Pour Minds Episode 202 - Too Much Pressure ft. Dess Dior

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 219

  • @GlamorousKiema.
    @GlamorousKiema. Рік тому +76

    I’m so happy for Dess!! Me and her did a fashion show together when she was just 16 or 17. I’m sooooooo proud of her. Y’all don’t understand 🎉

  • @amberbug90
    @amberbug90 Рік тому +13

    I like when Lex calls Drea, "Lil' Drea" 😂

  • @Primadonna52
    @Primadonna52 Рік тому +63

    Lol Dess was stiff when Lex gave her that nudge with that "older man" reference 😂

  • @shadthagod8033
    @shadthagod8033 Рік тому +91

    Lex & Drea 2 of the funniest women alive love ya

  • @tylerwhitaker2270
    @tylerwhitaker2270 Рік тому +31

    This is the cutest episode idk there’s a very calm energy throughout its entirety. Also these girls are really funny as well as genuine. They’re super fire !

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney8048 Рік тому +18

    I love how supportive drea is you can tell she’s really a genuine friend 🧡

  • @ul8ra
    @ul8ra Рік тому +2

    idk how I’m just now seeing this episode, but I love how y’all always have y’all’s finger on the pulse of the culture. the fact that y’all were likely among the first to know about Stone Cold before it blew up is fye ❤️‍🔥

  • @Msbabbby
    @Msbabbby Рік тому +104

    Next is Ari … I can definitely see her on the show ! I’m so proud of y’all ladies !
    Now Des . She was okay , I didn’t really like her energy that much , y’all need ppl more down to earth like y’all

  • @Dlott22
    @Dlott22 Рік тому +17

    Lex impressions of Drea be having me crying 😭😭😭

  • @Janedoe10011
    @Janedoe10011 Рік тому +6

    Lex said I’m finna show Dess these vocals deserve to go on ALL PLATFORMS. 😂😂

  • @MusicMoods.mp3
    @MusicMoods.mp3 Рік тому +17

    I personally don’t wanna be friends with girls who stupid over niggas because I just don’t wanna hear it. It end up being all yall talk about. The shit is simply draining af. Then they get to taking shit out on you. And when you love your friend, you don’t wanna keep hearing and seeing them hurt. Im just not the friend you can come to about that. And if that doesn’t make me a good friend, Im personally at peace with that. And I have def distanced myself from women who are in long term toxic situations. Being that Im usually the “therapist” friend, it’s a boundary necessary for me.

    • @robertbennett4748
      @robertbennett4748 Рік тому +1

      I absolutely can feel you on this one!

    • @patricemcdaniel2299
      @patricemcdaniel2299 Рік тому +1

      This!!!! I feel you protect your energy n peace! That shit draining af, especially if they saint leaving

    • @EverythingWorksOutForMyGood
      @EverythingWorksOutForMyGood 2 місяці тому

      One of the wisest things I’ve read which aligns with where I am at now as the therapist friend ✨

  • @PuRPbaRbi
    @PuRPbaRbi Рік тому +51

    I saw some of the DHgate TikToks & did a little research so from what I know, they sometimes sell the luxury brand rejects. When a luxury product is made, all of them aren’t perfect perfect so they get sold to smaller companies at a fraction of the price instead of throwing them away. Ex: a stitch is missing somewhere but it’s not up to the company’s standard to be sold in store.

    • @Luvlybria
      @Luvlybria Рік тому +9

      Girl my sister sent me that site of some Yeezys I’m like girl just no. If you can’t you can’t. She was like you can’t tell… but you can ma’am 😂

    • @Luvlybria
      @Luvlybria Рік тому +1

      @@dontdomeboo81 um okayyyyy lol. Idc

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay Рік тому +34

    The Friday crew what it do? if you drinking, Pour one! if you smoking "one weed" light that one on up.

  • @hardIIfind
    @hardIIfind Рік тому +98

    Lex wants people to believe she's sooooo old lol.

