"Conflict With A Narcissist" | Conflict | Pastor Bobby Chandler

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  • Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 64

  • @nicolefay8887
    @nicolefay8887 2 роки тому +47

    Now i know that God' uses pple anywhere to speak to us,i came across your sermons on the worst day of my life and if it wasn't for this my life would have taken a different turn...I can't thank you enough,God bless you

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 10 місяців тому +7

    The Bible says to avoid such people

  • @mishajones5508
    @mishajones5508 7 днів тому

    Wow this came right on time thank you Jesus for revelation and giving me the chance to get it right

  • @Narcabusesurvivorsthrivers
    @Narcabusesurvivorsthrivers 8 місяців тому +3

    My ex boyfriend is a narcissist. I’ve been watching your videos for the last week and when this popped up I had to watch it. I learned about narcissistic abuse and narcissisim after my relationship.

  • @virtuousnaj3573
    @virtuousnaj3573 2 роки тому +18

    I’m glad a Pastor is speaking on this and in such a graceful way!

  • @glocast5640
    @glocast5640 2 роки тому +9

    Wow that hit home my husband is a narcissistic and we serve the Lord I pray every day that he will be delivered from this spirit Pastor Bobby help me pray for Trudeliverance from my husband Roland It will not follow my sons in Jesus name🙏🏼

  • @yanah7278
    @yanah7278 2 роки тому +10

    22:37 actually this is exactly how it went and it was the most heartbroken I've ever felt. but God worked on my heart in these times and He is truly amazing, the way He works. true happiness came to me when I was at my worst and God showed me my heart wasn't broken but missing His love. His love truly brought/brings me happiness and the peace I was aching for.

  • @DaleenKruger
    @DaleenKruger 3 місяці тому +1

    I am divorcing the narcissist after adultery which he deny even though I have proof. This has brought me closer to God. We were uneven yoked.😢

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 9 місяців тому +4

    You can't talk to a narcissistic person..

  • @victoriamoller9834
    @victoriamoller9834 Місяць тому

    Amen!

  • @machetty5233
    @machetty5233 2 роки тому +13

    Hello please pray for me I am 74 year old lady, who lives in Chatsworth South Africa. My home is in shambles due to the floods

    • @danielagarciacruz9795
      @danielagarciacruz9795 9 місяців тому

      I will pray for you hope your house gets better God will help you

    • @user-pq8ek5nh8s
      @user-pq8ek5nh8s 3 місяці тому

      Praying.🙏🙏💯💯❤️❤️

  • @Preshy8839
    @Preshy8839 2 роки тому +8

    I saw myself in this sermon. I thank God for speaking through you and I'm praying for change

  • @shannonsmith7842
    @shannonsmith7842 Місяць тому +1

    Yes thank you amen. 🙏 God please continue to work on me , I am removing this hate and hurt within my heart, and need You Jesus in my life and heart. ❤️ Forgiving those who hurt me the most. 💜

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 10 місяців тому +4

    How do you go to someone who is a narcissist who thinks they are never wrong?

    • @user-pq8ek5nh8s
      @user-pq8ek5nh8s 3 місяці тому +1

      You can’t. It is best to just leave them.

  • @wildflowerz3
    @wildflowerz3 2 роки тому +9

    36:00… I mean honestly this entire sermon is incredible (that’s just my favorite bit)
    This dude is for sure the first pastor I’ve listened to in years that makes me WANT TO listen. He’s amazing, thank you so much for being so raw and real. It’s exactly what I needed in my life 🥲

  • @vickymicky9082
    @vickymicky9082 3 місяці тому +2

    Please pray for me because I’m always angry around my own father and i hate to have conflict with him. All this underlying hurt that he’s caused me and the fights my parents had before , I’ve seen it all and it has affected me mentally. Please pray for me to be able to forgive and let go off the hurts and renew my mind and spirit.

    • @DaleenKruger
      @DaleenKruger 11 днів тому

      @@vickymicky9082 I pray for your healing through Jesus Christ 🙌🏻

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 9 місяців тому +1

    The Bible says, “to avoid them.”

  • @Fabrelyahya
    @Fabrelyahya 2 роки тому +4

    So Glad I found you on TikTok all of your sermons touch me and I learn more about my creator watching your videos.

  • @euniceghartey452
    @euniceghartey452 2 роки тому +2

    I thank God for coming across you on my instagram feed #grateful. God bless you

  • @radenafletcher2507
    @radenafletcher2507 11 місяців тому +1

    I shared this message with friends and family

  • @katieG1234
    @katieG1234 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for addressing this pain. I’m praying for healing and forgiveness.

  • @psalmpro27
    @psalmpro27 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this message. We humans need the Lord's help to handle conflict.

  • @nicolefay4195
    @nicolefay4195 Рік тому +2

    This message is hard to take in,but its the truth...i really hate this woman who had an affair with my husband..may God help me heal

  • @racheljones509
    @racheljones509 3 місяці тому

    @ 2:00 timestamp. My youngest sister sent this to me. We came from a family with toxic ways of dealing with conflict. I think my dad is a narc and as a result was very abusive to his 6 daughters and two sons and yes, my mother. Thank you for this message. She is a baby Christian and right on for sending me this. Healthy conflict ❤

    • @AuthenticChurch
      @AuthenticChurch  3 місяці тому

      The Holy Spirirt is amazing. Thank you for reaching out.

