I'm a 57yr old man struggling with a mid life crisis: Lonely Sunday Chat : Health, AI, and Longevity
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- I'm a 57yr old man struggling with a mid life crisis: Lonely Sunday Chat : Health, AI, and Longevity
Hi Guys - Today I'm alone and talking in my car about various things on my mind, longevity, health and healing, AI, and a quick preview of my 12 pillars of healing idea
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Gerald, I’m reading the comments & I’m gratified to see so many people rooting for you fella. In my humble opinion there is no substitute for human connection. I’d take you for a coffee in a heartbeat. Stay strong bud.
Me too
Me too
@@troytempest290 me three
Great video.
I was a process control engineer (just retired 2/21/24) I would always stress test my projects just to make sure it would work under all conditions.
Also depending on the government.
But I found away of earning more income despite my Retirement. $57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.
wow this awesome 👏 I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how do I make such weekly??
@@babytruca02Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.
I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.
You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government.
Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment.
You my friend are a special man.
You dont have adhd or autism.
You have been through alot of trauma.
And are still being co ercively controlled.
Been there .
Dont doubt yourself.
its narcissist abuse possibly
Thanks Stuart, how did you heal?
Too much self analysis and introspection is just as bad as none. Try doing things for charity it will take you out of your self contemplation. Dont get trapped in the victim mentality. Change things. ❤
Great thoughts and advice 👌
Yes you are right
That’s a callous overview of a terrible condition
@@FolaRemi62 not really.. at some point a person has to shift perspective rather than overthink everything. What good does endless introspection do? That's half his problem. It's a habit and it's incredibly difficult to break, admittedly.
@@retropanda484 I agree! But it is the shifting perspective that is a difficult thing to do! That has to be an integral and fundamental understanding oh how one’s systems works as a machine to understand how a change can be made. Mental illness is a brain body connection
You're 57, & from what I gather, you've been in this rut for several years. At 57, you've got roughly *10-15 years* of decent life ahead of you.
So I'm going to be blunt. You can either decide to live a better life going forward, or maintain this level of unhappiness until the end.
If you want the former, you're going to have to make hard choices & implement them. Set a 6 month timeline & stick to it.
If it's the wife, then divorce & move on. You can't destroy your life because of children. And anyway they are fairly old already. Divorce, take a 3 or 4 month trip to SE Asia & make a long-term plan.
The alternative is continuing to moan on UA-cam.
Good luck.
@jacqdanieles Exactly. He is lost in this victim mentality. He needs to divorce his wife and break free. She clearly doesn't respect him with his victim mentality. I recommended Richard Cooper to him, 'The Unplugged Alfa'. But I don't think this guy will listen and do the work involved to improve himself. Richard will give him the fatherly advice he needs. This man needs to learn to be mentally strong. Women don't respect weak men. He doesn't have
"Mental illness". He needs to grow a pair.
@@patriciafix6626 Why do you think he doesn't have mental illness though?
its not moaning ??! .............its self healing talk therapy .... fact !!
@@patriciafix6626 Patricia, I assume you are a woman, how do you know what it means to grow a pair? Why should I care what a woman wants and be a slave to her,? It doesn't make sense to me, how do you I don't have a mental illness, Ive taken antidepressants for 30yrs, for no reason at all.
Only child here also. Your videos resonate so much with me. All the best mate.
So am I too but you get used to it somehow I have to say there too.
I'm also an only child. We should unite😁
@manueladarazsdi9675 indeed so too.
@manueladarazsdi9675 you really are so right there too.
@@manueladarazsdi9675 😀
How about looking onto setting up a dog boarding kennels, you have enough land there, obviously you will need planning permission etc. Also, start your on vegetable garden/herb garden, get some chickens for eggs, all that will keep you busy and be good for your mental health
Love and light to you Gerald❤❤❤
That's a good idea, also dog Holidays are a thing.
HI GERALD THE ADVICE ABOUT WHAT NOT TO GIVE A DOG TO EAT IS NOT COOKED BONES SS THEY MAY SPLINTER. BEST WISHES TO YOU GERALD. ITS 2: 38 AM HAVE SLEPT DURING DAY.WISH YOU GOOD WISHES GERALD
Hi Gerald. Thanks for your response. I can't today. Am shattered from work. Then watching the football with my son. As its a special occasion. I was thinking later in week or maybe next week. Your morrisons friend.
