Learning how to be good parents! [The Return of Superman/2020.05.17]

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    ▶The Return of Superman | 슈퍼맨이 돌아왔다 - Ep.329
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 729

  • @bexcomplete7996
    @bexcomplete7996 4 роки тому +3326

    But props to mom and dad for being humble in inviting this expert into their home and on television to call out what they were doing wrong. They acted very calm and patient. I was feeling defensive for them 😂 but it shows their humility and real love for jamjam that they want to become better parents for her. Role models.

    • @zh6474
      @zh6474 4 роки тому +192

      exactly. a lot of older parents nowadays won't even be able to set aside their pride so that they can learn better as a parent. i was feeling defensive for them too but the expert clearly knows their explanation even before they say it! 😄

    • @Beyondyouuu
      @Beyondyouuu 4 роки тому +36

      If something isn’t adding up and doesn’t making sense clearly you’re doing it wrong or not enough. Sometimes we have to listen, being taught to understand, and learn to not repeat mistakes. Just because we’re an adult doesn’t mean we’re right or knows better than experts who are educated in this field. It’s ok to get correct it is part of learning. What the parents did asking for help and learning from it was a great things. They will learn and even be a better parent than they are already.

  • @idontknowu934
    @idontknowu934 4 роки тому +2584

    The thing about jam is that she reads the situation and adapts and improves quickly...she also corrected her mistakes ..I was shocked because kids arent that smart ... And don't do that often ..they insist on getting their own way and sometimes don't eat for hours so parents give up

    • @ssss8619
      @ssss8619 4 роки тому +43

      Yah, I think she has a high EQ

    • @peeachesss
      @peeachesss 4 роки тому +108

      This is true, and from that first meeting with hao whenever her dad tells her that this is something that she shouldn’t do (pulling his hair, pulling him to her) she listens and applies it instantly. Her dad also uses different strategies to teach her things, which is a good thing in addition to consulting an expert.

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 4 роки тому +37

      Actually children are very smart. I guess you didn't get anything from the video but children are very smart. It's just that parents try to control them without thinking, while giving in to them at the same time.

    • @uaenaonce8231
      @uaenaonce8231 4 роки тому +23

      I was surprised to see her clean up after herself after understanding her parents wouldn't open it for her. Most kids her age I know would have started bawling and causing a tantrum and the parents would just give in.

    • @linangshuan7305
      @linangshuan7305 4 роки тому +10

      I was so chocked she put the video game back in the box, usually kids just leave it when it doesn't work.

  • @swan2122
    @swan2122 4 роки тому +6529

    I think both parents are too soft and scared to hurt jamjam feel if they say no to her, but it's nice to see them getting a help from the expert to correct it

    • @anonymoushue
      @anonymoushue 4 роки тому +461

      @Debora Egha I read a story from somewhere I couldn't remember where, a mom was with her kid at the supermarket. The kid wanted something but the mom didn't allow. So the kid was about to get on the floor and throw a tantrum but instead the mom threw a tantrum first and rolled about on the floor. The kid was embarrassed and never dared to throw a tantrum again. lol.

    • @ZenitsuKunn
      @ZenitsuKunn 4 роки тому +8

      @qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη lmaooo

    • @RosemaryTurner2002
      @RosemaryTurner2002 4 роки тому +8

      @@anonymoushue
      🤣💀

    • @carolinacollins7376
      @carolinacollins7376 4 роки тому +96

      @@anonymoushue This sounds hilarious and just about right! I once saw a video of a child who was wailing really loudly, yet when their father joined in, they immediately stopped crying and just stared at him. It's funny how when grown ups replicate their behaviour, they realise how disturbing it is.

    • @immapunchu5313
      @immapunchu5313 4 роки тому +71

      Maybe it's because they're young parents? Don't we younger generations always feel like our parents being overly strict that's why we promise to ourselves instead of being a dictator we want to be our children's friend. However a lot of people do not know where to draw the line.

  • @qeia5644
    @qeia5644 4 роки тому +518

    Being softspoken/gentle isn't same with spoiling. Her parents are gentle and always softspoken doesn't mean they are spoiling her. We can see the difference with how she assess the situation after being told not to do something. She was clearly thinking why she wasn't get what she wants and react accordingly after that. Spoiled kid would probably crying harder, slammed the toys, or even throwing tantrum. Her parents are already doing good job bringing her up and provide her full of love with how kind, sweet, and thoughtful she acted as we can see in her previous episodes.
    And i am a bit baffled about the honorific parts. Isn't is a good thing to teach kids how to speak politely? And polite doesn't equal authority. Parents can still be friends and close with their children even with polite speech. Even the best parents according to tros viewer, song il kook, were using honorifics when converse with his triplets.

    • @zh6474
      @zh6474 4 роки тому +60

      i think the difference is that with ilkook and the triplets, the triplets also speak in honorofic towards ilkook. while in jamjam's case, the expert probably find it concerning that it's just the parents talking to her in honorific so probably, it isn't working. idk, it's just my observation though.

