It's nice to admire a man who is not weak. I've had 4 long term relationships in life, im 35. Only one of them the man wasn't weak and dependant. Guess who is the most successful one in life today? Guess who was the only one who truly respected me and done zero abuse? 😊
I do love this as a Gen X. When I was younger it was “common knowledge “ that women just weren’t capable of leading, being doctors, getting ahead in school, etc etc etc. Fast forward a few decades and it’s “men are being left behind!!!!” 😂 And we’re just getting started….
Yeah, until society collapses due to losing the side of the population in charge of keeping civilization alive. No more plumbers, manual labor, etc... When AI replaces us all, and mass suicide begins, and resources get depleted, Mother Earth will turn things back to normal. A restart. Nothing escapes the power of our material conditions, and if you leave people behind, they will take away things from you by force as they will have nothing to lose at that point. We really live in a mice utopia, it will eventually just fail and crash hard and painfully.
@@IronJhon788 you realize that women can do those jobs. Men are also gatekeepers in these jobs and don't allow women in. When men were away at war, women did the jobs men did. Until men came back home and women were maneuvered back into the house.
@@IronJhon788 Drones keep us alive. Men are no longer drafted or pressganged....? Dunno what you're carping about honestly?? Men wanted to replace themselves. My aunt is a plumber. I have done manual labour. So? Women wanna live in the woods in a cottage. MEN want the urban penthouse dystopic view of a high tech civilization. Women don't mind a reset: MEN DO! You have a fatalistic, nihilistic view of things to blame shift to external factors, called an external locus of control. How can we leave men behind if they're THE LEADERS? "By force" nope, that fanfiction has never happened. Men already have nothing to lose. Malthus was incorrect, look into it.
@@hevabmore Logically, how can we leave behind the men if they're naturally The Leaders? So if they NEED women to lead for them, was it really natural or does he expect a bailout? Methinks a bailout.
Stellar points!! , but honestly I do not believe in masculine, feminine energy. It still has that touch of gender roles attached ya know? More like active, passive energy Active energy is impulsive, hard discipline, takes willpower but incites change Passive energy is years of experience and knowledge, logical thinking, strategizing, intuition. We both need the yin and Yang to balance life, some people just have more of active energy that it burns them out, they forget to dip into calm passivity, vice versa may happen
I don't really think about it like energies but labor, it's always labor. I've been called masculine because I'm austitic just because I choose some different skills. Those traits are not masculine nor femenine but labor profiles that changed according to the era. Men just don't know how to work, on themselves, on others, at work, outside of work, that's why they rely on other people's work. Men stopped adulting a long tome ago, forget about parenting, we're talking basic social skills. And as women we were kinda force to adult sooner than them. These "energies" talks could lead people into neo conspirituality, since it comes from cult dynamics that were heavily focus on shmegs as "healing" lead by shady dudes of course.
Well, socialization does begin at their operative "home" since not bothering to learn emotional intelligence or to take care of their own hygiene does depend on the direct role models that are their parent(s) and extended families and neighborhood. And then its reinforced by school and the rest of society. So if their heroes were people who "was the man"; so to say a person who had the image, title and status while surrounded by help-mes, then that's what they'll likely regurgitate since that's the privilege they might aspire to. At least, that's one possibility.
like video games being called masculine but actually the victorians considered all board games including chess feminine because it wasn't outdoors involving active effort
The line for masculine, and feminine, is mostly feminine also according to societal standards. Society has limited what men are allowed to do while still being considered masculine so drastically that the majority of human behavior falls onto the feminine. It also still tries to say that women are masculine when they do anything beyond the halfway mark even though it's been deemed not masculine. So... a man isn't masculine if he does anything beyond the far end of that line, and a woman isn't feminine if she does anything on that half of the scale. That leaves about 2/6ths of human behavior is basically not allowed by anyone without them being shamed by someone.
In nature the males are given certain attributes to help them obtain a mate. This is almost always physical. Human men are acting like they have to have only the physical attribute to get a mate, but humans aren't like other animal species. We have additional higher functioning brains, and that means that mental attributes become a necessity in choosing a mate as well. Men in general don't focus on that aspect of their matability. They choose to run around like peacocks, and will not put in the mental work to be a decent partner.
the word society itself when you entomology it means 1530s, "companionship, friendly association with others," from Old French societe "company" and we ascribe these things to be feminine.
