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  • @LaurenRosetta00
    @LaurenRosetta00 3 роки тому +364

    Anytime a guy is "constantly on his phone" you must do what Tony always says, put on your track shoes!
    "ghat tah go!"

    • @ambermarie8554
      @ambermarie8554 3 роки тому +3

      What does that mean when that is going on?

    • @roshandaturner681
      @roshandaturner681 3 роки тому +5

      😭😂

    • @misshappily3387
      @misshappily3387 3 роки тому +15

      Gone bout yo business!! 🤣🤣😂

    • @robinyoung555
      @robinyoung555 3 роки тому +12

      After 5 years I went back to spend sometimes with him. The reason I left him alone for that lone is the same reasons I see now. I called him out about texting out women while in my presence. Him receiving phone calls from other women while I am in his presence. I was placed in “the friend zone”. He is not for me. He got made cause I called him out. I told him that he is a player. He was to good to be true. Rich, professional soccer player and had everything together but yet not married yet. Red flags! “Friend zone”

    • @LaurenRosetta00
      @LaurenRosetta00 3 роки тому +9

      ​@@ambermarie8554 All funny business aside, the phone is an addictive device. Some people have an addictive personality and really enjoy spending time on their phones. A lot of people even work from their phones. This innocent behavior can still be a sign of disrespect/lack of interest when the intention is to spend quality time together. It isn't fair and it isn't quality time if one person is distracted, on their phone not paying attention. On the more negative side of things, it could mean he is distracted by other women. It is called quality time and attention, which is vital to a healthy relationship. The phone gives access to the outside world. Keep an eye out for this particular red flag but never go through a guy's phone without his permission. If he doesn't grant permission, give him the side-eye and "put on your track shoes." Never argue and fight with a guy over his phone. Sometimes an iPhone is the only prized possession people (men) have and it is sad.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 3 роки тому +97

    when a man is all about you, you'll never have to wonder....all his actions will show you how he feels about you

  • @justmayson1498
    @justmayson1498 3 роки тому +145

    Girl .... go and be a doctor. Be successful and move on.

  • @trinasworld9377
    @trinasworld9377 3 роки тому +236

    I believe these women need to stop commiting themselves emotionally with men who genuinely just not that invested in them.

    • @nicoleb9047
      @nicoleb9047 3 роки тому +14

      I made that mistake on my first “love” (lasted 8 years), although he is physically out of my life, emotionally I haven’t been able to let go yet. The thoughts of him moving on with someone else still haunt me. Do you have any tips for how to let go?

    • @Isa-Amor
      @Isa-Amor 3 роки тому +21

      @@nicoleb9047 day by day it gets better. Time does heal. Keep busy. Remember why you left

    • @phoenixrising2759
      @phoenixrising2759 3 роки тому +11

      @A BCD Be careful with your judgement of others. Your strength may be her weakness, just as your weakness may be another's strength. Healing is a lifelong journey for all of us.⚘

    • @phoenixrising2759
      @phoenixrising2759 3 роки тому +8

      @@nicoleb9047 yes, give the unconditional love that you have for him back to yourself. Make yourself happy, become the person you hope to attract. It's time to practice self love. Continue on your healing journey and you will soon lose interest in anyone who does not love you in the same way.⚘

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 3 роки тому +1

      @@nicoleb9047 , you need to do the work to get over him. I believe Tony Gaskins has a few free courses to help. You have to be watching him daily. Focus on the three Bs: brain, body, and body. Focus on you and being a better you.
      It helped me heal.

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 3 роки тому +99

    He lost respect for her when she got down on her knees for him. He might sexualize those kind of women but that doesnt mean he wants to be with them.

