My friend (a ww) married a musician (wm) before COVID. She was the breadwinner. He lost his gigs because of COVID. Post-COVID, he stopped playing altogether. He essentially was a house husband: brought her coffee in the morning, cooked all meals, and cleaned. He *still* started to act out and became chronically depressed. They are now separated. My theory: real men want to stand in their masculine and have the bragging rights of protecting & providing. It’s biological. So when they reversed those roles, it wasn’t sustainable for them.
Biology when they want a men to provide and protect but when men talk about women being more attractive and fertile before 30, when men say we like fit women because men biologically are more visual... no Biology is men misogyny
Lol you got me laughing about them velvet hangers, I’m guilty. But all that other stuff is optional. Y’all live on that level but most of us are NOT going to decant our spices and pantry into expensive plastic containers 😂 but for a wealthy stay at home mom that’s awesome! I don’t understand why men want to make parody of women when they really ARE living soft lives… can’t fix or build nothing, complaining about working a desk job 9-5, don’t want to financially support the kids they made, emotionally unstable, bisexual… etc. But then they want submissive, well kept, home making provider wives🤷🏽♀️
Mr. Gaskins I am so thankful for your ministry. That is how I refer to your channel. I was especially moved by your statement about credit and bills. Being a good steward of my finances is important; however,I cannot make it a god. Stay Blessed!
What the young men don’t realize is that dressing, acting, and talking ‘hood’ just makes it easier for the powers that be to profile them. Further, sponsors will put them in the ‘not marketable’ category of talent to not sponsor. Why? Because you’re not projecting an image that the powers that be want to broadcast globally, a la Steph Curry and LeBron James. 🤷🏾♀️
@@marya3823oh that’s terrible so basically they’re saying their site is for those seeking some hanky panky lol in other words they’re promoting themselves as a sex site which honestly is why I would never recommend women be so desperate to do dating sites because most men are not on there looking for anything serious it’s just easier access.
I saw that! It’s so disturbing for company to pressure women into have s*x. and the men will go on w/ the expectation of getting some based off those adds. It’s wild.
OH! I almost forgot I bought your book "WHAT DADDY NEVER TOLD HIS LITTLE GIRL" And my 8yr granddaughter is coming over to vist for A couple days so i plan to read and share some points with her. I also have A women's influence on Audio..both are amazing!🎉❤
My daughter has the same issue with Amazon. Of course she is almost 43 with no children but she calls me and tell me she has 300 items in her basket. She has so many things that she could open her a store and her husband gets maybe 1 thing. Of course she gets me things too. You hit the nail on the head with the Amazon!!
That one leg up to about mid calf and one down was a 90s early 2000s style the guys used to wear with the windbreaker track suits. That young fella must have a daddy or uncle in his 40s or early 50s. He probably was watching Above the Rim or Belly
True Tony I just got a brand new 2023 Buick with a 490 credit score! Won’t he do it! I finagle bills sometimes too. I just understand I have to sacrifice to catch it up.
Tony you gotta forgive me cause I, for sure, have told that man off once before. But I didn’t curse though, so that’s a plus. I’ve learned to ignore the soft guy era mutants
Why I’m Single. Reason 397: I had a guy I WAZ talking to just tell me he likes to get GM texts....Sir, we have known each other a week! If I'm chasing you, it's full out 4 blocked bare footed, cause you have absolutely messed up & I'm ON U cause ain't NO way …NO way in this world 😡 what grown women out here sending those!! 🛑Stop it🛑
Brooo! These woman in your comment section is ruthless. When you said to imagine what you got to deal with! I felt that. I don't envy you TG. God bless you, may you continue to spread forth good messages.
So soft guy era is literally making a mockery of what they’re supposed to do?😂😂 yea sounds backwards and as a real man why wouldn’t you want to take care of your woman you wouldn’t really feel like a man if you couldn’t provide for her like your supposed to
Your videos are such a blessing. So much so, my guy friend now follows you and has enrolled in some of your classes. I come to your videos to gain knowledge, accountability, hear authentic and real talk, and laugh good hard belly laughs. Your wisdom comes from God-straight up! God bless you. 🙏🏽
I made it watching this video yesterday lol but it just made me think of the “meme” going around of a picture collage showing a few women on their knee proposing to a man. That to me, is one of the many definitions of a soft guy era…They want to be “chased” now. I hope you talk about KC Chiefs kicker Butker’s commencement speech about women lol. Thank you so much as always, Tony Gaskins! Your messages always resonate with me & I hope more people hear you too! 🙏🏽
I Know what containers you talking about and they DO MAKE THE HOUSE LOOK GOOD!!! 😂 … She’s just expanding her ability to add to the household but I definitely understand that everything is not mandatory lol. God bless yall! 🙏🏾
Hi Tony!! You've got to talk about this sports analyst, Joy Taylor stating that all women want is for their man to be "Fine, Funny & have Fu&ing Money." Please address this topic. Joy also has a podcast called, Two Personal with sports analyst Taylor Rooks. These women continue to put some wild narratives out there. HELP!! IMMEDIATELY!!
