Philippine life. little update on our safety here in Mindanao.

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  • @FilipinaAndTheForeigner
    @FilipinaAndTheForeigner 18 днів тому +4

    We feel safe in Mindanao too 👍 🌟

  • @sheilagardner4614
    @sheilagardner4614 8 днів тому +1

    Thanks for the info, we used to live 5 yrs ago a little farther than sindangan and my expat husband is safe, now we are moving back there.

  • @fenderbend3r
    @fenderbend3r 22 дні тому +22

    If your wife is scared, you better listen to her and move asap. She was born there and you should listen to her. It is not worth to make a mistake once. You work online so it is not a big deal for you to move anywhere. Praying here for you and your family. Also praying for that guy who was abducted.

    • @hanovergreen4091
      @hanovergreen4091 22 дні тому +2

      Fear is a survival instinct to be listened to. Moving to the PI in December. Best Regards and Best Wishes!

  • @sheldonvalles3394
    @sheldonvalles3394 22 дні тому +7

    Mr. Steven, You are truly a good gentleman! Wish I could meet you and your family in the future. Your heart is in the right place and your character is golden! I wish I had more friends like you!

  • @garyjohn
    @garyjohn 20 днів тому +7

    I lived in Davao for 5 months. Have been to General Santos and Lake Sebu. Always felt safe. The girl I was with is from Cotabato City. I wanted to visit there and she told me it wasn’t safe to go there.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  20 днів тому +1

      Yes, that is one place we are not venturing to.

    • @AndrewLander3
      @AndrewLander3 20 днів тому +1

      Yes it is not safe. We are about 1 hour east of Cotabato. We know people there. They got kidnapped when they were young and had to marry the Muslims. Higher up in their hierarchy, royals. They are old now, but that is what it is there. They say do not stay there, not over night, dont go restaurants, do not just stroll around.

    • @FilipinaAndTheForeigner
      @FilipinaAndTheForeigner 18 днів тому +1

      My filipina won't let me visit there (catabato) either. We're not far up the road.

    • @peterhardie4151
      @peterhardie4151 14 днів тому

      Cotabato city is fine. I visited there twice on a bicycle.

    • @AndrewLander3
      @AndrewLander3 14 днів тому

      @@peterhardie4151 you have no idea what the conflict with Muslims here was and still is. We are not allowed to go there and announcing it, you do not stay over night, you do not travel there at night. Roadblocks can get you abducted. You do not buy land there. Why is that? Because they are Muslims, they are Abu Sayyaf, MAUTE, BIFF, MILF and many more. They want an independent Muslim Mindanao and they hate and kill Jews and Christians. You were lucky!!!

  • @mars8329
    @mars8329 21 день тому +3

    Thanks for the update! Glad you are doing well.

  • @michaelsetliff1276
    @michaelsetliff1276 20 днів тому +1

    New subscriber here. Great video. Thank you. I like the tone of your commentary. I’ll stick around for a while. 😀. Thx again

  • @VoltaGhost
    @VoltaGhost 20 днів тому +2

    My wife lived in Mindanao and I went and visited her there...they are well aware of where to go and not to go...my wife worked civil service there and they told her not to go to certain areas even if someone needed her services.

  • @whitedragon153
    @whitedragon153 22 дні тому +6

    Thanks for the clarification and info. Great video!

  • @Rip301a
    @Rip301a 22 дні тому +6

    Thanks for the update, be safe.

  • @herbertallen6438
    @herbertallen6438 22 дні тому +4

    Stay safe, brother. We are hoping for the best for you and family.

  • @rogerlarge1585
    @rogerlarge1585 21 день тому +4

    I am in a Barangay of Dapitan City. The local police came here on Monday morning. I can vouch this vlogger is saying how it really is. He is actually letting us know more than the media tell us.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  21 день тому

      Thank you Roger. Many comments here do not believe the police came to see us. Thanks again

    • @rogerlarge1585
      @rogerlarge1585 21 день тому +2

      Welcome. I know the Police from Dapitan have spoken to basically every Foreigner in all of their 52 Barangays. As you correctly said, they only give advice but with no order to leave the area. We are 300kms from where the Kidnapped person lived and I know from experience that 99% of kidnapping does happen in that area of Zamboanga Del Sure. Personally I am not concerned and will do as the Police advised, and that is to be extra vigilant and not put any posts about my trips and whereabouts on Social Media.

  • @mhyrahgu_38
    @mhyrahgu_38 22 дні тому +4

    Be safe Sir and still be vigilant. God bless everyone!

