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- Shannon Sharpe and Chad “ochocinco” Johnson discuss divorce and child support. They later talk about raising kids and their expectations of their children.
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As a 30yr old man that has never met his father before. Hell I dont even know his name. Hearing Unc talk about his kids and how he is there for them and how he helps guide them is beautiful. A lot of parents that are wealthy just give the kids whatever they want. Unc seems like the type of father that teaches them kids how to make it themselves.
Just spoke to mine after 36 years of existence and guess what he only speaks french😂😂😂😂😂....youre not alone bro
@@user-zt1dc4yt5gi knew my father but he was a traveling doctor and busy but trust me father figure does help in helping you understand right from wrong
"I dont even know his name." That sounds more like your mother's fault than the Dad.
@@cali2468so the mom suppose to teach her name and the dad.. gtfo😅😅
man just said he never met him.. go heal!
@@cali2468word that’s on the mom, she picked him to have a baby by
I'm a 40yo man with my own family, doctorate degree, and 1%er and my mom still talks to me like it's 1983. Every time we go to visit grandma, my kids look at me like, "why you so scared of grandma?"
Son... you didn't know meemaw in her prime.
It's all love and respect though 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 the way I died. Your kids see sweet grandma. As the kids we know them for the thugs they are. 🤣🤣🤣 My daughter always talks about my mom like she’s this kind soul. I look at her like we talking about the same women. Cause she use to swing on us. 🤣🤣🤣 we was shook.
@@nawill9209my dad just to whoop us too, gave us all the business when we being stupid and I’m glad he taught us that way. Mom was strict too so it wasn’t no favouritism around
@@seraphinagauld4100 my dad wasn’t around but my mom was. It kept me out of a lot of trouble. I use to have friends who use to run away. They would say girl yo momma mean. Come with me. I would be like my momma ain’t going to kill me. I am so glad I had that fear. I graduated high school. Joined the Marine Corps, got 5 degrees, raised a successful child, and doing my thing. They had a life of teen mom, welfare and abuse.
My kids never got to meet my mom but they definitely would’ve seen me behave the same way if they did 😂😂😂
No matter how old we are, we still kids to our parents! And they’ll always be Mom and dad!!! I didn’t grow up with my dad, but my Step dad is the real one!! I’d do everything I can to follow them footsteps he took!!!
This is a conversation that most of our men need to hear.
Shannon is a DAD 💪🏼
Says no one
3 baby mothers
@@URFAVTROLLyou a bozo
All Day!!!!
@@Earl_TheSquirrelthat’s not an indictment on his ability to parent.
I don’t do lazy either! It boils my blood when young adults just sit back and do nothing and wait for someone to do for them.
I never thought it would be me lol everybody has to do their part
This is grown men conversation, talking about responsibility. I love that Shannon gives his kids Expectations. Because without it, children don't know what to do! They have no sense of direction.
Facts, they might not like it at first and it might not feel good but later on in life they will appreciate it definitely
Never knew my dad and found out about him at 50. Him and his son don’t care to know me. I have 6 kids 2 in college going to medical school and I’m taking care of the others to this day. I’m motivated to be the best dad I can be
Good for you. Maybe your dad will come to his senses one day.
❤ that's awesome for your kids and you
That’s a responsible man. Clearly you have changed the trajectory for your children.
That is why God has kept you Mighty Blessed! May he hold you ever so close 🙏🏾 in his care always!!😢
I was diagnosed with lupus so I’m in a race to witness my kids dreams come true. I hope I’m here to see it
Unc on one. Listen i am with Shaq on this one. He told his kids, We are not rich. I am rich. Lolol
Shaq the man 😂 💜💛
Unc theme song: "All my life, grinding all my life! Sacrifice, hustle pay the price!"
PREACH!!! Laziness is not up for debate. Give them the tools. Help them out when you know they need it. ONLY!!
I agree and if I'm not mistaken laziness is even a sin
I love Shannon's principles concerning the children.
One of the best conversations I’ve heard on this channel
I'm with Shannon 💯👌🏾About 💓Respect💓and 🤔... "I Dont DO LaZy !"👍🏾
I DONT like it... your rich ...but you tell your children...i'm the last option , not the 1st choice???...WHOA...that's COLD....
SHANNON SHARPE IS A TERRIBLE FATHER...IDE NEVER TREAT MY KIDS LIKE THAT...
