Be the Bee # 177 | How the Internet is Hiding the Way to Holiness

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  • @stevenchristoforou1667
    @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +24

    We get into some tough stuff in this episode. I'd love to hear what you think about it!

    • @justrubio3121
      @justrubio3121 2 роки тому

      To be honest I just paused & opened up the Cosmic Mystery of Jesus Christ patristic series and was browsing ambiguum looking for these 5 divisions idk if he states it specifically. But yea this is very helpful. Sometimes bringing it in concisely helps the bigger picture so that makes it more tangible if you will. Thank you very much! Peace of Christ!

    • @justrubio3121
      @justrubio3121 2 роки тому

      Oh and as my wife walks in speaking about the division between husband and wife. Just thinking men come from the earth/dirt and Eve came from Adam's rib? So that kind of explains a lot. Now I kind of get evolutionist theory...lol. Just kidding.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +1

      @@justrubio3121 you'll find the discussion in Ambiguum 41, part of the larger "Ambiguum" or "On Difficulties in the Fathers."
      I don't know if any selections are in the "Cosmic Mystery" volume. I haven't look at that in a while.

    • @justrubio3121
      @justrubio3121 2 роки тому

      @@stevenchristoforou1667 I appreciate that. Thank you.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@privatea3xs Yeah, glory to God! It's got to speak to different people in different ways. And push everyone to Christ in their repentance.

  • @AuntieVonn
    @AuntieVonn 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you ❤️

  • @lordjesuschristhavemercyonme
    @lordjesuschristhavemercyonme 2 роки тому +4

    I've struggled with depersonalization disorder my whole life and never knew it even had a name til now. Thanks for doing these videos! 💚☦️

  • @givingupisaac
    @givingupisaac 2 роки тому +4

    Digital vs Analog self; such a powerful realization for further reflection; your efforts are appreciated!

  • @bsmith7614
    @bsmith7614 2 роки тому +8

    Fantastic! We all need your videos and voices to be seen and heard over the plethora of internet noise! I wish you would keep making videos along with the other projects you are pursuing. Be the Bee is an important tool in teen catechism. Thank you for your important work!

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +2

      We all need to keep what we're saying in mind and act accordingly!
      That's why we've ended these episodes with questions for reflection and repentance.

  • @virginialopezrey6860
    @virginialopezrey6860 2 роки тому +7

    Great video! The divisiveness has driven me away from social media. But on Orthodox UA-cams, I have found a lot of caring.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +3

      Glory to God!
      I'm glad you're staying close to Christ-centered things.

  • @patsavasdds
    @patsavasdds 2 роки тому +3

    This is wonderful and very thought provoking. Very timely and much needed by all of us.

  • @peterorthodox360
    @peterorthodox360 2 роки тому +3

    Great work Steve! Pray for me a sinner ☦️

  • @mariaziogas7960
    @mariaziogas7960 2 роки тому +6

    Great video presentation! I will miss seeing new videos from Be the Bee!
    May God continue to guide you in your next projects!

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +1

      Glory to God!
      By your prayers. Keep praying for us!

    • @justrubio3121
      @justrubio3121 2 роки тому

      Miss? Why are they going somewhere? 😕

    • @zebraface6564
      @zebraface6564 2 роки тому

      The final episode is next week

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@justrubio3121 I'll be leaving my position at GOARCH, effective the end of the month.

    • @justrubio3121
      @justrubio3121 2 роки тому

      @@stevenchristoforou1667 OH I see. Sorry to hear that but hopefully God will send you where you'll flourish! Thanks for the specifics. Are you going to do any other channels on the tube?

  • @christochrysostomou106
    @christochrysostomou106 2 роки тому +3

    Great effort Steven.
    Glory to GOD!

  • @presbyter14
    @presbyter14 2 роки тому +2

    Good message, dear brothers! Keep working!

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      God willing, Christian will keep this conversation going with OYM. But I'll be leaving my position at the end of the month.

