Inquiry & Tea 🌱 (Life Advice w/ Cone)
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- Опубліковано 10 жов 2017
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a very slow, relaxed, breaching on sleepy advice sesh with me, ur very own personalized and qualified wisdom lending best friend. in reality i am very unqualified but still listen if you'd like!
currently drinking even more tea cause i was reminded how much i love it whilst editing the thumbnail for this very video. i love tea. got class in three hours. probably gonna edit some of my vlog for next week and then dance my way to lecture. i always listen to music on my way to class; if you ever see me on campus, i'll probably be mouthing along to the words of a song with an occational hand gesture thrown in during a lapse in what socially accepted public behavior is.
have my very first paper due this week. that makes me extra nervous. i always get too scared to start. oh well, wish me luck.
see ya in a few days~
with love,
- cone
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Y'all, we're so lucky to have a friend like Cone.
Aw I love this comment so much. It made me smile. And also it's so true haha
Hailey Tuttle he's a sweet fren
I just want to hang out with him all the time and have conversations about things
Patrick Stoever we are!
*preach*
Conan’s comment section is possibly my favorite place on UA-cam
Cora B same same :))
everyone is so un-problematic and it's like a bunch of best frens chatting w/ each other. it's so wholesome :)
bro saaaaammmmeee
it just feels so safe & just amazing!
SAMMMMMMMMMMMEEE
*i wish i had a friend like you*
Same
Hey Hey Me too! 💚🌻🌿
Hey Hey relatable
Hey Hey lol i wish i had a friend to begin with
Iza S haahha true
"If I don't do this homework, then I'm probably gonna die."
Me rn
Minghao's Lines? What are those? Jk he deserves better
ME TOO, like, all my Friends are like: well if you don't finish that last is okay, and i was like: NO
I don't have homework yet, thank god, but I am getting it next year TwT
im watching this instead of doing my homework rn sooooo
Can I just have a tiny Conan to sit on my shoulder and guide me through life????
Relatable tho
Agreed!!!!!!!!
MOOD
Trinity ikr :’)
Literally like where can I buy one ... take my money please!
*note to self* buy mint tea
Did you buy it and how did it taste?
@@elliothegland7843 like mint, pretty boring...you should probably add some sugar or honey. Peppermint tea is good for stress reliever so ig that's why Conan drinks that a lot~😕
that is top on my list, but I know I won't get around to doing it because I'm LAZY!
@@elliothegland7843 I made it using fresh mint and you just chuck some mint leaves in a mug and add honey and boiling water and it's great!
binge watching conan's old videos is REAAAALLLY therapeutic🧚♀️✨
it really is
I agree
frrrr
I miss Conan making random videos. Tell me I'm not the only one
you’re not the only one
You’re 100% not the only one
a year later and I'M STILL with you on this
Dont worry ur not
Same 😭
I saw this in my subscription feed on my phone while I was eating dinner, but made myself wait until I got a cup of jasmine green tea with honey and ginger in a mug so I could go upstairs to my computer to click the notification. I am now here and ready to join in. I feel apart of the team.
Ishika Shanai TEAm
Ishika Shanai I'll stop
Ishika Shanai this is a cute and pleasant idea.
I feel you lol
Now I’m gonna make tea. Thank
🍵 i was so ready to spend my entire night crying because i'm a sad gal but thanks for being my friend for tonight cone 🍵
j wildflower i relate girl. lmk if you want companionship or listening or advice from a fellow sadgirl™
aah this is incredibly sweet! sad girls club! hmu wit yo problems 😂
my #1 bit of advice for anxiety is to tell yourself "it's okay. this is only one day out of your whole life"
Just to be clear, I haven't actually been diagnosed with anxiety and I don't usually have panic attacks so I don't know if this will work for people diagnosed with anxiety or not.
anyway, when I get anxious it's usually because I did something stupid, or think I did something stupid, and start worrying about what people will think if me. I find telling myself that it's only one day out of my whole life really helps!
how tf does this only have one like?
I have anxiety and i actually do this and it works jajajakd
thank you
i'm glad you found something that helped & you're benefitting others by sharing your experiences!
I’ve recently been binge watching Conan, and it’s so relaxing. Kinda gives me a more calm view on things (I need to start ranting more/writing/drawing bc Conan encouraged me)
Your so right!
Let's be honest here: everybody needs a person like Conan in their life.
Elisa Eliphant agreed
Actually we all have Conan :)
Yh I do but I currently dont 🙍
Exactly!