@@martibee8984 yeah but the men solved them not having the rest of the traits by dupping women into doing all the stuff like peacocking, bringing food, building and designing the nest, and then she praises him as if he did any of it all he has to do is sex and even then she'll pretend it was good and praise him for worst lay ever.
Hello! I appreciate the articulate way you break down complex ideas about gender. Do you have a patreon? I don't engage much in public forums but would love to support your work.
That why i dont listen to 99% of folks talking about maculine or feminine energy because they're all speaking on performative tasks created by the patriarchy on either side. None of them have ever read or researched books like the kybalion that discuss the 7 hermetic principles. 1 being gender. So alot of what's being said online goes in one ear and right out the other. 🙄
I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy. The book gene keys is genius . Yon and Yang ☯️ The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself. It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace. I don’t need a man. I am my own man.
I don’t know what you’re basing your idea of masculine and feminine on, especially since you say we all have both. We should just stop calling things masculine and feminine all together, and just encourage and foster good traits in everyone.
'Emotional Labor' by Rose Hackman has a section on people performing feminine attributes: empathetic, insightful, warm, expressive other directed and more aware of the feelings of others while masculine attributes are usually: self directed, active, decisive, performance driven, etc. Not the whole list so it would be better to read the book. Of course, don't like the terms, don't use them.
A man’s worst date is a woman rejecting them sex and attention then having to pay for her. A woman’s worst date is getting raped and tortured, and then having to bear her rapist’s child because she lives in a state that has banned abortion. We do NOT move in this society the same way and we CANNOT PRETEND AND IGNORE these differences if we want anything to change. The first step to change is acceptance and i dont think the USA has ever accepted the true misogyny and sexism that permeates so many aspects of our lives. Society still sees women as caregivers, mothers, and stay at home moms before anything else. Working women are usually always expected to be the one to plan birthdays, socials, and keep the office maintained even if that’s not their job description. What im getting at is: we can preach “encourage good traits in everyone and get rid of dividing language” but there are limits to how much we can get rid of if society is too stubborn to change. There is simply no way in our current society and biologically that we can try and pretend we are the same; frankly, we’ve tried to pretend, and it doesn’t work because men are not at the same level of seeing women as equals on par to men. Men will always be the issue if we continue to live in a patriarchal society where a rapist and felon can become the US President.
As a man I agree with most of what you have said. There is a problem though... No matter how much women complain about men, they will never change things unless they change the material conditions that make those things a reallity in the first place. Structural problems are a result of the underlying material conditions, that's an inescapable fact, and man can only improve individually and in context, but the overall structure states the same. The pathriarchy was born as a consequence of agriculture, and still until today, we expect men to be more successful than women, and base their value on that success, hence the rewarding of assertive and aggressive behaviours. It is truth that men are dehumanized, both by themeselves and by womnen. Those women who say that they want vulnerable and emotional men, have never known vulnerable and emotional man, spoilers: They will absolutely not love them... It is what it is, and society will hopefully collapse by the effect of its weight in the future, so we can restart.
the issue is misunderstanding Jung, gender psychology is Jungian and everyone was meant to have BOTH traits. Marketing to one or the other was Bernays in the 1900s especially in the 50s.
Lady, stop dividing people. Men vs women is not the problem. If you really want to know, start learning about the threads of the current world. There is evil and influence all over. Now imagine you are forced to "play along".
I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy. The book gene keys is genius . Yon and Yang ☯️ The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself. It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace. I don’t need a man. I am my own man.
I really enjoy your content, you are spot on regarding so many issues. Thank you for what you do!
Thank you so much that means the world!!! 🩷🫂
@@yv_edit ❤ Sorry! For some reason I can't just heart your reply. Take care :)
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It's nice to admire a man who is not weak. I've had 4 long term relationships in life, im 35. Only one of them the man wasn't weak and dependant. Guess who is the most successful one in life today? Guess who was the only one who truly respected me and done zero abuse? 😊
I do love this as a Gen X. When I was younger it was “common knowledge “ that women just weren’t capable of leading, being doctors, getting ahead in school, etc etc etc.
Fast forward a few decades and it’s “men are being left behind!!!!” 😂
And we’re just getting started….
