Kelsea Ballerini - How Do I Do This (The Final Chapter)

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  • Опубліковано 30 лис 2023
  • Official Music Video for "How Do I Do This" by Kelsea Ballerini
    LISTEN TO "ROLLING UP THE WELCOME MAT (FOR GOOD)": orcd.co/rutwmfg
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    LYRICS:
    They say to get out with the old
    You get in with the new
    And I haven’t been on a date since I was 22
    My friend has a friend
    And they say they’re my type
    And then they texted me once
    And then they texted me twice
    Saying, “Are you free Saturday? I know a spot”
    So, I typed out a couple million ways to respond
    But I landed with, “Yes”
    Shit, so where the hell is my dress?
    Doing last looks in the mirror
    Tell myself, “I got this”
    I got this
    But I’m back at the begin again-ing now
    So, if I’m honest
    I’m scared of looking stupid
    Said I, I’m ready
    Now I gotta prove it
    Got a little black dress
    I wanna use it
    And maybe lose it
    On a floor that ain’t mine
    I think it’s probably time to keep it moving
    I talk a big game that I’m scared of losing
    Everything I knew about love is ruined
    It’s so confusing
    So, how do, how do I do this?
    I wonder if they’ll ask if I’m still feeling blue
    And will they bring up the elephant in the room?
    Yeah, what if they lean in at the end of the night?
    What if it’s feeling right?
    What if it’s too good to be true?
    I’m scared of looking stupid
    Said I, I’m ready
    Now I gotta prove it
    Got a little black dress
    I wanna use it
    And maybe lose it
    On a floor that ain’t mine
    I think it’s probably time to keep it moving
    I talk a big game that I’m scared of losing
    Everything I knew about love is ruined
    It’s so confusing
    So, how do, how do I do this?
    Said they’d pick me up at 7
    It’s 6:52
    And I know who I am
    But what the fuck do I do?
    I’m scared of looking stupid
    Said I, I’m ready
    Now I gotta prove it
    Got a little black dress
    I wanna use it
    And maybe lose it
    On a floor that ain’t mine
    I think it’s probably time to keep it moving
    I talk a big game that I’m scared of losing
    Everything I knew about love is ruined
    It’s so confusing
    So, how do, how do I do this?
    I’m calling Kelly for a talk
    Like is it wrong to take a shot?
    I’m freaking out like, “Oh my God”
    ‘Cause now it’s 7 on the dot
    Listen to more: orcd.co/kelseaballerini
    #KelseaBallerini #RUTWMFG #HowDoIDoThis

КОМЕНТАРІ • 524

  • @KelseaBallerini
    @KelseaBallerini  6 місяців тому +635

    choose your player
    💬 screaming crying throwing up
    💙 being dramatic
    💛 laying on the floor disassociating
    🖤 bad bitch energy

  • @eileenjones7245
    @eileenjones7245 6 місяців тому +267

    I’ve danced around my living room with this song blasting since it came out because this is EXACTLY what my year has been like, too! THANK YOU for putting stories into words into music into inspiration!!! Forever a fan!!

  • @abigaillethgo2055
    @abigaillethgo2055 6 місяців тому +46

    I love that the dresses are Subject to Change colors! 🩵💛

  • @kendylpaige
    @kendylpaige 6 місяців тому +154

    I’m so proud of this chapter, and how it’s ended. You’re growth is so inspiring and so powerful. I love you so much KB ❤

  • @SierraByrd
    @SierraByrd 6 місяців тому +109

    As someone who just got out of a 3 year relationship, (i was 19 when it started, it ended at 23). This song touched me in a way that I can never put into words. Thank you Kelsea, you are truly inspiring and amazing.

  • @louisegilby2684
    @louisegilby2684 6 місяців тому +11

    This whole Kelsea era has got me through a break up and not feeling ashamed to move on after being unhappy with the wrong person for so long.

