Ep 5: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

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  • @purekillah
    @purekillah 10 місяців тому +17748

    Petition to get better quality ladies on the show. The reasons they are giving to reject someone are absolutely ridiculous. You can see why they're single.

    • @easy-to
      @easy-to 10 місяців тому +1985

      Quality women don't waste time with.... smash or past 😂😂😂😂

    • @jaesbreigh3551
      @jaesbreigh3551 10 місяців тому +349

      @@easy-toyou right 😂😂😂

    • @jaesbreigh3551
      @jaesbreigh3551 10 місяців тому +642

      @@LuvvM4ttokay Dr. Phil

    • @purekillah
      @purekillah 10 місяців тому

      Well ofcourse preferences are subjective. But the mere fact that you reject someone based of frivolous superficial things like an astrology sign or a beard instead of the content of your character says a lot about them and where they are as a person. @@LuvvM4tt

    • @JCDenten557
      @JCDenten557 10 місяців тому +1004

      ​@@LuvvM4ttrejecting somebody because they wore certain shoes is crazy. I know that was said multiple times in these videos

  • @CheffinStefen
    @CheffinStefen 10 місяців тому +7422

    “Your hair is giving Goku”
    Everyone: hahaha
    “Your hair looks like ramen noodles”
    **collective shock and disgust**

    • @shaybillingsley9069
      @shaybillingsley9069 10 місяців тому +777

      cause its only funny if they giving the petty comments! I was confused on their "pick and choose sense of humor"

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 10 місяців тому +809

      Ironically, Goku hair and Ramen hair matched up… 😂

    • @tiffanyjenkins495
      @tiffanyjenkins495 10 місяців тому +388

      These women are petty and focused on ridiculous things

    • @Blvq.007
      @Blvq.007 10 місяців тому +55

      It’s crazy

    • @dahmeneekah
      @dahmeneekah 10 місяців тому +34

      😂😂😂😂😂Ikr! Like get over yourself

  • @xav9ier
    @xav9ier 4 місяці тому +1196

    This show isn't about matching people up. It's really about showing us why these people are single.

  • @MsLeonalove
    @MsLeonalove Місяць тому +152

    The way they popped on the first guy pissed me smooth tf off‼️ He’s handsome, very well spoken &
    Has a great career

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 Місяць тому +15

      And a great sense of humor.

    • @wasonaudiovisualentertainment
      @wasonaudiovisualentertainment 2 дні тому

      he seemed a great person. The way he laughed and wasn't even bothered by the popped balloons and rejections.. He seems like a good catch.

    • @jaydaynonchalant5910
      @jaydaynonchalant5910 2 дні тому

      Ok girl said bc his beard wasn't lined up. Blew my mind. So you turned down an opportunity to date this guy bc his beard wasn't quote on quote lined up at that particular time is mind bending bc a man can easily get that done at any time

  • @Stylushfashunista
    @Stylushfashunista 6 місяців тому +3680

    DEAR GOD!!!! THESE GIRLS ARE EXTREMLY SENSITIVE LOL...THE FIRST GUY'S SENSE OF HUMOR WAS FINE AND HE WAS NEVER DISRESPECTFUL!

    • @gabrielled5344
      @gabrielled5344 6 місяців тому +167

      They really were! I felt like he had a good sense of humor

    • @cherie0882
      @cherie0882 6 місяців тому +36

      Imo he play too much. Not everyone’s cup of tea.

    • @lava_wrld
      @lava_wrld 6 місяців тому +153

      i said the same thing like damn he cant make a lil jokey joke?? 😂😂 i laughed it was funny to me 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @jasonthegreat28
      @jasonthegreat28 6 місяців тому +15

      U feel me😂

    • @poundc8ke
      @poundc8ke 6 місяців тому +59

      Right he wasn't disrespectful 😂

  • @Zayassx
    @Zayassx 10 місяців тому +11942

    Being 30, single, and using astrology signs as an excuse to pop balloons is absolutely insane.

  • @GennySui
    @GennySui 10 місяців тому +5639

    These women popping their balloons for the most petty and superficial things. It’s funny how they get offended by a small harmless comparison like a hat, but referring to a man’s chest hair as taco meat….

    • @JoyaBangz1
      @JoyaBangz1 10 місяців тому +167

      I was thinking the same.

    • @bebop-p9s
      @bebop-p9s 10 місяців тому +82

      taco meat is an actual slang word for chest hair. it's very known. I'm surprised you thought that was an insult or something she just made up. but yeah I don't get how showing chest hair is a no.

    • @pizoetuk3966
      @pizoetuk3966 10 місяців тому +20

      Exactly my thoughts

    • @ashleyaustin6531
      @ashleyaustin6531 10 місяців тому +23

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @ashleyaustin6531
      @ashleyaustin6531 10 місяців тому +208

      ​@@bebop-p9staco meat slang or not might be offensive to some men tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @2075jman
    @2075jman Місяць тому +247

    That lawyer was fire. Finally a person that challenged the answers of the women, but did it with RESPECT. In my opinion he made each one of them rethink popping that balloon.

    • @bertreynolds8146
      @bertreynolds8146 Місяць тому +27

      He was more interested in showing off than connecting with the ladies and wanted to cross-examine them. It didn't create good vibes and it was a waste of time.

    • @FreedomAintFree-ol6fy
      @FreedomAintFree-ol6fy 27 днів тому +17

      @@bertreynolds8146 I'm sorry, but did I miss where he was showing off? He kept it humble. Arlette is literally asking why they popped, and he's having a conversation with them. It's not a debate to say "Here's why your first impression of me may be off". What you wanted was for him to take his lashings, say "yes ma'am", and leave.

    • @charcoalashes
      @charcoalashes 23 дні тому +10

      Absolutely not. He asked good questions but he didn't listen to a single answer cause then he kept asking what they just answered. So he needs to do better

    • @901lorenzo
      @901lorenzo 23 дні тому +7

      He should have done that with the women who wanted him like the other woman said

    • @highvibrations3013
      @highvibrations3013 16 днів тому +6

      He was a gentleman. Smart man asked questions and understanding to the women’s views and interest. As well he did not let them give him a bs answer these women do so surface level🙄

  • @One3_Tee
    @One3_Tee 10 місяців тому +8566

    Being 30+ and basing your love life off a zodiac sign is insane😂😂

    • @Stranger-xn6kf
      @Stranger-xn6kf 10 місяців тому +142

      Like 😬

    • @Cutthroat__
      @Cutthroat__ 10 місяців тому

      Man like wtf there’s a reason all these women single they got issues

    • @ekundayoawoniran1065
      @ekundayoawoniran1065 10 місяців тому +197

      They aren't ready 🤣

    • @SpiikeRose
      @SpiikeRose 10 місяців тому +164

      The most daft way of thinking ever

    • @TheBlackSamurai2708
      @TheBlackSamurai2708 10 місяців тому +133

      That’s not just a woman thing, men do that too and I will never understand why

  • @josepholiver5412
    @josepholiver5412 6 місяців тому +3623

    Rejecting someone because their beard isn't lined up is absolutely moronic. Some of these women deserve to be single.

    • @illegallygorguz
      @illegallygorguz 6 місяців тому +33

      Agree

    • @devawnpringle4940
      @devawnpringle4940 6 місяців тому +16

      Yep!

    • @zachazow
      @zachazow 6 місяців тому +47

      Some of them?.. All of them

    • @Queenlolo2.0
      @Queenlolo2.0 6 місяців тому +39

      Almost had to take this episode off 🤣

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 6 місяців тому

      A Man ain't suppose to line up his hair and beard anyway, according the the Scriptures. But these fake God fearing Girls wouldn't know that, but instead be into unholy stuff like astrology smh.

  • @SuperSpectrom
    @SuperSpectrom 10 місяців тому +1678

    This game is a good way to learn about social dynamics and how people are swayed by other opinions

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx 10 місяців тому +75

      This comment is so true. This show is real life

    • @Oye_kiana
      @Oye_kiana 10 місяців тому +64

      Agreed! Lot of insecurities.

    • @whatyoucookingvicky9119
      @whatyoucookingvicky9119 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes!

    • @jokerworld9707
      @jokerworld9707 10 місяців тому

      I think a lot of woman suffers from sheep mentality tbh.

    • @cinnamon88
      @cinnamon88 10 місяців тому +7

      I noticed that

  • @shadowscribbler6100
    @shadowscribbler6100 3 місяці тому +116

    Crazy that the first guy is catching shade for his outfit cause I think it's pretty rad tbh. Very well coordinated.

  • @itsmoneymanny
    @itsmoneymanny 3 місяці тому +498

    The first guy was a good dude, down to earth and kind. They took him too seriously, glad he can find opportunity somewhere else.