    • @userkreme
      @userkreme Рік тому +24

      Auntie this, auntie that. Lex pleathe! lol

    • @miapia29
      @miapia29 Рік тому +4

      Right like stop😭😭😭your young boo , and you look even younger

    • @triaverse
      @triaverse Рік тому +3

      The biggest lie society ever told women was that 33 is somehow old 😂😂

    • @shanicewilliams2912
      @shanicewilliams2912 Рік тому +1

      She want people to tell her she not old , that’s all I hate when people want you to feel bad

  • @1cashsource
    @1cashsource Рік тому +8

    Found Lex and Drea online interviewing Ali Siddiq and been hooked ever since How can't You like them? They look good are genuinely funny and mad cool much respect and continued success! ✊

  • @xclusivekue
    @xclusivekue Рік тому +4

    Listen LEXX them tatas looking really good!!! Girl my eyes is stuck there this whole show! 😍😍😍
    But happy to see Dess on here! I really thought her and Jayda was blood sisters! But she’s so relatable

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 Рік тому +18

    Love y’all down !

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  Рік тому +2

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @lovelyj7125
      @lovelyj7125 Рік тому +2

      They so FINE 😍🔥 I swear it ain’t a Better Duo they the BEST 💯🅿️ IDC IDC & im NOT gone argue about it I said what I said

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree Рік тому +5

    No matter what the day is.......it's always time for Pour Minds 💯💯💯💯

  • @christinarose6957
    @christinarose6957 Рік тому +4

    OMG LEX YOU LOOK SOOOOO GOOD!!!!! I hope you have a speedy & healthy recovery 💖

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney8048 Рік тому +4

    Orange is Your color Lex 🤩🧡 Yessss you look so vibrant in orange 🍊

  • @catoriferrari6648
    @catoriferrari6648 Рік тому +14

    dess trying to write the p after lex said she was shaped like a p has me cryingggggggg

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Рік тому +3

    I love Dess so much when lexi asked her what’s two songs you’ll tell them to go listen to I said Summer time lmaoo I already knew that’s a very good song and it’s deep and that’s why I love it

  • @maniheartsya828
    @maniheartsya828 Рік тому +20

    Des face when Lex said she ain’t loyal 😭💀

  • @DYMETYMETV
    @DYMETYMETV Рік тому +26

    Love the show y’all got me in the work bathroom cracking up let me go before my boss find me 😂😂😂😂

  • @melodyalmond6710
    @melodyalmond6710 Рік тому +29

    Not too much on DHGate now 😅

  • @londonlanae7220
    @londonlanae7220 Рік тому +10

    Lol Des didn’t catch that “she know “ (future ) nudge.

  • @angelldadonn7615
    @angelldadonn7615 Рік тому +7

    Been Gone For A Minute, But I'm Always Here For It 💯 🖤🔥

    • @lovelyj7125
      @lovelyj7125 Рік тому

      Right me too I got a few episode’s I have to catch up on BUT I’m almost done I love my Beautiful lady’s &
      I’m gone make sho I get caught up & I can’t get behind again but i Ben so busy lately I have a couple things I have to catch up on 85 south show too but most DEFINITELY pour minds I love my big sisters & the advice I be needing I swear like a few months ago the top is was stuff that was actually going on in my life my sisters gave me EXACTLY the answers I needed & I do NOT be letting these BUM niggas try me mmm-mmm they fought me so much I swear I use to be dumb like a damn near take care of a NIGGA but Noo hell naww not no more I’m not ya momma hoe omg drea & Lex taught me soo much & I’ll NEVER stop watching because they really keep me on game & I kno I need a BDB we don’t mess with broke NIGGAS especially when u got shit going for yourself..!!! But I love y’all so much & thank you for posting & teaching us & giving us the games I posted y’all on my story I put some mfs on niggas & females cus y’all also be talking about shii niggas need to kno 🅿️❤️😩🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @_gymbratz
    @_gymbratz Рік тому +22

    Happy 100k Ladiesssss I absolutely am tuned in and have been now for about a year. Friday's are FOR LEX P AND DREA Babyyyy. Ima write in soon. Luv yall.xoxoxox

  • @chanelnicoleeee
    @chanelnicoleeee Рік тому +5

    I’m so proud of y’all!

  • @raeraeallday
    @raeraeallday Рік тому +12

    Happy Friday nieces

  • @livy711
    @livy711 Рік тому +16

    I would loveeee for y’all to have Ari Lennox as a guest 😭

  • @slimzona
    @slimzona Рік тому +3

    Yes been waiting on the Dess Dior interview it’s only right 🔥🔥🔥

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney8048 Рік тому +4

    I love the way dess spoke on her and Jaydas friendship! This was a dope episode ❤

  • @monicachantee
    @monicachantee Рік тому +9

    I just knew y’all was gonna have her next!!!!