Yeah, until society collapses due to losing the side of the population in charge of keeping civilization alive. No more plumbers, manual labor, etc... When AI replaces us all, and mass suicide begins, and resources get depleted, Mother Earth will turn things back to normal. A restart. Nothing escapes the power of our material conditions, and if you leave people behind, they will take away things from you by force as they will have nothing to lose at that point. We really live in a mice utopia, it will eventually just fail and crash hard and painfully.
@@IronJhon788 you realize that women can do those jobs. Men are also gatekeepers in these jobs and don't allow women in. When men were away at war, women did the jobs men did. Until men came back home and women were maneuvered back into the house.
Tesla predicted this in his article When Woman is Boss. It's hilarious.
@@IronJhon788 Drones keep us alive. Men are no longer drafted or pressganged....? Dunno what you're carping about honestly?? Men wanted to replace themselves. My aunt is a plumber. I have done manual labour. So? Women wanna live in the woods in a cottage. MEN want the urban penthouse dystopic view of a high tech civilization. Women don't mind a reset: MEN DO! You have a fatalistic, nihilistic view of things to blame shift to external factors, called an external locus of control. How can we leave men behind if they're THE LEADERS? "By force" nope, that fanfiction has never happened. Men already have nothing to lose. Malthus was incorrect, look into it.
@@hevabmore Logically, how can we leave behind the men if they're naturally The Leaders? So if they NEED women to lead for them, was it really natural or does he expect a bailout? Methinks a bailout.
Keep up the great work! You're changing lives ❤
Stellar points!! , but honestly I do not believe in masculine, feminine energy. It still has that touch of gender roles attached ya know?
More like active, passive energy
Active energy is impulsive, hard discipline, takes willpower but incites change
Passive energy is years of experience and knowledge, logical thinking, strategizing, intuition.
We both need the yin and Yang to balance life, some people just have more of active energy that it burns them out, they forget to dip into calm passivity, vice versa may happen
I love this channel. Commenting for the algorithm
Reminds me of that post about how vaginas can lift weight and other stuff, lol
you gotta do twice as much when it is acceptable for one part to do nothing.
Accepted, not acceptable
I don't really think about it like energies but labor, it's always labor. I've been called masculine because I'm austitic just because I choose some different skills. Those traits are not masculine nor femenine but labor profiles that changed according to the era. Men just don't know how to work, on themselves, on others, at work, outside of work, that's why they rely on other people's work. Men stopped adulting a long tome ago, forget about parenting, we're talking basic social skills. And as women we were kinda force to adult sooner than them. These "energies" talks could lead people into neo conspirituality, since it comes from cult dynamics that were heavily focus on shmegs as "healing" lead by shady dudes of course.
Well, socialization does begin at their operative "home" since not bothering to learn emotional intelligence or to take care of their own hygiene does depend on the direct role models that are their parent(s) and extended families and neighborhood. And then its reinforced by school and the rest of society. So if their heroes were people who "was the man"; so to say a person who had the image, title and status while surrounded by help-mes, then that's what they'll likely regurgitate since that's the privilege they might aspire to. At least, that's one possibility.
like video games being called masculine but actually the victorians considered all board games including chess feminine because it wasn't outdoors involving active effort
@@readinggeorgeeliot1489 they know self sufficiency is expected of adults, even toddlers know to pick up their own toys
The line for masculine, and feminine, is mostly feminine also according to societal standards. Society has limited what men are allowed to do while still being considered masculine so drastically that the majority of human behavior falls onto the feminine. It also still tries to say that women are masculine when they do anything beyond the halfway mark even though it's been deemed not masculine. So... a man isn't masculine if he does anything beyond the far end of that line, and a woman isn't feminine if she does anything on that half of the scale. That leaves about 2/6ths of human behavior is basically not allowed by anyone without them being shamed by someone.
In nature the males are given certain attributes to help them obtain a mate. This is almost always physical. Human men are acting like they have to have only the physical attribute to get a mate, but humans aren't like other animal species. We have additional higher functioning brains, and that means that mental attributes become a necessity in choosing a mate as well. Men in general don't focus on that aspect of their matability. They choose to run around like peacocks, and will not put in the mental work to be a decent partner.
the word society itself when you entomology it means 1530s, "companionship, friendly association with others," from Old French societe "company" and we ascribe these things to be feminine.
@@martibee8984 yeah but the men solved them not having the rest of the traits by dupping women into doing all the stuff like peacocking, bringing food, building and designing the nest, and then she praises him as if he did any of it all he has to do is sex and even then she'll pretend it was good and praise him for worst lay ever.