  • @stormkratt
    @stormkratt 22 дні тому +3

    If nothing happened to you before doesn't mean that nothing will happen ever. So keep that in mind and never lose you head. Don't be flashy, don't do anything reckless, blend in.
    Those rules apply to any place in the world.

  • @darktheme2192
    @darktheme2192 22 дні тому +6

    I am from Central Mindanao, if you're in N. Mindanao, you are quite safe but always exercise caution. "Blending in" or living like the locals, that's the mindset. Never flaunt money or anything of high monetary value in vlogs or in real life. Many vlogers do that and that is very foolish. Good luck over there. Amping!

  • @bwilliam6827
    @bwilliam6827 22 дні тому +9

    Agreed be humble in the philippines and don't go around like a rich man.takecare

  • @tinekewolfswinkel1164
    @tinekewolfswinkel1164 22 дні тому +2

    I have been on the lookout for this update. Yesterday I watched many videos by Mr. Eastman and Mr. K. You have a lovely nuanced point of view, and so does Mr K. Man, do I hope that Mr Eastman shows up again. Don't we all. Thank you, and good to hear you are fine. All the best from a follower who is happy to have found you on the internet!

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +3

      Thank you kindly. I also hope for the best outcome for the guy. I have my doubts though

  • @FhyllAngellieChannel
    @FhyllAngellieChannel 21 день тому +2

    I watched his videos and I can say he's putting himself in danger. Being a foreigner you need to fit in the community,sorroundings and lifestyle. And it applies to all over countries.
    Your contents says a lot Sir and very informative. Stay safe!

  • @RyanTheEatingwarrior
    @RyanTheEatingwarrior 22 дні тому +8

    That guy broke all the unspoken rules in PH especially in Mindinao

  • @WJF1959
    @WJF1959 21 день тому +1

    Stay safe Stephen, I would miss your channel!!!!!

  • @davidlingum7822
    @davidlingum7822 21 день тому +1

    Thanks for the update my friend. Take care and be safe.

  • @elvie174able
    @elvie174able 22 дні тому +7

    Cebu so crowded, might consider north Bohol, its very nice and can be in Cebu in 1hr by ferry.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +3

      Bohol is lovely, good suggestion, thanks.

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 22 дні тому +1

      But if you go North Cebu all you will are crickets! It's that remote, you can go there but you better know the locals around there so they can assist you if you need protection or for your safety.

  • @Shar-m30
    @Shar-m30 22 дні тому +2

    Great video Stephen... take care... over 2000 subscribers ❤❤🇯🇲

  • @junlab2612
    @junlab2612 22 дні тому +9

    "kidnapping me is a waste of time"... 🤣😂😅😆

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 22 дні тому +2

      I used to think but that's a reckless thought. They know either your government or your family will try to bail u out...😢

  • @buen393
    @buen393 22 дні тому +1

    Thanks for the update Steve

  • @emiliahellstrom3869
    @emiliahellstrom3869 5 днів тому +1

    You can employ security somebody for a while at home if any unsecurity😊 happen temporarily.

  • @darrenrogers5735
    @darrenrogers5735 22 дні тому +6

    Good follow up video brother. That young guy who was taken looked arrogant and shonky to me. Much better being a conservative fella with no dubious intentions or actions. Cheers!

  • @walterperry4565
    @walterperry4565 22 дні тому +3

    Good update.

  • @michaelatoz580
    @michaelatoz580 22 дні тому +15

    On My 2nd trip to Pinan Philippines My sister-in-law was talking to 2 men about me. They were talking and I could not hear what was going on all I could here was Americano, sisters' husband and sleeping here. I asked my sister-in-law who they were and got some kind of answer I did not understand. I went and got my wife and told her that some men were asking about me and where I was staying and where I was sleeping, I told her pack our bags we were leaving right now. My wife asked her sister and did not understand either what was going on we got in a big fight, and I was heading for the Jeepney and getting out of Pinan fast. My brother-in-law got involved and said that the two guys were PNP officers living down the street and wanted to know of any new foreigners in town and where they were staying in case of kid__- nappings. Needless to say, it caused a big fight in the family with the language barrier not understanding full meaning of words that I asked her and my wife asking her. I went from feeling 100 precent safe to 1000 percent scared for my life in 1 minute. Thing can change fast in the Philippines lol

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +7

      Its true Michael, This was what the police were doing here on Sunday. Just warning us and to keep a low profile. They said we are not targets. The police here look out for us

    • @michaelatoz580
      @michaelatoz580 22 дні тому +6

      @@Philippinedreaming I had other say i was full of smit when I tell this story I know it's true it happened to me.

