"You Loving Me Doesn't Mean Anything!" Whitney Finally Confronts Chase | My Big Fat Fabulous Life

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  • Опубліковано 14 лют 2021
  • Whitney decides to confront Chase face-to-face, but will it be the closure she needs to move on with her life?
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  • @awalker2723
    @awalker2723 3 роки тому +2577

    He cheated on her and got someone else pregnant, but he doesn't want her to hate him ! She's better off without him.

    • @garbo8962
      @garbo8962 3 роки тому +11

      Yes exactly 💯

    • @kuntarinirahsilawati920
      @kuntarinirahsilawati920 3 роки тому +23

      With his smirk on his face when saying it....

    • @amberkeys2124
      @amberkeys2124 3 роки тому +5

      Yasss she is an I'm only 30 mins from Greensboro I wish I could meet Whitney! Me and mom love her an the show!!!

    • @realhousewifeoftransylvania1.0
      @realhousewifeoftransylvania1.0 3 роки тому +14

      Come on now, who actually believed this relationship was real?!😂

    • @TragicallyCharmed
      @TragicallyCharmed 3 роки тому +3

      The relarionship was fake for the show.. seriously.. she was supposed to do a crossover for say yes to the dress but the baby ruined her plans hence her screaming and losing her voice. Shes AWFUL

  • @bellequiroz4731
    @bellequiroz4731 3 роки тому +1955

    Not him pointing at her dog when he said “you have a family too” 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @hannahalexis9233
    @hannahalexis9233 3 роки тому +1452

    He doesn’t care. At all

    • @truenorth7949
      @truenorth7949 3 роки тому +26

      and he's a huge pos for leading her on.

    • @jaeshasway
      @jaeshasway 3 роки тому +25

      IKR. Saying he loved her, past tense. He’s having a baby with someone he started a relationship with knowing that he was with someone else. He’s a Simp and a liar. Good riddance.

    • @misbahailia3345
      @misbahailia3345 3 роки тому +9

      I think he actually likes seeing her heartbroken.

    • @snailpocky
      @snailpocky 3 роки тому +6

      he’s smiling at 5:34

    • @iy3384
      @iy3384 2 роки тому

      Facts

  • @TemplePriestess
    @TemplePriestess 3 роки тому +1599

    Why does this feel like cheating and getting someone else pregnant was a way for him to get out of the relationship with Whitney?

    • @chikensaregood9500
      @chikensaregood9500 3 роки тому +101

      whether he loved her or not he obviously lost interest because he didn't care enough to fight for their relationship whitney is crazy and a karen so I don't blame him

    • @blackbirdgallagher9193
      @blackbirdgallagher9193 3 роки тому +15

      I think the same too..Such a coward!

    • @chloesheler1927
      @chloesheler1927 3 роки тому +58

      He didn’t care about her at all, and left her after getting someone pregnant. I get he has to be a father, but you don’t just leave the person you love for the person you knocked up just because they are the mother of your child. You can still have a child and be there for both the child and it’s mother without being in a relationship with the mother.

    • @ceciliaramoscastillo2809
      @ceciliaramoscastillo2809 3 роки тому +5

      For sure!!!

    • @ceciliaramoscastillo2809
      @ceciliaramoscastillo2809 3 роки тому +15

      Like girl... Run... Why are you talking to him???

  • @Anquavious7
    @Anquavious7 3 роки тому +479

    That was so f****d up. I’m a dude and I felt her pain...

    • @prettyfacedes5082
      @prettyfacedes5082 3 роки тому +10

      That is I feel what she feels 😖

    • @stardustgirl2904
      @stardustgirl2904 2 роки тому +7

      People play around with life, and have way to much sex without actually being married and having real love!💜🙏🏻🆘

    • @tierna2423
      @tierna2423 2 роки тому +6

      @@stardustgirl2904 having sex with light being married isn’t the problem that’s a bit of fun no harm but when ur cheating and not being safe that’s the issue

    • @sunmoonstars0369
      @sunmoonstars0369 2 роки тому +2

      They where engaged.

    • @swimmer7189
      @swimmer7189 2 роки тому +3

      Yes, men can feel empathy too.

  • @katieg7718
    @katieg7718 3 роки тому +565

    "i don't hate you, i love you. thats the f*** problem" that broke my heart for her.

    • @AK-lg6ju
      @AK-lg6ju 2 роки тому +5

      It was fake, he’s an actor, she knows it wasn’t real, the funny part is that there’s people who believe it

    • @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother
      @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother 2 роки тому +19

      @@AK-lg6ju It's much more likely he used her for clout due to her show. But go off with absolutely no proof.

    • @omnistpagan3282
      @omnistpagan3282 2 роки тому +2

      @@AK-lg6ju Yeah too many people believe reality tv is real. Oh well at least as they’re entertained I guess.

    • @kerryhansen882
      @kerryhansen882 2 роки тому +2

      Well it didn't last long her so called love for him did it,she couldn't wait to jump into another relationship

    • @AK-lg6ju
      @AK-lg6ju 2 роки тому +2

      @@kerryhansen882 another paid actor

  • @catvanpatton4925
    @catvanpatton4925 3 роки тому +1556

    She wasn't talking to him for days and that's why he slept with another woman??? The whole conversation was just for him to feel better... Poor Whitney. Not a fan of her either but no one deserves to be treated and betrayed like that. He doesn't care at all for her. Selfish prick.