Unc already said he provided the tools to his children to be productive adults. You get in a jam, you can always call him to help. He just wants to see if you are able to resolve on your own. I respect that.
Shannon and Ocho great fathers. I love how Shannon doesn’t take any disrespect for himself or the child’s mom real old school!!
I love that about Shannon but I never expected anything lesser from him.
Thank you both for giving your baby’s mommas their flowers 💐
I never put my childs father on child support. I told him what i expect from him knowing what his financial situation was. He can get our daughter whenever he wants. She is well kept and maintained and he sees where his money goes. But i personally didnt want a court dictating how we should take care of a child. I think its a trap. Im thankful hes willing because i know there are some that arent and thats unfortunate
Good for you.
Thank god for you mama
Yeah but tbh some ppl needs court to dictate their life caus ether don't have moral ground.
@@hao9508that's true
Right, I did the same thing. In my opinion the child support system doesn't help, it hurts if you get behind, then there's still no financial support. And I never wanted to be in a position to have to bring my daughter to see her dad in jail.
I left the house at 21 haven’t been back to live there every since and now I’m 25 still going strong thank you mama and pops
This is real. My parents were divorced since i was 2. They didnt see eye to eye on alot of things, but neither of them tolerated laziness or disrespect
Absolutely Shannon, agree on everything you have said about being a parent. Raise them to be responsible, accountable and productive.
I work overnights...Thank you nightcap for making time go fast for me
Can’t believe some of my friends (I’m 25) that live with their parents or had their parents pay for school and are disrespectful towards their parents. If you have a good relationship with your parents or are back under their roof as an adult there’s no shame in that, but my god you have to be extremely respectful towards them
You would b the same way if you was them
Mehhhh, I mean everybody situation different. Bc a lot people feel like if they know you need their help and you got no other option, they’ll take advantage of you and treat you any kind of way.
Usually children that get the most are the worst, not all.
@@lornegreen6755so grind your ass off to not be in that situation. Amazon hires anyone and offers 60 hours a week. Or is it easier to be a victim? If you live under someone else’s roof, you gotta live with whatever consequences that comes with.
@@lornegreen6755mannn that’s a load of bull bruh, if it’s really that bad then leave and do shit on your own, I know plenty of people that attended UCs and paid their own way through everything
When you have raised your children and have been present for their entire lives. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Talk your shit Unc! A Proud & Involved Father 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
“The economy don’t cause you to be disrespectful” I know that’s right!
You can tell that Shannon is so proud of his children. It must be the most amazing feeling to know you've brought great ppl into the world ❤.
Unc had me a lil emotional on this one. . Gotta call my parents and tell them thank you, and I love them after this
No EXCUSE!!! I LOVE THIS. Shannon Sharp is 100% RIGHT! ✅️
Some babymama’s will intentionally try to hurt the father even if he’s been there from the very beginning, and for no good reason. I went through the worst with my kids mom with her trying to take everything from me while she did nothing, and I’m lucky now that both my kids are now over 18 as of last year so I don’t have to deal with her anymore.
my bm doing this to me now I'm there but she keeps pushing me out so I say fuck it I'm tired of fighting. when child is old enought he'll search me out
I’m going through that right now child support restraining order attempts I got lawyer for time sharing still didn’t let me see my kids
My husband and I have been married 32 years and if I hurt him, I’ll be hurting our kids. Why would women do such things
100
They take all your money, then get upset when you don’t have them with you as much. They don’t think about the fact that you can barely feed yourself on child support, so how are you supposed to keep them fed for days?
We need to stop enabling our children. I’m huge on respect too!
???? The topic wasn't about that
Chad you lucky AF especially being a former pro athlete and having that many baby momma. You a rockstar for finding woman that did not try and put in your ass in court for life. Good for you you, stay blessed
As much as I love Unc, he needs to be careful.....he doesn't appear to always listen and/or engage with Ocho's contributions. Ocho on the other hand, is such a good listener, rarely interrupts....come on Unc, get it together!
Very well said . I agree . Ocho has a great perspective on life, want to hear more from him.