    • @3starsandasun353
      @3starsandasun353 22 дні тому

      Stop drinking coffee bro.😅

    • @KC-in9px
      @KC-in9px 22 дні тому +3

      ​@@Philippinedreaming Be careful in trusting those who you think are looking out for you. Money makes normally good people do bad things.

    • @silveriorivera8804
      @silveriorivera8804 22 дні тому

      Just follow the recommendations of law enforcement to move to the city. Don’t take changes. This is for your own safety.

  • @brianwilliams3231
    @brianwilliams3231 21 день тому +1

    I'm a new subscriber thank you for all the information\

  • @Isabela2024-yr
    @Isabela2024-yr 22 дні тому +9

    I heard from "Asia Now" vlogger that the guy was kidnapped because he married a girl who was previously married. It sounds like that the ex-husband of the woman Eastman married to, was the perpetrator of the kidnapping. They did not say the motive. It looks like there's an issue between the ex-husband and Eastman's wife.

  • @philipwood9526
    @philipwood9526 4 дні тому +1

    You must take care wherever you are is safe untill its not.

  • @noe.arboleda
    @noe.arboleda 22 дні тому +2

    nice to hear you are safe

  • @karloss3633
    @karloss3633 22 дні тому +2

    Hallo Steve im your neighbor from Galas Baybay on where come from in Lilioy with love❤❤❤❤❤❤ ilike your vedio

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Hello Karl, I been baybay many times fishing

    • @karloss3633
      @karloss3633 22 дні тому +1

      @@Philippinedreaming nice where glad to meet you

  • @DwayneHowell-ss1qe
    @DwayneHowell-ss1qe 22 дні тому +2

    Good feed back. God bless

  • @kennethmeese
    @kennethmeese 22 дні тому +9

    Famous last words "We're not in danger here" I Hope you're right. Stay safe.

  • @aussiepinay
    @aussiepinay 22 дні тому +2

    That’s why this kind of things happens,sometimes the reason is money involved or maybe you had fight with someone or drugs
    like that (i apologise to say this words) but usually my fellow people are kind and friendly.but of course they need to be careful too and keep safe..

  • @carydbman
    @carydbman 22 дні тому +3

    You're pretty gracious after the thrashing you got in the comments yesterday. Man oh man. Nice channel.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +3

      Yes i did hahaha . Have to rise above some comments. Thank you so much

  • @britinoz4305
    @britinoz4305 22 дні тому +6

    South of Illigan, and west of Kidapawan City is the dangerous area. In between them is Marawi, and we all know what happened there!

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 22 дні тому +1

      Where exactly in Iligan. Funny I am actually Iligan. 😂

    • @jerm5
      @jerm5 21 день тому

      ​​@@bigbrother4everThey did say "south of Iligan" so not in Iligan itself, but south of it.

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 21 день тому

      @@jerm5 yeah. I guess it is Marawi. Not far from here. But I wouldn't put my guards in Iligan either

  • @nwced
    @nwced 21 день тому +3

    I lived in Manila for 6 years, and now have been on Mindanao "2 hours south of dipolog" I've never had problems, but I use my common sense. My prayers are with Eastmans family, but he did everything wrong. Especially living in a Muslim area

  • @carolinewick9496
    @carolinewick9496 22 дні тому +9

    I lived in Davao in the 80's when it had a lot of killings and kidnappings. I understand Davao is now considered safe. But if filopinos warn you about anything, like that guy who was kidnapped was warned by locals that he would be kidnapped, you should listen to the Filipinos cos they know. I don't think you can trust your gut instinct as a foreigner cos you won't understand the mentality and pick up the vibes properly in your gut. If Filipinos warn you about anything, listen to them. They get the intel, which is not available to foreigners. There were foreigners killed when I lived there who didn't heed warnings given by locals. Anyway, stay safe.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +3

      Yes Carol its true what you say. He was warned many times and in fact he was afraid for his life. I do not know why he didn't get out when he was warned by his father in law

    • @DaveD4v3
      @DaveD4v3 22 дні тому +2

      @@Philippinedreaming yes agree with caroline

  • @josephrobi6806
    @josephrobi6806 22 дні тому +3

    Am falling in love with you man. You did not paid a Uber taxi to get them to you that you didn’t…😅. But this video redeem you thanks for clarification 😊

  • @firstknight193
    @firstknight193 22 дні тому +2

    I agree... That kidnapped guy is actually putting himself in wrong place and doing that kind of business without feasibility study.

