Hey Steve: She Won’t Cook for Her Man
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2017
- Her cooking won’t satisfy his needs, so he turns to Steve Harvey for help.
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“You look like you eating plenty” Steve a savage
ITSTIA MARIA looool that part had me 😂😂
ITSTIA MARIA I died 😂😂😂😂😂😂💨😂😂😂😂😂
ITSTIA MARIA For real. Lol
Why I love em; always keeps it real.
ITSTIA MARIA 😂😂😂
ITSTIA MARIA but its true lmbo
So we gone ignore the fact he said “Can I phone a friend”😂💀😂😂
Yea, Omg.
Lol
😭
Can't believe no one laughed lol
ya, cause it was stupid :D he couldn't get out of it
She came with that calm rebuttal 😭😂
Yeah 👑. Loved that.
Solid rebuttal. Lol
She is lazy
Ohh girrlll, i love his wife. She said the most shadiest thing in the best way
Yesssssss!
she's lazy
@@princejo9671 just because she doesn't cook doesn't mean she's lazy
@@getyassified6390 if u can't cook and expect your man to your lazy and selfish you should both do it
Theres nothing more irritating than having to take care of a kid and cook for ur man only to have him complain abt it. Its age old commonsense that men shd just swallow whatever their wives cook bcs they cook it with love. Whether or not its tasty is secondary they need to appreciate the effort first by finishing the food
She just told him to feed his damn self in the sweetest/nicest way possible. lol
I just love how she kept her composure. Such an example for me...👍🏾
Phil's Wife Forever are you dumb
Poor Phil...
@Yemi she did but he always undermined her cooking.
Phil's Wife Forever oh but jut wait until he got home lol
She was calm cool and collected. Very classy lol
A home cooked meal by a wife/mother is one of the greatest memories a man can ever have in his life. It means a LOT to them.
You dang right!🎯
Yeah, I’m really surprised Steve didn’t have his back on this one. If not just from a point of view that yes, men want to come home from fking work, too a nice meal, to show the reciprocation of your work for me, and I’ll work for you too.
For a man, you're absolutely right, but what you can do for now days ladies.....
True for the most part. But there are men who refuse to let their woman cook for one or more reasons.
In my case, my man is a much better cook. Considering he does it as a living. And I am unable to do the cooking due to physical issues like a damaged spine.
The minute this guy finished his question i was like "Bro, u signed a death warrant"
It's a woman's job to cook and serve her
YOUNG BRO MAN UP,STOP BEING A WIMP.
- kool - Steve Harvey says a man should pay for all the dates because women take care of men in other areas and cooking was the first area he brought up. FOH
@@thevampire6065 not all. Some women has a real job outside of home. Dont make a woman a servant. Go find your nanny, not wife.
@@MaryGraceArevalocallmegracie Well don't make your husband your literal slave, working to make all of the money and pay all the bills and allow you to have a lazy life.
He should be more encouraging, rather than condemning. She no longer gets the joy in "cooking for her man," when her MAN is always complaining about what she cooked.
I just hope he stops condemning his wife's cooking and encourage her more, instead. Cooking isn't for everybody
Eventually she will lose him and he will cheat. Oh well.
Don't you always complain about all kind of stuff, if a man complain about the one thing that he ask from you, that you should do right before he complain, then the men is wrong. No man find joy in his work, but he still do it for his family.
Oh hell no women condemn everything men do now yall wanna cry when its your turn stop being lazy and cook better we gotta share the loaf
If you cook things your man does not like what is the point of you cooking? I would say go away I will cook myself or just order food. No way I would eat eat garbage because she cannot handle criticism.
Why he sound like he coughing every time he laughs tho😂💀
Venom - Liz Gang 😂😂😂
Lmao I can't!
Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Im done haha
Steve casually embarrassed him, like he casually embarrassed his wife. I STAN!
I love how sweet and shy she is
And also how fat and lazy she is
@@mr.youtube975 the man is fat too
She is not sweet at all! She is lazy at home and not taking care of the man working
i think so many of you have missed the point of why she doesn't cook for him. He's really judgmental of her cooking skills and that could really easily discourage a person. I mean yea i'm still young and i'm not married but i have a man who loves to eat and i cant cook but guess what?!.... my man has me in the kitchen with him every time he cooks something so i can watch and learn and i've been able to cook him several different dinners for us over the past months. I'm learning because he facilitates it, he encourages and corrects me where necessary but he has never told me that its not good enough or its simple not good at all. instead he says how i can fix it and i appreciate that a lot.
Maybe he should try that approach, just saying
Candace Falconer You're absolutely right. When I first met my husband, I couldn't cook either but he helped me learn and never criticize me. He likes my cooking now.
at least you were willing to learn..most women today would just sulk in the other room instead of get in there with hubby and learn from him..or sit on social media while he cooks :/
Carnival food is not dinner. It requires little to no cooking skills. As a woman, even I understand why he was complaining. She needs to put some effort into it. There are plenty of recipes out there that are easy to make and yet so delicious - lemon parmesan chicken piccata, mongolian beef and broccoli, pepper steak, honey garlic teriyaki chicken, tuscan butter salmon...there's almost a week's worth of dinners and they're all ridiculously easy. They just require EFFORT, unlike hot dogs.