  • @char6524
    @char6524 6 місяців тому +34

    So I paused like 15X, so excited, not wanting it to end, Kelsea this is sooooooo relatable and we love you

  • @amberrigsby9568
    @amberrigsby9568 6 місяців тому +34

    I relate to this song so much. Being married for 14 years(since I was in my early 20s) to being divorced and starting over, it's so scary putting yourself back out there. I love her happiness these days, how all her songs have helped her heal and love again.

  • @castertroye3790
    @castertroye3790 6 місяців тому +51

    She's just a great song writer, she knows how to connect with us her songs fits in every mood every situation your into

  • @beccagabriel5066
    @beccagabriel5066 6 місяців тому +40

    this year I thought I found the guy I was going to spend the rest of my life with.. but y'know when you make plans the universe laughs, and it didnt work out.. thank you for this whole album. It really helped me get through it. It was probably as cathartic to write as it was for some of us to listen to. Thank you, Kelsea. I hope your life is filled with love, laughter & happiness. ❤

    • @s.p.baughman7885
      @s.p.baughman7885 6 місяців тому +3

      you said it I say when you make plans God laughs....Nothing has turned out the way I planned or thought it would....

  • @carriexoo
    @carriexoo 7 місяців тому +28

    this song became my number 5 on my spotify wrapped this year, i am so so excited for this music video
    and the parallel to penthouse with looking at the curtains???? what a perfect way to close out this chapter
    🤍

  • @CatCalabreseMusic
    @CatCalabreseMusic 6 місяців тому +44

    KELSSSS. Thank your for your artistry and vulnerability! Also can I just point out how iconic it is that you DM’d chase on 12/1. the day before what would have been your wedding anniversary, and instead of mourning and standing still, you turned the damn page and shot your shot and now you’re out here healing all of us ❤

  • @rhondas.journey
    @rhondas.journey 6 місяців тому +5

    When she says "Im back at the beginning"...man that hit home. Im 49 not 29 but the outcome is the same, and so is the pain.

  • @baconandlasagna
    @baconandlasagna 6 місяців тому +4

    cutting your hair while getting ready is such a vibe haha

  • @chloemarie02
    @chloemarie02 6 місяців тому +23

    Love this song, keep up with your amazing music Kelsea! Everyone in the UK are wishing you could come back to perform 😢 super proud of you Kelsea ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jonahbyers6183
    @jonahbyers6183 6 місяців тому +16

    I first found Subject to Change earlier this year and it instantly became my all-time favorite album, but I found this song later as I was spiraling from a breakup, and it really helped me feel like it was a new beginning instead of an ending. I can't believe it's taken me so long to find your music, it speaks to me in ways that very few other artists have. Thank you so much for sharing your heart like this. 💛

  • @Leyley6528
    @Leyley6528 6 місяців тому +14

    Your journey has been relatable Kelsea! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve cried, gotten pissed, and simply deeply understood RUTWM since it was released. You did so great putting our (you, me, and many others) experiences into songs. This finale is simply phenomenal.

  • @courtneylong5881
    @courtneylong5881 6 місяців тому +5

    official petition for a remix with Chase picking her up in his bronco at the end of the video

  • @nicolea7829
    @nicolea7829 6 місяців тому +41

    Feel so lucky to have found Kelsea's music....she's such a bright light in this crazy world 💙💛💙💛

    • @xoxdesire
      @xoxdesire 6 місяців тому +2

      Same! I found her this summer and became obsessed. She was number 2 on my Spotify Wrapped. SHes so good!

    • @taylana3331
      @taylana3331 6 місяців тому +1

      Same I discovered her this year and I am so happy I did ❤️ her music is exactly what I love with that little country vibe in it too 😍😍

    • @the.annethology
      @the.annethology 6 місяців тому +1

      Yess! I randomly listened to one song off STC.. after that i was hooked! My spotify random mix really said, bet 😂

    • @the.annethology
      @the.annethology 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@xoxdesiresame. Taylor and Kelse were my top 2 this year. Love listening and supporting the best songwriters in the industry 🤭🖤

    • @xoxdesire
      @xoxdesire 6 місяців тому +1

      @@the.annethology lol that’s my exact top 2 too! They are both amazing 💘

  • @TheNephew
    @TheNephew 6 місяців тому +40

    If she doesn't win the Grammy for Best Country Album, I swear to God.... 😳😳😳🙌🏻

    • @___DZ___
      @___DZ___ 6 місяців тому +2

      It ain't country

    • @bonniemilton
      @bonniemilton 6 місяців тому +2

      Yeah sorry but noooo 😂

  • @andivalk9661
    @andivalk9661 6 місяців тому +4

    I love the Haircut Coping Mechanism!!! This was better than I could imagine!!