  • @grahamswift5339
    @grahamswift5339 22 дні тому +2

    Sounds like you are rightly concerned.

  • @bwilliam6827
    @bwilliam6827 22 дні тому +8

    I was told that his wife x husband was involved and he had x wife who scammed him.this is just rumours and available online

  • @vincereyes8286
    @vincereyes8286 22 дні тому +9

    It does not matter if you got money or not. These people think your family overseas will come up with the ransom money. Thats how they think. Just be extra careful …

    • @AndrewLander3
      @AndrewLander3 22 дні тому +1

      Thats true, you have a dollar sign on your forehead. Especially when there is no work and some dude needs shabu and goes for a quicky. And then there are still marauding criminal groups, and remands of Abu Sayyaf

    • @jerm5
      @jerm5 21 день тому +2

      But in this case, it doesn't seem like money is the motive for his abduction as no ransom demands have been made. This looks personal.

  • @HemiChrysler
    @HemiChrysler 22 дні тому +9

    Plot twist : he is the danger.

  • @Nuggetsjourney44
    @Nuggetsjourney44 22 дні тому +1

    Steve I’m here to read the expert comments again… haha, the fear in here is hilarious, if it’s your time it’s your time, human nature loves drama, misery loves company lol
    I’ll be in mindanao Friday, I plan to eventually buy a van, convert it into a camper and drive around the whole islands coast line mate, it’ll be hundred times safer than driving through outback australia as some of the communities there are nuts, great update mate, cheers nugget

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Enjoy your travels mate, sounds like a fun adventure.

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 21 день тому

      Come on mate. Which part of Australia do you really feel safer than Mindanao ? Seriously 😂. Mind I have visited most of Mindanao with no issue but it would be absurd to say than I fee safer here than I would in aussie. Matter of fact, if a filipino was to do any injustice here, I would just lick my wound, fold my tail and go... but in oz.?😂

  • @firstknight193
    @firstknight193 22 дні тому +1

    I think just be happy and go along with the locals you'll be fine.

  • @thepontiff7505
    @thepontiff7505 19 днів тому +1

    my wife is from bukid and her relative was in the NPA in the past, not anymore, the NPA is mostly gone.... but they did say bad guys are coming back... but since they had no ransom request so far, it's not a ransom request..... its because he was doing all the wrong things. STILL... zamboanga or anything west of catobato is not safe for a foreigner. Look up Warren Rodwell, he was the last one. aussie guy.

  • @bornonjuly7052
    @bornonjuly7052 22 дні тому +10

    Mindanao are compose of about 22 provinces and half of these are predominantly muslims in the Eastern and southern part are very risky for the foreighners especially Americans and Europeans namely Lanao Del Sur, Lanao del Norte, Maguindanao, Cotabato North, South Cotabato, Sultan Kudarat, Basilan, Jolo, Tawi- Tawi, Zamboanga del Norte, Zamboanga del Sur, Zamboanga Sibugay all these areas a foreigner must take extra caustions in travelling and not good for living with the exceptions of few cities bur need cautions like Zamboanga city, Pagadian City, Dipolog city. The following are provinces where Christians are majority and are peaceful but need cautions. 1.MISAMIS ORIENTAL ( CDO) 2. BUKIDNON 3. 3 DAVAO DE ORO 4. DAVAO DEL SUR 6.DAVAO DEL NORTE 7. MISAMIS OCCIDENTAL 8. SURIGAO DEL NORTE 9.SURIGAO DEL SUR

    • @raygracias4281
      @raygracias4281 22 дні тому +2

      Not all cities or province of south and north cotabato are harmful for foreigners,,, Im from north cotabato and my place is safe bcoz all people live there is all christians....there are some barangays that most of them live are all Muslims,even me I'm afraid to go in their places.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 21 день тому +1

      You meant Western

    • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
      @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 21 день тому +1

      Im thinking of living in bukidnon .. Salamat

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 21 день тому +1

      @@charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p how about iloilo

    • @jerm5
      @jerm5 21 день тому +1

      The western part is the Bangsamoro Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao (BARMM). He was kidnapped in Zamboanga, north of BARMM. It's best to just avoid that area and nearby provinces if you're a foreigner.

  • @Joe-mz6dc
    @Joe-mz6dc 21 день тому +1

    Stay safe. Just follow what the police tell you to do. If they come back and warn you again then you know something's up. If they ease up then the coast is clear.