    • @peggyhobbs3119
      @peggyhobbs3119 3 роки тому +52

      He is a jerk end of story. Get rid of him probably not even his.

    • @ancastanescu4190
      @ancastanescu4190 3 роки тому +21

      Honestly, if half of the shit that he did to her happened to me, he would've been out of my life without even a "good bye"

    • @somejabroni51
      @somejabroni51 3 роки тому +10

      Don’t have any of the other context of this, but her getting mad at him for not talking when she didn’t want to talk is kind of insane lmao
      Edit: I hate this guy

    • @chalbakathomas336
      @chalbakathomas336 3 роки тому +1

      @@somejabroni51 😂❤️😂 you are hilarious!

    • @farzana2686
      @farzana2686 2 роки тому +4

      @@ancastanescu4190 he's clearly a narc and doesn't care about how she feels, most likely she was manipulated to stay and still love him

  • @caylarose6658
    @caylarose6658 3 роки тому +275

    Wow he really didn't care about her

    • @greetonsmith6350
      @greetonsmith6350 3 роки тому +16

      His sick smile throughout their convo was making my stomach turn

  • @unknownshorty8699
    @unknownshorty8699 3 роки тому +401

    “I’m sorry, I’m so sorry” fam look at his face. Not an ounce of remorse. I’d fight the shit outta him. This girl deserves better, she’s been thru way too much

  • @Jasminerogers865
    @Jasminerogers865 3 роки тому +765

    I got broken up with on valentines day and I felt every single tear Whitney is currently feeling. I hope she can carry on and get into a relationship she deserves.

    • @honeygirlification
      @honeygirlification 3 роки тому +33

      Same. Couple days before Valentine’s, but he left me after almost 9 years. 😭
      It’s murder to your soul. Your body is just left behind. I’m literally a shell of emotional pain. I feel so bad for her bc I get it.

    • @kendramontgomery2005
      @kendramontgomery2005 3 роки тому +12

      If you ever need a friend I'm here for you

    • @mariannea7523
      @mariannea7523 3 роки тому +8

      @@honeygirlification Hope you're doing okay xx

    • @hannahcohen3824
      @hannahcohen3824 3 роки тому +7

      Hang in there, it will get easier xxx

    • @nyawilson7393
      @nyawilson7393 3 роки тому +6

      Ugh I feel you! My ex left me on Valentines day and he was horrible to me. I never got the chance to leave him 🙄.

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 3 роки тому +419

    Dude... he's being selfish by meeting with her. He's only trying to make himself feel better. I will say at least he told her the truth!

    • @VetriVade
      @VetriVade 3 роки тому +1

      Nah then people would be calling him a pussy for ending it over the phone instead of in person

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 3 роки тому +2

      Did he though? Did he only sleep with her once?

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 2 роки тому

      TV time

  • @margaretramirez7278
    @margaretramirez7278 3 роки тому +412

    He wanted closure so he could feel better.

    • @jjmunna
      @jjmunna 3 роки тому +3

      I think your right.

    • @greetonsmith6350
      @greetonsmith6350 3 роки тому +5

      probably trying to save his image on TV as well but obviously that didn't work out well for him

    • @crimsonite2044
      @crimsonite2044 5 місяців тому

      And not be dragged by the fans…which did not work

  • @yehoshuasmith5608
    @yehoshuasmith5608 3 роки тому +202

    "You have a family too.."
    *points at dog*
    - I feel like that's rubbing salt in the wound dude lmao... he's really bad at reconciliation

  • @8prettykitty6
    @8prettykitty6 3 роки тому +410

    I learned over the past month that getting closure is pointless. Spend that time healing and rebuilding. If they were ment to be there, they would act like it.

    • @tandiholcomb5048
      @tandiholcomb5048 3 роки тому +19

      I have a good "getting closure" procedure, it's called.... BYE FELICIA, GTFO.

    • @angeliquefleetwood7305
      @angeliquefleetwood7305 3 роки тому +9

      If that’s you in your profile pic, you’re gorgeous

    • @rcook9083
      @rcook9083 2 роки тому +3

      Closure is an overused word. Never have I heard someone say. All better I have closure I used my words.

    • @MustacheBritt
      @MustacheBritt 2 роки тому

      Mad facts!

    • @a697ag
      @a697ag 2 роки тому +5

      He wasn't there to give her closure. He wanted to see her pain. In person. Because some people get off on that shit. He's a terrible person! This was not an "accident". You don't accidentally fall down naked inside another woman, penis first.

  • @mamad.908
    @mamad.908 3 роки тому +2039

    I would laugh if Chase isn't even the father to the baby🤣 That would be great karma for him!

    • @shannonkonkus7018
      @shannonkonkus7018 3 роки тому +46

      Why have I been thinking the same thing lol

    • @TwinCitiesFancy
      @TwinCitiesFancy 3 роки тому +27

      Thinking the same thing.

    • @ceciliaramoscastillo2809
      @ceciliaramoscastillo2809 3 роки тому +31

      That would be like fucking GREAT!!!

    • @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160
      @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160 3 роки тому +11

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @youmaydisagreebut848
      @youmaydisagreebut848 3 роки тому +28

      Even if the baby wasn't his, this was his ultimate escape plan from whitney.
      Men don't tend to marry Fat, Entitled, Obnoxious, Narcissistic, Older Women ... Regardless of the Money she has...
      Men value Youth and Beauty.
      FAT Is NOT Beautiful.
      We see that time and time again...
      In whitneys case we see this Season after Season...
      So pay attention and Wake up...
      Or not, your choice.

