i'm in Year 8 right now , as of next week Year 9 and its the exact same for me , i went to Year 7 & 8 in a horrible school and now i'm filed to move , but i'm scared for making friends
I'm moving now this Wednesday in the middle of term in year nine I'm going to look round on Monday I know some people but not spoken to them for 3 years as they are from my primary school
I am in year 7 and I hate the school I am at, most days I come home crying because i found it really hard where I am. It's started to get bigger than me and I feel if nothing is going to change things will start happening, things my parents dont like. I've talked about it to my parents but they won't do anything, they won't switch schools. At the moment I am getting advice from another student there but nothing is helping, what should I do
I was in the exact same situation, it gets better. Well you get used to it. Since school is almost over, I’m gonna use summer to convince my mom to let me change schools.🤷🏽♀️
1st half of the story is the same for me and I am hoping this private school that my friend goes to has some scholarships left and so my mum is trying to get me to be able to take the test I feel bad for my friends that I liked but I just want to move, at least I will have my friend’s phone numbers so yeah If I do switch I should have my friend and might be able to make a few more friends.
I have one term left at the school I'm currently at, and I've been at this school since before I was three. I am so nervous not only about making new friends, but also doing well in my next school, and being able to move on from this school. Because I've been there almost my entire life, it has enormous sentimental value to me, and I've known all the teachers and the students for so long I feel like it's going to be so difficult to make such a big transition.
I always told my mom that I feel uncomfortable in school that I go to. Because other girls made fun of me, made jokes of me being depressed, they gossip me... And my mom was thinking about me moving schools. And I hope she let's... Because she said maybe, but she doesn't know yet :(( wish me luck! And I would go to other city school that is 20 mins far away🏫
Thos is the exact same cenrario for me right now, exept its my ex friends gossiping behind me, and i feel uncomfortable around people in my school, so my mum said maybe I can move school
I'm moving across the country from a small quite town to the biggest city in Scotland and I'm so excited. I'm so happy I found this channel and you have found yourself a new subscriber. More people need to know about you.
I'm really scared. I've always suffered with bad anxiety, and my attendance at school is really low as they have bad pastoral care. So it's a grammar school, and it's so stressful. The two teachers I HATE are coming to my house tomorrow and I don't know why! Mum wants to move me to the local secondary school where my old primary friends are. I'm year 8. Im really scared that if i get into the local I will be bullied for dropping down to a secondary from grammar. Anybody have any advice?
ALWAYS do whats best for your mental health, dropping down from a grammar school is a good move if it means you will be in a happier environment because if you're happy you'll put the work in! i hope you made your choice and you're happy with it because i see its been 4 months :) x
Exactly the same! I go to a grammar school and I rlly want to move, I loved my other school but my parents just use the excuse ‘it’s a better school’ 💔💔😭😭😭
I hate my teacher, she’s Arrogant,rude, and expects us to get a lot of work done easily.The cafeteria is basically serving toxic waste.The art teacher overreacts.Our teacher basically takes forever to grade things,so it makes it hard to get honor roll.The Japanese’s teacher room smells horrible.The kids are weird and disgusting.My friend spends all his time with his girlfriend,he didn’t see me change when I got one.It is really stressful and they sometimes blame us instead of kindergarten who caused that mess.The school I want to go to has my friends,nice teachers,and doesn’t assign so much work.
I’m in year 10 and I just feel really rubbish in my current school but the problem is 1. I have started my GCSEs and 2. I’m currently in a welsh speaking school which means I do everything in welsh so the transition could be big but I really hate this school and I have “friends” but they’re not true friends. Does anyone have any advice?!
I just have done too embarrassing things in my actual school, I made fool of my self, but I am scared to move because I feel like I wont be able to keep up with the stuff there. I already have friends in the school I want to move in...
I know this was yearsss ago but this was very helpful so thank you sm❤️ I'm debating wether to move to a new school because teachers don't understand my anxiety and autism where I am currently and just call me stupid and dramatic and they're always putting me down as well as the students so this really helped. I'm gonna have a look around the school soon and hopefully it turns out good, thank you😊
I'm moving school and trust me it's very hard no matter how nice the teachers are and how nice the people are it's still really sad trust me it gets better stay strong people 🙏
I moved school because 2 of my REAL friends went to a different school and i was stuck in a school with friends who would always make fun of me and it was alot more complicated than "just find other friends" i just didn't know how to tell my "friends" that i am moving school so i had to come up with some bs excuse
@A S well moving schools at first is scary and so is getting to know people, but the saddest part was saying goodbye to my friends from the old school (even though I still keep in touch with them). But overall moving schools is fine, scary but it'll be okay. Thanks for the concern
You know I’m not even bothered about making friends as long as I get out of my current school, and anyways the popular kids always suck up to the new kids 🤫
Am moving to another high school and am in y9 am moving earliest just after easter and am rly anxious. I dunno what to think I know no one at this school and moving from y6-7 was rly hard for me even though all my primary went up. Now am leaving and have no one to fall back on. Ik everything will be fine after a while but it’s just the thought of it that sends my stomach mentally
Ella Smith Honesty is the best policy! I advise you sit down and talk to your Mum about how unhappy you are at your current school and express to her how much you think you will be happier at a different school 😊x
I just finished year 8 at a school which is quite close to me and I'm applying for a different school which is about fifteen minutes away. I'm really scared but I know some girls as I played against them at rounders in a school tournament. I've never been popular at my old school and my new school is the only school I know no-one. How would I be popular enough to not be bothered?
You don't need to be popular, just try to make some friends and you'll be good. If anyone bothers you don't be scared to speak up about it and tell an adult immediately.
I am at a new school for about 2 months now. I hate it! Everyone’s weird, the school’s too big for me, I don’t get the help I need, wifi’s terrible and much more to that. I will do absolutely anything to move back to my old school😢
i really need help. i hate bieng at my school everyine hates me and it awful there, its the holidays and im so scared to go back but i found out there is another school really close to my house and its a 5 minuet walk, idk how to tell my mum i wanna move how should i tell her?
