Marriage Myths That Are Ruining Relationships (Rabbi Manis Friedman)
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- The myths of love and marriage, revealing why unconditional love can be dangerous and why many relationships fail. Rabbi Manis Friedman explains that true intimacy isn’t about love but deep commitment. Discover the real reason marriages succeed and how to build a strong, lasting relationship. If you're struggling with love, dating, or marriage, this conversation will change your perspective.
More from the Rabbi: / @manisfriedman
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I love this! 24:19 in. Rabbi Freeman is asking the tough questions of us without easy answers to make us tease it out. And he’s making the big points. I love this approach to understanding the world and yes, the struggle of finding the right words for concepts is part of it. Oh, Christopher Reeves is Superman.
As a non Jew, I get true value from this channel, I learn a lot, it’s like being an honorary Jew, I get to sit in a Jewish place of wisdom without the birthright.
but you are not an Ivrite
I think you can love unconditionally and still be disappointed when they do things you don't approve of.
I agree, I think a parent should love their child unconditionally and conditionally. Children make mistakes or purposely do things that parents don't appreciate but the reason the parent stays in pain is because they love - they care so much - it is an emotiona! Whichever way you want to define the word "love".
I think what you mean is you can continue to be committed and care even when you are disappointed and hate the behavior (see! People don't even want to use the word hate)
I have learned that when one finds Your Best friend.. that is a start to Choose to Love the your with.
Love starts with acceptance, and it is maintained by caring enough. You deserve love from where you are mostly acceptable by the nature of the functions and roles you represent.
Some people come up with an excuse to refuse to love, while some find reasons. The more reasons to accept and care, the better. The more meaningful those reasons are, the more sustainable.
Butterflies will follow meaningful relationships when you know your commitment and appreciation.
Things in marriage:
1. Belonging
2. Cooperating
3. Looking after each other
4. Acceptable roles | functions.
Thank you, this was very helpful and informative podcast.
Brilliant.
I liked your interviews and wanted to hear more of you Qs; so a longer show! Also, I'd like to hear an interview with him re the relationship between parents and adult children, FROM the parents' perspective. Children are children for much much longer, it seems, so many parents need his wisdom on managing a difficult parent:adult child relationship
'LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND'
The ahava in torah is not Love, is an action and not a feeling, is giving all your intention, with all your body and spirit and all your things, money and atention in the propose of work for Ha’Shem, like a vessel and Light. Love in english is a feeling, and feeling in love of Ha’Shem is not the same of working and been a vessel of Ha’Shem
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@@LuigiSHALOMDEYESHUA For most people LOVE is fish love - " I love fish"
So what is the correct translation if it doesn't say love, does it really say action?@@LuigiSHALOMDEYESHUA
Correct, and there are other parts that he says he loves his children, I will just have to look for it
Baruch Hashem. 🙏
If you're looking for love, why involve someone in your problem? Lol.. i totally agree
A lot of it seems to be how you define certain words. Really makes you think
Please Hashem, help me to find a man to marry and be my soulmate, like the man Rabbi speaks about cause I’m 65 and never ever met a man like this!
He is completely not in touch with what today’s generation kids need. And yes, they do need unconditional love. And through that unconditional love we bring about them following the Torah ways. And yes, Hashem loves us unconditional.
He had a pretty good point though. I think we’re all talking about the same thing but for him the term of conditional love is superseded by the term, “mother”or “father” and he has a point about Hashem being pretty mad at us with the golden calf.
You completely did not understand what he said
@@stephaniechandler3842what part did I miss?
After the golden calf God was going to smite everyone and start over with Moses’ kids but Moses intervened. That was not unconditional love. There was a condition. BUT whether He Loved or was Angry and Smiteful, He was/is still God.
If a child does something horrendous, should a mother still love him or her for it? She can be angry. She may need to take actions that have conditions. But she’s still the Mother.
Maybe it’s semantics.
One thing I don’t appreciate is your chutzpah. That I completely misunderstood means you completely understood. 😂😂 i don’t think so.
@chi-fredrich the rabi says Emet and True Torah, you say Met and Bad things in form of false love, that is why this generation is becoming crasy and divorse is so in high
@@LuigiSHALOMDEYESHUA hmmm. 🤔
Where do I say Met and Bad things? I’m recounting a story from the Torah. Is what I wrote not from the Torah?
If anything is driving us crazy it’s that we spend too much time on our phone commenting on people’s comments instead of talking to other human beings. You’re spending too much time in your head.
TODA RABA dear LIVING LECHAIM!!!
Hashem bless you all❤
How cool...you guys are always discussing different topics. Very cool! Congratulations!
You should do an episode on autism. I'd be happy to help
Please do one on autism
@@Emunaboy yes 100%
You can understand the him only if you have past this kind of experience.
And let me tell you that he is very correct. And it's right for all times.