  • @jazzyj6640
    @jazzyj6640 3 роки тому +212

    He’s disgusting. He never loved her.

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 2 роки тому +4

      No kidding. And she is way out of her league thinking that he is really interested delusional

    • @jazzyj6640
      @jazzyj6640 2 роки тому +2

      @@donpeace894 I thought he genuinely was but then again I stopped watching her show so I didn’t really see them interact

    • @amberreid6242
      @amberreid6242 2 роки тому +4

      Sometimes things happen without intent. At least he said “I’m gonna be there for my daughter!” That’s tough. He did the absolute right thing in the wrong situation. That baby will always be more important than any woman. And honestly, would you want her raising your kid? Her relationships are all selfish

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 2 роки тому +2

      @@amberreid6242 he just wanted to be on TV lol

    • @amberreid6242
      @amberreid6242 2 роки тому +6

      @@donpeace894 which is fine, Whitney’s nothing great an exploits everyone on her show for views. I’m glad he took care of his kid

  • @Thisplaceisaprison3912
    @Thisplaceisaprison3912 3 роки тому +246

    He just makes himself look worse every time he opens his mouth.

  • @TivonyByTifani
    @TivonyByTifani 3 роки тому +62

    It’s a reason why that ring washed away in the ocean. God was giving you a sign Whitney.

  • @StEmS509
    @StEmS509 3 роки тому +608

    How is he going to feel when his daughter grows up & meets a jerk like himself & he does this same thing to her🤔

    • @ABaguette
      @ABaguette 3 роки тому +34

      I hope his daughter never experiences this.

    • @greetonsmith6350
      @greetonsmith6350 3 роки тому +18

      the circle of chauvinism

    • @Hannahbanana353
      @Hannahbanana353 3 роки тому +21

      Let’s hope that never happens to her.

    • @courtneyjackson7181
      @courtneyjackson7181 2 роки тому +10

      Very rare men would consider that

    • @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother
      @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother 2 роки тому +12

      @@courtneyjackson7181 Nah men consider that all the time. Especially those dads who threaten to shoot their daughter's bf if he ever hurts her. They just have this amazing ability to be massively hypocritical.

  • @d4nimalz
    @d4nimalz 3 роки тому +133

    His body language and the way he talks to her ......... he doesn't care he most likely just doesn't want to seem bad in front of thousands of people.He's not speaking from the heart.You would think a regular person would at least shed a tear.

  • @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother
    @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother 2 роки тому +215

    The part where he says he'd be happy for HER if she was the one who got pregnant, but with this other woman he's happy for THEM that this woman is pregnant is super telling.

    • @zoeknap9777
      @zoeknap9777 2 роки тому +11

      Exactly what i thought when he made a point of saying that, basically saying well id dump you so youd end up being a single mum anyway

    • @bossladyghana6303
      @bossladyghana6303 2 роки тому +8

      THANK YOU
      I'm surprised she didn't catch that

    • @greeenfilter8084
      @greeenfilter8084 Рік тому +4

      I would have been excited for YOU…. damn 😅

    • @blueprint0162
      @blueprint0162 6 місяців тому

      Facts 🎯

  • @ancastanescu4190
    @ancastanescu4190 3 роки тому +209

    "I would've been excited for you"
    I like how he sais he's excited to have a little girl with the other woman, but if she was pregnant, he would've been happy for Whitney cuz that's what she wanted, not for the child and be happy for them both. Bruh...

    • @greetonsmith6350
      @greetonsmith6350 3 роки тому +28

      He's really playing mind games with her with the language he uses. I think he's actually quite cruel but he just does it with a smile

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 3 роки тому +10

      See that’s the part that confused me. Obviously she was asking if they had gotten pregnant together, right? For him to say he would have been happy for her made it seem like she was asking what if she cheated and had gotten pregnant. I’m pretty sure the first question is what she was asking, but he used the second answer to avoid having to say that he wouldn’t want to have a family with her, and he wouldn’t be excited. I just don’t understand why men propose to women if they don’t want to have children with them. Clearly, he had other motives.

    • @faithmallard8912
      @faithmallard8912 Рік тому

      @@greetonsmith6350 right. talking about some “if you want me to go away forever i will but i wanna hear you say it not through text or phone” 😒 like what type of shit is that to say

  • @Alomusiclife
    @Alomusiclife 3 роки тому +668

    Also don’t get mad when your “Little girl” gets hurt like you hurt her.

    • @LorenaFlag
      @LorenaFlag 3 роки тому +15

      That is what i was thinking, too

    • @donnaleigh5001
      @donnaleigh5001 3 роки тому +16

      All MusicLife - Leave the little baby out of it. Don’t be a Creep and bring the baby into it In any way...

    • @Alomusiclife
      @Alomusiclife 3 роки тому +21

      @@donnaleigh5001 I’m not being a creep - it’s going to be like when how’ll he would feel like a father - please re read

    • @jjmunna
      @jjmunna 3 роки тому +9

      I hope that doesn't happen

    • @naomigiselle2725
      @naomigiselle2725 3 роки тому +3

      @@jjmunna i hope it does so he’ll finally understand the pain he caused Whitney when it happens to his baby.