  • @susanntillzxo3626
    @susanntillzxo3626 3 роки тому +84

    Boy, I remember when my ex said Tony is a fake who gives false advice and that I had to stop watching his videos. Lol I just know he mad mad right now, that I’ve applied Tony’s teachings to everything I do today. Super blessed to have insight from our brother in Christ, without these videos I’d probably still be compromising my values and body to that clown 🤡

  • @Nel164
    @Nel164 3 роки тому +302

    Honestly if a man sets out to make you confused he’s not interested. A man who truly likes you will make it known. Don’t waste your time

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 3 роки тому +5

      Good point

    • @LittleMissSunshine721
      @LittleMissSunshine721 2 роки тому +2

      Soooo true! It’s so frustrating!!!

    • @thekimberlynproject
      @thekimberlynproject Рік тому +2

      💯

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki 7 місяців тому

      A man into me should not be looking or talking to anyone else. I feel awful.

    • @zuum-sx7ke
      @zuum-sx7ke 4 місяці тому

      True! The ones not interested will confuse you. They never say a yes or no. They talk in riddles. 😶😑

  • @jlynn9575
    @jlynn9575 2 роки тому +16

    I work in Oncology and can’t tell you the number of patients that have been diagnosed with tongue cancers as a result of oral sex. Sadly we barely hear or talk about the consequences of oral sex…

    • @PullthaleverKronk
      @PullthaleverKronk Рік тому +1

      I hadn’t ever heard of this. Could you explain how it causes it?

    • @whitepearls20
      @whitepearls20 Рік тому +3

      @@PullthaleverKronkit’s because of the human papillomavirus (HPV) which is a common sexually transmitted infection.

  • @Averyveryy
    @Averyveryy 3 роки тому +46

    The devil is a liar and a deceiver, he can come around nice, sweet, good looking, gentle on the surface (lies)
    Watch out! (Deception )
    Sister move on, don’t even look back,
    Ask god for forgiveness, forgive yourself, repent and feed your faith, daily with the word of God. Alignment is a blessing, it protects us from many things, that’s the power of the lord Jesus.

  • @iscelaarias3957
    @iscelaarias3957 3 роки тому +40

    Oh my god!!! I can’t stop laughing... when I got divorced, my son was sad and I decided to buy a golden retriever dog to helping going through rough time...dog was 2 month old, as the dog grew up his body kept staying small and his head was big. I kept telling my kids, this dog is defected... now mason ( dog ) is beautiful and normal...gets everyone attention. He is my dog since my kids move out and I stay with my old mason. Thank you Tony for taking time from your family to help us be better

    • @iscelaarias3957
      @iscelaarias3957 2 роки тому +4

      @@blueseptember2174 continue doing things as family. Many women as soon they get divorce believe “ its time to enjoy life and baby themselves “ baby themselves equivalent to go out with men… I truly believe a woman who has kids and divorce specially younger babies should stay single …..they have no business going out with a man instead try to teach your kids family can be build with or without a husband. If your kids are 7-16 constantly do family activities… building their present it’s important for them to have a beautiful future.

  • @gloriakuhn8670
    @gloriakuhn8670 3 роки тому +56

    My intuition is that he is playing games and was probably using her from the beginning. His family seems to be a part of it too.

  • @lillianwisdom8298
    @lillianwisdom8298 3 роки тому +34

    He is too funny talking about his head. When I need a laugh I can always turn to Tony 🤣

  • @phoenixrising2759
    @phoenixrising2759 3 роки тому +28

    Block. Delete...Next.

  • @noirfit9721
    @noirfit9721 3 роки тому +33

    Tony could legit be a Christian comedian. This man be having me rolling

  • @tonyam8417
    @tonyam8417 3 роки тому +25

    When you broke that lighter and almost stapled your finger, I rewinded that part about four times laughing at you 😂😂😂😂

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 3 роки тому +28

    Tony is breaking it ALL the way down.. some women like that fast cooked microwave food but this is the slowed cooked taste good food lol. I don’t mind the long videos because I blast it while doing everything...rather listen to this than WAP 🤧🤧

  • @ms.butterlove9394
    @ms.butterlove9394 3 роки тому +12

    That Head Report Got Me Crying...🙊🙉🙈

  • @Banana-lk7tf
    @Banana-lk7tf 2 роки тому +4

    I love how you combine brilliant advice with (almost) slapstick comedy, without even trying! Tony, you're truly a gem.

