How To Say NO!!

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2024

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  • @selfmademan3201
    @selfmademan3201 Рік тому +60

    It still is my biggest struggle as I always dream being the nicest and most generous man but trust me, it hasn't paid off. At some point it brought me more harm than good. I Still need to learn to say NO. I mean it.

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Рік тому +6

      I hope you live your best life!

    • @abdourahimhassanabsieh8007
      @abdourahimhassanabsieh8007 11 місяців тому +1

      U lack confidence.

    • @EvaDhakal-yy6qh
      @EvaDhakal-yy6qh 6 місяців тому +1

      Try journaling trust me it helps write you ideas on a piece of paper read over take time to think then step up. Whenever I say no I over think it and I still need to learn how to day no but realize that if they get mad bc they didn't get what they want THEY are the weak ones

    • @selfmademan3201
      @selfmademan3201 6 місяців тому

      @@abdourahimhassanabsieh8007 It’s not a matter of having or lacking confidence.

    • @natural3362
      @natural3362 5 місяців тому +1

      Me too.. I prioritize myself. I need to be selfish. I need to say no without explanation

  • @olamideoladunni4549
    @olamideoladunni4549 Рік тому +6

    This is incredible!
    When a people pleaser learns to say no, enemies are made.
    Learning to say no day by day.

  • @osueiyaedori2491
    @osueiyaedori2491 Рік тому +19

    Thanks Vusi. So much power u give to yourself when u can say No and not feel guilty about it

  • @ljmotivate4u680
    @ljmotivate4u680 Рік тому +15

    People who respect your no when you needed it and understand saying it to you when they need it can only make the bond of the relationship go stronger. They would appreciate you not saying yes to them only to keep them happy while you live in resentment.

  • @tjalemonyepao7269
    @tjalemonyepao7269 Рік тому +8

    Man.. the Tone in his voice ☺🙂 it just has that formality🔊 👀🗣📣.. it's like his voice has its own way of putting on a suit😅🤗👌

    • @kalondumakau268
      @kalondumakau268 Рік тому

      Oh, that's such a vivid and utterly beautiful description! I hope he sees it.

  • @mpho438
    @mpho438 Рік тому +2

    I have a child hood friend who enjoys asking for a specific favor which i personally don't like. I told him no, recently and it's liberating ,meaning i don't have to do something for someone when i know deep down i don't want to , I will learn to say no more than i say yes

  • @mariefourie5314
    @mariefourie5314 Рік тому +4

    You are wise. You speak the truth. Stay blessed.

  • @kelechinwakor2194
    @kelechinwakor2194 Рік тому +6

    Thank you so much, sir. How I need that in my vocabulary. Not just saying no to people, but also, no to things, distractions, etc

  • @arouskuche490
    @arouskuche490 6 місяців тому

    I love this guy, God bless you brother.

  • @Sa-hi5nq
    @Sa-hi5nq Рік тому +1

    Say no to things you can’t do, which enables you to do the things you need to do better.

  • @Marksomto
    @Marksomto 6 місяців тому

    VT is really Growing and learning his Growth mindset is also impacting my life

  • @josephgioia4947
    @josephgioia4947 6 місяців тому

    I said no tonight and I’ve been feeling g guilty till I heard this . #single divorced out of two boys, trying to get his life back on track.

  • @smithschannel89
    @smithschannel89 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, it's true they make you feel bad for saying no.

  • @mw87675
    @mw87675 Рік тому

    That ending statement is sooo powerful!

  • @akayibajames216
    @akayibajames216 Рік тому

    I am beginning to fall in love this man.

  • @NovaDiana-p7r
    @NovaDiana-p7r 9 днів тому

    I will start practicing to say NO.. A simple most powerful word. Just one simple NO. Thanks

  • @corneliabayuo6194
    @corneliabayuo6194 Рік тому +2

    Thanks sir. God bless u in Jesus name.. Amen 🙌

  • @KelvinIgbinigie
    @KelvinIgbinigie Рік тому

    I totally agree with this 💯

  • @riffster
    @riffster Рік тому

    Needed to hear this 🙌🏽

  • @priyarajmatta
    @priyarajmatta Рік тому

    Powerful single word.

  • @Rafael-zl7fh
    @Rafael-zl7fh Рік тому

    Thank you! You git that right! So say NO! and be free.

  • @waynejohnson2894
    @waynejohnson2894 Рік тому

    Powerful!

  • @HellenaAkinyi23_30
    @HellenaAkinyi23_30 Рік тому

    I enjoyed the video, I learned and I'm happy that I get to listen to this now ❤❤
    Always big appreciation to you sir 💝🙏

  • @xlegendary_leex_1058
    @xlegendary_leex_1058 Рік тому

    Brilliant ✨️

  • @nhlanhlagwamanda6273
    @nhlanhlagwamanda6273 Рік тому

    Powerful!💪

  • @fikredesta6203
    @fikredesta6203 Рік тому

    No, it is the word we discourage our children to say. We should encourage our children, It is OK to say no.