    • @missss1
      @missss1 2 місяці тому +12

      Exactly they took him way too serious😖

    • @funandfacts1991
      @funandfacts1991 2 місяці тому +14

      Yeah he was nice,kind and funny too.
      This ladies are too shallow

    • @candiceford7642
      @candiceford7642 2 місяці тому +14

      and he was fine and funny clean dress nice they clearly only on here to be seen and nothing else

    • @KeishaMoore-t7j
      @KeishaMoore-t7j 2 місяці тому +1

      My sentiments exactly

    • @lollypop2310
      @lollypop2310 Місяць тому +9

      Im really suprised that they popped He was good looking and also very nice

  • @ShawtyDooWap
    @ShawtyDooWap 5 місяців тому +1384

    The lawyer was spot on when he said he felt like the women were following each other and popping for no reason. They were being picky and petty.

  • @AfroPuffAddie
    @AfroPuffAddie 10 місяців тому +3205

    As a 6’1 woman, hearing a 5’2 woman saying he isn’t tall enough and she has four and a half in heels on is annoying ash.

    • @Ziaalovee
      @Ziaalovee 10 місяців тому +174

      LITERALLY IM 5’11 LIKE GIRL WHAT😂

    • @dahmeneekah
      @dahmeneekah 10 місяців тому +16

      😂😂😂😂Ikr... 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
      @Tiaxxxxxooooo 10 місяців тому +147

      Literally I am 6ft and get so annoyed by these damn height pops

    • @Anna_1017
      @Anna_1017 10 місяців тому +10

      RIGHT.

    • @amplify69er17
      @amplify69er17 10 місяців тому +46

      Facts I'm 6ft and it irritates me.

  • @dwillis329
    @dwillis329 3 місяці тому +69

    Saying you love to travel, but only been to Miami is diabolical 🤣

  • @Nwakaego_
    @Nwakaego_ 5 місяців тому +782

    The first guy and the lawyer guy were my favorite. Shoutout to the lawyer guy for challenging these women beyond their shallow thought process.

    • @darbythornton9471
      @darbythornton9471 4 місяці тому +1

      These Black women need mentors. They're pretty sad.

    • @khaiahmann9192
      @khaiahmann9192 4 місяці тому +7

      Omg yes! Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @blufrm6
      @blufrm6 4 місяці тому +28

      i knew he was gonna start cooking the girls after the first girl

    • @dominicksans7204
      @dominicksans7204 4 місяці тому +2

      Facts

    • @shanicegrande8631
      @shanicegrande8631 2 місяці тому +5

      He's not even a lawyer... He graduated with a MASTERS in law not doctorates.

  • @leswestla6528
    @leswestla6528 10 місяців тому +4219

    The first guy legit complimented EVERY SINGLE GIRL that rejected him and they’re skipping him over the most tiniest details???!!!

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight 10 місяців тому +283

      Facts bro. Its called self-sabotage.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 10 місяців тому +100

      Snapshot of the current environment

    • @kumgetusome6198
      @kumgetusome6198 10 місяців тому +71

      Damn shame cant have a good sense of humor all yall want is do men's shi save yall money and by a AI bot and have the programmer program it and spec it out just for you 😂

    • @CorinTarverMooreLove123
      @CorinTarverMooreLove123 10 місяців тому +72

      It's probably cause he was the first one.

    • @lawofthesun
      @lawofthesun 10 місяців тому +37

      He’s a Simp. Love that the second guy kept it real. A guy should have a type!

  • @babajidejoshua7287
    @babajidejoshua7287 10 місяців тому +3012

    7 minutes in and their reasons are so superficial and silly 😂😂😂. You can tell why they're single 😂😂

    • @dimitriassession2327
      @dimitriassession2327 10 місяців тому +85

      Big facts

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx 10 місяців тому

      Absolutely ridiculous these women. These basic looking chicks searching for perfection. Dating market is done.

    • @whatyoucookingvicky9119
      @whatyoucookingvicky9119 10 місяців тому +111

      Very superficial

    • @VictoriousByDivineRight
      @VictoriousByDivineRight 10 місяців тому +119

      That’s the main thing ppl should take from this our woman are so superficial it’s embarrassing

    • @chocolatecoils8200
      @chocolatecoils8200 10 місяців тому +107

      Right like will he wear those pants forever

  • @dr.trevaalexander270
    @dr.trevaalexander270 29 днів тому +50

    The attorney is on point. He is keeping it real with ALL the ladies. I like that he is completely observant and he's about holding people accountable, hence attorney.

    • @shesssosavvy
      @shesssosavvy 12 днів тому +5

      That is a poor rendition of attorney reverse psychology, and underhanded humbling of these women. It's a mind for common in attorneys and politicians.

    • @StarAlchemy
      @StarAlchemy 11 днів тому +1

      @@shesssosavvy He also was simply stalling them out for more airtime to showcase his brand. And they all fell for the okey doke.

  • @RumbaniNdhlovu
    @RumbaniNdhlovu 9 місяців тому +1882

    This show is a great study on human psychology. People disqualify themselves when they don't feel adequate, and 8 times out of 10, they'll make a reason up that makes the other person the problem instead of admitting that they were scared of being rejected. I appreciate the lady who admitted why she disqualified herself.

    • @pamelamuzambi2363
      @pamelamuzambi2363 9 місяців тому +111

      I totally agree. fear of rejection so in a way keeping the power on their side. rejecting feels better than being rejected.

    • @RumbaniNdhlovu
      @RumbaniNdhlovu 9 місяців тому

      @@pamelamuzambi2363 100%

    • @Blueberry_muffin42
      @Blueberry_muffin42 9 місяців тому +7

      Facts

    • @daviddavid-tt3fk
      @daviddavid-tt3fk 9 місяців тому +28

      Accurate. She was smart enough to retract an she left with a man unlike most!

    • @RumbaniNdhlovu
      @RumbaniNdhlovu 9 місяців тому +9

      @daviddavid-tt3fk FACTS. What a little but of self-awareness and accountability can do.

  • @Curly.Leigh23
    @Curly.Leigh23 10 місяців тому +3156

    These men are DODGING BULLETS 😭😂 keep popping the balloons ladies

    • @drxtage6927
      @drxtage6927 9 місяців тому +16

      If you were there I would have choose you again & again😊

    • @sherineofficial7851
      @sherineofficial7851 9 місяців тому +61

      Facts! Red flags everywhere. 😣

    • @Apryl84
      @Apryl84 9 місяців тому +14

      Fax! 😭😭😭

    • @DLShoulders29
      @DLShoulders29 9 місяців тому +58

      These women are PETTY!! Watching the guys pop balloons, they actually give high quality reasons, not just “l didn’t like his joke”.

    • @kruzza
      @kruzza 9 місяців тому +3

      Preach

  • @AKsprintz
    @AKsprintz 10 місяців тому +1136

    The first guy was humble, these women just confused

    • @Hxtice
      @Hxtice 10 місяців тому +96

      The first guy actually showed a lot of maturity be taking in the criticism and apologising if it went over the wrong way even when he specified it wasn’t his intention. The girls don’t seem to be very reasonable in that regard

    • @LifeOfKells
      @LifeOfKells 10 місяців тому +45

      @@Hxticeyeah, no shade to them but they gave him trash answers smh

    • @jay80
      @jay80 10 місяців тому +7

      Fax

    • @stevelumumbashabazzz5087
      @stevelumumbashabazzz5087 10 місяців тому

      He should seek non blk women they will grab him fast, because non blk women know how to see potential

    • @mickeymoose2583
      @mickeymoose2583 10 місяців тому

      These women are annoying ASF

  • @prettikay9109
    @prettikay9109 2 місяці тому +33

    Dressed in SHEIN and talking about fashion 😂is bananas with them $4 heels

  • @salochi1710
    @salochi1710 9 місяців тому +2239

    “We want tall”
    *Tall walks in*
    “Pop, pop, pop” lmao

    • @dianamangapi8954
      @dianamangapi8954 9 місяців тому +46

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @CDreezy94
      @CDreezy94 9 місяців тому +19

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @janinemccaskill5683
      @janinemccaskill5683 9 місяців тому +139

      If it's not one thing, it's another. The most weak excuses for popping the balloons. SMH

    • @tyroneharper1191
      @tyroneharper1191 9 місяців тому +25

      Bruh on gawd. The devil man walked in and they all said "POP!"

