Does age affect love: Discussing peer dating, manipulation in retionshiops and age differences

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  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 12 днів тому +55

    “Maturity comes with a certain level of experience” 💯

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM93 12 днів тому +55

    Firstly, I would like to say congrats on 200k. This podcast is amazing.
    Secondly, as a 31 year old, I would like you guys to chill. Putting timelines on momentus life events is detrimental sometimes. Sometimes things don't work according to our timelines. We're not our parents and neither are we living in the times they did. It will happen when it happens, and if it doesn't that's still okay. Many people who have started young have changed marriages and careers multiple times in one lifetime. So please take it easy, no pressure. It's still nice to aspire and work towards what you want.

  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 12 днів тому +26

    @24:14 “It’s not about age it’s about the portfolio of the person you’ve chosen”… What truly matters in a relationship is who the person is, and how they align with your character, beliefs, values and aspirations, and vice versa, rather than how old they are.
    With all that being said, these things really do not have a proven winning formula, hey. To each their own. The success of a relationship depends on the individuals involved.
    While societal norms may influence perceptions, as well as other external factors, the most important thing is that the relationship is built on mutual respect, love, and understanding. Foundational values such as honesty, trust, communication, etc, are essential.

  • @YeniKanime
    @YeniKanime 11 днів тому +20

    I would listen to Lebo all day

  • @ruthkarabo1024
    @ruthkarabo1024 12 днів тому +30

    First time of me meeting Thato back in 2022 nd I was pregnant by that time 😊so very concerned about greeting him but once I did so.....mahn he was so friendly 😅even gave me a hug with that big belly nd I can testify for him, he's an gentleman ❤❤

  • @diamondmokoteli1951
    @diamondmokoteli1951 12 днів тому +35

    Lebo"that just broke my heart a little bit cause I basically just asked him where do you see me mentally and he said 21"🤣😂😂😂

  • @genuinejay7696
    @genuinejay7696 12 днів тому +72

    Lebo is intelligent 😊

    • @motlatsi219
      @motlatsi219 12 днів тому +1

      We work for women that’s facts.

    • @musa.mgwenya_
      @musa.mgwenya_ 12 днів тому +2

      Proves it every episode ❤

    • @bevly2090
      @bevly2090 12 днів тому

      i know right

    • @kgomie._
      @kgomie._ 10 днів тому +3

      Lebo is intelligent...Thato is smart
      Very BEST COMBO 👌

  • @SiphesihleAnderson
    @SiphesihleAnderson 12 днів тому +74

    Yeyy finally we are on 200k subscribers🔥♥️🎉. Congratulations fam!!!♥️

  • @ntsikakhumsa6426
    @ntsikakhumsa6426 2 дні тому +1

    Lebo is so wel-spoken, I could literally listen to him speak all day❤️🙏🏿

  • @Trav.Sim20
    @Trav.Sim20 12 днів тому +19

    I missed the bros. Lebo keep ya head up ,it's only just the beginning💯💯

  • @tsana__m
    @tsana__m 11 днів тому +10

    Lebo please consider psychology 😭you too good

  • @denzelraedani
    @denzelraedani 12 днів тому +5

    It is always a fruitful episode hearing from your maturity (both of you mark to 100% tops),
    and thanks for carrying me throughout the year mentally, indeed you guys are such good young influentials.
    Congrats to 200k subs 🎉🔥🔥

  • @hopesibede694
    @hopesibede694 12 днів тому +8

    Be well in the name of the lord
    I think it comes with age. I’m 25 too and it’s tough . Wanna settle, wanna be financially stable kuri I wanna be relaxed

  • @PotsisoMudzusii
    @PotsisoMudzusii 12 днів тому +12

    I thought you’ll upload in January 😂
    Thank you❤️❤️

  • @leratothulo6546
    @leratothulo6546 12 днів тому +21

    Shooting my shot 🙈
    Hey, Thato😊.
    Really having hard conversations that get us thinking. After all, God did say “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a helper...for me this goes for both genders. That's why we yearn for companionship.
    Lebo has valid points on having kids young but in the same breath. We need to enjoy the marriage for 2 years nyana because once we bring a human on earth there's no going back.
    But on that note, nice one guys 💃🏾

  • @bevly2090
    @bevly2090 12 днів тому +2

    You guys are so knowledgeable, it helps that you are so open minded.