  • @keithfortunehindjou5870
    @keithfortunehindjou5870 6 місяців тому +4

    Kelsea music always tell us some story

  • @jodi_kreiner
    @jodi_kreiner 6 місяців тому +9

    what a beautiful video !!! perfectly matches the aesthetic of the RUTWM short film. I can FEEL the healing, giddy, nervous, overwhelmed, first time feeling vibe through the screen ❤ you deserve to be happy Kelsea !!
    (and wow - that black dress… JAW DROPPING 😱😍🔥)

  • @shaynamcivor817
    @shaynamcivor817 6 місяців тому +7

    This chapter has been AMAZING, And I know its just going to get Better! I love Kelsea and I'm excited to see whats next! ❤

  • @ariannabarreres5703
    @ariannabarreres5703 7 місяців тому +8

    IM FREAKING OUT LIKE OMG

    • @brydoncordero5762
      @brydoncordero5762 7 місяців тому

      Why it’s not a new song I never understood why ppl care for music videos so much like to me it’s the music that matters not a video. May you explain to me why ppl care for music videos a lot?

    • @carriexoo
      @carriexoo 7 місяців тому

      ⁠@@brydoncordero5762
      It’s a lyric from this song. And a lot of people enjoy music videos for their story telling & visuals etc.

  • @taylornoel09
    @taylornoel09 6 місяців тому +2

    THE BLACK DRESS!! 😍😍😍

  • @char6524
    @char6524 7 місяців тому +4

    Now all I need is a full video of the arena concert in TN!!!

  • @KatieKillebrew
    @KatieKillebrew 6 місяців тому +11

    oh my gosh! that was SO SO good! the ending gave me chills when you walked out of frame! this was such an incredible ending to this chapter. keep doing you Kelsea & I will keep supporting you in everything that you do! :)

  • @michaela.z8623
    @michaela.z8623 7 місяців тому +653

    It’s ICONIC that she’s releasing this one year to the day after she DM’d Chase 🥹🥹

    • @aliviablount
      @aliviablount 6 місяців тому +8

      who is chase? What happened. I’m really new here

    • @cakerbaker9965
      @cakerbaker9965 6 місяців тому +13

      Why did she refer to him as “They” in this song?…”He” “He’s” “He’ll” would’ve made it so much better, more personal.

    • @liloutancre8902
      @liloutancre8902 6 місяців тому

      @@aliviablountit’s Chase Stokes an actor that plays John B on Outer Banks. It’s been one year since Kelsea has done the first move by DMing him on Insta that led to their first date. They’ve been together for almost a year.
      I don’t know if it’s clear enough…

    • @tailor0052
      @tailor0052 6 місяців тому +6

      @@aliviablountchase is her boyfriend

    • @laceymeyer4561
      @laceymeyer4561 6 місяців тому +30

      ​@cakerbaker9965 maybe she wanted it to be androgynous. It's nice for the queer community whom we know she supports ❤

  • @usernameformychannel
    @usernameformychannel 6 місяців тому +2

    I couldn't sleep two nights ago because I was singing this in my head. Your power is something else!

  • @melodybowen8246
    @melodybowen8246 2 місяці тому +1

    She's beautiful, amazing talented strong woman. Great artist and song. ❤❤❤

  • @user-zw2fm1df6v
    @user-zw2fm1df6v 6 місяців тому +4

    i love you kelsea!!!!!! u have literally the best voice! and i love all of your songs!!!!!!!!