Your man taught you how to cook because he can cook,if a man can learn how to cook what were you doing all those years you were growing up,there is nothing wrong with a man telling his woman what she cooked today wasn't good,wait let's say he can cook then he goes out all day only to come home and starts another lesson for her teaching her how to cook before he can eat with all the stress and tiredness and she is at home doing nothing,common that ain't sensible in anyway
Candace please a question for you is it now the responsibility of the man to teach his woman how to cook?
Love the way she spoke!!!! 👌🏾
lily gaye She is sweet and beautiful 😊
@@kaktusdesiberie7196 she is
Nah she a snake
@@Jb-sr8kn Not at all!!! 👀
She's not cooking because he's being too critical of her cooking. He's far better at cooking than she is... he takes pride in his food. So the standard is high and she's not going to live up to it but he wants her to and he's going about it the wrong way. She's never going to cook as well as him but he needs to just appreciate her for whatever she makes or shut up and cook the food himself... unfortunately, that's all that's going to happen. She simply doesn't care as much as he does.
thats why most brilliant chefs are male, right?
But man can't ask a women before getting serious whether she can took or not, it's viscous circle my friend.
@@OkabexKurisu initiate by women... Provoked by men. So 🤫
Why would you say she simply doesn't care as much as him?
You are not in that relationship to judge that?
She can learn to cook her mans fav meals, just like he has to go to work everyday
His wife looks so cute in that yellow top! She seems very sweet!
“She had the baby, yo a** cook the food.”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
Exactly.
Wtf that have to do with anything? My grandmother raised 7 kids and still cooked and cleaned for everyone. Ain't no excuse for being lazy!
Zachary Murley but isn’t that them being lazy?🙂
@Notre Aira amen... 👏🏾👊🏾
Zachary Murley yea but you did she even show you guys to do anything or help her out u just let her do EVRYTHING I mean that’s pretty lazy on y’all part I mean if that’s what happened cuz I’m not sure but I hope you know how to cook clean for ur self today
If she makes the effort to cook, you say thank you, sit and eat. I love my wife's cooking. She's from the Philippines, so her food was a little strange at first. I got home from work and she'd spent all afternoon in the kitchin. I sit and hands me my plate and I start eating... the two things I hate in life... star anise and liver (Don't ask what she cooked, I have no idea or how to pronounce it). One mouthful and bam... I look up and the look in her eyes, I couldn't say anything negative. I finished my plate and thanked her, even had seconds. It would have hurt her feelings if I told her the truth. She still cooks it for me now and again... we've been married for nearly 11 years, she still doesn't know I hate it, and she never will, because I love her!
No NameGiven god bless you and your wife
No NameGiven ask her to cook something else because you can't bear the taste of them. I don't know her, but as a Filipino, I know that filipina women who cook have wide varieties of dishes stored in them. I assume by liver, you meant Adobong Atay(Chicken Liver Adobo/Pig Liver Adobo) because it's the only type of dish you can cook with star anise, I don't hate it that much, I like the broth, but I don't like the consistency of the liver, so I feel you. Ask her what's for dinner, if she said it, ask for something else. Maybe probably tell her stories on your first reaction when you tasted that dish for the first time during dinner, she'll probably change her mind.
So heartwarming ❤
No NameGiven Soo refreshing to read your comments Really heartwarming. I pray you and your wife will happy always ..and that she somewhow magically just stops cooking that dish you hate hehege
If you don't like it, or ya think it could taste better, let her know how to make it differently the next time cuz she want you to be happy and enjoying the meal. You would nt be rude, just thank her and let her know.
My friend once told me, when you love the person, everything comes out naturally. Including cooking. The thing is, she feels that he doesn't appreciate the effort she puts in cooking. Please bear in mind that we have different ways of cooking as we have different tastes on food.
Man I love it when my girlfriend makes me anything even if it’s a bowl of cereal, to me it doesn’t matter what she makes me but it’s the thought of doing it and she spent her own time to do it for me.
Update: Me and my now fiancé are still happy together and have our first child on the way, due in august🥰 baby boy
Update and it’s a bad one: me and her aren’t together anymore and she’s trying to completely take my baby away from me. I’m a good father…I take care of my baby, provide everything he needs, love him and I loved her to death. But ultimately I wasn’t enough for her and that’s just that. Now I get 4 days a MONTH when my son…yeah this aged really badly.
Awww love this 🤗
Aweeee how cute! She's lucky and you're lucky.
thats how i am also
Wowww she luck to have appreciate man, I used to do anything I can , cook 3 times a day every, but he doesn’t care
To be honest I'm the same way but women of today's generation act like making a bowl of cereal for their their man will cut off 10 years of their life, is she will not willingly cook for you because she loves you she's not your ride or die and you need to move on
Teach her how then! Be patient with her and don't get frustrated. Simple fix. Sometimes you have to help her, instead of her helping you all the time.
+A Thomas
Teach her?! What is this babying of women and making excuses for their every move?! You know how men can get women to take more responsibility (which is sorely lacking in Western societies, today)? Stop shouldering an excess of responsibility themselves! If the woman is wrong, call her out, or hold her feet to the fire! I'm sick and tired of women deflecting blame away from themselves, when it deserves to be on them, and men enabling this perverse behaviour. Both sexes need to grow the hell up!
