If ur a divorced wife or BM & if that chick doesn’t find a long term partner, she gon be fixated on why the relationship she had didn’t work Ppl talk about divorce rates. They never talk about the 2nd marriage rates. Often times it’s the man that remarries…..with women, the odds are much lower
@@olaakande5581 Which still has nothing to do with allowing the child to share in the wedding. Put the shoe on the other foot. Be fair to the child(ren)
Everybody saying Ella needs to mind her business, ella was the mediator without ella being the mediator, their conversation wouldve went totally left and more things wouldve been added and made it even more worse
@@housefire6229 he didn't cheat on her with Laura. Laura & Miranda were co-workers when Miranda vented about her ex. Miranda didn't say his name, so Laura didn't know Calvin was that ex at the time.
Miranda left Calvin on her own. She was always arrogant and selfish. Now, she wants to be bitter towards him cuz she realized she f'ed up divorcing him after he moved on with someone she worked with.
but i think y’all forget that the reason why miranda divorced him was because he became so mean and nonchalant after he got shot and she took all she could and divorced him, imagine you tell someone to change and they do it to another person, so you’re seeing the person be the person you needed to be while y’all were married, miranda has her ways but let’s not act like miranda didn’t have a valid reason to divorce, he wasn’t a perfect husband
@@KennLeoncye Calvin was trying to be a better person towards the end of their marriage he had a stable job and was doing his best. It is not his fault Miranda wanted out. Miranda made her choice yet wants to act bitter now it does not work that way.
@@mandys1038 when a woman mentally checks out after you were horrible to her when you were at your lowest there’s nothing you can try to do in a matter of a few days to weeks when you been doing wrong for months, the stuff that miranda did when they dated was nothing compared to what he did when they were married
@@KennLeoncyethe man got shot because he was literally taking on a problem that she started if she had never interviewed Travis that gangster about a piece of real estate he would have never came on to her and Calvin would have never have to fight him and he would have never shot Calvin he was beinf a husband he got shot defending his wife and of course recovery is not going to be fun it hurts and Miranda definitely wasnt the perfect wife neither 🤷😂😂
Christian is not his son, Christian is not her son, Christian is both of their son. For Miranda its hard to be fair when your not healed and for Calvin it hard to be compassionate when you’ve moved on.😢
This isn’t about Christian it’s about her and for Miranda to not let Christian come to his father’s wedding all because she still has feelings for Calvin she is putting Christian in a position where he has to chose between his parents who he loves very much it’s wrong and completely unfair to him
@@micahfranklin4560 I agree Miranda left Calvin she broke the family now that Calvin has moved on she using there son against him because she is still in love with Calvin and she doesn't want Chirstian be in his father's wedding that's petty of her
How did you manage to blame him?? Compassionate!? So is he NOT supposed to move on with his life? Is he not supposed to find love and get married. He literally ASKED for permission as a courtesy for their son to share a joyous moment in their lives...where's the lack of compassion?
This was truly a trigger for me! My mom wouldn’t allow my sister and I to be flower girls in my dad’s wedding! I was 9. Could you imagine seeing other little girls being flower girls in your daddy’s wedding?!😭 And it was all because my mom was still 2 years later in her feelings!!!😒
I'm sorry you had to go through all of that sometimes people need to put their feelings a side for children I could imagine how hurt you felt seeing other girls dressed up.
Two years is still relatively recent. I'm not saying that your mom was right to do what she did to you & your sister; however, depending upon exactly what happened between her & your dad she might have had an understandable reason for being so angry with him. Besides, there's no timeframe for when you should get over something or someone. People heal at their own pace
@@j.i.r608At the end of the day we were the innocent ones! She tried to hurt him by not allowing us to be in his wedding and all it did was hurt me! Wasn’t thinking about her children! It was all about her feelings!😒
This is why its so frustrating to see her attitude now. Miranda is acting like another version of Tracy. Miranda stalled the divorce I remember Janine even asking her if this is because now if its because of money apparently now Calvin makes more than her.
I went through this. I got divorced and a year later was getting married and my ex-wife would not let our twin son and daughter be in or even attend my next wedding. Even now, over 20 years later she still holds onto things, and our kids turned 27 years old today.