  • @keogh_xo
    @keogh_xo 9 днів тому +17

    Thato has been realising this entire episode😂

  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 12 днів тому +6

    @41:39 ba re “He doesn’t even know how to groom”😂😭

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 7 днів тому

    Now guys u were starting to be in Ur bag at 47:00 minutes of the show. Love this....by the way um not waiting for the podcast to end....um engaging as I listen

  • @pinkhappynesslady5331
    @pinkhappynesslady5331 12 днів тому +4

    Congratulations on 200k subscribers Thato ❤❤
    We so proud of you

  • @Crush_Yesizwe
    @Crush_Yesizwe 12 днів тому +6

    I really enjoy watching your podcast man, you're so matured and funny at the same time😊❤. "200k" subscribers😮🎉🎉.....

  • @Puuuurr
    @Puuuurr 12 днів тому +6

    That lays ad was funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mphorakodi7347
    @mphorakodi7347 12 днів тому +3

    I absolutely enjoyed this episode. 😭😂Please y'all are too funny. Lebo is so wise!

  • @Simthandile-cb6bb
    @Simthandile-cb6bb 10 днів тому +6

    Lebo😭❤️ I think he is the one I was crying for in hospital the day I was born 🫦❤️

  • @ayanda_magele
    @ayanda_magele 11 днів тому +3

    I missed Seated so much, I really enjoyed the podcast❤

  • @lethokuhlethwala3565
    @lethokuhlethwala3565 12 днів тому +3

    I was hoping to see y’all ❤

  • @Nhlonipho_presh
    @Nhlonipho_presh 9 днів тому

    Absolutely loved this conversation, it's so necessary

  • @nelisaashtonmagenu293
    @nelisaashtonmagenu293 8 днів тому +1

    Lebo was spitting okay!! ❤💯🔥

  • @tshepisomokoka7532
    @tshepisomokoka7532 12 днів тому +1

    Wonderful podcast, top 2 in my year🎉

  • @bunnyyakhe3560
    @bunnyyakhe3560 12 днів тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉200k finally ❤congratulations

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 7 днів тому

    Guys 😂. .. this is niiice....as much as I can see or feel it's a lil above u guys....I love this.

  • @boitumelomogashoa7543
    @boitumelomogashoa7543 12 днів тому +9

    200k subscribers!!🎉 Congratulations 🥳🥂

  • @t.p6837
    @t.p6837 12 днів тому +7

    more depth needed for this episode, the tangent after "how are you" was good although the main conversation was lost.
    quality episode nonetheless.🥤

    • @monicamei_
      @monicamei_ 10 днів тому +1

      My thoughts exactly.
      They were missing depth in the first part because they were tiptoeing around the topic, which is understandable because it’s a very delicate conversation. They definitely made up for that in the second half though, thoroughly enjoyed the rest of the episode.

  • @zainRaphael
    @zainRaphael 12 днів тому +9

    where’s the how are you??😭

  • @theendlovusisters
    @theendlovusisters 12 днів тому +3

    Just what I needed

  • @JuanSibiya
    @JuanSibiya 8 днів тому

    S/O for another great episode majitas❤

  • @lucricia_mokgolo
    @lucricia_mokgolo 12 днів тому +3

    Interesting topic.

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 7 днів тому

    Guys. When u meet the one....No1 will tell you. U will know....might be after a year after this Podcast or a month....Buh u will know. I enjoyed guys thank You....just dt it was funny to re live my life again around the same age as u guys are....aaargh man was nice

  • @andysinthu5672
    @andysinthu5672 День тому

    Thato, Have you tried investing in understanding relationships and marriage through talking to family counsellors and reading books?