Hope England do well, Im watching as well
Everytime i watch one of your videos i actually sit everytime and find myself thinking id do anything to swap places with you . That i guess shows how utterly horrible my life is 😔
Me too...i am 50
Yeah I know very well this Horrible. From thriving to hold my/our own, ten years now. Entitlements ruined the marriage. She went for herself. If ever a divorced single mom friend enters as a friend to her, prepare. Most likely she'll sell the So Great lie. This happened, then a year of it had her having a sweetalking boyfriend also enter. They team up, it becomes just you against both of them.
@@UKTonyMagill❤
Im sorry mate, I thought my situation is a bit bad, maybe you can make some vids, I will watch them if you do. It can help you release some stress
you just reminded me that I have a red light therapy light I had forgotten about so I will look for it to use it on my healing broken wrist. Take care.
Hi Gerald. Is that a yes, you would like health walk? Or a no? Morrisons lady.
Hi mate keep going! I think what you need to do is start a group where we could all talk and exchange experiences. Like a streaming platform? 💚
Just to say too the local food bank is useful as well.🙏❤️🏴
Gerald you can do self healing without paying anyone. Please take my advice. I've healed me all of me mentally physically emotionally.
Your life can change depending on your job. Your sense of confidence etc. many pretend to be tough in security and get the tattoos and they banter etc.
so, your sense of identity comes from work quite often.
Also don’t forget church.
I have a similar personality to you. I relate.
I do everything for my kids. I used to tutor and three wives were after me but I said no. One was an upmarket solicitor, one was a tiger mother and one was a perfect Asian doll.
The solicitor was Bulgarian. Red shorts! I turned up and no one was there. The family were skiiing. Can you imagine?
I had to say thanks but no thanks!
My other half was with her guitar tutor. I realised as she could play not a single tune!
I forgave her and we have two kids now. But I doubt she is in the gym for 10 hours a day.
Everyone is neurodivergent now!!
At least you are rich. I have 0. Besides Armageddon now!
I'd like to hear more about your day to day relationship with your wife. It's interesting.
I'm married with kids.
social anxiety is crippling we need to plan our journeys. Every journey . You’re equal in any relationship remember that ❤ . My entire income comes from eBay .i sell wax melts .its allowed me to have a full time income without going outdoors. I’m the breadwinner but wasn’t always. I get amazing feeling giving my partner money for things he needs. Never able to do that until eBay business . I travel on electric scooter it has saved my sanity, this piece of metal and wheels has got me outside without panic.used one 5yr and now I get out but I still on edge with people outside .im working on it I have PTSD from 2017 according to my doctor .
Hey Gerald, may I suggest you try meditation 10 mins per day and calm your mind down or join a local group.please explain WHY do you have so many dogs ? Don't misunderstand me I ADORE animals as I share 2 pugs with my brother. We have pug parties sometimes it's great fun. Here's a question for you, where do you think the past/present/future are? Also do you really not like each other if so you shouldn't be together. Let me tell you both men and women need peace LOVE Harmony in their life and you can achieve this too. You won't need medication when you achieve peace BUT you have to create it within you.Much LOVE to you blessings take care.🙏❤️🏴
Get a life you could be in Gaza
You may have HDTV.
57 is a little old for me a midlife crisis, isn't it?
Thanks for your comment! Midlife crises don't have a strict age limit. In the past, they were often associated with people in their 40s, but many experts NOW recognize that they can happen later in life too. It's all about personal experiences and how we respond to life changes
They can happen till 60s . Read it
57 is well past mid life bro
Never have a victim...mentality...
ive never been healthier at 62 next month since i went vegan 15 years ago.
Yes you can have more than one diagnosis . I have GAD (general Anxiety Disorder) Autism and ADHD. If you have Instagram Facebook or a phone number or something I can get in touch with I can get into more detail about this metal health conditions
You sound like a sensitive Italian...