  • @rolandojacinto-zn8iq
    @rolandojacinto-zn8iq 22 дні тому +2

    Be careful ,,to that place. ,,

  • @SuperMegaPokemonFan
    @SuperMegaPokemonFan 22 дні тому +2

    We're a ways outside of Pagadian and 2 police officers came by and collected more information about me and my wife than I actually feel comfortable about having given, including taking pictures of us and our passports. They said it was because of the kidnapping. We had the same done at the Pagadian City Airport a year ago.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Yes hey did the same here with me. Picture of me and picture of my passport

  • @perryhenrickson7750
    @perryhenrickson7750 22 дні тому +2

    Just worried about others there might think it's a good idea to do the same thing. Most probably not as you are a humble gentleman.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Hello Perry, Just on the news now. Its not the Abu Sayyaf. The police know the suspects now. Nothing to do with kidnapping for ransom.

  • @blessedheavyelements8544
    @blessedheavyelements8544 12 днів тому +1

    I gotta ask. What is with the guy at 13:55 sitting at the bench in the middle of that clearing?? Thank You for the insights! Best Regards and Best Wishes!

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  12 днів тому

      Thats my wifes cousin hahaha

    • @blessedheavyelements8544
      @blessedheavyelements8544 12 днів тому +1

      @@Philippinedreaming But what's he doing just sitting in the trees on a stool and a bench?: It's like he's an artist drawing or a customer at a bar :) Just different ;) Best Regards and Best Wishes!

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  12 днів тому +1

      @@blessedheavyelements8544 He was taking a rest clearing the area. Drinking coffee and on his phone

  • @noe.arboleda
    @noe.arboleda 22 дні тому +3

    he's just a kid, no experience, feel so sory for him.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Me too. I hope i hope for a positive outcome but i am doubting that

  • @akl4709
    @akl4709 21 день тому +2

    A UA-camr recently was kidnapped and shot. He was getting warned before it happens. Error on the side of caution. Play it safe

  • @AndrewLander3
    @AndrewLander3 22 дні тому +3

    If you live in ARMM or Zamboanga it is your own choice. We live in Bukidnon, we dont have police and we are all armed here. We also have curfew, have your lifelines ready and be aware of what MIGHT happen. Have your reputation, too. Dont always be nice, but try to keep up with your enemies. Make sure you can handle the consequences. Be aware of your surrounding. Dont go out and drink. Watch the bolo guys. Being safe is NOT a Feeling. Remember, you have the right of self defense, and your wife can register a hand gun, but keep an illegal too. Just a tip.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +2

      Yes Andrew, I said this to my wife. Here is also safe. I think the police here do a great job and respect they came to see us.

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 21 день тому +2

      He is brit not American. So guns not his thing I guess. 😂. In any case, I am in Mindanao, iligan to be precise. From the day I came first in 2019, I knew this place isn't safe. Have been here a few more times and each time I feel less safe. Won't spend more than 2 weeks here. That's enough to greet family and GTFO. One time a group of men approached me in Robinson asking me questions. As we spoke they told me they went to study in the middle east.😂. Anyhow, I digress. Be safe guys.

    • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
      @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 21 день тому +2

      @AndrewLander3 wisconsin hello .. im thinking of living in bukidnon .. do you have an email , so that i may ask some questions ? salamat

    • @AndrewLander3
      @AndrewLander3 21 день тому

      @@Philippinedreaming Good thing!! Yes, the police here in Don Carlos said, you better arm up because we will not be able to reach you in time ever. You put signage up around your property, no trespassing, it is law after 3 months even the signs might be taken down. At night only bad guys come but obviously also at day. But if they do NOT come with barangay officials here, they will be target, they know.

    • @AndrewLander3
      @AndrewLander3 21 день тому

      @@bigbrother4ever Well, Illigan City is safe, maybe the surroundings not, since you enter what I consider ARMM, but my wife grew up here and knows. Yes the areas outside city are not safe. It is Zamboanga Land

  • @tobywebb6452
    @tobywebb6452 22 дні тому +33

    Walking round the streets of London these days is more dangerous than living in the Philippines!

    • @steelcitytv
      @steelcitytv 22 дні тому +10

      It depends on the location my friend you go into that Muslim area of Mindanao and you're playing with your life just like you are in any other dangerous area in the world

    • @angeljean888
      @angeljean888 22 дні тому +5

      Soooo true.,

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +3

      Agreed Toby

    • @HemiChrysler
      @HemiChrysler 22 дні тому +5

      Violent crime in London peaked around 1992-93, more than 30 years ago.