  • @kirabozeridahsarah
    @kirabozeridahsarah Рік тому +1

    Oh lord, I need to put this on a T-shirt

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 Рік тому +1

    WHEN JESUS SAID NO TO SATAN WHAT HAPPENED HE GOT ANGRY AND JESUS HAD PEACE THATS HOW WE ALL SHOULD BE SAYING NO FOR MEN SHOULD NOT LIVE BY BREAD ALONE BUT EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUT OF THE MOUTH OF GOD

  • @rach5366
    @rach5366 Рік тому

    Thanks. Just made a narcissist go crazy

  • @jctheU.G.SafariBigGamecat
    @jctheU.G.SafariBigGamecat Рік тому

    No is a fantastic word, im so ised to saying it sometiems i say it when i dont even mean to, and it always pays me back well 😂

  • @vhp99
    @vhp99 Рік тому +2

    You didn't explain How to say No, you just explained Why to say No

  • @bevinhamutenya9963
    @bevinhamutenya9963 Рік тому

    This is key thanks For another Gem

  • @shammahbarnabas
    @shammahbarnabas Рік тому

    I’ve been labeled “proud” for simply saying “No”.

  • @phumelelantengento1625
    @phumelelantengento1625 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 Рік тому

    This one was aimed at me.. lol thank you

  • @Me-hg7hh
    @Me-hg7hh Рік тому

    Love this

  • @suzellebailey1896
    @suzellebailey1896 Рік тому

    Like your motivation

  • @princekazhila2003
    @princekazhila2003 Рік тому

    my mahn....in Denzel Washington's voice

  • @LEGACYMASTERMIND
    @LEGACYMASTERMIND Рік тому

    Thank you sir

  • @heather-vs9qe
    @heather-vs9qe Рік тому

    No a difficult word❤

  • @sarimaeregu5858
    @sarimaeregu5858 2 місяці тому

    When u say no, u say yes to ur priorities, wow just wow

  • @kennethvolwana7799
    @kennethvolwana7799 Рік тому

    Profound ❤

  • @uncleted470
    @uncleted470 Рік тому

    😭 I really really want to be like this

  • @7thheaven-finalfantasy-hip717

    Facts

  • @Daily-Activities101
    @Daily-Activities101 Рік тому

    Oh i loved it

  • @CC-2020
    @CC-2020 6 місяців тому

    Show me one time in the Bible where God or Jesus said no with a NO! There times a No is warranted, but there are times its better to says no without saying No!

  • @7777777Beau7777777
    @7777777Beau7777777 Рік тому

    yes man yes 😂

  • @aaronbeckley7614
    @aaronbeckley7614 Рік тому

    What would about toddlers saying “No” to everything

  • @tshidik07
    @tshidik07 Рік тому

    Nooooooo and Yes to me❤

  • @henryokonkwo30
    @henryokonkwo30 Рік тому +2

    NO!!

  • @Karen-id6ey
    @Karen-id6ey Рік тому

    Agreed

  • @DMkz111
    @DMkz111 Рік тому

    TIMELY !

  • @badhabit714
    @badhabit714 Рік тому

    Subscribe for more... NO!

  • @mamahoho1239
    @mamahoho1239 Рік тому

    I love you

  • @Iammatindel
    @Iammatindel 3 місяці тому

    🙅🏿‍♂️

  • @truecomment3650
    @truecomment3650 Рік тому

    NO is a selfish and capitalist culture. Remember,People are able to say NO to you too.

  • @sandisomazibuko93
    @sandisomazibuko93 Рік тому

    DANK DANKO VUSI

  • @sombresunset
    @sombresunset Рік тому +1

    "Subscribe for More"
    NO

  • @invincible.1772
    @invincible.1772 2 місяці тому

    So, how to say no??

  • @mpumi1024
    @mpumi1024 Рік тому

    No

  • @caponkafa
    @caponkafa 7 місяців тому

    this didnt actually teach how to say no...

  • @e.d.c6700
    @e.d.c6700 Рік тому

    no

  • @JavierSanchezMendez2002
    @JavierSanchezMendez2002 4 місяці тому

    G

  • @mypokemon
    @mypokemon Рік тому

    F

  • @juanpedrojosegaffneyr9064
    @juanpedrojosegaffneyr9064 Рік тому

    subscribe to you? Just one word: No.

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Рік тому

    May I have your email

  • @CC-2020
    @CC-2020 6 місяців тому

    Show me one time in the Bible where God or Jesus said no with a NO! There times a No is warranted, but there are times its better to says no without saying No!

  • @AbsolutelyRufus-o1h
    @AbsolutelyRufus-o1h Рік тому

    No