@@quentinmitchell4568 bottom line marriage is hard Calvin has matured since then and Miranda stole from him I’m supprised married her she conned him so she is no saint but she did divorce him first she needs to let go or don’t hold the child back though if the child wants to go let them she doesn’t have too
@@janderson947She loved him but she divorced him because he started treating her poorly after he got shot and that’s something traumatic but you can’t treat ppl like that
It's all about her. Do you see Christian going around crying and being a fool bc mommy and daddy not together? Do you see Christian isolating himself or acting out bc they not together? No, everything she just said outta her mouth is what she's feeling she has not healed her broken heart, so she's using her kid as an excuse in all of this when it's her who hasn't processed the divorce and is still lifted confused not Christian
Once you cheat on your wife/women there is a level of hatred that a woman goes to because her heart is truly broken. Just because they decided to not be together and she seems to be alright it just isn’t the case. It never goes away for women but you can live a happy healthy productive life afterwards. Her son being at the wedding is another slap in the face even though he is also the father’s son.
I think it’s selfish he to assume considering he was dating her ex friend and the fact he isn’t faithful to said fiancé why would she want her son to be apart of something that isn’t going to last???
And Lauren was foul Miranda confided in her about Calvin and their problems after she got all her information then she got herself and went on and start they say looking to date him that's a snake and I don't respect Lauren nor Calvin for it
This brought me back to how hurt I was when she left him at the original ending when he needed her the most. And she can’t take responsibility or accountability for that.
Loved my husband ex wife! She let her kids decide if they wanted to be in my wedding with their dad!!!! His son said yes and his daughter said No… I was okay with that 👍🏾 She let the kids decide and we had a great understanding
Possible Unpopular Opinion: I've never liked how Ella was always playing "Fixer" in everyone's situation, esp relationships. I get that the character is supposed to be the Matriarch with words of wisdom but she really needs to fall back sometimes. As far as Miranda, girl bye. Nothing worse than a parent who uses their kids as pawns.
But they always at her house. So do you think she about to let them argue and act a fool at her house? And she's not in their business, they put her in the business...
Miranda sounds like that bitter ex that clearly just won't move on after she was the one who asked for a divorce in the first place . It's selfish of her to not allow their son to be his his father's wedding. I like Ella she was being the mediator between them bcuz they both don't know how to co parent and be civil .
Calvin took miranda through a lot that she had to ask for the divorce. Calvin wasn't willing to change and do better he waits till after he is divorce to when he had all that time when they were together to. You can't make someone feel guilty because you decided to move on and to do it in their face. He knew what he was doing, he trying to make miranda jealous through another woman, and using that girl aint right. He barely knows Lauren.
And Lauren was foul Miranda confided in her about Calvin and their problems after she got all her information then she got herself and went on and start they say looking to date him that's a snake and I don't respect Lauren nor Calvin for it
@@kylahoward1367 you obviously thank you watch I watch every episode from day one lil tink tink she pillowed talked to Laura her and Calvin Laura was wrong and Calvin was Lazy he finally made something of his self
@@reboo99but Miranda walked away first you don’t give up just because it was hard he BEGGED her because she wasn’t perfect either so why get mad when she chose to move on as did he not with Lauren but still …
She isn’t a pick me Calvin has moved on I don’t care for Lauren but she should not have asked for a divorce it was her choice and stopping his child from going isn’t right that divorce happened these kids were BABiES 😂
You only dislike the women characters because the man who wrote this purposefully made them annoying and unsufferable so people wouldn’t like them, including other women (especially other women). Men love it when we hate each other so we can love them more, and if you pay attention to a lot of TV shows & movies they do this ALL THE TIME. Whenever there’s a women main character, they’re character is usually insufferable (& the writer ✍🏾 does that purposely) and then they make the guy character seem better, PAY ATTENTION DO YOUR RESEARCH 💯
@@SonjaJUnpopularOpinions l don't like the character because I don't like the character. Please don't tell me why I don't, because it not that serious to me. When I look at tv shows or movies I am looking to be entertained, not to dig deep into what the writers a doing. If I do that then I am not being entertained.
I havent seen this show in a while... I didnt even know they were divorced... Can we please start seeing shoes where marriages last eithout all of the trauma, bitter ex wives/baby mamas, abusive husbands, cheating men etc.... goodness lets throw some positivity in the shows
If you did you wouldn’t be showing a real marriage to a certain degree. People never watch family shows without some level of drama and this is a real aspect of life for a lot of people. Life is a series of highs and lows and same goes for marriage.
Christian has been through enough, it's too much. Too much for him to process, no Miranda it's too much for you to process😒. Girl move on she's literally bitter af.
This is sad. I wish I was at least thought of when my dad got married. I didn't even know he was engaged before then after a few years of no contact. It is great that Calvin wanted his sons in his wedding. Miranda needs to fall back.