Im considering moving to a grammar school as they accepted me but I wont know anyone and I'm not a super confident person! Please help me with my decision! XX
grammar schools are good, but generally they aren't always better. i go to one of the top grammar schools in my country and people still do bad if they don't work hard, I'm actually hoping to move schools to a different school, its still a grammar school but its not as good as my current one
Year 8, I feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable at my school. My friends constantly left me out. A lot of people don’t like me. I’m kind of the weird kid? I’ve already told my mom and asked to switch schools and she agreed but I still have to ask my dad.
I'm going through the same thing right now and right now I'm in Year 8 and I do not know who my true friends are and I feel like an annoying weird kid with no disrespect I have cried severely recently because of a friend. Friends don't understand me anymore 😭😭😭😭😭
im in year 8 well my school year is about to end and latley its been realy hard for me and i feel like in need a fresh start from year 9 but im so woried about it though i feel like in going to make it worse foe myself please make a school survival tip video x:)
I know this video was posted a little while ago but it has helped me so much! I am in such a similar situation right now, I used to go to a small Anglican school in my city that was very strict about a lot of stuff, I spent year 7 and 8 there. Loads of sketchy stuff happened there in the last few months so I am moving to the public school near my house for year 9. The school that I am moving to has a pretty good reputation so I am quite exited to start there in a few days!
I really wanna move my best and only true friend (I thought) doesn’t like or talk to me anymore and I genuinely have no clue why and the rest of my class hates me I only have one really really good friend in the grade above I me l really wanna move but I don’t wanna tell my parents why bc they really liked my friend and I don’t wanna make them mad.
Im in the seventh grade and i am trying to get my dad to let me change schools because I am getting bullied being told to kill myself and i just feel like the outcast no one really gets me lol this really isnt the place to vent but lol
I get taken the mick out of at my school so my mums looking into new schools for me to go to which is right across the street from my house so this will help! Tysm 🤍
Omg yes this is me I have wanted to move since year 8 but I was too scared so now I was thinking about staying since I only have like 2 years left but I feel physically sick thinking about going back cause I’m alone all day since I’m not really close with ppl and yeah I think it is kinda late but if you think it’s actually going to make a good change for you then definitely do it your gonna end up getting some positive out of it
For me, I'm about to go into year 9 in the new year, and I'm currently at the same school, but for the past 2 years, I just hate it there and idk if I want to continue there. But the thing is, the school I might move to has a girl who hates me for no reason and I'm super scared about making friends, and I would hate to leave my old friends behind
I’m at a grammar school in yr 7, I went to a private school before which went from primary to secondary, I really wanted to stay there..but my parents keep using the excuse ‘it’s a better school’ I am now suffering depression and anxiety coming home crying my eyes out..please can somebody give me advice? 💔💔💔😭😭😭
I live in the UK and i’m in year 6, almost year 7, and i’m constantly losing my friends because of other people. My dad has giving me an option to move and i’m still trying to decide whether to move or not. :(
I’m year 8 right now, I’ve been stuck in this secondary school for 1 year. My opinion is that it’s not a really good school. I didn’t really have any friends and the education wasnt really enough, it’s just not a good school. I’m transferring to a new school and I hope it’s better, am I making the right decision?
I’ve been getting bullied so I’m moving school and house soon, i have anxiety so I’m really worried and nervous as I don’t know ANYONE who goes to that school. I’m so scared but excited because hopefully I’m happier
I'm in 8th grade. I don't like the teachers, teaching techniques and my whole class basically in the school i go to. I would love to switch schools to get to know other people and find the school i feel comfortable in. My mom tells me that it's not a good idea because i'll have to switch schools at the end of 9th grade (because my school is like that). I don't know what to do but i hate the school i go to :/
SAME I really don’t like my school, I have no friends, the teaching techniques are bad, the education Isn’t enough. I’m transferring soon, do you think I’m making the right decision or is it a waste of Time
I’m going to year 10 and I just found out I’m moving school - my parents want me to get serious and think that’s the way for me. I really don’t want to move, I still can’t fathom the shit but I just have to oml
so im in 3rd form, and I'm planning on moving to a new school for 4th form because I've been miserable at my current school all year and I've always been terrified of meeting new people but i know my best chance at being happy is starting this new school in september. My best friend goes to this school and we've known each other for like 12 years so its not like i have nobody and i know her friends too but in that school the chance of me ending up in her class are really slim and i feel like if i had form class on my own on the first die i would probably die. However, we would be in GCSE classes and my best friend and i are doing a few similar subjects so i would have her in those classes but the thought of being alone the first few weeks is so scary and that sucks because i know once i get used to it i would love it there likely. My mum is really on board with the idea but my dad says he won't allow it to happen and says he won't let me go, does anyone have any advice? i need to show my dad this is what's best for my mental health i should go there. Thing is, i had do work really hard to get into my current school because its one of the best in the country and this other school isn't as hard to get into and even though people from that school achieve the same grades as my school, my dad is stuck on the fact i get good grades and he thinks that might change if i moves which i know won't because lots of people in my school do badly however i have always worked hard and so my grades aren't down to my school they are down to me. can anyone give me some advice? I'm really not sure what to do.
Thank you for making this video , even if it's like 1 year old by now. I confronted my mum about moving high schools which means changing programs (from gastronomy to informatics). Gastronomy really doesn't make me happy and I'm not sure how to approach my teacher about the whole thing. The last time i tried it didn't really work well.
Okay! first off! My mom always tells me to get good grades to switch schools and I find it hard to believe...so...Do I have to get good grades the school I’m in is really Poor teaching and I hardly learn anything.
i’m in year 8 and i really want to move to my best friends school which isn’t even that far because i don’t like the one i’m at, but i’m way to scared to ask my mum because sometimes she’s in a bad mood but i just really wish i could move but i think my mum will say no. any tips on asking her?