    • @qeia5644
      @qeia5644 4 роки тому +27

      @@zh6474 actually, jamjam also speak in honorifics with her parents, sometimes mixed with casual speech same with her parents too when speak with her. But, of course, that's only what we viewers can see on screen. We don't know at what degree they communication status with each other.

    • @zh6474
      @zh6474 4 роки тому +77

      @@qeia5644 it's actually common for koreans to mix informal and formal speech. same goes for the expert. she was there for just a couple of hours so it's understandable that she would only comment on the things she observed during that specific time.
      i think the context here is important. in my opinion, the expert was solely focusing on the part wherein the parents need to be assertive in the context of let's say, making her eat or telling her that this or that is dangerous. the dropping of honorifics would then be to show authority, that their words should be listened to and followed, rather than having a begging or pleading tone which usually comes with using honorifics. not to mention, the voice the parents use isn't very assertive and almost always yielding, which the expert also pointed out.

    • @susiekim5728
      @susiekim5728 4 роки тому +3

      @@zh6474 I love your interpretation of the situation and I completely agree 👍

  • @haruuloh4615
    @haruuloh4615 4 роки тому +399

    Who will not love little angel.. her smile and her little dance move makes my heart jump😍

  • @criztalinz
    @criztalinz 4 роки тому +310

    Jam Jam is so smart.. and yes, she might rebels once in a while. She's a KID. that is normal. At some point, they WILL try to push the boundary a bit just to see how much they can get away with. That doesnt mean they are spoiled or a brat, it just means they are human. That is normal behavior as they are growing up and learning their ways in this world. Even adults do that in our every day life: e.g: when you are bargaining for deals, when you are negotiating business deals, when you bend the rules a bit at work~..
    What is more important is how she reacts when it is clear she won't be getting her way. Here we can see how quickly she adapted, bounced back, and make the best of the situation. Yes, she DID express that she was upset at first (this is normal!! same as when we complain if we have to stay for overtime at work)but she didn't throw any unnecessary temper tantrum.
    To those who complain her parents dote on her too much. There's a DIFFERENCE between spoiling your kid and LOVING them.
    Her parents are gentle with her. But that doesn't mean they let her do whatever she wants regardless if it was wrong or not.
    Last time when she was wasting tissues and littering everywhere because she was bored, her dad patiently explained to her why that was wrong and tried, again and again, to make sure she understands.
    I really admire Jam Jam parents for their gentle way of communicating with their child.
    While there is nothing wrong in getting an expert pov and advice - as ofc it's good to learn new things, imho Hee Jun and Soyul are already amazing parents.
    Children are little humans NOT little robots. You can't expect them to instantly know whats right and wrong, instantly obey everything you told them to do, be docile and polite and perfect angels 24/7. Are you yourselves like that even now when you are all grown up?

    • @simsan4743
      @simsan4743 4 роки тому +12

      I think that it's a good move that they asked for expert help. I also observed that the expert seemed to be in a hurry after she knew what was wrong with what the parents are doing. She is not spoiled yes and she receives a lot of attention but it could go wrong even if you say she is too young. The most important stage to discipline a person is when they are a child (at least that's what from what I've read). They learn a lot and what adults say that is right or wrong instills in their brain. I believe in the saying "teach your child in the way he should go, and when he's old he will not depart from it"(not the exact words maybe, but the thought is there).

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 4 роки тому +1

      thank you

    • @susiekim5728
      @susiekim5728 4 роки тому

      👍

  • @paudy1734
    @paudy1734 4 роки тому +50

    I really love Dr. Oh when it comes to parental advices or counselling. 💙
    Uwah I'm waiting for Hao and Gary to do this.

  • @crymealiver5078
    @crymealiver5078 4 роки тому +71

    I love how Song Ilkook is still being mentioned here. This is just my opinion but he really is the gold standard of parenting. There's just a perfect balance of discipline and affection. I mean, it's different for every parent because not all children are the same so as long as it works, do you, parents. 😁 Also I miss the triplets so much! T^T

    • @sweetlies8384
      @sweetlies8384 4 роки тому +1

      Same 😭

    • @crymealiver5078
      @crymealiver5078 4 роки тому

      @@sweetlies8384 They're all grown up nooow. ❤️❤️

    • @sweetlies8384
      @sweetlies8384 4 роки тому +1

      @@crymealiver5078 i know i regretted so much i watch them just this year 😭

    • @sweetlies8384
      @sweetlies8384 4 роки тому +1

      @@crymealiver5078 you're an exol 😍

    • @crymealiver5078
      @crymealiver5078 4 роки тому +1

      @@sweetlies8384 That's okay!! This is why Song Ilkook decided to do the show. He wanted to make memories with the boys and it's immortalized now through the show so it can reach everyone no matter how many years have passed. The triplets are still gaining popularity even after all these years and it makes me sooo happy. ❤️

