretty good voice acting
Bro became Grimace at the beginning 💀💀💀💀
0:06 Wanna come over tonight?
I got plans.
You will come over. *turns into a pear*
No I wont!
You will. *Turns into a purple thing*
I wont!
You will.
Something I also notice in the #thatsnotlove the bad characters can look so nice at first which is something irl :(
0:06 YOU WILL COME OVER
YOU WILL
YOU WILL
**turns into a grape**
🍐 YOU WILL COME OVER.
🍇 YOU WILL. YOU WILL.
@@tallic967 hello ena fan
0:10 Bro was about to become quandale dingle 💀