    • @Paul-McB
      @Paul-McB 22 дні тому +2

      You couldn't live like the average filipino as a Londoner.

  • @ExpatNTraining
    @ExpatNTraining 14 днів тому +1

    “If you hang around the barbershop long enough, sooner or later you're going to get a haircut”

  • @jetd9716
    @jetd9716 22 дні тому +1

    What they say or don't say its up to you to interpret. It does not mean its definitive in any way or form. So, if the flood control guys say for instance to evacuate in case the dam breaks but it has not, will you then think it will not so you will stay? Of course not. Same here, they are warning you of the possibilities that can happen to you in case those thugs come in your neighborhood or not you will be long gone. If you know the area will and have a back door exit then stay, if you don't have a evac plan #2 get out.

  • @raphy5438
    @raphy5438 21 день тому +2

    Beside in the muslim area in the Philippines, any place in the is safer than in US.

  • @abuyussef21
    @abuyussef21 21 день тому +1

    You are correct that is forbidden to deal with interest in Muslim society... even in his videos, he admits that the people disliked the guy...

  • @danb1919
    @danb1919 21 день тому +2

    When Governments warn of not going there, it’s not safe.

  • @justinriley-l8o
    @justinriley-l8o 21 день тому +1

    It happens in cebu

  • @orlahosmer3252
    @orlahosmer3252 22 дні тому +1

    It's true anyone that goes to a different country should blend to the surroundings not tried to stick out like a sore thumb. If ever you decide to live in Cebu you'll find that it's more money there everywhere you go not unless you go outside the city centre of course.

  • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
    @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 21 день тому +1

    lifebeyondthesea just posted .. body washed up , southern mindanao ..

  • @walsakaluk1584
    @walsakaluk1584 21 день тому +1

    If the police and your best friend (wife) has concerns and moving now is possible, then it would be prudent to move. Trust her gut.

  • @billyjoe1888
    @billyjoe1888 22 дні тому +1

    He's just a bad assss

  • @ryansivels
    @ryansivels 22 дні тому +1

    Not for young Americans this is for retired or older folks past that flashy lifestyle prevalent is US . I'm happy here not in that area but deep south

  • @michaelsetliff1276
    @michaelsetliff1276 20 днів тому +2

    I had one additional comment-which is a question: In your opinion, is Davao safe? Thank you

  • @GlennGarcia-pk2me
    @GlennGarcia-pk2me 22 дні тому +2

    Move to Safe places

  • @bwilliam6827
    @bwilliam6827 21 день тому +1

    Hi iv had been told there was a foreigner and Filipino take a Grab taxi in manila city the driver didn't take them to there hotel location and started to drive a different way for long time and wouldn't stop the car after a time he stopped they where very scared on the highway the police pulled over to help.he was reported ture the Grab app . I dont have anymore details

  • @FLand-vw4hf
    @FLand-vw4hf 22 дні тому +1

    I have no doubt that you have a better feel/understanding of your situation than I. That said, I can't resist busting your chops a little. You seem to have an intelligent wife. Add to that growing up in the area and women's intuition probably means you should weight her thoughts a bit heavier than normal and maybe do what she says. (add +1 pt with wife 😀)

  • @AicercuL15
    @AicercuL15 22 дні тому +1

    Howdy mate, John (a Scot Yankee) and wife/better half Lucrecia here at the homestead in Galas Dipolog...love to get together for a pint and share thoughts on Mindanao current events etc. anytime. Cheers, J & L

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому

      That’s very kind of you, we would love to. We are up for a good old chinwag anytime!

    • @AicercuL15
      @AicercuL15 21 день тому +1

      Great to hear back from you. Are you in Sta Isabel? Thought I recognized some areas from your video. In any case, let me know if you'd like to stop by the house perhaps Fri/Sat? (we have one 9th grader here) or if you prefer I have a good pal runs the best restobar in Central. Or if you have a suggestion of your own, please feel free :) looking forward... John and Lucrecia

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  21 день тому

      @@AicercuL15 Hello John. We will be around in maybe 3 or four weeks time for a catch up. Very kind of you my friend.