It's all about her. Do you see Christian going around crying and being a fool bc mommy and daddy not together? Do you see Christian isolating himself or acting out bc they not together? No, everything she just said outta her mouth is what she's feeling she has not healed her broken heart, so she's using her kid as an excuse in all of this when it's her who hasn't processed the divorce and is still lifted confused not Christian
It’s crazy how everyone telling Miranda to move on when Calvin was hooking up with her in one episode then still wants to get married to her ex bestie or co-worker…. Prediction Miranda and Calvin getting married again just like Janine and Cj did.
When will y’all get it through your thick skull she left the marriage and then years later now wants him back. After all she put the family through stop it lol
You know what, when a goddess fights that hard to sabotage that God‘s life. Nothing crazy or too far out the norm. That shows she’s definitely still in love with him. And a goddess cannot get over a relationship unless she still has a lot of love for him or is in love with him. It’s one of the other. And you know what I really want Calvin and Miranda to rekindle to reconnect. Because when they got together they were both in the immature stage of their adulthood. Wanting it all and trying to do it all both extreme versions going into opposite directions. But them as I would say in their 40s-ish adults at least from the show perspective. This will be the best thing for them. I know a lot of gods are going to be trying to get on me and be in their feelings because you know Miranda divorced him she didn’t wanted to do with him. But we all know goddesses move based on emotion not on what’s right. And if we God‘s want favor and grace with our goddesses we gotta be willing to give it to you in moments when it’s the hardest to do. Love and energy works both ways. It’s not a one-way street. So Goddess I salute you I respect you and I commend you. Because despite their differences, they’ve both grown and I genuinely feel in my heart of hearts they should be together.
Miranda was the one who wanted a divorce yet she could not leave this family alone. Miranda was always showing up unannounced and having an attitude as if Calvin is the one who left her. I do agree about them likely getting back together in future episodes but for now she is just being selfish for choices she made!
Miranda is still hurting, but Calvin has not moved on, because he is So in LOVE with Miranda. He is using his wedding and his son to get back at Miranda for not giving him closure for their divorce.
He’s a dog wow slept with the ex bestie and now wants to marry her wow . Combo is not going to age well . I see divorce in his future again . He really needs to be by himself
Miranda always playing the victim she needs to stop doing these games she broke Calvin heart and now he's moving on and she can't handle it she needs to realize her son can turn on her
Miranda sounds bitter because she ain’t with Calvin….. why stop their son from going to his own father’s wedding…. Move on sis and miss Ella needs to stay out of it
Lets go back to memory lane. Calvin was the one that had an affair with the neighbors daughter as well as having a baby with the character Eve played. She had a miscarriage and still had to put up with his cheating ways. His mother always got involved in his relationships.
But who wanted a divorce she conned Calvin FIRST then he got in a fight trying to defend Miranda it’s not her fault but then she got focused on making MONEY and requested a divorce do I like Lauren no but she left her marriage and chose divorce oh well…
When is the new season of house of Payne coming back on tv the last time I saw it Christian walked out of the apartment, so when is the new season of house of Payne coming back on BET can someone please tell me
I don’t like Laura for Calvin and hope he and Miranda get back together. I think they still both have feelings for each other. What they should do is have a conversation with Christian and ask him. Miranda doesn’t have to go but if Calvin wants Christian there, he should have someone in place to care for him during the event.
Ella needs to be a marriage counselor/therapist to other couples not her son & his ex. I have 7 sons but I do NOT get involved in their relationships. None of my sons have children(it ABSOLUTELY changes EVERYTHING).
Y’all in these comments talking about Miranda left him. SHE DID!! We know that. I think y’all forgetting the reasons. He wasn’t the man he was suppose to be/is now, but she realized she wanted to be with him, tried to call it off, and he was too humiliated and wanted the divorce anyways. She has not healed she still wanted him. She carried that marriage financially & emotionally for years. I’m this situation she is wrong but y’all looking at one piece.
She was being selfish and in her feelings projecting it onto their son. If the divorce was hard for him, how does she think he's going to feel when he sees pictures of his dad's wedding and the whole family his big brother included was there but he wasn't?
Ask the children if they want to or not an if the son says no then it is what it is take the emotions out of it an allow the children answer for themselves
I'm confused. Why does Calvin wants his child as a groomsmen, and how old is he supposed to even be? Their son's feeings are just an excuse. She should explain the divorce more since she asked for it. Miranda is wrong in this matter. She's still hurting over the decision that she made and doesn't want to face the fact that he's moved on. By not allowing his son to be apart of, or even attend, his father's wedding is just being petty. She wants to hurt him like she's hurting.
