i go by she/they pronouns and sometimes i’m just like “what if i’m trans? like i might be a man” but then i’m like “nah i’m not.” but then like a day later i’m like “i might be” and it’s a never ending cycle lmaoo edit: 6 months later and i’m pretty sure i’m genderfluid
Someone said trans people couldn't be feminine to me. It's rude because it makes me feel so invalidated. I like being feminine but I really want my pronouns to be valid. As a trans male with he/him pronouns, people say I need to be masculine and I can't wear a skirt even if I really want to. :(
Well they need to respectfully fuck off. its your life, not theirs. You are not hurting anybody for wearing more feminine clothes. You are very valid. I hope you have a wonderful day.
I know im seeing this comment 4 months later but im so sorry that happened. You are valid and if you still know that person's username tell me and i will block them :)))
I am a trans male and feminine too. The same with my trans brother. Trust me, there's many trans males who are feminine and likes feminine stuff. You are not alone! More than a handful of trans males have admitted they express their feminity openly whenever they feel confident about being themselves. While there are a lot of trans males and cisgender males whom are entirely masculine. There's a lot of males whom are very feminine or express some feminity. Being feminine n-e-v-e-r excludes you from being a valid male, no matter what other people thinks or says otherwise. Remember to remind yourself of that.
I'm still doubting if i'm a trans boy because sometimes i'm bigender and also sometimes i'm agender, so I’m assuming that i might be a genderfluid too.
I came out to my sister and parents as trans. My sister seemed happy for me, my parents spoke to me about it, and thought it was fine. They just wanted to make sure that I waited until I was older to make big changes which makes sense.
Lucky, I know I like guys but most of the time I have a crush, it's on a girl. I had thoughts of being a guy since I was 9, but I never really payed attention to it and when I was 14 which I still am, I figured it out but I force myself to be straight and try to ignore my gender dysphoria because it's against my religion (Christian) and even thought our pastor said we should love the LGBTQ, its still a sin to them. The last time when my cousin came out, she was immediately disowned for being gay and im scared that the same will happen to me because I don't want my family to hate me, and I don't want to go to hell. Tbh it's torturing me to keep it hidden, because the longer I hide it, the worse it gets and im baptized already
I want a flat chest so bad. I am gifted if I wanted to be a woman but I do not so I'm very unlucky in terms of being able to bind and look natural and just wish I could yeet my chest off a cliff or donate to someone who would appreciate it
Correction: "Other trans guys : looking so fine that you can't tell the difference between them and cis men Me: Also looking fine af because everyone is beautiful in their own way" Fixed your comment.
Okay lil venting story so be prepared for a whole ride; So I came out to my mom and dad as trans. My dad is tryna process and my mom just completely denies it. She's saying how I didnt grow up boyish. The haunting words of "You were so girly, there's no way" "It's all manipulative. You read to many things" "You didn't act this way back then" "You always acted girly. You're not a boy" "And you don't act like a lesbian" "Your friends say you're handsome? Are they blind?" "I only love you as my daughter" "You believe in god or something?" "You're sinning. You'll go to hell" "I thought u went to the psychiatrist to fix yourself" I may not notice back then, I may not act like it back then. I regret being girly, I wish I had proof that this isn't what you think happened to me. Why I never show emotions and kept it to not even myself implementing what you said guys do; not showing any feelings. I wish I didn't have to live up to your standard of men. I wish I could cry like I used to without feeling ashamed or demasculated. How can prove to you that this is what I am. You may not see it but I always hoped to be a boy. I always wanted to be in a boy's body. I don't want to be pretty. I may not act masculine enough for you to see that, but this is how I feel. I hope you understand. I hope you could feel what I feel. I love you, mom. I wish you were the mom I hoped you were. -Your not-so-masculin son, Nathan
Oh god Nathan… I-… look, I know how you feel, my mom doesn’t seem too fond of the idea of the community either so I didn’t say anything so everytime she says “Girlies” and whenever she calls me a female in general it tugs at my heart. I may look and sound like a girl, but neither am I. I also used to me a really girly person but now I’m seen as a tomboy but my mom won’t even accept that, so I’m stuck and I don’t know what to do… she always wants me to act more girly! She had more freedom in what she wore and what her hair was like, she always wore boyish clothing and she had mushroom styled hair, you’d always see a beautiful lady in the photos that were taken of her but you could tell she was a tomboy. But she won’t even accept that I may have taken on that style and mixed with my father’s habits, that would make a child practically born to be a male!
