NEW CHAPTER | No, really...she's back
Вставка
- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- HEY LOVELIES!
It's honestly been forever since I was consistently on here, but this time I'm back for real. Join me on today's vlog as I open up a little about how these past few years have affected me, and the changes I'm making to reach new heights.
Hope you enjoy as always and catch up soon!
Nikki x
Divorce really sucks but it is better than being in an unhealthy relationship/marriage. You go girl; God always got your back.
wht happened to her marriage?
God? Wich God are u talking?Was thinking this woman s catholic,how could u divorce...go away from trouble,u ll have double trouble!
@@hermanndupuis7457 They were unequally yoke, clearly God made a bm as her counterpart.
Amen
@@LoveYah1 Yes she is a lovely person inside out
It never gets easy😢. Sharing kids 50/50 is still a struggle for me too. And its been 4 years since my divorce. I totally get you momma.
It is indeed hard but there is the other side… I am on the other side my child being 20 now. So I totally understand 😊
Lol, Shaniqua maybe stop being with trash guys just because they have pink dicks?
You handled it with class. You didn’t come on social media bashing your husband like so many others
💯
It’s ok though to share you have standards and also share not having those standards met. It’s an aspect many wish to silence, that most people get to a point where they need to get up and leave or they will sink mental health wise, if they stay in the same situation.
It’s often wise though, to land in one’s emotions before sharing because if it’s too fresh you might get to a later stage where you feel that you have overshared. It shouldn’t always be viewed as bashing, when speaking of an experience. Please be mindful of the reality that many people put lots of trust in the silence and use it in the wrong way.
Lol ex-husband
Nothing wrong when people bash their ex publicly also, you people need to understand everyone has a different relationship. Besides they both said their divorce was difficult
@@JoJo-xl4mb Yes it is especially when it’s on Social media and around the kids. Nikki is class act for that. Plus she kept things private.
I've said this before and I'll say it again, I love getting updates from you but I have literally zero expectations as to the frequency. You are such a strong woman and your growth is incredible!
Soft launch of her new man on IG, now a vlog?!?! Oh, she’s WINNING! 😮💨👏🏽👏🏽
That’s how I feel😌👌🏾👌🏾💕💕💕
Yassss, we LOVE to see it!! ❤❤❤
That’s what I said!😮😊
She's WINNING... and we love to see it!
He looks handsome from what I could see.
Thanks for being so transparent Nikki. … the part of building a routine with your kids then having to redo it all over again can be heartbreaking. Praying for God’s blessings upon you 🙏🏾You’re awesome!
After getting a divorce I have my daughter 100% of the time because her father isn’t around. I would kill to have a break and she can spend time with her other parent. I guess there’s 2 sides to everything. But definitely understand where you’re coming from as well. Wishing you well❤
Thanks for sharing that perspective.
Same here. But she is saying that for clout . She is enjoying her life sister .
I gasped when I saw you in the gym on your own merit! The old Nikki would NEVER! 😂 You go girl! Congrats on the new Bae; you deserve it all ❤❤
Old Nikki gymed before the babies 💕
I’m glad to see you have come to the other side. My sister is going through a divorce too but sadly her ex doesn’t make an effort to see my niece. It’s so heartbreaking to witness but we’re surrounding them with love❤️
I was too excited when I saw her new man! 2023 the year we are winning! Congratulations Nikki ❤😊
her next victim😂😂😂
Stella getting her groove back!😜👍🏾
The Bounce Back❤ I'm here for it 😊
I mean Nicki looks like she hasn't aged!
@@AP-vo2mp IKR!, that Melanin is Melanining!😊
@@AP-vo2mp lol why would she show signs of aging in just 3 years as a young woman in her early thirties?
I needed that talk! Me and my boyfriend (fiancé)of 7 years split and it was the roughest for me as far as my bond with my son. It’s been two years and things are finally looking up just like you said. Shifting perspective and moving through instead of staying stuck has helped me not be so depressed anymore! Thanks niks 💗
“I just had to decide if this was going to be a make or break moment for me” ❤❤❤
Nikki! I genuinely didn't realise how much I've missed listening to you until you started talking. I've been with you since 2015 every episode every video and I'm so delighted you're back! There's something so genuine and calming about you, I'm so sorry you had such a rough few years. Hopefully it's all in the past and the future is bright for you and you're beautiful girls
Girl you are giving, you see the blessings in the 50/50 arrangement because you get to find out who you are. Also your hot springs was like Yesss ma you enjoy that. I am glad your back and feeling better than ever keep going girl.