First of all they were young n Calvin did some things that took her down the road of not trusting him...they need to get divorced so they can find their way back to each other...I will say that I do want them back together but if not they need to give Maranda a new man...someone like her real husband Brad James...but this is really old...his fiance left him on the last one. Ijs my opinions 😊
Depends y she doesnt want him to go What happened? Did he cheat on her with the girl...if so that wouldn't b healthy n or fair to throw the child in the middle of that messy wedding its disrespectful to the child. Thats putting kids in mess
Old scene, Calvin & Miranda slept together again, and the wedding was called off, because the bride to be was extremely paranoid & accused Calvin of cheating with internet hoes & Miranda .
Its sad because this scenario actually happens in real life, all too often. People who use their own kids against their co-parent.
Sadly it happens more often than we know. Women will use these babies as pawns to get even with the father. It's selfish and sad 😔
This show is off the chain
If ur a divorced wife or BM & if that chick doesn’t find a long term partner, she gon be fixated on why the relationship she had didn’t work
Ppl talk about divorce rates. They never talk about the 2nd marriage rates. Often times it’s the man that remarries…..with women, the odds are much lower
It isn't fair to the children.
Get out of your feelings and let him share in his dad's wedding.
@@olaakande5581 Which still has nothing to do with allowing the child to share in the wedding. Put the shoe on the other foot. Be fair to the child(ren)
Everybody saying Ella needs to mind her business, ella was the mediator without ella being the mediator, their conversation wouldve went totally left and more things wouldve been added and made it even more worse
When all people know is chaos, they don’t understand decency and order.
Would you have Curtis solve all the family problems?
exactly ‼️‼️‼️
Thank you!! Everything even back when she got traci together
Because she does need to mind her business
Miranda asked for the divorce in the first place..so sorry ..deal with it
can't have your cake and eat it too
He cheated on her with her friend… watch the whole show
@@housefire6229 he didn't cheat on her with Laura. Laura & Miranda were co-workers when Miranda vented about her ex. Miranda didn't say his name, so Laura didn't know Calvin was that ex at the time.
Thank you for pointing that out! Bitter Miranda needs Jesus to save her
I just discovered that is highly misquoted. The saying goes “You can’t have your Kate and Edith too!”
Miranda left Calvin on her own. She was always arrogant and selfish. Now, she wants to be bitter towards him cuz she realized she f'ed up divorcing him after he moved on with someone she worked with.
but i think y’all forget that the reason why miranda divorced him was because he became so mean and nonchalant after he got shot and she took all she could and divorced him, imagine you tell someone to change and they do it to another person, so you’re seeing the person be the person you needed to be while y’all were married, miranda has her ways but let’s not act like miranda didn’t have a valid reason to divorce, he wasn’t a perfect husband
@@KennLeoncye Calvin was trying to be a better person towards the end of their marriage he had a stable job and was doing his best. It is not his fault Miranda wanted out. Miranda made her choice yet wants to act bitter now it does not work that way.
@@mandys1038 when a woman mentally checks out after you were horrible to her when you were at your lowest there’s nothing you can try to do in a matter of a few days to weeks when you been doing wrong for months, the stuff that miranda did when they dated was nothing compared to what he did when they were married
@@KennLeoncyethe man got shot because he was literally taking on a problem that she started if she had never interviewed Travis that gangster about a piece of real estate he would have never came on to her and Calvin would have never have to fight him and he would have never shot Calvin he was beinf a husband he got shot defending his wife and of course recovery is not going to be fun it hurts and Miranda definitely wasnt the perfect wife neither 🤷😂😂
@@battlerap314he was always lazy and selfish
Christian is not his son, Christian is not her son, Christian is both of their son. For Miranda its hard to be fair when your not healed and for Calvin it hard to be compassionate when you’ve moved on.😢
This isn’t about Christian it’s about her and for Miranda to not let Christian come to his father’s wedding all because she still has feelings for Calvin she is putting Christian in a position where he has to chose between his parents who he loves very much it’s wrong and completely unfair to him
@@micahfranklin4560 I agree Miranda left Calvin she broke the family now that Calvin has moved on she using there son against him because she is still in love with Calvin and she doesn't want Chirstian be in his father's wedding that's petty of her
How did you manage to blame him?? Compassionate!? So is he NOT supposed to move on with his life? Is he not supposed to find love and get married. He literally ASKED for permission as a courtesy for their son to share a joyous moment in their lives...where's the lack of compassion?
This!!!
