Jayda, having a good group of friends that support you and have your back thru whatever is a blessing. Maintaining and nurturing those relationships is the key to living a fully fulfilled life. 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂
Jaydaaa I aint even five minutes into the video and Im already hooting and hollering because you speaking FACTS. I can't stand a gossipy friend then at the end of the convo they be like " so what's going on with you girl?" sht and nothing pooh! lmao.
I had to literally have this conversation after tea was spilled after my work shift, with one of my homegirls'. Like friend... calling me at 10am, noon, 8 am or whenever M-F will not change the fact that I'm at work. My job requires me to be on the phone, I can't be available the moment after you cuss out the lady at walmart😆🤷🏿♀️
Everything in this girl talk was spot on! Yall kept everything real! Down to the bday girl outfit topic. I mean if you know your friends you know how they coming!
Favoritism is a thing, dat bday stuff is ridiculous 🤣 fship breakups do be tough when u genuinely care for sum1 an certain friends u def can't tell everything I feel like ppl be to Judgemental to tell everything anyway‼️ those were Good Topics too💚
Loved every bit of this girl chat! 💕💗 Still on a healing journey overall when it comes to any sort of connection or relationship, but I'm happy with currently embracing community that has provided closeness and support within its space. I appreicate the thoughtful and open minded answers towards the questions/topics. We are all different and have various life paths. Those are key towards which people are ment to be in our lives or occupay different relationship spaces as discussed. I don't personally like getting into the low or high matience convo. I feel people try to weigh it as that due to the fact that people either pour more or less into an area of friendship or willing or unwilling to give, but genuine bonds and relationships is what matters at heart to me. Deftinely vibing with the guest feature for girl talks.
I’m so glad you resonated with it! I feel you on that healing journey. 🫶🏽 & I definitely agree on low/high maintenance!! The topic can sometimes be taken in a different direction than needed!! Thank you💕💕
Girl! Clock the Tea! At the friends that don't show up. Im still hurt over who I have called a sister for the past 20 years that didn't come to my wedding. Plans and date was set 10 months ahead of time. Im talking paid for her hotel room, had gas money and money for food, because I knew what was going on with my sis. All she had to do was show up and was provided. +1, so there is an extra opportunity to ride with someone if she needs to. Listen. All was well when I was extremely sad and crying she told me the morning of she couldn't come. But when I expressed some time after, I was upset, we had a disagreement. I was ghosted and dropped like our sisterhood meant nothing. Someone told me that the real ones will be there through good and bad. That is so real. I totally get what plder people say. The older you get, the smaller your circle gets.
I definitely agree!! It’s very hurtful , especially when you ALWAYS show up. I do feel like adulthood definitely exposes who is really for you. We all have a lot going on, if you can’t set certain things aside to prioritize me in my important moments, then I love you but no! & also I hate how that happened, but I will say time reveals. If someone can drop you after years with no care in the world , they never cared about you to begin with. I’ve been ghosted by a friend of over 8 years so trust me I literally get it. Just consider it them eliminating themselves! They know they aren’t right!!
i love your perspective on wanting your friends to all be friends & not caring if they hang out together occasionally outside of you. I sometimes feel like my one & only friend kind of likes to keep her friends to herself, & I wish we all could do things together some. however, I respect it since she did meet them first, & maybe it’s just a preference thing to not mesh friends for some
Have you ever maybe initiated a group hangout or expressed interest? I really hope it happens eventually, bc when done correctly it can be very beautiful! & lead to great friendships!!
@ in a sense I have, but she has also told me she likes being one on one with friends for the most part since it’s more personal. I think that’s more so her mindset which isn’t a huge issues, but sometimes I wish it wasn’t since I have recently had to remove myself from two girls I thought were my friends. Also, I’m an only child so things can get lonely at times. However, I trust God and believe he has me in my isolation season and he will allow more friendships to present themselves & allow me to meet my “own friends”, instead of hers, more so at the right time. Also, I agree!
Friends that I've known for 3 months have been better friends to me than people i've known for 9 years & I think I'm finally starting to realize that high school does change people.
I can understand a guy that’s your bestfriend stop contacting you while being in a relationships because some girls are not okay with having a girl bestfriend.