Exactly
I agree with wanting ro hear mlre from Ocho. But you lost me at Unc needs to be careful. Becareful of what he has a great relationship with his kids and they are doing great in life. He has passed down the wisdom from his grand parents onto them and provided the tools they can use to survive. Because mom and dad cannon hold their hand in the real world. The world does not care and will tell them no. I lost a friend10 years ago cahse they coukd not handle NO. Did nkt know how to survive once they were out of school and deleted themselves. This is reality. Another friend of mine is doing 10 years. He came from money made a dumb decision. Did not hold himself accountable. Parents never held hin accountable. Judge said let me show yall how it is done and made an example out of him cause he came from money. Now that crime ht would have got him about 5 to 6 is at a decade. This is not hear say either.
@@samsneaddI agree 100% Unc made some excellent points here, appears to be a man of character with standards. Apologies if I wasn't clear, I just think he could be more reciprocal and engaged with Ocho, respond more to his experiences, interrupt less, be more of an active listener, rather than just waiting to talk more about himself - just my observations, I'm sure his intentions are good, but sometimes it benefits us to take a step back. Great podcast though, I wish him well
Wth you taking about
sharpe strict as hell😂😂respond to this comment if you wholeheartedly agree
@@princecammKids have to have structure, because when they go out in the world and someone says no it’s going to be a problem
Better to be strict than loose.
That's not strict..its respect
One day you will see why. The real world aint free. You may not be strict. May give ur kids EVERYTHING. Which is cool. BUT when thwy get old enough tht mom and dad an hold their hand or save them.frm everything cause the world really dnt care like tht thats whn u may see. U dnt have to be as strict but its about balance. I knw some ppl tht have kids and let them do whatever and the kid disrespect the f out them.and they wonder why. I have friends tht ddnt have strict parents they thought the world was the same as they home and they could get wht they wanted whn they want then reality hit them in the face. Now they in jail cause thwy thought mom and dad got me and im good so they made a bad deciaion tht cost them. And the judge wanted to make an example cause they came frm money. Another person i knw ddnt knw how to take No cause they neevr heard it before. Whn we got out of highschoolThey got depressed ddnt knw how to survive and deleted them self. So shannon maybe strict but why is the question.
Strict 😂😂😂!! Don’t be lazy and you get what you want from him. He not asking for a lot.
I spent over 100k to get joint custody cleaned my little bank account and 401k out. I still have to pay $1900 in child support and get my kids 13 days a month. The judge got mad at me in court only because I didn’t give her money the 9months she kept them away from me. He made me pay her $4700 lawyer fees and I still had to pay arrears. All that to say if a man wants to be in his kids life why is it that we have to go broke to be there. I understand child support but lawyers and court fees are crazy.
Sorry to hear this. The family court system is a joke. I went through so much trying to get full custody of my oldest when he was a child. He was living in an abusive home and the courts still ruled against me because they refused to remove him from the care of his mother. I did the best I could from my end with him but it was extremely toxic on his mom side. He grew up with a whole lot of rage and bitterness towards his mother. And just angry in general. Unfortunately this rage has landed him in prison for a lengthy murder sentence. This has ripped my heart out.
This sounds like a nightmare bruh
Damn! Feel for you guys.
How many kids?
Could go back in time would you still get in a relationship with that ex?
Would you hit and quit?
Or would you just ignore her?
Sorry you, had to go through that . That's so sad what the hell.. it's set up for men to fail also give up blessings ..
Thank you Ocho for seeing a different perspective. The economy is so bad right now. A lot of young adults are moving back home to antagonizing parents. I refuse to go back but times really have changed, there’s a lot of requirements just to get a decent apartment
You never know how people really feel about you till they get mad at you 💯. Your lucky to find someone who gets mad at you and still talks to you as if there not mad at you 💯
Sharpe teaches his kids principles. He is the example of a good dad.
Ocho telling the 100^% truth.
😂🤦🏽♂️ Ocho is a SIMP.
Loved this conversation the most! Unc just showed the young or wimpy parents that the traditional upbringing was not all bad. It is actually what is needed to face how the world is today. Great job!
My dad did leading by example and didn't do much talking. Also, he wasn't spoiling you after he grew up dirt poor in Mississippi, you had to earn what you got. Lastly he never dodged his obligation to the family. I'm trying to be like that too.
I'm 61 yrs young. I never had the experience to know what it feel like, to have a father around. I can't miss what i never had. However i was curious to know how things would've been like. These two Men! Are great Dad's 👍
My sons know I do not reward mediocrity or indolence. Their dad and I have been divorced for 10 years, but we are on the same page when it comes to this.
