Chit Chat/ GRWM: Maintaining & Making New Friends as an adult

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    08:06 - Girl Chat begins/ How to cultivate your current friendships
    18:53 - Tips for making new friends as grown woman
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  • @Quknxy2324
    @Quknxy2324 2 роки тому +13

    I am currently in the process of trying to make female friends and it's crazy.lol For me it's not the age but the fact I'm an introvert so I have to MAKE myself be social.

  • @everydaylifewithtaboo6698
    @everydaylifewithtaboo6698 2 роки тому +21

    Im the same way with friendships, I think that a lot are focused quantity vs quality relationships. People called my weird for not having tons of friends, but Im perfectly fine with the handfull I have, but Im open to building new relationship as long as its done organically. Im still learning how to hold myself accountable for making sure I show up for them the way they show up for me. While giving them and myself grace❤❤❤❤

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      You said a word with that! Quality over quantity. We’re past the age of having “friends” for the sake of having them.

    • @FrancaJ
      @FrancaJ 2 роки тому +2

      You’re not weird for having a few. Even if I had a ton of friends, I would be a bad one as I wouldn’t have time or make time to meet all of them. And isn’t that what friendships are about? They’re work, too just like any relationship. So I rather have a few and good ones on which I can spend my time. Because I need a lot of me-time!! Besides, I have problems with names 🤣🤣🤣 I couldn’t even remember all their names 😁

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 2 роки тому +1

      Yes Ma’am! This is definitely mirroring my thoughts.

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 2 роки тому

      Yes Ma’am! This is definitely mirroring my thoughts.

  • @tamarabeckham8760
    @tamarabeckham8760 2 роки тому +4

    Love the look. I have only two girlfriends that I can count on for anything. I’m over 45+ and don’t need anymore friends. Just a good man lol.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      Sis I feel you on this! 2 good quality friends is more than enough!

  • @cynthiamarks139
    @cynthiamarks139 2 роки тому +12

    This is so crazy that you posted this video today because I literally just got finished making a profile on the Bumble BFF app! I’ve realized yesterday that between a busy life and people moving and me getting furloughed from my job back in 2020 and then lockdown, etc, etc, I’ve lost touch with all my girlfriends! Someone on Instagram had mentioned they signed up on the Bumble BFF app and had made a couple new friends so I thought Why Not?? What a coincidence that you picked this topic to chat about 🙃🙃

  • @chenesehenderson5194
    @chenesehenderson5194 2 роки тому +6

    I have two good friends but I've noticed the people I meet now are not friends they want to use me or talk about me it's to childish so no new friends for me I'm always the better friend I pay for everything call to check up on everyone I guess I will be patient and wait on God you look so nice

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +3

      I completely understand and have experienced this myself. If you have 2 good genuine friends I think you’re doing good, that’s a blessing!
      I think being open to new friends doesn’t mean you automatically go into it giving your all! Truly take your time and get to know the person and only give what you’d be comfortable loosing (money, time and everything in between)

    • @chenesehenderson5194
      @chenesehenderson5194 2 роки тому

      @@NitaDanielle Amen I so agree

  • @SIZINGPENYRHEOL
    @SIZINGPENYRHEOL Рік тому +1

    Looking Fantastic in the ORANGE Silk Shirt.

  • @paulalewis567
    @paulalewis567 2 роки тому +3

    Girl ur makeup is ALWAYS SO BEAUTIFUL!!
    Ur slick ponytail style has been my GO TO this summer! Too hot 🥵 I’m La. To even THINK abt wearing my natural hair hanging!

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      Thank you!! Yes it’s too hot for anything else 😩

  • @ksimms-bailey4537
    @ksimms-bailey4537 2 роки тому +2

    Most of friendships/sisterhoods are long term (15-40 years) its important like you said to check in with people because everyone is going thru something either big or small. Spend quality time with them, stay in touch and stay connected.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      It’s such a blessing to have good long term friendships like that!