The whole 'bully the kid in the weird clothes' mentality is sooooo common in my school. I think as well as people bullying you for being jealous of your confidence they are also trying to fit in in their own twisted way. They are trying to be one of the cool kids who picks on the 'weaker ones' when in reality they are the weak ones. Wearing "weird" clothes to my school would be social suicide so I am so amazed by the idgaf attitude of the kids who do. I would encourage anyone to strive to be that way 😊
Nisio Keynn I’d get bullied at your school
gladly my school is very accepting of difference, I dress very individually and I was very scared going into high school with the mental setting of knowing stereotypical judgmental upperclassmen
i always write (and rewrite) the things that i have to do. i have it in a planner, before i sleep, i usually write my urgent tasks on a piece of paper and place it on my table. i also put reminders on a cork board. and i also use google keep. i just like to rewrite and rewrite so i don't forget 😌
I know I'm late on the Conan train haha but i just saw this and like that method of organizing!
i just love the cozy vibes! 😌
x mikhaela indeed!
Everytime i watch conan's video im always surprise and i become immediately HAPPY 🌿🌱
I just love you
PTX Vogue meeeetoooo
PTX Vogue same
PTX Vogue same I always smile when I see his videos pop up on my feed
Same he makes me all smiley and happy inside💛💜❤️
You should read "I'll give you the sun", "All the bright places", "never always sometimes" and "The raven boys". The aesthetic of those book reminds me of you, so maybe you'll like them😊
THE RAVEN BOYS OH YES OH YES
This recommendation is everything! These are my three favourite books :)
OH MY GOD CONAN LIKED MY COMMENT I cAnT
i was going to say 'i'll give you the sun' !
"i'll give you the sun" is AMAZING! i've read it probably three times. jandy nelson's other book, "the sky is everywhere" is great too.
BOOKS YALL SHOULD READ! 📚
-Fangirl Rainbow Rowell
-Eleanor and Park Ranbow Rowell
-The Divergent series Veronica Roth
-Milk and Honey Rupi Kaur
-Pride and Predujice Jane Austen
(Or any other classic, its so refreshing)
-Harry Potter J. K. Rowling (ig ya havent already)
- Some kind of Disney Classic like Pooh or Alice in wonderland
- Continue the list 👇🏻
Maya ! Hehe, I love Eleanor and Park. It's such an adorable story... :) btw I think it's the first book, I've read in English. Didn't help, my English still sucks... xd
love rainbow rowell! i've read eleanor and park probably 4 times
I.R. Me too i love it so much!!
Kristen Rogers Rainbow is my FAVV author omg!! 🌈
YES DIVERGENT
when he said good grades don’t matter you just need a passion it made me so happy. I am 12 and I have a really large passion for music and it just inspires me :)
Saaaaaaame here to!
*conan uploads*
Me: the sweetest cutest most wholesome adorable little cinnamon roll has returned 😊😊
This is so true
can we all have a tea party pleasee?
A tea party with conan would be heaveeeenn 😍💕
Roiael group tea party would be the best! :)
clink sip
Roiael cheers *sip*
hale yeah im down
good luck on your first paper !!
Oh god these are still my comfort videos , I’m so proud of him
Conan in pink is such a look
**lewk
Can we have a college bag tour?
Mister Conan Conan~ I pray that this message finds it way to your eyes:At the end of every term, like most schools, we write an obligatory,stressful, anxiety-ridden exam. For as far into my highschool as i can recall, when writing i always get extrememly bad stomach aches that fail to be healed by medicines or therapy, until this year. For the first time in many years, i wrote my exams succesfully,swiftly, happily and without any pain, all because of you. Whilst writing, i think of your music and words and keep them in my mind,and nearly immediately my aches go away. The soothing sound of your words has helped me in my life with physical evidence to prove it. You are so beautiful, more than you will ever realise, and a gift to this earth. Please,please,please don't ever doubt yourself and continue to help and touch the hearts of strangers, and say strange,funny, inspirational and precious that we will hold with us forever♡
philistine :/ bro, right, I just love this dude so much, he’s gorgeous, kind, smart, and supportive, I just wanna hug him :’)
Extra sLush omg i wrote this comment like three years ago, i'm cringing so hard rn 🤣 but yes i agree still nonetheless 🥺
philistine :/ lol, I wish he posted more often 😔 like every week, literally I love him way too much
replying so he'll see it :))))
Dino Nuggets dude ily for that but reading this as an 18 vs a 14 yo is SO CRINGE i would cry if this was his impression of me now pls 😭
i cope by listening to his music.
me too lol
Please make life advice a series. PLEASE.