Thank you. Mediocrity is not acceptable.
I AGREE WITH SHANNON 1000%
Shannon’s experience is his experience…you can’t invalidate Ocho’s experience. Listening is a key component of a conversation. Love what y’all doing but you’re not always right.
I never had a good dad in my life my dad got locked up for ten to life at 11 yrs old but the principles unc was talking about i can tell that is very beneficial to have a dad that instilled structure in you
I don’t like lazy either, my kids knew after they graduated from college and transitioned to the real world. I wasn’t rich. They are both grown and gone and my job was to make them productive citizens of society. Now it’s my turn, I worked my butt off too!
Another journey. Be Proud. be careful and be you.
@@urserious4419 Thank you.
Thank you for being a good mom.
Congratulations for doing what you was supposed to do
Giving a child a one parent home hurts them.
One time, I told my aunt that I was grown and she couldn't tell me what to do (I lived with my aunt and uncle in my 20s). She told me, "You aren't grown until you put your own key in your own door." Facts!😊
Ocho is NOT lying about parents antagonizing adult children that have to be at home!
I agree with Ocho. I was a single mom. I don’t say no to my son, but he also doesn’t ask for many things. He also deserves it because he has always kept his grades up without asking, wasn’t a back talker and when asked to do something followed through with it.
Boy this is a conversation the CULTURE needs to hear
I’m a mom with a 24,26& 28 yr old and I agree with EVERYTHING Shannon is saying. Kids have to be prepared to live in the world.
That’s how it supposed to be kids needs to be out there working somewhere..not being lazy
The economy has humbled a lot of folk.
I truly enjoy this conversation. I agreed with Unc I’m allergic to lazy as well, grinds my gear. Yes and if you’re lazy you can’t get ish out of me as well. Unc you’re the best.
Agree with you Unc! Glad both of you are there for your children. A lot of us didn't have that!
The way unc says oh no gets me everytime 😂
These women have to be held responsible for banditry 😂😂😂😂
They are just playing it smart in my opinion. The laws around marriage / divorce need to change so that it can't be abused as such
Playing smart? Whats smart about adding to the dysfunction ? @@v1sudo
@@v1sudothat honestly makes no sense if they’re married no issues she was just being greedy. If they leave together that money would’ve been there’s anyways
@@edgardocardona5657 sounds like she's leaving him and wasn't willing to share. That's banditry in the first degree, at least for me and my new friend that judge 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@AlwaysK2withD3 excactly the other guy tripping 😂
As new father, I really appreciate this kind of conversation. It’s so hard to think about how to guide your children, but the overall goal is to raise great men and women. I grew up with no father as well, so I’m having to carve out my own philosophy and ideas on how to be a father.
One of the best piece of advice on the net…. Much respect unc
Always dropping gems.
37 no kids semi successful I’m honestly scared to get married or have kids I work too damn hard to put everything at risk with the chance of new real reward
Moving with that type of fear does you no favors. If you feel you worked too damn hard then find you a woman who also worked hard so you don't have to feel like you have everything to lose. Last resort, stay single and alone for the rest of your life then, so you can pride yourself on saying you're 50 with no kids.
@@MsSwankie10aye man its nothing wrong with that. You never know what could happen when you commit that much to another person. Thats a blessing to only have to be responsible for yourself.
find someone who jas something to lose.
@@Bge12609I’m 55 single & no kids. Love it.
Wish I had a Dad like Shannon I didn’t have a dad at all ❤️
That’s right UNC, set the tone of your house lay down expectations and don’t deviate from there real talk!!!!
Straight up You’re a Real One Unc!!
Unc is spot on. I am a child support specialist and separation affects everyone differently and anger is the general outcome.
I pay child support and haven't seen or heard from my kids in 10 years
Child support is
legal human trafficking
I'm in the same boat. It sucks bro.
Go to court for visitation. Especially if you're paying. Mother's can't block that. If you don't do what has to be done, the kids will see you as not caring, whether it's true or not. ❤
Me too I don't even know what my kids are dead or alive
@@HolisticManifesting Spent almost 3 years going back and forth to court. Cost me a well paying job then because of the numerous absences to attend court in addition to thousands of dollars in attorney fees.
Parental agreement was agreed upon and she still violates it. Tried to bring this up before to the judge and he ignored it. Women have an upper hand in family court. It's a broken system.