Feel you my dad said "i will never see you as my son, only my daughter" "you are a girl" "i respect you but your genrtalia is what you are, you can't change reality" That day when he said all that, i decided that the day i am fully transitionen i am gonna ask him if he regrets it, and if not then i know he will never be anything for me anymore. Cause i don't want to have people that hurts me in my life
It's just a mirror It's just a pane of glass in front of a silver sheet It's just a mirror But why must it mirror me? Try forcing yourself each day to think of a different area of your body which you love and why you love it. I know that what you're going through right now is agonising and it's hard to imagine that you'll look different or think differently of yourself but one day you'll look up to fix your hair and see yourself properly, as you were always meant to be, and it'll feel fantastic.
u r pog, own your body. you're beautiful even if the body is weird or not yours, it's pog no matter what (idk what i'm doing um yeah trying to help ig..?)
ikr ok next part is kinda off topic but also kinda relates i can't stop listening to my chemical romance bc of the lines "you might wake up and notice you're someone you're not, if you look in the mirror and don't like what you see you can find out first hand what its like to be me." and "you should've raised a baby girl, I should've been a better son." it hurts it really does. ik its hard. ik its cliché but it gets better it truly does. I have found a way to cope though. I've been listening to bands and some of them have helped so much. just a suggestion
Hate on me because this is unpopular but i disagree just because you have similar thoughts to a girl but you biologically are a male doenst mean you are a female . You have to accept you're gender because there are times when i wanted to be a man but later regretted it and i am thankful 4 years later because i love being a strong women .
As someone who gets mis gendered all the time because of the bottom half of my face, masks are my best friend and honestly I might still wear them even after we don’t need to. It really helps me a lot
I want to as well.... but I can’t yet due to extended family...and the fact that I put ‘female’ on college things/scholarship things and so I have to wait so it doesn’t look like I lied... (when I filled out the stuff, well, I’m still not sure exactly what I am and it was either male/female...)
If you are someone who is afraid of getting hormones and stuff because you're in your 20s or 30s, then please remember that it's never too late. There's even people who got it at their 40s!
Just found out who I am however I’m TERRIFIED because my family always talks about how beautiful I am and my grandma even said if I cut my hair short she would cry and we are very close and I feel like I’ll never be accepted or be able to transition
my dad absolutely hates trans ppl. it makes me so sad and sometimes i just wanna give up. bc if i do come out as ftm, my parents will abuse me (maybe even k*ll) but if i dont come out, ill struggle everyday to look in the mirror and die inside every time ppl call me their favorite “sister” or “girl”. i know what will happen and i will have nowhere to go..
i’m in an unsafe environment for being lgbt+ and i don’t plan on coming out soon, but i love having a safe space online. if no one supports you when you come out, i will.
watching these and crying because i just heard my dad say he’ll never accept me as a boy in this house and i just want to feel loved and accepted like all these people are
I have a feeling that if I ever meet this man, I would like a speck of dust to him (I'm 5'1). He radiates tall energy. Sincerely, a cis-het girl who wants to be more educated.
I went to Walmart and this old man thought I was a guy and almost walked in the wrong restroom, I was just waiting for my mom. I almost cried, I'm like the only person was an old guy that just got confused 😌
Ive been struggling recently being trans and i constantly invalidate myself cause I struggle with internalized transphobia but watching these helps me feel like im not alone :)
I'm literally crying from watching this. I've been having a gender crisis for a long time now that feels like it's tearing me apart. I've been wanting to transition but I'm scared both physically and in the sense of if people would even accept me. These are still so refreshing to see, it's like metamorphosis and it's amazing how comfortable they look with themselves. 💛
Everyone should be accepted for who they are, people need to be comfortable and love themselves and should never look down upon themself because other people do. Love yourself for who you are and your identity will come along with that. You matter and don't let anyone tell you any different. Be who you want to be, not what other people tell you to be.
Bisexuality is just thinking every on this video is hot, both before and after Loving the representation of trans community tho, they do deserve the world
I know people probably won't care about my comment but a story I'm writing the main character is trans (he is female to male) and he's a priest which is a strange profession to put him in but I want my story to be about acceptance and to not see others based on what they look like but what their personality is like or for people to be judged by gender or sexual orientation since my character is best friends with a gay man and straight man who are his childhood friends (sorry for the long comment) 😊
UA-cam has started to give me adds directed towards men a lot more recently, which makes me really euphoric. The downside is that it’s telling me my balls are small and need to get bigger with [insert bs product here] or that my skin is crusty and I need to buy M A N S O A P
My gender is kinda complicated for me. Like, I don't want to be a girl (I'm working with my best friend so we can get me a binder without my family finding out), yet I don't want male parts. Right now I am (on the internet at least), going by my middle name and using he/they pronouns. I'm figuring it out (:
Me: so happy for everyone else's success Also me: crying fearing I'll never have that and will always be seen as female regardless of how much work I put into transition-
I think we all have that fear in the beginning. It was my biggest fear for sure, but I promise it's not true. Even if you don't look exactly how you want, at a given point in time, your trans brothers and sisters (especially me!), and your real allies see the man you are
@@t.deshawn6519 Thank you so much, really. This has been really tough and it's actually been a long night for me. I really needed this, so appreciated.
Ive seen someone make one out of a singlet but you need to get clips like the clips on the back of bras and sew them on the back of the singlet or something, im sure theres a tutorial i dont remember exactly how
I saw a video explaining an easy way to make a binder. You'll need a pair of old joggers and a pair of scissors. You just cut part of the leg and put it on as a binder. I don't really know how well it works, I guess it kinda depends on how much chest you have, but it's still an option if you wanna give it a shot. Please be safe and take care of yourself! I'm proud of you💕
as a fellow ftm, I feel so happy seeing the results of other trans guys out there using testosterone, because I can feel how relieving it must be for them, and I really want to someday do that too
i tried so hard for years to be like other girls and make myself feminine because it hurted so much when it felt like there was something different between me and girls. Wathever i would try to do to be like them, i would still not feel complete or valuable as a girl. I had the same clothes, the same hair, i acted the same way, i convinced myself i liked boys, but it still felt like i would never be real, i was faking it like an imposter. It was like if i was really far away from them you know ? it was terrible And now because of that nobody takes me seriously and they think i'm just acting or that i try to be "trendy". I tried so hard to be someone else now people won't let me be the real me ...