  • @kokumamo
    @kokumamo 4 роки тому +9

    I’m learning a lot from this show because I have many younger cousins and it’s sort of hard to discipline them when I babysit them so this video tremendously helped me to know how I should treat them correctly. Kids always gets fussy and fake a cry when things don’t go their way and it’s our job as the caretaker to notice these behavior and react accordingly. I never want to raise my voice or pretend to be mad but sternly reminding them instead of scolding them is better so I’m definitely going to keep this in mind. Her parents are really great in trying to become better parents, impressive! 👏🏼

  • @nopekiwi
    @nopekiwi 4 роки тому +6

    oh wow this was a good episode!! ive noticed that they're very light hearted towards jamjam and i understand it's hard to scold your child when you love them so much. this will help the parents have more authority over her and furthermore help her develop a sense of "respect" for her parents and "fear" of getting scolded or hurt when she's doing something wrong!! kuddos to the parent's for showing this on live television!

  • @smallsneakers7000
    @smallsneakers7000 4 роки тому +21

    "Thank you for giving birth to me" that surprised me whoa, where did she learn to talk like that? Is that normal in South Korea? How beautiful that she knows gratitude and appreciation on that level at her age :o

    • @hellokittyac18
      @hellokittyac18 3 місяці тому

      I remember a TROS Episode where Seol-Su also said that

  • @baeseungmincutie6600
    @baeseungmincutie6600 4 роки тому +85

    Bruh I'm young... Don't have kids yet but I'm learning so much 😂😂😂. It looks so hard gosh. I can feel the torture for them

  • @vv-tp6ls
    @vv-tp6ls 4 роки тому +22

    this three family is so lovely and cute

  • @Shashi_pandey77
    @Shashi_pandey77 4 роки тому +6

    For the food thing my parents too did what the counselor adviced...I would sometimes cry and throw a tantrum but they didn't get angry ..even if I did it for hours they would just sit and fed me later silently !!😊😊😊...and kudos to these parents, it takes courage to actually show up what's done wrong and how they are corrected

  • @Tensi1126
    @Tensi1126 4 роки тому +25

    She is full of energy in that tiny little body .... super cute baby!

  • @shiloh8734
    @shiloh8734 4 роки тому +4

    Exactly. You can love your kids and praise them but when they’re being bad, you have to be firm with them. Sugarcoated words will only make them not take you seriously. I understand that you want to coddle them but you have to know when to be firm and when to be nice. Especially at that age, that’s when they’re learning right from wrong and whining to get what they want.

  • @user-re1qg8md2d
    @user-re1qg8md2d 2 роки тому +3

    I hope one day Jam Jam can be a kpop idol like her parents. But yes, it's her choice

  • @oliviacatherine6880
    @oliviacatherine6880 4 роки тому +1

    I work with kids and I’m studying to be a teacher. It’s really difficult not to like instantly comfort a child when they are crying because they were told to do something by a parent or a teacher. It is not easy to be the one in charge and not have the kids run all over you. But I think they really truly did an amazing job with the expert and not only did Jam Jam improve but her parents did as well! One of the reasons people love this show is because you can watch them grow as parents and as children!

  • @ammysoyoung1503
    @ammysoyoung1503 4 роки тому +15

    I need this expert woman in my life. Not to teach kids but my husband. 😆

  • @theresayu6762
    @theresayu6762 4 роки тому +8

    14:09 That hand gesture thou.. *WIFEY HELP* 😅😂

  • @aleeshya9335
    @aleeshya9335 2 роки тому +2

    jam jam as a kid, give up when no one is paying attention to her, me as a kid, no one paying attention to me? i'll play by myself then

  • @ivanesalvarez6295
    @ivanesalvarez6295 2 роки тому +1

    Jam jam looks like Kim da-mi her eyes

  • @zhumiee477
    @zhumiee477 4 роки тому +7

    im 20, im so focused about what Dr.oh say. I'm feel like being father who curious about teaching kids in the right way. lol

  • @osborne6363
    @osborne6363 4 роки тому

    I applaud and respect the parents for putting their learn process about child care on the internet. It is not easy to be so open about ones child "bad" behaviour.

  • @kalbongpatatas2723
    @kalbongpatatas2723 3 роки тому +1

    Jam Jam saying she wants to do what she wants, just keeps on reminding me about itzy's songs HAHAHA just me??

  • @nyurma_eden
    @nyurma_eden 6 місяців тому

    Jam jam is smart. Honestly smarter than many adults 😅

  • @keilani2694
    @keilani2694 2 роки тому +1

    She’s like the Korean version of super nanny

  • @asianislife_3449
    @asianislife_3449 3 роки тому +1

    seeing this makes me sad. A lot of parents will complain about their kids being ill-mannered and being bad but their at fault for not teaching their own kids well. It’s mostly Asian parents because I’m Asian myself and I’ve been a lot of cases. Parents think as they are are automatically parents they know everything and scared to admit their mistakes. Sigh parents and society in general have a long way to go.