I'm sorry to hear that, I hope things change for yall.
Shannon is a great dad when it comes to having money. Chad is a dad that every kid wants regardless of the money lol. He’s gonna help you and be stern as needed. But you’re always his child and regardless of what you do or say he’s got your back. Respect from fear and respect from love is so different and money can’t change that dynamic.
I wholeheartedly agree with Unc. Parents need to teach their kids how to be productive member of society. Nothing wrong with hard work. I’ve seen the results of throwing money at everything and/or being their child’s friend. Lazy, bringing home babies, not working, etc.
Me and Shannon were raised very similar. I was raised by my grandparents in rural Texas in the 90’s. They still hung clothes on the line and I grew up on a farm. Them ole folks didn’t play with me and I don’t play with child either. I can say I have a a great child who takes care of her business. Never in trouble, straight A student athlete.
Shannon Sharpe, We definitely need more parents with his mentality! I applaud his parenting tactics 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿
Real men sacrifice and keep their family together no matter what. Like 85 said choose wisely or have a lifetime of regret
UNC I agree with you 💯 I don't do laziness with my two children they are are adults and parents as well I'm proud of them ❤️❤️
Appreciate these gems Shannon. As a young man who wants children this is gold.
"They know what I expect from them. I demand it." Is craaaaaaaazy 😂😂🤣🤣
I see you were raised by some bums. Some of us have parents whom want to see us become our best.
@@more_lifeNobody has control over their circumstances as a child, I see you have a great sense of grace
Once a parent always a parent
Prenup is Insurance Shannon said it better than I could.
Boy if y'all didn't hit on a nerve, if y'all didn't hit the nail on the head, that is exactly what me and my family are going through right now real talk real time. I agree 1000% Shannon there should be no excuses because u know right from wrong and have been taught that way..... Priceless my brother....
Grown people DO GET THEIR OWN PLACE 😂
I’m very proud of you, Shannon and Ocho. Keep up the good work I’m a football fanatic and I love your content. Don’t let nothing stop you.
As a father of boys. I agree - I despise lazy
You think you choosing wisely until it’s time to move on. Then you realize the type of beast you had children with 🤦🏾♂️
beast😂
Ocho right, really pay attention to the woman you with. Everybody gets mad but everybody have limitations on what they’ll do when mad.
Facts. But sometimes ppl hide and can show you their representative for years and you don't even know it until it's way late.
@@samsneaddyears???? There had to be flags
Didnr he marry a real housewife?
Speaking truth.... laying down foundation and morals in life
You are 100% right Shannon !!!
I agree with Shannon 100%. You can't reward bad behavior. You have to either work, go to school or military but, you must do something positive in my home too. So, I'm team Shannon on this.
Man the nightmare is the extra 40 hours a month I have to work to survive.
I believe in Prenups, especially if I’ve had to dish out money. I want to be loved rather than rich.
The amusing thing is even if you get married and don't get a prenup. Its cool because the state has an automatic prenup.
Emotions are a beast. I agree with Shannon on this one.
Unc is the G.O.AT...I love his view on kids and when its time for them to go. I feel the same.
Very satisfying to hear you praise those black women who helped raise your kids and work with you to raise your children. Both great dads! Preach to this next generation of black men they need much guidance. ❤❤
That's some real talk
I am really enjoying this conversation ❤❤
I loved this episode. Really real life.
You 2 inspire us so much thanks unc and Ocho
As a dad, Shannon gets it. Much love
Chad if you have multiple baby mama's and one of them is not a total pain in the ass, you sir are a UNICORN!! THIS IS NOT THE NORM AT ALL!!!😂😂😂
I love this show I can’t wait tell the notification bell ring an it’s unc an ocho
😂😂Sounds like me and got it from my parents "You don't work you don't eat"
Great conversation and viewpoints from Unc and Ocho. ❤
Another wonderful conversation with Shannon and Chad👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
He right so right. So true so true.
Shannon I totally agree with your method on how you take care you grown kids. Keep them in check period!!!
I'm 36 yrs old & I've never had any kind of relationship with my dad & hearing unc talk about his kids is a breath of fresh air.gotta lot of respect & love for you unc keep up the great work.
My ex BF and I sat down and discussed a decision between ourselves and it worked out fine.
Thanks for the wisdom, Unc
Awesome convo- I stand by Shannon one thousand percent🎤