I’m considering changing school for 6th form cos my current school barely offers anything, there’s nothing stopping me really I’m just kinda undecided after watching this tho I think I’m gonna do it :)
sorry if this reply is too late, but here's some advice (I hope it helps), maybe you can tell your parents that you are super happy at your current school and that it would be really bad for you if you moved, tell them that you enjoy going to your current school and that you know you will be upset and anxious if you have to move. (hope this helps)
I’ve already been offered by my mom to move school a few times since it’d be easier for basically everybody and my sister has advised if I should just move schools because I’ve been having problems here for about 2-3 years now which I won’t mention, so I’m searching up on UA-cam if I should go all for it or just hope it gets better.
thank you! I am literally about to go into year nine and halfway through we are going to be given the option to go to a place called Ron Dearing UTC! My mother isn't taking me seriously but Im writing something to convince her, is this good enough? | | | V Dear mum, Bullies suck. I'm not too affected but I'm sick of them and seeing them upset other people. There will be less at Ron Dearing, obviously, they'll still exist because we can't just put everyone into a perfectly uniform box, but if you want to be a bully, you won't go through the hassle of going to a college where people are trying to excel, just to flop. Also, to be taking that initiative at fourteen years old means they are all hopefully a little more mature than people in my secondary school. Also, the uniform is better, a polo shirt and trousers with their logo, and optionally a hoodie. I also have HSD which means writing for too long hurts my (little wittle) fingers, but getting a school laptop would be too much work and a fight. From what I can tell at Ron Dearing you can take your own laptop in for some classes that require it, which already will bridge half of the step of asking for it in all classes to same my hands. Work experience is also better as they are partnered with Smith & Nephew and some other places, (I could do work experience making PLASTERS/BAND-AIDS, there's no limit, I swear to god.) Whereas my current school actually cut funding and aren't doing ANY work experience AT ALL! I don't want to slag them off, but they're really being outshone by Ron Dearing here. I currently get driven to school by a neighbour with kids in my year and form room, it's a no-brainer to carpool, but I'd be willing to take a bus with Jamie or just get the grips of the bus before leaving Jamie to himself and not being that little young tag-along. (He is moving there a year before I might, as you have to be 14, I will be 14 before year nine starts but I still want to wait until year ten when I am fifteen as I was born two hours after the cut off point, going this year would only put me in all of the bottom sets due to having 'missed out' that year nine.) Hoping you'll take me seriously as time goes on, Your Daughter, Keira.
I know this video was ages ago but I’m moving schools soon and I’m very nervous about making friends as I’m moving from a laid back school to a strict catholic school (which doesn’t have a good reputation in the new school) and I’m really hoping to make new friends as I’ve just had a really big friendship incident(which is causing me to move schools) any advice ? I really need friends but I’m a little shy . And I’m like half way through year 9 and I’d be moving by myself
I want to move schools so badly, I'm borderline depressed at my current school, despite bieng 'popular' the way its run is horrible, they dehumanised us and it's really affecting me, I ask my parents to move schools and they say no. They cant be bothered to go through the process. They'd want my mental health and education to be undermined over them putting some effort in.
I’m really scared and sad about moving. I’m moving to another country so a whole different school. I love my school here and I really don’t wanna leave it. I love my friends and don’t wanna leave them either. I’m scared if i’ll be able to even make friends there.
I’m thinking of moving to a much bigger school about 15 minutes away like you my other friend is moving from his school to mine but I don’t know if I should do it because I’m scared I won’t fit in or like it
I go to this school where the work is hard and my parents hate their grading system but I have the best friends ever and she wants me to move to another school ( I wanted to move a year or 2 before so I didnt have to worry about leaving friends) but since im in year 10 now she wants me to move and its only like 10 mins away from my current school but I know that its a shit school and they have drugs and sex 'n' shit but my mum really wants me to move and I dont know what to do ( I would move there for year 11 & 12) sruggeling need help please???
Moving to boarding school, my car died and I slipped into severe depression, my grades dropped, my mom took away my phone and all my other shit, my grades and motivation both dropped to rock bottom and now I’m going to fucking boarding school, now she’s sayin she hopes I’m happy seeing her come home stressed and crying everyday till she can afford it.
I’m in year 10 at the moment but I’m home schooled since year 9 and I’m moving soon and I’m scared because I have to start year 11 alone and I don’t know anyone there and I’m really scared
Hiya! I'm in year 10 and moving to another school in two weeks I'm really nervous tbh so I know how you feel.Ive only got a year and a half in secondary school left but it's still nerve racking sadly .
My school currently learns Spanish but the school I might transfer to does french and German and I’m in year 7 so everybody will be ahead of me. Also year 7 is the year people get adjusted so everyone is new but I will miss that part so I’m very nervous
i’m in year 9, started a new school in september but i’ve had a really bad experience there so i’m trying to move to another school which has my best friends and girlfriend there but i’m still really scared. i’m terrified of getting lost and not being able to talk to people.
i actually have the same experience as you had, my old school gave of a really bad reputation to actually all the schools in my area so transferring from that school to my other is probably gonna be really scary for the first weeks and the school is also much much bigger then my old school. The scary part is is that i also know nobody in my new school and i had nobody to go to that school, so im pretty much all alone😭 I know that this was yeaaars ago but it was really helpfull tyysm
you probs wont read this but pls give me some advice i live at my dads but want to move back to my mums im really anxious abt what my dad and step mum would think what should i do ?????
I dont exactly love the school I’m in right now but I’m moving schools because of financial problems because our car broke down and the school Igo to is quite a drive away from our house. Im moving to a new school near our house. Im going to miss my best friend.
The main reason I want ro move schools is because most people in ny school now are homophobic but idk how to bring up to my parents that I want to move school bit they'll ask why I want to move but my parents don't know im gay
I’m in yr 8 right now and I went to the same school in yr 7 and I’m not unhappy I’m just not my self usually I’m outgoing and just crazy but I feel like I lost myself there and now I’m thinking about moving but I don’t think I have the guts man this school changed me
Right now I'm in a good grammar school but I really wanna move bc it doesn't make me happy plus I can go back to that school for six form college and I don't see the harm to just go to a school I actually like with my friends
Im really sad im leaving everything behind me and moving from nirth carolina to florida😭 i dont like florida bc ive lived there b4 and im gonna miss everyone and i dont think im gonna make the same bonds😭 im really sad to move and leave allll my friends, favkrite teachers and bf 😭 im just really scared life is gonna be horrible
I’m moving rn but it’s July and I’m going through the 4-5 weeks off/ summer break and I’m only moving bc I hate my friends and my only real friend went to a school called colmers
Im moving to Australia at the end of the year n I'm terrified like what if I hate school even more than I do now or what if I hv no friends what if no one likes me there I just hate being alone n I'm scared cuz I'm not just moving schools I'm moving to an entire new country what if I don't fit in and I just want to like school u know
Hey! I go to school in Australia and I promise, you will have no regrets. Obviously things happen but most teachers and staff members deal with it efficiently and make your wellbeing their top priority. Friends aren't hard to find, and most people will invite you to join their friend group. Experiment with different friends and stay close to the people who understand you and listen to the stories you have to tell. Hope this helps!
