Urakoze bwana Me MM. Waziye igihe kabisa kuko uraduha ubumenyi bwawe nta kiguzi.Ibiganiro byawe urabikora neza ku buryo umuntu uwo ari we wese abyumva agasobanukirwa bitagoranye.Ese nk'umuntu ushaka Basic knowledge (introduction) mu buryo buri formal akoze self documantation mwamurangira nk'iyihe document mu buryo bwanditse?
Muraho neza, bigenda bite iyo umuntu asambanyije ku ngufu umukobwa akiri muto? Akaregwa ntuma agafungwa agataga ahawe imbabazi ko azafasha uwo yateye inda, nyuma akamwihinduka akamwononera abana mu gihe ari kubarera, urugero akababwira amagambo yo kubangiriza amarangamutima agira ati nge ntabwo nababyaye muzage kureba nyoko ababwire so wanyu, ibyo bikaba afite undi mudamu yazanye uri gushyigikira ibyo bikorwa bibi ku bana, icya 2 akabambura imibereho abinyujije mu kubakoresha imirimo ivunanye ku gahato bakiri bato mu si yimyaka yu bukure igenwa na mategeko ariyo 18, Bananirwa kuyikora akabahanisha ibihano bikomeye ndenga kamere ya muntu, ingero nko kwima umwana ibyo kurya ngo ararya aruko yakoze akazi, wakurikirana impamvu umwana atakoze ako kazi ugasanga aruko umwana akiri muto nta nege zihagije umwana muto yagira zo kuvomesha amajerekani cg kumesa imyenda ye niya babyeyi be na bana ba mu kase. Iyo nzara nayo yaba impamvu harimo nigwingira mw'ishuri no mu mirimo umwana atozwa gake gake. Uko bimunaniye ntihitwe kuri gitera ahubwo umwana agakorerwa ibyamfura mbi, Kugeza aho umwana yomongana ahunze inkoni akubitwa na se wamuzanye iwe ngo azamufasha ahunga gutanga indezo ni bihano bigenerwa uwafashe ku ngufu umwana muto. yarabikoreye uburyarya abeshya ko yoyemeje gufasha umwana mu mikurire ye, ahubwo akamugira igikoresho cy'umuryango aho kwa mukase, ise akongeraho gusebya nyina ati yamugeretseho umwana atabyaye ibyo bigatizwa umurindi abahemukira umwana na nyina agatakaza icyubahiro kubwo kubana abana be bakuze nta shinge nta rugero, naho abandi atariye nu rwara bariho neza, bararangije amashuri nta nikindi kibazo cyigwigira muri byose bafite. Iki cyaha cyo gufata ku ngufu ndetse hasambanijwe umwana mwabifatanya mukareba ingaruka za bana bitwa ibirara na bandi birengangijwe ni miryango bakomokamo kubera icyo cyaha kiri mu mitwe yacu kitoroshye na buke. Ese gufata ku ngufu niharimo no gusambanya uwafashwe ku ngufu? None ko uwafashwe ku ngufu hakurikira ku mushyira mu buzima bubi ibyo tuzabikemurirwa gute hatavuguruwe amategeko agenga icyaha cyo gufatwa ku ngufu?! Abantu bafashwe ku ngufu mu ntambara ko mubirengagiza?! Ese abantu bafashwe ku ngufu nyuma yintambara bitewe na bantu bari barangiritse mu mutwe kuki ntacyo mubateganyiriza?! Ahubwo mukaba mubomonganisha? Abana babo bakaba ntaho bari bakaba barwana na madeni ku mazu batuyemo kubwo kwimwa uburenganzira bwo kuba mu muryango bikozwe nuwafashe ku ngufu nyina wabo?! Ese mubona tuzabiceceka tukageza ryari? Ni gute icyo cyaha gisaza?! Mutubwire mushize amanga kuko abanyarwanda aha hanze tubabazwa na mategeko yu Rwanda aduhutaza kubera aba bagabo babasambanyi batanga naza ruswa nu guhatira abakorewe ibyaha gutanga imbabazi ku gahato n'iterabwoba rishingiye ku mitungo mwabahariye ngo ntibagatange iminani cg imigabane ku rubyaro rwavukiye mu muryango nya Rwanda? Ese muzi kuvuka ufite so atuye bikarangira uzerera urwana no kubona aho waba nta bibazo byo kwishyura amazu y'ubukode? Aba bana babyiganira mu ma ghetto no mu mavuriro avura indwara zo mu mutwe, no mu magororero icyahoze ari gereza hano mu Rwanda. Mudutabare ntabwo twabaho gutya ngo tugire icyizere cyo kubona ko urubyaro rwacu ruzagira amahoro. Twarajugunkwe nkabataravutse nta burenganzira bw'ikiremwa muntu mbonye aho. Habe na bucye. Abanyarwanda ko nziko tugaragaza ubumwe nki ntego ni ngamba zo guca amacakubiri ahubwo nkaba mbona ubusumbane bwarahawe intebe ?! Ni gute umwana yirikanwa mu murwango akiri