This was a good convo! I'm the same way I don't call any of my friends lol I'll go missing for months and its really no funny business I'm so low maintenance, but I'll always show up for my gals. I think people try to put all friends in one box and everything should really be judged on a case by case basis. This was good
I say work can be an excuse because I have a job where we plan our schedules weeks in advance. If you don’t tell me ahead of time to take off for them dates it be hard to take off or switch schedules. But also it’s like ppl make plans with me last minute so it already make things hard! Lol overall I love this video y’all covered some good topics that I’m learning/ viewing as I’m getting older. The favoritism topic, I feel like that is involved in group friendships.. like a 3/3. Two are bound to become closer and one is kinda left out.
I actually really enjoyed this video. I sat through the whole live and seeing it again was great!! I will say I truly cannot stand boy crazy friends!! It just gives “Ew” that’s literally all I can say. Like Tori said why can’t we just be coo like just have fun! It’s never that serious. If a guy want you he will to you on top of that some dudes not ab shi anyway we all know what they want. Like please move tf around sir ew. I’ve also tried to mix friend groups before but ppl are weird and that’s why I just stick to my close friends fr. I can definitely agree with the last part. My social anxiety is horrible I just don’t like being around a bunch of people of strangers but I be saying how I want to get to know more people but I truly don’t like ppl mainly certain females😂 and it’s like nobody is genuine anymore HUGE turn off for me my heart can be too big at times fr. But ppl like yall is totally different yall coo af and we all be on the same shi fr! I’ve been watching Jayda for years and I’ve always said we are damn near the same person😂💗.
I read a tweet “ I'm not your trauma dump friend! I like to go places & have fun too! Don't only come to me when yo life bad or with bad news!! Then be out hours later enjoying yourself with people you can't vent to or have serious conversations with.. IT'S TIRING! “
Every woman needs a "no matter what" friend. Someone they can call no matter what. Someone they can vent to, no matter what. Someone she doesn't have to explain herself to, no matter what. -Unknown Author
That is so crazy cause I get that all the time ! & I barely go anywhere ! so when I do go out, I step the fuck up and out ! so when I go to a friend‘s birthday dinner or just going out to celebrate her birthday in general people always be like why are you trying to outdo her? This is her day ! listening I can’t control how that girl look. I can only control how I’m going to look. I don’t got nothing to do with that. that ain’t my fault that & that ain’t my problem that she didn’t not know how to dress for her birthday. I don’t try to outdo nobody I just know how I like to dress. 🤷🏽♀️ and people get on my nerves with that it make me not even wanna go out and do anything cause people always got something to say. And the crazy part is half of the time. I just be throwing shit together.🤦🏽♀️🤣🤷🏽♀️
Some people would take this as shady though cause its the same stuff other people was saying bout certain people😂 certain people should just not have friends or stick to who they been friends with most people aint genuine at all
Be sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE guys! Jayda can you pin this please!❤❤
Jayda, having a good group of friends that support you and have your back thru whatever is a blessing.
Maintaining and nurturing those relationships is the key to living a fully fulfilled life. 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂
I couldn't agree more!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
This convo felt like a cozy girls’ night in. I love the vibe! 🥰💕🎉
Thank you 🫶🏽
Jaydaaa I aint even five minutes into the video and Im already hooting and hollering because you speaking FACTS. I can't stand a gossipy friend then at the end of the convo they be like " so what's going on with you girl?" sht and nothing pooh! lmao.
I had to literally have this conversation after tea was spilled after my work shift, with one of my homegirls'.
Like friend... calling me at 10am, noon, 8 am or whenever M-F will not change the fact that I'm at work. My job requires me to be on the phone, I can't be available the moment after you cuss out the lady at walmart😆🤷🏿♀️
Lmfaooo NOT A THING 😭😭 life is great!!!
I really enjoyed this! There's nothing like a good girl talk.
Loved this girl talk so much. Still on my healing journey from friend favoritism. Ppl just don’t know how to be good friends
Thank you💕 & may your people find you! 🫶🏽
Not me taking notes like this is a TED Talk! Friendship gems unlocked! 💕✨
Everything in this girl talk was spot on! Yall kept everything real! Down to the bday girl outfit topic. I mean if you know your friends you know how they coming!
I loved this!!! I think i a lot of females needed to know this. 👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you!💕 I agree, it's important to talk about these things.
It aint no out dressing me I want ALL my girls to dress cause me? I'm stepping regardless. Tuh! 😮💨
THISSS!!!
Exactly!!!!
Favoritism is a thing, dat bday stuff is ridiculous 🤣 fship breakups do be tough when u genuinely care for sum1 an certain friends u def can't tell everything I feel like ppl be to Judgemental to tell everything anyway‼️ those were Good Topics too💚
Very true!!