  • @FoundingYouTuber-2005
    @FoundingYouTuber-2005 22 дні тому +3

    In many of Eastman's videos he is walking around SHIRTLESS IN PUBLIC. Even though he married a Muslim woman, was he unaware that according to Islamic teachings Muslim men are expected to adhere to a "dress code" that emphasizes modesty and decency. While the chest is not considered part of the "awrah" (private parts that must be covered), it is still seen as inappropriate and IMMORAL for Muslim men to walk shirtless in public settings.
    Men who are world travelers know that old meme "when in Rome do as the Romans do." Regarding Eastman, he should have worn a shirt when in public, if nothing else out of respect for the Muslim people, their faith, and their culture. Instead, the Muslims saw him walking about shirtless and immoral.
    Side note: I'm wondering why his wife, who I assume is a devout Muslim, didn't tell her husband that he must wear a shirt and not to walk around shirtless. If she did tell him, but he refused to wear a shirt, well, then that's on him.

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому

      I think as the days pass we will find out more and ore

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 21 день тому

      Wow. Too much detail for some religions. 😂. I stayed in a condo whose owners were Muslims and I was at my best behavior 😂

    • @jerm5
      @jerm5 21 день тому

      Local authorities told him repeatedly to stay away from that place for his own safety. He didn't listen to them either. It's doubtful he would've listened to his wife telling him to put on a shirt.

  • @danilolabrador2595
    @danilolabrador2595 21 день тому +1

    I feared the military than the NPA... (In my experience.)

  • @CarmkingcarloAringo
    @CarmkingcarloAringo 22 дні тому +1

    When are you going to make another live mate

  • @Expat225
    @Expat225 22 дні тому +2

    The PNP has not been to my house in Zamboanga del Norte

  • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
    @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 22 дні тому +1

    NORTHERN WISCONSIN HELLO ...QUESTION OR TWO ? MARWAI CITY / LAKE LANAO .. SAFE AREA NOW ? ALL MY LIFE IVE LIVED ON LAKES ...SALAMAT ....

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      No Charles. Mirawai still a no go area

    • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
      @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 22 дні тому

      @@Philippinedreaming POOP BUMMER ..I LUV LIVING ON A LAKE >> SALAMAT

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 21 день тому +1

      In my books, Marawi is the most dangerous city in the entire region of SEA. I saw videos of the city's siege a few years ago and I thought it was irak or something 😢. Now my wife is from iligan and I don't even feel safe there when I visit due to its proximity with Marawi.

    • @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
      @charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p 21 день тому

      @@bigbrother4ever SALAMAT //////

    • @jerm5
      @jerm5 21 день тому +1

      ​​@@charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8pSo many other places in the Philippines with lakes. Just pick one far away from that danger zone.

  • @steven9541
    @steven9541 22 дні тому +7

    The state Dept has warned about living in Mindanao for years...the Abu Zaief have kidnapped for years...my ex wife lived in a compound there and I remember hearing while face timing the Abu Zaief having an all out fire fight with the military....if you wanna be naive so be it but please don't tell people it's safe there. Even fillipionas that live up north know it's not safe there. Any third world country that has military patrolling the are regularly should tell you something

    • @alfredopampanga9356
      @alfredopampanga9356 22 дні тому +3

      Yes, he rattles on about not lending money , low profile as if that will keep you safe. This guy is delusional

    • @michaelatoz580
      @michaelatoz580 22 дні тому +6

      @steven9541 Does the State Department tell Americans to stay out of Chicago, Memphis, Trenton, Or Detroit. The country with crime stats that makes the Philippines look safe has a lot of nerve warning Americans it's not safe, but its own country is not safe. I'm 80 miles from Detroit 60 miles from Flint Michigan and feel safer in Mindanao Philippines.

    • @KC-in9px
      @KC-in9px 22 дні тому +1

      Steven, does the State Department warn us about our schools? There are many more mass school shootings every year in the US than there are kidnappings in Mindanao.

    • @alfredopampanga9356
      @alfredopampanga9356 22 дні тому +2

      @@michaelatoz580 This is silly talk. Do your American cities have an organised military insurgency doing kidnappings for ransom? Do they fight pitch battles with US military and seek an independent state. ?
      Don’t talk rubbish u

  • @Hybridflip-eg5hg
    @Hybridflip-eg5hg 22 дні тому +2

    It is not because you have no money…ransom occurs because money can be given from your family members abroad to pay for your return. Don’t be naive that you can’t be kidnapped because you have no money.
    No one said you have to leave, but it was recommended for your safety and the safety of your family to leave for the time being. There will be a lot of activities involving the military and PNP along with U.S. officials involved to find the missing American.