  • @rareh299
    @rareh299 5 місяців тому +1

    This song is pure and angelic ...just dope ❤☺️🫶

  • @frankc2120
    @frankc2120 6 місяців тому +1

    Kelsea looks so happy these days..she looks great in the video & if she came to the door wearing that dress as I rang the doorbell my jaw would drop..looks stunning...great song..very catchy too..:)

  • @lexis6317
    @lexis6317 6 місяців тому +1

    i saw KB for the first time in knox & i’ve been obsessed ever since. This is my FAVORITE song & i’m so happy there’s a music video now too 🧡

  • @HeyItsHeather89
    @HeyItsHeather89 6 місяців тому +7

    LOVE THIS SONG AND MUSIC VIDEO!! Kelsea you look so beautiful and thank you for sharing your music. You’ve gotten me through a lot. ❤

  • @teneshabyrd3334
    @teneshabyrd3334 6 місяців тому +4

    I Just Love Her 🥰 Her Music Is Real 💯 Kelsea You Are Amazing 🦋

  • @MikaylaClayton1998
    @MikaylaClayton1998 6 місяців тому +1

    Can we please get this vid added to the rolling up the welcome mat film so i can watch the entire masterpiece in one??!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Alexdebellis
    @Alexdebellis 7 місяців тому +12

    I am so freaking excited for this music video out of every music video you’ve come up with for the Rolling Up the Welcome Mat (For Good) and rolling up for the welcome mat I am definitely excited for this one 😘😘😘

  • @newsukrit9254
    @newsukrit9254 6 місяців тому +3

    Love song Love Kelsea ❤❤

  • @annemariestrehl
    @annemariestrehl 6 місяців тому +6

    How love how openly Kelsea shares about her experiences. So happy to hear a new song from her. Also, that bedroom is absolutely stunning! (She is too, but damn, that room was great!)

  • @noeliegrd
    @noeliegrd 6 місяців тому +2

    I immediately loved this song when I heard it the first time, the music video is like omg, Kelsea you're a genius!

  • @johnphillipfarley8681
    @johnphillipfarley8681 6 місяців тому +1

    I didn’t realize how Amazing Kelsea is ❤️‍🔥🎵❤️‍🔥🎼❤️‍🔥🎶❣️
    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
    Everything I’ve Heard 🌹🎵
    Really Genuine Genius 🥰♥️

  • @hunterwolff-schollmeyer3902
    @hunterwolff-schollmeyer3902 6 місяців тому +5

    What else is there to say, other than Kelsea Ballerini does it again. Amazing song and even better video.

  • @wayneread95
    @wayneread95 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this song so much and its had me singing and dancing all day long I LOVE YOU KELSEA

  • @ryleewilson1841
    @ryleewilson1841 6 місяців тому +1

    this is a masterpiece.

  • @13yorkdukes
    @13yorkdukes 6 місяців тому

    This entire album is incredible but this song is my favorite

  • @ashleyhosein6138
    @ashleyhosein6138 6 місяців тому +2

    just saw kelsea's tiktok with this song & i could listen to this 1000x over, also what a stunning video

  • @cheryltavares81
    @cheryltavares81 6 місяців тому +2

    Such a Queen!! Love this and her

  • @dkgrant61
    @dkgrant61 2 місяці тому +1

    beautiful harmony

  • @ChelseaOsborne-my1wo
    @ChelseaOsborne-my1wo 6 місяців тому

    GIIRRRL that blue dress is giving 1989 and SN and I LOVE the parallels. You are so freaking genius, honest, and I adore you so much.

  • @sheripadlo5393
    @sheripadlo5393 6 місяців тому

    I'm in my healing girl Era rn so I'm not ready for this yet but I'm saving it for when I am. Thank you for the future anthem of finding me again.