You're so strong! You've got this. I feel you entirely... similar situation I've been through. You're a beautiful soul. You've got this!
Welcome back Nikki, times heals all pain and makes you stronger.
Why am I crying, so happy to see our Nikki is back. #shegotaman
I love the hashtag, I was so overjoyed when I saw that... wish I could've given her a hug
this made me cry as your mental health is number 1 and it is really great to have you back on youtube. We’re healing our trauma(s) some still chose to not deal with it thank you for being so open and honest with us - look forward to seeing more
Dearest Nikki - sending you so much love from Canada 🇨🇦 You could see the toll the last few years have taken on you, but also you made a beautiful transition. This is going to help a lot of people who are going through the same thing. I'm really glad you have taken the time you need, we're all here for you be it once a year or once a month 💛
Thank you so much for your honesty, I grew up going from moms place to my dads to visit and it resulted in me having serious adaption issues. It’s important for us to acknowledge how long it can actually take to be okay once life doesn’t look like what we imagined it to be. The realigning things and energy back to yourself is definitely a great start ❤
So lovely to have you and your calming Aura back. I don’t have babies yet 💔 but I can’t imagine anything harder then having to share them and not have them around you all the time, bless you that seems so hard sending you lots of hugs. Love seeing you happy. Can’t wait for more vlogs. ❤
All I have learnt from your journey is that . There is no bad situation that will stay forever . It just needs you to be strong no matter how hard it hits,thanks for inspiring us . I love you and happy to see a new you .
I'm so happy you are back Nikki!!❣You've been one of my favourite people in this platform for so long. Thank you for letting us into these fragments of your life and for always keeping it real. We are human and we are allowed to fall but I'm so glad to see you rise again. Welcome back queen❤
Nikki fans there is a report/flag button to report harassment and abuse towards Nikki in the comments section. Just click on the little dots next to each comment. I have been using it. Let's all help our girl out and flag any harassment.
Nikki, love you! So happy you're back!
Thank you for being here and vulnerable. You are blessed by the best... go get ummm!
Yes, young Lady! Glad to see you back! God bless you. Good spending time for yourself!
Sorry of my life going from full time mom to part time after the divorce. Definitely takes years to adjust. My mental took a toll on me I felt like a terrible mom to put my kids through that but we’ve adjusted and life go on so I definitely know how you feel.
So happy for you girl! I used to watch your videos forever ago when you first started UA-cam but mom life be crazy and I stopped watching, I’m so glad I found my way back to see your growth. You’re amazing, can’t wait to see what’s next for your journey beautiful 💛
Hi Nikki , it is so great to see you!!! You look FANTABULOUS !!! You went through a " Rough" spot ; we all do from time to time. You are a Survivor Queen Nikki, do not beat up on yourself. God will be there through ALL THINGS, and his Love and Grace never fades , nor does it fail!!!! You are a beautiful role model for your daughters. I love your channel, keep Inspiring people for Greatness!!!! May God Bless, Protect, Guide and Direct your path and provide strong positive, vibrational light and energy to you, your family, and your dreams !!!!! 🙏🏾👸🏾🦋🙌🏾💫💐✨💎🕊️🤗♥️👏🏾👏🏾⭐⭐⭐⭐💯💯💯💯💯💯
People have talked/written about how difficult it is to go through a divorce. I know I never really paid attention until I went through it myself. It keeps getting better Nikki.
Let me turn on my notifications for you 🤍!! How i missed this! Im here for that soft launch 🥺✨
Welcome back girl, I’m sorry to hear all of this. But I’m happy to see you are doing okay and you will be okay. Take your time when is needed❤
You are truly a diamond, Nikki. This new era is very much deserved ✨💫🧡
Much love to you. So happy to see you embracing life stronger than ever. 🤗🤗🤗
Congratulations Nikki, i am still trying to overcome my relationship breakup 8 years down the line. I hope one day i will. All the best girl.
Nikki I’m just so proud of You and Jamie both, making sure the kids have a normal life as possible, able to spend time with both parents, believe me when they grow up they will RESPECT! You both for not making then choose but having a good life with Mom and Dad, I love you and Jamie 🥰🥰 Always for putting your girls first
I nearly cried seeing Nikki back. I am so glad you are doing great love😢🥹🥹🥹
I’m so sorry you went through this. And I am glad you’re stronger and healing through this. ❤️❤️
Yay!!! So glad your back❤-I’ve been following you since you have been on UA-cam,you have handled this major life change with so much grace,I wish you all the blessings life has for you moving forward,your a wonder person and amazing Mom,Divorce is like a death except the other person doesn’t die-give yourself some grace,their is no timeline for healing and a new season of life,your gorgeous inside and out
I'm ecstatic that you are back, however I am also glad you took some time to heal. It's so important for the soul. Hopefully co-parenting has gotten better. Wishing you all as a family unit nothing but peace and love. 🙌🙌💖💖💖💖🙌🙌
She’s back with a new boo, you go girl 👏happy to see you after such a long time
I hope you are doing well. We have all been young and done some things in our life we may not do today so i will not judge her. She may have not been in right but we are human and make mistakes .