    • @its_cynthiandaipa
      @its_cynthiandaipa 9 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂

  • @sasogie
    @sasogie 10 місяців тому +2781

    Malcolm seems dope asf like I don’t understand why all the women rejected him off of little details like his beard and jeans and the ramen noodles joke

    • @memorylane936
      @memorylane936 10 місяців тому +375

      😂 they ass to picky that why they still single

    • @dianesedzro2096
      @dianesedzro2096 10 місяців тому +305

      Lmao the skinny jeans? Girl he can change that 💀

    • @dianesedzro2096
      @dianesedzro2096 10 місяців тому +246

      The beard can get fixed up and I think both girls lying those are not the real reason they popped it

    • @riosworld700
      @riosworld700 10 місяців тому +68

      I know where you’re coming from, but I think he talked his way out of it.
      For example:
      1. When he was being rejected he was too complimentary to the women rejecting him. Be quiet and listen why then give a brief response. Other women with balloons want to feel that they are the better choice compared to the other women. If he’s complementing everyone then the woman with the balloons feels less and less special and then pop!
      2. The ramen noodles joke was no malice. However, modern women band together for protection ( think safety in numbers). So, if he throws shade at one of the women the others feel like they have to back or side with her. Other than that they might be thinking ‘ what if he’s like that with me?’.
      3. He was too talkative in general. Women like a reserved guy. He’s got enough personality not to blabber all of the time ( like some stereotypical women ie their girlfriends). Saying less than he needs to would have built an air of mystery and charisma for being able to wow people when he rarely speaks. That will make his woman look good.
      Also a truly feminine woman communicates nonverbally with the movement of her body, eyes, breath, touch etc. Similarly, as a man he can communicate a lot with a look, facial expression instead of speaking.
      This is no shade to Mr Malcolm, because he did really well. I don’t know his name, but the gentleman in the brown roll neck who admitted that he was nervous had the same ‘talkative’ issue hence leaving with no match.

    • @joyfullyjhordy
      @joyfullyjhordy 10 місяців тому +55

      I liked his outfit 😭 regardless skinny jeans can be changed

  • @noladarling1597
    @noladarling1597 4 місяці тому +482

    Sis is talking about “I don’t like the fit” but you’re standing there as a grown woman wearing a “my ex is my biggest fan” tee 😂😂😂😂 you and him matching sis!

    • @kyladio93
      @kyladio93 3 місяці тому +41

      And she's a behavioural therapist! 😂😂

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani 3 місяці тому +19

      Yea… all of these women are questionable 😂

    • @bettyfalade8789
      @bettyfalade8789 3 місяці тому +7

      This is hilarious 😅😅

    • @josephineducreayrealestate5945
      @josephineducreayrealestate5945 3 місяці тому +17

      And he was wearing his own brand!!

    • @ERROR_SCAMLIKELY
      @ERROR_SCAMLIKELY 3 місяці тому

      ​@@kyladio93shes Clearly lying, probably a stripper 🤣

  • @touchedbyyou4698
    @touchedbyyou4698 2 місяці тому +28

    The 1st guy was definitely 👌🏾...i love a great sense of humor

  • @marcusdavis406
    @marcusdavis406 10 місяців тому +5347

    Imagine somebody shorter than you telling you that you’re not tall enough 🤣🤣

    • @wassupimenvy3622
      @wassupimenvy3622 10 місяців тому +140

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Likee whaaaat I be lost I stg

    • @braelynnblue
      @braelynnblue 10 місяців тому +128

      Make it make sense 😂😂😂

    • @byrdmenyon
      @byrdmenyon 10 місяців тому +187

      right like girl he's taller than you LOL🤣

    • @jacqualagivens
      @jacqualagivens 10 місяців тому +18

      Be easy on me lol 😩

    • @traceymiller6700
      @traceymiller6700 10 місяців тому +54

      As woman who is 5’ 8” nothing wrong with his height. He is the same height as my ex husband 🙏❤️ He has an amazing personality. I hope he finds someone who deserves him.

  • @chipybaby
    @chipybaby 5 місяців тому +379

    you can tell when guy #1 became annoyed with the criticism. He kept it respectful. I like him a lot.

    • @girlred1980
      @girlred1980 4 місяці тому +22

      He was cool and cute. I didn’t think he was too short either. Some of them are wear 4 inch high heels maybe even higher

    • @FireAngelChris
      @FireAngelChris 3 місяці тому +14

      Yeah after awhile it’s annoying lol because it was so shallow

    • @Slynell1
      @Slynell1 3 місяці тому +1

      shoot ur shot

  • @dainty_sley1101
    @dainty_sley1101 6 місяців тому +1837

    “I don’t really like the outfit.” ARE WE HERE FOR A FASHION SHOW OR FOR LOVE WTH 😂

    • @Bonerfyable
      @Bonerfyable 6 місяців тому +72

      Says a lot tbh. The women made an effort with clothes, hair and makeup and the man cant even put a blazer on? Please.

    • @ceasefire677
      @ceasefire677 6 місяців тому +37

      @@Bonerfyable a blazer?? do you know what show this is 😅😅😅

    • @Bonerfyable
      @Bonerfyable 6 місяців тому +39

      @@ceasefire677 A show where first impressions can make all the difference? Make an effort, gents.

    • @doodiemac100
      @doodiemac100 6 місяців тому

      ​@@BonerfyableThat's yall. Men's apparel is a lot more simple. If you can look clean in general that's good enough. Miss me with that shit, this is speed dating not a Fashion Nova exposè. And the broads on here have turned down niggas in blazers and suits too so what difference does it make if he still get turned down even if he dressed his best? Focus on attraction and personality, not shallow preferences.

    • @veronicafuentes7609
      @veronicafuentes7609 6 місяців тому +9

      That’s what I’m saying 😂😂😂. They don’t even let them talk first 🤷🏻‍♂️ it’s crazy 😂

  • @DatKakashii
    @DatKakashii 2 місяці тому +48

    The dude in orange had me crying going back and forth with Willy Wonka. Bye Tay Tay 😭

  • @Dolla5K
    @Dolla5K 10 місяців тому +5983

    These ladies pop their balloons just to avoid rejection tbh

  • @NinaL
    @NinaL 6 місяців тому +902

    The first guy was extremely sweet, handsome, and funny. Someone that will be your friend first is so important to me. Forget a height!!!

    • @loryndabenson2118
      @loryndabenson2118 6 місяців тому +66

      i agree i thought he was great. and i can tell he wasnt teasing any one maliciously. i think thats just his playful personality. its not for everyone but he seemed liked a nice guy with his shit together.

    • @chilout2496
      @chilout2496 6 місяців тому +24

      Yea what I find funny is that these lady’s will roast the guys and none of the others will say anything. They’ll roast the outfits, the hair and so on but let the guy defend his self just a tiny bit and they’ll pop every ballon that exists on the planet. So you’ll miss out on a good guy because he was a meanie to someone who tried to roast him lol

    • @NinaL
      @NinaL 6 місяців тому +3

      @@loryndabenson2118 Exactly my thoughts!

    • @NinaL
      @NinaL 6 місяців тому +4

      @@chilout2496 That's so silly. Too big and grown to be sheep.

    • @keepingitnatural7601
      @keepingitnatural7601 6 місяців тому +10

      Wait I’m confused! The 1st guy was super nice.

  • @SaneInternetPerson
    @SaneInternetPerson 10 місяців тому +728

    What is wrong with these ladies? That first guy was fantastic! He's one of the best they've had on the show so far! Bring him back with a new set of ladies!! These ones are ridiculous.. the reasons they're giving make ZERO sense, they sound superficial and petty AF. I see why they're single. They're goofy.

    • @kirieltee
      @kirieltee 10 місяців тому +59

      I agree. I'd like to see him come back as well.

    • @Exclxsiveskye
      @Exclxsiveskye 10 місяців тому +24

      Him saying he wanted a god fearing woman eas enough for me😂

    • @urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287
      @urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 10 місяців тому +24

      @@Exclxsiveskyeall of them don’t have the fear of God in them

    • @Ladiibird
      @Ladiibird 10 місяців тому +7

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @Whatshaname
      @Whatshaname 10 місяців тому +39

      I think they deliberately wanted to humble/embarrass these men.

  • @ElsieLouiseB
    @ElsieLouiseB 2 місяці тому +53

    they know that basketball player was fineeee LMAOOOOOO

    • @touchedbyyou4698
      @touchedbyyou4698 2 місяці тому +10

      Outta they league

    • @AwesomeNaka
      @AwesomeNaka 18 днів тому

      ​@@touchedbyyou4698You're ridiculous, they just know that they always date non black, most of the time, he is not that handsome 😢

    • @leahbrown2029
      @leahbrown2029 9 днів тому +2

      Yeah I like his personality and I think he knows what he's looking for

    • @vw7402
      @vw7402 8 днів тому

      @@touchedbyyou4698exactly lol

  • @bri3233
    @bri3233 5 місяців тому +684

    The guy who just graduated law school is EVERYTHING!! He brought the energy to the show

    • @montierejohnson3917
      @montierejohnson3917 5 місяців тому +47

      I’m telling you I didn’t want his line of questioning to end

    • @BigJ535
      @BigJ535 5 місяців тому

      True

    • @auntiemeemaw3885
      @auntiemeemaw3885 5 місяців тому +26

      He really is. He's determined to be successful. He has wisdom and focus to be so young. I think they are thinking of guys they've dealt with at his age that are his opposite.