You should do a planner tour! I love planners 💕😊
Yes plz
Conan just makes my day calms me down reduces stress I'm just so grateful for all the good videos that has saved me from ever getting depressed everyone be positive it always helps.
Conan, there's been 3 and a half years since you publish this video and you don't have ANY idea of how much this meant to me. I was sad and I was about going to sleep, but i made myself a tea and i just heard you talking in that relax tone and just made me feel safe. All the questions that you responded are questions that i just needed to hear your answer and they were just perfect. You have no idea how much I love you, and this video made me feel like you love me too so i cant possibly be more thankful to you
Never related to something more... I'm doing that very thing rn 😌🥺
Tea is amazing! And I'm ready for this video:)
I watch Conan with my cat ❤️
same...
wish I had a cat to enjoy con vids w ;( sadly I'm allergic ..
Me too
And suddenly he looks so grown up
Tessa Eckstein you should see him now
@@lukivasive You should see him now. 😆
i love you conan. These videos always make me happy even tho u don't make them anymore i find myself just watching these. I FREAKING hate school and a lot of things but you make everything better.
You look good in that color!
Pretty in pink ^_^
i slept in that tee shirt lol
No reason to not be cute! ^_^ I sometimes sleep in button-up shirts (don't tell people that I'm strange! ;>) It is weirdly comfortable. :)
hoNEY DO I HAVE BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS FOR YOU:
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie
Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson
I am Malala by Malala Yousafzai
Why We Broke Up by Daniel Handler
Graffiti by Savannah Brown
Every Day by David Levithan
Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Sáenz
The Cavendish Home for Boys and Girls by Claire Legrand
Please Ignore Vera Dietz by A.S. King
Rachel Dukart-Anderson a fellow person with excellent book taste, I see.
Rachel Dukart-Anderson -- Find a used copy of Zena Henderson's "The Anything Box," or Kindle or something.
You will love it.
And Then There Were None left me shooketh ngl
Reem T RIGHT!!!!!!!!
Rachel Dukart-Anderson U KNOWWWW
I just waste the entire day watching youtube
its fine i did to
it only is not a waste of time if it's Conan, or a positive channel!
Literally what I was abt to say
Correction *use
*petition to change the segment name to ME-TEA ADVICE (meaty advice? conan & tea? okthxbye)*
or like inquir-tea or tea and tips?
‘me time tea time!’
perks of being a wall flower, the bell jar, milk and honey, and the sun and her flowers are all great books!!
This week i had strep throat, and psats this week. Thank u Conan for making my week better.
jordan is a waffle I hope u real better soon :)hug from internet stranger:)
Paulina thanks!!! I am doing much better, and i even posted a cover of lovesick boys this week (even though my throat is still kind wierd). I do appreciate the internet strange hug !!😁😁
jordan is a waffle well im glad you feal better ill check your cover too:)
Paulina aww thanks:)
This feels like i'm talking to a friend, not watching a video.
I'm the therapist in my friend group, though I'm the one who needs more therapy then any of my friends
Oh I really needed a new Conan vid in my life... Boyfriend troubles got me tired af lately... *Thanks Cone*
cora Rosier hope you feel better 🌞🌞
JannatFeroza thanks! we are working it out... I'm lucky to have my bestfriend through all of this... He is always there for me. Espacially when I have boyfriend troubles.
Hey love, I hope things get better for you two soon! ♥ I'm glad you have your bestie on your side :)
blueberrymuffin108 thanks so much sweetie 😊
cora Rosier How are you feeling lately? 🌻
"Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secret of the Universe" despite the name being REALLY CHEESY and parts of the book being REALLY CHEESY it's a fun and romantic read. Really enjoyed the book and how it explored emotions not seen too commonly in modern culture!!👌🏽
yess i love that book
I second this!
yes ! yes ! yes !!!!!
💛💛
You're my best friend without even knowing. 🤷🏻♀️
I miss you Conan. your videos were so grounding and calming.