Histamines are released every time we eat. Walking/exercising raises your endorphins, and that's why it's recommended for depression. You're stuck in your head and isolated.I would have worked, saved, and fix that anex back house and rented it out to have given you some passive income. I wouid encourage you to join a mans support group or one for depression etc. You couid use some support. Try microdosing for the depression and anxiety.
Your wife does not respect you. How could she?
What your star sign il guess.... cancer
U only need 1 dog u can afford.
Try to travel to Africa or Asia in a groups of pipo in tha same situation like u.
U on the coke😂😂😂😂 your nose
Are people sending you money from the channel? Just curious? 🫶
One bloke sent me £100 and another sent me £12 which Im going to make a video about, for which Im really grateful.
@@gerofiore9695 nice one 🥰
@@gerofiore9695that’s great news 🌟
Your videos aren’t rubbish at all - I find them calming and can relate a lot
Thankyou very much
I'm sorry if I'm wrong but it sounds to me like you're being mentally abused by your wife.
Has no one ever said this before?
Just from this video it seems she treats you badly and doesn't give you any support whatsoever.
If I'm wrong then i apologise
She sees a man as a strong human who doesn't complain, she sees my 'problems as weaknesses and kind of tells me to pull my socks up
@@gerofiore9695 But that's it, you have problems not weaknesses.
Sorry I was blunt but your video kind of upset me
Your videos are not rubbish, on the contrary I find them very profound.
Thankyou
Thanks for s sharing your current situation. I really appreciate it. So many men can realize by your experience that they are not alone.
Mate I get that your going through a tough time but you gotta drag yourself outta this. I’ve been here and had to change my life for the better. Right now your loathing in your own self pity and it’s not pretty. Focus on the negatives in your life and turn them into positives because right now you’re dragging the world down with you. People’s lives are sad enough without watching you driving around in your car feeling sorry for yourself. You have a fantastic daughter who loves you so much. So change your life for her if not for yourself or you’ll end up not being around anymore the way you’re going. ✊
Yes couldn't agree more with you.
Thanks you are right, I dont intend to stay down and intend to be positive and make goals but talking about my mental health can help others feel that they are not alone, and I can also let out steam seeing as I have no friends to talk to, but yes goalsetting and doing positive stuff are on the cards.
It's so brutal to makes friends today, old friends go poof out of the blue, leaving bewilderment. Your videos help others to not feel so very alone.
It’s true You really only can count on yourself in this life
Thanks, Gerald. A channel needs a certain number of subs and hours of content to make money on UA-cam. You must be close. Good luck. We're rooting for you!
Thankyou Debbie
Keep going, and i agree you need to look outwards, not inwards quite so much and i think you'll feel better. Look at what you like about your life x
Hey Gerald, thank you for your content and for talking about things that most men struggle to due to the putting on a brave face and stiff upper lip approach. Hats off to you for showing the way forward to outwardly discussing difficult topics that many would keep to themselves and allow thoughts to fester and snowball internally accordingly. ❤ If I can have a little of your time I would like to share my thoughts. 🙂
So at the very heart of everything we approach in life is our "foundation of self" (how we perceive ourselves and our self-worth). These internalised thoughts are outwardly projected in our interactions with others. Here is my opinion of you if I may be so bold and please correct me if I am wrong. 🙂
1) You are assured of yourself and as such you aren't intimidated by others, but perhaps due to various triggers you might be faster to take action than you would otherwise...
2) You lacked siblings and best friends in those key developing years which set you back in social confidence and discovering more about yourself and your unique strengths and talents. There is also a knock-on effect here in that it also stunts someone's self-belief and natural development (but the good news is all of this can be healed/put right). 🙂
3) You are a great Dad and husband, it's just situations faced have taken their toll and strain on communication and have been a over-riding and distracting force taking focus away from the love, values and joint visions you and your wife shared coming into your relationship and marriage. Knowing what that shared foundation was that made the pair of you invest in each other, might be all the knowing of how to rejoin those dots and heal together (just my thoughts and assuming this is something you feel worth pursuing).