    • @yvonnemwendwa
      @yvonnemwendwa 4 місяці тому

      💯

    • @Boggeyman1
      @Boggeyman1 4 місяці тому +3

      You know I am saying

  • @HD.Keem96
    @HD.Keem96 10 місяців тому +472

    Her balloon pop videos have a degree of class to them, and she always makes contestants elaborate on why they do or do not like someone, keep these videos coming.

    • @cancer_moonchild
      @cancer_moonchild 10 місяців тому +14

      Exposing how shallow they are!

    • @iamledgend247
      @iamledgend247 10 місяців тому +2

      I actually think the opposite

    • @yolandashaw2940
      @yolandashaw2940 10 місяців тому

      @@iamledgend247me too

    • @HD.Keem96
      @HD.Keem96 10 місяців тому +1

      @@iamledgend247 This is good I do believe we can learn a great amount from differing opinions would you like to share.

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 Місяць тому

      But their responses are empty, superficial and immature.

  • @courtlandcaraway8337
    @courtlandcaraway8337 10 місяців тому +2785

    If you’re 30+ and you’re single … and still depending on astrology to choose a partner…just don’t waste anyone’s time and stay single😂

    • @thankmelater90210
      @thankmelater90210 10 місяців тому +159

      Right my parents been married for almost 43 years according to astrology their not compatible!

    • @tiffanyjenkins495
      @tiffanyjenkins495 10 місяців тому +72

      😂😂right, they really believe that crap

    • @bahomyeze7075
      @bahomyeze7075 10 місяців тому

      Astrology is bullshit. As a Christian, Bible condemned it too

    • @johnson48931
      @johnson48931 10 місяців тому +6

      Yes!!!

    • @Blvq.007
      @Blvq.007 10 місяців тому +3

      Right

  • @PrettyPinky2001
    @PrettyPinky2001 3 місяці тому +35

    "U are a Gemini, you have bad shoes" 😂😂said 30 and single

    • @Tourhours
      @Tourhours Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @makafuisatekla
    @makafuisatekla 9 місяців тому +802

    The lawyers’ question were so introspective and clever, caught most of the ladies off guard. 😂 I admire him for his composure and smile. His aura heavy. Brilliant personality….

    • @Lolabammy
      @Lolabammy 9 місяців тому +7

      💯

    • @epp.5593
      @epp.5593 9 місяців тому +99

      Yes, he was that. And when she said, "I am the table," he immediately asked, "So, what is on the table?" She couldn't handle him.

    • @StatikFresh4
      @StatikFresh4 9 місяців тому +66

      They were intimidated by his intelligence that’s why

    • @BossarriTV
      @BossarriTV 9 місяців тому +30

      They were intimidated for sure !!!

    • @PorkStufff
      @PorkStufff 9 місяців тому +42

      He came out like a clown and made me immediately eat my words.

  • @ryleighalex
    @ryleighalex 10 місяців тому +532

    I’m convinced these women want to be single, first guy was amazing

    • @emetechad4621
      @emetechad4621 10 місяців тому +58

      They just pop when someone else pops their ballon it’s insane

    • @tasheenageorge4044
      @tasheenageorge4044 10 місяців тому +17

      He really was. I was shocked..

    • @brandonjablasone7544
      @brandonjablasone7544 10 місяців тому

      @@emetechad4621they knew bull wasn’t going to pick them. These women got Jobs like fucking hair stylist and want to judge people. They display a cult mantality

    • @tiaj7819
      @tiaj7819 10 місяців тому +23

      After watching 3 episodes I absolutely agree with you. Their reasons were lame.

    • @arianajaden
      @arianajaden 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes. I would've jumped on that. Lol

  • @lifestraight
    @lifestraight 10 місяців тому +975

    Nuchi popped the balloon for a guy she feels is handsome, has a nice outfit, and isn't bothered by his height, but has a little scruff to his beard. Something that can EASILY be fixed. This is called self-sabotage. 5:38

    • @CyanReality
      @CyanReality 10 місяців тому +240

      That Girl is toxic. JUST READ THE SHIRT And THAT ALONE Tells you ALL You need to know about her.

    • @Tyy33244
      @Tyy33244 10 місяців тому +71

      @@CyanReality exactly she kept saying she ain’t like somebody outfit but her shirt 😭😭😭

    • @MYFBAMB
      @MYFBAMB 10 місяців тому +97

      @@CyanReality Yes, I agree. She definitely gave me masculine hood chick from the Bronx. She’d be a great fit for the show baddies.

    • @AckeeandSaltfish
      @AckeeandSaltfish 10 місяців тому +46

      @@CyanRealityher outfit and energy gave toxic 😂

    • @SeeSeongt
      @SeeSeongt 10 місяців тому

      She also have a OF I think and her IG she's showing her body a lot

  • @yrb5512
    @yrb5512 2 місяці тому +18

    The "lawyer" was lawyering instead of looking for a match 😂

    • @leahbrown2029
      @leahbrown2029 9 днів тому +2

      Dude did a clap back because they popped on him 😂

  • @Deenaroshell
    @Deenaroshell 10 місяців тому +5175

    These women missed out on a good guys for superficial and weird reasons.

    • @ramzyy5362
      @ramzyy5362 10 місяців тому +293

      It brings me joy that so many women will be single because at the end of the day it will be their fault because they had so many opportunities when they were young but when they get older and their options dwindles they will suffer the consequences of their mindsets as they become inaccessible in the dating marketplace

    • @vereen70
      @vereen70 10 місяців тому +191

      @@ramzyy5362 I get it, the show is starting to desensitize me to women because of the arbitrary things they reject men for. Astrological signs, height, shoes, WTH. Whenever I hear a woman say “he was a narcissist and abusive” I chuckle to myself and I want to ask her “ How tall was he?” 😂

    • @ramzyy5362
      @ramzyy5362 10 місяців тому +66

      @@vereen70 yeahh thé more and more I watch these type of shows the more I become emotionless to women like it feels like I’m become a hard stoned cold man because I’m no longer sensitive towards women because I just accepted reality

    • @BenevolentDictator13
      @BenevolentDictator13 10 місяців тому +40

      Welcome to America 🇺🇸

    • @Deenaroshell
      @Deenaroshell 10 місяців тому

      @@ramzyy5362 don’t give up. There are available women who don’t think that way. Disfunction is usually given a platform for entertainment not to take serious. I’m blessed to have a husband and be happily married at 32. If it’s something you want it will happen for you.

  • @annab0511
    @annab0511 5 місяців тому +658

    The lawyer’s line of questioning was spot on, called them out smartly. Saying no to someone’s shoes 🙄, no wonder they single

    • @iamhorcruxer
      @iamhorcruxer 5 місяців тому +10

      I know I’m like damn popping wit the quicks. Like they look solid you don’t wanna hear anything at all at first damn

    • @darrellmartin4334
      @darrellmartin4334 5 місяців тому +12

      They are sticking together ,,,,Girl code shit

    • @mmastereve519
      @mmastereve519 5 місяців тому +17

      the wanna be lawyer is a child who thinks hes smarty and slick, these laides stop on his Childish very quickly.

    • @miahopkins3983
      @miahopkins3983 5 місяців тому +21

      Im so glad that he called them all out! Telling him that he needs to stop having a deep conversation with the women on a DATING SHOW is crazy work.

    • @blvckdoll
      @blvckdoll 5 місяців тому +5

      Exactly. I felt so bad for him. That was excruciating to watch but I pray he knows he dodged a bullet because those women didn't know what they wanted. Especially the one in the black dress. She was offended by everything he said and kept cutting him off but when she dissed him multiple times he was graceful and respectful. Very sad.

  • @Personal_Favorite_ZW
    @Personal_Favorite_ZW 10 місяців тому +2396

    That lawyer was born to be a lawyer, he put them on casual vibe trial 😂😂

    • @chehill8001
      @chehill8001 10 місяців тому +55

      Yes indeed...

    • @IshiroaKimita
      @IshiroaKimita 10 місяців тому +258

      I'm mad about that one, he asked basic questions and made good conversation.. Then got put down because of it.

