If I Can’t Have You l 20/20 l PART 4

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  • @phillipsmom6252
    @phillipsmom6252 3 роки тому +104

    I knew it. A live in nanny is expensive. And so was that house.

  • @hiiibye8521
    @hiiibye8521 3 роки тому +81

    “I just live a normal soccer mom life.”
    👏👏👏

  • @هُناعبير
    @هُناعبير 3 роки тому +23

    Children needs their mamas more than a big house. Did anyone around her advised her that. It's so sad.

  • @dc3174
    @dc3174 3 роки тому +66

    Her parents didn’t teach her not to be “house poor”? Mortgage should never be more than 1/3 of income

    • @edp3202
      @edp3202 3 роки тому +5

      Dave ramsey

    • @abdulrahmanraheem423
      @abdulrahmanraheem423 3 роки тому +15

      Exactly..and why couldn't she sell the house and live in an affordable place? Kids do not need 6000sq ft to have a good childhood! The best memories I have of visiting my grandparents 2bedroom house and all of my cousins(10) sleeping on the living room floor. Waking up to the smell of breakfast hugs and kisses!!

    • @margievanpetten1
      @margievanpetten1 3 роки тому +1

      she was trying to keep the house for her kids

  • @jasy2489
    @jasy2489 3 роки тому +63

    She put her children's lives at risk... I feel hurt hearing her daughter on the 911 call

  • @beautifulrosemary6565
    @beautifulrosemary6565 3 роки тому +67

    Why wouldn't she just sell the home!

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah, and get something smaller and reasonable...

    • @edp3202
      @edp3202 3 роки тому +1

      ???

    • @bellaspivey6730
      @bellaspivey6730 3 роки тому +1

      She wanted her kids to have a stable place.

    • @iiiMUNiiiQUE
      @iiiMUNiiiQUE 3 роки тому +3

      @@bellaspivey6730 at the cost of doing smh nvm.

    • @REA873
      @REA873 3 роки тому +5

      @@bellaspivey6730 she can have a stable home in a smaller house

  • @blondecat666
    @blondecat666 3 роки тому +17

    Low self-esteem, my arse. Charging 2500 says she valued herself pretty well.

  • @schrutefarmzz7950
    @schrutefarmzz7950 3 роки тому +16

    Sex work for compliments? That makes no sense! Sex workers get abused more often than not, no one goes into sex work for a confidence boost, I can assure you.

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 2 роки тому

      You can't even listen...
      It was said while they talked about strip club, not about her freelance sex work.
      Stripping and money from stripping gives u boost, not sex work genius

  • @veronicaherrera7586
    @veronicaherrera7586 3 роки тому +79

    This story is hauntingly sad. She didn’t deserve that. And those who judge her have no clue how desperate a single m can feel. That evil POG that took this mother from her babies.
    I live in grand Junction and this story broke our hearts.
    I pray those children are all healing and growing and blessed.
    🙏🏽

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 3 роки тому +6

      She was escorting when she was married and together. I’ve worked in sex industry for 11 years now, so I’m not judging that. What am I judging is continually cheating on your husband and hiding it.... she could of just danced while married. To escort while married is sickening, unless the husband was ok with it...

    • @veronicaherrera7586
      @veronicaherrera7586 3 роки тому +4

      @@diaryofarealmom3264
      I didn’t realize she had been doing this lifestyle for so long.
      I’m guessing that her perpetrator was upset she wasn’t interested in his business anymore. And his wife was catching on to how much he was short on cash.
      So tragic

    • @johnnysalazar5163
      @johnnysalazar5163 3 роки тому

      @@veronicaherrera7586 they do it to themselves, and this whole 'women in general, feel insecure about themselves so they need a man's attention' is just an excuse to do what they want and expect no consequences

    • @veronicaherrera7586
      @veronicaherrera7586 3 роки тому

      @@johnnysalazar5163
      He still had no right to kill her. But by the grace of God go I, or you.

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 2 роки тому

      The judgment is understandable when we are taking about that she didn't just want to move to less huge house that would solve the problem..

  • @Leah-ez9nv
    @Leah-ez9nv 3 роки тому +50

    Why does the media have to vilify sex work? Y'all wanna talk mess about sex work but forget the reason it exists because there are MEN who will pay for sex.

    • @mewesquirrel6720
      @mewesquirrel6720 3 роки тому +10

      Nope don't do this crap. You don't have to do this crap

    • @agarrandoviaje5425
      @agarrandoviaje5425 3 роки тому

      Male escort services for women exists too.

    • @Krass.Estranged
      @Krass.Estranged 3 роки тому +6

      There are things more valuable than money.

    • @FurTheCasa
      @FurTheCasa 3 роки тому +4

      @@mewesquirrel6720 Tell your husband that. With that same superiority tone. I'm sure men dealing with your kind would NEVER pay for softer women's services 🙄

    • @mewesquirrel6720
      @mewesquirrel6720 3 роки тому

      @@FurTheCasa why would my husband pay to have sex with me that makes no sense

  • @tinikac368
    @tinikac368 3 роки тому +12

    I hate that her kids & Dad had to find out like this

  • @dancemaniac3868
    @dancemaniac3868 3 роки тому +31

    What kind of a "close friend" doesn't sound the alarms when told her friend is running an escort service?