  • @CreatureFeature3
    @CreatureFeature3 3 роки тому +109

    Maybe loosing the ring at the beach was a good idea after all😁

  • @BK-dv3hh
    @BK-dv3hh 2 роки тому +65

    He doesn’t care, he’s high key happy and you can tell. Wow, how can you do this to somebody

  • @jaeshasway
    @jaeshasway 3 роки тому +83

    His cheating was fate. She should be happy to be rid of him. He’s a straight up coward. Unplanned? Accident? He chose to cheat and chose to not use protection. He had zero intentions of marrying her. None.

  • @charly3575
    @charly3575 3 роки тому +154

    This happened to my sister. Her boyfriend made sure she was on the pill and lo and behold, had a whoops with another woman. It broke my sister’s heart even though she braved up and cut the cad loose. Turns out he and his new wife split after 3 years. Better yet turns out the kid was not even his. Sometimes Karma serves all of us well. My sister poured her energies into her work. Had a wonderful portfolio with 3 properties, one in Las Vegas and 2 in Hawaii. She decided kids were not for her and is living a truly wonderful life having called all the shots in all of her relationships! Find your backbone ladies. It’s so worth it!

    • @charly3575
      @charly3575 3 роки тому +3

      P. S. He apologized to her, wanted to keep her as a side chick and my sister laughed at him. He had 2 heart attacks a few years later. He was an invalid until his very miserable death 20 years later. I could have kept this info for spite but true life is a bitch mistress sometimes. She had no regrets about how everything turned out.

    • @tayahsting7157
      @tayahsting7157 3 роки тому +2

      Bravo to your sister. She dodged a bullet!

    • @charlotteroussety5892
      @charlotteroussety5892 10 місяців тому +1

      thats incredible

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 5 місяців тому

      Wow your sisters story!!!! Go her!!! Screw him

  • @rositacamacho3999
    @rositacamacho3999 3 роки тому +122

    I understand her situation because that was me a few years ago. I took him back and he betrayed me again with the same person (recently). I have been with this man for about 20 years and we have 3 kids. I split up with him. Don’t do it, It will break your heart into a million pieces

    • @FrenchBulldog1
      @FrenchBulldog1 3 роки тому +11

      There’s only one thing left for you to do now... Show that pos your worth!!! 💪

    • @fitz9308
      @fitz9308 3 роки тому +7

      You are a very strong person Rosita, all the luck in the world to you. ❤️

    • @rositacamacho3999
      @rositacamacho3999 3 роки тому +7

      @@FrenchBulldog1 yasss girl thank you so much for the support. 💖💖💖

    • @rositacamacho3999
      @rositacamacho3999 3 роки тому +7

      @@fitz9308 Thank you so much that means alot, I am learning to love myself and moving forward💖💖💖

  • @rutbaltomirand8845
    @rutbaltomirand8845 3 роки тому +89

    Whitney please that’s a destructive relationship

  • @0r0r0
    @0r0r0 2 роки тому +141

    I don't like Whitney, but what he did is unacceptable. My heart goes out to her, she doesn't deserve any of it.

    • @sarinabelcore16
      @sarinabelcore16 Рік тому

      Then why u watching her videos? Dummy

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 Рік тому

      Like Chase can't be bothered to wrap his d***?

    • @Glorias_finds
      @Glorias_finds Рік тому +2

      If you don’t like her why are you here and how do you even know anything about this situation if you don’t watch or folllow the show

    • @YourMom-yp6ev
      @YourMom-yp6ev 6 місяців тому +1

      How do u not like her but watch the show? I think she is a really nice person

  • @ibanwahlang9368
    @ibanwahlang9368 3 роки тому +153

    He's to cheap to understand the real meaning of Love...

  • @dianaking4453
    @dianaking4453 3 роки тому +216

    I don’t understand why she would even give him the time of day. Move on girl. Damn.

    • @pitacast5080
      @pitacast5080 3 роки тому +11

      Cause she still loves him.

    • @sammi2918
      @sammi2918 3 роки тому +7

      Unfortunately, love!!

    • @MoniB888
      @MoniB888 3 роки тому +2

      Insecurity, closure, love?

    • @Caspersbae
      @Caspersbae 3 роки тому +2

      @I Dk loool stfuuuu💀💀💀💀

    • @m.g.g.8114
      @m.g.g.8114 2 роки тому +5

      Because she doesn't have respect and love for herself.

  • @brendabislik5102
    @brendabislik5102 3 роки тому +200

    Leave her alone,go with your family your baby, whitney dont accept him any more, once he did it he gone do it again he is not in love with you honey,he is not a good man😡😡😡😡😡😡he lie to you

  • @screeningmimi
    @screeningmimi 3 роки тому +49

    Chase:"None of this was planned." He was living with the girl who had the baby while dating Whitney. She'll always find clout chasers when she jumps in with both feet.

  • @SUEDUCE
    @SUEDUCE 3 роки тому +68

    He doesn’t care about her feelings, Chase wanted to stop feeling guilty period. If you know the relationship wasn’t going great even a damn text or phone call would have sufficed to end the relationship.

  • @LOLlotsandlots
    @LOLlotsandlots 3 роки тому +43

    She needs to call it what it is more-HE CHEATED! And he needs to apologize for cheating itself, not for “things happening how they did.”

  • @Ray-mj5mj
    @Ray-mj5mj 2 роки тому +64

    Whitney's weight problems is tied to how she handles this situation. She abuses herself with food, abuses herself by seeing abusive people, and abuses herself by continually spiraling.