    • @Personal_Favorite_ZW
      @Personal_Favorite_ZW 10 місяців тому +184

      ​@@IshiroaKimitanaa they felt threatened by it because when he speaks everyone girl likes him, most BW wants a good conversationalist until he's in front of them then it SCARES them because they don't know what that is

    • @khalilmommar781
      @khalilmommar781 10 місяців тому +91

      He just speaks a little ignorant for someone that just graduated law school!

    • @tmc8750
      @tmc8750 10 місяців тому

      He was a millennial clown, practicing his talking points yet NOT effectively listening while tryna communicate “hood style” to show swag. Boy bye

  • @KeishaMoore-t7j
    @KeishaMoore-t7j 2 місяці тому +13

    These women are too serious, that's a good looking man with a good sense of humor.

  • @anadennis2000
    @anadennis2000 10 місяців тому +956

    Malcolm left after being rejected by all yet still remained respectful and kind🤴🏾

    • @ValenciaRose.
      @ValenciaRose. 10 місяців тому +77

      They was weird rejecting him for having a sense of humor. I think he was too nice and that turned people off ex. the girl with the glasses who said they'd just be friends.

    • @cephasmee6456
      @cephasmee6456 10 місяців тому +7

      What you said makes an inch of sense. Why didn't you criticize their brainless reasons for rejecting him? Everyone said his height but he seemed to be a great dude. Lol. Make it make sense, condemn a bad attitude, even if it is the man!!!

    • @anadennis2000
      @anadennis2000 10 місяців тому +12

      @@cephasmee6456 wtf are you talking about luv😂😂😂😂

    • @cephasmee6456
      @cephasmee6456 10 місяців тому

      I'm saying give a full rap sheet on both sides. These women give a bad image for our community. We gotta help each other to grow. ​@@anadennis2000

    • @joshuaguerrier7392
      @joshuaguerrier7392 10 місяців тому +13

      Difference between men and women

  • @StephanieFayth
    @StephanieFayth 6 місяців тому +758

    I love this show. As a single woman, every time I watch these I realize there are plenty of great men out there. They unfortunately have to sift through the immature, upset, superficial, and confused women before they can find a caring, peaceful, uplifting one.

  • @robynbarnes4621
    @robynbarnes4621 10 місяців тому +1076

    Wow no wonder these women are single. They can make petty comments about the men, but pop their balloons when the men make jokes that aren't insulting at all.

    • @stevelumumbashabazzz5087
      @stevelumumbashabazzz5087 10 місяців тому

      Imagine rejecting a man because his beard wasn’t properly lined up? This is ridiculous. That’s why I advice Blk men to date non Blk women

    • @jhopesoneandonly6191
      @jhopesoneandonly6191 10 місяців тому +19

      RIGHTTT LIKE HUHH

    • @grng
      @grng 10 місяців тому +44

      Black women are like that

    • @simonesherron7921
      @simonesherron7921 10 місяців тому +2

      They were water and earth signs if yall haven't recognized most of these signs tend to be on these dating shows

    • @MZHUEY100
      @MZHUEY100 10 місяців тому +17

      Beard not shaped up, colored shirt 😂😂😂😂😂 pissssed me off

  • @bobimaryah
    @bobimaryah 2 місяці тому +19

    “Well, the back of your head is ridiculous sir.”😭😭😭😭 I cried for literally 2 minutes

    • @foo_la_la
      @foo_la_la Місяць тому +1

      The comeback was swift. She was honest about herself and he just couldn't keep it simple. Smh😂

    • @ameeramedrano
      @ameeramedrano Місяць тому +2

      SAME ITS 2am AND I AM DYING

    • @leahbrown2029
      @leahbrown2029 9 днів тому

      I thought she said "flat" 😂😂

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight 6 днів тому

      58:16 😂😂

  • @jasminehawkins9029
    @jasminehawkins9029 5 місяців тому +474

    This is probably the most shallow group of woman I have witnessed yet . This panel actually had some really great
    men with very wise and respectful heads on their shoulders . Their loss !

    • @Oakland510
      @Oakland510 5 місяців тому +17

      I think as the episodes grow, these people just come on to get famous and exposure of their brand.

    • @pollytopps3540
      @pollytopps3540 5 місяців тому +3

      I AGREE!

    • @zizoegy8460
      @zizoegy8460 5 місяців тому +10

      Right. This is the first episode where I legit didn't like a single person on the balloon lineup. Trash lineup honestly.

    • @jeffclark2675
      @jeffclark2675 5 місяців тому +3

      well yall i just wanted to say goodbye....on my way to the monastery...dating is brrrrroken! lawyer dude was funny, chill, smart, interesting, had swag, and.....pop! so many pops when he first came out i thought this episode was being filmed in Compton....there should be a follow up to this showing who all these women are dating now....guarantee they ALL SCUBS that couldnt polish lawyer dude's shoes

    • @fortunatemangombe6388
      @fortunatemangombe6388 4 місяці тому +1

      The comment I was looking for

  • @SlaySavage21
    @SlaySavage21 7 місяців тому +1029

    Malcolm was dope. Let’s just be honest. Sense of humor, professional and polite.

    • @KhiaStRose-gh5zo
      @KhiaStRose-gh5zo 7 місяців тому +40

      You're right on that, that man was amazing

    • @MissRolle767
      @MissRolle767 7 місяців тому +4

      I know right

    • @LeighGee
      @LeighGee 7 місяців тому +19

      My God fearing brother, I appreciated him leading with that!

    • @ijeomaejimadu2539
      @ijeomaejimadu2539 7 місяців тому +13

      I LOVED Malcolm!!!!!!

    • @ieashhicks2691
      @ieashhicks2691 7 місяців тому +7

      He was awesome

  • @Sque3eze
    @Sque3eze 10 місяців тому +863

    First guy had me crying. He’s legitimately funny. He also handled each lady with care and as a man his communication was top tier. I can’t believe the last shorty let a simple misunderstanding be the reason she let that man go 🙄

    • @karen_lukongwa
      @karen_lukongwa 10 місяців тому

      Trying to be a girl’s girl 🚮

    • @oluchijane6308
      @oluchijane6308 9 місяців тому +9

      She bought someone else’s issh…. Cmon!😂

    • @anisaantoinette6381
      @anisaantoinette6381 9 місяців тому +46

      I think a lot of these women are playing follow the leader.. I feel like because she already didn’t want him that badly and then didn’t want to be the only woman left with a balloon she just popped it

    • @amandamorgan8047
      @amandamorgan8047 9 місяців тому +2

      @@anisaantoinette6381no she popped it bc like she said she didn’t like his misogynistic joke….

    • @datname1939
      @datname1939 9 місяців тому +22

      ​@@amandamorgan8047 what does misogynistic mean? He conpared hats you dope.

  • @Godslittlemunchkin
    @Godslittlemunchkin 3 місяці тому +29

    I love the lawyer guy he was sooo genuine and so respectful

  • @purekillah
    @purekillah 10 місяців тому +2860

    So let me get this straight. The lady in the brown dress rejected malcolm because of the ramen noodle joke he made on another girl than proceeds to tell a "taco meat" joke on the second guy...

    • @kashmoneyk7659
      @kashmoneyk7659 10 місяців тому +370

      Absolute buffoonery

    • @sleepyeyez01
      @sleepyeyez01 10 місяців тому +321

      I think she was clapping back because when she was on last time.. all the guys popped their balloon and gave the same response.. "auntie vibes" she looked very hurt that day

    • @DJJASONPRODUCER
      @DJJASONPRODUCER 10 місяців тому +55

      Thats a woman for you

    • @Topofthehill777
      @Topofthehill777 10 місяців тому +176

      You can tell shes deeply insecure and uses jokes and laughter as a buffer. Very sad

    • @izmane
      @izmane 10 місяців тому +146

      Their reasonings were off the wall. The man's skinny jeans, his beard is a little off. Things that they could work with. Just dumb

  • @erikas145
    @erikas145 6 місяців тому +559

    I loved the lawyer guy! You can tell his line of questioning came from his background and not because he was flirting. I feel like he’s spontaneous and secure about himself.

    • @cherie0882
      @cherie0882 6 місяців тому +48

      People like him reminds me of personal bankers. Gifted at connecting and seeming interested in whoever they are talking to. He comes off as sincere though.

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 5 місяців тому +18

      The law school guy is annoying asl. And he just said he graduated law school not that he was a lawyer

    • @eauxkei702
      @eauxkei702 5 місяців тому +21

      I didn't like him at all. The Beyonce/Nicki comment was asinine. He lacks maturity.

    • @rachelspence2339
      @rachelspence2339 5 місяців тому +12

      I honestly think Arlette finds the lowest of people in the Black community and brings them on to make a fool of themselves. It’s funny at the moment but it’s really damaging to how people are perceiving modern day dating because most single people at home do not make dating decisions they way these people do..