  • @zandicarter5113
    @zandicarter5113 12 днів тому +3

    7:50 i hear Lebo's chat. I hear my 30+ year old friends hating on 20 y/o girls.. truth is they were also young and acted the same 😂

  • @snenhlanhlamashile6398
    @snenhlanhlamashile6398 10 днів тому +1

    Love the lays ad😂❤

  • @KamoEverythingSA
    @KamoEverythingSA 12 днів тому

    5:23… so according to my hangover memory, I think the good age to marry is when you start dating them. And what I mean is that…, whenever you set a certain age you’d want to marry someone, let it be someone you haven’t dated. It saves a lot of headaches 😅!
    My sober mind is thinking 28 for gents and 25 for ladies.

  • @katlehomathe937
    @katlehomathe937 11 днів тому +2

    “ we are not our age, we are our energy “ You can find a young man who is in his masculine energy and is a leader and protector. But we draw the line at minors, that’s statutory grape.

  • @zethumasuku
    @zethumasuku 9 днів тому

    Wat a great topic ❤

  • @mokobakiwendy9706
    @mokobakiwendy9706 11 днів тому +2

    Lebo is so funny😂😂😂❤

  • @solongsummer
    @solongsummer 9 днів тому +2

    The chat about having children is terrifying. I would love to get married but kids??!
    That's a different story. Children are too permanent for my liking. Especially as a woman? Motherhood seems so difficult.

    • @amandamasanabo8415
      @amandamasanabo8415 8 днів тому

      The permanency part neh! The most frightening part of them all 😢

    • @solongsummer
      @solongsummer 7 днів тому +1

      @amandamasanabo8415 Terrifying!! 😭

  • @itskay6328
    @itskay6328 10 днів тому +1

    Nice one guys😍
    As we wait for 14 December 2025❤😅

  • @lithaloyiso1689
    @lithaloyiso1689 10 днів тому

    34:58 the Air BnB is giving Diddy party 🎉😂😂

  • @AlbertinaTuhafeni
    @AlbertinaTuhafeni 16 годин тому

    Wena Lebo🙄😫❤️❤️❤️

  • @The_Third_Place
    @The_Third_Place 12 днів тому +2

    these boys are so sass sometmes, but i like it😂

  • @JuanSibiya
    @JuanSibiya 8 днів тому +1

    Lebo lowkey zesty 😭

  • @SansonMargaret
    @SansonMargaret 12 днів тому

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  • @redusttherealistofficial_23
    @redusttherealistofficial_23 2 дні тому

    W episode

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 12 днів тому +1

    Is there a voice note option?😅😂
    This topic requires verbal communication.

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 7 днів тому

    Guys I Looove the Attempt.... honestly....Buh this conversation was/ is above you...OR I think U went on it with just one direction....BUT I Looove the Attempt. This is nooot to take a knock.. Buh to keep it real ...I think it was not done justice interns of perspective

  • @agnesaggy1571
    @agnesaggy1571 6 днів тому

    Yes Lebo, everyone else is going through something, even the bible actually talks about that in 1 Peter 5:9, but God is faithful.
    Wishing you both a blessed New Year!🎉

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm День тому

    I’m Kenyan and wuu …. I see the name spelled Thato … but I hear a different pronunciation…. Guys explain

  • @Nhlonipho_presh
    @Nhlonipho_presh 9 днів тому +1

    42:26😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Jabril_Jr
    @Jabril_Jr 12 днів тому

    Can you guys drop on as majita as well 😅

  • @Khanzzzzz
    @Khanzzzzz 12 днів тому +6

    That age gap math between Thato and his ex? Aowa👀

    • @lethabos1
      @lethabos1 10 днів тому +2

      There’s nothing wrong with it.

  • @KatekaneShilenge-n7q
    @KatekaneShilenge-n7q 12 днів тому

  • @bayabongantombela1168
    @bayabongantombela1168 12 днів тому +1

    First comment

  • @nompumelelonxumalo4348
    @nompumelelonxumalo4348 12 днів тому +1

    200K subbies well doneee🥹❤️🥰💯😍🔥!

  • @faithfulcooks2965
    @faithfulcooks2965 11 днів тому