I swear, the difference between the 3rd and 4th month on T gets me everytime. Like damn. I‘m so happy for everyone who transitions, that it doesn‘t take that long to see a change. Btw I‘m still questioning if I‘m trans
Thanks for the forecast! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?
I kind of need help with me being transmasc stuff. 1) I know trans men are real men. And real men can be femboys or just be femenine in general. But my brain keeps on telling me I can't be feminine and won't be able to pass if I look feminene. (Sometimes I can be a femboy, sometimes not). 2) I want to come out to my family. But my mother is always freaking out over me being a 'girl' and such. Both of my parents love the idea I am a 'girl'. Some of my family wouldn't even get it I know. And I know that I don't have to come out, but its hard. Next school year I'm going to go by my preferred name and pronouns, but I am worried to even do that because a teacher may refer to me as my preferred name instead of deadname if they need to talk to my parents. Can someone please help me with encouragement over being a transmasc femboy, and how to deal with the problem of wanting to come out but knowing I cant.
So many experiences just like mine, I’ll try to help you! 1) being a femboy is completely valid! Just do what makes you happy and have confidence in yourself! 2) you can always ask for the teachers to not call you that around parents and if they do, you always just say it’s a nickname you like if your worried about them knowing your transitioning. But you should probably tell them eventually… Bubbling up the way you feel isn’t very good. One of the things that helped me be confortable with my gender identity is asking the friends I trust to start talking to me using my preferred pronouns/name! Also, I’m kinda a femboy as well, I like dressing in lolita dresses and stuff from time-to-time, and what helped me be confortable when wearing things that most wouldn’t consider masculine is seeing other men doing it. It’s very encouraging! Don’t be afraid to be yourself, you know you’re a man so don’t worry if you think the things you do may be feminine because that doesn’t change who you are as a person. Ily, good luck!
After a long time of name searching, I have finally decided on Augustus Turner Reynolds. If my opinion of it changes in the future, so be it. But I have a name now, and a voice to go with it.
I got to the end of Oliver's video and I almost started crying - sometimes I wonder if I actually want to physically transition, aside from top surgery. I mean, I like the idea of looking more masculine, but would I be okay with what that entails? But when I heard him talk with his new voice - I realized just how much I want that. So thank you for helping me see that.
I was about to come out to my mom and just as I started she went on a rant about her job zoom meetings and how they asked for pronouns. She was like yeah I’m they then and saying how stupid the pronouns were and me being a gender fluid bisexual (I’m out at school) I feel like crying because there is literally no way she will ever accept by identity and dysphoria. I wanna cry so badly but I don’t even have the energy. I tried coming out to her and she started yelling bible verses so I told her it was a joke. Then I tried coming out to just my brother to lighten the load and he immediately tried to out me. I’m so fucking done and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even feel alive anymore. It’s like I’m zoned out while life passes me by and I can’t do anything productive and I don’t know why. I hate everything and nothing makes me happy. I try for other people but the truth is I know I hate myself and there isn’t anything I can do about it. It’s not a phase. I know that I’ve felt this way since 3~4 grade. I just wish I could embody all the shit they wish I was cuz it’s hell trying to pull an act every hour of every day. When I can I’m leaving and I’m never coming back. First things first these huge tits are getting the chop. Then I’ll find our property in the woods and farmlands and I’ll have a family with my partner. I just can’t fucking take 4 more years of this shit. Now I’m gonna stop my rant an try to sleep hoping it doesn’t resolve itself as a panic attack. Bye now
I love these tiktoks so much… I’m exactly a year and three months on T today! I still feel like I sound like a girl a lot, even though I pass to people all the time now and I have a little bit of facial hair. I should be getting top surgery next year though, I’m really excited! Transmasc tiktoks make me so happy to be part of this community 🥺
Story time! The people I’ve known, trusted and cared for, FOR SEVEN YEARS told around 120 people in my school that I’m trans.People bicker about me and tell jokes about how I’ll ‘always be a girl’ and that I’m a ‘girl who wants to be a boy.’ I see these people every day and act like we’re all good.
I wish all comment sections were this wholesome
Yeah..
yh :(
Yeah😔
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I mean yes, but unluckily they aren't...
How do these people manage to look hella good before transitioning and after while I’m here lookin ugly af before
Lol
Same xD
Ik im over here praying that my transition is my glow up
@@milkysandwich9479 sMe
@@olivertwist7602 YESS THE CONFIDENCE ✨
i go by she/they pronouns and sometimes i’m just like “what if i’m trans? like i might be a man” but then i’m like “nah i’m not.” but then like a day later i’m like “i might be” and it’s a never ending cycle lmaoo edit: 6 months later and i’m pretty sure i’m genderfluid
Not sure, but maybe you’re gender fluid?