    • @lovelyj7125
      @lovelyj7125 Рік тому +5

      Who u think they gone have next..?? Or who u think they should have as a guest..?? I think they should bring Dream doll, Asian, I definitely want Mona back, kali, Ti Taylor a be a good guest for men uhmmm maybe Desi banks, Fredo bang, Kevin gates I wanna see careesha on here too or I want them to go on her show omg ❤️😍🔥🔥 the sex teacher Samya was a good one too

    • @monicachantee
      @monicachantee Рік тому +3

      @@lovelyj7125 girl they def need to bring Mona back that was my fav episode hands down!

  • @user-tr2tu8sw7b
    @user-tr2tu8sw7b Місяць тому +1

    Nobody made an appointment to the DR groove higgle AMEN ⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @juscallmeNeLL
    @juscallmeNeLL Рік тому +10

    The black community need for materialistic things is insane. How sad it is to worry about if somebody has fake designer. These kids can't even get a proper education or actual meals at school smh. I can only control my environment but this is so sad smh.

  • @Shunnebunn
    @Shunnebunn Рік тому +19

    So lol I hated that first topic. What happened to letting do whatever. “It’s not bout what you wear..” so if it’s fake why does it matter?

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  Рік тому +8

      Because there’s cuter stuff. It’s not that serious to wear designer lol

    • @Shunnebunn
      @Shunnebunn Рік тому +8

      @@DreaAndLex fake it til you make it 🤷🏽‍♀️😂😂

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Рік тому +2

      Girl say that.

  • @meoshahunt7815
    @meoshahunt7815 Рік тому +3

    I am glad y’all had Des🥹💕 keep going ladies real recognize real🎉🤞🏾

  • @draysanatomy
    @draysanatomy Рік тому +16

    Lmaooo at the Lex P origin story! It sounds better than Lex S so I’m glad it stuck 😂❤

  • @allthingslifestylepodcast3221
    @allthingslifestylepodcast3221 Рік тому +2

    Y’all are definitely my favoritessssss😍😍😍

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 Рік тому

    I love y’all chemistry 😂 I get introduced to a lot of interesting people! Dess is so chill. Sing Lex 😅😂

  • @rashidahbrown4348
    @rashidahbrown4348 Рік тому +15

    Perfect Saturday morning! Sending love from Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️❤️

  • @KaylaLouise
    @KaylaLouise Рік тому +2

    I wanna hear y’all week opening up the show. But I’m still goin to watch 😅

  • @mygoodsis1933
    @mygoodsis1933 Рік тому +5

    Is it me or dess whispering ? Or maybe our girls loud 🤣

  • @shy4196
    @shy4196 Рік тому +1

    The contradiction😂” if you don’t got it don’t fake like you do for clout “two minutes later “my necklace might come off.” “I tried out for real world bgc” … “I want the money not the fame.” 😂😂

  • @jasminegabrielle6296
    @jasminegabrielle6296 Рік тому +7

    YEAAAA BIG DES ON HERE🥰

  • @cutupdon
    @cutupdon Рік тому +1

    Love seeing y’all beautiful ladies in Va much love ‼️😘😍🥰🫶🏾

  • @ttonnii
    @ttonnii Рік тому +10

    Let's be honest, even yall wouldn't be what you are without the use of social media. It's just what it is these days

  • @ArBells
    @ArBells Рік тому +17

    Love you ladies and enjoying your growth. Dess was pretty boring though 😩

  • @shantelt319
    @shantelt319 Рік тому

    I really enjoy y’all show. Love the realness ❤

  • @KiaraaJanee
    @KiaraaJanee 29 днів тому

    Auntie has me crying , your just the older sister 😂😂🫶🏽

  • @photogelic3135
    @photogelic3135 Рік тому +4

    Yea that Ari Lennox 🔥🔥

  • @kritikalthoughts3455
    @kritikalthoughts3455 Рік тому +9

    But y’all are being a little contradictory in this dialogue because in one instance u say we are too hard on each other as women but in another u say that people shouldn’t be wearing knock off Chanel etc. I say live and let live, because you’re right it’s not that serious so why be so judgmental towards it? Some people don’t feel it’s necessary to spend so much money on shit that they’ll probably end up giving away! If it’s okay for sis lace to be lifting and to have a bbl then why can’t sis carry her knock off Chanel?! Make it make sense Now!