Perfectly put
This was truly a trigger for me! My mom wouldn’t allow my sister and I to be flower girls in my dad’s wedding! I was 9. Could you imagine seeing other little girls being flower girls in your daddy’s wedding?!😭 And it was all because my mom was still 2 years later in her feelings!!!😒
I'm sorry you had to go through all of that sometimes people need to put their feelings a side for children I could imagine how hurt you felt seeing other girls dressed up.
Two years is still relatively recent. I'm not saying that your mom was right to do what she did to you & your sister; however, depending upon exactly what happened between her & your dad she might have had an understandable reason for being so angry with him. Besides, there's no timeframe for when you should get over something or someone. People heal at their own pace
Fk outta here your mom did right! Other little girls lol your in your feelings. 😢
@@j.i.r608At the end of the day we were the innocent ones! She tried to hurt him by not allowing us to be in his wedding and all it did was hurt me! Wasn’t thinking about her children! It was all about her feelings!😒
At the end of the day, it's about the children, not the mother/Dad's anger @@j.i.r608
Miranda needs to move on. He don't want you!!!🤦🏽
💯
Hurt people, hurt people!! And it passes on to children too.
Miranda always done stuff like this. I remember when she left him
This is why its so frustrating to see her attitude now. Miranda is acting like another version of Tracy. Miranda stalled the divorce I remember Janine even asking her if this is because now if its because of money apparently now Calvin makes more than her.
His son should be a part of the wedding., it’s about her she just jealous now he about to use the son to hurt the father
Or at least be in attendance
I went through this. I got divorced and a year later was getting married and my ex-wife would not let our twin son and daughter be in or even attend my next wedding. Even now, over 20 years later she still holds onto things, and our kids turned 27 years old today.
A year later is even hard for the children.
It's not too much for Christian, it's too much for Miranda.
Miranda is the absolute worst. First she asks for the divorce and now she can't handle Calvin moving on with his life. Girl bye
Calvin cheated on Miranda and in one of the episodes didn’t he sleep with Miranda?
@@user-gt8zr3lp6ono he was with Eva before then she waited until later to tell him he had a son…
And remember the Mercedes situation? She kissed him first and Calvin kissed her back
@@quentinmitchell4568 bottom line marriage is hard Calvin has matured since then and Miranda stole from him I’m supprised married her she conned him so she is no saint but she did divorce him first she needs to let go or don’t hold the child back though if the child wants to go let them she doesn’t have too
@@janderson947She loved him but she divorced him because he started treating her poorly after he got shot and that’s something traumatic but you can’t treat ppl like that
Didn't even know this show was still running.
Right cause why is it still running 😂
Why? 😂
That part
@@user-rz3tp7fw9fwhy not
Facts😂😂😂
I wanna see how Christian looks all grown up .
I wanna see too
How old is he supposed to be?
@@lakeshajones9325I would say 15 or 16
He’s in episodes he’s about 9 now..
ALL THAT TALENT IN ONE ☝🏾 ROOM AMEN 🙏🏾🖤🤎🖤🤎🖤🍿🎥
It's all about her. Do you see Christian going around crying and being a fool bc mommy and daddy not together? Do you see Christian isolating himself or acting out bc they not together? No, everything she just said outta her mouth is what she's feeling she has not healed her broken heart, so she's using her kid as an excuse in all of this when it's her who hasn't processed the divorce and is still lifted confused not Christian
Of course we don’t because this is a sitcom 😂😂😂
Miranda is so selfish. She don't want christian to go his own father's wedding and also getting his own mother involved. SMH
Miranda has always been that way. But so has Calvin!!!
🤬 that go get married my son doesn't have to be there bye Craig😂
Once you cheat on your wife/women there is a level of hatred that a woman goes to because her heart is truly broken. Just because they decided to not be together and she seems to be alright it just isn’t the case. It never goes away for women but you can live a happy healthy productive life afterwards. Her son being at the wedding is another slap in the face even though he is also the father’s son.
I think it’s selfish he to assume considering he was dating her ex friend and the fact he isn’t faithful to said fiancé why would she want her son to be apart of something that isn’t going to last???
And Lauren was foul Miranda confided in her about Calvin and their problems after she got all her information then she got herself and went on and start they say looking to date him that's a snake and I don't respect Lauren nor Calvin for it
Miranda gurl you asked for the dam Divorce ‼️ so get over it😡
Exactly, Calvin moved on
Children should be asked if they wanna go.
Calvin should just get married the next time he has Christian.
This brought me back to how hurt I was when she left him at the original ending when he needed her the most. And she can’t take responsibility or accountability for that.