My friend (a ww) married a musician (wm) before COVID. She was the breadwinner.
He lost his gigs because of COVID. Post-COVID, he stopped playing altogether.
He essentially was a house husband: brought her coffee in the morning, cooked all meals, and cleaned. He *still* started to act out and became chronically depressed. They are now separated.
My theory: real men want to stand in their masculine and have the bragging rights of protecting & providing. It’s biological. So when they reversed those roles, it wasn’t sustainable for them.
And I guy I was just talking to said he wanted to be a house husband. We haven’t talked since than
Amen. A man needs a job.
@@LadyAngela678 at MINIMUM!
Agreed.
Biology when they want a men to provide and protect but when men talk about women being more attractive and fertile before 30, when men say we like fit women because men biologically are more visual... no Biology is men misogyny
Lol you got me laughing about them velvet hangers, I’m guilty. But all that other stuff is optional. Y’all live on that level but most of us are NOT going to decant our spices and pantry into expensive plastic containers 😂 but for a wealthy stay at home mom that’s awesome! I don’t understand why men want to make parody of women when they really ARE living soft lives… can’t fix or build nothing, complaining about working a desk job 9-5, don’t want to financially support the kids they made, emotionally unstable, bisexual… etc. But then they want submissive, well kept, home making provider wives🤷🏽♀️
Ikr! The math ain't mathing. 😂
I made it thru the end while cooking lunch. Thank you Tony! Passing some clips of this video to my sister in-law who has a teenage son.
Mr. Gaskins I am so thankful for your ministry. That is how I refer to your channel. I was especially moved by your statement about credit and bills. Being a good steward of my finances is important; however,I cannot make it a god. Stay Blessed!
“One lil thing that she got for me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Drizzle drizzle 😭😭😭😭
Uncle Tony I told you about this the soft guy era 😭😭😭😂🤣😂🤣
The parody videos are hilarious 😂🤣😂🤣😂😂😭😭😂😭😂
This was really good, and I can relate. Thanks for the good laughs😂😂😂
What the young men don’t realize is that dressing, acting, and talking ‘hood’ just makes it easier for the powers that be to profile them. Further, sponsors will put them in the ‘not marketable’ category of talent to not sponsor. Why? Because you’re not projecting an image that the powers that be want to broadcast globally, a la Steph Curry and LeBron James. 🤷🏾♀️
I wonder if Tony Gaskins saw the Bumble App controversy
What is it?
@@j-tenn226 the billboard coercing women to end their vow of celibacy and bust it open for men on the dating sites
@@j-tenn226The bumble billboard ad. Telling women “ you know a vow of celibacy is not the answer” .
@@marya3823oh that’s terrible so basically they’re saying their site is for those seeking some hanky panky lol in other words they’re promoting themselves as a sex site which honestly is why I would never recommend women be so desperate to do dating sites because most men are not on there looking for anything serious it’s just easier access.
I saw that! It’s so disturbing for company to pressure women into have s*x. and the men will go on w/ the expectation of getting some based off those adds. It’s wild.
Fasting has slimmed you down T👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It’s me googling the pronunciation of Sword 😂😂
Talk about it!
In addition to the soft guy era, there's a dating app that is gaslighting women into fornication. 😮
WHATS THE NAME OF THA APP PLZ??
Bumble?
Speak on it T! 👏🏼💯
I made it! I’m working on a business plan, but to your point, I think I’m spending more time on formalities than real productivity.
Those glasses look nice on you 😎
THE DIFFERENT STYLE COLORS OF LOUIE IS CUTE THO IJS❤❤❤❤❤
Made it. How you funny and don't know you funny with sending wisdom and knowledge thanks man😂😂😂
Not the one pants leg up🤣
OH! I almost forgot
I bought your book "WHAT DADDY NEVER TOLD HIS LITTLE GIRL"
And my 8yr granddaughter is coming over to vist for A couple days so i plan to read and share some points with her.