    • @ksimms-bailey4537
      @ksimms-bailey4537 2 роки тому

      It truly is❤🙏🏽, I recently lost a sisterfriend of 33 years to cancer. It is so important to let your team members know how special they are and that you value them because life is so short.

  • @damitalashea3546
    @damitalashea3546 2 роки тому +4

    Sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, Love this Vlog!!! Friendships is so near and dear to me but my reality is I haven't had many TRUE GENIUNE GIRLFRIENDS. I am such a Girls, Girl. Like you said: Good Girl Chats, Pray with, Travel "TRAVEL IS KEY", and going out to dinners, being cute and bougiee 😘. I've also had to mature from being hurt by people who didn't value me as much as I valued them. Now that I'm 47, (48 next month) I come truly value GOOD GIRLFRIENDS!!! GOD has been showing me a couple new Girlies that have the potential of organically growing into good friendships- will see #BFFNMYHEAD❤️

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      Hey bestie! Yesss I truly value friendship and believe it’s heyyy bestie! necessary for everyone! You don’t need a lot a good few or even one will do!
      I pray that you are blessed with genuine friends who value you and give the love that you do ❤️

    • @damitalashea3546
      @damitalashea3546 2 роки тому

      @@NitaDanielle Thank You 😊

  • @JNF7790
    @JNF7790 2 роки тому +2

    I loved, love, LOVED your chat on friendships! You look FABULOUS!

  • @Reah_Letisha_
    @Reah_Letisha_ 2 роки тому +2

    Love the look absolutely stunning!
    I have 3 solid friends that I spend time with and do girls trip with them. I just recently started going to happy hours with coworkers and allowing myself to meet new people. Last weekend I reconnected with an old friend who I hadn’t seen since 2011…she was my highschool best friend and after we both got married just fell off. It was great to see her again and found out she bought a house in my neighborhood!!! ☺️😊

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!
      Yayyy! I’m so happy to hear that! You never know what connection you can make just by stepping out of your comfort zone

  • @shay_d9795
    @shay_d9795 2 роки тому

    Loved the sit down TFS ❤💙

  • @wandahawkins3819
    @wandahawkins3819 2 роки тому

    You help me so much!!! Very Authentic

  • @pearls4ann
    @pearls4ann 2 роки тому

    That outfit is EVERYTHING!!!!!! Gorgeous

  • @lizonia100
    @lizonia100 2 роки тому +1

    Nita girl .. Great video as usual !! Please when Amazon drop their DROP collection will notify us immediately 😃

  • @kdguillo
    @kdguillo 2 роки тому +1

    Great chit chat theme! I can relate to only having 2 friends who are my besties. The rest around me are acquaintances. I am 55 and its hard to relate to others as you grow older. Your outfit is gorgeous and you're beautiful as always❤

  • @LashonDCampbell
    @LashonDCampbell Рік тому +1

    I just finished watching your video ☺️You are amazing and Did a phenomenal job. Such a lovely channel.

  • @LashonDCampbell
    @LashonDCampbell Рік тому +1

    What a great video. I enjoyed watching. You did such a great job and I was glued to my tv. Thank You so much for this lovely channel

  • @Daisylove83
    @Daisylove83 Рік тому

    Looooveeee the outfits 💖💖💖💖. Color combinations 👌👌👌👌.

  • @barbaraanderson1060
    @barbaraanderson1060 2 роки тому

    Sooooooooo BEAUTIFUL, & CLASSY .. That was Some REAL CHIT CHAT TALK ..👍🏾💯..