  • @storiesinthedust
    @storiesinthedust 6 місяців тому +1

    the subject to change colors got me crying in the club

  • @countrymusiclover9199
    @countrymusiclover9199 6 місяців тому +2

    Lovely voice, can't stop listening. Love your music Kelsea❤❤

  • @RaynaMichele2
    @RaynaMichele2 6 місяців тому +1

    The blue & yellow dresses from subject to change 🥺🫶🏼

  • @Miraclebaby_17
    @Miraclebaby_17 7 місяців тому +3

    It's going to be amazing and she change my life with this song and video and Kelsea Ballerini is the best female artist in the world and her music is amazing and beautiful and I can't wait to hear more music from her❤

  • @riggs458
    @riggs458 6 місяців тому +1

    Omg love this song!!! ❤😍

  • @lindwm
    @lindwm 6 місяців тому +1

    LOVE U KELSEA

  • @trishchoate7010
    @trishchoate7010 6 місяців тому

    Love this song! Would have awesome if they showed her opening the door and Chase was standing there

  • @MadtheOBXgirl2011
    @MadtheOBXgirl2011 6 місяців тому +1

    You are so pretty. This is my new favorite song

  • @christinamartinez2853
    @christinamartinez2853 4 місяці тому

    Just discovered your album from last year today. All I can say is wow. Your artistry is amazing. Lyricism = 10/10. You’ve got a new fan!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @alexisbender8021
    @alexisbender8021 3 місяці тому

    OBSESSED! Just when I think this album can't get any better, it keeps getting better! So proud to be a Kelsea fan!

  • @hanpham2334
    @hanpham2334 3 місяці тому

    The chapter “Mountain with a view” was fulled of sadness of un happy relationship. Then the final chapter makes me feel like a brand new beginning after a long heart broken. Showing that we will be all healed in times and ready to love again someday.
    What a beautiful message to me 🥰

  • @patrix3567
    @patrix3567 6 місяців тому

    This is one of my faved 2023 song! I can really see myself to this song. ❤

  • @taylana3331
    @taylana3331 6 місяців тому +1

    ONCE AGAIN SHE DID IT, i loveeeee this ❤

  • @matts6272
    @matts6272 6 місяців тому +2

    Damn this is a great song. Wishing you all the happiness in the world, Kelsea!!

  • @devonbrean4002
    @devonbrean4002 6 місяців тому

    This is EVERYTHING.!!!! Everything and then some!!!

  • @angelabest4468
    @angelabest4468 6 місяців тому +1

    @KelseaBallerini INCREDIBLE... from the moment I heard this song I loved it AND the imagery is so incredible that I had a video playing in my own head. I always felt this song needed a video and here we are. GREAT JOB and great song beacause lets be honest every single person on the planet has felt all these emotions you so elequently put into song.

  • @irisconsultinginc
    @irisconsultinginc 6 місяців тому

    Precious…you are not losing! Winning it all! God Bless You! LOVE! LOVE!

  • @robbylovee1316
    @robbylovee1316 6 місяців тому

    This song is the official new year day song. Kelsea never disappoints .

  • @malauradon7925
    @malauradon7925 5 місяців тому

    I haven't been on a date since 10th grade. I completely relate to this song.

  • @kendallkleinschmidt3386
    @kendallkleinschmidt3386 7 місяців тому +2

    WE LOVE YOU KELSEA!!!

  • @karlajennifercampbell88
    @karlajennifercampbell88 6 місяців тому

    yet, another song i can relate to. ❤

  • @xjasmineliax
    @xjasmineliax 6 місяців тому +2

    this is so amazing. i’m so proud of you kelsea!! 🫶🤍

  • @hunnaspain18
    @hunnaspain18 6 місяців тому +2

    This video is a perfect representation of my girlfriend on date night doesn’t know what to wear and where to go out to but still is beautiful and amazing as always!! Love ya Kelsea