Ever entered male living spaces?
Girl, you are clever, you can literally write a good book for us.
Brilliant, thank you so much 🫶🏽❤️
Great video agreed👏
Hello! I appreciate the articulate way you break down complex ideas about gender. Do you have a patreon? I don't engage much in public forums but would love to support your work.
@@hannahsims7510 the audaci-tea podcast she hosts has one
100% agree.
That why i dont listen to 99% of folks talking about maculine or feminine energy because they're all speaking on performative tasks created by the patriarchy on either side. None of them have ever read or researched books like the kybalion that discuss the 7 hermetic principles. 1 being gender. So alot of what's being said online goes in one ear and right out the other. 🙄
The masculinity-femininity myth is just that.
I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy.
The book gene keys is genius .
Yon and Yang ☯️
The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself.
It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace.
I don’t need a man. I am my own man.
Interesting paradigm
This!!!❤
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Sounds like i need a leash! 😊
I don’t know what you’re basing your idea of masculine and feminine on, especially since you say we all have both. We should just stop calling things masculine and feminine all together, and just encourage and foster good traits in everyone.
THIS.
I agree with her. Names are for particular things and there's a cost for throwing names away
'Emotional Labor' by Rose Hackman has a section on people performing feminine attributes: empathetic, insightful, warm, expressive other directed and more aware of the feelings of others while masculine attributes are usually: self directed, active, decisive, performance driven, etc. Not the whole list so it would be better to read the book.
Of course, don't like the terms, don't use them.
A man’s worst date is a woman rejecting them sex and attention then having to pay for her. A woman’s worst date is getting raped and tortured, and then having to bear her rapist’s child because she lives in a state that has banned abortion. We do NOT move in this society the same way and we CANNOT PRETEND AND IGNORE these differences if we want anything to change. The first step to change is acceptance and i dont think the USA has ever accepted the true misogyny and sexism that permeates so many aspects of our lives.
Society still sees women as caregivers, mothers, and stay at home moms before anything else. Working women are usually always expected to be the one to plan birthdays, socials, and keep the office maintained even if that’s not their job description.
What im getting at is: we can preach “encourage good traits in everyone and get rid of dividing language” but there are limits to how much we can get rid of if society is too stubborn to change. There is simply no way in our current society and biologically that we can try and pretend we are the same; frankly, we’ve tried to pretend, and it doesn’t work because men are not at the same level of seeing women as equals on par to men. Men will always be the issue if we continue to live in a patriarchal society where a rapist and felon can become the US President.
She didn't make that shit up. Those terms and definitions of them are all from alchemy
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You want to challenge me to this???
As a man I agree with most of what you have said. There is a problem though... No matter how much women complain about men, they will never change things unless they change the material conditions that make those things a reallity in the first place. Structural problems are a result of the underlying material conditions, that's an inescapable fact, and man can only improve individually and in context, but the overall structure states the same.
The pathriarchy was born as a consequence of agriculture, and still until today, we expect men to be more successful than women, and base their value on that success, hence the rewarding of assertive and aggressive behaviours.
It is truth that men are dehumanized, both by themeselves and by womnen. Those women who say that they want vulnerable and emotional men, have never known vulnerable and emotional man, spoilers: They will absolutely not love them... It is what it is, and society will hopefully collapse by the effect of its weight in the future, so we can restart.
And ofcourse, as usual, it's never men's fault. Some how women are to blame for men's choices. Like it's actually ridiculous at this point.
the issue is misunderstanding Jung, gender psychology is Jungian and everyone was meant to have BOTH traits. Marketing to one or the other was Bernays in the 1900s especially in the 50s.
@Dee_Dee216 yeah it is the responsibility of women to fix men's issues. When have men ever fixed women's issues for us lol ??
Have you checked the book Saharasia?
Also, the agriculture thing was debunked already. Matriarchies have food forests.
Lady, stop dividing people. Men vs women is not the problem. If you really want to know, start learning about the threads of the current world. There is evil and influence all over. Now imagine you are forced to "play along".
“wELl aCtUAllY the problem is wHatAbouTiSM.” F off, wmn here aren’t falling for that.
Gender based violence stats would say otherwise
your mansplaining is hilarious
I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy.
The book gene keys is genius .
Yon and Yang ☯️
The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself.
It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace.
I don’t need a man. I am my own man.