My queen has posted!❤👸🏽
Torri definitely needs to do more videos with you because you gotta get our girl out the house! She is definitely a pretty , chill vibe.😝💋
Definitely 💕
Loved every bit of this girl chat! 💕💗 Still on a healing journey overall when it comes to any sort of connection or relationship, but I'm happy with currently embracing community that has provided closeness and support within its space. I appreicate the thoughtful and open minded answers towards the questions/topics. We are all different and have various life paths. Those are key towards which people are ment to be in our lives or occupay different relationship spaces as discussed. I don't personally like getting into the low or high matience convo. I feel people try to weigh it as that due to the fact that people either pour more or less into an area of friendship or willing or unwilling to give, but genuine bonds and relationships is what matters at heart to me. Deftinely vibing with the guest feature for girl talks.
I’m so glad you resonated with it! I feel you on that healing journey. 🫶🏽 & I definitely agree on low/high maintenance!! The topic can sometimes be taken in a different direction than needed!! Thank you💕💕
@Jaydajonet 💗💗 you are very welcome!! Yess always can relate to some aspects of your girl talks. Love seeing the growth in you!
yalll pretty 😍😍😍
Thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I loved this talk💕! I really think a discussion like this is needed when you first meet a person.
I definitely agree!! Like let’s normalize playing q&a with potential friends😭😭
@ exactly! I’m gonna start doing that now thanks to this video lol🫶🏾
The way you explained support in friendships? Whew, everyone needs to hear this! ❤❤👏🏽🎉
Girl!
Clock the Tea! At the friends that don't show up.
Im still hurt over who I have called a sister for the past 20 years that didn't come to my wedding. Plans and date was set 10 months ahead of time.
Im talking paid for her hotel room, had gas money and money for food, because I knew what was going on with my sis. All she had to do was show up and was provided. +1, so there is an extra opportunity to ride with someone if she needs to.
Listen. All was well when I was extremely sad and crying she told me the morning of she couldn't come.
But when I expressed some time after, I was upset, we had a disagreement. I was ghosted and dropped like our sisterhood meant nothing.
Someone told me that the real ones will be there through good and bad. That is so real.
I totally get what plder people say. The older you get, the smaller your circle gets.
I definitely agree!! It’s very hurtful , especially when you ALWAYS show up. I do feel like adulthood definitely exposes who is really for you. We all have a lot going on, if you can’t set certain things aside to prioritize me in my important moments, then I love you but no!
& also I hate how that happened, but I will say time reveals. If someone can drop you after years with no care in the world , they never cared about you to begin with. I’ve been ghosted by a friend of over 8 years so trust me I literally get it. Just consider it them eliminating themselves! They know they aren’t right!!
i love your perspective on wanting your friends to all be friends & not caring if they hang out together occasionally outside of you. I sometimes feel like my one & only friend kind of likes to keep her friends to herself, & I wish we all could do things together some. however, I respect it since she did meet them first, & maybe it’s just a preference thing to not mesh friends for some
Have you ever maybe initiated a group hangout or expressed interest? I really hope it happens eventually, bc when done correctly it can be very beautiful! & lead to great friendships!!
@ in a sense I have, but she has also told me she likes being one on one with friends for the most part since it’s more personal. I think that’s more so her mindset which isn’t a huge issues, but sometimes I wish it wasn’t since I have recently had to remove myself from two girls I thought were my friends. Also, I’m an only child so things can get lonely at times. However, I trust God and believe he has me in my isolation season and he will allow more friendships to present themselves & allow me to meet my “own friends”, instead of hers, more so at the right time. Also, I agree!
Mixing groups and sneaky linking?! Oh, this tea is HOT! 🤣☕
Y’all in matching pink PJs? The vibe is immaculate! 🥰🔥❤
Friends that I've known for 3 months have been better friends to me than people i've known for 9 years & I think I'm finally starting to realize that high school does change people.
Love this girl talk!
Thank you🫶🏽
Loved this 🥰
I can understand a guy that’s your bestfriend stop contacting you while being in a relationships because some girls are not okay with having a girl bestfriend.
It’s very hurtful still though!