  • @moonandmeasmr7546
    @moonandmeasmr7546 3 роки тому +41

    This was not necessarily she needs to understand he doesn't love her

  • @heatguillen
    @heatguillen 3 роки тому +53

    NOTE HIS VOCABULARY CHOICES... "I LOVED(past) you" & "I'd be happy FOR you"(not with you). Open your pretty eyes, girl! 👀🥺

    • @Jessica-tz5cl
      @Jessica-tz5cl 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly, never us or we … him n the fitness guy used her for exposure

  • @tandiholcomb5048
    @tandiholcomb5048 3 роки тому +28

    "I would be happy "for you" if you were pregnant.".…..Wait what? Did anyone else catch that?

  • @littlealienfuture1654
    @littlealienfuture1654 3 роки тому +54

    He looks like Ethan from the H3H3 podcast not gonna lie

    • @daydreams6956
      @daydreams6956 3 роки тому +1

      OMG YEAH LMAO

    • @shangri-la9458
      @shangri-la9458 3 роки тому +1

      You're so right

    • @cardibreexo
      @cardibreexo 3 роки тому

      YOOO THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!! I was scrolling through the comments to see if anyone thought the same😂😂😂

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 3 роки тому

      I don’t see it lol

  • @chelseagarland2187
    @chelseagarland2187 3 роки тому +42

    His lack of emotions is offensive. I hope he's he's better dad than a fiance. Whitney needs to take some time to not be filmed so she can heal ❤

  • @poohbear100000000000
    @poohbear100000000000 3 роки тому +161

    girl you better get FIT and sh*t on your EX when you walk on by down the sidewalk ok! 💪🔥 inner confidence and love are key!

  • @ruthmartinez3396
    @ruthmartinez3396 3 роки тому +39

    Whitney is a very insecure gal. It seems that she is so needy of a man.she needs to let things happen naturally and at it’s time. she gets into relationships and seems like she is on a hurry to marry.” You can’t hurry love! It doesn’t work that way!

  • @Lillylilster
    @Lillylilster 3 роки тому +44

    I feel so bad for Whitney. She must be going through terrible emotional pain.

  • @ShelbyEatsTheSky
    @ShelbyEatsTheSky 3 роки тому +98

    Gosh Whitney is so loving dude. Even when he broke her heart, she forgave him. That takes such a kind soul to do that.

    • @lydiaohearn568
      @lydiaohearn568 2 роки тому +17

      It’s called having zero self esteem.

    • @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother
      @ScreamingDucksShotMyMother 2 роки тому +9

      Let's not glorify this behavior. Whitney is only able to be such a kind soul to others because she's not being a kind soul to herself. Whitney is obviously a sweetheart of a person, but she needs to show herself some more love, respect, and gain some self esteem.

    • @MegaLudmila71
      @MegaLudmila71 2 роки тому +3

      @@lydiaohearn568 is it zero self esteem? I think it's forgiveness and I admire her for that. She handled herself maturely. On the other hand I wouldn't be able to do that, I would probably swear at him and wish him all the worst things ... but in the end I think she came out of it as a bigger person.

  • @ladida1205
    @ladida1205 Рік тому +3

    I never see tears when she "cries"

  • @SuperBluejewels
    @SuperBluejewels 2 роки тому +12

    You could tell her pain brings great joy to him, it strokes his ego. She shouldn’t have cried in front of him

  • @lorij6796
    @lorij6796 3 роки тому +18

    Chase, you made your choice. Leave Whitney alone. She deserves to be happy.

  • @rugrat4287
    @rugrat4287 3 роки тому +206

    wait she still willing to marry him even when he cheated & got Another woman pregnant?she’s A trooper I avoid males with kids like the plague 🤣🤣🤣⚰️ I am not here to play house

    • @LunatheLoungeSinger
      @LunatheLoungeSinger 3 роки тому +14

      Trooper or desperate or needing a story line?

    • @bsociety4647
      @bsociety4647 3 роки тому +2

      I don't think she'd want this as a storyline Erica

    • @LunatheLoungeSinger
      @LunatheLoungeSinger 3 роки тому +5

      @@bsociety4647 if you say so

    • @bsociety4647
      @bsociety4647 3 роки тому +5

      Ok knowing that has just made me decide not to watch videos of her show then. You guys make a good point cuz that Lenny that was "her last boyfriend" was on the show Catfish & he ending up dating the girl that contacted him on the internet & when he opened up to her, he made it sound like his role on whitney's show was just an acting gig for him.... i forgot about that. Y'all are probably right

    • @bsociety4647
      @bsociety4647 3 роки тому

      @Itsjusta Hellcat it's snowing & freezing where you live too? What's the temp there?

  • @Muchi134
    @Muchi134 3 роки тому +17

    My ex never got anyone pregnant, but he did cheat on me with two different women in 4 months (one of them being his boss). Being cheated on by someone you love is a horrendous feeling.

  • @sharonblevins3281
    @sharonblevins3281 3 роки тому +28

    He needs to leave her alone. Hurts her over and over. Not healthy for Whitley. You don't even know if it's really your kid. Dump him Whitney and get away from him. You deserve so much more. The story line hasn't gotten any better and is the reason I stopped watching before. Writers need to give her some self respect.

  • @ambermj3037
    @ambermj3037 3 роки тому +18

    I would’ve pulled off as soon as he said hey.

