How I faced my biggest fears: Losing my marriage and losing my hair

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024

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  • @cmadd498
    @cmadd498 Місяць тому +2

    You look beautiful, love the hair and the outfit and I usually don't like all white.

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      Haha, I hardly ever wear all white. I just wanted to see how it went with the very light hair colour. It was quite nice! It’s fun to try new things xx

  • @nandinilorenzsonn8485
    @nandinilorenzsonn8485 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing. I had a very similar thing happen when my husband took off, lived on his yacht, when the kids were little. I was confused, very depressed, felt sorry for myself, but I had so much help and support from family and friends that it made the journey bearable. He came back after four months and was very repentant. Yes, being a stay at home mother, I too blamed myself for giving most of my time to the children when he needed more attention. Also started looking after myself and my appearance .Anyway things worked out and we are still married today. Yes, the fear of losing those we love is very real. You are very brave and very special in your ability to confront your fears and forgive him. Life throws these things at us and we have lifted ourselves up and become strong and you especially are helping so many of us with our hair loss and weight problems and I just love listening to you and looking at how you do your hair and how you dress up and get inspired. So thank you so much. Yes, white is summery and yet sophisticated and even sultry !

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@nandinilorenzsonn8485 although it was a very traumatic experience at the time it definitely has its positives. My husband was away for exactly a year, I was sure we would divorce but…somehow we didn’t!
      Your comment was very interesting, we could sit and talk for hours about our experiences!

  • @nicolagio1977
    @nicolagio1977 Місяць тому +3

    I love your calming voice and your positivity - you are amazing and look so gorgeous.. gives me confidence to speak over myself too.. thank you lovely!! God bless.

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      Hi! Thanks for your kind compliments, I hope you drench yourself in positive words. Sometimes it’s the only way forward, anyway, it works for me. Sending you best wishes xx

  • @venetiancat
    @venetiancat Місяць тому

    Facing those fears is truly the path to freedom. You are a very brave soul, and you made it through! Glad that you and your husband got back together though, but so WONDERFUL NOT to be afraid anymore. Gifts indeed. Much Love from New Mexico USA lovely lady! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  26 днів тому

      @@venetiancat hey from Uk!! I’m delighted to hear from you. Facing our fears is something that cannot be avoided for ever. Sometimes we are forced to do so xx

  • @Janny1222
    @Janny1222 Місяць тому

    Thank you for opening up and sharing your very vulnerable story. It’s so relatable on many levels. And the hair and outfit looked lovely ❤

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@Janny1222 thank you so much. It’s amazing how we go through such dramatic events in life, but we survive and grow stronger with time xxx
      I really enjoyed my look that day xx

  • @s.a.kenyon2767
    @s.a.kenyon2767 Місяць тому

    You are looking amazing as usual. When I am down, I look to you! So wise and inspirational!

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@s.a.kenyon2767 that is such a lovely thing to say. I’ve got Steve sitting next to me and I read out your message, I’m really touched you feel this way. Sending you loads of love xxx

  • @kathyscrazylife
    @kathyscrazylife Місяць тому +1

    I love all white clothing. I learn so much from your videos.

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@kathyscrazylife hi again! I’m so glad to hear this. It’s just wonderful to connect with you. Sending you warmest wishes xx

  • @02tinky
    @02tinky Місяць тому

    Experiencing something like this now. I'm sorry you went through it, but your words are reassuring me that I will be alright. Thank you

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@02tinky mmm, sorry to hear this. Are you coping ok? Im here if you want to talk it through.
      No matter how traumatic the experience is, you will get through it. My biggest lesson is I had projected so much on to my husband without realising it, made him appear indispensable to me. But of course I later realised it was mostly my own creation! Sending hugs xx

  • @thecolorpurple4488
    @thecolorpurple4488 Місяць тому +2

    You look gorgeous

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      Thanks, that’s a lovely thing to hear! Xx I’m glad you enjoyed my video x

  • @LindaSiggs
    @LindaSiggs Місяць тому +2

    Such inner strength and openness. Thank goodness for people like you, showing us the reality of hair loss, and it’s normal to feel grief for our loss, but thank goodness too for wigs which I think once we get over the awkwardness of wearing one
    actually make us look more youthful and confident anyway. I actually wore a blonde wig to my father’s funeral yesterday knowing that the small group attending would be close relatives and aware of my hair loss but that was so much easier than
    Worrying about my thinning hair instead of the ceremony that brought us together.
    I’m sure I speak for a lot of people in being grateful for your heartwarming, heart rendering, candid, sometimes funny videos,
    and for dear Steve allowing us into your life, xx