  • @RebeccaMeekPhotography
    @RebeccaMeekPhotography 6 місяців тому +1

    I swear me and Kelsea have lived the same life. 😂

  • @NemesisMPPI
    @NemesisMPPI 4 місяці тому +1

    We need more Musik from you! 🤩

  • @othoball4005
    @othoball4005 6 місяців тому +3

    If only John-B was at the door and they showed him LOL 😂

  • @jessikahmeyer
    @jessikahmeyer 6 місяців тому +1

    THIS VIDEO IS EVERYTHING

  • @justinlung8613
    @justinlung8613 6 місяців тому +1

    This song is amazing & wraps up my year. 2023 was rough for many via relationships 😢 💔 after 15 years with my partner I feel the same way & idk if I should move back to my home state to be with remaining family or stay hours away with a few friends & job. Don’t want to lose what little I have left with work benefits & community I built here over 15 years but feel so alone. It’s been 1 year since Dad died..great gram 2 years..aunt a month ago.. my great aunt suddenly passed away day before thanksgiving which was only days ago …. How much can someone take on top of heartbreak/work/finances/etc? 😭 health taking a toll

  • @debraphillips8921
    @debraphillips8921 6 місяців тому

    Exactly how relatable this one is...

  • @robinsimmons5972
    @robinsimmons5972 3 місяці тому

    ❤😊 she has grown so much in her career love all of her songs

  • @joedora698
    @joedora698 4 місяці тому

    You're rhythm's on the guitar are perfect... You're lyrics, and melodies will take you to the Top of the Heap" ... But you might realize that you should write; as many songs ASAP as possible and keep them all!!!

  • @sharonpeppers3341
    @sharonpeppers3341 4 місяці тому

    I say its his loss #KelseaBallerini. No need for drama. Just go live your best life. That says it all. 😊❤🎸🌹🌼

  • @IzabellaDiscenzi
    @IzabellaDiscenzi 3 місяці тому

    I used to scream dance to her songs when I was like 9🤣 still love her music so much!

  • @NatalieDirect
    @NatalieDirect 6 місяців тому +2

    you are my #1 artist on my spotify wrapped this year

  • @samanthuh55
    @samanthuh55 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this song so much ✨

  • @michellesayscheese
    @michellesayscheese 6 місяців тому

    Left a 10 year relationship/marriage as a single mom this year and can’t wait for when my time comes for this 🥺

  • @southlax007
    @southlax007 6 місяців тому +1

    Released the day before her wedding anniversary with her ex. She is a QUEEN! “That Dec 2” from Just Married.

  • @dam162003
    @dam162003 6 місяців тому +1

    All the feels ❤ This gives me hope and makes me believe in love after loss

  • @mariia.agueroo
    @mariia.agueroo 6 місяців тому

    this is so iconic and healing i love u sm

  • @samuhlm2
    @samuhlm2 6 місяців тому

    This was an adorable music video. Perfect to the song

  • @the.annethology
    @the.annethology 6 місяців тому

    Never beating the best songwriter allegations 🙈😭🤭🖤🥹

  • @breepalmer5248
    @breepalmer5248 6 місяців тому +1

    SOO PROUD OF YOU!!😭🤍 iloveyou🤍

  • @gracedavidson6088
    @gracedavidson6088 6 місяців тому

    The fact that an hour after she posts a video on UA-cam and she get 2,000 likes, 200 hundred comments, and 692,000 views?? She is so talented. Love her!

  • @JosephineR2
    @JosephineR2 6 місяців тому

    I love you Kelsea. I truly mean it. You have inspired me. And I hope to be just like you one day. 🩷❤️if you love this comment I will be over the moon.
    You are so talented, beautiful, and I even wrote an essay on how you have changed my life. 🩷I hope to see you in concert soon. 💙🦋

    • @JosephineR2
      @JosephineR2 5 місяців тому

      Omg!!! You liked my comment! Thank you so much Kelsea! Please go on tour so I can see you!

  • @kenna6325
    @kenna6325 6 місяців тому

    So fricking excited this album healed me 🫶🏻🩵💛🥹😭

  • @secretlycourtney1029
    @secretlycourtney1029 5 днів тому

    I listen to this for my frist real date since i was 18...im 25 now it was great 👍 😅 i did look stupid when it came to learning how to play all these games bowling, pool, arcde games and put put ...

  • @denaginther6284
    @denaginther6284 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this music video!!! Its so cute!!!

  • @blondedancer987
    @blondedancer987 6 місяців тому

    I love that the first 2 dresses are Subject To Change colors 💙💛 before she goes to her black dress!