I loved this conversation a lot, thank you for the open dialogue, so beautiful, taking notes over here actually, I loved the points about love being a fixation, love not about a person but the person, not things, but person, as a lot of time with God we don't come to love Him, but what He can offer, and we do misuse the word love and use it inconsistently. But the one thing respectfully I was questioning is about the soulmate aspect because the concept comes from Buddhism, as with Genesis 2:20 the word “comparable," there does mean opposite to, we do need a person who can't think, speak, be as us because then you are marrying a clone and not another, beautiful point, but about a spirit dividing to find it's reunion just doesn't sound right, even with the word soulmate not being a word in the Bible, that word being a modern, worldly word. But thank you, we are always learning from one another by God.
לאהוב רק את אלוהים. ואהבת את השם אלוהיכ בכל לבבכ. ציווי מפורש בתורה הקדושה. זכרו תורת משה עבדי
ומה תעשה במצוה של ואהבת לרעך כמוך, ואהבתם את הגר..וכן בפרקי אבות אוהב את הבריות, ובתלמוד אסור לינשית אישה עד שיראנה שמה ימצא בה דבר מגונה וכו'...
Happy evening to all there
Love is an emotion and can be many ideologies. It's not a viable
emotion to trust.
I think that love is just an expression for a feeling. I say stop using the word "love" is just a word. When a person truly feels something for another is commitment! When I got married, I realized that my husband didn't care for me because I didn't see any commitment from his part. Looking for someone to marry is when a person is ready for commitment. "Love" doesn't exist!
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Todah Rabbi from a thankful goy woman student. Todah to the man and woman hosts I am sorry I don't know your names
Mmmmm idk man... Doesn't sound like solid logic to me... People marry people who aren't their soulmates all the time. If God means for you to marry an abusive partner then they are clearly not your soulmate. It doesn't make any sense.
respect the Rabbi!
When there is unconditional love that brings disapointments but if there is no uncoditional love than who cares how the chiled acts also hashem loves us uncoditionaly so he recounts are sins and mitzvos
Why do we eat food, because you love it or because you need it? Why do we learn Torah, because you love it or because you need it? The same with marriage, it can “taste good”, but that’s not why we do it.
what are the different Hebrew words for ahava?
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Тот кто не любит себя не способен любить других и никогда не найдет любовь
Im on his wavelength, for the most part😅
God is love. God doesn't want anyone to perish but have everlasting life.
God so love you. Accept Jesus Christ as your personal Savior today. Amen
Leave idolatry and serve the one and only God, the god of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
Read the Tanach Without your Jesus lens and purposely mistranslated and altered passages.
How can I get true love fm Ghana
It seems then that men cannot get married to get respect. Marriage will not be a happy place for either without love and respect, but you will only get these if you marry the person, not what they can give you. Isn't this another way of saying that you must be whole in yourself before getting married?
When a woman knows that she could go to court at any time and instantly get all of her husband's money, and when a man learns of the existence of these laws, it is impossible for a marriage to survive.
Well, if there are two people to choose from, Then what do you do lol. Either two men that a lady can choose or two women that a guy can choose.
Well clearly you didn’t get it
@ ok
Sorry but this is not true. You do need other people to get love and you are supposed to love your spouse. So over these click bait radical ideas.
His ideas are not radical
You’ve moved into a tik tok world Go for it
I think you missed the point, you marry a person for the whole package of the human experience not just the fuzzy lovey feelings you sometimes get from being with them. Notice that you said “to GET love” why are you focused on getting? That’s why relationships are so short-lived, because a person feels once they stop getting they just move on to another person.
You’re right about getting love, but he brings strong logical points. And he studied this for years and has seen over thousands of different couples. And knows what works and is right! Watch his other amazing content, and try to hear what he’s saying.
He’s 100% right. Relationships and having children, have a purpose. What’s funny is, this has been well known for ages, and he’s just now learning this
@ I don't think he's just now learning this, he's studied it all his life.
Oh no! Not him! Bad news guys! Rosh Yeshivas warned against Manis Friedman! Please do your research before bringing people on your show.
Thank goodness people were given a mind and choice by G-d and we can listen and decide for ourselves
Rosh Yeshivos? Does your Rosh yeshiva know you go on the Internet is that approved?
Great job bringing hatred and trolling to a frum forum
No one says you have to accept another opinion, but your comment is not appropriate. think about it
We thought this was a kosher Channel! We thought wrong.
Sorry that it doesn't fit your "style" kosher...
@@DodWine Direct your sorrow to HaShem, the G-d of Israel, as the person you are giving a platform, has waged a war against Him!
@lesaheliorahavramsonkarapo4211 first off, thanks for "accusing" me of me giving him a platform...I dunno what makes you think that this is my platform, but whatever...
Second off, if you personally really believe that he's waging war against hashem, heaven forbid, then you scream out to hashem..I don't see anything in that manner...
@ Get his book entitled " I Didn't Ask To Be Born." It's all there.
Kosher is something to be fundamental, and not through feelings
it is superficial , unless it comes from our pure mind n conscience , deep in our heart n mind
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By listening to the end, here are good points you will hear facts from the elder. 🫡
👍🏼 Love is God.
👍🏼 Vibes generate vibes.
👍🏼 Desired students take everything in (no back chatting). 👍🏼