    • @fancy1632
      @fancy1632 Рік тому +1

      I thought I was the only one who notice 😂 they contradictory on a lot of things they say that don’t do something and turn around and tell a whole story doing it 😂

  • @rachelr2758
    @rachelr2758 Рік тому +22

    “ don’t feel pressured to buy designer “ says the one participating in the presssure in her songs & aesthetics + im sure your last name is not “ Dior “ …. Ok . Don’t be a hypocrite now

    • @lexibexi7421
      @lexibexi7421 Рік тому +5

      i feel like she was talking about those who don’t have the money to get it and are going out their way to get it . she can afford it and she actually likes it so she getting it.

    • @christinaharris6621
      @christinaharris6621 Рік тому +2

      facts she obviously had the money to buy the designer she just lookin out for the ones who can’t afford it nd tellin them not to pressure themselves

    • @GoddessSirenade
      @GoddessSirenade Рік тому +2

      She has the money to get it but she saying those who don’t you don’t need to stress yourself or spread yourself thin

  • @jonikasmith5575
    @jonikasmith5575 Рік тому +7

    🗣DESS DIOR🎉🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @wilmarycg
    @wilmarycg Рік тому +2

    I’m happy y’all changed the background! That black and red was not giving positive vibes like these colors

  • @nasia5087
    @nasia5087 Рік тому

    Yessss 🎉
    UA-cam keep playing with notifying me so I can catch it as soon as it loads but nevertheless we back 🫶🏽

  • @aishamarie5098
    @aishamarie5098 Рік тому

    yesssss y’all got big dess on the showwww🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @missmknlovelifestyle8358
    @missmknlovelifestyle8358 Рік тому +1

    Wait so we're not acknowledging the "F" being for Phenomenal??! LMAO.. Love y'all down!!!

  • @venetiaP
    @venetiaP Рік тому +1

    Ok Lex!! The reduction looks great!

  • @ariesgirl.
    @ariesgirl. Рік тому +11

    Love yall girls! Question....when Nav coming back to cut up with yall?

  • @chaneldig893
    @chaneldig893 Рік тому +3

    If y’all have bloopers lexxx you can post clips of that😭😭😭

  • @chrissyyyx6535
    @chrissyyyx6535 Рік тому +3

    Ohhhh dess dior????? this is biggggg !!!!!!!

  • @dejahking8616
    @dejahking8616 Рік тому +1

    Its my girls surpassing 100K subscribers for me!!!

  • @elijahspraggins5453
    @elijahspraggins5453 Рік тому +2

    Gotta be one of the funniest podcasts on Tv 📺 but not on Tv 📺

  • @donnieslabs
    @donnieslabs Рік тому +1

    Drea we need to talk about that vroom ad 😂…..

  • @foodi.esti.nauti.
    @foodi.esti.nauti. Рік тому +1

    Happy Friday Huns 🫶🏾

  • @lasha.harveyintheworld9918
    @lasha.harveyintheworld9918 Рік тому +1

    OH YEA WE NEEDED THIS ONE🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿HAPPY BIRTHDAY

  • @YoQueue
    @YoQueue Рік тому +4

    To the designer/fake designer topic, I personally think wearing designer is overrated asf. I understand luxury but a Tshirt is a Tshirt, socks are socks. I understand dress shoes, heels, suits, dresses, silks, and things of that nature but I’ll never understand paying anything over $60 for a Tshirt

  • @prodigyurl
    @prodigyurl Рік тому +1

    It looks so natural I didn’t even realize Lex got her breast done!😍 and I watch her stories everyday 😮 looks so good Lex the before and after 😊

    • @italyevans
      @italyevans Рік тому

      I knew it! Them mfs used to be huge she must have gotten a reduction

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih7149 Рік тому +1

    Lmao Drea said, "yall got vows"

  • @hannahbanana9074
    @hannahbanana9074 Рік тому +2

    lex looks so beautiful 😍 all 3 look beautiful but lex is extra gorgeous lately

  • @raeraeallday
    @raeraeallday Рік тому +2

    And congratulations on 100k subs 🎉🥳💵

  • @tantaniarenee
    @tantaniarenee Рік тому

    Cuz yall our internet friend so when you finally see your friend you be like oh shit. Lol We love yall. Lol

  • @superstarr2008
    @superstarr2008 Рік тому +2

    dropped this episode the same date her album dropped OKAYY I see what ya did there lol !