  • @delhia1230
    @delhia1230 3 роки тому

    I was getting anxious cuz of Jam Jam’s cry but they did really well, I hope one day I’ll be a great mom like them

  • @haldanuriyyaazzara3913
    @haldanuriyyaazzara3913 4 роки тому +134

    Please invite Hyunjin of Stray Kids to meet with Jamjam :(

  • @Pnp45
    @Pnp45 3 роки тому

    Her mom is so beautiful 😭😭😭😭

  • @rachela.5357
    @rachela.5357 4 роки тому +1

    Jamjam: I'll do what I want.
    Me be like: 😯😯😯

  • @me_marnov1605
    @me_marnov1605 4 роки тому +6

    I think sam is the great one when around the kids

  • @tikitakata
    @tikitakata 4 роки тому

    I kind of noticed that that's how song il kook raised the triplets. He's always strict and even use the "10 seconds rule" so the kids understand discipline and learn how to stop when told.

  • @himejess4745
    @himejess4745 4 роки тому

    I admire this family. ❤❤❤❤

  • @emiwyisd3ad
    @emiwyisd3ad 4 роки тому +1

    10:52 he sounds like a totally different person lmaoo

  • @gqbfoster
    @gqbfoster 4 роки тому

    So loving beautiful Jam Jam. ❤️

  • @yueyuenuna935
    @yueyuenuna935 4 роки тому

    WE LOVE YOU JAMJAM♡

  • @yummiechox
    @yummiechox 3 роки тому

    This expert is so good 👁👁

  • @meghnil236
    @meghnil236 2 роки тому

    if parents have good relation within eachother nothing is difficult

  • @sakm2548
    @sakm2548 4 роки тому

    Smart counselor.

  • @SweetmeatsFan
    @SweetmeatsFan 4 роки тому

    I'm 26, I have no control, and I'm eating while watching this video

  • @kawaiiblossom3117
    @kawaiiblossom3117 4 роки тому

    I used the oven today I already know how to use the stove 👏👏👏

  • @cjperez8105
    @cjperez8105 2 роки тому

    I miss triplets that will eat anything given same with sarang/saram and very disciplined by their dads

  • @re8035
    @re8035 4 роки тому

    jamm jammm🥺❤️🥰

  • @bwest6275
    @bwest6275 4 роки тому

    I would like to see the Dr. visit Gary and analyze Haoh :)

  • @serene9239
    @serene9239 4 роки тому

    Raising a child well is so difficult :")

  • @zanenoval1280
    @zanenoval1280 4 роки тому +1

    I remember my Developmental Psychology class way back in college. ♥

  • @yangden1673
    @yangden1673 Рік тому

    lots to learn

  • @rochelleabrantes2100
    @rochelleabrantes2100 3 роки тому

    oh em geeee i learned so much

  • @yingwong5552
    @yingwong5552 4 роки тому +4

    Please invite Hyunjin from Stray Kids to meet jamjam pls😭

  • @_plasticlovers_26
    @_plasticlovers_26 4 роки тому

    Sam should invite Dr.Oh someday😂🤣

  • @anachang7957
    @anachang7957 4 роки тому

    mientras estaba viendo el vídeo me di cuenta que trato de la misma manera a mi sobrina, es como mi hija. Me pude dar cuenta que cometo los mismos errores :c sera mejor que me ponga a investigar para dejar de cometerlos.
    Amo esta pareja :3 me alegra que vemos crecer a su hija tanto como sus padres

  • @giovannaamber228
    @giovannaamber228 3 роки тому

    this episode is literally supernanny korea

  • @taniaruella7610
    @taniaruella7610 4 роки тому +1

    Me hearing a beauty inside ost 🥵

  • @syahirahalqadrie2252
    @syahirahalqadrie2252 4 роки тому

    This doctor is like Nanny McPhee

  • @SweetmeatsFan
    @SweetmeatsFan 4 роки тому

    Gosh, it must've been so stressful for the parents!

  • @thidinh7716
    @thidinh7716 4 роки тому +7

    6:17 was JamJam and Heejun actually swearing?

    • @Sy_kx
      @Sy_kx 3 роки тому +1

      Saying the game name

    • @Aaaa-vx2iv
      @Aaaa-vx2iv 3 роки тому

      nah, she said “i’ll do what I want” and the dad said “alright do whatever you want”, they beeped it out to show suspense on what was said that shocked the nanny. Turned out it was because Heejun easily gives JamJam what she wants, so she has too much permission and oversteps her boundaries on what she can and can’t have.