  • @nimaali201
    @nimaali201 2 роки тому

    Loved the chit chat Nita Danielle

  • @janetn
    @janetn Рік тому

    thank you so much for this video too. i watch your channel always. you are a beautiful person

  • @shellyanne7
    @shellyanne7 2 роки тому

    Hey Nita, I really enjoyed your Chit chat, You gave some great tips on maintaining friendships. Most of my friends that I have, have been for over 20 years. But I lost a few along the way,we just grew apart or that just had some bad ways that I was no longer able to put up with. I just moved to a New state and it would be nice to meet some new girlfrens. I love your outfit and makeup, you look beautiful as always 🥰🥰❤️

  • @deletedddd7472
    @deletedddd7472 2 роки тому

    I watched a video and subscribed directly love your vibe🔥

  • @jacquelinescott8301
    @jacquelinescott8301 2 роки тому

    Another very useful video. I can't believe I was thinking about this topic earlier.

  • @MsRobin108
    @MsRobin108 2 роки тому +2

    Pretty pretty, love how you applied your makeup 💄 💖

  • @jeaneeroane2175
    @jeaneeroane2175 2 роки тому

    I love this! I will definitely be sharing with my friends.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching and sharing ❤️

  • @everydaylifewithtaboo6698
    @everydaylifewithtaboo6698 2 роки тому

    Happy Sunday ❤❤

  • @marlonicholas475
    @marlonicholas475 Рік тому

    Hello Nita thank you for sharing love your channel sweetheart

  • @neicy571
    @neicy571 2 роки тому +1

    It is hard. I have 3 really true friends. My grandmother always said you should be able to count true friends on 1 hand🖐🏽

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      It’s amazing that you have good genuine friendships! 3 is more than enough IMO

  • @MsKelly-om9wl
    @MsKelly-om9wl 2 роки тому

    I absolutely love the makeup.

  • @ENILEUQCAJ344
    @ENILEUQCAJ344 Рік тому

    I appreciate your video of different chats you have. This one right here hit different because I had one bestfriend form high school but had to end that 3 yrs ago due to her been to toxic and other things, Her time ended with me because I have no tolerance for foolishness and she has cause many issues with business matter I've had. I have my cousin but that not the same as having girlfriends. I did want to start hanging out with other women but there always a but I have no idea about! I'm a women with a Big personality, love hard and I love everything to do with fashion. Just giving a little about myself, I'm a attention grabber that doesn't seek it. But there this energy I don't understand that comes from some women. I love to see women win but then there's a vibe that's all wrong coming from them and I'm okay with that. I have so many co-worker that love the sight of me and that so cute and tickles me but I would like to have new friends.

  • @KimberlyWallen
    @KimberlyWallen 2 роки тому

    Great video. Love the make up

  • @judyanncooper3929
    @judyanncooper3929 Рік тому

    I love your style.

  • @msdiva2847
    @msdiva2847 2 роки тому

    Hey, girl, hey! Love the girl chat like always! My two friends are my Mama and sister. Everyone else are associates.

  • @sweetmamarms8167
    @sweetmamarms8167 2 роки тому

    Hey Nita love the video l agree with everything you said you look gorgeous as always 🥰

  • @sharonhowell668
    @sharonhowell668 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the step by step for the make up. I have been trying to get better with mine. So I will use for a reference. 😂

  • @sassyfied08
    @sassyfied08 2 роки тому

    Cute outfit

  • @Mrz.Lakima
    @Mrz.Lakima 2 роки тому

    For your makeup...do you feel your lighter during the winter months and darker during the summer months? Also do you use different tones during those seasons? I have trouble with that.

  • @deemitchell8228
    @deemitchell8228 Рік тому

    💙💙💙

  • @karenwilliams3196
    @karenwilliams3196 2 роки тому

    Love the vlog. Been there done that with friends. Honestly sad to say I am really not interested in close girlfriends. I have being burnt too many times. I have aquaintences and I am cordial to everyone. Love love the outfit and color combo. Definitely a must try.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry to hear that! I pray that you get to experience genuine friendship!
      Thank you so much I loved these colors together!