You probably read it already... but the alchemist by Paulo Coelho is an amazing book as well. If you didn't read it then you should 😊
Isabelle -chan this is one of my favorite books!! it’s tabbed and beat up because i literally use parts of it for my personal philosophy. it’s worthy to be a classic :)
ur so skilled in tea making
tea bags.
pickle rick pickle rickkkkj
pickle rick it is an art form
I have such a problem in school because I have a huge passion with drawing. it is what I want to do (become a graphic novelist) but also it calms my anxiety. I itch to draw so when I do it in class, it makes me not focus :( (unless I'm interested in the material). and my teacher doesn't do a thing so I have no discipline. I need to sTOP
try an incentive! (if your grades are slacking at least or you notice you are getting good grades but cannot recall material learned) something like "if i focus in class during my lessons and bring my grade up, pass the next test, etc. i will reward myself with new drawing materials, put away money for a tablet, etc. to inspire you to focus
delicious dinner meal 1) try putting away the things that distract you. sketchbook etc. 2) talk to your teachers about it. tell them to warn you. it might be a little hard though cuz talking with teachers in my school is easy but i don't know about yours
incorporate it into your notes if it’s not too distracting! like if you’re writing about parts of the brain, draw it!
i love reading the lil captions XD, these videos calm me down alot
Conan!!
*Here's a book suggestion:*
5 Languages of Love by Gary Chapman
Such a good book for understanding different ways of giving love to people who needs it
lil' cone is growing up so fast oml
one of my absolute fav ways to relieve stress is meditating, it’s sounds funny but it’s really helpful. even just laying in ur bed and thinking is so relieving! whatever is comfy to u
yeah, i love just laying there for an hourish every night and just thinking to myself about things, it can help you understand things a lot more and work out your feelings when you’re confused about them :)
I really really really recommend We Were Liars by E. Lockhart!! I read it for summer reading for freshman year, but it has such an amazing plot and and a very good ending (in my opinion!) It's still one of my favorite books I've ever read.
anna is a flop I love the twist. It's a good summer read
It was sooo good! I cried, a lot. :/
View #139, Comment #2!! Conan, you're one of my favorite people in the world. I love you and I can't wait to watch you fly.
ik all of the comments are v similar to this one but i have had horrible anxiety all week. i decided to take a break, watch some of your videos and press some flowers and im doing so much better for now
I just wanted to say this one thing: thank you. Unlike other people, people that I even know, you have this great warmth to you as an individual. I suffer from large amounts of stress and anxiety whether that be a personal matter or an academic matter, to watch your videos and to curl up in my bed with a hot cup of tea is just the best time in the entire world. I'm forever grateful for watching your videos every week and being able to have a sense of comfort that I cannot seem to find anywhere else. The mantra you have about life and how someone should love themselves is just amazing to say the least. Thank you for doing what no one else can, making me happy.
WHAT BOOK SUGGESTIONS IM HERE
-The outsiders
-the maze runner series (READ THE MAZE RUNNER SERIES)
-Will Grayson Will Grayson
-The mortality doctrine series
-basically any book written by James Dashner
Love you Cone
Was anyone else waiting for the video
_y E s_
the thumbnail is a cozy comfy cone
My book tips: perks of being a wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, Harry Potter by JK Rowling, The 100 year old man who stepped out of the window and disappeared by Jonas Jonasson 💕
Asha - wow that last one is a mouth full
i love perks of being a wallflower
I love this guy more than anything 😔🌸
i would dream to have a tea talk with conan! 💕
When Cone and Catcreature post on the same day IT'S A GOOD DAY
vanasaa Y E S
Is it just me or does Conan seem more mature and grown up in this video more than ever?!
Either way, I feel like a proud mother.
Also, these types of videos are amazing and they put me at such ease. I always watch a video of Conan’s right before I go to bed because it puts me in a happy mindset for the rest of the night.☺️
Conan, you're my therapist. Your videos and your music always help me feel better. Thank you so so much! Love u
AAAAAA Conan lysmmmm you really inspire me to wear what I like even though nobody at my school wears ma style lyy x
better than any therapist
Sometimes I worry about the end of the world and stuff that I really don't need to think about and when I find myself sinking into that, I check the time. It helps me to take my time and realize that I am okay and I have air to breathe.
I usually get bored sitting through videos like this but he's so comforting and easy to listen to. It's really nice.
conan's sleep sign is always not centered and it bugs me everytime
I had to pause the video to make myself tea so that I would fit in whoops
i can’t express how freakin helpful this video is for me. being a junior in high school with anxiety and really bad time management. a little background. starting high school i thought i was going to fail. and it made me work for over four hours a day on exams, homework, essays. and i go through so much and sometimes i feel like my whole world is falling apart. how do i keep my mental state healthy?
conan is a musician, artist, barista and counsellor all in one
WHAT AN AESTHETIC ! ! !