Loved my husband ex wife! She let her kids decide if they wanted to be in my wedding with their dad!!!! His son said yes and his daughter said No… I was okay with that 👍🏾
She let the kids decide and we had a great understanding
Wow.
Lance Gross is so fine.
Agree 100%
Lance gross is a cutie!
Now if she was gttn married I bet there wouldn’t even be a question about if her kids would be there or not 🙄
Possible Unpopular Opinion: I've never liked how Ella was always playing "Fixer" in everyone's situation, esp relationships. I get that the character is supposed to be the Matriarch with words of wisdom but she really needs to fall back sometimes. As far as Miranda, girl bye. Nothing worse than a parent who uses their kids as pawns.
I agree with you 💯. I never liked the Miranda character.
But they always at her house. So do you think she about to let them argue and act a fool at her house?
And she's not in their business, they put her in the business...
@@nishashawn2021Exactly and for this sat down, Miranda asked her to meditate for her so 🤷🏽♀️
Miranda needs to let fu-- go!!! Why do some women harm their children, because they can’t let go🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
right 💯
Having a child not being in some wedding is not doing any harm
@@antionettebubbles🙄
@@meshayellis2050 oh well. Like I said
@@antionettebubblesbut that is showing how miserable you are to keep your child away from their parents wedding
Miranda sounds like that bitter ex that clearly just won't move on after she was the one who asked for a divorce in the first place . It's selfish of her to not allow their son to be his his father's wedding. I like Ella she was being the mediator between them bcuz they both don't know how to co parent and be civil .
Miranda was bitter cause she the one asked for the divorce.
Miranda was bitter and completely wrong!
Calvin took miranda through a lot that she had to ask for the divorce. Calvin wasn't willing to change and do better he waits till after he is divorce to when he had all that time when they were together to. You can't make someone feel guilty because you decided to move on and to do it in their face. He knew what he was doing, he trying to make miranda jealous through another woman, and using that girl aint right. He barely knows Lauren.
And Lauren was foul Miranda confided in her about Calvin and their problems after she got all her information then she got herself and went on and start they say looking to date him that's a snake and I don't respect Lauren nor Calvin for it
@@reboo99 Exactly!
@reboo99 you obviously didn't watch she didn't know and by that time her feelings were already to deep with and she walked away but he went after
@@kylahoward1367 you obviously thank you watch I watch every episode from day one lil tink tink she pillowed talked to Laura her and Calvin Laura was wrong and Calvin was Lazy he finally made something of his self
@@reboo99but Miranda walked away first you don’t give up just because it was hard he BEGGED her because she wasn’t perfect either so why get mad when she chose to move on as did he not with Lauren but still …
I stop looking at this show because of Miranda and Ella Payne. I love the Calvin character
Pick me Paulette how long you been single
She isn’t a pick me Calvin has moved on I don’t care for Lauren but she should not have asked for a divorce it was her choice and stopping his child from going isn’t right that divorce happened these kids were BABiES 😂
@@janderson9477 💯
You only dislike the women characters because the man who wrote this purposefully made them annoying and unsufferable so people wouldn’t like them, including other women (especially other women). Men love it when we hate each other so we can love them more, and if you pay attention to a lot of TV shows & movies they do this ALL THE TIME. Whenever there’s a women main character, they’re character is usually insufferable (& the writer ✍🏾 does that purposely) and then they make the guy character seem better, PAY ATTENTION DO YOUR RESEARCH 💯
@@SonjaJUnpopularOpinions l don't like the character because I don't like the character. Please don't tell me why I don't, because it not that serious to me. When I look at tv shows or movies I am looking to be entertained, not to dig deep into what the writers a doing. If I do that then I am not being entertained.
I had no idea this was still on 😂😂
The whole situation is ridiculous.
I havent seen this show in a while... I didnt even know they were divorced... Can we please start seeing shoes where marriages last eithout all of the trauma, bitter ex wives/baby mamas, abusive husbands, cheating men etc.... goodness lets throw some positivity in the shows
If you did you wouldn’t be showing a real marriage to a certain degree. People never watch family shows without some level of drama and this is a real aspect of life for a lot of people. Life is a series of highs and lows and same goes for marriage.
Christian has been through enough, it's too much. Too much for him to process, no Miranda it's too much for you to process😒. Girl move on she's literally bitter af.
This is sad. I wish I was at least thought of when my dad got married. I didn't even know he was engaged before then after a few years of no contact. It is great that Calvin wanted his sons in his wedding. Miranda needs to fall back.
