The old man pasha was staying so strong before. Him driving the powered wagon with his daughters to school was one of my favorite. God help him find his way to stay strong for his daughters
@VASYA IN THE HAY, My Father was an alcoholic. My siblings all drink. 1 Sister and Brother passed away due to alcohol. I tried for 5 years to encourage another Sister to do Her best to stop drinking. She was in rehab and quit. I finally gave up trying because it began to affect my health and happiness. Dear Sergei you can lead a horse to water. Save your time and energy for those who Do appreciate you. God bless You for all you do
Tanya sealed her own fate. She had every opportunity to do well, but she chose to destroy her life. Very sad - I could see the emotion in your eyes, my friend - stay strong. You did the best anyone could. As for Pasha, I worry for those girls. They will miss their father if they are taken away, but what's most important is that they are cared for. You are a saint, be proud of your good deeds.
Its time to give up on Tanya as there are many other good people out there that could really use your kind help... I also believe, like many others she knows more about Dimas death. The gifts and chocolate for the elderly, loved that.
And I think Dima could still be alive, if it wasn t Tanya around him. I never liked her, as if she hides something and doesn t care that much about anything or anybody. I even think she never loved Dima, just wanted to live a better life without having to do much about that...
Agree, he said he wouldn't do any more videos on Tanya, and here we go again. I don't even bother to watch anything with her face in it she isn't worth people's donation money.
Tanya and her sister appear to have facial features of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. I suspect they both have learning disabilities and poor reasoning skills, which is also part of the syndrome. They need help because it's unlikely they can really live well by themselves without supervision and some support. They aren't functioning on all four cylinders and that needs to be a consideration.
We live in an impoverished rural area where there is unfortunately higher rates of alcoholism and drug addiction. America may be considered a developed country, but driving through our town it certainly doesn’t look like that. People living in run-down trailers/homes/buildings struggling to get by. We lived in a old rat/bug infested trailer that didn’t have any sort of air conditioning before we were able to save enough to get a small house that needs a lot of work but we are still blessed. Seeing your videos makes me realize how similar people’s struggles are everywhere.Praying for you. We’ve as well as people in our church tried to help many drug/alcohol addicted people but haven’t been very successful. I’ve gotten to the point where I will only help to get them into a rehab and help them afterward only if they stay clean and follow strict rules.
The root of substance abuse is unhealed trauma. So many have been sexually abused as children or toddlers. Listen to the backgrounds of substance abusers on Soft White underbelly.
I admire your family's effort to pull yourselves up by your straps. Never stop improving yourself, you can do it. And you get my respect for trying to help others. I agree with you and Sergei not to trust the addicts' words and promises. Actions, only actions.
You said that beautifully! It's so true, I live in a trailer and am surrounded by poverty and addiction and despair in this community, in this entire country, really, as of lately! It's everyone for himself these days in America, it seems 😮😢
I am so sorry to see this. You have put in a lot of effort to help these people. Unfortunately, not everyone is strong enough to escape their demons or they would need additional long-term professional help that's simply not available. Please know that you are still making an enormous difference, despite these disappointments.
I am convinced dima lost his life due to his wife mixing with her old boyfriend. Now she can't change her behavior because vasya feels responsible for her. She slso needs her sister in her life. This is reality. Where is their brother.?
It's a shame that most of these people that you try to help, just keep going back to their old ways. Keep your chin up Sergei because you are able to help some of these people out. Thank you for caring.
@@cliffontheroad Thank you for answering me. No why should i delete my comment? You shouldnt either! I just cant find anything here to laugh at. Sergej can delete what he wants but he wont. All the best to you!🌷
I'm wondering if both women were born with fetal alcohol syndrome. I haven't followed everything in this channel, only a bit here and there and probably the audience knows more. The facial features of both are very similar to FAS, the eyes far apart and the lack of philtrum. If this is the case then their issue and alcohol dependence may have a neurological basis and they suffer pathologies more than the rest of us do.