Nathan I think women should force men to be accountable for themselves and hold them to their word no matter how hard it is for them to uphold. If he is being unappreciative I would not enjoy cooking for him either, and my husband eats well daily. He has never belittled what I cook for him and there are days when we both are exhausted from WORKING OUTSIDE OF THE HOME. There are days when he cooks and days when I cook, because cooking is not sex specific and my amazing MIL taught my husband the importance of knowing how to cook and not rely on anyone to baby him. This couple needs some counseling, and he needs to focus on affirming his wife and she should learn to cook to feed her family. I do not agree that this is all of western women, because not all of us are the same. That would be the equivalent of me saying all western men are lazy, pot smoking, gang banging, abusive assholes and that’s not even remotely the case. There are some amazing men in our society, I married one!
@@TheQueenPsChannel
He works, she doesn't (as we assume since he said he comes home and she doesn't cook for him, nor she said that she works)
If he is working hard, to provide for a her a comfortable and a happy life, so she can spend the money and enjoy, and she doesn't even want to learn to cook to his likings, she better get her lazy rear out of the house and start looking for a job. He should stop giving her money and cooking her food if she doesn't want to learn to cook the way he likes.
Women wants equality, but when it is their responsibility to do something, they all stop looking for equality, and start talking about manner, reverse treatment and patriarchy bs.
If your husband is working hard for your needs, you better work as hard for his.
As for most, yes in fact most western women are lazy and irresponsible, that's exactly why you see men running and marrying females from other countries, it is not just a few, most are, therefore most should get their things together before they find no men at all.
@@jakeshore7803 why do you act like the only POSSIBLE job she could be doing is cooking at home for him? Did it not occur to you that even if she doesn't have a job outside the home that theres a ton of other responsibilities she could have taking care of things at home?
@@Mzmissy215
Based on the information both of them had provided, it is safe to assume that she does not work. It is not the only possiblity of course, but is is the most probable.
Now, yes there are other things to do around the house, but as a spouse you have a responsibility towards your children as well as your partner.
If you don't work, the least you could do is cook for him. Microwaving food isn't the same as cooking, and refusing to want to get better at it is just selfish.
Let's say he was working, and they were in a bad shape financially, and she was doing all her responsibilities around the house, including cooking, cleaning, taking care of him and the children. And he refused to get a full time job, or work a few extra hours to provide for them.
The same would be said, it is selfish to ALWAYS put yourself first in a relationship, and even more if it is a proper family with a child.
Unfortunately, she is doing just that in regards of her partner. He provides her with a good income, a nice comfortable life, fancy things and she refuses to get better at cooking because "If you don't like it then don't ask me to cook". Which is a very good way to damage the relationship on the long term.
What’s wrong with her cooking if she is home all day. If my man is out making $ I would have no problem cooking for for him.
I don't think you heard what SHE said. She said that she's cooked for him in the past but since her cooking did not live up to his standards, she thinks that it will be better off if she just not cook for him at all.
Somebody cooking something
He's a grown ass man. If he's hungry he can cook for himself.
(Edit:) I thought she was working. Helping to provide for the family, but he was still expecting her to cook like on sexism bs. I was wrong and I was corrected.
Jordan G. Cus she didn't say she had a job. Woman like to use any excuse as a weapon.
Iams Dtr love that
My wife, who I've been with for twelve years, insists she didn't know how to cook *anything* when we met. Now? 8-12 home-cooked meals per week (and I'm not talking about instant pancakes, oatmeal, or prepackaged spaghetti--I mean cooking from scratch with dishes like stir fry, homemade pastas, homemade soups, homemade bread, barbecued ribs, sweet & sour anything, fajitas, cottage pies, fried rice, etc..) So take that into consideration as you read my perspective on providing feedback to home cooking.
I've always found honesty to be the best policy when it comes to commentary on family cooking. But you have to pretty much stick with highlighting the positives, especially early on, so that means not TOO MUCH honesty. Real, honest-to-God home cooking is as much art as work, and it's impossible for an artist to express themselves when they anticipate a negative response from the consumers.
Be honest, just don't be BRUTALLY honest. And forget the micromanaging--let her do the cooking her way, and if she does a good job, lavish her with genuine praise for the effort. If a particular effort comes up short, praise the good stuff and don't lie if asked about the bad--just soften it a little until you've developed a rapport to where she trusts you're not going to hurt her feelings if she inquires.
Whenever my wife asks how I liked a given meal, I'll always point out the positives even if they're not that high (e.g. if the fried chicken wasn't all that flavorful, i might say 'the breading on this fried chicken is really crunchy. I like that!' I don't need to rag about the lack of spices, but if she asks about that part, I'll say, 'It could probably use some more cayenne pepper...or maybe just black pepper?').
She already knows when she cooks something great and she knows when it's not great, so I don't need to tell her if it's great or not. I just need to tell her what *is* great *about it.* That always opens up the dialogue and makes it a lot less confrontational when the inevitable 'Yeah...but I think I overcooked the _______" or "I know I added too much salt," parts of the conversation come around. That's where you get the chance to make suggestions, but be careful when doing so, and always ask yourself one question before you do: 'Was this a better deal than we can get at a fast food place?' If the answer's 'yes,' you should probably keep your mouth shut even if you're sure the meal could be better. If the answer's 'no,' then use your own judgment in how you craft your diplomatic suggestions.