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 роки тому +8

    She abstained until she felt like she was loosing him. And she felt like he was more attractive than her so her insecurities kicked in so she gave him
    A lil sumthin cuz she thought that would keep him

  • @InTheRecoveryRoom
    @InTheRecoveryRoom 3 роки тому +30

    Such an awesome ministry !!

  • @proudblackwoman4824
    @proudblackwoman4824 3 роки тому +10

    Forever grateful for your advice and teachings. It has changed my life and gave me my power back. And I share your videos with every single black woman I know. I stopped having sex altogether and have been emotionally stable since. It feels good to know I’m no longer giving myself to men who don’t deserve it anyway. I wish I had all this advice 20 years ago, it would have saved me a lot of pain. Thank you Tony. 😎

  • @nikkirowland
    @nikkirowland 3 роки тому +12

    😂😂Tony’s big head story had me in tears 😭 😂😂😂

    • @FeelingFitFabFun
      @FeelingFitFabFun 3 роки тому +3

      I hollered!

    • @nikkirowland
      @nikkirowland 3 роки тому +2

      @@FeelingFitFabFun 🤣🤣

    • @growinwoman2290
      @growinwoman2290 Рік тому

      Girl I had to pause, I was laughing so hard. The doctor part took me out 😂😂

  • @ROYALTY12572
    @ROYALTY12572 3 роки тому +10

    This was the funniest video ever! And no Tony, Lil Wayne is NOT good looking AT ALL! I don't care how much money he has! You are such a blessing. Thank you.

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 3 роки тому

      He said white women think that way 🤣🤣🤣.

  • @bizzywizzy1341
    @bizzywizzy1341 3 роки тому +41

    Goes to show education is not equivalent to common sense.

    • @noirfit9721
      @noirfit9721 3 роки тому +8

      Everybody has played the fool for “love”. Doesn’t mean she’s stupid, she just made a poor decision

  • @mariadaskalakis9317
    @mariadaskalakis9317 3 роки тому +4

    Don’t know about anyone else but the packing up of the stuff gets me every time. 😩😂

  • @GabyDee7
    @GabyDee7 3 роки тому +8

    This is such a great lesson for women. Thank you TG.

  • @ShyBabyxoxo
    @ShyBabyxoxo 2 роки тому +1

    Tony! “You down there sangin’ all on that microphone.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @mzlove4121
    @mzlove4121 3 роки тому +15

    😂 😂 🎤 It was the Maxwell Woman's Worth 🎶 for me! 😂 😂 TONY NEVER FAILS ME FOR A LOL!!

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 3 роки тому +2

    That's right Uncle Tony!
    Keep reminding these folks that's waiting for a mistake. 👏🏾

  • @ZfenProductions
    @ZfenProductions 3 роки тому +7

    Tony hit that note! That microfoon 🎤 note 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Dominiquebroom
    @Dominiquebroom 3 роки тому +19

    Lets get this lesson tonight!!

  • @CourtneyB
    @CourtneyB 3 роки тому +19

    Perfect way to end the night!

  • @patriciawilliams5519
    @patriciawilliams5519 3 роки тому +9

    Submission and Worship of anything other than the creator is deceptive. No love, just games. He needs too much attention. She hopefully has dropped the clown and working on herself.

  • @sherrytee2962
    @sherrytee2962 3 роки тому +8

    Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...seriously, but if we stay Holy we'll have a fighting chance
    🙈 still loads of listening required!

  • @aliciasmith5012
    @aliciasmith5012 3 роки тому +11

    Tony and his facial expressions. I think he could be a good actor." I dont know what a handsome man look like but I know what a ugly person look like".🤣😅🤦‍♀️

  • @shallah1542
    @shallah1542 3 роки тому +2

    It's the color changes for me🤣🤣🤣

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie 3 роки тому +4

    I can’t stop laughing about the helmet story!!!! Brother Tony, you are hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @RochelleDametrice
    @RochelleDametrice 3 роки тому +4

    Yo I’m screaming hearing you talking bout your head omg 😭😭🤣

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 3 роки тому +5

    Bro Tony you're so hilarious and I be at work laughing my head off and my coworkers are asking me who you listening to . I have to stay focus so I want get behind with my work but ,Bro Tony you just something serious 😂😂😂 not only am I learning from others story am taking notes not go down the path am hearing others having to go through.and to catch the red flags early in the game.

