Mom allowed her husband to behave badly from the beginning and made all sorts of excuses for him. She treats her oldest son like he is her husband and gives him the responsibilities that she should have given to her husband. That is 100% wrong and is solely her fault. Her son is not allowed to be a teenager because she has given him the role of a caretaker for her and his siblings; the job of her husband. She has her husband lying in bed when he should be up helping her with the kids. He seems to drink every night and comes home drunk. Her excuse is that he has to go to company meetings because he is the head of her agency. She enables his behavior. I really want the oldest to go far away to college and let Mom deal with the mess that she helped to create. She wanted those children, so she and the man she chose to marry should look after them. If the son stays close by, he is going to have a hard time finding a wife. No woman will want a mother-in-law who is so dependent on their child for everything. It will be too burdensome. Plus, the young man seems to be brainwashed into believing that he has no choice but to take care of Mom and his siblings instead of Dad doing it.
@@JL-jm7why should he when he has a wife who enables him in his laziness? When she wants something done she calls her 17 year old son instead of her husband. She has to change her behavior or he won’t change his. I hope the son moves to another country.
@@marymoscinski4946lol its like ur saying since she doesnt call for her husband its solely her fault? u dont even fully know this family, she might have tried already and he just doesnt help. THE WIFE SHOULDNT HAVE TO CALL FOR HER OWN HUSBAND. ITS THE HUSBAND WHO SHOULD BE HAVING HIS OWN INITIATIVE TO HELP HER. While I do get and understand that she is too reliant on her eldest son which should change cuz he’s still only her son, you can’t blame her for that when her good for nothing lazy husband doesnt do shit even when she tells him things to do. Thankfully the eldest son is kind enough to help, however the husband shouldve been the one to do it. Its so wrong to put all the blame on her. She’s a pushover I tell you that, but don’t act like its her entire fault. The fault is more on her own husband
@ I will say it again. It’s her fault. She married a lazy man. Then she decided to have multiple children with him. Yes, she said she wanted to have all those children. If he didn’t help with the first and the second ones, she surely knew by then that he was not going to help with the subsequent children. Also, the oldest didn’t have a choice. She made him responsible for her and his siblings. She let the husband come in drunk nightly, sleep in and then have the oldest son running around like her husband. That’s on her. It’s her husband. If she needs help and she doesn’t want her husband to assist her, then she should hire a nanny and housekeeper and let her poor son live a teenager’s life. The husband does nothing because she allows him to do nothing. He may have been raised in a family where the male child is not allowed to do household chores or childcare. That is possible. Regardless, she married him, so she needs to stop treating her son like he is her husband and the father of her other children.
Dad is literally the defination of "man child" not helping his wife. Even tho he work's she does too. Even mom need to stop excusing his lazy ass. It so frustrating even tho she is sick she has to do all thing by herself while her husband seat around like a king and she works like a servants. She need to treat her eldest like a child not like soms helper. This thing I'm most scared of being a "single mom" in a marriage. And they all need to stop saying "fifth child" he is her husband and he has to STEP UP NOW!!!!
@@sariadrich9717 don’t feel bad for her. She did this. Feel bad for the son. The poor child was brainwashed by mom into believing that it’s his responsibility to take care of her and his other siblings. She doesn’t let her husband do anything; just the son. She is only fake complaining on the show.
@@JoyceLynn-je7ny his wife allows him to be this way. She never required him to actively participate in parenting. She gave that job to her 17 year old son. She essentially robbed her son of his childhood and turned him into her husband. Her husband gets to drink and sleep in.
everyday the father fails to defend himself i actually hate him thats insane like she got sick and still the dude doesnt know how to take care of the children
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I really don't like the dad's attitude, I feel bad for the mom
@@ezraloraine4993 don’t feel sorry for her. She is the one who started this mess. She turned her son into her husband and her husband into her child.
Mom allowed her husband to behave badly from the beginning and made all sorts of excuses for him. She treats her oldest son like he is her husband and gives him the responsibilities that she should have given to her husband. That is 100% wrong and is solely her fault. Her son is not allowed to be a teenager because she has given him the role of a caretaker for her and his siblings; the job of her husband. She has her husband lying in bed when he should be up helping her with the kids. He seems to drink every night and comes home drunk. Her excuse is that he has to go to company meetings because he is the head of her agency. She enables his behavior. I really want the oldest to go far away to college and let Mom deal with the mess that she helped to create. She wanted those children, so she and the man she chose to marry should look after them. If the son stays close by, he is going to have a hard time finding a wife. No woman will want a mother-in-law who is so dependent on their child for everything. It will be too burdensome. Plus, the young man seems to be brainwashed into believing that he has no choice but to take care of Mom and his siblings instead of Dad doing it.
I agree with you a 100 percent.
The husband should really step up instead of being a lazy bum
@@JL-jm7why should he when he has a wife who enables him in his laziness? When she wants something done she calls her 17 year old son instead of her husband. She has to change her behavior or he won’t change his. I hope the son moves to another country.
@@marymoscinski4946lol its like ur saying since she doesnt call for her husband its solely her fault? u dont even fully know this family, she might have tried already and he just doesnt help. THE WIFE SHOULDNT HAVE TO CALL FOR HER OWN HUSBAND. ITS THE HUSBAND WHO SHOULD BE HAVING HIS OWN INITIATIVE TO HELP HER. While I do get and understand that she is too reliant on her eldest son which should change cuz he’s still only her son, you can’t blame her for that when her good for nothing lazy husband doesnt do shit even when she tells him things to do. Thankfully the eldest son is kind enough to help, however the husband shouldve been the one to do it. Its so wrong to put all the blame on her. She’s a pushover I tell you that, but don’t act like its her entire fault. The fault is more on her own husband
@ I will say it again. It’s her fault. She married a lazy man. Then she decided to have multiple children with him. Yes, she said she wanted to have all those children. If he didn’t help with the first and the second ones, she surely knew by then that he was not going to help with the subsequent children. Also, the oldest didn’t have a choice. She made him responsible for her and his siblings. She let the husband come in drunk nightly, sleep in and then have the oldest son running around like her husband. That’s on her. It’s her husband. If she needs help and she doesn’t want her husband to assist her, then she should hire a nanny and housekeeper and let her poor son live a teenager’s life. The husband does nothing because she allows him to do nothing. He may have been raised in a family where the male child is not allowed to do household chores or childcare. That is possible. Regardless, she married him, so she needs to stop treating her son like he is her husband and the father of her other children.
Dad is literally the defination of "man child" not helping his wife. Even tho he work's she does too. Even mom need to stop excusing his lazy ass. It so frustrating even tho she is sick she has to do all thing by herself while her husband seat around like a king and she works like a servants.
She need to treat her eldest like a child not like soms helper.
This thing I'm most scared of being a "single mom" in a marriage. And they all need to stop saying "fifth child" he is her husband and he has to STEP UP NOW!!!!
Where is your husband...?? How come is your child who accompanies you when you have to meet your doctor?I feel bad for you..
@@sariadrich9717 don’t feel bad for her. She did this. Feel bad for the son. The poor child was brainwashed by mom into believing that it’s his responsibility to take care of her and his other siblings. She doesn’t let her husband do anything; just the son. She is only fake complaining on the show.
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Such an irresponsible man.
@@JoyceLynn-je7ny his wife allows him to be this way. She never required him to actively participate in parenting. She gave that job to her 17 year old son. She essentially robbed her son of his childhood and turned him into her husband. Her husband gets to drink and sleep in.
everyday the father fails to defend himself i actually hate him thats insane like she got sick and still the dude doesnt know how to take care of the children
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I really don't understand father habit