When we cook for our loved ones, we're committing an act of love. As diners we know homemade meals won't always come up aces, but we also know that they're a really wonderful way to bring people together, both during production and consumption. Nobody wants to cut those interactions out of their life unnecessarily, so a little politicking is important around the dinner table. Family meals are the centerpiece of my growing family's daily interactions, and we all recognize the importance of it.
As the man once said: Honesty is the best policy. Don't lie. Just remember that too much honesty is usually worse than not quite enough.
Best advice! 👌🏽
This is the kind of man a woman would be willing to learn to cook better! 😆
This is a whole booklet‼️
I disagree with your phrasing though, it's not that "too much honesty" is bad, it's just about choosing the best way to be honest.
I will never complain to my futur wife about her cooking, because she will be giving me part of her precious time ❤
Amen!!
I admit..it would be nice to come home to a meal...but if all he did was complain when she WAS cooking..i mean hell...i would stop too....and be like well dam...you do your own cooking... i mean if all he doing is complaining and talkin bout salt and flavor and cooked enough...so she WAS cooking but he pissed her off (like men do)..and she stopped. mmhmm
"If your man cooked you a meal every day and it tasted bland like cardboard, wouldnt you tell your husband to start seasoning or im leaving you?"
No, I would cook myself! Why would I leave my awesome husband over some bland food? WTF.
S.D.M. R than cook your OWN food MGTOW MEN 😂
@@jackiem1682 PREACH... 👏🏾 these men in these comments... ruthless.. I am so praying for their future Mrs. If, they get to that point.. but yes, their women are gonna need a lot of prayer..
@@jakeshore7803 just cause she dont cook, to which he does not appreciate, does not mean she does not do other works. And I believe they have a child to which she takes care of.
@S.D. R. I think he complained before that to which she just started giving him tacos and hotdogs.
I cooked for 15 years of our marriage while in India, but once I moved to US my husband started learning cooking and he atleast prepares one meal a day and does the dishes! Marriage has to be an equal partnership.
Yes especially when most wives in India these days are working and financially supporting the household. Women are the primary caretakers of children, too.
Guy:I can’t dig myself out of this,Can I?
Steve:No!Cuz it’s getting worse!
😂😂😂😂
Cook for EACHOTHER. It’s not the woman’s job to only cook for her man every single day, a relationship needs two people working together. Take care of each other and cook for eachother together.
That's not nature baby. Keep thinking that and you won't have a real man at home. Look in nature for the answers cause guess what ladies in nature the women cooks.
@@scrapplesamwich7910 so you tell us we should be like animals?
Scrapple Samwich, I don’t see animals cook but go off. My husband cooks and we just fine. Let’s see you keep a wife with that attitude.
SassyBasilisk65, correct me if I’m wrong, but I’m pretty sure the lioness hunts for the pride. The male just skips on over and eats- not having to do any of the hard work.
Even in nature, females are independent. Just human cultures and customs that caused all the degradations.
@@scrapplesamwich7910 you're so stupid.... ain't nobody gonna be cooking nothing for you if you keep talking like we're in 1947 ya dumass
Okay I'm a woman and I do believe that whoever doesn't work outside of the home should cook. However what a woman does domestically is an expression of love for her family and and her man. Moreover you will not talk to me like you crazy and think that you going to get those expressions of love from me or any other woman for that matter. That's just how it goes. If you're going to tell her what to do how to do it and when and all that well then like she said you might as well cook for yourself. Regardless if she can cook or not. A husband is his wife's greatest influence and the things that he may have said about her cooking made her feel inadequate as a woman so therefore she says okay since you feel it should be done a certain way you cook it. End of story.
Shenice Says YOU MADE THE BEST COMMENT! 👏👏👏👏👏 I couldn’t have better said it myself
Agreed, but if she's that bad a cook then why doesn't she take that as a way to improve herself in her cooking? I mean that guy is clearly eating A LOT as it is, so I doubt his standards for "good food" are THAT HIGH. So she probably really sucks at cooking and throws something lazy at the plate. He should have been nicer and should apologize, YES, but instead of her not taking criticism, throwing a tantrum and not cooking anymore, maybe she should just admit she can't cook and do something about it? Not everyone is good at cooking but lets be real: it's really easy to cook great food without much effort. If you suck at it then it's your fault. (we're not talking about 5 star restaurant meals after all) He should have been nice enough to teach her if she's that bad or maybe she could take cooking lessons... It's such an easy thing to fix.
I mean I kinda understand his point and frustration, having to work all day and then he comes home tired and has to cook his own dinner... (not that he needs dinner XD) But criticizing someone saying they suck at something and not providing any help or suggestion to improve that weakness isn't really the correct way to do it.
Now this ALL changed is she's got a job like him, which I believe is not confirmed. If they both have a job and have to work all day then they should divide house chores and take turns cooking or cook together.
MrBluePants maybe she doesn’t have time to take a class
Not that she sucks at cooking, hes just a picky Eater! Dude f-you, you Cook for yourself!