I also have A women's influence on Audio..both are amazing!🎉❤
I made it. Thank you for posting at a decent time for people overseas!
I was saying sWord too Tony 🤣 So your son just taught me something 😭😭 I thought I was being proper by putting the “W” in there lol
Tony, can you talk about how to protect your business plan/idea?
My daughter has the same issue with Amazon. Of course she is almost 43 with no children but she calls me and tell me she has 300 items in her basket. She has so many things that she could open her a store and her husband gets maybe 1 thing. Of course she gets me things too. You hit the nail on the head with the Amazon!!
I made it! Thanks Tony for sharing your wealth of wisdom
Really appreciate your videos. My goal is to take some of your coaching courses - I made it 🙌🏾
Your wife has good taste and keeping the decorem up. Its all needed
That one leg up to about mid calf and one down was a 90s early 2000s style the guys used to wear with the windbreaker track suits. That young fella must have a daddy or uncle in his 40s or early 50s. He probably was watching Above the Rim or Belly
Teach Mr Gaskins ❗ ❗ ❗ Hard guy era 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿💎💎💎👑👑👑🎯🎯🎯Boom 💥💥💥
I made it!
Great lessons, especially the teenager segment. Had the same talk just this week with my 13-year-old
There’s always some truth to a joke. I think although this is a joke to mimic some women it’s important to continue educating your sons and daughters
Listening..
Silent subscriber but dropping in to say I made it
It’s ok, ppl bringing the late 90’s back 😅
They wanna be chased soo bad!
True Tony I just got a brand new 2023 Buick with a 490 credit score! Won’t he do it!
I finagle bills sometimes too. I just understand I have to sacrifice to catch it up.
I made it🤗!! Definitely enjoy watching long videos. Especially when I’m being productive and just want to learn!
I made it! Enjoyed as always Tony! Have a blessed weekend.
Tony you gotta forgive me cause I, for sure, have told that man off once before. But I didn’t curse though, so that’s a plus. I’ve learned to ignore the soft guy era mutants
I made it to the end Tony Thanks for letting the lord use you to get messages out to his people!
Hahaha! I’ve got pink velvet hangers 😅
12:17 Tony!!!! Who told you about me and my ex!!! Oml 😢
Those shirts are fire!
No Tony most of us knew better. It was just a way of shortening words, like pigeon English or patois
I made it to the 55:17 mark.. dropped lots of gems, as always.
Nice shirt…respectfully!
He said hobosexual 😂😂😂😂
The glasses look nice on you
I made it!🙏🏿
Now so made it to Chik-fil-a.
We all go through the Amazon prime fase I hope it ends cuz it’s draining
Made it!!! This was spot on 50:45-53:59
Made it. Enjoyed. As always good chat 💛
I made it! Whew 😪
Social media is the downfall of this generation.🙄🤦🏽♀️
One of the most dangerous things is that so many people are in people ears yet they’re not wise. Tony is definitely doing God’s work.
Your son is blessed to have your guidance. He might not see it now, but it will pay off in the long run.
Tony talking about "what in the rerl?" 😂😂
😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I be saying it now too
😂
😂😂
Tony you look so studious!
A wanted to say the same thing 😏
Raising a son in this era is whew!
Chile raising any child now is stressful. Thank God for Jesus or I wouldn’t be able to do it🤦🏽♀️🙌🏾
“If u do it again your mama running your page!” 😂 Now that’s a threat! ❤️ just lovely ❤
Amazon got us in a chokehold 😂 we all out here getting influenced. 😂
As he was naming all the things. I was like yep sounds about right 😂
Tony Gaskins is hilarious🤣 “oh you all over the place! Shut up stay out the comments🤣🤣
I think these guys are dead serious talking about they want a soft life.
I don't know why he thinks they're joking. They aren't
Tony, if you hear the guys say "drizzle drizzle," they are part of the soft guy era, too 😂
what is drizzle drizzle?
absolutely 💯
Just the thought of a soft guy era makes me itch 😂
Amazon will send you down the rabbit hole and starts putting everything in your cart! 😂
Why I’m Single.
Reason 397: I had a guy I WAZ talking to just tell me he likes to get GM texts....Sir, we have known each other a week! If I'm chasing you, it's full out 4 blocked bare footed, cause you have absolutely messed up & I'm ON U cause ain't NO way …NO way in this world 😡 what grown women out here sending those!!