With regards to mental well-being I think it can be broken down to self-assurance, self-belief and also self-awareness. Someone who possesses all three of these attributes should be strong and secure within themselves. They are able to stay strong in the face of adversity (just like you do Gerald), but beyond that they know they can count on themselves to dig themselves out of most holes, while also knowing what life opportunities fit their skill sets the best and are able to make the most of those opportunities accordingly. To know where one's unique strengths and talents lie is to know where to focus one's efforts to potentially bring the greatest of returns. There can be a slower road to much greater successes though and that is going through all manner of trials and tribulations, discovering the best approaches to overcome them, so they in turn can be the influence and educator that takes people out of struggling and suffering much quicker than they would if they tried on their own, and beyond that to know what matters is to potentially equip people so they don't have to face struggles to start with.
Also to understand what it is to struggle is also to have empathy, compassion, humility, understanding and the "listening" ear that is all the potential qualities that can "heal" others... Take present situations away and no doubt you will be amazed at how much you have learned and achieved already (the equipping of your off-spring with the skill sets and foundation of knowledge to stand on their own two-feet and be life ready is already a shining example)... Just my thoughts and to add openly sharing and discussing all that you do on your channel etc, encourages others to do the same which is already making a huge difference to many. 🙂
Great comment. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks John, Sorry I didnt see this message until now, luckily I just found it by scrolling down this video by chance, thanks again
Your the male version of me .. minus 35 lol... Love your channel
Hey fella, chin up. Action brings good fortune. Keep going, you're climbing a mountain here.
I have ptsd and have to have talking playing when i wake up , listening to your journals is my perfect soundtrack while i begin my day x
Thanks Gerard - like a lot of us you may be down sometimes - but your not out. Your quite a knowledgeable bloke also - seeking knowledge in itself is part of keeping your head above water. In an age were information is on tap everywhere - we also need to take time to do nothing - to walk in nature just absorbing it and seeing the wonder and beauty in it. Even today when its lashing down with rain and flooded - be grateful your not in a desert seeking a drop of water. Keep up the good work boss.
Thanks Michael
What's mine is mine is a thing for sure but in a healthy natriage there should be more give and take. But in a narcissistic relationship what's theirs is theirs until they want to bread crumb you. They do this by just giving you just enough to get by. Witholding money, love, sex, emotion, conversation and giving it in order to get something back. It's very deliberate. She has more. She could give you more. But that whole financial control is a way of doing exactly that - controlling you. Dont listen to the BS that she only has £100 she most likely has £1,000 but will watch you beg and suffer... because its her means of supply and entertainment. She knows exaclty the cost of things! I bet she knows how much things cost when she buys herself luxury items.
When you do ever get your own money save it and put it towards rent. And get the hell out of there and away from her. Do this for you!
You have to earn your own money..to say its your money ..and you can save your own money in the bank..
It's nothing to do with you you don't have an attention disorder people are isolating you and playing mind games you need to find your own punch line
Your. A good man its hard alone im 45
There are good women looking for good men 😊
@@ira4600 Where are they?
@@frederickmuhlbauer9477 😄 Ashford Kent UK
Oh, the post nasal drip? A not well known side effect of sertraline if that's what you're taking. Drink plenty of water so it's not so thick. You also sound chesty too.
Look at these UA-cam live streamers, they are making bank. Some travel around the area they live and just talk and make money. Others travel other countries after they make money on UA-cam. Others only cook, so many crazy UA-camrs doing LIVE streams just walking around their own country showing people areas, talking to the locals as they walk around, show historical areas, simple stuff. They get the handheld equipment, a good phone, and that's about it to record walking around. People donate and get lots of followers it's rather amazing how much money they make. Good for thought
They are usually younger and have a younger audience, doing live streams seems very stressful, definitely for a very shy person, making videos where you just speak to the mobile is easier to do, but yeah many are doing live streams
Yeah but you are talking here! Not much difference and not correct, an older guy showed homes in Italy to by, another lady is 72 and talks about her living in her car and traveling
Get away from your wife. She is toxic.