Shenice Says
She is so soft-spoken 😍
“Okay well, she had the baby. Yo ass cook da food.” Iconic quote
Typical Steve Harvey catering to women 🙄
Thanks Steve for helping w my depression 😂😂😂😂 laughter is the best medicine
It's a way you can say things without hurting your other half. Some men have to remember When you look for wife that she is not your Mother Your Wife that Mean learn together and vise versa
whos vise versa? is he their son? 😶
Some men nowadays aint looking for a Wife.. their looking for a Mother who.dress up like their wife
@Notre Aira : who said women needs to serve men for the rest of their lives? Everyone has a role. The role of the male has always been to protect and provide whereas the female would look after the kids, prepare food and clean. Women and Men are not and has never been equal. We are not meant to be equal. We have different roles to fulfill.
The society has a problem when women wants to be like men.
@Yemi my mom did, and we all are and very much enjoyed it.
@Yemi What is wrong with us women today? Ummm... idk.. we're just being women. We were NEVER natural in-grained providers EVER. We are here to birth children from the love, care, protection, provision, giving, selfless, faithful, loyal, honest, kind loving adoration from our future husbands. That's all. "SOCIETY" says women are here to cook and clean but that's not a natural trait of a woman but of a man. He's the provider. A woman bears children from a husband that is overfilling her in love, protection, friendship, kindness, niceness, honesty, faithfulness, provision, and so forth and so on and that in return MAKES a woman want to settle down into motherhood. That's why women are here and that's why women are blessings to their husbands or as Steve says, "The Prize" I mean you can honestly choose to ignore this truth and that's perfectly fine. But, don't say you never heard it because #imjustthemessenger sweetheart. That's the answer of how women settle into motherhood. I promise you this narrative from the topic of men NEEDS a SERIOUS change to men wanting to be better men and husbands to their wives or future wives. That will so create better and healthier relationships among men and women.
Thank goodness I got a husband who loves my cooking :)
what to do you cook :P (getting hungry)
Steve’s response here was not good at all.
What the real response should’ve been is if you want her to cook right if she interested in cooking help cook it how you want it to be.
Don’t ask someone to do something right if your not willing to show them how you want it and don’t be opposed that if she asks you to do something for her then because marriage is a two way street if you want her to do something for you then be ok with do what she asks you to do as well.
Simple as that..
I see that most people didn't watch until the end and that's why they're criticizing her.
She's my ride and die 👌👌
hamza shami she left him to die
“You look like you eating plenty” thanks Steve 🤣🤣🤣🤣maybe cook for her sometime dude that romantic
Her fat ass don’t work, she better cook him something he likes 🐸☕️
He said he does cook.
@@junaldinho100 or what?
Super sweet & graceful woman, so assertive, spoke her truth & stayed true to her self, totally admirable.
I didn’t cook for my husband for a few years bc he would “ forget” I was cooking, eat out & leave all my food to spoil. He no longer forgets, and when he does the following day he’s the first one to heat up the food & eat it. In marriage, it’s all about the long game.
I agree with the guest that if the wife (or husband) is staying at home, and the other spouse was working outside the home, it is a nice gesture to cook dinner and have it ready for him/her after work. It contributes to the marriage as a partnership if the spouse who stays home is willing to take suggestions on his/her partners’ tastes and preferences.
She works from home or her work can be done at home. But it doesn’t matter. Nobody has to cook for you or anyone. Be appreciative of what people do for you, otherwise, stop complaining when those favors stop happening.
You don’t have to be a chef. A lot of times the food just need an extra season or two. Not hard at all or just UA-cam simple recipes.
Damn, I think it's common decency to have a meal ready for your partner after a long days work. Especially if you're off of work and they aren't! I smell marital issues.
But listen to what she said.....she did the hot meals when came home but it wasn't up to his standard....on a regular basis....and he didn't try and teach her ....he just belittled her cooking.....so she in the right....let him cook his food the way he like it.
S J right! I understand every relationship is different but he’s not asking for too much. I’m sure he doesn’t expect her to cook a great meal everyday. Hm we’re in a time where women don’t want to cater to their man anymore.
We aren't their mothers, first of all. Times are changing and this mentality has got to change. We aren't their maids. Men need to start cooking for themselves. This whole tradition of women having to take care of the family, cooking, and pleasing her husband has got to end. Just cuz he's providing doesn't mean he can't be cooking for her too. How do we know she doesn't work? Why don't men learn cooking for their own survival?
She did try and cook for him, but instead of a thank you, his ass went criticizing her cooking. He said he's a good cook, so why tf doesn't he just cook? What year are we in? 1940s? Why are women expected to cook for their men? I wouldn't mind cooking for my man, but if he criticized me like that then he wouldn't ever eat my cooked food ever again.
I agree! Because I never mind cooking for my husband. He was a good provider. I was home and would bring it to his job some times for lunch. That was never an issue for us. And on weekends he would grill or we dined out.
If any man expected me to cook for him, he's never gettin it. He can learn to cook for himself
If he providing and doing what he's supposed to do as a man! That's the least you can do Jesus.
I hate cooking, although I'm a good cook. I still fed my family after coming home from work, as a responsibility, a part of the sacrifice when getting married & having children. 🤷♀️🇦🇺
Well said, madam x
The difference is he criticized her cooking & what's worse be comparing her to his mama!
I've actually been in her position with someone I was dating. They had a mom who cooked really well and my food was fine but no where near as good as their moms obviously. And actually the person I was dating was a far better cook than me because they learnt from their mom. In the beginning they gave me bad reactions which made me feel really bad and made me embarrassed and nervous to cook anything. I simply told them hey, I'm learning to cook and I'm feeling really bad about sucking at it. Maybe you can teach me how to season things better and in the way you like. Teach me a few dishes that are your favourite. They did and I learnt only two dishes in the first month and cooked them many times trying to get good at them and I did. Then you slowly add dishes.