muto? Ni gute abeshyerwa amakosa bikagera ku nera yo kuba umwana yakiruka imihana ahakishiriza amaramuko mu buryo nkubwo?! Ni byinshi navuga nange byambayeho, amategeko yaraduhutaje kandi twavutse ku buryo bw'ifatwa ku ngufu rya ba maman bacu. Rero akebo ugereyemo mwene so nawe niko ugererwamo. Mugire icyo mukora ku cyaha cyo gufata ku ngufu kibe icyaha kidasaza , nababikoze uyu munsi bari kwidegembya babiryozwe haboneke ubuzima gatozi ki miryango iri gutereranwa muri byose, ese twabagize gute ko muri kutwicira ahazaza?! Aba bagabo bagomba kwishyura cg twe tukazihanira kuko turi gukura. Iki kibazo gifite uburemere nkubwa genocide. Ni gute papa wawe yashaka abagore 5 hanyuma papa wawe agahitamo umugore umwe ?! Nkaho abandi atari abe? Harimo abo yafashe ku ngufu? Harimo nabo yashutse atagamije kubatunga? Abana nibo babigwamo cyane, nibo bazaba mu mihanda nibo bazicwa nu buzima butagira kivugira nta n'ishuri. Nta kazi , ise araho ari mu buzima bwiza nabo yagumanye nabo, abandi akabakura mu bana be abinyujije mu bikorwa byurwango ni hohoterwa ryo kubeshyerwa ibyaha na makosa yo kubashakira impamvu yo kubikuraho, ese ibyo muzabigeza ryari? Iki cyaha kitagiye mu byaha bagomba kuryozwa igihe cyose nyirukugikora akiriho. Kufata ku ngufu bikorwe ni ngaruka muzirengagize ?! Mubijyemo cg nzigaragambye bitoroshye. Ni gute abana buwo mugabo bacikamo ibice kugeza naho bamwe bagirana urwango rwo kuba bakicana?! Muraho murakora iki?! Mukore akazi kanyu neza. Ejo nejo bundi tutazakora akazi kanyu, ibi bizagera no kumukuru wi gihugu.
Urakoze bwana Me MM. Waziye igihe kabisa kuko uraduha ubumenyi bwawe nta kiguzi.Ibiganiro byawe urabikora neza ku buryo umuntu uwo ari we wese abyumva agasobanukirwa bitagoranye.Ese nk'umuntu ushaka Basic knowledge (introduction) mu buryo buri formal akoze self documantation mwamurangira nk'iyihe document mu buryo bwanditse?
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Muraho neza, bigenda bite iyo umuntu asambanyije ku ngufu umukobwa akiri muto? Akaregwa ntuma agafungwa agataga ahawe imbabazi ko azafasha uwo yateye inda, nyuma akamwihinduka akamwononera abana mu gihe ari kubarera, urugero akababwira amagambo yo kubangiriza amarangamutima agira ati nge ntabwo nababyaye muzage kureba nyoko ababwire so wanyu, ibyo bikaba afite undi mudamu yazanye uri gushyigikira ibyo bikorwa bibi ku bana, icya 2 akabambura imibereho abinyujije mu kubakoresha imirimo ivunanye ku gahato bakiri bato mu si yimyaka yu bukure igenwa na mategeko ariyo 18,
Bananirwa kuyikora akabahanisha ibihano bikomeye ndenga kamere ya muntu, ingero nko kwima umwana ibyo kurya ngo ararya aruko yakoze akazi, wakurikirana impamvu umwana atakoze ako kazi ugasanga aruko umwana akiri muto nta nege zihagije umwana muto yagira zo kuvomesha amajerekani cg kumesa imyenda ye niya babyeyi be na bana ba mu kase.
Iyo nzara nayo yaba impamvu harimo nigwingira mw'ishuri no mu mirimo umwana atozwa gake gake. Uko bimunaniye ntihitwe kuri gitera ahubwo umwana agakorerwa ibyamfura mbi,
Kugeza aho umwana yomongana ahunze inkoni akubitwa na se wamuzanye iwe ngo azamufasha ahunga gutanga indezo ni bihano bigenerwa uwafashe ku ngufu umwana muto.
yarabikoreye uburyarya abeshya ko yoyemeje gufasha umwana mu mikurire ye, ahubwo akamugira igikoresho cy'umuryango aho kwa mukase, ise akongeraho gusebya nyina ati yamugeretseho umwana atabyaye ibyo bigatizwa umurindi abahemukira umwana na nyina agatakaza icyubahiro kubwo kubana abana be bakuze nta shinge nta rugero, naho abandi atariye nu rwara bariho neza, bararangije amashuri nta nikindi kibazo cyigwigira muri byose bafite. Iki cyaha cyo gufata ku ngufu ndetse hasambanijwe umwana mwabifatanya mukareba ingaruka za bana bitwa ibirara na bandi birengangijwe ni miryango bakomokamo kubera icyo cyaha kiri mu mitwe yacu kitoroshye na buke.