  • @nabulyazainab5881
    @nabulyazainab5881 4 роки тому +1

    For eating my mom feeds you even if yo a sleep. She used to feed my sister almost till 7 years

  • @norsoleha9648
    @norsoleha9648 4 роки тому

    So my mom raised me correctly lol hahahaha she always makes me stop crying myself and ignore me everytime i throw a tantrum. But my mom can't stand watching me eat myself, normally she feed me 🤣

  • @annazane5104
    @annazane5104 4 роки тому

    I am sorry but because they educate jam jam like this, my mind keep thinking about the dogs program. Well, usually we only see the interaction between the teacher and kid or parent and kid, but this involve all of them in one place.

  • @tingle2323
    @tingle2323 4 роки тому

    Future parents..😂this is a tip

  • @thunumonisaikia5879
    @thunumonisaikia5879 4 роки тому +1

    hi

  • @aaoo-b2h
    @aaoo-b2h 4 роки тому +1

    Korean super nanny

  • @lastdusk2848
    @lastdusk2848 4 роки тому

    Sarang's Dad did the same. Sarang wanted to watch TV but it was her meal time, Sunghoon? what was his name? He held her and put her on the chair to eat.
    One thing I notice about Jamjam is that she's spoiled. I've only watched her once or twice because actually it annoys me to see her whining everytime she wants something like when Haoh didn't think she's pretty, she started to whine or when it was the time for Haoh to go home, she whined to her dad knowing her dad would do everything. but to call a kid annoying is too much right? It's good they decided to fix this🤗 I hope the good parenting will lead pretty Jamjam to better days!

    • @tealotter5620
      @tealotter5620 4 роки тому +3

      I don't think the right word to describe her is 'spoiled' but rather 'self-centered' which is normal for kids that age. She's only 2 in this vid so she's having that terrible twos.
      And like what you said you only watched a few eps of her so I agree that calling her annoying is a bit too much. If you watch her other clips you'll ba amazed how independent she is when her parents are not around. She washes herself, plays by herself, she can even prepare food by herself and she's good at interacting with other kids.
      The only problem that I see is that she's affectionate that it gives her parents a hard time to say No.

  • @jilli806
    @jilli806 2 роки тому

    theyre too soft on jamjam making her spoiled unlike willben

  • @jasminecong
    @jasminecong 4 роки тому +4783

    Did anyone else get shocked and think Jam Jam and her dad were swearing when they bleeped out the words HAHA

  • @han7309
    @han7309 4 роки тому +3176

    i enjoy watching the return of superman for various reasons, and this is one of them. being able to see not only the child but the parent grow and learn makes me feel a sense of proudness. through this show, i'm also learning how to be able to be a good parent when the day comes.

    • @jme4567
      @jme4567 4 роки тому +19

      I agree with you, this show is all that and more.

    • @Brachyura
      @Brachyura 4 роки тому +3

      I just wanna comment this haha.

    • @khadijamuseyusuf
      @khadijamuseyusuf 4 роки тому

      @@jme4567 agree love the pic btw army forever

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 4 роки тому +1

      sorry but do you mind me asking who's in your pfp? 🤗

    • @han7309
      @han7309 4 роки тому +1

      @@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 he's hwang hyunjin from stray kids

  • @shirleyjones4041
    @shirleyjones4041 4 роки тому +4914

    The one thing I notice about her. She runs the parents specially the dad . He gives in too easily . So it's good they decided to bring that child expert in

    • @ttl02
      @ttl02 4 роки тому +178

      Shirley Jones I do agree. Her dad dotes her a lot

    • @_elfvip
      @_elfvip 4 роки тому +36

      @@ttl02 *dotes on her

    • @00WatName00
      @00WatName00 4 роки тому +295

      That's very true. But I think it's because she's the first and only child 😅

    • @예원-o6u3h
      @예원-o6u3h 4 роки тому +148

      Shay Bee and fathers tends to be soft towards daughters

    • @jeonjungkook6478
      @jeonjungkook6478 4 роки тому +9

      @@예원-o6u3h not all though

  • @aloevera3618
    @aloevera3618 4 роки тому +2804

    Dr. Oh :
    "She's more developed than kids her age"
    "She has great linguistic skills"
    "She's very good at expressing herself"
    "She understands fast"
    These are true, even in the earlier episodes i was amazed at how she can communicate clearly with everyone even when she wasn't yet fluent at talking. She also understand quickly when her parents told her to do or not to do something.
    And it made me smile as she tidy up her toy when her parents refused to turn on the toy. Many other kids would probably slam it down instead lol

    • @hafsasheikh3729
      @hafsasheikh3729 4 роки тому +53

      I think most kids who tidy up their stuff are taught by their parents. They usually dont start on their own and I love those type of parents who teach their kids basic manners from young age instead of thinking they will learn on their own once they grow up.

    • @ZenitsuKunn
      @ZenitsuKunn 2 роки тому

      @@hafsasheikh3729 yes

    • @ayssu3796
      @ayssu3796 2 роки тому +2

      I think constantly talking to them at a young age will result to this.

