Swiping Left on Modern Dating: Detaching My Value From My Relationship Status | Ep 44

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 5 жов 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 33

  • @LovelyyOT
    @LovelyyOT 3 місяці тому +15

    I Broke up my engagement with my ex of 6yrs at age 28( am in. my 30s now) and everyone thought I was crazy! but a man has never been more important than my mental health and peace , GOD has something else, if not. am still blessed :)

  • @ellenko2684
    @ellenko2684 4 місяці тому +35

    Loved this topic! There is nothing wrong with women who have not settled down in their 30s. There is so much more to life than being married and having children. It will happen when its meant to happen, until then we should water ourselves and our relationships.

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  4 місяці тому +7

      Focusing on our relationship with God will always be more worthwhile than only focusing on romance

    • @blessdoe7326
      @blessdoe7326 3 місяці тому

      So so true!!

    • @yemi6184
      @yemi6184 2 місяці тому

      I have a fundamental issue with getting married being associated with settling down. That association is part of what puts pressure on singles. Just because a person isn’t married doesn’t make them “unsettled”. We need to stop that association

  • @ClaireEllis-xm6ms
    @ClaireEllis-xm6ms 4 місяці тому +13

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm also in my early thirties and ended a long term relationship last year and found this conversation very relatable. There can be so much pressure to settle down at this age and it takes a lot of courage to walk away from something you know isn't right when there's no guarantee of meeting anyone else.

  • @Kachiike
    @Kachiike 4 місяці тому +10

    Thank you so much Magnify for your delivery of wholesome contents.

  • @karabokumalo3903
    @karabokumalo3903 3 місяці тому +1

    This conversation taught and comforted me a lot as a young, single adult❤

  • @loisoseyeme
    @loisoseyeme 3 місяці тому +3

    This particular episode speaks to me, thank you so much for sharing.

  • @socb5642
    @socb5642 4 місяці тому +8

    One of my favourite channels

    • @Magnifycollective
      @Magnifycollective  4 місяці тому +2

      This means so much to us, shout-out to the Magnify community 🤍🤍

  • @user-jz6mu
    @user-jz6mu 3 місяці тому +3

    Im currently in a season of trying to get back to who I am yet want to be in a relationship because I feel my worth is attached to being chosen and when my ex kept choosing other people over me it hurt me so much. I will come back to this as often as I have to until I know my value is only with Christ not other human beings

  • @shanekawallace-graham2190
    @shanekawallace-graham2190 4 місяці тому +7

    Thank you for this conversation, I definitely needed it.

  • @nwaada_odera
    @nwaada_odera 4 місяці тому +8

    I deeply enjoyed this episode. Very resounding and insightful.The part that talked about not knowing how to end things set off alarms in my head. Left a relationship that was about to transition into the next phase of marriage and in the spur of the moment, it felt like a foolish decision. I rededicated my life and decided that I wasn’t just going to be clout-chasing Christ . 2 years and still counting, I’m stunningly single but grateful that I made that decision to follow Christ genuinely and yield control of every area of my life to him.

  • @kangwachanda7993
    @kangwachanda7993 3 місяці тому +1

    Profound conversation ❤

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin 3 місяці тому +1

    Great topic
    Great conversation

  • @victorianababa4502
    @victorianababa4502 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this conversation. Eye-opening God bless you all🙏

  • @cheryldian
    @cheryldian 4 місяці тому +3

    Great topic, love it, thank you! Rachel you look so good in that color!
    ❤❤❤

  • @seunsogbesan7781
    @seunsogbesan7781 4 місяці тому +2

    Such an important conversation. So much food for thought, all round. Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @andrea0338
    @andrea0338 4 місяці тому +4

    great conversation, thank you so much !

  • @newid10
    @newid10 4 місяці тому +3

    Fantastic conversation

  • @rae2457
    @rae2457 4 місяці тому +5

    Great topic 🙏🏾

  • @fitnesstoatee
    @fitnesstoatee 4 місяці тому +3

    Love this convo. ❤thank you

  • @preciousmusenge8310
    @preciousmusenge8310 4 місяці тому +2

    Love love this conversation ❤🎉

  • @keilaquinones912
    @keilaquinones912 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤ Great episode.

  • @Livel1
    @Livel1 4 місяці тому +4

    ❤ thank you for sharing.

  • @hannahisrael7577
    @hannahisrael7577 4 місяці тому +2

    N
    ew presenter is so beautiful and did such a great job ... really enjoyed

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 4 місяці тому

    No I’m not I’m tired I want my rest . ❤

  • @norambee4347
    @norambee4347 3 місяці тому +4

    A good man is not a godly man. Phew