🛑Stop it🛑
Soft guy life sounds like gay guy life 😂
The fasting has your skin glowing 😂 Go Tony !
I thought I was the only one who noticed. I’m gonna have to do a fast of my own now, he’s looking very healthy!
Ooooh the fast no doubt no doubt, i thought his skincare routine was out here immaculate!
Yep! His skin is brighter and glowing. This food got folks out here looking crazy! Fasting is the key to looking good and living long
Brooo! These woman in your comment section is ruthless. When you said to imagine what you got to deal with! I felt that. I don't envy you TG. God bless you, may you continue to spread forth good messages.
The skin is giving !
The HARD GUY ERA!!! 🥹🙌🏽🫶🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥹💖💖💖
That SHIRT is so nice! 👍 👕
“He just pulled the one leg up!” 😂😂😂😅
Hurt me!!! I was cracking up at work!!! 😂
Hey Tony. Just finished the "Entrepreneurship with Purpose" course. Got my certificate. Great course 👍🏾.
Oh, "I made it"
So soft guy era is literally making a mockery of what they’re supposed to do?😂😂 yea sounds backwards and as a real man why wouldn’t you want to take care of your woman you wouldn’t really feel like a man if you couldn’t provide for her like your supposed to
I can relate.😆 I just completed an Amazon order that some would deem unnecessary, & I’m headed to Target.😌🛍️😎
Also, I made it.☺️
Listening to your video but I gotta go ahead and say it: That’s a bad shirt you got on right there! Super sharp. Ok back to listening. Soft guy Era…?
🤣 THROWBACK THURSDAY to the 90s one leg up windbreakers! 😂
😂😂
All that's missing is the 1 overall strap unhooked 😂
😂😂😂
LL cool j 😂
@@mmxw2294 exactly 🎯
You hit it on the nail zesty!
TG 😂😂😂you always got me laughing talking about your sister bd was reselling shoes..respect to you cause it’s definitely 💯
That’s your wife’s happy place. She sounds like me😂. I love organizing and making things pretty. If I had not a care I would be spending too! 😂
Tony the glasses look suits you!
Fashion just comes back around back in style like dances that are called different names RIGHT?
Hour long videos are the best! Stimulating conversations
i agree real men aint wearing it or even using that term
Brother Tony,
I appreciate that you share your experiences and ideas of you loving your wife. 💛
Your videos are such a blessing. So much so, my guy friend now follows you and has enrolled in some of your classes. I come to your videos to gain knowledge, accountability, hear authentic and real talk, and laugh good hard belly laughs. Your wisdom comes from God-straight up! God bless you. 🙏🏽
Yes to the hard belly laughs 😂
I made it! Lots of micro lessons that are needed for me. God bless us all and thank you Tony!
“Get outta here! We know you!” 🤣🤣🤣
Good afternoon everyone
Good Afternoon
It’s TikTok and social media why we order all that stuff on Amazon lol. 😂😂😂😂
I made it watching this video yesterday lol but it just made me think of the “meme” going around of a picture collage showing a few women on their knee proposing to a man. That to me, is one of the many definitions of a soft guy era…They want to be “chased” now.
I hope you talk about KC Chiefs kicker Butker’s commencement speech about women lol.
Thank you so much as always, Tony Gaskins! Your messages always resonate with me & I hope more people hear you too! 🙏🏽
And apparently it’s rumored he’s slept with men in college. His mom has always worked lol
I Know what containers you talking about and they DO MAKE THE HOUSE LOOK GOOD!!! 😂 … She’s just expanding her ability to add to the household but I definitely understand that everything is not mandatory lol. God bless yall! 🙏🏾
i'm loving your glasses tony! those are sharp!!
😂😂Tony be people watching all the time. I am always a sitting and trying to imagine what he is talking about and looking at. 😂😂😂
I was worried when I saw the title 😂❤ I love your posts thank you, love just hearing your perspectives❤
I made it!! Appreciate your lessons and humorous delivery as always🙏🏽😂
Yeah the enemy loves using fear. Fear is what holds a lot of people back.
I made it
O yeah…yo wife be on them organizing tik tok/facebook videos. I like her cuz I want my crib to look like them vids too.
Hi Tony!! You've got to talk about this sports analyst, Joy Taylor stating that all women want is for their man to be "Fine, Funny & have Fu&ing Money." Please address this topic. Joy also has a podcast called, Two Personal with sports analyst Taylor Rooks. These women continue to put some wild narratives out there. HELP!! IMMEDIATELY!!