    • @alainarae5225
      @alainarae5225 5 місяців тому +1

      Yessss! I agree

  • @deandreg1323
    @deandreg1323 9 місяців тому +590

    Malcolm came off super respectful, complimented everyone in a genuine/not forced way, and displayed a sense of humor. Oh well.

    • @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty
      @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty 9 місяців тому +12

      The girl with the hat was a catch but she was too dark ….oh well

    • @bleh3039
      @bleh3039 9 місяців тому +53

      I feel like he was out of their league and they knew it which is why they made up dumb reasons to say no to him

    • @denisexx6337
      @denisexx6337 9 місяців тому +39

      Malcom is handsome and confident and they all took it for cocky arrogance. Being overly sensitive about a little fun shade. Smh

    • @Chiko-sf1gb
      @Chiko-sf1gb 9 місяців тому +17

      Maybe I've got bad humor but I thought he was funny

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 9 місяців тому +9

      He's handsome and witty I'm sure he'll be okay

  • @101KANDYCANE
    @101KANDYCANE Місяць тому +7

    The lawyer was so awesome!!! He did that and he knew they said the same answer love him

  • @Callmesuz
    @Callmesuz 10 місяців тому +852

    As a woman, I can see why they are single. Y’all too pressed on the smallest details, instead of trying to find a good man with a good head on his shoulders. SMH. Dating standards nowadays/ pickiness gonna keep y’all single…

    • @kelsimoore3524
      @kelsimoore3524 10 місяців тому +10

      I concur!

    • @doms5755
      @doms5755 10 місяців тому +25

      Black women for you. Leave them be

    • @kickinitwitnes8274
      @kickinitwitnes8274 10 місяців тому +6

      Agreed

    • @nathangeorge8187
      @nathangeorge8187 10 місяців тому +11

      I think it was some insecurities shining through. The two ladies who matched were open and knew what they wanted.

    • @tasha4400
      @tasha4400 10 місяців тому +13

      @@doms5755 you sound obsessed over a staged show 😂

  • @adesa1
    @adesa1 9 місяців тому +1269

    Watched this with my husband and we both agree there is solid reason why these ladies are single.

  • @katerricajackson5366
    @katerricajackson5366 10 місяців тому +831

    These are the only Pop The Balloon I’ll ever watch!!!!

    • @abigaillewis3887
      @abigaillewis3887 10 місяців тому +7

      Exactly.

    • @vanguard3269
      @vanguard3269 10 місяців тому +1

      Nah frfr dead ahh

    • @trutj22
      @trutj22 10 місяців тому +88

      Yupp.. the others are ratchet and childish.. This is the only one that is well produced and feels like an actual dating show on T.V

    • @Datpmf112
      @Datpmf112 10 місяців тому +28

      Facts the other ones are ignorant

    • @lemonrosa5931
      @lemonrosa5931 10 місяців тому +30

      Watch the Nigerian ones if you want a good laugh, it’s a battlefield 😭💀

  • @priscilaspocket
    @priscilaspocket 2 місяці тому +7

    love real girls gurls😭❤️☺️ but I love how he clarified he want trying to offend and apologized too 🖤 sweet guy

  • @kevinkiplagat1755
    @kevinkiplagat1755 9 місяців тому +824

    Some women will forever be single. What someone wears in a day doesn't mean he don't change.

    • @aking1196
      @aking1196 8 місяців тому +28

      Exactly. Not like they are all the fashion police.

    • @BuddyMac69
      @BuddyMac69 8 місяців тому

      They’re black bro. Highest rates of single motherhood. I’m not surprised by these dumbass answers at all, even all the fashion related ones lmaoooo

    • @H_TRIVIA
      @H_TRIVIA 8 місяців тому +1

      Kip si Umejam 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔

    • @kevinkiplagat1755
      @kevinkiplagat1755 8 місяців тому +1

      @@H_TRIVIA 😂😂 lakini surely, nguo enye mtu amevalia siku moja ndo mnatumia kujua if he's the right man for you?

    • @jontrellolando
      @jontrellolando 8 місяців тому +20

      @@aking1196 these woman prefer swag over education. Becky will scoop him up and they will complain

  • @yvonnemwendwa
    @yvonnemwendwa 4 місяці тому +344

    I love the lawyer guy...so intelligent and taking his time....he will indeed make a good lawyer...all this lady will remain single forever

    • @Rosettna
      @Rosettna 4 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @FaithfullyH1S
      @FaithfullyH1S 4 місяці тому +11

      Exactly, he kept my attention and I love his vibe too. I want to find his @. Those women are not healed and still mentally toxic. They were annoying

    • @OGFyah
      @OGFyah 3 місяці тому +5

      He is arguing his case down the line! And I'm loving it 😅

    • @bettyfalade8789
      @bettyfalade8789 3 місяці тому

      😅😅😅😅😅 you all hilarious

    • @aleksandrac9335
      @aleksandrac9335 3 місяці тому +2

      Single women live longer and are happier

  • @NewJackCity1988
    @NewJackCity1988 10 місяців тому +1200

    popping a balloon just because an a guy compliments another woman by saying she’s pretty or thick is exposing the insecurities with a lot of these women.

    • @viitheforeigner
      @viitheforeigner 10 місяців тому +30

      They dodged bullets like a mf

    • @christenamelea
      @christenamelea 10 місяців тому +42

      Popping your balloon after you see a guy go google eyes got your competition but being unaffected with you is Smart

    • @bomzylondon4966
      @bomzylondon4966 10 місяців тому

      ⁠@@christenameleastupid terrible advice. All men are googly eyed for beautiful women, with that mentality you’ll be single forever

    • @NewJackCity1988
      @NewJackCity1988 10 місяців тому +46

      @@christenamelea respectfully disagree, this is a dating show right? if the host is telling me to look at each girl and decide which balloon to pop or which girl i like them you shouldn't let your insecurity pop your balloon lol

    • @christenamelea
      @christenamelea 10 місяців тому +15

      @@NewJackCity1988 it’s called observation lol like obviously you want this girl, you put the Mac on her. lol
      What’s the point of her waiting for him to come back down the line just to say oh I think I have more chemistry with this girl than I have with you.

  • @dr.trevaalexander270
    @dr.trevaalexander270 29 днів тому +6

    I am so glad these women are popping their balloons on these men because all these men deserve better!

  • @nadsingh
    @nadsingh 10 місяців тому +680

    The first guy was very genuine and had serious relationship vibes. He’s humble and kind. I feel like he probably dodged a bullet here, I wish him all the best and hope he finds exactly what he’s looking for, and someone that will treat him the way that he deserves to be treated.

    • @GoddessAsGodIz
      @GoddessAsGodIz 10 місяців тому +17

      I wish his type was around so I can pick ..he is even funny

    • @myzabanks2180
      @myzabanks2180 10 місяців тому +28

      Right they done made me mad. They not even cute to be rejecting him.

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 10 місяців тому +28

      ​@@myzabanks2180 comments like this is why they rejected him. They feel insecure based on his looks, they felt they weren't his type. They rejected him out of fear he'd embarrass/reject them first.

    • @Indestructiblevibranium
      @Indestructiblevibranium 10 місяців тому +15

      most of the woman's reasoning for popping their balloon made no sense but like you said he probably did Dodge a bullet

    • @myzabanks2180
      @myzabanks2180 10 місяців тому +9

      @@brishaberries0101 it’s not fair cause guys usually are the ones getting rejected. Some women should learn that’s okay to be rejected too…

  • @defAngel
    @defAngel 7 місяців тому +655

    Sis went from Cam Newton to Willy Wonka… i doubt she’ll ever wear that hat again. 😂

  • @annsanders143
    @annsanders143 10 місяців тому +1356

    She gone throw that hat away when she get home 😂😂😂

  • @MakeupByTenz
    @MakeupByTenz Місяць тому +5

    I'm hollering at this episode !!! "I'm Willy wonka" almost took me outttt 😂😂😂😂

  • @eriolaakingboye4576
    @eriolaakingboye4576 7 місяців тому +858

    Popping your balloon because "you wish his beard was lil more lined up" lmaoooo

    • @sunkissedbae
      @sunkissedbae 6 місяців тому +61

      And her hairline looking messed up 😂 and she has the audacity to say that

    • @bildad3
      @bildad3 6 місяців тому +39

      Pettiest reason I've ever heard

    • @thelovely961
      @thelovely961 6 місяців тому +23

      Like bruh 😅, he looked so neat as well. He defo do care about presentation. They did him wrong.