Don't think about it for now, you'll get an answer when the time comes. Everything is going to be okay :)
genderfluid? or you could be demigender?
Omg same
I’ve never related to something more
The Disney Land just made my heart go
✨🏳️⚧️Yas🏳️⚧️✨
“Mulan was always my favorite”
✨yas✨
My god if Disney did that then I’d be a very happy bean
Fuck Disney but the workers are wonderful
@@forest487 based
Someone said trans people couldn't be feminine to me. It's rude because it makes me feel so invalidated. I like being feminine but I really want my pronouns to be valid. As a trans male with he/him pronouns, people say I need to be masculine and I can't wear a skirt even if I really want to. :(
Well they need to respectfully fuck off. its your life, not theirs. You are not hurting anybody for wearing more feminine clothes. You are very valid. I hope you have a wonderful day.
@@ieatdirt.09 has anyone told you that like, you're a fantastic human? Cuz like, you are.
@@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
* Cries * Thank youuuu
I know im seeing this comment 4 months later but im so sorry that happened. You are valid and if you still know that person's username tell me and i will block them :)))
I am a trans male and feminine too. The same with my trans brother. Trust me, there's many trans males who are feminine and likes feminine stuff. You are not alone! More than a handful of trans males have admitted they express their feminity openly whenever they feel confident about being themselves. While there are a lot of trans males and cisgender males whom are entirely masculine. There's a lot of males whom are very feminine or express some feminity. Being feminine n-e-v-e-r excludes you from being a valid male, no matter what other people thinks or says otherwise. Remember to remind yourself of that.
I don’t know if i’m trans.
I want to be a boy, sometimes a girl.
I think i’m gender fluid
Same I wanna be a boy but sometimes regret it than don’t idkkk lol
Demi- boy! Maybe!
I'm still doubting if i'm a trans boy because sometimes i'm bigender and also sometimes i'm agender, so I’m assuming that i might be a genderfluid too.
Same
@@maudder1987 yup sometimes I like to wear girl clothes sometimes men
I came out to my sister and parents as trans. My sister seemed happy for me, my parents spoke to me about it, and thought it was fine. They just wanted to make sure that I waited until I was older to make big changes which makes sense.
My dad was like that. Which I completely understand. My mom needs a bit of time though😅😅
Ok
Lucky, I know I like guys but most of the time I have a crush, it's on a girl. I had thoughts of being a guy since I was 9, but I never really payed attention to it and when I was 14 which I still am, I figured it out but I force myself to be straight and try to ignore my gender dysphoria because it's against my religion (Christian) and even thought our pastor said we should love the LGBTQ, its still a sin to them. The last time when my cousin came out, she was immediately disowned for being gay and im scared that the same will happen to me because I don't want my family to hate me, and I don't want to go to hell. Tbh it's torturing me to keep it hidden, because the longer I hide it, the worse it gets and im baptized already
Same thing happened with me, good luck on your journey
when other ppl already have a flat chest-
me: 👁 👄 👁
Oh my gosh that’s such a mood- it makes me so insecure lol
Frr
I want a flat chest so bad. I am gifted if I wanted to be a woman but I do not so I'm very unlucky in terms of being able to bind and look natural and just wish I could yeet my chest off a cliff or donate to someone who would appreciate it
@@zellhound156 teet yeet
right lmao
I got an ad underneath this for hair loss treatment lmfao
As yes, the most validating thing youtube can offer. Men directed advertisments
@@galuxius1861 love it when it does that
All these men are so gorgeous, and then there's me, (I'm also a trans man) lookin like a gremlin lmao
Same, I look like trash 😔 (also trans guy)
@BestOfTheWorst 1242 I bet you look great :)
BSHSHS FUCKING MOOOOOD
Me too but you know I still think i'm pretty (also trans man)
we're all little gremlins it's fine brother
Other trans guys : Looking so fine that you can't tell the difference between them and cis men.
Me : Looks like a girl
Correction:
"Other trans guys : looking so fine that you can't tell the difference between them and cis men
Me: Also looking fine af because everyone is beautiful in their own way"
Fixed your comment.
same though
@@mossykoalshibao963 Why would that be a joke?
Sam e-
Cap
The thing I love the most about seeing people after their transition is how much more happy they are.
Okay lil venting story so be prepared for a whole ride;
So I came out to my mom and dad as trans. My dad is tryna process and my mom just completely denies it. She's saying how I didnt grow up boyish. The haunting words of "You were so girly, there's no way" "It's all manipulative. You read to many things" "You didn't act this way back then" "You always acted girly. You're not a boy" "And you don't act like a lesbian" "Your friends say you're handsome? Are they blind?" "I only love you as my daughter" "You believe in god or something?" "You're sinning. You'll go to hell" "I thought u went to the psychiatrist to fix yourself"
I may not notice back then, I may not act like it back then. I regret being girly, I wish I had proof that this isn't what you think happened to me. Why I never show emotions and kept it to not even myself implementing what you said guys do; not showing any feelings. I wish I didn't have to live up to your standard of men. I wish I could cry like I used to without feeling ashamed or demasculated. How can prove to you that this is what I am. You may not see it but I always hoped to be a boy. I always wanted to be in a boy's body. I don't want to be pretty. I may not act masculine enough for you to see that, but this is how I feel. I hope you understand. I hope you could feel what I feel. I love you, mom. I wish you were the mom I hoped you were.