Calvin sure moved on
Ella is just trying to help
Calvin was a happy person.
I didn't even know they was still making episodes. Don't even know where to resume at , its been awhile.
Calvin got a beard now? Wow this a classic show
She just said "Christian is still trying to process the divorce" she is just protecting her son .. We don't know how Christian feels about his daddy
It's all about her. Do you see Christian going around crying and being a fool bc mommy and daddy not together? Do you see Christian isolating himself or acting out bc they not together? No, everything she just said outta her mouth is what she's feeling she has not healed her broken heart, so she's using her kid as an excuse in all of this when it's her who hasn't processed the divorce and is still lifted confused not Christian
Its too much for her, everyone keeps forgetting that she left Calvin when he was trying to celebrate their wedding anniversary
I could NEVER stand Miranda 😒
When my children go with their father isn't not my business as long as they aren't abused or harmed in anyway. I don't think she's processed it
It’s crazy how everyone telling Miranda to move on when Calvin was hooking up with her in one episode then still wants to get married to her ex bestie or co-worker…. Prediction Miranda and Calvin getting married again just like Janine and Cj did.
She does need to move on once he got with her ex best friend she should’ve stuck to only coparenting
@@nialinder Right but Calvin should also take accountability as well
When will y’all get it through your thick skull she left the marriage and then years later now wants him back. After all she put the family through stop it lol
You know what, when a goddess fights that hard to sabotage that God‘s life. Nothing crazy or too far out the norm. That shows she’s definitely still in love with him. And a goddess cannot get over a relationship unless she still has a lot of love for him or is in love with him. It’s one of the other. And you know what I really want Calvin and Miranda to rekindle to reconnect. Because when they got together they were both in the immature stage of their adulthood. Wanting it all and trying to do it all both extreme versions going into opposite directions. But them as I would say in their 40s-ish adults at least from the show perspective. This will be the best thing for them.
I know a lot of gods are going to be trying to get on me and be in their feelings because you know Miranda divorced him she didn’t wanted to do with him. But we all know goddesses move based on emotion not on what’s right. And if we God‘s want favor and grace with our goddesses we gotta be willing to give it to you in moments when it’s the hardest to do. Love and energy works both ways. It’s not a one-way street. So Goddess I salute you I respect you and I commend you. Because despite their differences, they’ve both grown and I genuinely feel in my heart of hearts they should be together.
Miranda was the one who wanted a divorce yet she could not leave this family alone. Miranda was always showing up unannounced and having an attitude as if Calvin is the one who left her. I do agree about them likely getting back together in future episodes but for now she is just being selfish for choices she made!
😂😂😂MMB the most important part is is best way for me and my wife and and 😂😂😂😂😂LOL 😂 is the 😂
Miranda is still hurting, but Calvin has not moved on, because he is So in LOVE with Miranda. He is using his wedding and his son to get back at Miranda for not giving him closure for their divorce.
He’s a dog wow slept with the ex bestie and now wants to marry her wow . Combo is not going to age well . I see divorce in his future again . He really needs to be by himself
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I got to see this
My son was invited the day of to his dad’s wedding! He declined on his on no pressure from me!
Miranda always playing the victim she needs to stop doing these games she broke Calvin heart and now he's moving on and she can't handle it she needs to realize her son can turn on her
So this season everything takes place in the kitchen. Got it.
Miranda sounds bitter because she ain’t with Calvin….. why stop their son from going to his own father’s wedding…. Move on sis and miss Ella needs to stay out of it
Well Ella is the mediator between Calvin & Miranda. Ella doesn’t like arguing in her house
@@alishashay17 you have a point but sis needs to move on at this point
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How would she feel if she was getting maried and he said that the baby wasn't coming to her wedding. She is wrong!
Well he didn’t birth him did he
@@zaeedhakhidd4784 It doesn't matter.
Never ask them you give them to much power when u do...like Nike says it best...Just do it....😅
Must see TV Miranda VS Calvin once again.
She was the one that left the marriage, she will have to deal with the situation that they are facing. - Eric Herns: Marietta, Georgia.
Wow.. didnt even know this show was still running 😮
this show still aint finished oml
Hey everyone it's a show. 😅
Miranda was always selfish 😂
Where can i watch this
When the new season starting?
She is a bitter baby momma! Of course, she does not want their child at his wedding
I never watched this show but seeing these clips of her character makes me glad I didn’t. And it’s even more sad that this happens today in real life.