    • @yourriderdie8472
      @yourriderdie8472 6 місяців тому +3

      Right that things you can fix

    • @showizzle33
      @showizzle33 6 місяців тому +14

      Her edges is crazy

  • @3OONZlE
    @3OONZlE 10 місяців тому +1577

    lawyer took 20 mins 💀 no wonder this ep mad long but he definitely made the whole ep better with his vibe

    • @brisumoonah
      @brisumoonah 10 місяців тому +158

      Right? The answers were so rich. We need more of people who are gonna take it deep

    • @sunnyrobinson2128
      @sunnyrobinson2128 10 місяців тому +8

      Agreed 👍🏿

    • @hearditfirst8010
      @hearditfirst8010 10 місяців тому +32

      That was a quick 20 mins

    • @HasekiDymond
      @HasekiDymond 10 місяців тому +151

      He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

    • @HasekiDymond
      @HasekiDymond 10 місяців тому +26

      He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

  • @MikaelaSpeight
    @MikaelaSpeight 9 місяців тому +580

    I love the guy who just graduated Law School! He’s so chill and sweet! I think it’s well that he made them think about their ways of dating

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain 9 місяців тому +58

      Yes his maturity was impressive. I get why they didn’t like the fit but his unfazed demeanour after getting rejected was endearing. Good communicator and you can tell that he’s taking all their criticism and will improve. He came to have fun, learn and chill. Didn’t take it to heart

    • @ohreally404
      @ohreally404 9 місяців тому +28

      He was the opposite of chill, just as the 1st lady said, he likes to constantly debate. He would be draining to a chill person with the all the going back and forth. And as the 5th lady said, why is he giving full interview to women who already popped their balloon, he should be saving those questions for the women who didn't

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 9 місяців тому +46

      @@ohreally404 For starters, every lady popped their balloon before he said a word. The women who got another balloon got the balloon off of how he “communicated” to her, so clearly every girl is getting a conversation and Arlette enforces it too. If he has to get to know someone to like them then that’s more commendable than calling someone a debater or flirt because you got called out for being superficial or wrong.

    • @VitodrinsSaintfleur-is8xl
      @VitodrinsSaintfleur-is8xl 9 місяців тому +7

      He should of keep it nice & sweet definitely was doing to much for some females that pop they balloon

    • @kingsleyevbuomwan3985
      @kingsleyevbuomwan3985 9 місяців тому

      He was a complete gentleman. The ladies are a bandwagon type that are probably single because of their single friends who talk down on their potential partners.

  • @yamiles
    @yamiles Місяць тому

    1:11:11 … 😭😂😂😂 HOW DID THE REST OF THE GIRLS NOT BURST OUT LAUGHING??? i replayed it at least 4X & can’t stop cracking up!!😭😂 loving her humour & how she’s bringing light to what she’s been told 🤣💕

  • @M.H.S.W.818
    @M.H.S.W.818 10 місяців тому +1244

    someone popped their balloon after he said he was looking for someone "with accountability, someone genuinely kind"🤣☠️

    • @brookebellamy9864
      @brookebellamy9864 10 місяців тому +56

      that's what I said 🤣🤣

    • @jaDOREbella23
      @jaDOREbella23 10 місяців тому

      lmao good let the trash take itself out 🤣

    • @ikennaordu5588
      @ikennaordu5588 10 місяців тому +106

      Atleast she was honest , because it’s something she doesn’t have ….lol😂

    • @Indestructiblevibranium
      @Indestructiblevibranium 10 місяців тому +14

      😂 I cried

    • @laudedlonnie3278
      @laudedlonnie3278 10 місяців тому +21

      Yooo that shit had me weak lmao

  • @God_Of_Style
    @God_Of_Style 10 місяців тому +404

    That Willie Wonka joke took the wind out that bihh.. She's never wearing that hat again..😂😂😂

    • @danniellemichelle91
      @danniellemichelle91 10 місяців тому +43

      Roasted her off that hat!😂😂😂

    • @johnson48931
      @johnson48931 10 місяців тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tbams58
      @tbams58 10 місяців тому +15

      That whole part has me on the floor 😂😂😂

    • @earthgoddess1677
      @earthgoddess1677 10 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jaylaedwards3618
      @jaylaedwards3618 10 місяців тому +4

      I was dead fr😂😂😂

  • @kodajiro8885
    @kodajiro8885 10 місяців тому +841

    Based off the first guy…majority of these women seem GOOFY 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ I hope they reading the comments too

    • @LuvvM4tt
      @LuvvM4tt 10 місяців тому +1

      goofy in what sense?

    • @adrianamaldonado5518
      @adrianamaldonado5518 10 місяців тому +56

      Super goofy !

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 10 місяців тому +129

      @@LuvvM4tt Like… saying you don’t like men in skinny jeans then leaving with a man in skinny jeans… or rejecting a guy for a ramen noodle joke but making a taco meat joke lol

    • @Kandace_Shinn
      @Kandace_Shinn 10 місяців тому +1

      Me too

    • @grimworldgaming928
      @grimworldgaming928 10 місяців тому

      @@LuvvM4tt”I am the table” then proceeding to literally say nothing worth while bitches on here just saying any and everything 😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @d.a.t8582
    @d.a.t8582 3 місяці тому +3

    58:09 That “Willy Wonka thing” joke had me on the floor for like 5 mins 🤣

  • @iesharenee9899
    @iesharenee9899 6 місяців тому +476

    they all deserve to be single 😭, their reasonings were so irrelevant. i think majority of them feared rejection, wanted an upper hand.

  • @KeziahMuthoni
    @KeziahMuthoni 5 місяців тому +256

    Wow, the lawyer!! Extremely intelligent, eloquent and polite. I loved his line of questioning and the way he concentrated on every lady. He wasn't arrogant he was self aware and knows his worth. Send him my way please, these women don't know what they want. Smh 😒

    • @quel3966
      @quel3966 5 місяців тому +9

      He is so cuteeeeeee 🥰🥰
      Those ladies have to stop being superficial

    • @AlexFranck-ul8vh
      @AlexFranck-ul8vh 4 місяці тому +7

      they want followers on social media.

  • @SM-tw1qv
    @SM-tw1qv 6 місяців тому +513

    These ladies keeping each other single😂

    • @KMariReed4066
      @KMariReed4066 5 місяців тому +10

      Fur hat is not giving

    • @Divagirl444
      @Divagirl444 5 місяців тому +9

      Perfect comment

    • @guccindken
      @guccindken 5 місяців тому +2

      @@KMariReed4066at all 😭

    • @arsena1816
      @arsena1816 5 місяців тому +3

      Facts.

    • @grega1972
      @grega1972 5 місяців тому +6

      These women stay losing

  • @rebeccalovell5072
    @rebeccalovell5072 2 місяці тому +11

    First guy was fine AF and funny, them girls are crazy 🙄

  • @aliciawilson6878
    @aliciawilson6878 6 місяців тому +310

    Do these woman realize they aren’t getting married today, it’s just for a date to get to know someone . I love this show, hate who they bring on

    • @zizoegy8460
      @zizoegy8460 5 місяців тому +6

      I said the same thing. Everyone is so critical. They just met for like 50 seconds and they're already making judgememts. And it's worse when the judgements are based on astrology.

    • @TishikaMiller
      @TishikaMiller 4 місяці тому +4

      Yep cuz in about 3-5yrs they’re going to be PISSED they didn’t give one of these brothers a chance !!! 💯

  • @abbeyisaacs8688
    @abbeyisaacs8688 10 місяців тому +306

    These girls are funny, the first guy was super dope 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @jay80
      @jay80 10 місяців тому +2

      Fr

    • @lalalandisfun-cc9ig
      @lalalandisfun-cc9ig 10 місяців тому +20

      ik, he knows how to compliment, he apologises when needed, he goofy, he’s successful, idk what else these girls want.

    • @stephthecreative6312
      @stephthecreative6312 10 місяців тому +8

      This height thing is so silly to me.

    • @belladamma2345
      @belladamma2345 10 місяців тому +2

      Did he say he was 5’10?

    • @NakiYah7
      @NakiYah7 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@belladamma2345yes he did

  • @dammyayorinde
    @dammyayorinde 10 місяців тому +608

    The first guy got done so wrong, he just made a harmless joke loool

    • @natureboyshorts3390
      @natureboyshorts3390 10 місяців тому +54

      Cam newton thing wasn't even a joke .. the man is known for wearing those hats. The other girl calling cam messy smh

    • @CW-rh4jz
      @CW-rh4jz 10 місяців тому +80

      These girls like to throw shade but can’t take it 😂

    • @GloriaSol
      @GloriaSol 10 місяців тому +14

      @@CW-rh4jzhit the nail right on the head 🤣

    • @ilovejenara
      @ilovejenara 10 місяців тому

      @@natureboyshorts3390Exactly!!! He’s a man so obviously a man comes to mind 🙄 they’re trippin

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 10 місяців тому +3

      Right!