With that many dogs you should be getting dried food in bulk. Wilkos do a wide range. Try putting gravy with it. When youve got a fully stocked kitchen then go back to feeding them fresh . If they dont like dried just use as a filler to pad out leftovers. The frozen bags of chicken thighs are good value £ 4 for about 6 thighs
I am 66, cycle 8 miles to work and back hills are everywhere in Yorkshire, hard going up but love it going down. I am a widower, have 2 dogs. Cycling is great for mental health freedom.
Wow you are my idol mate, thats wonderful, sorry that you are a widower though.
Hey Gerald really relate to you problems you seem very stressed out full of anxiety you need to spend time out for yourself and relax I think your relationship with your wife is making you feel worse I with you all the best
There’s nothing that clears your head more than going on an adventure that entails actually going somewhere far. Something that takes you away from your current circumstances and the constant negativity around you. Plan something for yourself. Whatever it is, trekking to Everest base camp, swimming with whales in Tahiti, taking a cruise to Antarctica, something out of the ordinary and do-able. Anything. You’ll meet good people along the way that will help you shift your mindset and frame of reality in a massive way. That’s what is needed, different way of seeing. Observing other ways of being. With that you’ll be pulled to make other necessary changes diet, exercise, knowledge-building, skill-building, etc. you’ll meet people naturally that will become friends. it will all come together. It all starts with getting out of where you are and away from the people you are currently around for a little while. Take a break from every one of them. Break the pattern.
VERY wise words my friend, thankyou
Hi Gerald, we all need to be positive and belive in ourselves. Would you like to go out and do, a big mental health walk with me? Your morrisons friend.
Hi Gerald, I can go out for health walk, Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday this week. Let me know. Vicki
With every new video I am building up a picture of you. It is an interesting journey. I worked as a carer with adults with autism, differing spectrums. You don't strike me as autistic. You have too much empathy, humour for a start. As for ADHD, don't most of us have some of it to some degree? Just a term bandied about to encompass wayward behaviour of some which take away from those that have full-on ADHD. Just for completeness on your last video I laughed out loud when you said you had a wheat sandwich, before correcting yourself. I am quite childish really. Talk about anything and add them please to your playlist. I play them sometimes when I am falling asleep. You have a very relaxing voice and it drowns out my tinnitus. Cheers Matt.
It’s a conception that ASD people lack empathy.
Oh, thankyou ... the autism, adhd spectrum is all new to me, yes it could be that Im just sensitive and shy. Sorry about your Tinnitus, I watch a vid about a bloke who did the carnivore diet and his tinnitus solely disappeared, unless it was a raw vegan diet, most likely carni, but diets have the ability to reduce inflammation and oxidative stress, you can maybe look into that, Im glad you listen to me when you fall asleep, I must be entering your subconscious at night, hehe.
@@gerofiore9695 thanks for the tinnitus tip. I am at the present moment unable to change my diet - because I am a pig and eat everything.
Just get a bike with a trailer. 50 min walk is too long to carry groceries on your back. On a bike you could do it in 15mins. You can even get a tricycle if that suits better. Tell your wife to buy GME stock. Its about to go up more than 500% in a short squeeze. Just make sure you sell when it starts to go down again. It wont stay up for long.
Take up morris dancing
To be respected and openly appreciated by the opposite sex (in the same demographic) is rare these days. It's a shame that online validation and gratification has superseded real life mutual admiration and respect.
First major cause of ongoing depression is the act of thinking about and over analysing, it only exacerbates. You are dwelling on the minutiae
How is she in control of the finances? Why?
She gets paid the family benefits and gives me half for myself and the doggies, its fair when you get along with your wife usually
Also those dogs need about 4 miles walking a day. They deserve clean soft sleeping area. If you cant provide this then you owe it to them to rehome them. They are working dogs and they need to be active just like you need interaction. Take some cute pics and put them on pets for homes x
I taught ADHD, you do not strick me as that; perhaps an unsupportive family life, isolated but living in within such, (wife), seeking a purpose to make a living at this time. Maybe think thru your favorite passion (s) that can lead you to a career & making money seems to help all of us.
Oh thankyou, how about somewhere along that spectrum such as aspergers or highly functional??