Lets go back to memory lane. Calvin was the one that had an affair with the neighbors daughter as well as having a baby with the character Eve played. She had a miscarriage and still had to put up with his cheating ways. His mother always got involved in his relationships.
He had a baby with eve before Miranda, but he didn't find out until they were married
But who wanted a divorce she conned Calvin FIRST then he got in a fight trying to defend Miranda it’s not her fault but then she got focused on making MONEY and requested a divorce do I like Lauren no but she left her marriage and chose divorce oh well…
what does that have to do with Christian being in his dad's wedding? She can't make those type of decisons based on her hurt feelings.
@@mollyshaj.3888 true
When is the new season starting
When is the new season of house of Payne coming back on tv the last time I saw it Christian walked out of the apartment, so when is the new season of house of Payne coming back on BET can someone please tell me
Miranda at tye end of the day, that lady is going to be both of y’all son step parent
I don’t like Laura for Calvin and hope he and Miranda get back together. I think they still both have feelings for each other. What they should do is have a conversation with Christian and ask him. Miranda doesn’t have to go but if Calvin wants Christian there, he should have someone in place to care for him during the event.
This still comes on?
This show still on?
Ella needs to be a marriage counselor/therapist to other couples not her son & his ex. I have 7 sons but I do NOT get involved in their relationships.
None of my sons have children(it ABSOLUTELY changes EVERYTHING).
I don’t like Laura or Miranda for him 😂😂
Y’all in these comments talking about Miranda left him. SHE DID!! We know that. I think y’all forgetting the reasons. He wasn’t the man he was suppose to be/is now, but she realized she wanted to be with him, tried to call it off, and he was too humiliated and wanted the divorce anyways. She has not healed she still wanted him. She carried that marriage financially & emotionally for years. I’m this situation she is wrong but y’all looking at one piece.
She medals she stick up for my son😮ma ma boy she all in business
She was being selfish and in her feelings projecting it onto their son. If the divorce was hard for him, how does she think he's going to feel when he sees pictures of his dad's wedding and the whole family his big brother included was there but he wasn't?
Ight but when’s the show coming back
That is what you being called a bitter baby mama 🤷🏾♂️
This show is still going?
I’m still trying to figure out how they went from having one child to having kids.
This used to be my favorite show now it's just drama drama drama
Can somebody tell me when the new season starts?
Man this is some b.s. This is just annoying and aggravating at the same time.
Why is this show even still on???!!
Sorry but the moms need to mind her business and let them settle what they have to settle in private
Exactly!!!
in there case they need someone who's neutral
Need someone with some sense to be there
If not for the mother they may have been fighting
Facts I checked my mom many of times I hated too do it but I had too. But she respected me for it later
Ask the children if they want to or not an if the son says no then it is what it is take the emotions out of it an allow the children answer for themselves
She left him and can’t move on
How is this only on S8? I watched this when I went to middle school like 15 years ago
Because there’s like 80 something episodes a season on some earlier ones
This not about her son, this is about her! She's very wrong for this -
I'm confused. Why does Calvin wants his child as a groomsmen, and how old is he supposed to even be? Their son's feeings are just an excuse. She should explain the divorce more since she asked for it.
Miranda is wrong in this matter. She's still hurting over the decision that she made and doesn't want to face the fact that he's moved on. By not allowing his son to be apart of, or even attend, his father's wedding is just being petty. She wants to hurt him like she's hurting.
Maybe because Calvin wanted his son there. Christian should be around the twins age ( Jayden & Hayden) if not a little older
Is this show still living?
First of all they were young n Calvin did some things that took her down the road of not trusting him...they need to get divorced so they can find their way back to each other...I will say that I do want them back together but if not they need to give Maranda a new man...someone like her real husband Brad James...but this is really old...his fiance left him on the last one. Ijs my opinions 😊
Depends y she doesnt want him to go
What happened? Did he cheat on her with the girl...if so that wouldn't b healthy n or fair to throw the child in the middle of that messy wedding its disrespectful to the child. Thats putting kids in mess
Uhhh... Is this newly released??...Here I thought the "House of Payne" series was done when Curtis sold the house and moved??....
When did house of Payne get a reboot?
In 2020
It's like at times Miranda be trying to get under Calvin skin
This show is still on?
Yes it is
Old scene, Calvin & Miranda slept together again, and the wedding was called off, because the bride to be was extremely paranoid & accused Calvin of cheating with internet hoes & Miranda .
Take her to court or plan the wedding on the day that he gets him without her or Chrisean knowing so that he be in the wedding!!!!
Miranda is so bitter 🙄like girl get you a life and move on.