  • @kerina6594
    @kerina6594 3 роки тому +13

    I feel like he was using his future baby as an out of the relationship. If he really wanted, he could make it work with Whitney, he just doesn’t want to

  • @butterfly9391
    @butterfly9391 3 роки тому +27

    there is no way he found out that girl was pregnant 3 or 4 months after!!! it is not his baby 😳

    • @RIPPEDPANTYHOSEGORL
      @RIPPEDPANTYHOSEGORL 2 роки тому +13

      And there is no way he slept with her once, He most likely was cheating the whole time smh

    • @sunmoonstars0369
      @sunmoonstars0369 2 роки тому +3

      @@RIPPEDPANTYHOSEGORL yes, he was with other chick the whole time. As soon as he said he was excited for the baby I knew he had feelings for the mother, when Whitney called him out for telling her he didn’t want to have kids with her and she asked would you have stayed with me if I got pregnant, he told her he would have been happy for her because he would know that’s what she wanted, not he would be happy but he would be happy for her.

  • @viviandemianiw6207
    @viviandemianiw6207 3 роки тому +7

    I don’t even know why she would waste her time and gas visiting with this jerk. Whitney, be strong and move on and forget about him

  • @treatsandtravels06
    @treatsandtravels06 3 роки тому +17

    Ain’t nobody opening a bar during covid ! Move on girl , find the one that loves u and will be true to u !

  • @jen5138
    @jen5138 3 роки тому +15

    The best thing she can do for herself is walk away, get over him and live her best life (without him).

  • @lenybouwman5121
    @lenybouwman5121 3 роки тому +24

    Do you love her? Yes,! End of story! Why bothering her over and over? Does this man wants to continue to be on TV? Does he want to repair his image(I don’t know him) if he had one? and most of all” we were on a break”. 😂😂

  • @NavigatingGriefAndLife
    @NavigatingGriefAndLife 3 роки тому +11

    He wanted her to tell him that what he did was ok, and she couldn't. Nor should she.

  • @haileystrait4497
    @haileystrait4497 Рік тому +4

    I know he didn't just say "you have a family too" AND POINT AT THE DOG. this wasn't closure for her this was all for him to make himself feel better

  • @Mrturtle-wf7px
    @Mrturtle-wf7px 3 роки тому +22

    I don't even watch this show and this is the most heart breaking scene I've seen on TV. No one deserves this smh, I really hope this woman finds her happiness. I hope that baby ain't his...

  • @scorpiothoughtsny
    @scorpiothoughtsny 3 роки тому +79

    I can't stand him. You're full of poopy. You know how to not get someone pregnant..and i think he was using whitney for his 5 minutes of fame..I believe he was already dealing with the other woman and now he has an out. He's a disgusting individual and i pray Whitney heals her heart and find a man who loves her for her.

  • @idoscreamforicecream
    @idoscreamforicecream 3 роки тому +28

    Oh Whitney, my heart breaks for you❤ keep strong girl, this loser wasn't worth 1 tear

  • @maitesantos9256
    @maitesantos9256 3 роки тому +6

    I don't understand why she wants him still? Count your blessings girl!

  • @angelcross8887
    @angelcross8887 3 роки тому +9

    It seems obvious that he didn’t really want to be with her..

  • @adriannaleabazan1310
    @adriannaleabazan1310 3 роки тому +26

    When she said “I don’t hate you I love you that’s the fucking problem”

  • @thegingerehle8768
    @thegingerehle8768 3 роки тому +12

    I feel bad for Whitney because I was in a similar relationship once. You know in her heart that man is a tool and was awful but you still remember how he treated you like a queen - hard to let go. I had an ex and he cheated on my by getting a woman pregnant. Told me he did it on purpose. I left his ass. Told him he fathered a child and that’s his responsibility. it was hard - but now I’m so glad I didn’t cling to that guy. I think this guy was in it for the screen recognition and used Whitney. Stay strong girl - you deserve SOOOOOOO much better.

  • @Valoelify
    @Valoelify 2 роки тому +10

    Whitney was being really loving and sweet, despite it all... she wished him happiness, wanted a hug and held his hand one last time. There are many things that I don't like about her, but I do like how loving and caring she is. This utterly broke my heart for her... Poor Whitney...
    May she find her real prince one day. Amen.

  • @iReporteriReporting
    @iReporteriReporting Рік тому +2

    Whitney, don't beg
    Let him go. He would never have gone to someone else if he really loved you.

  • @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix
    @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix 3 роки тому +16

    the guy looks like he's acting... I wonder if it's real...

    • @youmaydisagreebut848
      @youmaydisagreebut848 3 роки тому +3

      HE looks like he's ACTING, but whitney Does NOT Look like SHES ACTING.
      Its hard to not to call this reality TV show real, its not easy faking a miserable 36 year old single woman...

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 3 роки тому

      It was real for her, unfortunately.

    • @jaianna843
      @jaianna843 3 роки тому

      I feel like this is acting. I heard Chase was already dating the girl or atleast on and off with the girl when he came onto the show and the girl got pregnant and they had to write this storyline that he cheated for ratings. They weren't really together 🤷‍♀️

  • @childrembirgit5020
    @childrembirgit5020 3 роки тому +38

    WOW! Her desperation is so disgusting "Why didn't you even consider still being with me after you had cheated on me and fathered a child" 😭😭😭😭😭 "Can you hug me?" 🤢

    • @ariella1454
      @ariella1454 2 роки тому +7

      Right?? Im disgusted. I get that she’s hurt but that’s just so pathetic

    • @childrembirgit5020
      @childrembirgit5020 2 роки тому +1

      @@ariella1454 Absolutely Pathetic!