I no. Live is hard i have bin through the ringer in my life lm 74 lost all my siblings on my own don't see my children. Much and grandchildren. I said before. Take. Life as it comes be a men. Keep smiling good. Luck 👍
Always watch Gerald video to the end top geezer 👍👍👍
Autism high functioning with bipolar. Im a carer to someone exactly like you.
I don’t think you have autism. You’re too self-aware, and you’ve got too much empathy and humour.
My problem is I overthink everything .i can’t go to therapy as much circumstances will not allow it. Watching these is my therapy knowing others are dealing with what I am and I’m not losing my marbles😂
That right there at 24 mins, seems like U were triggered into hyper vigilance, so that'd be PTSD with your ADHD and social anxiety, it's hard being a caring human being. You remind me so much of myself 😅
You're doing a very ADHD thing by overthinking that you might have loads of different mental health issues. I have been on numerous antidepressants for decades. Clinical depression. Now at 60 yrs young I've finally been diagnosed with ADHD and my psychiatrist wants me to be assessed for autism too. The medication for ADHD gives us the dopamine that's missing in our brains. I've done all the clean food and water only diet, all the supplements, giving up all the toxic substances etc, of course that helps with ADHD and autism. I used to do power walking, but can't now due to spinal issues. Just stop ruminating over all the stuff that will help to a degree, coz you won't get round to doing it. I really feel you should look into ADHD. ❤🍀🌻🌞✌️
I’m with you again for another Sunday. I’m in America but feel everything you say
Paradoxically, a friend recently suggested I should look into autism as well. I don't buy this stuff at all. Some people are just born sensitive, but it doesn't mean we have mentally impaired communication problems. Stay strong, Gerald.
Mate, feeling for you.
I know you have no friends but you must find a way to empower yourself!!
You are a good man who hasn’t had the support throughout your life to slay your demons. Thats on them.
You’re a great man. I think you need to hear that.
Anxiety is in our DNA, if your meds aren’t helping get rid of them!! Take a step forward Gerald!! You’re a man who hasn’t had one person in your life ever to tell you, you can do it.
Believe in yourself mate. I don’t know you but I believe in you. You’re not a fool. You’re a very smart man who had been stuck on pause for decades.
Time to press play.
Thank you Brett, those are nice words indeed
Tall men do not live long. Also you dislike it
Never let a women run the money in a marriage!
I wouldn't walk that far to go shopping, because just a few things in your rucksack gets very heavy after a few minutes of walking. Lol
You're so right about respect. She needs to respect you, and that can't be demanded of her because it doesn't work. The quickest and easiest way to achieve this is to hit the gym. It'll do several positive things:
1) You'll soon look your best (you seem fine, but everyone can improve)
2) You'll be full of endorphins and point 1 will generally feel happier and more confident.
3) You'll sleep better.
4) It'll be like the best anti depressant you've ever known due to the above points.
these are facts ......................100 %
Mate, my brother has a Chinese wife and your situation is very similar. She is a big gambler (call it stock and shares if you like but it's more gambling). Very different set of values. She's all about social and financial climbing (no shade on China, just a similar person). I think youll do better on your own fella.
Watch Dr berg. Good for nutrition. He's into keto. I just saw he recommends gargling salt helps with post nasal drip and apple cider vinegar. Gur health is number one priority. You should get all or most of your nutritents from meat like beef and lamb. Beef is a high source of vitamin c. Apparently as we age losing muscle mass is the worst so maybe weight training is the best. You need control of your own money. You looked terrified to be late for wife an not getting groceries. We just want you to be happy, healthy n fulfilled. Ps. Diary of a CEO is awesome too.
Oh God you deserve so much more...
And not being too nosey, but do u not have any money saved from the inheritance, thats yours only.
No, I sold our house in london to free up money for dads care, which was around 200K, whatever the house is worth then goes to the misses and the kids, I have 3 and the rest to me so I can get a hut somewhere.