It is the effort for me. If you love someone, you make that effort, you can't act like it is non of your business (he should cook for himself). Why not strive to improve, if you truly love, their health and the food they eat should matter to you. It isn't easy to head straight to the kitchen after a long day's job.
Cute
A date is not a husband.
I love your effort, good one
It sucks being the man who cooks better than your wife.
she's eating plenty too and can't cook?
L A 🤣🤣😁😁 oh hell no! 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🤣🤣🤣
They eating unhealthy process foods, Thtas what happen when you with somebody that fixes something to eat,instead of cooking alot of fast food
L A they both are fat, so i don't get what he is saying lmao
L A junk food adds more weight then a decent full meal
Makes perfect sense. All they eat is fast food and frozen meals.
My husband works long hard day's, I will always make sure he has a home cooked meal ready for him every night.
In 13 years of marriage, my wife has never cooked a single meal.
@@eternalyfeful yo that's wild asf I'm sorry
@Roger King I do all the house chores for my husband. All the laundry, all the cooking, cleaning all the dishes. I sweep, mop, vacuum, clean the bathrooms. I do it all.
@@iknowyounot88 .... I'm not trying to make her look bad out here but there's nothing domestic about her. She gives her all to her job and when she gets home, nothing.... it's sad.
@@eternalyfeful you gotta have a good balance between home and work.. do you do the cooking or do you just eat take out?
Imagine if the gender roles were reversed. He really ain't asking a whole lot, the man just wants some dinner bruh
Yea, women can expect a man to provide for her.
Yet, the minute a man has a few expectations, they're wrong.
@@sierrathedon or he can teach her how he likes his food or what kind of food he likes. Thats called compromise. If it were the other way around it wouldnt be right for him to tell her do whatever your damn sef since you dont like it the way i do it. Wtf the point of being together then?
tazyboy28 that would be a good idea if the husband would have done that in the first place. Instead he just discouraged her, so in that sense he can cook for himself.
Frfr the bruh has to go to work and then come home and cook? That ain't it chief
What?
Men have no issue being a provider...they're just tired of being suckers for women who want everything, but refuse to put anything into the relationship.
Beautiful family.
My husband is from the south. I'm from CA. and he can cook! If you say you don't like a specific food. He will cook it and you will love it. If I pull out a pot he will say don't use that pot, don't use that type of oil. Don't use that season, don't move this or that in the kitchen etc. I think I know what she is dealing with. She didn't seem upset. Because she likely walk out the kitchen with no attitude, like I do.
If the man don’t like her cooking, just skip to dessert ;)
Awwww. She's adorable.
His wife or gf is so sweet sounding awww
Ava Adams that’s why he married her!! Take notes sweetie. What a lot of you women lacking
@@DopeBoysofAtlanta um u need to put ur attitude away. I didnt say anything negative.
Who are you mystery woman??
Mi at what
She’s lazy and fat too
Why are people assuming she’s home all day? It’s never said she’s home all day... he said, “when I get home from work and she at home”... I take it as she’s also been at work and happens to be home first...
People are assuming that she doesn't work. Yes she could learn to cook better. Yes he could show her. Too many people want to put one or the other down. They are married and need to work together.
Roger King you think she just sits around all day in 2019? 😂
I love Steve Harvey. His a wise man!
That woman is so sweet. I would cook for her. Why can't he?
Bad answer Steve. If this wife is home, she should cook for her family.
Everybody keeps assuming this woman is lazy, but we don't know if she works or not. She said she DID cook more, but apparently he doesn't like the way she cooks. Why? We don't know if she tried to change the way she cooked for him, but maybe he's a picky eater. We don't know how much weight either of them pulls at home. He could go to work, but leave her to do literally everything else. We don't know if he's lazy. Why are we assuming she's the lazy one?
Not to mention, this man embarrassed his wife. He went on national television and said "my wife doesn't cook for me" and expected another man to take his side because they're both men, but Steve is going to give the woman the benefit of the doubt until he gets more context. Yes, whoever stays at home should do the main cooking for the day, house, whatever, but the other person also has to be reasonable. And, again, we DON'T know if she works, too.
Right. Whoever is home more that day in our house cooks. So glad my husband isn't picky. And yes he did embarrass his wife on tv. Made her look bad. That was wrong!!!
He said she stays at home. I'm willing to bet she doesn't work.
He said he cooks her tacos and hot dogs... Obviously, she can't cook.
YES finally someone says it...tacos and hot dogs are not real food.
@@TheMissionOfSubmission And obviously those are foods that are child friendly, and they do have a child! Tacos ARE cooking, especially when you are cooking and chopping and preparing it. He's just too damned picky and spoiled
I def agree , whenever he comments on my food , let him cook 4 himself🤣
The way Steve’s talking is hilarious 😂
He's judged her cooking so much that she's given up trying.....
chali Botha she is not a good wife
never bite the hand that feeds you
this is trash dude or woman you can be honest about how you feel about the food
I love the way she phrased it and she took a high road than he did when going abt the situation
She said it all with a smile.🤍😂
How about she looks a video or two up on UA-cam. I married not knowing how to cook but since my man loves to come home to cooked meal I have learned and continue to improve my cooking skills for him. It’s the least I can do after he works his butt off for 12 hours a day... #thisisthereasonmarriagesnolongerwork
Alejandra Ramirez took a while to read that hashtag..