    • @ZenitsuKunn
      @ZenitsuKunn 2 роки тому

      @@ayssu3796 yes

  • @raianneespole2848
    @raianneespole2848 4 роки тому +3653

    I hope the same expert assess hao. I'm really curious how is he so advanced for his age

    • @zmaz9467
      @zmaz9467 4 роки тому +65

      Yeahhhhh..... Id love that too...i love him so much

    • @mrhandsss
      @mrhandsss 4 роки тому +59

      What does seeing the expert have to do with how advanced hao is? The expert dosent study how a kid is so advanced or things like that

    • @Angelica-tu5dh
      @Angelica-tu5dh 4 роки тому +12

      Hao too good and too cute 😂😂

    • @raianneespole2848
      @raianneespole2848 4 роки тому +137

      mr hands thats true but the expert is a child psychologist which means she can assess the external stimuli which led hao to be advanced in some way

    • @GG-ms4qp
      @GG-ms4qp 4 роки тому +14

      Hao is already eating by himself gary know how things work

  • @zh6474
    @zh6474 4 роки тому +977

    i know it's a show, but i really appreciate parents who really seek help in parenting. most parents (mostly from boomer gen) would just think they can do anything because they're the parent and the child is just their child. they have this mindset of "meh my parents did it to me so it's ok if i do it to my child too because i turned out ok" without even actually communicating to the child. it's like that in our household, and now all 4 of us siblings have strained relationships with both our parents.

    • @adylaar6708
      @adylaar6708 4 роки тому +28

      Yea, its like a hole in the society. Once in my country, a dad beaten his child (less than 10yo) until they bleeds. When the netizen bashed him, he said his dad did the same he just copy the same parenting he had. Which looking back at it, id say the dad had a sad and tough childhood.

    • @Cindy99765
      @Cindy99765 4 роки тому +6

      @@adylaar6708 that's terrible but I'm glad he learned.

    • @susiekim5728
      @susiekim5728 4 роки тому +5

      SO VERY TRUE! I'm so glad the generation after is learning that that is a horrible and childish approach. Why have a child or children for that matter if you're just going to repeat bad parenting skills just because you had to endure it to? How immature 🙄

    • @susiekim5728
      @susiekim5728 4 роки тому +3

      @@Cindy99765 He didn't learn.. he killed his child.

    • @susiekim5728
      @susiekim5728 4 роки тому +2

      @@adylaar6708 That is a father who blames his childhood and his father for an act he has committed and to which he knows it is wrong. Way to not own up to our actions. That is immaturity at best.

  • @TheSparkleina
    @TheSparkleina 4 роки тому +1309

    This woman is like the Korean super nanny

    • @user-os8cj5kx1k
      @user-os8cj5kx1k 4 роки тому +8

      TheSparkleina my thoughts exactly

    • @ilauliu
      @ilauliu 4 роки тому +6

      literally what i was thinking ahahah supernanny of koreaa

    • @dontknow1660
      @dontknow1660 4 роки тому +7

      Shes like nanny mcphee hahaha

    • @cherriedblossomed
      @cherriedblossomed 4 роки тому

      exactlyyyy

    • @daywin7335
      @daywin7335 4 роки тому

      Omg you remind me of my childhood, it's my fav tv programme

  • @kaniinsnow
    @kaniinsnow 4 роки тому +307

    I think actually JamJam can eat well by herself considering how she can use the spoon and chopsticks. I even remember we marvel at how deliciously she enjoyed her meals In the previous episodes 🤔 Maybe as HeeJun stated in the lasted episode, she’ve just become a little stubborn lately. However children aren’t robots so we can’t expect them all nice and obedient

  • @multifandomkpop7390
    @multifandomkpop7390 4 роки тому +647

    I suddenly remember the triplets. Ilkook and his wife must've a hard time raising them especially they're all boys but they did great. They don't have lot of toys in their house because their mom wanted them to use their body and play together instead and when they did something wrong ilkook always correct them by something like facing the wall (thinking chair), the 10 second rule, hugs and kisses after a fight and other stuff. Their way of raising them is so on point look how kind the triplets are.

    • @narcissamalfoy3166
      @narcissamalfoy3166 4 роки тому +34

      Think about donguk's children there were 5 with two sets of twins. Must have been harder that the triplets

    • @multifandomkpop7390
      @multifandomkpop7390 4 роки тому +33

      narcissa malfoy Oh yes! Dongguk too. But he's lucky enough that the twins are all girls and the first twin are old enough to know what's right from wrong and they even help taking care of their dongsaengs. But yeah, dongguk did a great job too!