I wish someone can just help me, so I’m a grade 7 student in Hong Kong and, I really want to transfer to a private (International) school, but if you live in hk, you’ll know that the school cost a lot of money, and my parents are pretty nice, pretty understanding but I don’t if they would let me, or even want me to transfer, I am scared to open up and just talk to them about it, I don’t know if they can afford it, or anything but I just don’t know how to open up the conversation of me wanting to transfer.
I’m in year 10 now and I’m in a school that’s soooooooo bad that no one knows about and it’s so far away so there’s a school near my house and my cousins are in and it’s private and not that expensive but the problem is that I convinced my dad and he said he’ll make me transfer at the beginning of year 11 WHEN IVE ALREADY STARTED MY IGCSE BY THEN and now I’m in year 10 and I still didn’t start my igcse I’ll start my first official igcse test on November and we’ll have a long break before it starts so how do I convince my parents to make me transfer now?
I am debating if I should switch schools, I go to a school that’s 20 min drive away from where I live but I could go to a school that’s only 5 min away and I just want a fresh start because at my school I’m at right now I have problems with my crush, I do have some people I hang around but we don’t talk much outside of school and I want to make REAALL friends and if I move to a new school I have a chance to be myself and make real friends and have fun times with new friends and hangout and stuff so I want to move schools but the one I wanna go to idk if I’ll make any friends :/
I started secondary a few months ago (year 7) and I liked it at start but I’m just not happy there, nothing is bad there is was just boring and it made me so unhappy and I told my mum and she said I picked it so I had to stay there. My mum thinks something is wrong at school but there is nothing wrong, I just want too move to another secondary school but I’m scared about getting lost and not fitting in. Can you give me some tips?? 🥺
I’m considering moving schools but I don’t know if I want to. I’m in year 8 now and my school is 45 mins away on the bus and I have long days, getting up at 7 and getting home at 5. This school is really nice though. They have dogs, and nice staff, but I don’t really have any friends there. There is a school that is within walking distance to me and I have a friend moving in to year 7 there too. I love the idea of having local friends and shorter days, but I’m not sure how difficult it will be...any advice?
Hey ! I’m thinking of moving from my school to a local school because I really don’t like anyone at my school , I’ve had multiple panic attacks and I find my school atmosphere very stressful to work in x how long would you say it takes to move x
I want to change my school because mine school makes me so sad & my class is so unfriendly with me.. But my parents doesn't let me to change it but I feel like I can't live like this anymore and if they won't let me change, I'm going to end it all
My school is almost an hour away and my mom late for work all the time, and the school I want to move to is only 15 mins away I just hate my school so much
i'm in Year 8 right now , as of next week Year 9 and its the exact same for me , i went to Year 7 & 8 in a horrible school and now i'm filed to move , but i'm scared for making friends
roshabubblexo same
roshabubblexo did u move
Omg same!!!
roshabubblexo exactly the same as me!
I’m in the exact situation now but I have 2 months before I move ! Hope everything went ok with yoi
I'm moving now this Wednesday in the middle of term in year nine I'm going to look round on Monday I know some people but not spoken to them for 3 years as they are from my primary school
Anya Yandell how did it go
Olivia jane omg I went so well I have so many friends now Best decision of my life have subbed to you Xx
Anya Yandell if you don't mind me asking why did u move?? I subbed back Xx
Olivia jane because I moved to live with my dad Xx
Aww I’m going through the same thing, I’m in year nine and I’m moving a hour away :( any advice? I don’t know people at my new school x
My parents wont let me move..... i haye my life
Diamond 1234 same
Diamond 1234 same
Diamond 1234 i wanna move to my old school
I feel u
Same
I am in year 7 and I hate the school I am at, most days I come home crying because i found it really hard where I am. It's started to get bigger than me and I feel if nothing is going to change things will start happening, things my parents dont like. I've talked about it to my parents but they won't do anything, they won't switch schools. At the moment I am getting advice from another student there but nothing is helping, what should I do
I'm in the exact situation. My parents won't let me switch.
I was in the exact same situation, it gets better. Well you get used to it. Since school is almost over, I’m gonna use summer to convince my mom to let me change schools.🤷🏽♀️
1st half of the story is the same for me and I am hoping this private school that my friend goes to has some scholarships left and so my mum is trying to get me to be able to take the test I feel bad for my friends that I liked but I just want to move, at least I will have my friend’s phone numbers so yeah If I do switch I should have my friend and might be able to make a few more friends.
The same exact thing, I am going to start grade 8 next year
I was at a private school and I hated it but I’m starting a comp tomorrow
I have one term left at the school I'm currently at, and I've been at this school since before I was three. I am so nervous not only about making new friends, but also doing well in my next school, and being able to move on from this school. Because I've been there almost my entire life, it has enormous sentimental value to me, and I've known all the teachers and the students for so long I feel like it's going to be so difficult to make such a big transition.
I always told my mom that I feel uncomfortable in school that I go to. Because other girls made fun of me, made jokes of me being depressed, they gossip me... And my mom was thinking about me moving schools. And I hope she let's... Because she said maybe, but she doesn't know yet :(( wish me luck! And I would go to other city school that is 20 mins far away🏫
Same 😢but I'm going to ask my mom to move schools next year or next trimester
Thos is the exact same cenrario for me right now, exept its my ex friends gossiping behind me, and i feel uncomfortable around people in my school, so my mum said maybe I can move school
i hope you managed to get to that school :)
Update xx
@@tigraboynton2108 did you end up moving schools?
