Nta, they abandoned op, they weren't babies when your mom was struggling raising them and yourself, they are selfish for not caring about your feelings as their main care taker
Just inviting a stranger to your house with no notice is incredibly rude. Inviting someone you justifiably hate is beyond the pale. If the want to associate with an abusive deadbeat they can do it on their own time. Go low contact until they apologize.
Oh hell no. If they want to meet him- fine. They want to spend Christmas with him? Sure. But they DO NOT get to invite this man into your home without warning or without a discussion. And for them to say he is coming whether you like it or not??? Absolutely not. This is YOUR home. YOU get to decide who is there. Not them.
Why do people think they know better? OP was victimized by this guy, and so were his siblings - they were just too young to remember what he did to their mother. They can decide for themselves to let him back into THEIR live, but they can't decide for OP. And they darn sure have no right to invite him into OP's home. For their sake, I hope he has changed.
I would personally stick around to point out all daddy's faults. Sue daddy for back child support. In many places as op took them in while they were still minors she is owed child support she can also sue for the child support he did not pay for her. Instead of siblings names she should now to there face call them dead beat dad supporter and abusive spouse excuser. While they are adults they are still young and op still loves them and what they did is terrible but not yet unforgivable. Better to be harsh and point out the reality of what is going on and have them either accept that and walk away from dad or completly nuke the relationship so they can never come crawling back to OP.
No op needs a father like that, and having siblings enabling him will cause friction and more later on. Seems op might have lost even more unless he can prove he's father is that bad.
Father of the year didn't have the balls to collect & care for his children when their mother died. I believe that's more than enough proof that his nothing but a glorified sperm donor. I feel bad for OP, having such idiotic siblings must be a nightmare.
Yea opnis the ah the younger siblings don't really remember their dad just what u have said let them have a chance with him an invite him over for christmas
They’re welcome to get to know him on their own damn time. The fact that they invited him into your safe space is concerning. NTA
Yeah I think their father is manipulating his siblings to make things right and want something on op or want some support in his life
NTA, they disrespected your boundaries.
Nta, they abandoned op, they weren't babies when your mom was struggling raising them and yourself, they are selfish for not caring about your feelings as their main care taker
So, they invited a person who hurt OP to OP's house without his permission? Wtf is wrong with them?
They played stupid games, they got a huge stupid prize.
You don't invite someone into someone else's home without permission. 😊
Sounds like ungrateful brats
Just inviting a stranger to your house with no notice is incredibly rude. Inviting someone you justifiably hate is beyond the pale. If the want to associate with an abusive deadbeat they can do it on their own time. Go low contact until they apologize.
NTA. They don't get to dictate who is welcomed in YOUR house. They have a right to get to know their father, and the OP has the right not to.
Oh hell no. If they want to meet him- fine. They want to spend Christmas with him? Sure. But they DO NOT get to invite this man into your home without warning or without a discussion.
And for them to say he is coming whether you like it or not??? Absolutely not. This is YOUR home. YOU get to decide who is there. Not them.
Why do people think they know better? OP was victimized by this guy, and so were his siblings - they were just too young to remember what he did to their mother. They can decide for themselves to let him back into THEIR live, but they can't decide for OP. And they darn sure have no right to invite him into OP's home. For their sake, I hope he has changed.
Nope, daddy can figure out all their life problems and do everything. I’d go completely no contact with them for that.
I would personally stick around to point out all daddy's faults. Sue daddy for back child support. In many places as op took them in while they were still minors she is owed child support she can also sue for the child support he did not pay for her. Instead of siblings names she should now to there face call them dead beat dad supporter and abusive spouse excuser.
While they are adults they are still young and op still loves them and what they did is terrible but not yet unforgivable. Better to be harsh and point out the reality of what is going on and have them either accept that and walk away from dad or completly nuke the relationship so they can never come crawling back to OP.
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They secretly contacted him without your knowledge for a reason. They knew your reaction so tried to spring it on you last minute
No op needs a father like that, and having siblings enabling him will cause friction and more later on.
Seems op might have lost even more unless he can prove he's father is that bad.
What are you talking about his sperm giver abandoning them is proof enough that he’s a bad father
Father of the year didn't have the balls to collect & care for his children when their mother died. I believe that's more than enough proof that his nothing but a glorified sperm donor.
I feel bad for OP, having such idiotic siblings must be a nightmare.
You didn’t go too far.
Yea opnis the ah the younger siblings don't really remember their dad just what u have said let them have a chance with him an invite him over for christmas
Invite the abuser who abandoned his pregnant wife and 3 children into his home? Wtf are you on
@@Terreriarules it's just ragebait
Go troll the family that doesn't love you
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they are on the legal mary jane ( gonja).😂
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