    • @laxsneha
      @laxsneha 4 роки тому +40

      I absolutely started missing song illkook and his triplets because of how well he and his wife trained them by making sure they played with each other rather than play with toys and ate food only in the kitchen and washed their own dishes as they got older. They were my fav family to watch

    • @sweetlies8384
      @sweetlies8384 4 роки тому +15

      Triplets are my all time fave in TROS. i miss them 😭😭😭

    • @valerievergara850
      @valerievergara850 4 роки тому +4

      this comment made me miss the triplets 😭😭

  • @bijouruby1075
    @bijouruby1075 4 роки тому +348

    Am really glad they brought the child psychologist back seriously, i've learnt alot today on how to relate with children's tantrum. ( learning for the future) waowwwwww.....She also needs to visit the Hammington family, William is on the "leave the house mode" lately, we need to know what stage of puberty he's operating on. Hahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaahahhahhaha.....

  • @aylinkr3363
    @aylinkr3363 4 роки тому +888

    When jamjam becomes an idol I will be her fan.
    Edit: Thank you for the likes. I never had this much likes before thank you... ❤️

    • @sleepysnail5502
      @sleepysnail5502 4 роки тому +24

      Me too.. we'll run a fan club 👍

    • @bijouruby1075
      @bijouruby1075 4 роки тому +3

      @@sleepysnail5502 how old will you be by then? Hahhahahahhahahahhhhahaah

    • @ericaalvarado8592
      @ericaalvarado8592 4 роки тому +40

      @@bijouruby1075 We'll all be an Ajumma fan club. 😆 lol 👵🙌

    • @revinaque1342
      @revinaque1342 4 роки тому +29

      They'll have to put a special section for the elderly at her concerts for all the fans who've loved her since TROS 😂👵

    • @bijouruby1075
      @bijouruby1075 4 роки тому +1

      @@ericaalvarado8592 Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahaha.....

  • @megano6612
    @megano6612 4 роки тому +144

    It's nice to see an expert come in to help the parents. I've noticed in a few other episodes JamJam fake crying to get what she wants. Parenting is hard and there is no manual to teach you everything so having a expert there to guide you is so helpful.

    • @asharanijamdeen9997
      @asharanijamdeen9997 4 роки тому +14

      I have never seen the parents being strict to Jam Jam and were always cute, I have seen many parents like this in real life too, so this is a good reminder.

    • @laxsneha
      @laxsneha 4 роки тому +1

      Lol.. it also doesn't help because jam jam is such a cutie that want to give her anything she asks for

  • @imasunflower3557
    @imasunflower3557 4 роки тому +184

    Thank you Dr. Oh Eun Young! Salute to Heejun appa and Soyul eomma for being humble. It is not easy to have someone observing and giving critique to your parenting style.

  • @vv-tp6ls
    @vv-tp6ls 4 роки тому +451

    now its look like super nanny.

    • @zavrina4977
      @zavrina4977 4 роки тому +34

      but better

    • @bananacathammock
      @bananacathammock 4 роки тому +8

      OMG I remember that show

    • @aestaeticalyarmybich786
      @aestaeticalyarmybich786 4 роки тому +5

      Anna Lara the nanny in super nanny?? Her name is Jo Frost and this doctors name is Oh Eunyoung if u were asking about her

    • @hanjisung1534
      @hanjisung1534 4 роки тому

      but the kids are less bratty and annoying lol

    • @hellokittyac18
      @hellokittyac18 3 місяці тому

      I know right

  • @myboo4469
    @myboo4469 4 роки тому +172

    Imagine her parents must had a hard time choosing this life but seeing her is just worth it uwuuu imagine that this awaits so many kpop idols

  • @oragewoods5606
    @oragewoods5606 4 роки тому +70

    I'm so glad Dr. Oh showed up for this family. I think they really needed her guidance. I never wanted to say much about this, especially since I love Jam Jam so much, but since it's the focus of this segment I will. I noticed that Jam Jam's parents are very soft with her. Just last week with the whole trash fiasco, Heejun played games with her to coerce her into picking up her mess. He could have just said, "clean it up, now", and if she refused give her the appropriate consequences, but he seemed to be fearful of just laying down the law. Jam Jam isn't a baby anymore, or barely even a toddler, she's a growing child. She needs rules and guidance. I'm glad Dr. Oh told them to be direct and upfront with her, and not give her options and choices to do whatever she wants. I hope to see much greatness from this lovely family.

  • @milaniaantica486
    @milaniaantica486 4 роки тому +114

    While me: single for 19 years
    And watch: "how to be a good parents"
    Such an ironic :')

  • @nosaltjustranch8145
    @nosaltjustranch8145 4 роки тому +351

    the child expert is good at reading the kid’s behavior and jamjam is such a kind girl, she’s a quick learner too. anyway can jamjam meet hwang hyunjin from stray kids? they really look alike imo it would be a very fun episode both are drama queens 😂😂

  • @bbiranika
    @bbiranika 4 роки тому +372

    I hope she gets over with the fake crying. You will instantly know everytime she do it.

    • @galendezantonette5149
      @galendezantonette5149 4 роки тому +47

      When I was little even when I truly cried my parents said," Crying wont get you out of trouble/Crying won't make us say yes(if something didnt go the way I wanted it to)"

    • @erikas4062
      @erikas4062 4 роки тому +13

      @@galendezantonette5149 damn ur parents have a great manner 👏

    • @cindyrosebonete4154
      @cindyrosebonete4154 4 роки тому +2

      @@onsi789 same thing with my brother..