-Your not-so-masculin son, Nathan
it hurts my heart that some parents are like this (including mine) . much love and know that having to put with them isnt permanent.
:)
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Oh god Nathan… I-… look, I know how you feel, my mom doesn’t seem too fond of the idea of the community either so I didn’t say anything so everytime she says “Girlies” and whenever she calls me a female in general it tugs at my heart. I may look and sound like a girl, but neither am I. I also used to me a really girly person but now I’m seen as a tomboy but my mom won’t even accept that, so I’m stuck and I don’t know what to do… she always wants me to act more girly! She had more freedom in what she wore and what her hair was like, she always wore boyish clothing and she had mushroom styled hair, you’d always see a beautiful lady in the photos that were taken of her but you could tell she was a tomboy. But she won’t even accept that I may have taken on that style and mixed with my father’s habits, that would make a child practically born to be a male!
Feel you my dad said "i will never see you as my son, only my daughter" "you are a girl" "i respect you but your genrtalia is what you are, you can't change reality"
That day when he said all that, i decided that the day i am fully transitionen i am gonna ask him if he regrets it, and if not then i know he will never be anything for me anymore.
Cause i don't want to have people that hurts me in my life
when ever i look in the mirror i cry.
It's just a mirror
It's just a pane of glass in front of a silver sheet
It's just a mirror
But why must it mirror me?
Try forcing yourself each day to think of a different area of your body which you love and why you love it. I know that what you're going through right now is agonising and it's hard to imagine that you'll look different or think differently of yourself but one day you'll look up to fix your hair and see yourself properly, as you were always meant to be, and it'll feel fantastic.
Hey same!!! Some days I don’t even recognize my reflection lol. Fun times XD (I’m dying inside)
u r pog, own your body. you're beautiful even if the body is weird or not yours, it's pog no matter what (idk what i'm doing um yeah trying to help ig..?)
ikr
ok next part is kinda off topic but also kinda relates
i can't stop listening to my chemical romance bc of the lines
"you might wake up and notice you're someone you're not, if you look in the mirror and don't like what you see you can find out first hand what its like to be me."
and "you should've raised a baby girl, I should've been a better son."
it hurts it really does.
ik its hard.
ik its cliché but it gets better it truly does.
I have found a way to cope though. I've been listening to bands and some of them have helped so much. just a suggestion
Same, honestly
The only thing masculine about me is my face, and even then
I still am an ugly ass creature
A body doesn't make you a man or women, your mind does
True
Thank you
huh
Thank you!!
Hate on me because this is unpopular but i disagree just because you have similar thoughts to a girl but you biologically are a male doenst mean you are a female . You have to accept you're gender because there are times when i wanted to be a man but later regretted it and i am thankful 4 years later because i love being a strong women .
As someone who gets mis gendered all the time because of the bottom half of my face, masks are my best friend and honestly I might still wear them even after we don’t need to. It really helps me a lot
the last one made me cry a bit, because one day in the future that's going to be me, and im looking forward to it:')
ME TOO and my name is oliver omg
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 Lmao, my name is Oliver too!
@@cryptidgod202 YAYY HELLOW FELLOW OLIVER!
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 HI!!!
@@cryptidgod202 hi!!!!
I love seeing these beautiful people go from being uncomfortable as not their true selves to absolutely flourishing
IM DYING I WANT TO TRANSITION SO DAMN BAD-
what’s stopping you babes?
@@miledytrujillo2298 Being an 11 year old child with homophobic parents and classmates-
@@randomgacharat9108 same... But 14 yr old. There's hope for us buddy. I hope so.
@@randomgacharat9108 im 13 💀i hate this so much fr
I want to as well.... but I can’t yet due to extended family...and the fact that I put ‘female’ on college things/scholarship things and so I have to wait so it doesn’t look like I lied... (when I filled out the stuff, well, I’m still not sure exactly what I am and it was either male/female...)
If you are someone who is afraid of getting hormones and stuff because you're in your 20s or 30s, then please remember that it's never too late. There's even people who got it at their 40s!
I’ve been waiting 8 years, but it just too expensive for my job.
I'm crying rn and panicking bc of a anxiety attack due to dysphoria, these videos always help tho. You got this my fellow ftm kings and MTF queens
This is amazing
Wait... ur name...
R U ENBY TOO!?!
I love your pfp
@@neverice9814 also the flag in picture
Ikr! 𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚜 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚜𝚘 𝚟𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚍! 🏳️⚧️
@@alliexcx5576 😊
Just found out who I am however I’m TERRIFIED because my family always talks about how beautiful I am and my grandma even said if I cut my hair short she would cry and we are very close and I feel like I’ll never be accepted or be able to transition
literally same as me. i live with my grandparents and i know they are homophobic so i cant imagine what they would do.
my dad absolutely hates trans ppl. it makes me so sad and sometimes i just wanna give up. bc if i do come out as ftm, my parents will abuse me (maybe even k*ll) but if i dont come out, ill struggle everyday to look in the mirror and die inside every time ppl call me their favorite “sister” or “girl”. i know what will happen and i will have nowhere to go..