    • @presbyter14
      @presbyter14 2 роки тому

      @@stevenchristoforou1667 that's a pity. By the way, aren't you presbyter yet?

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@presbyter14 Nope, I'm not ordained. God's not calling me to that.

  • @drewpy75
    @drewpy75 2 роки тому +2

    You said a lot right there.

  • @verona298
    @verona298 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you and the book recommendations were helpful

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      Glory to God! I'm glad the episode (and recommendations) were helpful.

  • @elijahc.brooks3493
    @elijahc.brooks3493 2 роки тому +6

    Dear Steve and Christian,
    let us not forget that pornography is really satanic and evil because it’s a stumbling block for all of us. Sex is between a man and a woman after they become “one flesh” in holy matrimony.
    In addition, pornography becomes an “idol” by giving you a fantasy. Honestly, that’s an addiction. That’s why I ask St. Mary of Egypt to intercede for me all the time so that Christ can heal me from my lust (sin). Generally speaking, I want my Lord Jesus and have the intercessions of the Holy Theotokos to take away my spiritual illnesses (sins).
    May Christ change us all to know His eternal happiness and not live in a lusftul fantasy of temporary pleasure. Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. Amen.
    Sincerely,
    Elijah
    P.S. I know that was very personal, but it needed to be discussed about because pornography is all over the internet and exposed to minors and everybody.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +3

      Good point, Elijah. Porn is definitely built on an illusion (of connection, of intimacy) and creates addictive patterns that change us and put strain on future relationships.

  • @MattB.1
    @MattB.1 2 роки тому +2

    Hope there is at least an opportunity to bring you to the Bay Area and you give a retreat!

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      I'll still be doing retreats and speaking engagements after I leave GOARCH. At least, for a little while.

  • @randypittman279
    @randypittman279 2 роки тому

    The light emanating from Christian at 1:52 had me worried he had drank from the Holy Grail or opened the Ark of the Covenant or something! (I'll respond with deeper thoughts when I've finished the episode!)

    • @randypittman279
      @randypittman279 2 роки тому

      12:33 I'm not so sure the internet is the source of this division so much as presenting major opportunities to expand it and deepen it. I might say I put on a mask every time I interact with people "IRL" because I want people to think a certain way of me. Digital communication certainly feels less genuine though.

    • @randypittman279
      @randypittman279 2 роки тому

      Also, I can't help thinking that the division I've heard spoken most of in the church would be that between the mind and the heart, or the intellect and the nous. Perhaps that's another way of talking about this division between the presented self and the true self?
      In any case, even with our modern technology I'm very hesitant to assent that there can be anything new under the sun, (i.e. a new division in humanity) though the old divisions may certainly take new forms.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@randypittman279 You can probably read the mind/heart division in these terms, since our basic ascetic work is returning the mind into the heart, as is said.
      But we wanted to really stress the current problem, which is our systematic disconnection from reality (and even ourselves).
      What does it mean to return the mind to the heart (which is something that flows from the last episode, 176) when we've lost touch with ourselves and even basic reality?

    • @randypittman279
      @randypittman279 2 роки тому +1

      I do think about why I want to spend time on the internet and I suppose it has to do with a mix of wanting to escape some present discomfort/boredom and FOMO (what's the latest news I should be keeping up on, what's the latest technology I need to know about, etc.).
      And when I open UA-cam there's this subliminal voice of me telling my phone, "Amuse me!" I guess that's kinda creepy.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@randypittman279 Logismoi!
      ua-cam.com/video/_zPFuoy6-Yo/v-deo.html