    • @Wenny_the_WM
      @Wenny_the_WM 3 роки тому +1

      @@galendezantonette5149 my parents will cane me if I do it...

    • @min-yw8es
      @min-yw8es 3 роки тому

      @@galendezantonette5149 i don’t think that’s right.

  • @justagentleman2651
    @justagentleman2651 4 роки тому +159

    When Dr. Oh stops smiling parents are dead inside 😂😂

  • @nashibaalamada8843
    @nashibaalamada8843 4 роки тому +249

    song ilkook and sam is a good parents too i like the way how they teach thier child in a good manners

    • @heystellar2421
      @heystellar2421 4 роки тому +12

      I strongly agree with youu! (Missing those days of triplets in TROS 🤗).

    • @chocohanna
      @chocohanna 4 роки тому +16

      the triplets' dad and the twins' dad are good parents. they both can be strict and be fun too

    • @hamisah1563
      @hamisah1563 4 роки тому +2

      Dongguk appa tooo

    • @19_a1_keisyaameliaartanti3
      @19_a1_keisyaameliaartanti3 4 роки тому

      johoo too!

    • @heybean9617
      @heybean9617 4 роки тому +3

      @@19_a1_keisyaameliaartanti3 park jooho more like clumsy and lovely dad

  • @chrisannjosue1615
    @chrisannjosue1615 4 роки тому +53

    I noticed that Song Il Kook was doing this with the triplets a long time ago, i think he already consulted a child psychologist knowing he'd be taking care of 3 children all at once. 😂😅

  • @simoneaw1372
    @simoneaw1372 4 роки тому +99

    This contrast is so interesting for me, in the same episode here is Jam Jam not having enough boundaries set for her by her parents and there's William complaining to Sam that he keeps telling the boys "Don't do this." (though I still think Sam gives Bentley a lot more leeway compared to William...)
    I understand most dad's treat their first child (especially daughters) like a precious gem and always give in to their whims... But kids really do need their parents to help them set a disciplined routine for their activities. Shower time, dinner time, play time, sleep time. At 2-3 years old they have to start learning boundaries and control as part of their social development.

    • @naildbyj7527
      @naildbyj7527 4 роки тому +1

      Did the Psychiatrist go to Sam’s house? What episode?

  • @fitriayunita3535
    @fitriayunita3535 4 роки тому +86

    Dr. Oh: "When they get hungry, let them feel hunger"
    Jam Jam: "I'm hungryyy!!!"
    What a perfect timing!

  • @zaranghae_
    @zaranghae_ 4 роки тому +37

    I remembered the days when the Song triplets climbing their high chairs waiting for their dad to serve them food and they eat on their own. Jamjam can do things on her own, just like that ep.on her first day at daycare. But because her parents let her do what she wants, like the doctor said, she gets fussy when she doesn't have it her way. Good training 👍

  • @junhuimoon7168
    @junhuimoon7168 2 роки тому +3

    oh my god i thought jamjam and heejun cursed when they censored what they were saying earlier in the video.

  • @sakshi3480
    @sakshi3480 2 роки тому +2

    This is the reason why aisan(china, korea, india, japan) kids are well behaved unlike western countries

  • @dydyruy9634
    @dydyruy9634 4 роки тому +97

    Jamjam is a good girl, she is polite and have a good education, she just need to know that she can’t have everything that she want.

  • @Hakuu_A19
    @Hakuu_A19 4 роки тому +90

    This was a really insight episode. I was not expecting to see this perspective 👍

  • @callmewhatever6542
    @callmewhatever6542 4 роки тому +35

    Tros is not only entertaining, but also educational 👍

  • @saadabakar7750
    @saadabakar7750 3 роки тому +10

    Me realizing this girl is quite smart for her age when she started to talk about feeding the dinosaur👁👄👁

  • @parhutahian
    @parhutahian 4 роки тому +58

    This makes me even more curious how Ollie (JOLLLY and Koreng Englishman) and his wife educate their daughter. she is smart and well manner too. She mentions ‘time out’ in one of the shows, so I guess her parents use ‘time out’ as a way of discipline for her.

    • @drunkoncaffeine9915
      @drunkoncaffeine9915 4 роки тому

      May I know where can I watch the family?

    • @delicate_lace
      @delicate_lace 4 роки тому

      @@drunkoncaffeine9915 Jolly on YT have videos with her. There's also Korean Englishman with a new series with her in.

  • @amira4088
    @amira4088 2 роки тому +2

    why does hee jun look so much like seungkwan

  • @user-os8cj5kx1k
    @user-os8cj5kx1k 4 роки тому +43

    She's like the super nanny .only supernanny deals more with childcare and discipline while this one is psychological behaviour..