  • @MsProdigy3
    @MsProdigy3 3 роки тому +1

    Sin is sin, you are so right Tony . Make a man be who he says he is 👍

  • @tinajones1932
    @tinajones1932 3 роки тому +17

    Listening.

  • @Craftynursecreative
    @Craftynursecreative 2 місяці тому

    I was trying not to laugh about the head joke but you kept going 😂😂😂

  • @wellwateredwoman897
    @wellwateredwoman897 2 роки тому +1

    TONY IS THE TRUTH!👏

  • @soothingtemples9393
    @soothingtemples9393 3 роки тому +2

    Yes, data mining, pattern collections and behavior predictions are real. Mr.Gaskins is going in.... he understands the art of the setup. "Coach Francesca"

  • @DD-mg2se
    @DD-mg2se 2 роки тому

    It's the "kicks" for me. Laughter is a must in here. All in one😂😂😂💯

  • @Leelang931
    @Leelang931 7 місяців тому

    I had to play that lighter demonstration back 3 times 😂😂

  • @rioguttaful
    @rioguttaful 3 роки тому +4

    Hey tony I think you forgot to turn the comment section off 🤣😂😂

  • @tabmajor27
    @tabmajor27 3 роки тому +3

    Them head jokes😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @barbaramccoy9484
    @barbaramccoy9484 Рік тому

    You have me LOL but you're on point. I like you. Stay the course.

  • @shariseverdine6818
    @shariseverdine6818 3 роки тому

    I am laughing so much on this video. Tony is in rare form today
    Thanks for adding humor to tough situations. Great information and delivery is awesome.

  • @purplesoul9927
    @purplesoul9927 3 роки тому

    It's the hand gestures for me. Love Mr. Tony G🥰

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 роки тому +3

    Great video, I learned a lot. That stapler scared me though lool !

  • @kamilahspeaks2200
    @kamilahspeaks2200 3 роки тому

    Let em know Tony‼️ 🗣Keep waiting

  • @sadelynn2235
    @sadelynn2235 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness, I about peed my pants when TG tired to light the lighter lol 😂 I cracked up laughing 😆 during my 15 walk
    At work 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @35478
    @35478 5 днів тому

    😂😂watermelon head everything😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @yolandaletitia8934
    @yolandaletitia8934 3 роки тому

    🤣🤣😅😅😅😆 the bloopers at the end is what I needed.

  • @dare2bda137
    @dare2bda137 3 роки тому

    🤣😂😅 love listening to my big lil' brother 😂
    Learning so much!!!

  • @Keylit328
    @Keylit328 3 роки тому +1

    Lol...no I am short when Im done. No energy at all. When i smile and conversate im interested. Tired of the games.

  • @LaTrav08
    @LaTrav08 3 роки тому +2

    Good evening👑👑👑

  • @debraross925
    @debraross925 3 роки тому

    Love the color coded... reflection you gave....

  • @joi5787
    @joi5787 3 роки тому

    Thank you Tony!!! I appreciate all the game💎💯

  • @spokenpoet5074
    @spokenpoet5074 3 роки тому +23

    Look lady just stop investing time in an useless relationship disrespect is disrespect. If he knows you all font see each other often. When you do see one another regularly and hes on the phone ect...hes no interested...,go on with your life you're young and can be with a man who wants you.... Mr. Gaskins you cant be making me laugh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Money are not disrespect shouldn't be tolerated.....