I'm moving across the country from a small quite town to the biggest city in Scotland and I'm so excited. I'm so happy I found this channel and you have found yourself a new subscriber. More people need to know about you.
I'm really scared. I've always suffered with bad anxiety, and my attendance at school is really low as they have bad pastoral care. So it's a grammar school, and it's so stressful. The two teachers I HATE are coming to my house tomorrow and I don't know why! Mum wants to move me to the local secondary school where my old primary friends are. I'm year 8. Im really scared that if i get into the local I will be bullied for dropping down to a secondary from grammar. Anybody have any advice?
ALWAYS do whats best for your mental health, dropping down from a grammar school is a good move if it means you will be in a happier environment because if you're happy you'll put the work in! i hope you made your choice and you're happy with it because i see its been 4 months :) x
Exactly the same! I go to a grammar school and I rlly want to move, I loved my other school but my parents just use the excuse ‘it’s a better school’ 💔💔😭😭😭
I hate my teacher, she’s Arrogant,rude, and expects us to get a lot of work done easily.The cafeteria is basically serving toxic waste.The art teacher overreacts.Our teacher basically takes forever to grade things,so it makes it hard to get honor roll.The Japanese’s teacher room smells horrible.The kids are weird and disgusting.My friend spends all his time with his girlfriend,he didn’t see me change when I got one.It is really stressful and they sometimes blame us instead of kindergarten who caused that mess.The school I want to go to has my friends,nice teachers,and doesn’t assign so much work.
I’m in year 10 and I just feel really rubbish in my current school but the problem is 1. I have started my GCSEs and 2. I’m currently in a welsh speaking school which means I do everything in welsh so the transition could be big but I really hate this school and I have “friends” but they’re not true friends. Does anyone have any advice?!
omg this story sounds so similar to mine you moved from year nine! Same you moved with your friend same! it's 10 15 mins away! same
I NEARLY DID
I just have done too embarrassing things in my actual school, I made fool of my self, but I am scared to move because I feel like I wont be able to keep up with the stuff there. I already have friends in the school I want to move in...
I remember I got a lunch detention for burping 😅😅😅😅
Whaaat-😂😂
Tf 😂
LMAO
I know this was yearsss ago but this was very helpful so thank you sm❤️ I'm debating wether to move to a new school because teachers don't understand my anxiety and autism where I am currently and just call me stupid and dramatic and they're always putting me down as well as the students so this really helped. I'm gonna have a look around the school soon and hopefully it turns out good, thank you😊
It’s so hard as whenever I ask to move I always get denied I try to tell people how I’m feeling because I’m always being bullied and I want to move
I'm moving school and trust me it's very hard no matter how nice the teachers are and how nice the people are it's still really sad trust me it gets better stay strong people 🙏
I hate my new school I wanna move back to my old school and back to the city I grew up in I’m depressed
Afiya Ahmed Were you excited to move at first but then found out your new school is worse??
I moved school because 2 of my REAL friends went to a different school and i was stuck in a school with friends who would always make fun of me and it was alot more complicated than "just find other friends" i just didn't know how to tell my "friends" that i am moving school so i had to come up with some bs excuse
Thank you so much im moving schools in a few weeks and im in grade 9 im leaving all my friends and i was really nervous, you've given me confidence
@A S well moving schools at first is scary and so is getting to know people, but the saddest part was saying goodbye to my friends from the old school (even though I still keep in touch with them). But overall moving schools is fine, scary but it'll be okay.
Thanks for the concern
You know I’m not even bothered about making friends as long as I get out of my current school, and anyways the popular kids always suck up to the new kids 🤫
I just want to leave my school too.. I dont even care where I go
@@itsgucci7972 same...
Am moving to another high school and am in y9 am moving earliest just after easter and am rly anxious. I dunno what to think I know no one at this school and moving from y6-7 was rly hard for me even though all my primary went up. Now am leaving and have no one to fall back on. Ik everything will be fine after a while but it’s just the thought of it that sends my stomach mentally
I’m being forced and I’m trying to fight back but it’s getting so exhausting Ugh why did I get attached
But yeah anyways how did it go I need advice too
I really want to move schools But I don’t know how to ask my mum someone help me
Ella Smith Honesty is the best policy! I advise you sit down and talk to your Mum about how unhappy you are at your current school and express to her how much you think you will be happier at a different school 😊x
ItsMolly thank you ❤️
THATS GREAT ADVICE FOR ME TOO THANK YOUUUUUUUUU!!! 😄
Im moving schools to go and do my Alevels and im so scared. I litterally dont know how to join a friend group.
Same I am in September any advice
How is it going?
I just finished year 8 at a school which is quite close to me and I'm applying for a different school which is about fifteen minutes away. I'm really scared but I know some girls as I played against them at rounders in a school tournament. I've never been popular at my old school and my new school is the only school I know no-one. How would I be popular enough to not be bothered?
You don't need to be popular, just try to make some friends and you'll be good. If anyone bothers you don't be scared to speak up about it and tell an adult immediately.
I am at a new school for about 2 months now. I hate it! Everyone’s weird, the school’s too big for me, I don’t get the help I need, wifi’s terrible and much more to that. I will do absolutely anything to move back to my old school😢
i really need help. i hate bieng at my school everyine hates me and it awful there, its the holidays and im so scared to go back but i found out there is another school really close to my house and its a 5 minuet walk, idk how to tell my mum i wanna move how should i tell her?
Im considering moving to a grammar school as they accepted me but I wont know anyone and I'm not a super confident person! Please help me with my decision! XX
grammar schools are HORRIBLE
No you should go! Grammar schools mean you get good grades
grammar schools are good, but generally they aren't always better. i go to one of the top grammar schools in my country and people still do bad if they don't work hard, I'm actually hoping to move schools to a different school, its still a grammar school but its not as good as my current one
alicemaya ya💔😭
Year 8, I feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable at my school. My friends constantly left me out. A lot of people don’t like me. I’m kind of the weird kid? I’ve already told my mom and asked to switch schools and she agreed but I still have to ask my dad.