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 3 роки тому +11

      Wait, what?? Why would someone snitch on a friend....

    • @mutebisunayya6670
      @mutebisunayya6670 3 роки тому +7

      So that very annoying person who judges n imposes your moral rule on people just cse yo friends.. you're just meant to advise them not decide for them

  • @vnss1745
    @vnss1745 3 роки тому +36

    Why her friend did not tell the police that she was a scort!!! That would change everything!!

    • @dilanarellanes7847
      @dilanarellanes7847 3 роки тому

      fear of getting a pr* sti tution charge

    • @cammey3
      @cammey3 3 роки тому

      @@dilanarellanes7847 you can't be charged because she wasn't a street worker escorts work for a legal business

    • @dilanarellanes7847
      @dilanarellanes7847 3 роки тому +1

      @@cammey3 & u think her friend knew there was a difference w that n escorting?? ppl ARE naive u know she said it herself i. another interview she feared being an accesory to pr* s titution..

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 2 роки тому

      Imagine your friend goes to police after you told your secret, friendship over

  • @dawnbrit4580
    @dawnbrit4580 3 роки тому +2

    U did it your self and this is what u got.

  • @dg8676
    @dg8676 3 роки тому +2

    Greed will consume us all

  • @geraldbarreno535
    @geraldbarreno535 3 роки тому +7

    Really she was no even attractive ..she could have get different house get a real job and she may be alive today..i don't fiel sorry for her ..i fiel bad for her kids ..

  • @jasy2489
    @jasy2489 3 роки тому +20

    Wrong choices led her to this.. She should have downsized her 6000 sq ft house and paid off her mortgage

  • @mangafq8
    @mangafq8 3 роки тому +25

    Maybe she could have downsized. Who wants this level of financial pressure? Yuck.

  • @womenfemale1849
    @womenfemale1849 3 роки тому +6

    Letting the man use you as a toilet is the selfe worth for woman?????

  • @ETphonehome123
    @ETphonehome123 3 роки тому +32

    Ah yes...trying to keep up with the "Jones'"....while sleeping with them....
    To me; her priorities were all wrong....😢
    & in the end her children, parents & friends hold the burden now...

  • @womenfemale1849
    @womenfemale1849 3 роки тому +6

    When her husband lose money she was divorced him and she was all about money she was a bad apples

  • @daisysparks9956
    @daisysparks9956 3 роки тому +5

    My brother Tony Chacon has been missing since 2004 from Montrose Colorado

  • @glorisgonzalez.detodounpoc2934
    @glorisgonzalez.detodounpoc2934 3 роки тому +3

    Those geeky girl with glasses who will tought that. She was doing this even with the first husband and she dont have kids by them so she dont do it for her kids at all.

  • @rogersimpson9725
    @rogersimpson9725 3 роки тому +16

    When I was a cab driver in the 90's it was the most dangerous profession. More cab drivers died on the job than even cops! Chicago implemented bullet proof partitions because of this. But that was years ago. Mabey it's safer now??
    I think the world's oldest profession has always been dangerous.

    • @iiiMUNiiiQUE
      @iiiMUNiiiQUE 3 роки тому

      Implemented them how? Were they installed freely for drivers or required? Just like knowing parts of history.

  • @reprovedcandy
    @reprovedcandy 2 роки тому

    The true crime here was the "literally at a crossroads" joke

  • @Therezumee92
    @Therezumee92 3 роки тому +11

    Yet again some have to blame the woman. That was her choice. So what? Doesn't mean sick fucks have a right to kill. Nothing to judge her for. Yet again stigma against that area of work despite the fact that creeps kill regardless of what you do. But it's easier to blame the victim. Sure.

    • @alwaysforanimals
      @alwaysforanimals 3 роки тому +1

      100%

    • @johnnysalazar5163
      @johnnysalazar5163 3 роки тому

      In other words, she should not be accountable for the stupid things she's done. If she wasn't so stupid and greedy, she would still be alive

    • @alwaysforanimals
      @alwaysforanimals 3 роки тому

      @@johnnysalazar5163
      ..... so.... you are saying that it's OK to kill women? Because why? She was greedy and working a job that.... you don't think is classy or something? 🚩🚩🚩 why not blame the fucking guy she was with?! Women get killed all the time for just being pretty and not wanting the guy.

    • @Therezumee92
      @Therezumee92 3 роки тому +1

      @@johnnysalazar5163 what a sick thinking.

    • @johnnysalazar5163
      @johnnysalazar5163 3 роки тому

      @@alwaysforanimals where in my comment did I say she deserved to die? Did you not watch the video, it was said that sex workers have I higher death rate, thats right up there with drug dealing, obviously, she was flirting with death and death got her. Sex work is anything but classy, it's filthy, btw, more men die than women

  • @REA873
    @REA873 3 роки тому +3

    She could’ve sold her house and buy a small one

  • @5thdimension625
    @5thdimension625 3 роки тому +16

    She was a very damaged woman with deep issues. It’s sad her chi uses caused her death.