  • @TickledFunnyBone
    @TickledFunnyBone 2 роки тому

    Brother as though this was Paul writing to the corinthians, i am a greek orthodox christian. and am in fact 25% greek. as tradition i have empirically sought the lord our savior as orthodox as i possibly as i have been able to do so. however unfortunately i was raised as the spartan children have been raised traditionally. i have been homeless half of my life and what goes with it. i do not recognize myself in the mirror regardless of the wilderness o f mirrors. who has that kind of time? I am a Psych-Law behavior Analyst student and Greek Orthodox by nature. the ego and pride collide as the fault line of gold and as proverbs says; wisdom, knowledge and understanding are more to be sought than silver and gold. and then again and furthermore; seek wisdom, seek knowledge and in all your getting SEEK UNDERSTANDING! my behaviorism is all about asking questions. why? it is not about control to ask a question right brother? much love from Minnesota nice. i fear those who talk about altruism and do nothing when i am doing altruism listening to lies. we know where glory belongs correct brother? lord have mercy, lord have mercy, lord have mercy.

  • @OrthodoxChristianBeliever
    @OrthodoxChristianBeliever Рік тому

    To Answer The Three Question, Number One, I Have A Bible Right Next To my Bed, Actually, Five Bibles Next To my bed, A KJV 1611, A KJV, An NLT, An NKJV, And A HCSB
    Number Two, I Have Community At Saint Nicholas's Greek Orthodox Church
    Number Three, It's hard to Express What u Wanna Say To The Protestant Church. I didn't leave The Protestant Church. The Protestant Church left me.

  • @TheActualCorrectOpinion
    @TheActualCorrectOpinion 11 місяців тому

    But I like derealization because it makes me feel high without taking drugs

  • @nv6679
    @nv6679 2 роки тому

    The intro to this video is very disturbing. I just sat down to watch with my children and the scene of young girls in lingerie taking selfies was not necessary to make your point. Shameful! How can anyone take this seriously after that?

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому +2

      The point of that clip (which didn't include lingerie or anything inappropriate) was to contrast the superficial preening we often do on social media, especially in contrast to the real struggles people hide.
      While the clip itself wasn't "shameful," we included it to illustrate that girls in particular are often tempted to present themselves in superficial and unhealthy ways online.
      People should take these issues very seriously. And should raise them with their children when the time is right.

    • @nv6679
      @nv6679 2 роки тому

      @@stevenchristoforou1667 to illustrate?? I am sorry but our imagination and real life experiences can come up with exactly the point you tried to convey in this episode. And yes, it is lingerie not pajamas - Pink satin pajamas with black lace, I guess?? For the record, my kids immediately found it uncomfortable when the scene came on.
      I've always appreciated your videos and was shocked to see this. Keeping our eyes pure (among other senses) is a battle parents are struggling with in the age of internet. Adding a scene like this does not help in any way.

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      @@nv6679 Sorry to have caused offense.

  • @blabccdcdc7200
    @blabccdcdc7200 2 роки тому

    Please explain in details the orthodox key words of the Philokalia. Stop doing more Reformist-like videos. You're greek and most orthodox are not in America and some in Europe and everywhere. There is a cruel need of understandings for the words: nous, logos, thymos, epithymos, logistikon. Don't think people are not interested by the heart of orthodoxy. Nobody like a book but not open it. This is something you can do and which is useful. Kindly reward. Thanks

    • @stevenchristoforou1667
      @stevenchristoforou1667 2 роки тому

      I'm not sure what any of that has to do with this video.
      Or what makes this a "reformist-like" video?

    • @emolovesblack28
      @emolovesblack28 2 роки тому

      We love this channel but it's really a kids channel. I only understand a few of those words, but I'm not sure all the concepts can be taught at a kids level. You're right that we need the education though. Fr Peter Heers would probably be very well suited to that if he hasn't already covered it in one of his videos.

  • @grabeless1656
    @grabeless1656 Рік тому

    Oh man this is out my mind..made me feel i am not alone thinking these staff many times..
    All these.. Twitter Facebook bla bla
    Its like its been here since forever when they are here only like 10-13 now..
    Sb has to break out and say it live on bbc.these things are DESTROYING US. At least the way we use is surely..

  • @Walte25
    @Walte25 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you!