  • @HaHa-gy5vg
    @HaHa-gy5vg 21 день тому +2

    Cagayan de Oro is safe

  • @tasyo
    @tasyo 22 дні тому +1

    they went to your place because that's the protocol. You are now safe. they are now on alert and the bad guys will avoid doing anything stupid. what happened to the american victim maybe an isolated case

  • @francesmcdonald8145
    @francesmcdonald8145 22 дні тому +2

    May husband was curious if the guy that got abducted if he is still alive,what about the wife is she with him too?

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому

      No it was just him, The police said to us they think he is dead already. I hope they are wrong

  • @rodolfopalma2973
    @rodolfopalma2973 18 днів тому +1

    Oh he's doing like 5/6 it's like stupid things he did to the local

  • @izzatraveloguetv6624
    @izzatraveloguetv6624 22 дні тому +1

    Those kidnappers are frightened now because of the presence of police and military. Maybe it was jealousy/ some people upset with him that's why they shot him at first, otherwise if that ransom for money they have to keep him alive or unharmed.

  • @LarryaproudU.S.citizen
    @LarryaproudU.S.citizen 22 дні тому +1

    What is a safe house?

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому +1

      Meaning just somewhere not near the mountains. Its still safe were we were but my wife wants to go into the city for a while.

    • @LarryaproudU.S.citizen
      @LarryaproudU.S.citizen 22 дні тому +1

      @@Philippinedreaming Oh. Ok, I thought it was a special place.

  • @kevink1214
    @kevink1214 22 дні тому +1

    He should not have talked about his business dealings on youtube, and secondly never lend money for interest. The other thing is he talked about lending out 30k, and building some covered building with benches, spent money on a peso wifi, a sari sar store, etc. I am assuming he was still on a tourist visa and should not have been working period The odd thing too is he wanted to leave, but said he couldn't because there was no money. Very confusing.

  • @uzookoli698
    @uzookoli698 22 дні тому +1

    You said it all low key interest is a Haram in Islam the guy open himself for attack

  • @kyleesteban467
    @kyleesteban467 21 день тому +1

    👍
    🔻
    🙏

  • @unclefester4822
    @unclefester4822 21 день тому +1

    I've seen video of shirtless body washed up on beach there. Unconfirmed identity. Head was bashed up.

  • @kumaroadking1580
    @kumaroadking1580 22 дні тому +1

    He probably bugged out of dodge.

  • @sweetjoesph4073
    @sweetjoesph4073 22 дні тому +1

    Ya it's not an advisable area to live according to the state department, but it's your life of course. The FBI are now involved in this guys disappearance, and no one has asked for any ransom, it's all a very sketchy situation. I feel for his wife and family. Any way look out for you and yours .

  • @miketurpin4959
    @miketurpin4959 22 дні тому +3

    As a former US Marine,my senses tell me to stay the fuck out of the jungles. I've been here in Marikina city since May of 2020. My Filipina is a very big help keeping me away from trouble. We don't hold any type of schedule other than when she goes to work. We stay away from strangers. She has a few guns and that makes me feel better. I will not leave my family's safety in the hands of the PNP.

  • @michaelfcardew
    @michaelfcardew 22 дні тому +2

    I saw your wife with the hatchet, i think you're well protected mate😂

  • @dantesalazar7805
    @dantesalazar7805 22 дні тому +1

    Where are you in part of mindanao,if you are in eastern part of mindanao ,davao gensan area youre safe,but if you are in cotabato,zamboanga then thats dangerous

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому

      Yes we in northern Mindanao. Very safe usually

    • @dantesalazar7805
      @dantesalazar7805 22 дні тому +1

      @@Philippinedreaming cagayan,agusan surigao thats safe from muslim pirates

  • @alfredopampanga9356
    @alfredopampanga9356 22 дні тому +2

    You don’t need to wander around at night , Abu Sayef will come to you

  • @moygsa
    @moygsa 22 дні тому +1

    youll never be in danger when you are a respectful person.. but when hes a pedo, his time was coming. And he knew it. Word gets around, they come looking for him. It is safe, he was targetted for the things he does. I dont have sympathy for pedos. I salute those who took action against him, whilst the ppl who knew him did NOTHING, and in denial... The police must interview all children who went to his residence. And see how far he went. Its a disgrace!

    • @Philippinedreaming
      @Philippinedreaming  22 дні тому

      Who said he did them things ?

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw 17 днів тому

      @@moygsa That’s a strong statement, have you credible evidence for this ?

    • @moygsa
      @moygsa 2 дні тому

      @@Eric-qm5xw you just need to look at one of the last live videos he made.. hes a grub