  • @dr.trevaalexander270
    @dr.trevaalexander270 29 днів тому +5

    The attorney was the best guy ever! I have watched every episode and I love how he asked each woman questions of clarity; AMAZING!

  • @martian14671
    @martian14671 10 місяців тому +583

    How jessica come back upgraded and someone still says she look like they aunt😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tabootabletalkpodcast
      @tabootabletalkpodcast 10 місяців тому +1

      she's overweight

    • @Jess456life
      @Jess456life 10 місяців тому +33

      He wasn’t referring to my looks though 😂😂🤷🏽‍♀️ he was referring to my personality but you got it 😉

    • @faithtvonline
      @faithtvonline 10 місяців тому +110

      He was clearly referring to your looks.

    • @Jess456life
      @Jess456life 10 місяців тому +13

      @@faithtvonline I’m sorry I didn’t know you were on set? You were on pop the balloon too? I’m sorry I didn’t know you were standing there when we had a conversation about it off camera? 🤔 what you have on I don’t remember seeing you……ohh okay. And no where on camera did he say my looks reminded him of his aunt 🥱

    • @artofmajic
      @artofmajic 10 місяців тому +75

      @@Jess456lifeI guess regardless of looks and personality u always gonna be aunty then. Lmaooo I’m sorry but u still fine it’s just them calling u auntie still after the first vid 😭🤣🤣

  • @saurayabienaime6446
    @saurayabienaime6446 9 місяців тому +320

    The first guy is too pure for them !!!!!!! The way he handle the responses were amazing!!!

    • @jhariz7387
      @jhariz7387 9 місяців тому +7

      This is why most of the good guys are single…

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 9 місяців тому +7

      He was very respectful and seemed genuine. These women were ridiculous 🙄🙄🙄

    • @doriemanuel
      @doriemanuel 9 місяців тому +2

      Agreed. I'm confused at some of their responses. Some of the women just seemed petty. He seemed like a great guy.

    • @KnwName
      @KnwName 9 місяців тому +8

      Yes he was too confident and authentic. Which most of those women were not very confident and very much followers. They got trust issues and really feel like because he is attractive, charming, confident and got businesses he is not being honest.

    • @Ariel_lionof_God
      @Ariel_lionof_God 9 місяців тому

      Exactly

  • @FilldaAgony
    @FilldaAgony 10 місяців тому +490

    I think alot of these women pop their balloons for fear of rejection. They look at the guys and say to themselves he probably wont be into me so let me just pop his balloons to save myself from being embarrassed. One lady popped her balloon because one guy said he likes thick women, and she was petite. The woman with the hat popped her balloon for the basketball player because she felt basketball players have a type and she didn't fit that description.

    • @frankmatthew8585
      @frankmatthew8585 10 місяців тому +12

      accurate

    • @CW-rh4jz
      @CW-rh4jz 10 місяців тому +39

      Yeah, one of them held on to the balloon, waited for the guy to talk to a few of the females and then popped the balloon claiming she don’t like his pants, Bih you should have popped it from the jump.

    • @rose92ful
      @rose92ful 10 місяців тому +12

      Yeah they’re insecure

    • @orlandoskeete3280
      @orlandoskeete3280 10 місяців тому +3

      You're right 💯

    • @nanalu16
      @nanalu16 10 місяців тому

      As a petite women if i was in the show i would pop it too. Why the heck would anyone want to date someone whose heart is elsewhere. If he likes thick he should go for thick. There are the ones who prefer petite women, we belong to those. This way everyone is happy and satisfied. Imagin sitting in a room with a guy who is craving meat and all i have is bones. Its like punishing him honestly, he should go get himself a thick girl

  • @sjtv1000
    @sjtv1000 2 місяці тому +5

    How is nobody talking about nucci saying that man’s hair looks like goku 😂😂😂😂

  • @bossibunz8143
    @bossibunz8143 6 місяців тому +511

    Jessica acting like she couldn’t shake that man’s hand was so uncalled for. Ok, auntie at 31. 🤣🤣

    • @amosbat8011
      @amosbat8011 6 місяців тому +64

      her eyebraws are so high too lol

    • @rachelb.4399
      @rachelb.4399 6 місяців тому +57

      Shes like a worker at the dmv or something

    • @Its_Roee
      @Its_Roee 6 місяців тому +47

      She was on another ep with an auntie wig on n all them said she looks like “a cousin”🙃and pop there balloon. She even said she was gone change wigs to not look like the auntie.

    • @Its_Roee
      @Its_Roee 6 місяців тому +47

      Them men humbled Jessica bc she changed up her whole appearance after they said she look like “a cousin”/ basically an auntie.

    • @bossibunz8143
      @bossibunz8143 6 місяців тому +17

      @@Its_Roee yes I saw it lol. She literally gives auntie she might as well own it. Somebody will love her, she not ugly. She just look like an auntie. All my aunties are beautiful 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤣

  • @Preppy_Lexi11
    @Preppy_Lexi11 6 місяців тому +289

    Lawyer guy had them questioning themselves afterwards 😭🤣

  • @Big_Juice
    @Big_Juice 10 місяців тому +607

    Everyone saying "the hat is throwing me off" is hilarious. She really took that Willy Wonka comment to heart

    • @ceelettice
      @ceelettice 10 місяців тому +125

      😂it’s cause she wants to be compared to Erykah Badu and not Willy Wonka or Cam Newton😂

    • @Big_Juice
      @Big_Juice 10 місяців тому +56

      @@ceelettice lol more like India Arie

    • @ceelettice
      @ceelettice 10 місяців тому +10

      @@Big_Juice yeah yeah that’s the one lol

    • @GavinDavisMusic
      @GavinDavisMusic 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

    • @slimgrimonthegrind5831
      @slimgrimonthegrind5831 10 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @YasheeLee.
    @YasheeLee. 2 місяці тому +7

    57:29 she flipped the script "Im a lady" but was just saying the other dude from Cleveland like a homeboy

    • @JulieCee97
      @JulieCee97 2 місяці тому

      She shook the guy that went right before hand 😂 I was like dannng bitchy

  • @simplyaria
    @simplyaria 10 місяців тому +370

    Idk it’s lowkey giving follow the leader 😂. one pop, they all start to pop .

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 10 місяців тому +49

      Follow the leader and be single too 😅

    • @MrBjt51290
      @MrBjt51290 10 місяців тому +6

      Right

    • @kingtchala6832
      @kingtchala6832 10 місяців тому +26

      Herd mentality. Single women keep women single.

    • @bruceigbo8127
      @bruceigbo8127 10 місяців тому +3

      Thats the way how women act??

    • @Ang_Nicole
      @Ang_Nicole 10 місяців тому +9

      Yeah I noticed the same thing with the men too in other videos. It’s weird 🥴

  • @Asiamairee22
    @Asiamairee22 10 місяців тому +591

    That lady popped her balloon on the first guy because “he needed his beard lined up”!!? I can not

    • @kafayatyusuf640
      @kafayatyusuf640 10 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @kumgetusome6198
      @kumgetusome6198 10 місяців тому +3

      😅😅😂

    • @auntie_1
      @auntie_1 9 місяців тому +74

      Now if he had told her to trim those lashes she'd been pressed. 😅

    • @fumisoko7303
      @fumisoko7303 9 місяців тому +8

      Imagine? How petty!!!

  • @cedricbyas8728
    @cedricbyas8728 10 місяців тому +742

    Buddy with the spiked shoes COOKED all they goofy sounding tales he pulled out who they really are deep down inside by challenging their REASONS with a smile. Good job KING

    • @rav3n.lum0
      @rav3n.lum0 9 місяців тому +23

      Well he had some issues himself so

    • @aiesha726
      @aiesha726 9 місяців тому +15

      Yea he dive deep I like that but it definitely was a little cringy to watch lol

    • @SoloDeus_Rey
      @SoloDeus_Rey 9 місяців тому +37

      @@rav3n.lum0 more vague reasoning, coming from someone who’s been hurt from her bad choices😂😂😂

    • @ZaNz-le5ey
      @ZaNz-le5ey 9 місяців тому

      That’s TrueCam on youtube

    • @HiddenTreasuresEnt
      @HiddenTreasuresEnt 9 місяців тому +24

      Exactly he want debating he's just young and understands that he had more wisdom than them. He uses his questioning to try to let them see the your in their ways.

  • @lovesasori21
    @lovesasori21 Місяць тому +1

    "I'm Willy Wonka, and I'm 28" 😂😂😂
    Love the sense of humor!!