Whether you back or not sis, we’ll be here for every post😭💗
WE LOVE YOU NIKKI!! ALWAYS!! 🫶🏾🤞🏾
This just made me smile. I love when you said you deserve all the good things and your coming for them. I'm getting there. You just look happy and at peace. I smiled even bigger at the hot tub moment. I'm so not there, but looking forward to trusting again. You are Amazing for just being you.❤🙏
I love how nikki is constantly putting out content every 4 months 😂
Clever girl. After a certain time frame without posting, UA-cam demonetizes the channel. Would hate for that to happen
😂😂😂😂
You ABSOLUTELY
deserve alllll great things,
and MORE.
You got this✨✨
lots a love your way❤.
Ah Nikki! I’m so happy and ready to see back here😍❣️🫶🏾
Aww... Nikki it's nice to see you welcome back... I missed you. Congratulations on a new relationship! Hunni ..❤
Awwww darling first welcome back and I'm so glad SHE'S BACK!!!!.....and keep rising from every flame that's sent to destroy you~ and okay with the new boo I know that's right!
Oh hello.... I always admired you Nikki for your elegance, grace and soft demeanour. a a and your new boo thang subtle debut! You go girl xoxo 🎉
Great to see and hear from you! So happy you're in a better place. Love that you've found happiness and love again. ❤
Wellllll, Okay Ms. Nikki!!😊❤
I pray that all is well with you, Nikki. Welcome back 🙏🏽
Welcome back love. I miss yoy. A real gem on UA-cam. I went through a hurtful breakup and still after 2 yrs. I'm trying to take it day by day. Cry and work. But I hope to be in the same space one day. Elevate and be a new me just like you.
Determination + Change = Self Care
The new chapter started off well Nikki keep prospering
I’m so glad to hear you doing much better now. God bless you and your family always ! I’m excited for what God has in store for your future and present.
You deserve all good things, Nikki I am genuinely wishing you the best and I can’t wait to see more of your journey!
OML Nikki I have waited patiently for this moment , when you would be ready to share what’s been going on in your life for the past year. Honestly so much respect for you , and I guess just like how everyone who follows you would say “we absolutely adore your humility” and we feel we can relate to you every single time you speak. You have a special connection with your audience and that’s truly a God given talent. Keep doing you strong Mama 💪🏾 Sending Love &Prayers your way always x
So happy to see you back. That’s real. Fan of you before and now. Thank you for baring your emotions and sharing what you’ve gone through. On some levels, I can relate, specifically with splitting time with children as a mother. You’ve encouraged me to keep on the path. Much ❤.
P.S.-That man is fine FINE
Girl you gave me in my house jumping and and screaming you go girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂❤
Same!! I'm so happy for you!!
Soo happy for you Nikki, happy you’re in a happier and better place.. sending lots of love and happy to have you back ❤
We're so happy for and proud of you Nikki girl! You deserve the best!
Lovely to see you back happy ‘n healthy ❤
Love this. Remember to be kind to yourself through this time. I know it's not easy (I've been divorced for some years now too) but it takes time and it's good to see you're putting yourself out there again in this new chapter of life x
My therapist once told me "You are allowed to experience joy while doing the work to better yourself and heal". Seeing you share a snippet of your dating life honestly just inspired me all over again that even tho we may be dealing with some sort of trauma from the past or healing from a painful experience that happened in our live life, we STILL deserve joy, to be loved on, and that it's okay to date. The right person for us will accept us where we are, as we are. So glad to hear that you're in a better space Nikki! Much love to you and yours. You truly deserve all the blessings coming your way!
Some women loss themselves with motherhood you just need to find yourself again. You are very beautiful young woman get yourself back and learn to enjoy ur life again ❤
We love you Nikki!!! Alsoooo…..You are sooo gourgeousssssss! Incredibly beautiful. I’m so happy you’re back. We’ll be here supporting you ❤
Nikki got a boo!!! And we LOVE IT!!!!! BE HAPPY Sweet Girl!!!
Nicki’s back back 🤍. Love this new era for you girlie.