    • @thelovers3449
      @thelovers3449 2 роки тому +12

      She loves him tho and she can’t just let him go so easily because of how much she loves him so really it’s not disgusting or pathetic you just wouldn’t react the same way and that’s alright

  • @clickbaitcritic8105
    @clickbaitcritic8105 2 роки тому +22

    5:21 "I have nothing." Pretty high and mighty coming from the person with a reality tv show dedicated to them, a family that still loves her, and her financial situation.

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 2 роки тому +1

      She forgets that she is morbidly obese

    • @jesussaves6625
      @jesussaves6625 2 роки тому +1

      Idk.. I'd way rather have my family than anything that Whitney has.

  • @sarabobara8458
    @sarabobara8458 3 роки тому +5

    Ok but why is her dog so calm? If a man has me crying like that my dog can instantly tell im upset and would become agitated towards the male figure. I had anxiety the whole time thinking damn he better stop following her that dog is gonna bite him. Even a trained dog will defend their owner when their owner is upset.

  • @amyharker6850
    @amyharker6850 3 роки тому +12

    I know exactly what poor Whitney went through, because I went through it myself, too. There was a guy in my life whose loving me didn't mean anything. In fact, I don't really believe he ever loved me. He just strung me along. Then, he blocked me on all his phones and all of social media he was on.

  • @fearlessness9646
    @fearlessness9646 3 роки тому +10

    I get it. The hurt she has can't even be explained. I had something similar happen. We weren't engaged, but he was 2 weeks away from moving in with me. We were supposed to start our family and live our lives. Only for me to get an email (not a phone call, not a text, not a face to face) that he wasn't coming. He told me through email that he won't answer my calls because he knows how much it's gonna hurt me. He just couldn't make the move. I then find out that he got someone pregnant, unplanned. He didn't know about it, and she let him know and he decided to be with her because he got her pregnant. Now he has the house with the picket fence, the instant family .. and I have nothing. I know the hurt she has.. and its a hurt that can't be explained. It sucks.

    • @LissG30910
      @LissG30910 2 роки тому +5

      You have the best gift!a live without him! Someone that coward and capable to do that to someone in theory he love, never will be good for nothing also he will do it again, so way better out your life!!I've been there, it hurt but trust me, it gets better!

    • @princessbutterfly1042
      @princessbutterfly1042 2 роки тому +2

      I'm so sorry babe 🥺 that story brought me to tears. you deserve so.much better than a man like that..also the grass isn't always greener on the other side. You may believe he is happy but for all you know the woman he's with is giving him hell because yes you can be with someone when they have a baby but having a baby doesn't help keep those two people together. You can just all of a sudden have deep emotions for someone that you didn't see in the first place as someone you wanted to be with. So I bet he is or will get his karma by that woman or someone else. I'm so sorry you went through that but I bet you are 100 times stronger now.

  • @michaelwilson5851
    @michaelwilson5851 3 роки тому +10

    You can be a father, an ex, and a loyal current boyfriend at the same time. She’s hyper emotional and I understand it completely, but he was obviously not meant to be in her life if he can’t figure out how to love enough to care for more than himself.

  • @chellyd.7977
    @chellyd.7977 3 роки тому +13

    she should leave him, I don't even see any emotion form that guy lol

    • @jeanp1323
      @jeanp1323 3 роки тому

      @Itsjusta Hellcat that's mean but funny 😅

    • @chellyd.7977
      @chellyd.7977 3 роки тому

      @Itsjusta Hellcat because I didn't know. so why assume everyone knows what you know.

    • @chellyd.7977
      @chellyd.7977 3 роки тому

      @Itsjusta Hellcat okay, so I didn't watch the whole video because these people don't matter to me, I saw he was a little bitch and thats the truth. and tbh, I don't get why ur so triggered? do you like fighting with people in the comments? do you get off on that? is it fun for you?

    • @chellyd.7977
      @chellyd.7977 3 роки тому

      @Itsjusta Hellcat I'd also rather be an idiot than a lowlife like you who attacks people over something that isn't even that worth fight for? you should get ur priorities straight and actually defend something more... worth it and of value maybe.. have a good life.

  • @ljo3162
    @ljo3162 3 роки тому +17

    I want her to find happiness so bad.

  • @chantalmartel4721
    @chantalmartel4721 3 роки тому +13

    Two minutes and ican stand here. I don't understand why she have a show..its always dramatic... in her love and her life..why for all those years she pick always the wrong guy... she needs to go in therapie

    • @vee6570
      @vee6570 3 роки тому +2

      Some people are sometimes addicted to misery. Kinda like a revolving door. She could jump out at any time but rather sit on the floor and let the doors push her around.

    • @michellefunches1318
      @michellefunches1318 3 роки тому

      I agree she needs to get her life together, this is not sad it really needs this show needs to be canceled because it reinforces her poor syndrome.

  • @lillianjessepe7808
    @lillianjessepe7808 3 роки тому +9

    Nahhhhh if i was her i woulda just cut him off cold turkey! She doesn't deserve that. And shes right. He just ended things that they planned together for something that was totally unplanned. I get that it's a child but hes being selfish. That was his decision. Not theirs, together.

