ISTP Male Uzair Ti-Ni SC/B(P) MF Maybe Social Type 4 Interviewed by ENFP Male

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  • Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
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    In this follow-up interview, I got a chance to talk to Uzair about what it's like to be an ISTP jumper Ti-Ni SC/B(P) MF. During our conversation, Uzair talks about his past relationships and how when it comes to dating, his partner would know 80% of him but he won't let anyone keep going and know the remaining 20%. He said this has caused a rift in past relationships as a result. Uzair said keeping that 20% detached makes him feel safe. Uzair also said that Dave has mentioned he is a social type 4. Uzair kind of feels like a 2 as he definitely has saviour friends but wanting independence and detachment and focusing on different projects makes him seem 2ish. Also, Uzair thrives off negative reinforcement which is another crosscheck for social type 2. With that being said, Uzair doesn't want to approach social type at the moment and will wait until he gets his life sorted out before approaching it again in the future.
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  • @PersonalityTrainer
    @PersonalityTrainer  10 місяців тому +2

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    B = Blast
    C = Consume
    P = Play
    S = Sleep
    Other videos to help you understand the letters (animals) based on each type who uses them:
    ENFP, INFP, ESTJ, ISTJ:
    SF Sleep (Si+Fi) - ua-cam.com/video/BM6so6Q-VWk/v-deo.html
    ST Blast (Si+Te) - ua-cam.com/video/aRKuAUT3yKI/v-deo.html
    NT Play (Ne+Te) - ua-cam.com/video/h39mBtZFwzQ/v-deo.html
    NF Consume (Ne+Fi) - ua-cam.com/video/_lomB1IsLC0/v-deo.html
    INFJ, ENFJ, ISTP, ESTP:
    NT Sleep (Ni+Ti) - ua-cam.com/video/n9HdCF_2aHI/v-deo.html
    NF Blast (Ni+Fe) - ua-cam.com/video/jsTntag8Kk4/v-deo.html
    ST Consume (Se+Ti) - ua-cam.com/video/fiF1xUdQln4/v-deo.html
    SF Play (Se+Fe) - ua-cam.com/video/6dD2y-0Nqw0/v-deo.html
    INTJ, ENTJ, ISFP, ESFP:
    NF Sleep (Ni+Fi) - ua-cam.com/video/IGclXt1BWh0/v-deo.html
    NT Blast (Ni+Te) - ua-cam.com/video/z2bkOcAPj2I/v-deo.html
    ST Play (Se+Te) - ua-cam.com/video/UM1sK6GfxN4/v-deo.html
    SF Consume (Se+Fi) - ua-cam.com/video/Jn5koE8Fzh4/v-deo.html
    INTP, ENTP, ISFJ, ESFJ:
    ST Sleep (Si+Ti) - ua-cam.com/video/zOqXaieqVfA/v-deo.html
    SF Blast (Si+Fe) - ua-cam.com/video/wOFeVxlrz_Y/v-deo.html
    NT Consume (Ne+Ti) - ua-cam.com/video/RByJGqRftzo/v-deo.html
    NF Play (Ne+Fe) - ua-cam.com/video/JllQVPabCcg/v-deo.html
    Social Types Explainer Videos:
    Social Type 1 - ua-cam.com/video/pvtvA0neiHg/v-deo.html
    Social Type 2 - ua-cam.com/video/NXUu7e96FdY/v-deo.html
    Social Type 3 - ua-cam.com/video/6Nv7zhqoG1o/v-deo.html
    Social Type 4 - ua-cam.com/video/p8a_mTxpZ5k/v-deo.html
    Sexual Modalities Explainer Video:
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    Cognitive Functions Explainer Videos:
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    Extroverted Intuition - ua-cam.com/video/j7ggs5p3Jds/v-deo.html
    Introverted Sensing - ua-cam.com/video/xqNEj_6hWTc/v-deo.html
    Extroverted Sensing - ua-cam.com/video/DHwLCpst-00/v-deo.html
    Introverted Thinking - ua-cam.com/video/jh1pWnCdSYg/v-deo.html
    Extroverted Thinking - ua-cam.com/video/V6QMfMJ-r6s/v-deo.html
    Introverted Feeling - ua-cam.com/video/FhSKlFwF30M/v-deo.html
    Extroverted Feeling - ua-cam.com/video/TVGosWAf6xI/v-deo.html

  • @nootall
    @nootall 5 місяців тому +3

    The dream/memory Uzair had of someone saying "I'm better than you at everything" is super interesting.
    I was just typed TiSe CS, and I have that exact memory which haunts me.
    One of my friends during high school would say it several times.
    And I eventually came up with the lame comeback of "does that include being an asshole?"
    But yeah, funny similarity there,

  • @Ponitypon
    @Ponitypon 10 місяців тому +7

    i also ALWAYS hear the tribe voice as negative. amazing video Uzair!!

  • @NicStride
    @NicStride 10 місяців тому +14

    This is a fantastic therapy session

  • @34laye
    @34laye 10 місяців тому +9

    Best interview ever. I love it.

  • @salukyh
    @salukyh 10 місяців тому +5

    NT is such a superpower, wow. Fantastic discussion. And so is DD.
    Kendrick you are amazingly fast at seeing the patterns/making the connections during interviews, I'm always baffled! You gaze a few times around the room and you got it! :D
    Greetings from an NT last IP.

  • @anniesarah503
    @anniesarah503 10 місяців тому +6

    I think my partner is ISTP and it has taken YEARS to get access to that last 20%. Now we've been together for 15.5 years and I've finally gotten access little by little, through shared experience. But it was super frustrating for a good decade to keep coming up against THE WALL. But I knew I loved him no matter what so that's why I stayed and I'm happy that I did.