@@sourlemons4 I also live with my homophobic grandparents. I'm sorry :"[
m.ua-cam.com/video/PgRt914z7L8/v-deo.html Drink enough water when listen, you can put it on loop.
I started crying
I don't know if I started crying cause one day I'll be like this or because I fear I'll never be like that
baby it will happen but you have to put in work as well. anything is possible ❤️
@@miledytrujillo2298 Maybe I can evolve like a pokemon if I work hard enough
To all of my brave brothers and sisters who take the journey to change your lives I APPLAUD YOU AND YOUR BRAVERY! 🌈
The fact that i watch these and feel so happy but dont feel real myself because of everybody treating my identity as a phase-
Even if it is a phase then its fine. Do what makes you feel valid right now. Because right now matters right now.
@@ieatdirt.09 holy shit, you have just made my day.
m.ua-cam.com/video/PgRt914z7L8/v-deo.html Drink enough water when listen, you can put it on loop.
3:45 Awwww, know it wasn't a big deal or anything but still made my heart melt. So sweet and considerate. Has the cutest smile too! 😘😆
we love how i ordered 60 small trans pride flags on my transphobic grandmas amazon account without getting caught 💅
Niceee
Wow, they're so handsome😏
i’m in an unsafe environment for being lgbt+ and i don’t plan on coming out soon, but i love having a safe space online. if no one supports you when you come out, i will.
watching these and crying because i just heard my dad say he’ll never accept me as a boy in this house and i just want to feel loved and accepted like all these people are
Im so sorry bestie you ll get through this. Stay strong cause eveything gets better with time. You are amazing
2:37 is the funniest thing ever
I have a feeling that if I ever meet this man, I would like a speck of dust to him (I'm 5'1). He radiates tall energy.
Sincerely, a cis-het girl who wants to be more educated.
@@whatislife666 i was thinking the same thing-
idk how to explain it, but he gives off very tall vibes
My cis male friend just told me he was jealous of the fact I have more facial hair then him, I'm 15 pre T. I was like "omg say it again😍" LOL
omg more please I can't find just ftm tik toks anywhere 🏳️⚧️✨❤️
I went to Walmart and this old man thought I was a guy and almost walked in the wrong restroom, I was just waiting for my mom. I almost cried, I'm like the only person was an old guy that just got confused 😌
I'm starting T in one week, im so happy !!
congrats!!🙂
that’s awesome! hope everything is well so far!
Omg im so proud of youu
Ive been struggling recently being trans and i constantly invalidate myself cause I struggle with internalized transphobia but watching these helps me feel like im not alone :)
You've grown so much scince I last saw you in so proud
Thanks🥺💕
@@avalancestories3743 I have a question when women change to men do they get testicles?
@@YesItsHayden firstly, they dont change. they were men all along, just with a womans body.
secondly, to put it simply, yes. through surgery though.
@@EvanMMD3939 they "are" men
@@yian95954 yes, they are men.
I'm literally crying from watching this. I've been having a gender crisis for a long time now that feels like it's tearing me apart. I've been wanting to transition but I'm scared both physically and in the sense of if people would even accept me. These are still so refreshing to see, it's like metamorphosis and it's amazing how comfortable they look with themselves. 💛
Everyone should be accepted for who they are, people need to be comfortable and love themselves and should never look down upon themself because other people do. Love yourself for who you are and your identity will come along with that.
You matter and don't let anyone tell you any different. Be who you want to be, not what other people tell you to be.
6:00 u can just see how he becomes more and more confident, by the end he is just beaming so proudly..
So I was outed by my stepsister and now I'm staying at my grandparents house
so sorry i hope youre alright
m.ua-cam.com/video/PgRt914z7L8/v-deo.html Drink enough water when listen, you can put it on loop.
Bisexuality is just thinking every on this video is hot, both before and after
Loving the representation of trans community tho, they do deserve the world
Ikr 😂😂😂
thank you
😂 know you i'm also in love
I can feel the discomfort in the pre-transition photos through the screen
1 week on T and sobbing. Love this thanks bye
I CAME OUT AS NON-BINARY TO MY FRIENDS A WHILE AHO AND THEY ALL ACCEPT ME AND CALL ME BY MY RIGHT NAME 😭
Oh wow im so happy for you
3:14 I started crying...beautiful.
Congrats to all the people who are so close to completing their journey, and getting their surgery. Respect for you all
do we listen to lemon demon now or is it still cavetown
Cavetown
Why cant we do both?
Cavetown 100%
The video started off with falling in reverse and I knew this was going to be good
Who else watched this crying their eyes out bc they have a homophobic family?
m.ua-cam.com/video/PgRt914z7L8/v-deo.html Drink enough water when listen, you can put it on loop.
Awh
Them: "whats in your pants?"