    • @elyssa9643
      @elyssa9643 3 роки тому +2

      She could have easily moved to Wilmington together, and they still could have got married. I mean I, myself wouldn't want to get married to a douchebag like that, but you can tell she loved him. The baby could have had her as a step mom, there was no need for him to get together with that troglodyte just because of the baby. He really didn't love her, or he would have fought for the relationship.

  • @idkanymore2522
    @idkanymore2522 3 роки тому +40

    she is so delusional it makes me mad

    • @hannahalexis9233
      @hannahalexis9233 3 роки тому +3

      How is she delusional??

    • @idkanymore2522
      @idkanymore2522 3 роки тому +7

      @@hannahalexis9233 well i think she’s delusional because in this clip and others she keeps talking about marriage and making it work with this guy. Why would you want a guy that cheated on you and has another baby now? She’s basically begging to be with him when even he said himself he has a baby to take care of now. I think they both need to leave each other alone and move on. And idk if its just me but the way he talks he souns so nonchalant like he doesnt really feel sorry for what he did.

    • @yolandac9334
      @yolandac9334 3 роки тому +13

      Not delusional just in love with an idiot it happens

    • @kaylacynne
      @kaylacynne 3 роки тому +7

      I wouldn't say delusional just heartbroken.

  • @CooknVibewithannmarielove
    @CooknVibewithannmarielove 3 роки тому +12

    Sadly I know her pain very well..... although a blessing did come out of it it kills....

  • @echofoster9761
    @echofoster9761 3 роки тому +7

    I had my heart broken in middle school, never been the same since lmaooo

  • @tjputzier
    @tjputzier 3 роки тому +21

    Sh*ty boyfriend broke that poor woman's heart. Good dad for put his daughter first.

    • @bawlzinyourjawz5919
      @bawlzinyourjawz5919 3 роки тому +6

      Amazing dad for putting his child before queen clogged arteries

    • @GraduateJLN
      @GraduateJLN 3 роки тому +2

      “Queen clogged arteries”😂😂😭😭

  • @mzbeatsmix6673
    @mzbeatsmix6673 3 роки тому +7

    The person you marry should be the one who loves you when your aren't looking to get married

  • @lula4077
    @lula4077 3 роки тому +16

    I really feel for Whitney on this one. Holy shit. He cheated and got another girl pregnant and is completely abandoning whitney? You CAN care about both the baby and about not being a dumbass and hurting Whitney, you can literally be there for the kid and still be there for Whitney, he's just really trying to put on this "I'm the victim here" show, like what? Is he doing this for fame or?

    • @jesussaves6625
      @jesussaves6625 2 роки тому +1

      He did the wrong thing by cheating on Whitney, but he's doing the right thing by staying with the other woman and raising his child.

  • @ARS-fn6px
    @ARS-fn6px 3 роки тому +3

    He confuses guilt with love and care 🤦🏾‍♀️🥴. Grow tf up and know what you want from life, women and yourself little boy. And people like these reproduce 😪

  • @greeenfilter8084
    @greeenfilter8084 Рік тому +3

    That baby gave him a fantastic ‘get out’ clause. He never ever wanted her… Period…. Whitney is too NEEDY, it must be exhausting

  • @aowowoiae
    @aowowoiae 3 роки тому +3

    Anyone else get the iconic intervention vibe when she said "i still love him"?

  • @mikailasarellano4615
    @mikailasarellano4615 2 роки тому +6

    Look at His face at 8:47 . He feels no
    Remorse and it’s just disgusting what’s he done to her feelings and trust.

  • @avettchick1566
    @avettchick1566 2 роки тому +25

    This just reminds me why I haven't dated in over 2 years. No regrets 💙

    • @brendaseay89
      @brendaseay89 Рік тому +1

      Girl try 37 years! Had three almost marriages. I closed my heart and I'm very lonely now.

    • @avettchick1566
      @avettchick1566 Рік тому

      @@brendaseay89 3 years and counting 💜 I dont miss one single thing about them. I run an animal rescue and I never feel lonely. Bc I'm never alone 😅 do you have pets?

  • @vvanxo
    @vvanxo 3 роки тому +6

    he says he loves whitney but if he really did love her, he wouldn’t have cheated. he just went there to manipulate whitney. poor girl, she needs to move on.

  • @butthead9859
    @butthead9859 3 роки тому +16

    She has more important issues to take care of than dating or sex
    Serious self improvement needs to occur

  • @dmohield
    @dmohield 2 роки тому +2

    Her getting pregnant was the only reason he told you Whit. If she wasn't pregnant I guarantee he wouldn't have said a thing.

  • @alishatahir6905
    @alishatahir6905 3 роки тому +4

    man rlly was struggling to hide that laugh 🤦‍♀️

  • @HHHKingofKings58
    @HHHKingofKings58 3 роки тому +4

    God, that voice. He dodged a big fat bullet.

  • @sierralorraine7003
    @sierralorraine7003 3 роки тому +5

    I mean at that point I feel like he should just be with the child. It should be his number 1 priority. Move on girl, he wasn’t meant for you anyway.

  • @mblake92
    @mblake92 3 роки тому +6

    I wonder how he’d feel if that was his own daughter this happened to? Bet he would be acting totally different...

  • @debbiesmithmcconnell9889
    @debbiesmithmcconnell9889 3 роки тому +12

    Whitney, this is Sad.