Ese gufata ku ngufu niharimo no gusambanya uwafashwe ku ngufu? None ko uwafashwe ku ngufu hakurikira ku mushyira mu buzima bubi ibyo tuzabikemurirwa gute hatavuguruwe amategeko agenga icyaha cyo gufatwa ku ngufu?! Abantu bafashwe ku ngufu mu ntambara ko mubirengagiza?! Ese abantu bafashwe ku ngufu nyuma yintambara bitewe na bantu bari barangiritse mu mutwe kuki ntacyo mubateganyiriza?! Ahubwo mukaba mubomonganisha?
Abana babo bakaba ntaho bari bakaba barwana na madeni ku mazu batuyemo kubwo kwimwa uburenganzira bwo kuba mu muryango bikozwe nuwafashe ku ngufu nyina wabo?! Ese mubona tuzabiceceka tukageza ryari? Ni gute icyo cyaha gisaza?! Mutubwire mushize amanga kuko abanyarwanda aha hanze tubabazwa na mategeko yu Rwanda aduhutaza kubera aba bagabo babasambanyi batanga naza ruswa nu guhatira abakorewe ibyaha gutanga imbabazi ku gahato n'iterabwoba rishingiye ku mitungo mwabahariye ngo ntibagatange iminani cg imigabane ku rubyaro rwavukiye mu muryango nya Rwanda? Ese muzi kuvuka ufite so atuye bikarangira uzerera urwana no kubona aho waba nta bibazo byo kwishyura amazu y'ubukode?
Aba bana babyiganira mu ma ghetto no mu mavuriro avura indwara zo mu mutwe, no mu magororero icyahoze ari gereza hano mu Rwanda.
Mudutabare ntabwo twabaho gutya ngo tugire icyizere cyo kubona ko urubyaro rwacu ruzagira amahoro.
Twarajugunkwe nkabataravutse nta burenganzira bw'ikiremwa muntu mbonye aho.
Habe na bucye. Abanyarwanda ko nziko tugaragaza ubumwe nki ntego ni ngamba zo guca amacakubiri ahubwo nkaba mbona ubusumbane bwarahawe intebe ?! Ni gute umwana yirikanwa mu murwango akiri muto? Ni gute abeshyerwa amakosa bikagera ku nera yo kuba umwana yakiruka imihana ahakishiriza amaramuko mu buryo nkubwo?! Ni byinshi navuga nange byambayeho, amategeko yaraduhutaje kandi twavutse ku buryo bw'ifatwa ku ngufu rya ba maman bacu.
Rero akebo ugereyemo mwene so nawe niko ugererwamo. Mugire icyo mukora ku cyaha cyo gufata ku ngufu kibe icyaha kidasaza , nababikoze uyu munsi bari kwidegembya babiryozwe haboneke ubuzima gatozi ki miryango iri gutereranwa muri byose, ese twabagize gute ko muri kutwicira ahazaza?! Aba bagabo bagomba kwishyura cg twe tukazihanira kuko turi gukura.
Iki kibazo gifite uburemere nkubwa genocide.
Ni gute papa wawe yashaka abagore 5 hanyuma papa wawe agahitamo umugore umwe ?! Nkaho abandi atari abe? Harimo abo yafashe ku ngufu? Harimo nabo yashutse atagamije kubatunga? Abana nibo babigwamo cyane, nibo bazaba mu mihanda nibo bazicwa nu buzima butagira kivugira nta n'ishuri.
Nta kazi , ise araho ari mu buzima bwiza nabo yagumanye nabo, abandi akabakura mu bana be abinyujije mu bikorwa byurwango ni hohoterwa ryo kubeshyerwa ibyaha na makosa yo kubashakira impamvu yo kubikuraho, ese ibyo muzabigeza ryari?
Iki cyaha kitagiye mu byaha bagomba kuryozwa igihe cyose nyirukugikora akiriho.
Kufata ku ngufu bikorwe ni ngaruka muzirengagize ?!
Mubijyemo cg nzigaragambye bitoroshye.
Ni gute abana buwo mugabo bacikamo ibice kugeza naho bamwe bagirana urwango rwo kuba bakicana?!
Muraho murakora iki?! Mukore akazi kanyu neza.
Ejo nejo bundi tutazakora akazi kanyu, ibi bizagera no kumukuru wi gihugu.
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