@gerofiore9695 hi gero, u mean if I was married and God forbid, something happened to my parents, my husband would get the money? I would have a stipulation put in the will if I was to divorce, he receives nothing.if I can... My brother just passed away, and my parents said it was to be divided equally, but nothing to his wife in case she marries again. It's all very confusing, lol
Hey Gerard where do you shop? If you want your money to go further try Aldi or Lidl, good quality food for the price, also have you ever tried Heron foods or farmfoods, get some great bargains and freezer staples
Don't want ro diagnose any1 I can't but maybe adjustment disorder or abandonment issues. My ex and I split up because of abandonment issues but also I found out years later that he could not read. Most of our communication was non existent because of this. He now lives with his mother and our communication is better now that I know he couldn't read as he kept it from me. I'm not sure if he has ADHD but do what works for you I say. You never know.
6 dogs
Ahh the preoccupation with self analysis!
Have you got a garden? Growing your own food is an occupation worth doing. No sprays on the food etc.
Heating the body with such things as cayenne pepper helps with mucous.
Autism is not a disease. It is a different way of thinking. You don't need medicine.
Oh yeah, you can have multiple. You do go on tangents sometimes, that's why it would help to get them down electronically or paper. Keep backups! There's more to you than other people's suggestions. You have lots to say. Still go for the Ayuasca, you need to get in touch with your subconscious. The answer's in there.
Just wish I had the dosh to take you with me. Taking my BFF with me, as he's as broke as you appear to be, but not made of money, sorry.
Yes adhd and social anxiety are linked. Self acceptance and self love and living a life in which you're loved for who you are is far more effective than meds imho.
I’m following your journey which I am finding very interesting. A few of your life experiences and recollections are close to home for me.
It’s easy to say keep your chin up, keep battling on etc but, we all have real battles going on behind closed doors.
Get exercising and try to stay as positive as possible is all I can suggest… having fairly recently gone through a break up and now I find myself on my own, you gotta take each day as it comes and be thankful for what you do have.
😉👍
Hi Gerald, ive wathed a few of your videos and i dont feel you have adhd / autism. You seem like a very intelligent,sensitve and caring man who has depression however from your life experiences, its totally understandable and within the normal range of human responces to things that happen in life. I feel that doing these videos may be somewhat theraputic for you plus you are helping others in similar situations, not to feel they are the only ones; myself included. I wish you all the best and send you a big hug 🥰 from me and my 2 doggies
Hi watch all your video I divorced cant see son how u cope
That's tragic. Why could you not get joint custody? I did. There was no way on Earth my wife was getting full custody of our children...and she didn't! I fought her all the way...and she backed down. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!
@@adamhughes4442 I went through family court in Wales and decided he's better off without me so decided to let them lead there lives
As soon as your son is old enough, he will want to see you.
I hate it when women use their kids as weapons.
@@chrisstones3488 I hope so bud my last chance I love him so much I fought the system and lost the family court is for the woman I'm just gonna be alone haha
Please dont give up mate, dont give up on your son also. Time heals, she may change her mind about you when she realizes how important both parents are, a boy NEEDS his Dad too, without a Dad a boy could potentially, not always become imbalanced. Write a letter to your wife or ex and explain that you love your son very much and would do nothing to hurt him, and that it would be good for him as a boy to have his own father in his life, give her the sweet talk even if you are angry with her, it may soften her heart a bit and then let her stew, she may think about it and let you see your son, also go to the law and get an amicable agreement to see your son regularly, once a lawyer is involved unless there is a serious reason they will allow you to see your son, and you can get legal aid for free. Good luck brother.
You are a great story teller. Love your videos.
How about growing food? Aren't you in the countryside? My dogs a vegan and its purple :)
animal cruelty making your dog a vegan....
@@TheInnerSession Learn jokes a hole.
@@VOLTAN-b7i i thought all dogs go purple on vegan diet so it seemed legit. /s
@@TheInnerSession 😆
Maybe have some fibre with the meat
I know that the more water you drink the better and the higher fat content helps with constipation, the problem with that is that higher fat content meat means higher Histamine meat, chicken breast has low histamine, the skin is high. Adding Butter is ok but its dairy and Im intolerant to dairy unless I use olive oil for dairy
I’m a Muslim convert and I found what has helped me is Islam. Not following what certain Muslims say, but the word of God. Helps with mental health and purpose and direction. I thought I would share but it’s something I normally do