  • @NinaHuncho
    @NinaHuncho Рік тому +3

    Y’all saying Dess was boring but they wouldn’t let her get a word out. Work on letting the guest talk and finish their thoughts

  • @FloVision_
    @FloVision_ Рік тому +1

    I love me some Dess Dior!!!!

  • @jmatthews5685
    @jmatthews5685 Рік тому +11

    Love yall beauties but topics/guest this episode were😴

  • @taylorking138
    @taylorking138 Рік тому

    N it’s lex n drea with the matching hair for meeee…ion know if they said sum bout that yet I’m still watching lol

  • @Ayanada305
    @Ayanada305 Рік тому

    i love how she said give me this plate

  • @raggingblack8135
    @raggingblack8135 Рік тому

    New Jack Thriller brought me here!!! 🔥

  • @iamsunnybunnyy
    @iamsunnybunnyy Рік тому

    Dess?!?! Omg yayyyyy

  • @readyalways1414
    @readyalways1414 Рік тому

    Another fantastic video GORGEOUS LADYS thank you BIG DOGGIE 💯👣

  • @___cxslll5921
    @___cxslll5921 Рік тому +7

    I will say that most of the “knock off” stuff is actually the real product . Made from the same factory, used the same materials. It’s was just defective or something so it didn’t make the cut. Luxury brands buy from those ppl and and slap they brand on it. So I don’t see a problem with ppl wanting to pay for the product and not the brand 🤷‍♀️. Just paying more money for them to slap they brand on it. While the ppl that are producing the product for them is selling it for a reasonable price. They have to make money too. So I don’t think it matters. I’ve never brought any knockoffs but if I was it wouldn’t be for the brand but more so of the look of whatever it is I want.

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 Рік тому

    Finally got y'all twice 😎 here and hot 97

  • @AR-il3kx
    @AR-il3kx Рік тому +14

    Okay so the 1st topic, it's not about the name brand it's about liking the bag or shoes style themselves and not wanting to spend an arm or leg regardless of the logo on it. It's weird that Lex was trying to make the girlies think it's weird when it's not 🙃 not you got more than 3 bucks an acting up. Now as far as everyone feeling the need to stunt or fit in in this clout social media era it's sad y'all are right it shouldn't be that way ain't nothing wrong with rainbow or a lil Shein.

  • @angelh6345
    @angelh6345 Рік тому

    that song was a hot good mess and I loved it lol 😆😆🤣🤣💀💀

  • @Yodaddycribb
    @Yodaddycribb Рік тому

    Lex P and the P is for PERIODDDD🤪

  • @imetzger1
    @imetzger1 Рік тому +1

    Okay let’s not act like Lex ain’t kill that first verse 🤣

  • @Ms.jasmineblossom
    @Ms.jasmineblossom Рік тому

    Fake it to you make itttt lol

  • @GLoVe88
    @GLoVe88 Рік тому

    Yo WordUp Was 🔥😂

  • @kourtni1864
    @kourtni1864 Рік тому +10

    I liked Dess until I watched a vlog of hers going out the country for the 1st time last year I believe…she went to Mexico and was really disrespectful to the culture. I don’t get the hype is it bc she was with future?

  • @AKAE47
    @AKAE47 Рік тому +12

    mm wasnt fw Des energy this episode she was very dry & didnt show alot of her personality dont bring her back we want VIBRANT guests on the show!!! thx ladies

    • @tamekap.7598
      @tamekap.7598 Рік тому +4

      I thought it was just me. She was super dry and her energy just wasn’t it.

  • @luckeelavish9393
    @luckeelavish9393 Рік тому +1

    Tampa a little fucked up right because of Hurricane Ian

  • @isaiahrobinson62
    @isaiahrobinson62 Рік тому

    this was nice❤️

  • @RhumaadLauron
    @RhumaadLauron Рік тому

    Baddies motivate us

  • @jhadaehaddock6664
    @jhadaehaddock6664 Рік тому +1

    They was talking over Dess so much.

  • @LuvGazelle
    @LuvGazelle Рік тому +1

    Heyyy Auntiess❤️❤️

  • @vonndastark5794
    @vonndastark5794 Рік тому +20

    She bored me. The girls did great tho with what they could lol

  • @susgriswald5489
    @susgriswald5489 Рік тому +1

    Y’all, why these Tour commercials be coming in so LOUD 😂? Please reduce the bass or something