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@LindaSiggs firstly, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you’re doing ok at this difficult and sad time.
      Secondly, I delighted you were able to solve the burden of worrying about your hair loss at the funeral. You wore a blonde wig! Which one was it?
      Thanks for your wonderful comment xx

  • @Ms7of8
    @Ms7of8 Місяць тому

    Another fantastic, relatable video. Thank you ! Love the look: the hair, the outfit, the make-up. Fabulous !

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@Ms7of8 how are you doing? Thanks for your encouraging comment, I never wear all white but…I quite liked it ☺️ specially pairs with the ashy hair. I was really comfortable all day. I wonder how I could use the same hair for a winter white look , wow, I should think about that! Xx

    • @Ms7of8
      @Ms7of8 Місяць тому

      @@lifeandhair All is well, dear.
      I love the all-white look on you . . . very Capri-esque ! The ashy blonde looks great on you (I have been wearing the ashy blondes for over a year now). Winter white will be smashing when it gets cooler with that hair color.

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@Ms7of8 thanks so much. I’m really excited about creating a winter white outfit one day with this hair…so much to look forward to 😻

  • @bernadettekukowski275
    @bernadettekukowski275 Місяць тому +1

    💗💗 Love the casual, summertime look at the end... You made curling the hair look so easy. When I try I get confused from left side to right side and how to wrap it. Then it just flops.

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@bernadettekukowski275 😂yes, I have the same exact problem. I just edited the worst ‘flops’ out! I usually would curl it on a styling head, but I was in a rush. It looked okay in the end.
      I found it was quite nice wearing white with the very ashy hair colour, that’s a real novelty to me, as you know I’m usually in brunettes. I also wore those particular trousers for the first time that day and really liked then.
      Anyway, lovely to hear from you again, hope you’re doing well xx

  • @jeanjacobs9965
    @jeanjacobs9965 Місяць тому

    Greetings Karima! You look spectacular!! Do you remember when you used to wear black nearly all the time? You've come a long way from that. Love and blessings ♥️🙏

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому +1

      @@jeanjacobs9965 yes Jean, I will always remember those days. I used to be so sad about it. Thanks for coming along with me on this journey. Hope you’re well xxx

  • @ranaz4248
    @ranaz4248 Місяць тому

    Hi there. Things happen for reason in our life , we might not like the outcome at the moment but I promise you few mouths or few years you look back and you say to yourself I made. It is OK and I am OK please hang in there. As far as the hair and outfit. You look lovely. Take care ❤

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@ranaz4248 you’re so right, I totally agree. Thanks so much for your wisdom and support xx

  • @xSunshinex4206
    @xSunshinex4206 Місяць тому

  • @kimakiearts887
    @kimakiearts887 Місяць тому

    💖

  • @cindyfrischer6136
    @cindyfrischer6136 Місяць тому

    Thank you. I found your video helpful. ❤

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@cindyfrischer6136 hey!! Are you feeling better now? It was a heck of a cold wasn’t it!
      So glad you enjoyed coming along with me on some thoughts. Take care x

    • @cindyfrischer6136
      @cindyfrischer6136 Місяць тому

      I’m feeling much better! Thanks for asking! I forgot to mention how much I appreciate your honesty. I found your video helpful and I’m sure others found it helpful as well. As always you look great! Take care. ❤

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@cindyfrischer6136 sending loads of love xx

  • @janiceriley5805
    @janiceriley5805 26 днів тому

    Hi could you tell me how to find your comments ON Reece & Alva & Saville TYIA X

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  26 днів тому

      @@janiceriley5805 I’m not sure what you mean exactly but I’ve put a link to that video here. You’ll be able to read the comments on there. ua-cam.com/video/dNZNwc2UDxo/v-deo.htmlsi=f6c5V4fsA_tu2fbu
      I hope this is what you mean, if not let me know x

  • @pinky567
    @pinky567 Місяць тому

    You look very fresh and beautiful

    • @lifeandhair
      @lifeandhair  Місяць тому

      @@pinky567 it’s a really fun colour. It took me by surprise, thanks for your lovely comment xx