Me: "TALENT"
I know people probably won't care about my comment but a story I'm writing the main character is trans (he is female to male) and he's a priest which is a strange profession to put him in but I want my story to be about acceptance and to not see others based on what they look like but what their personality is like or for people to be judged by gender or sexual orientation since my character is best friends with a gay man and straight man who are his childhood friends (sorry for the long comment) 😊
Wow bestie it sounds like a great story
appreciate all transmen's decision, respect.
0:20 I HAVE THAT WATER BOTTLE STICKERRR
I literally cried because this means there's hope for me out there
I will get to live peacefullly as a boy someday
UA-cam has started to give me adds directed towards men a lot more recently, which makes me really euphoric. The downside is that it’s telling me my balls are small and need to get bigger with [insert bs product here] or that my skin is crusty and I need to buy M A N S O A P
Oliver’s glow up between 4 and 7 months on T was INSANE
This should have more comments also I love this
4:50 ey that's my name
1:37 Thats my name
I don't have a name
4:55 "Mulan was always my favourite" Lmao I love this
I support you! You look good❤🤟
My gender is kinda complicated for me. Like, I don't want to be a girl (I'm working with my best friend so we can get me a binder without my family finding out), yet I don't want male parts. Right now I am (on the internet at least), going by my middle name and using he/they pronouns. I'm figuring it out (:
That's so good, take your time. I'm proud of you
Agender/genderless/demiboy?
@@yian95954 I'm confused. What do those mean?
@@witching.time.ofnight agender is not wanting a gender, throw it away! Lol
@@witching.time.ofnight demiboy means like half non-binary and half boy, or partly boy partly not.
5:10 OMG THE NOISE I MADE WHEN IT WENT ‘I LIKE GIRLS TOO’ WAS HALERIOUS I WAS LIKE UGHHHHH BUT SO LOUD
0:00
first time i have heard falling in reverse or any rock in a tiktok. I am very happy now
2:45 😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰
This is bringing me to tears
Why are the trans dudes always the most attractive 🤩
Great compilation😊😊
Me: so happy for everyone else's success
Also me: crying fearing I'll never have that and will always be seen as female regardless of how much work I put into transition-
Keep going bestie you can do it im proud of you
I think we all have that fear in the beginning. It was my biggest fear for sure, but I promise it's not true. Even if you don't look exactly how you want, at a given point in time, your trans brothers and sisters (especially me!), and your real allies see the man you are
@@t.deshawn6519 Thank you so much, really. This has been really tough and it's actually been a long night for me. I really needed this, so appreciated.
i‘m so confused about myself i‘m going to cry
It's ok bestie you'll figure it out
Does anyone know how to Make a binder out of normal clothes
I can’t tell you much about binders, but make sure to be safe. Self made binders can hurt you. I heard people layering sport bra’s.
Ive seen someone make one out of a singlet but you need to get clips like the clips on the back of bras and sew them on the back of the singlet or something, im sure theres a tutorial i dont remember exactly how
I saw a video explaining an easy way to make a binder. You'll need a pair of old joggers and a pair of scissors. You just cut part of the leg and put it on as a binder. I don't really know how well it works, I guess it kinda depends on how much chest you have, but it's still an option if you wanna give it a shot. Please be safe and take care of yourself! I'm proud of you💕
Congrats to all who have completed their journey and living their best lives, ty for sharing Blessings
those growing up with me as i transition ones always make me cry, i'm cis but my boyfriend is ftm:)
as a fellow ftm, I feel so happy seeing the results of other trans guys out there using testosterone, because I can feel how relieving it must be for them, and I really want to someday do that too
i tried so hard for years to be like other girls and make myself feminine because it hurted so much when it felt like there was something different between me and girls. Wathever i would try to do to be like them, i would still not feel complete or valuable as a girl. I had the same clothes, the same hair, i acted the same way, i convinced myself i liked boys, but it still felt like i would never be real, i was faking it like an imposter. It was like if i was really far away from them you know ? it was terrible
And now because of that nobody takes me seriously and they think i'm just acting or that i try to be "trendy".
I tried so hard to be someone else now people won't let me be the real me ...
came out as trans to my friends, and i recently also got a binder! i feel sm happier, but i hope to transition sometime soon too :)
I just wanna cut my hair... I wear my hair in a beanie every day cuz I’m not allowed to cut it. Ughhhhhhhhh
I wasn't even allowed to get any hats cause "hats are for boys" 😭
@@zenxunder3782 Your parents are pointless, some hat are for girls. And you're parents are too strict...
m.ua-cam.com/video/PgRt914z7L8/v-deo.html
Got an add for pregnancy tests before this... 😂
I really wish I could just star my life all over again but as a guy. I don’t want to be trans I want to be a cis guy.
I use to wish the same but God made me trans for a reason and if I was born a cis man then I wouldn't be who I am today ಠ ͜ʖ ಠ👍
That one at 4:02 is soooo me at the moment hahaha
And the video after, is also so relatable
last one made me almost tear up ngl
The Trisha Paytas one had me rolling on the FLOOR 😭😭😭
I'm a trans too from Philippines, and im proud of it. 🇵🇭
Im proud of you too
@@avalancestories3743 Thanks! 😁
I swear, the difference between the 3rd and 4th month on T gets me everytime. Like damn. I‘m so happy for everyone who transitions, that it doesn‘t take that long to see a change.