ALL THE BRIGHT PLACES AND I'LL GIVE YOU THE SUN ARE AMAZING BOOKS
Michele yes! ill give you the sun is my favorite book ever. although, all the bright places bummed me out a lot :(
BABY CONE MAKIN VIDEOS IM LIVING
I love your videos so much, they're so beautiful and relaxing. Whenever I'm sad or stressed you make me feel calm again
I cant explain the way u keep me grounded cone, i would probably have gone insane by now if i hadnt met you
I don't know if this is considered procastination but it definitely calm me down when i feel like there's too much to do. What i do when that happens is to just focused one week at a time. Just think of all the exams and homeworks you have to do that week and prioritize what comes first. So for example, this week you have an english paper that need to get done by thrusday, history exam on wed, math hmw by sat and biology exam on tue. Prioritize the one closer to you so for example today is monday, that means you have to study for bio the next day, then study history for the day after the next day do you english paper and finally your math hmw. It's much easier this way then to see all these things you have to do in a month and not getting any done.
For stress, i usually just play my phone until it's dead (like you can't turn it on anymore), leave it be and just get something to do, like baking, reading, drawing etc. I found engaging in these kind of activities or hobby help to relieve some stress. And if you don't have anything to do, just meditate. Put on some calming music, light up some scented candle and talk to yourself. Ask yourself "are you doing good?" "what is your problem?" etc.
Hope this help. :)
EARLY SQUAAAAD 💖
YAAASSSSSS
This is relaxing and the energy and emotion he puts in his talks are so motivating and chill
The mirror is such a good book if you like mystery and not too much violence!! It’s one of my all time favorites and just an amazing read that will get you absorbed in the book and easy to block out problems and stuff
There is a book series (3 books) called To All The Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han. It is so good and I think you'll like it! It will make you laugh and cry all at the same time:)
shivathediva oh yess ** and her other books are also good
shivathediva the netflix show is also almost out
It's night here in Paris but Conan uploaded a video. So I don't sleep and drink tea. :)
Sophia Pieper same in stockholm
I loved watching this... today was a horrible day and it was so nice to just watch this to get mind in a better place. It was so calm and happy. Thank you and i love you so much.
Conan's videos are the only thing keeping me from jumping off a building, he is someone I can truly relate to and he is so real and genuine with everything like yes.
the secret history by Donna Tartt is my fav
YESSS
🌱you're so *aesthetic* 🌱
Ur videos make me feel so calm. Just listening to u chat is very soothing.
I've watched a lot of these types of sit down advice videos but THIS one is the only one that has actually kept me in focus and kept me listening. This is why I love you Conan💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜😊😊😊
conan you should read the book "i'll give you the sun" by jandy nelson!! ✨
Maegan SUCH A GOOD ONE
i lovE that book!! also the sky is everywhere by her!
💞
conan and catcreature uploaded today1!1!!11!2 who blessed me
I needed this video so much. I had all these questions these past couple weeks and you answered them. Thank you so much for always being a calm, easy to listen to role model. You just said everything I needed to hear. Love you Conan
i don't usually watch these kinds of youtube videos or channels where people just talk because they bore me but i Absolutely adore your videos. like i get so excited for new videos to come out like i just really appreciate these moment late at night where i can sit down with tea and just hear you talk like i really adore your videos they give me so much joy. Like i can't even begin to explain how much i just appreciate your videos like theres no topic that is boring, i love everything you say, i love the style of your videos and editing it's just so interesting, i love learning about your life and hearing your thoughts on things it's just calming and you completely just calm my stress. I adore you, you're the sweetest person ever.
Sorry for this burst of emotions i just had to express thissss
We have always lived in the castle and the glass castle are amazing books. I highly recommend !
Oooh book suggestions....read every fuking young adult novel and slowly melt from reading the exact same book over and over...that's what i've done and i'm a lumpy discoloured puddle, sounds fun right?
watching you genuinely inspires me, i watch your videos to relax and get in touch with myself and sometimes to forget about what's happening in my life. thanks cone i really appreciate you 💛💛
I looove your chatty videos! And i relate so much to the fact that you're the friend everyone comes to and you're like the best advisor to them even though you might don't have any experience in that topic. That's so me and sometimes ist pretty stressful