I was married 25 years. Pretty sure it was him being an ass that caused the divorce. If she works too and he is critizing what she makes when she does why bother. Sounds like he comes in and starts adding to it, so his butt cam just do it from the start.
Alejandra Ramirez exactly!
i love how we apparently still live in the 1950s. so are we supposed to be servants now? he clearly said he cooks better and if they both have jobs (idk if she works), then why does he come home EXPECTING a home cooked meal? whats wrong with the tacos she makes? i could have sworn that our jobs werent only to be domesticated women who follow outdated gender roles. she tried and he didnt appreciate it so she said nvm. nothing wrong with that, and like janet said, he should have known she sucked at cooking before he married her.
Well I mean, if she has a job like he does then I'd understand that they'd take turns cooking and splitting tasks. At my house, for example, since both my parents have a job, they divide the house chores among themselves and take turns cooking.
But if he's working all day and she doesn't have a job and stays home all day and doesn't even cook, THEN WTF IS SHE DOING ALL DAY!?!? Cleaning? That's not an everyday activity unless you're a germophobe or live in a huge house! Washing the clothes and dishes? Once again, not an everyday activity and it certainly doesn't take that much time since they only have 1 kid.
So honestly, if she doesn't have a job, WTF DOES SHE DO MOST OF THE DAYS? Sit around on her ass watching TV and eating? He looks like he's been eating plenty, but so does she.
Marriage is a partnership, both members need to be equal. But if one of them is working while the other is using their money and doing almost nothing all day, then that's not a partner, that's a parasite.
Btw, him criticizing her food is still not very nice and not everyone is a great cook (although that's mostly due to laziness since even with little time you can make very tasty food).
I understand he's probably a bit frustrated coming home from working all day only to find some nasty ass food to eat... He should have been more subtle about it and found a way to teach her instead. So now she doesn't even cook, so she probably sits her ass all day at home and he has to come home tired from work and on top of that he has to cook his own meal. But once again... He seems like he's actually eating too much XD Maybe he doesn't really need dinner anyways.
He done dug his own grave!!!
😂His ass is in trouble when he gets home!!!!!!!
steve was just being respectful with his response, he does not wanna hurt anybody feelings
ohhhh i feel the wife....i love to cook but when its critisize it in a wrong way,ima stop cooking..😁😁and ill say U COOK UR OWN FOOD THEN!Cant blame her
Tita ChaBo you feminista pig
Why can’t you just improve instead of getting mad? Isn’t that what adults doo when faced with valid criticism?
@Delonte Hollister she cooked real food at first but then he rudely criticised her cooking so she stop
@@rerrer3346 yeah, but he should have appreciated her cooking instead of criticised it
🤔So he liked the way she cooked before they got married?!?!
I love these shows. They help me stay single.
I don’t blame her. Who wants to cook for someone so ungrateful and acts like a Food Network judge every time they make dinner? Everyone has to start somewhere. If he’s eaten better, let him eat that persons food.
Women: I want a man who makes money. (Totally fine with society)
Men: A wife should cook for her husband. (Society views it as sexist)
Fixing is cool Ng tacos is cooking hot dogs is cooking cereal is cooking just like men don't always make the amount of money women may like but we take it men can vocalize their preferences give us some recipes they'd like or name a good they would like to eat. They can settle for the capabilities of their partners.
Who said she wasn’t making money herself? That’s the question
@@CC-nd7oe he very clearly says “society”
You are skipping the part where he is critical of her cooking.
FR whenever a woman asks Steve a question where she wants her husband to do something for her, it’s always “cater to what your wife wants” the husband is almost never sided with
They definitely ain't starving 😂😂😂
His wife is a sweetheart
The part of being a housewife, is that, when you don't work and your husband is not working late so he's eating outside. You have a responsibility of putting food on the table, especially when your man is working several jobs part time
Says who?
@@brittaniharold1880 would you shrug off your attack mode to properly read what he wrote? One mention of asking women to do something domestic and the fuse in a 100 mile radius of women go off.
@@chaitanyagupta6668 you read what I wrote and assume I was attacking
@@brittaniharold1880 surely, attack was the not the best word for that. But that doesn't make the gist of my statement invalid.
Next time I get in a relationship, the first 90 days, all gonna do is watch Steve Harvey show. And then I'll have him fill out questionnaire based on what he learned from Steve about relationship & depending on his answers, we(I) will decide If we should move forward or not.😂😂😂
How's that working out for you
Steve Harvey for advice on marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Homie ain't getting no more meals after this. He done tore his draws as my Mimi says lmao
I love her mindset
3:30am I am cryin, snortin, laughin @ this clip! Bahahahaha
Funny, they’re a nice looking couple though they eating well.
Hmm, a cooking date sounds so fun. ☺️
Even though he's in deep water I bet she found it a bit funny. The guy is clearly an awesome guy and they are good friends. They look like a great couple.
He doesnt need a meal. A treadmill yes....but not a meal.
