Helping Your Daughter Embrace Her Inner Beauty - Scarlet Hiltibidal

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  • Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
  • As a girl and young woman, Scarlet Hiltibidal struggled with feeling beautiful, accepted and loved. Her mom was a well-known actress with lots of admirers; Scarlet felt plain by comparison. In this interview, she shares stories from her teen years such as her dad finding her “hottie” list where she identified cute boys at school, and the time she bought a dog tag so she could be like another girl she admired. She also shares about her eating disorder in college and how she realized she needed to confess what was going on in order to experience God’s healing. In this interview, Scarlet will help educate parents about the beauty- and body-obsessed mindset that many teen girls adopt. She’ll give insights and advice to parents on how to help their daughters counter negativity and know their identity in Christ.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 26

  • @TheUkulelegal
    @TheUkulelegal Рік тому +8

    "Worship Him instead of trying to be Worshipped!" Great quote!

  • @blondek767
    @blondek767 Рік тому +5

    I told my kids they were beautiful. Equally, because boys need to hear they are handsome, too. I took my kids everywhere, on picnics, to the beach, camping, I taught them to swim, ride bikes, took them to church and had them babtised and confirmed. Music lessons, dance, and martial arts. I took them and taught them to climb trees. Taught them to cook, to clean, to be a good friend. Manners are everything, and keep chin up to show confidence. Neither of them have poor body image or issues with depression. I hug them everyday and tell them I love them. I told them they were wanted, and my only regret was not having MORE children. They were powerful things, they are grown now and adore me. I know many adults that didn’t do these things and now live with regret, have kids that don’t talk to them. Uplifting children’s esteem is so important. Do not allow your young kids to get fat, feed them better. Don’t not let your little girls go out the door unkempt. Do their hair, dress them well. Teach your children good manners, when they go out they will be appreciated and held in high regard. Teach them to think about others, to have empathy...this way they don’t get stuck in their own heads. Cut out good quotes and tape to the fridge, this way they have good morals which others can see. As a result, you will have children who are good people.

  • @itskeagan3004
    @itskeagan3004 Рік тому +7

    Raising three teenage girls is todays world can be challenging. Thank you for sharing guidance and wisdom from all of you. I appreciate what you men do!

  • @thej-dacademy6225
    @thej-dacademy6225 Рік тому +1

    My daughter's will be my sister's for eternity...is such a big quote!! I just started crying by that realization!!

  • @terriayme5450
    @terriayme5450 Рік тому +2

    This was AMAZING!! Thank you all! ❤

  • @Angebaby1237
    @Angebaby1237 Рік тому +1

    This was beautiful!! ❤😊and so inspiring!! As a mother of a new teen. It’s likes all
    The bells are going off of memories and teen traumas. Lol. All of this such great advice!! Thank you!!!!! ❤

  • @TheUkulelegal
    @TheUkulelegal Рік тому +4

    My beautiful daughter! You are way prettier than me. Inside and out! I never felt pretty or skinny enough either!!!

  • @mkathrynblacker5960
    @mkathrynblacker5960 Рік тому +4

    Set your mind on things above... Beautiful!

  • @kimpossible6654
    @kimpossible6654 Рік тому

    I like the way she talks about how she became honest about the embarrassment… very relatable & the rest.

  • @felixarnold7589
    @felixarnold7589 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Scarlet for sharing your thoughts.

  • @Nicolee7764
    @Nicolee7764 Рік тому +2

    A thought-provoking interview with vulnerability, that l appreciate it. Very helpful, God Bless her!!

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  Рік тому +1

      It’s encouraging to read your positive feedback, Nicole! We’re glad that you found this program helpful. If you ever need a listening ear, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1‐800‐232‐6459. God’s best to you!

  • @KILLCOUNTVR
    @KILLCOUNTVR Рік тому +2

    Thank you! This was so sweet! Thank you for being honest and open ❤

  • @victoriaisere109
    @victoriaisere109 Рік тому

    Excellent tips. God bless u ma'am. Your daughters will do u proud.

  • @HK-cp8tm
    @HK-cp8tm 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this!!

  • @jennarou7732
    @jennarou7732 9 місяців тому

    This is awesome! Thanks for sharing!

  • @HK-cp8tm
    @HK-cp8tm 2 місяці тому

    Just ordered the book

  • @melissagarippo2996
    @melissagarippo2996 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing with us❤ I love how honest and open you got with us about who you were growing up.

  • @shahfazalnasri968
    @shahfazalnasri968 Рік тому +3

    Wonderful, talk

  • @PRESCRIPTIVELIVINGDIAGNOSEPRES

    Such a sweet momma!!
    Identity is in Christ is the first victory! But Identity in who He made His kids to be runs beautifully deep beyond this too.
    In the movie The Blind Side, the coach couldn't help Michael apply his God given abilities to the game because he didn't understand his players well enough.
    LeAnn took the time to understand the gifts within her son and helped him apply his once hidden abilities to reach his potential. These depths are available inside all people but some stop short because they think Identity in Christ is the "main thing." It's more of the beautiful starting point.
    The goal of our faith is the salvation of our souls. 1 Peter 1:9. Souls consist of mind, will and emotions. The place where many battles are fought and can be won!
    This momma demonstrates how God being authentic draws in Abbas favor in beautiful ways. The renewing of our minds to God's truth, promises and ever present help. Her exposed and humble heart is such a gift of God's love in tangible ways. Heart warming love.

  • @julierichey5336
    @julierichey5336 Рік тому +3

    Children are blessings. Children also teach adults about Jesus.

  • @sweetpeasandyarrowaranchdi8327

    I have a 19 year old daughter and was thinking about things I could have done better. One thing that affected her and I, was siblings. Brothers saying mean things and teasing! I thought I was ugly and she thought she was fat.

  • @GodisAlliEverNeeded54
    @GodisAlliEverNeeded54 Рік тому

    Love this interview..wished I had done better for my Son Toby, Sean and Lindsey. My greatest care is my kids and my grandchildren being effected by me not Raising them better. Untop of what their fathers has passed down.

  • @samueldeonarine1393
    @samueldeonarine1393 Рік тому

    You said that your grandmother went to heaven so what is the meaning of the judgment day

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  Рік тому

      Thank you for your question. The information about Judgment Day in this article may help to explain - bit.ly/3KK78Nm. If you'd like to dig deeper into this question, we'd like to suggest that you visit www.equip.org. We hope this is helpful.

    • @omarperez4010
      @omarperez4010 Рік тому +2

      Truly, truly, I tell you, whoever hears My word and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life and will not come under judgment. Indeed, he has crossed over from death to life.
      - Jesus in John 5:24