Btw I‘m still questioning if I‘m trans
As a trans male not out yet these comments/videos are very comforting:)
y’all are so DAMN ATTRACTIVE HOW
Thanks for the forecast! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?
I kind of need help with me being transmasc stuff.
1) I know trans men are real men. And real men can be femboys or just be femenine in general. But my brain keeps on telling me I can't be feminine and won't be able to pass if I look feminene. (Sometimes I can be a femboy, sometimes not).
2) I want to come out to my family. But my mother is always freaking out over me being a 'girl' and such. Both of my parents love the idea I am a 'girl'. Some of my family wouldn't even get it I know. And I know that I don't have to come out, but its hard. Next school year I'm going to go by my preferred name and pronouns, but I am worried to even do that because a teacher may refer to me as my preferred name instead of deadname if they need to talk to my parents.
Can someone please help me with encouragement over being a transmasc femboy, and how to deal with the problem of wanting to come out but knowing I cant.
So many experiences just like mine, I’ll try to help you!
1) being a femboy is completely valid! Just do what makes you happy and have confidence in yourself!
2) you can always ask for the teachers to not call you that around parents and if they do, you always just say it’s a nickname you like if your worried about them knowing your transitioning. But you should probably tell them eventually… Bubbling up the way you feel isn’t very good.
One of the things that helped me be confortable with my gender identity is asking the friends I trust to start talking to me using my preferred pronouns/name!
Also, I’m kinda a femboy as well, I like dressing in lolita dresses and stuff from time-to-time, and what helped me be confortable when wearing things that most wouldn’t consider masculine is seeing other men doing it. It’s very encouraging! Don’t be afraid to be yourself, you know you’re a man so don’t worry if you think the things you do may be feminine because that doesn’t change who you are as a person.
Ily, good luck!
@@-ollie_offline-787 This helps soooo much thank you! I will try doing this!!!
@@angeldemon9740 Yw! Wish you luck
After a long time of name searching, I have finally decided on Augustus Turner Reynolds. If my opinion of it changes in the future, so be it. But I have a name now, and a voice to go with it.
I got to the end of Oliver's video and I almost started crying - sometimes I wonder if I actually want to physically transition, aside from top surgery. I mean, I like the idea of looking more masculine, but would I be okay with what that entails? But when I heard him talk with his new voice - I realized just how much I want that. So thank you for helping me see that.
I was about to come out to my mom and just as I started she went on a rant about her job zoom meetings and how they asked for pronouns. She was like yeah I’m they then and saying how stupid the pronouns were and me being a gender fluid bisexual (I’m out at school) I feel like crying because there is literally no way she will ever accept by identity and dysphoria. I wanna cry so badly but I don’t even have the energy. I tried coming out to her and she started yelling bible verses so I told her it was a joke. Then I tried coming out to just my brother to lighten the load and he immediately tried to out me. I’m so fucking done and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even feel alive anymore. It’s like I’m zoned out while life passes me by and I can’t do anything productive and I don’t know why. I hate everything and nothing makes me happy. I try for other people but the truth is I know I hate myself and there isn’t anything I can do about it. It’s not a phase. I know that I’ve felt this way since 3~4 grade. I just wish I could embody all the shit they wish I was cuz it’s hell trying to pull an act every hour of every day. When I can I’m leaving and I’m never coming back. First things first these huge tits are getting the chop. Then I’ll find our property in the woods and farmlands and I’ll have a family with my partner. I just can’t fucking take 4 more years of this shit. Now I’m gonna stop my rant an try to sleep hoping it doesn’t resolve itself as a panic attack. Bye now
Thank you for posting this, it’s sad that FTM barley get any light..
Thanks for watching bestie
You are Such a Beautiful 😍 Person and
an Incredibly Amazing Human!!! I am So
Happy that You are Alive and Exist!!!
Way to Be A Walking SuperHero 🦸♀️
I love these tiktoks so much… I’m exactly a year and three months on T today! I still feel like I sound like a girl a lot, even though I pass to people all the time now and I have a little bit of facial hair. I should be getting top surgery next year though, I’m really excited! Transmasc tiktoks make me so happy to be part of this community 🥺
I'm so proud of you!
5:42 WHEN GENOCIDE STARTED PLAYING I HAD TO CHECK IF MY SPOTIFY UNPAUSED BECAUSE I WAS LISTENING TO IT BEFORE WATCHING THIS LMAO
Ahh my favorite thing ✨ *GENDER DYSPHORIA* ✨
Do we break it to the homophobes that Jesus blessed a gay couple?
He did?? Do tell!
@@withmymindandmyimagination844 I heard it from a few other videos, but in the Bible, jesus blessed a gay couple and has two dads
Story time!
The people I’ve known, trusted and cared for, FOR SEVEN YEARS
told around 120 people in my school that I’m trans.People bicker about me and tell jokes about how I’ll ‘always be a girl’ and that I’m a ‘girl who wants to be a boy.’
I see these people every day and act like we’re all good.
This is so amazing!!!! Im glad that the comments are so nice too!!! This is the positivity i need today!!