I'm going through the same thing right now and right now I'm in Year 8 and I do not know who my true friends are and I feel like an annoying weird kid with no disrespect I have cried severely recently because of a friend. Friends don't understand me anymore 😭😭😭😭😭
im in year 8 well my school year is about to end and latley its been realy hard for me and i feel like in need a fresh start from year 9 but im so woried about it though i feel like in going to make it worse foe myself please make a school survival tip video x:)
I know this video was posted a little while ago but it has helped me so much! I am in such a similar situation right now, I used to go to a small Anglican school in my city that was very strict about a lot of stuff, I spent year 7 and 8 there. Loads of sketchy stuff happened there in the last few months so I am moving to the public school near my house for year 9. The school that I am moving to has a pretty good reputation so I am quite exited to start there in a few days!
Hi how did it go?
@@user-hc2ht1cv4w it was one of the best things i ever did! im super happy :D
I really wanna move my best and only true friend (I thought) doesn’t like or talk to me anymore and I genuinely have no clue why and the rest of my class hates me I only have one really really good friend in the grade above I me l really wanna move but I don’t wanna tell my parents why bc they really liked my friend and I don’t wanna make them mad.
Im in the seventh grade and i am trying to get my dad to let me change schools because I am getting bullied being told to kill myself and i just feel like the outcast no one really gets me lol this really isnt the place to vent but lol
I’m moving in 2 weeks, I’m in year 7 and I hate my school, so I’m rlly excited to move and this is really helping me, thank you!❤️
M’y friend is moving schools and she’s scared I hope this helps her
i am so heartbroken💔, i moved school in year nine and then i have started getting bullied at my school and threatened and now i have to move again😢
Yeah I’m moving after the February break xxxx
I get taken the mick out of at my school so my mums looking into new schools for me to go to which is right across the street from my house so this will help! Tysm 🤍
I want go move schools but I'll be going into year 10 so I don't know if I'm moving too late
So idk what to do
Omg yes this is me I have wanted to move since year 8 but I was too scared so now I was thinking about staying since I only have like 2 years left but I feel physically sick thinking about going back cause I’m alone all day since I’m not really close with ppl and yeah I think it is kinda late but if you think it’s actually going to make a good change for you then definitely do it your gonna end up getting some positive out of it
For me, I'm about to go into year 9 in the new year, and I'm currently at the same school, but for the past 2 years, I just hate it there and idk if I want to continue there. But the thing is, the school I might move to has a girl who hates me for no reason and I'm super scared about making friends, and I would hate to leave my old friends behind
Legit the same I am moving in September to yr9 in a new school but I go to an girls school currently have a toxic best friend
I’m at a grammar school in yr 7, I went to a private school before which went from primary to secondary, I really wanted to stay there..but my parents keep using the excuse ‘it’s a better school’ I am now suffering depression and anxiety coming home crying my eyes out..please can somebody give me advice? 💔💔💔😭😭😭
Same but my parents say no
I live in the UK and i’m in year 6, almost year 7, and i’m constantly losing my friends because of other people. My dad has giving me an option to move and i’m still trying to decide whether to move or not. :(
xxEls Bellsxx I would say move it’s probably the best option don’t be afraid and if you don’t move you probably will regret it c
im moving in 2 days and im so nervous
Good luck people will love you! Well not love you, want to be friends with you! 😉😉😉😉
I’m year 8 right now, I’ve been stuck in this secondary school for 1 year. My opinion is that it’s not a really good school. I didn’t really have any friends and the education wasnt really enough, it’s just not a good school. I’m transferring to a new school and I hope it’s better, am I making the right decision?
I’ve been getting bullied so I’m moving school and house soon, i have anxiety so I’m really worried and nervous as I don’t know ANYONE who goes to that school. I’m so scared but excited because hopefully I’m happier
I'm in year 7 and I'm about to move to a different school! Wish me look!
Same
Moonlightbae Daisy how did it go
Esmë how did it go
Esmë No
Lucky 😂
I'm in year 9 now in September 2020 I'm going year 10 but in a new school I'm excited and scared
I'm in 8th grade. I don't like the teachers, teaching techniques and my whole class basically in the school i go to. I would love to switch schools to get to know other people and find the school i feel comfortable in. My mom tells me that it's not a good idea because i'll have to switch schools at the end of 9th grade (because my school is like that). I don't know what to do but i hate the school i go to :/
SAME I really don’t like my school, I have no friends, the teaching techniques are bad, the education Isn’t enough. I’m transferring soon, do you think I’m making the right decision or is it a waste of Time
I’m going to year 10 and I just found out I’m moving school - my parents want me to get serious and think that’s the way for me.
I really don’t want to move, I still can’t fathom the shit but I just have to oml
Namz GG ughhh Ik how you feel😓
so im in 3rd form, and I'm planning on moving to a new school for 4th form because I've been miserable at my current school all year and I've always been terrified of meeting new people but i know my best chance at being happy is starting this new school in september. My best friend goes to this school and we've known each other for like 12 years so its not like i have nobody and i know her friends too but in that school the chance of me ending up in her class are really slim and i feel like if i had form class on my own on the first die i would probably die. However, we would be in GCSE classes and my best friend and i are doing a few similar subjects so i would have her in those classes but the thought of being alone the first few weeks is so scary and that sucks because i know once i get used to it i would love it there likely. My mum is really on board with the idea but my dad says he won't allow it to happen and says he won't let me go, does anyone have any advice? i need to show my dad this is what's best for my mental health i should go there. Thing is, i had do work really hard to get into my current school because its one of the best in the country and this other school isn't as hard to get into and even though people from that school achieve the same grades as my school, my dad is stuck on the fact i get good grades and he thinks that might change if i moves which i know won't because lots of people in my school do badly however i have always worked hard and so my grades aren't down to my school they are down to me. can anyone give me some advice? I'm really not sure what to do.