  • @nikiahandy4403
    @nikiahandy4403 3 роки тому +6

    Poor woman.

  • @sweetness1586
    @sweetness1586 3 роки тому +6

    so it was a customer !! u have to be sooo carefull with sex work !

    • @johnnysalazar5163
      @johnnysalazar5163 3 роки тому

      Don't be a sex worker to begin with, you are only asking for trouble

  • @superpixelated7354
    @superpixelated7354 3 роки тому +1

    Why does the friend not told that she is an escort at the start of the episode?

  • @entouchwindriverreservatio3932
    @entouchwindriverreservatio3932 3 роки тому +3

    My mom has always beat me since I can remember she’s a monster so that’s what I call her if ppl could only see thru that evil mask she’s a very good actress she will brain wash anyone into thinking that your the one will the problems

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 2 роки тому

      That doesn't have any connection to this doc

  • @sifisongwane3198
    @sifisongwane3198 3 роки тому +18

    Respect her Hustle and grind..diversity ..

    • @johnnysalazar5163
      @johnnysalazar5163 3 роки тому +1

      That hustle and grind did her in

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 2 роки тому

      Not when she does it just cause she want a huge house and not food on the plate

  • @MyHeart1955
    @MyHeart1955 3 роки тому +7

    Just let me say at this point………. Wait for it……………….. uh, oh darn…………. Sorry but that’s about all I can muster. Greedy for that lifestyle to which you have become accustomed can cause YOUR CHILDREN a lot of heartache. May she answer to God for her misdeed to her children. Sad, greedy, greedy….. oh wait, I forgot, oh darn, yeah, that’s it.

  • @mannykhan7752
    @mannykhan7752 2 роки тому +1

    Im saying that she got what she deserved but this was risky business she was dabbling with. Especially being a single mom and not having any professional security. Needless to say sometimes things dont go as planned.

  • @bokani79
    @bokani79 3 роки тому +16

    I think the ugly friends are secretly happy that she is gone because she was as they describe her “the pretty one, the life of the party’” and they think she got what she deserved for living above her means.

  • @abdulwahabsaifee9036
    @abdulwahabsaifee9036 3 роки тому +15

    Choose Lord Jesus Christ He would give you all the self-confidence you need and He would wash away your sins and wipe up your tears.

  • @JarranTyler1987
    @JarranTyler1987 3 роки тому +10

    Hahahaha, I love when the deciet and shadyness gets put on the woman. WHERE'S THE SOCIAL JUSTICE WARRIORS NOW????

    • @anaphylaxis2548
      @anaphylaxis2548 3 роки тому +6

      Neither gender has any business doing this stuff.

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 3 роки тому +1

      Wait what?

    • @cammey3
      @cammey3 3 роки тому +1

      @@anaphylaxis2548 doing what stuff? A legal escorting business?

  • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
    @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 3 роки тому +1

    Well damn

  • @mujkocka
    @mujkocka 3 роки тому +3

    There are lots of viable options for women to work. It’s no longer the Victorian age. My mom sold food and vege to support the 4 of us after her divorce. She was only primary 2 educated. Paige had more education. She just wanted more stuff

  • @misha-rt2hg
    @misha-rt2hg 3 роки тому

    It's go.down to money

  • @timbosboudreaus7996
    @timbosboudreaus7996 3 роки тому

    If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby.

  • @JorgeGarcia-hq5jq
    @JorgeGarcia-hq5jq 3 роки тому +3

    The jittery donna ostensibly disagree because possibility immunohistochemically detect besides a peaceful environment. heartbreaking, misty crow

  • @Djroma2010
    @Djroma2010 3 роки тому +7

    Escort hype!!! She got what was coming too her. Reall smart 😂

    • @Djroma2010
      @Djroma2010 3 роки тому +3

      40 times the mortality rate. That means its dangerous as hell 😂

    • @qazmko22
      @qazmko22 3 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @clembot7843
      @clembot7843 3 роки тому +8

      @@Djroma2010 deadly bc clearly some men see women in her shoes as less than human and disposable. Pretty dangerous to drive a car, we don't hate on people who die in car crashes. "Should've just walked idiot".

    • @anaphylaxis2548
      @anaphylaxis2548 3 роки тому +8

      No one deserves to be treated that way!

    • @Djroma2010
      @Djroma2010 3 роки тому +4

      @@clembot7843 Drunk driving. Sex work... You know what you're getting into.

  • @GyanPrakash
    @GyanPrakash 3 роки тому +2

    First

  • @atomicmozart
    @atomicmozart 3 роки тому +3

    Biden the clown 🤡🤡🤡

    • @eneobande7433
      @eneobande7433 3 роки тому +13

      You are the clown obviously 🙄

    • @auntijen3781
      @auntijen3781 3 роки тому +5

      Typical MAGAt

    • @eneobande7433
      @eneobande7433 3 роки тому +5

      @@auntijen3781 MAGGOTS, as somebody I know describes them.

    • @stephc3874
      @stephc3874 3 роки тому

      You’re off topic