I personally can't have a full opinion on this subject because I don't know the full story. I found it a little rude with how blunt he was about how much he didn't like her cooking and how she should learn how to cook better. Not everyone is a good cook. I agree with her decision that she made mostly because it's seems that all the joy if she found any in cooking is gone. If he going to harass her about the food she makes then if he thinks it's so bad maybe they could have a bonding experience and learn how to cook together. That way they could try taking turns making meals it would be more productive and it may fix their problem.
Finally someone with a common sense!!
@Thelondonbadger- I have seen your comments over and over again, and decided to say something. You are right, people have different tastes. I LOVE certain foods that my SO doesn't. He just can't stand the food and never has liked it. This is the same food that everyone else I have cooked for loves and begs me to make them a plate to take home for leftovers. Now, my son and I love this food, and we have tried other foods (pintrest has been my friend in trying new ways to make the same proteins) and refined the things we like. We have a more worldly palette where my other half has a very meat and potatoes palette. I have made accommodations, and when I want a meal for myself that I know he won't eat, I make sure to settle a plate of food he will eat. HOWEVER, just because I am willing to go an extra mile for my other half, doesn't mean everyone should have to. Sometimes, when complaints are too much, people just give up and stick with the meals they know will work. If that happens, the person complaining has three choices, accept the food that is known to be enjoyable over and over again, become more open minded or add whatever missing seasoning is needed, or cook it yourself.
Listen, if a woman expects to be pampered, wined & dined, romanced, be provided for, taken care of, etc, and her man is willingly doing all of those things, the least she can do for him is to learn how to prepare a delicious warm meal for him to enjoy; not ramen noodles and tacos. Don't be a little girl; go and learn how to cook. Jeez! Too many women want to be treated like a queen and have absolutely no idea how to treat their man like a king; they expect to receive more than they give, it doesn't work that way.
Not one lie was told. That's why it's important for men to be able to cook their own meals because the way these modern women are (refusing to cook, can't cook or won't bother learning), these dudes would starve marrying any one of these modern women.
Where did she say at any point that she expected all that from her husband?
Queens don't cook. The nobility have staff. These "kings" want servants.
Time for him to get his meals elsewhere where they're appreciated.
Yept oversea
This man would complain no matter how good the food was* he gets his self esteem by putting ppl down
"A man wants to come home and enjoy a home-cooked meal in his castle with his Queen"
This phrase doesn't quite work with the situation, if you know what I mean.
Cause they both aren't royalty and they don't live in a castle. And if they are a king and queen, theyd have cooks doing the cooking for them.
Well done Steve! Even though he is old school he made sure this guy needs to cook if he is going to criticize his wife’s cooking.
First of all all black women need to hear this because this is the reason why a lot of black women are single and you don't have no man make a plate of food and serve your husband what's the problem there's a reason why I'm not married to a black woman because all of you refuse to serve me food I pay all the bills iron protected my ex-girlfriend in the past from being attacked by a coyote and I snapped that coyotes neck she looked at me and said damn I wish you was by my side I told her sorry I'm married to a Japanese woman and she cooks you didn't get with the program stay being submissive and serve your husband food if you refuse Kevin Samuels rest in peace Godfather die alone black women
Cook that man a real home cooked meal. Greens, baked chicken, potato salad & corn bread.
You have to represent ladies.
PREACH Velicia!!!! The brutha said he has a full time job and she's sitting at home!!!!!!!!!! Steve should have got her right!!
Jamaican ox tail
She said she used too.... Then he would complain about it every time she would, so she stopped.... She would make an effort then it wasn't good enough..seems like he was being ungrateful....!!!
represent what? being a maid?
raquelucha22 she’s doing everything else besides cooking what’s the problem?
She smart in DJ Khaled voice. Lol
If my girl just got a subway sandwich. A giant smile runs across my face.
Damn so he has to work and cook for the family
Yes 😌
If he hadnt kept insulting her he wouldve had an amazing meal
she said she did cook but he had problems so WTF is she suppose to do now he never said she didnt work either these comments don't make any sense right now lol
Summer Tynes he said she fixes food. Meaning microwave or frying junk food. Any single man can do that.
She can't cook and doesn't work otherwise she wudve said so in her defense. She had no defense she's just a lazy unappreciatve selfish ass.
@Notre Aira
So what is she supposed to do? Sit on her lazy rear all day and leech off him?
Take money from, live in his house, eat from the food he brings home for what? Mutual sex?
You must be an idiot if you think that is all she has to do.
If she doesn't cook for him, then she better get her lazy rear outside and start looking for a job, if she doesn't want to be responsible then she shouldn't be in a relationship.
Women feel entitled and all this bs.
She didn't say that she works, she said that she "fixes" food and cook but not to his liking, if that's all she does then she better start learning how to cook to please him. Otherwise she is nothing but a parasite.
I dont know how they missed that part
@@jakeshore7803 where did anyone in the video say that she doesn't also work?
Thelondonbadger dude she said she knows how to cook and loved doing it but he kept criticizing her cooking so she stopped also she never mentioned if she worked or not she could be on parental leave and you are assuming she sits on her ass all day doing nothing.
SHE'S SO CUUUTE
He was in trouble when he got home the way she said everything was like ok we will talk abt this later
I’d just leave her 🤷♂️
If she don’t want to cook then she don’t have to SIMPLY !
So who's gonna cook for the kids then?
You go girl lol much love haha
“Can I phone a friend” LMFAOOOOOOO