Im moveing school next year i think
Thank I'm moving to my 3rd secondary school I'm going in to year 9 and I'm starting 2 weeks after everyone else so ty for the advise
Thank you for making this video , even if it's like 1 year old by now. I confronted my mum about moving high schools which means changing programs (from gastronomy to informatics). Gastronomy really doesn't make me happy and I'm not sure how to approach my teacher about the whole thing. The last time i tried it didn't really work well.
Okay! first off! My mom always tells me to get good grades to switch schools and I find it hard to believe...so...Do I have to get good grades the school I’m in is really Poor teaching and I hardly learn anything.
I want to move because my schools very strict/abusive it makes me feel unsafe
i’m in year 8 and i really want to move to my best friends school which isn’t even that far because i don’t like the one i’m at, but i’m way to scared to ask my mum because sometimes she’s in a bad mood but i just really wish i could move but i think my mum will say no. any tips on asking her?
I’m considering changing school for 6th form cos my current school barely offers anything, there’s nothing stopping me really I’m just kinda undecided after watching this tho I think I’m gonna do it :)
I love the school i go to but my parents are making me move, what should i do?
sorry if this reply is too late, but here's some advice (I hope it helps), maybe you can tell your parents that you are super happy at your current school and that it would be really bad for you if you moved, tell them that you enjoy going to your current school and that you know you will be upset and anxious if you have to move. (hope this helps)
I going to my new school next week, not at the start of the year or term. Half way through and my anxiety is shook
I'm trying to get my mum to say yes to move schools 🙄
Andy berwick successful?
I’ve already been offered by my mom to move school a few times since it’d be easier for basically everybody and my sister has advised if I should just move schools because I’ve been having problems here for about 2-3 years now which I won’t mention, so I’m searching up on UA-cam if I should go all for it or just hope it gets better.
New favourite youtuber!! ILY💕
I’m moving schools down south,it’s two hours away from my previous school,I don’t know anyone and I’m so nervous 😥
How is it ?
thank you! I am literally about to go into year nine and halfway through we are going to be given the option to go to a place called Ron Dearing UTC! My mother isn't taking me seriously but Im writing something to convince her, is this good enough?
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Dear mum,
Bullies suck. I'm not too affected but I'm sick of them and seeing them upset other people. There will be less at Ron Dearing, obviously, they'll still exist because we can't just put everyone into a perfectly uniform box, but if you want to be a bully, you won't go through the hassle of going to a college where people are trying to excel, just to flop. Also, to be taking that initiative at fourteen years old means they are all hopefully a little more mature than people in my secondary school. Also, the uniform is better, a polo shirt and trousers with their logo, and optionally a hoodie.
I also have HSD which means writing for too long hurts my (little wittle) fingers, but getting a school laptop would be too much work and a fight. From what I can tell at Ron Dearing you can take your own laptop in for some classes that require it, which already will bridge half of the step of asking for it in all classes to same my hands. Work experience is also better as they are partnered with Smith & Nephew and some other places, (I could do work experience making PLASTERS/BAND-AIDS, there's no limit, I swear to god.) Whereas my current school actually cut funding and aren't doing ANY work experience AT ALL!
I don't want to slag them off, but they're really being outshone by Ron Dearing here. I currently get driven to school by a neighbour with kids in my year and form room, it's a no-brainer to carpool, but I'd be willing to take a bus with Jamie or just get the grips of the bus before leaving Jamie to himself and not being that little young tag-along. (He is moving there a year before I might, as you have to be 14, I will be 14 before year nine starts but I still want to wait until year ten when I am fifteen as I was born two hours after the cut off point, going this year would only put me in all of the bottom sets due to having 'missed out' that year nine.)
Hoping you'll take me seriously as time goes on,
Your Daughter, Keira.
Hey! It’s sucks what you are going though but don’t make the message seem too formal just be yourself and tell your mum that you ain’t happy x
I H8 my school! All the kids are mad and some are sassy😒
I know this video was ages ago but I’m moving schools soon and I’m very nervous about making friends as I’m moving from a laid back school to a strict catholic school (which doesn’t have a good reputation in the new school) and I’m really hoping to make new friends as I’ve just had a really big friendship incident(which is causing me to move schools) any advice ? I really need friends but I’m a little shy . And I’m like half way through year 9 and I’d be moving by myself
Howd u find itt
I want to move schools so badly, I'm borderline depressed at my current school, despite bieng 'popular' the way its run is horrible, they dehumanised us and it's really affecting me, I ask my parents to move schools and they say no. They cant be bothered to go through the process. They'd want my mental health and education to be undermined over them putting some effort in.
I’m really scared and sad about moving. I’m moving to another country so a whole different school. I love my school here and I really don’t wanna leave it. I love my friends and don’t wanna leave them either. I’m scared if i’ll be able to even make friends there.
i want to move schools so bad, and my parents and i are talking about ways to cope and thinking about letting me. any advice?
i’m in year 7 and i hate my school , i can’t even find a bestfriend 😕
Same, but all my friends are toxic and talk behind my back
AngelAnimations Same🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I’m thinking of moving to a much bigger school about 15 minutes away like you my other friend is moving from his school to mine but I don’t know if I should do it because I’m scared I won’t fit in or like it
Heyy, did u change? if u did, were u able to get a School bus? bc they won’t give me a school bus if I change schools
I go to this school where the work is hard and my parents hate their grading system but I have the best friends ever and she wants me to move to another school ( I wanted to move a year or 2 before so I didnt have to worry about leaving friends) but since im in year 10 now she wants me to move and its only like 10 mins away from my current school but I know that its a shit school and they have drugs and sex 'n' shit but my mum really wants me to move and I dont know what to do ( I would move there for year 11 & 12) sruggeling need help please???
Moving to boarding school, my car died and I slipped into severe depression, my grades dropped, my mom took away my phone and all my other shit, my grades and motivation both dropped to rock bottom and now I’m going to fucking boarding school, now she’s sayin she hopes I’m happy seeing her come home stressed and crying everyday till she can afford it.
Im getting bullied, and i cant take this anymore. any advice guys?
Try speak to your year manager a supportive teacher
Planning on making any more videos?