  • @briannamcspadden
    @briannamcspadden Рік тому

    GREAT info! I can relate with growing into your head ahah that has me rolling! I had the same issue with my graduation cap instead of a helmet! Thank you TG 💜💙

  • @sharonebrickhouse1459
    @sharonebrickhouse1459 2 роки тому

    I must say Tony narrating these letters are hilarious

  • @VirtuousWoman1143
    @VirtuousWoman1143 Рік тому +1

    YUP THE QUIET ONES.

  • @saphireflowers3382
    @saphireflowers3382 3 роки тому

    Learned sooooo much from this here letter and video

  • @KittyLewinsky7
    @KittyLewinsky7 3 роки тому +1

    When Tony broke his lighter 😂😂😂😂

  • @user-tp2jm4im6g
    @user-tp2jm4im6g 3 роки тому +1

    Tony with the lighter and the stapler 😂😂😭🤣

  • @IshanaeS
    @IshanaeS 3 роки тому +1

    You need to put on a turn signal 😭😭😭😭😭😭 pleaseeeee

  • @cocojinx5245
    @cocojinx5245 3 роки тому

    🤣🤣 I'm sorry but the head jokes had me🤣🤣

  • @photina78
    @photina78 Рік тому +1

    Christians are to abstain from sex until marriage, not "until we understand each other deeply."

  • @larondathompson2241
    @larondathompson2241 3 роки тому +1

    Tony you said you see people and start praying for them. I am sorry that is hilarious.

  • @getpebblesghana3980
    @getpebblesghana3980 3 роки тому

    🤣🤣🤣The hospital story!

  • @casandraking1876
    @casandraking1876 3 роки тому

    Yes im in love with a man because of his character and i've never fealt this way befor with anyone else

  • @Karim.711
    @Karim.711 3 роки тому +2

    I can’t stop laughing about your head trauma 😂

  • @PullthaleverKronk
    @PullthaleverKronk Рік тому

    Had to come back here after watching some Jennifer Moleski videos… all about how to keep a man 🙄

  • @maewilliams5505
    @maewilliams5505 3 роки тому +1

    Track Shoes...!!!!!!

  • @tanyaberlinger2471
    @tanyaberlinger2471 3 роки тому

    Your head is beautiful inside and outside😂👍

  • @Beethechanges
    @Beethechanges 3 роки тому

    Oil money 😅.. pure comedy 🙏🏽 thank ya sir

  • @Getitgirl816
    @Getitgirl816 3 роки тому

    The only reason why he would marry her is because she makes him look good related to her career path. He comes from a wealthy family, very handsome and likes the IG type of women but knows his family ain't going for that type. This could end up being like "you know who" and his wife that has been plastered all over social media and on-line news outlets for the past couple weeks. 🧐

  • @tanyahaiman7017
    @tanyahaiman7017 3 роки тому

    Ok Tony we get it. She is not the lady from the period-less email.

  • @kathylofton4530
    @kathylofton4530 3 роки тому +1

    Tony, I have date “incredibly handsome.” Lol! They do exist. 😊

  • @CiaobellaAmour
    @CiaobellaAmour 3 роки тому +3

    W.A.P video? How old is he again? 🙄 What's his occupation?

  • @kerimaabu1359
    @kerimaabu1359 3 роки тому

    Tony, 100%

  • @tedtenorio5628
    @tedtenorio5628 2 роки тому

    I am handsome I'm good looking

  • @Itsque28
    @Itsque28 6 днів тому

    😂😂😂 omggg. Yo cousin use to duck???? Im hollering. Thats why you so funny. You grew up with roasting.

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 роки тому

    Not email getting discriminated against 😂😂😂😂

  • @prestigiouswisdom1283
    @prestigiouswisdom1283 3 роки тому

    I’m just saying I love my AOL account 😩

  • @kamilahspeaks2200
    @kamilahspeaks2200 3 роки тому +1

    Get off your knees almost took me out😩

  • @michellemarch2587
    @michellemarch2587 Рік тому

    Player player player.

  • @melaniegonzalezart8506
    @melaniegonzalezart8506 3 роки тому +2

    15:16 Lol!!!!!