  • @carleneslaptiste7698
    @carleneslaptiste7698 2 роки тому

    Hi Nita, I enjoy girl chat, and you have a beautiful soul. Ce Ce

  • @rocpeacelove3544
    @rocpeacelove3544 2 роки тому +1

    Girl I had to pause and say
    You are so bomb! You’re classy and such a good natured soul
    Granted I don’t know you but energy is palpable
    Just watching you is a Vibe and relaxing
    And I see you have Invisalign like me
    YAY
    question my legs are similar to yours in that I have cellulite that I absolutely abhor. Albeit I’m hella confident I obsess about my jiggly cellulite thighs
    Has this ever been an issue for you and if so what strategies tips help
    I swear I feel like my thighs are on DISPLAY and they do 😂

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you!
      Honestly, I wear what I love and what I feel good in. If your cellulite bothers you that bad I’d say wear Bermuda shorts or a kimono with the shorts so you don’t feel like they are on display
      Do what makes you comfortable

  • @laverncage54
    @laverncage54 Рік тому

    VERY BEAUTIFUL 😍

  • @chandrapreston3847
    @chandrapreston3847 2 роки тому

    IT'S THE SKIN AND THE DEEP RICH COLORS😃😃

  • @Novembersongbird
    @Novembersongbird 2 роки тому

    Hey Now Hey!!!

  • @destiny3289
    @destiny3289 2 роки тому +5

    I have 3 solid friends that I love! I'm always open to making new friends. It's definitely quality over quantity. I try my hardest to be the kind of friend that I want my friends to be to me.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      That’s amazing! I think 3 is more than enough

  • @olayemi2
    @olayemi2 2 роки тому

    Old doll no new friends even the older friends are the worst. People are just about myself and my own. Friendship give and take all about just associates. Once young now old people are just about themselves it's not worst it to me.

  • @LadyPR1
    @LadyPR1 2 роки тому +1

    Friendships are hard. Sometimes I wonder if we are friends or just associates.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +2

      I agree, friendships can be hard but all relationships take work.
      Lord knows if you feel like you’re being treated as an accessory it’s time to cut that person loose!

    • @leshashanise3499
      @leshashanise3499 Рік тому +1

      Agreed

  • @cathykelley4176
    @cathykelley4176 2 роки тому

    Your makeup is always perfect. My question is do you think all women should wear makeup on daily basis.? I have never worn it unless I was getting really dressed up.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      Thank you!
      I feel like women should do whatever makes them happy and feel good! If you don’t want to wear it daily, don’t! I definitely don’t but I don’t knock anyone who chooses to put it on daily.
      Do what makes you happy 😊

  • @annadumervil7097
    @annadumervil7097 2 роки тому

    Nice chit chat. I love your chit chats Nita. Where did you get the LV earrings from?

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! The Louis Vuitton store in LegacyWest

    • @annadumervil7097
      @annadumervil7097 2 роки тому

      @@NitaDanielle , thanks for replying. Unfortunately, I’m in Florida, I’ll try one of the LV stores there. Thanks again 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @tonyamiller260
    @tonyamiller260 2 роки тому

    Great video; sometimes we need a reminder, I am going to reach out to some girlfriends today.

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      Yesss reach out and have a conversation! I’m glad it was helpful!

  • @Itsavibelab
    @Itsavibelab 2 роки тому

    I need a friend you taking application? lol 😆

  • @denisedixon1579
    @denisedixon1579 2 роки тому +1

    Girl I have friends 3 really good ones years over 20 years. Am I open to new ones yes they part Im not about the BS. Women basically are to catty for me child its like watching alley cats🤣🤣

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому

      Not watching alley cats 😂
      People in general are very interesting to say the least!

  • @rocpeacelove3544
    @rocpeacelove3544 2 роки тому

    and how you gon do all that makeup work and not show me lash application 🥰

    • @NitaDanielle
      @NitaDanielle  2 роки тому +1

      There was no lash application I have lash extensions

    • @rocpeacelove3544
      @rocpeacelove3544 2 роки тому

      @@NitaDanielle ooops my bad sis🤭

  • @Rebelrose1111
    @Rebelrose1111 Рік тому

    Praying for a real one! The last friend I had (best friend of 8 years) F'd my man of 15 years.