I’m in year 10 at the moment but I’m home schooled since year 9 and I’m moving soon and I’m scared because I have to start year 11 alone and I don’t know anyone there and I’m really scared
Hiya! I'm in year 10 and moving to another school in two weeks I'm really nervous tbh so I know how you feel.Ive only got a year and a half in secondary school left but it's still nerve racking sadly .
iwillgohome yeah it’s really scary , good luck x
My school currently learns Spanish but the school I might transfer to does french and German and I’m in year 7 so everybody will be ahead of me. Also year 7 is the year people get adjusted so everyone is new but I will miss that part so I’m very nervous
i’m in year 9, started a new school in september but i’ve had a really bad experience there so i’m trying to move to another school which has my best friends and girlfriend there but i’m still really scared. i’m terrified of getting lost and not being able to talk to people.
I am unhappy at my secondary school and I am in year 8 do you have to go to any meetings and talk about why you want to move?
i actually have the same experience as you had, my old school gave of a really bad reputation to actually all the schools in my area so transferring from that school to my other is probably gonna be really scary for the first weeks and the school is also much much bigger then my old school. The scary part is is that i also know nobody in my new school and i had nobody to go to that school, so im pretty much all alone😭 I know that this was yeaaars ago but it was really helpfull tyysm
you probs wont read this but pls give me some advice i live at my dads but want to move back to my mums im really anxious abt what my dad and step mum would think what should i do ?????
I dont exactly love the school I’m in right now but I’m moving schools because of financial problems because our car broke down and the school Igo to is quite a drive away from our house. Im moving to a new school near our house. Im going to miss my best friend.
The main reason I want ro move schools is because most people in ny school now are homophobic but idk how to bring up to my parents that I want to move school bit they'll ask why I want to move but my parents don't know im gay
I’m in yr 8 right now and I went to the same school in yr 7 and I’m not unhappy I’m just not my self usually I’m outgoing and just crazy but I feel like I lost myself there and now I’m thinking about moving but I don’t think I have the guts man this school changed me
i went to my local school for year 7 and 8 and now im moving haha
Right now I'm in a good grammar school but I really wanna move bc it doesn't make me happy plus I can go back to that school for six form college and I don't see the harm to just go to a school I actually like with my friends
Im really sad im leaving everything behind me and moving from nirth carolina to florida😭 i dont like florida bc ive lived there b4 and im gonna miss everyone and i dont think im gonna make the same bonds😭 im really sad to move and leave allll my friends, favkrite teachers and bf 😭 im just really scared life is gonna be horrible
serenity Robinson how did it go? C
I’m moving rn but it’s July and I’m going through the 4-5 weeks off/ summer break and I’m only moving bc I hate my friends and my only real friend went to a school called colmers
Im moving next week so wish me luck!!
Im in year 9 rn and im moving In the middle of the year back to my home country and I literally know no one😭😭
Im moving to Australia at the end of the year n I'm terrified like what if I hate school even more than I do now or what if I hv no friends what if no one likes me there I just hate being alone n I'm scared cuz I'm not just moving schools I'm moving to an entire new country what if I don't fit in and I just want to like school u know
Hey! I go to school in Australia and I promise, you will have no regrets. Obviously things happen but most teachers and staff members deal with it efficiently and make your wellbeing their top priority. Friends aren't hard to find, and most people will invite you to join their friend group. Experiment with different friends and stay close to the people who understand you and listen to the stories you have to tell. Hope this helps!
I wish someone can just help me, so I’m a grade 7 student in Hong Kong and, I really want to transfer to a private (International) school, but if you live in hk, you’ll know that the school cost a lot of money, and my parents are pretty nice, pretty understanding but I don’t if they would let me, or even want me to transfer, I am scared to open up and just talk to them about it, I don’t know if they can afford it, or anything but I just don’t know how to open up the conversation of me wanting to transfer.
I’m in year 10 now and I’m in a school that’s soooooooo bad that no one knows about and it’s so far away so there’s a school near my house and my cousins are in and it’s private and not that expensive but the problem is that I convinced my dad and he said he’ll make me transfer at the beginning of year 11 WHEN IVE ALREADY STARTED MY IGCSE BY THEN and now I’m in year 10 and I still didn’t start my igcse I’ll start my first official igcse test on November and we’ll have a long break before it starts so how do I convince my parents to make me transfer now?
in that exact situation rn
I am debating if I should switch schools, I go to a school that’s 20 min drive away from where I live but I could go to a school that’s only 5 min away and I just want a fresh start because at my school I’m at right now I have problems with my crush, I do have some people I hang around but we don’t talk much outside of school and I want to make REAALL friends and if I move to a new school I have a chance to be myself and make real friends and have fun times with new friends and hangout and stuff so I want to move schools but the one I wanna go to idk if I’ll make any friends :/
I’m year 9 right now and I’m moving house and school and I’m really scared
I started secondary a few months ago (year 7) and I liked it at start but I’m just not happy there, nothing is bad there is was just boring and it made me so unhappy and I told my mum and she said I picked it so I had to stay there.
My mum thinks something is wrong at school but there is nothing wrong, I just want too move to another secondary school but I’m scared about getting lost and not fitting in. Can you give me some tips?? 🥺
I’m considering moving schools but I don’t know if I want to. I’m in year 8 now and my school is 45 mins away on the bus and I have long days, getting up at 7 and getting home at 5. This school is really nice though. They have dogs, and nice staff, but I don’t really have any friends there. There is a school that is within walking distance to me and I have a friend moving in to year 7 there too. I love the idea of having local friends and shorter days, but I’m not sure how difficult it will be...any advice?
Hey ! I’m thinking of moving from my school to a local school because I really don’t like anyone at my school , I’ve had multiple panic attacks and I find my school atmosphere very stressful to work in x how long would you say it takes to move x
I want to change my school because mine school makes me so sad & my class is so unfriendly with me.. But my parents doesn't let me to change it but I feel like I can't live like this anymore and if they won't let me change, I'm going to end it all
agatworose dont
I’m in 6th grade, nearly at the end of the year.. and I have to move :((
My school is almost an hour away and my mom late for work all the time, and the school I want to move to is only 15 mins away I just hate my school so much
Would you advise moving half way through year 11?