  • @relisbetrel
    @relisbetrel 3 роки тому

    The rag over Jesus' eyes noooo 🙈🤣

  • @dooliefaye3588
    @dooliefaye3588 3 роки тому

    Winning Grammys 🤣🤣🎤🎤

  • @sexcsisi
    @sexcsisi 3 роки тому +1

    "Shake things up, by speaking to the mic"! Im lost.

  • @Thedvinelife
    @Thedvinelife 2 роки тому

    I feel personally attacked uncle tone 😞🙏🏽

  • @bsalifu82
    @bsalifu82 3 роки тому +301

    Hear this from someone who learned the hard way. Let him go. You are better than what he think of you.

    • @mmxw2294
      @mmxw2294 3 роки тому +19

      A men that is interested in you will show you just that if they don’t then let it go

    • @VirtuousWoman1143
      @VirtuousWoman1143 Рік тому +2

      YOU GOT THAT RIGHT !!!!👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

  • @lekeshial418
    @lekeshial418 3 роки тому +168

    Never do something you're uncomfortable with, to appease someone else. PERIOD.She wanted to be abstinent, she should've stayed abstinent.(with no alternatives)Had she stuck to that, He would've revealed himself, and she could move on with ease. She's struggling because she compromised her morals. Also stuck because she's intelligent and thought she was smarter than falling for the "okie doke".

    • @lekeshial418
      @lekeshial418 3 роки тому +13

      @@LA-wv7gf Right! There's no way he saw her the same, after that.

    • @Stormy867
      @Stormy867 3 роки тому +3

      You are so right 💯

    • @Banana-lk7tf
      @Banana-lk7tf 2 роки тому +1

      @@LA-wv7gf I really think it depends on the woman, though. I was a virgin til the age of 25, almost 26, but was able to give/receive oral from the age of 21, without feeling attachment towards the guy. Now, when I first attempted to have intercourse, at 24, (we were not able to physically do it), I got my heartbroken afterwards. We had attempted to "make love" only once, but then, broke up a few days later. It took me forever to get over the guy, like several years. The only reason I even had sex at 25 was because I had spiraled into self destructive behaviour, which included drinking and lots of guys, to try and get over the first guy. I was a mess. I really think sex is a whole different beast, compared to oral. But, that's my opinion.

    • @teishawoods3830
      @teishawoods3830 4 місяці тому

      💯

  • @InspiredUno
    @InspiredUno 3 роки тому +165

    She’s needs to focus on medicine and her career. Forgive and move on from him!

  • @fabulousmdb7927
    @fabulousmdb7927 3 роки тому +283

    One thing I've learned by listening to Tony's videos is that some, if not most women are out here doing the absolute most. She said SHE decided to shake things up and SHE assumed he was bored. He never initiated anything and he knew he didn't have to. He just planted the seed. These men don't have to do a thing to win our attention or affection. They just sit back and watch us fall all over ourselves. And it's sad.

    • @BeautyWithinKakra
      @BeautyWithinKakra 3 роки тому +20

      I think women ( maybe l should make it about me -old me- feel kinda Unstable/lost stable when we feel a man will no longer get excited about us. And I’m attempt to “get the magic back” we compromise. I agree with you wholeheartedly that it was my insecure playing in me rather. Had I held those standards that I set beforehand, I would’ve had a different ending 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @deliteful1991
      @deliteful1991 3 роки тому +10

      This was a word!

    • @christineporter9914
      @christineporter9914 3 роки тому +3

      Amen, so true

    • @DawneMega
      @DawneMega 3 роки тому +8

      Good point.... Imagine she bowed out gracefully instead of doing this. Well, when you know better you do better.

    • @sweetolives2467
      @sweetolives2467 3 роки тому +1

      So true

  • @preciousruby7265
    @preciousruby7265 3 роки тому +132

    He played so many mind games with her. He's such a counterfeit. He wasn't worth it. Such a fake and grown boy.

    • @Kay-yk6gb
      @Kay-yk6gb 3 роки тому +1

      Too young to make grown adult choices. ❤️