    • @Goodwin999
      @Goodwin999 9 місяців тому

      Could you elaborate what this wall is? What does that last 20% contain? I do the same thing I am trying to understand this better.

    • @Goodwin999
      @Goodwin999 9 місяців тому

      And what does the letting down of that wall look like?

    • @anniesarah503
      @anniesarah503 9 місяців тому

      I think the content of the 20% I'm referring to would be different for each person. But it's basically, vulnerability. There were hidden, vulnerable parts that it took a long time for my partner to allow me to see. Going through life challenges together (like death, relationship drama, illness.., etc.) brought us closer. We are both really independent but have developed a healthy interdependence over time. @@Goodwin999

  • @someonerandom713
    @someonerandom713 10 місяців тому +7

    Loving the 4 rant. Basically, being typed a 4 is like being put into Hufflepuff. You'd wanna embrace it and win as a Hufflepuff, that's the good thing to do. But the label still feels like s**t, I get it.

    • @uzih
      @uzih 10 місяців тому +4

      Id say don't embrace it

    • @someonerandom713
      @someonerandom713 10 місяців тому +1

      @@uzih Ok, yeah, I got it wrong there.

    • @Goodwin999
      @Goodwin999 9 місяців тому +4

      @@uzih tricky slope to go down. If you don't embrace it how are you ever going to accept yourself and like who you are? At the end of the day you are your type and social type. What are you trying to prove by saying your not a mope and faking the play? It just makes you look silly and childish. Don't be fake, be the real you - people will like you more and respect you for being true to yourself

    • @uzih
      @uzih 9 місяців тому +2

      @@Goodwin999 You have to make an honest assessment of where you are now, where you want to be, and what you realistically could be, and you should err on the side of reaching beyond what you think you're capable of. For example, for so long I told myself "I'm bad at sports," even my type "demon Se" would back that up, in retrospect that was just a limiting belief and I regret not seeing my potential there that I'm realizing later in life.
      Why identify with being, shy, a mope, lazy, socially inept, or whatever else, when a) I don't want to be like that and b) i can easily not be those things. There is the "authenticity" of identifying/accepting your weaknesses and where you are right now (eg lazy or quiet, then there's the authenticity of identifying with what you are at your "best.". I take your point you don't want to reject who you are in the moment, but identifying with a temporary state in your life as who you fundamentally are is also not authentic in my opinion

    • @anonymouslearner2454
      @anonymouslearner2454 6 місяців тому

      Don't say a word about Hufflepuffs! 😤
      Hufflepuff is the best house to be put in
      (just joking 😅)

  • @untypologiste
    @untypologiste 10 місяців тому +4

    Such a great interview !

  • @diplomat2623
    @diplomat2623 5 місяців тому +1

    I think “the negative tribe voice” is the mTi inner critic.

  • @IndieAuthorX
    @IndieAuthorX 10 місяців тому +5

    SF last and feeling bad. I am definitely learning that myself. SF sleep last so I am trying to write down how I am feeling physically. How I am different is I am not as interested in escaping the bad feeling but I do need to regulate it correctly.

  • @RonFlux
    @RonFlux Місяць тому +2

    Sounds like an ENTJ to me.

  • @dice_spice
    @dice_spice 10 місяців тому +7

    what's uzair's skincare routine? I thought he was 25!

    • @uzih
      @uzih 10 місяців тому +2

      Lool I think the zoom video had a filter on I was wondering why my face looks like that

  • @elusiveglasslizard
    @elusiveglasslizard 10 місяців тому

    "through trust and SHARED EXPERIENCES" - when i hear the term shared experiences i'm like "Si in the stack!!" hahah

  • @elusiveglasslizard
    @elusiveglasslizard 10 місяців тому +2

    "if you know everything from the getgo about someone whats the fucking point" - nah bro. that sounds like the play that Uzair and I are missing. I don't want to "play" for the rest of that 20%. I want to know it right off the bat! Give me that sleep processed hardcore deep stuff that nobody knows. :)

  • @J11_boohoo
    @J11_boohoo 10 місяців тому +3

    I am the opposite of how uzair takes tribe judgement, if someone says something to me negatively I WILL NOT adjust myself for them even if I want to
    I don’t wanna seem like I am proving my worth to anyone

    • @AugustBonds
      @AugustBonds 10 місяців тому

      I wonder if you are the same with criticism as I am then, that I hate criticism only if I agree with it :D If they are wrong, I don't give a damn, but if they are right it pisses me off so much xD (I still see the value in the correct criticism, despite my emotional reaction)

    • @AugustBonds
      @AugustBonds 10 місяців тому

      An ENTJ ex of mine loved criticism that was right, because she could grow from it, and hated criticism that was wrong :D

    • @J11_boohoo
      @J11_boohoo 10 місяців тому

      @@AugustBonds actually yeah I tend to hate any form of criticism, even the right ones, idk why tbh

    • @uzih
      @uzih 9 місяців тому

      it might be fi

  • @34laye
    @34laye 10 місяців тому

    I have pretty much the same type. Kendrick can, we D.M

    • @PersonalityTrainer
      @PersonalityTrainer  10 місяців тому

      You'd like to do an interview?

    • @34laye
      @34laye 10 місяців тому

      How to reach out to you.

    • @PersonalityTrainer
      @PersonalityTrainer  10 місяців тому

      @@34laye feel free to send me an email or message me on Facebook