  • @user-pq8ek5nh8s
    @user-pq8ek5nh8s 3 місяці тому

    I am the youngest. But, in a house with a uncle that was mentally & physically abusive. My mom/aunt was an amazing mom though.❤❤

  • @gb-yn2re
    @gb-yn2re 8 місяців тому

    This is so good. I am so Thankful for his Minisistry..This message helped me to understand how to forgive by not standing in the way of God being able to move in their life. When we do not forgive someone it is like trying to lock ourselves outside with them, so they will freeze to death...Canadian here...

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 10 місяців тому +1

    It says to avoid such people

  • @carmencitarios9666
    @carmencitarios9666 Рік тому +2

    This sermon really touched my heart ❤️. Thank you 😊 🙏

  • @user-pq8ek5nh8s
    @user-pq8ek5nh8s 3 місяці тому

    I will pray.🙏🙏But, know that NPD is so dangerous for your spirit to be around.💯💯My kids father left years ago. We were together for 10 long years & I am talking from experience…He nearly destroyed me. I will pray for you too.🙏🙏🙏I was actually relieved when he left & not sad and we had two sons together.💯💯

  • @danielagarciacruz9795
    @danielagarciacruz9795 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for everything you do You help me so much in my struggles thanks God for this man

  • @heatherrenton2086
    @heatherrenton2086 Рік тому

    Watching from Prince George British Columbia BC

  • @Mevr.Patty1986
    @Mevr.Patty1986 9 місяців тому

    Wow! What a message 🔥🙌🏽 thank You Jesus!

  • @user-qd2mu9jw6u
    @user-qd2mu9jw6u 6 місяців тому

    I'm watching from Coal Grove, OH. Can't wait to visit and possibly move there.

  • @barbaraglorioso7370
    @barbaraglorioso7370 2 роки тому

    Powerful sermon! Thank you and continue teaching truth.Blessing to you and the church,!

  • @Lovelybeliever11_11
    @Lovelybeliever11_11 Рік тому

    Thank you Pastor for your powerful message. This ministered to me so deeply inside you explained exactly every time I step up and reach goals and favor in my life. My mother is the only person to discredit me doesn’t say I’m proud of you always bringing me down and she’s the one person that brought me into this world that I feel that I have no fever. I’m never too good enough for her. I try so to be a perfect daughter anything I do never pleases her. And it hurts because she’s my mother. 😢💔🙏🏻
    Please pray for my mother she has a tumor in her liver and it’s killing her softly. I pray that she has a a relationship with God before she goes I’m worried about her salvation and her deliverance because I know she’s not walking in favor with him, and she has so much anger and hate towards me. For whatever reason I was never asked to be brought into this world. But here I am standing in agreement for her to just except me and love me I am her daughter by blood, I was never given a choice to pick my mother we pick our friends, not our family Amen 🙏🏻

  • @donellegale7128
    @donellegale7128 2 роки тому +2

    So thankful for this sermon! I really needed to hear this when I was about to condemn .

  • @aishanusoul
    @aishanusoul Рік тому

    U a good pastor brutha

  • @guardmyheart8162
    @guardmyheart8162 2 роки тому

    Watching from Kansas

  • @adamchavez999
    @adamchavez999 Рік тому

    Wow this kid is GOOD!

  • @solitatorres3682
    @solitatorres3682 11 місяців тому

    Sadly I go thru this in my marriage daily..😢

  • @desireacree
    @desireacree Рік тому

    Wow amazing words of truth

  • @sunshinewarmth6066
    @sunshinewarmth6066 Рік тому

    Great sermon 🙏🙏

  • @bettyjean4018
    @bettyjean4018 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @thiriketty
    @thiriketty Рік тому

    This is soo good 🎉

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 10 місяців тому +1

    What if they do not repent?

  • @soundofmusicbim
    @soundofmusicbim Рік тому

    ✋❤✋❤

  • @sarahorrigan3341
    @sarahorrigan3341 11 місяців тому +1

    How does your second tip work in a marriage? I forgave 7×7×7, and yet I'm still betrayed.

    • @VictoriousExpressions
      @VictoriousExpressions 10 місяців тому

      The betrayal hurts so much, I am sorry you are going through this. ❤ keeping you in my prayers

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 9 місяців тому +1

    This does not work with a person who is narcissistic with the Jezebel spirit instead we are called to expose them .

  • @alexandramarie1245
    @alexandramarie1245 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @kaylahlaurentz4806
    @kaylahlaurentz4806 Рік тому

    Prayer please. My 9 year old child has these traits and I'm trying to teach her but I am struggling with lack of patience, control and anger. I can't separate from her because she's my child. It's very difficult.

  • @nondyebodumeko9682
    @nondyebodumeko9682 Рік тому

    The gaslighting parents LORD shuuuuuu😭😤