Everything will sort itself out in the right time.
‘The wisdom of God is stronger than human strength’ - remember that!
Thankfully, Jamie is a wonderful dad
This comment aged well
He is a wonderful father and man. So glad he now has more time with them. It’s the best thing for the kids to spend equal time with both their parents. ❤️
He is a manipulative, deceitful, bitter man who lacks the talent to make much of his life and cannot face the ordinary life that he has slid back into after losing his cash cow Nikki. Engineering and recording that drama, and then dragging it out four years later because he is clearly deranged with jealousy after Nikki revealed her new man is petty and pathetic to the extreme. The fact that he is involved in raising two mixed race daughters and yet engineered and is seeking to exploit the old racial trope of 'the angry black woman' shows exactly what kind of a father he is. He is an appalling person. Nikki is well-shot of him. He and you, just cannot stand to see her happy. Well eat your hearts out, she is happy!
Yes thank God
So happy your back 🥰 and even happier that you’re doing & feeling better ! Sending Love
So excited that you’re back posting!!❤🎉
We love you and welcome back.
One thing Nikki will never admit is that she was the one that was cheating on Jamie and being abusive towards him. I'm glad it's over for both of them. Jamie will find a loving and caring person as well. Blessings for both of them 😊
He said in the video clip "she tried to cheat", so which is it? Did she or did she not cheat? And how is putting a camera in someone's face in front of the kids, yelling at her to leave the house in front of the kids, talking about their issues and following her around in front of the kids not abuse? How is dating a 17-18 year old when you're pushing 30 not abuse? Yall pickmes are gullible.
Welcome backNikki! We missed you 🫶🏾
Yay!!! You got a boo you deserve happiness queen 🎉❤
I love this for you Nikki. You deserve the best things life have to offer ❤
Yaaaaas he is a brother!! Thank you GOD🎉🎉🎉
I am super proud of you!!!! I wish you the best on your journey. May God bless you today, tomorrow and forever 🤎🤎🤎🤎
I have been watching you since your first pregnancy announcement. I was too young to even consider having kids, especially in the head space I was in. Now I am talking about having kids with my boyfriend once when we get our degrees. I wish you the best Nikki and I can't wait for more videos!
Hey Nikki glad to see you back. Divorce is hard period, then you add children to the mix and it gets complicated. But I'm glad that you took the time you needed to heal, process and find yourself again. I'm glad that you both respected your children enough to keep that private stuff off social media. Stay strong and keep moving forward. God bless you ❤❤❤
It's wonderful to see you back Niki, just be your authentic real self as you always be , i miss your decorations videos so much also the beauty ones ❤💅
Welcome back!! We love you ❤
Awwwwww Nikki good to see you back. You really put a smile on my face just seeing your video again and looking Great 👍🏼 ❤.
Best wishes to your new chapter 🙏🏽🎉❤
I’ve been watching since the birth of your first daughter. I went into labor a couple months afterwards. I’m soo happy to see you at peace. You deserve it!❤
Well done for prioritising yourself and well being. Really good to have you back - I missed you :-)
So happy to have you back! We love you Nikki ❤❤❤
Loving this new era. You deserve happiness no matter how it looks!
I was literally clapping to see a glimpse of your return and new chapter good for you.
Awww Nikki! It’s so good to see your beautiful face!❤
Pleased to hear you’re in a good place and feeling happier❤
More life more blessings!🎉❤
OMG! It's been so long! great to see you! ❤
I am so happy for you Nikki
I truly hope you're really back. 😊 Its not the same without you.
Happy Tuesday! It's wonderful to see you back! Blessings to you and your entire family, stay positive and trust GOD has you and will continue to give you the strength and courage. Amen and Amen
Nikki. You are my kind of blogger. I search for your blog all the time. Regardless of the family split I still love n want to see you. I still watch Jamie n to he kids too. Continue to do o you. You deserve every blessing n remember to trust n honour God.❤️🙏🏽
I'm so glad you're back and doing ok cus I was always looking for you, divorce sucks but if you're not happy in a relationship then the best thing is to get out of it. Taking care of your mental state is your main focus and everything else will fall into place. It's tough when kids are involved but it always work out and you will make it work... you're not the first and you surely won't be the last. You got this girl and you have a world of support virtually... sending you lots of Caribbean love.
I feel you Nikki, you literally just told my story with my divorce and custody battle. I am dealing with the same thing. Know that you are not alone.
So glad you are in a good place.
Yeaaaaah! Nikki 🎉❤😮💨😮🙌🏿Glad you are back and working on your mental health, physical health and whatever comes next.