This was a good convo! I'm the same way I don't call any of my friends lol I'll go missing for months and its really no funny business I'm so low maintenance, but I'll always show up for my gals. I think people try to put all friends in one box and everything should really be judged on a case by case basis. This was good
Agreed! Thank you💕
I Loveeee this y’all are so pretty😍😍and funny 😂🩷
Thank you 💕💕
Hey girl hey I tuned in real quick
Hey babeee 🫶🏽
def spoke some gems!!💖🌸
Always 💕💕
Love this talk 🎉
Overdressing the birthday girl’ took me OUT! 😂😂 Let me behave now😅😅😂😂
Definitely was a lil shady but 🤐
@@JazzyArmani45 it wasn’t shady in the slightest.
I say work can be an excuse because I have a job where we plan our schedules weeks in advance. If you don’t tell me ahead of time to take off for them dates it be hard to take off or switch schedules. But also it’s like ppl make plans with me last minute so it already make things hard! Lol overall I love this video y’all covered some good topics that I’m learning/ viewing as I’m getting older. The favoritism topic, I feel like that is involved in group friendships.. like a 3/3. Two are bound to become closer and one is kinda left out.
Def understand jobs can be iffy! & I def think favoritism among trios is more common. Bigger friend groups I feel everybody has their person!!
Very good topic ✨
Not the ‘4-year reunion’ segment making me side-eye my own friendships 🤣🤣
Tori is me 😂😂😂 I love her
I actually really enjoyed this video. I sat through the whole live and seeing it again was great!! I will say I truly cannot stand boy crazy friends!! It just gives “Ew” that’s literally all I can say. Like Tori said why can’t we just be coo like just have fun! It’s never that serious. If a guy want you he will to you on top of that some dudes not ab shi anyway we all know what they want. Like please move tf around sir ew.
I’ve also tried to mix friend groups before but ppl are weird and that’s why I just stick to my close friends fr.
I can definitely agree with the last part. My social anxiety is horrible I just don’t like being around a bunch of people of strangers but I be saying how I want to get to know more people but I truly don’t like ppl mainly certain females😂 and it’s like nobody is genuine anymore HUGE turn off for me my heart can be too big at times fr.
But ppl like yall is totally different yall coo af and we all be on the same shi fr! I’ve been watching Jayda for years and I’ve always said we are damn near the same person😂💗.
Jayda jonèt you look beautiful and love your contact it's awesome
Thank you so much!!
Jaydaaaaa💗💗💗
🥰💕💕
Your friend low key look like Amber Martin
What about a friend that always trauma dump every single time yall talk??
This the one! So draining 😮💨
Talk about it. Bringing up my own triggers every time
I read a tweet “ I'm not your trauma dump friend! I like to go places & have fun too! Don't only come to me when yo life bad or with bad news!! Then be out hours later enjoying yourself with people you can't vent to or have serious conversations with.. IT'S TIRING! “
I had to stop being friends with a person who is always going through something. You never know what is the reasons on why, they may deserve that
@@allatrice0022THISSSS
Do your friend next to you do UA-cam? i like her personality
Every woman needs a "no matter what" friend.
Someone they can call no matter what. Someone they can vent to, no matter what. Someone she doesn't have to explain herself to, no matter what.
-Unknown Author
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That is so crazy cause I get that all the time ! & I barely go anywhere ! so when I do go out, I step the fuck up and out ! so when I go to a friend‘s birthday dinner or just going out to celebrate her birthday in general people always be like why are you trying to outdo her? This is her day ! listening I can’t control how that girl look. I can only control how I’m going to look. I don’t got nothing to do with that. that ain’t my fault that & that ain’t my problem that she didn’t not know how to dress for her birthday. I don’t try to outdo nobody I just know how I like to dress. 🤷🏽♀️ and people get on my nerves with that it make me not even wanna go out and do anything cause people always got something to say. And the crazy part is half of the time. I just be throwing shit together.🤦🏽♀️🤣🤷🏽♀️
I'm the same way when someone starts crying "are you good" 😂😂😂😂
Need to fix my approach 😭
Tori is so me, I'm such a jealous friend bc you didn't think we could do cute stuff together too?😭
Lmaoooo it don’t even be that!!!
❤️❤️
Some people would take this as shady though cause its the same stuff other people was saying bout certain people😂 certain people should just not have friends or stick to who they been friends with most people aint genuine at all
Heyyyyyy 😅
Heyyy 🥰🫶🏽
Jayda, those type of surface level friends are called acquaintances.
“ so deeply in love w my friends i wish they lived under my bed. i would feed them snacks.. no no MEALS with their choice of drink on the side “
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I agree, other friends can hang out as well. I noticed how close De’Keyra and Saadie has gotten 🤍