You remind me of myself 10 years ago, Sergei. I used to be a trusting person, too. Then some things happened and I learned not to believe much of anything I hear and not to waste my care on drunks and druggies. It was hard and depressing to go through that process, but my life is good and peaceful without their drama. I especially love when you help the elderly. Your caring isn't wasted on them. ❤
That's the problem you cannot help people that don't want to help themselves. Unless they want help and we have the skills or training to help those that ask of us.
So, the sweetest thing is to take care homes even the small things like candy as most have no family visit them. A hug, handshake and a little conversation means the most to them!
At 6:00 Sergiej tells to a abused women that she deserves the beating. They need to stop to talk to Sergiej! He showed his real face, once he felt he lost control and narrative of "I'm so great I make people stop to drink", so his mask slips and he shows his real, agresive side.
@@Ma-oh6xo This is the first time I've seen this channel. So I don't know anyone in the film. But there may be other reasons why he said that. It must be painful, frustrating and very disappointing to find these people going backwards after a lot of effort has been made to help them before. I agree it isn't a nice thing to say, but maybe a part of it is a shock tactic, when one doesn't know what else to do. Later on, the apparent harshness he shows to Pasha (the father who is drinking, has two daughters who were not in this film/episode) may actually be needed to push Pasha to stop drinking. He asks him his age, then says that Pasha needs to stop drinking, raise his children and then when the children are grown, the father will be free to do what he wants with his life. Good advice. All of these people need additional support, some of it professional/medical but I doubt those kind of services exist there, sadly.
I have been sober for 23yrs. It wasn’t easy to get sober, but I’m so grateful for the help I got in AA& meeting with others with the same illness. Watching this video brought it all back to me, & served as a painful reminder. Now I say I’ll die as an alcoholic but I won’t die OF it, God willing. It is an illness that will stay dormant if you don’t go back to drinking. My heart goes out to these people.
23 years here also. Life is wonderful again. But...I still have one horribly expensive habit.... diet Dr. Pepper!!😉😉😉. My prayers go out to these sick people🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
It's so good to hear about the success stories like yours and the others who have commented. Well done to all of you as your hard work, tenacity and determination has obviously given you all a much better life. I sincerely think anyone who is able to overcome addiction of any type is marvelous. Take care from Australia.🇦🇺
@@mathildewesendonck7225 Yes. However frustrating never give up having hope for recovery. At the same time know when to back away if the frustration and negativity makes you feel "low". Recharge yourself mentally before continuing to offer help again.
Sergei, you do great work. Sadly, you cannot always change alcoholism, it is such a mountain of a problem. But listening to the old people and giving them treats and things they need was a nice ending to this sad video. We never really know who to believe, but your kindness is sowing seeds and you may never see all the good you are doing.
Thank you Sergei for visiting the elderly in the care home. They are the ones who are truly grateful for your help. I understand your frustrations in trusting people. As you have said it is not the appearance of the person that shows their true soul, it is in their actions. I truly hope for those two beautiful little girls that their father Pasha can right his ways and continue to make a better life for them. Having drunken men around them is not safe, and hopefully the talk you gave him was enough to make him realize this. As for the two drunken girls, I have no words that I can say here. Take care and stay safe Sergei. Once again thank you for all you do🙏 sending ❤️ from 🇨🇦
Yea Tanya is hopeless and time to cut bait with her. I think Sergei needs to concentrate more on helping the elderly and orphans etc rather than trying to rehabilitate the alcoholics. And I do hope the father of the girls cleans up his act quickly or else they should be removed from the home. Hopefully the community will keep a close eye on the situation and contact the authorities if the father keeps up the drunken behavior and neglect. From the previous videos about this family I am shocked that he turned like this is really sad.
@@mikem9892 It shocked me as well that he was so easily swayed into drinking because his brother and others showed up. The ladies in the store seemed very concerned about the girls, hopefully they are keeping a close eye on them and let authorities know.
Look how much you helped Dima. Who was a wonderful man. You made it possible for his last days to be so happy and blessed to have such a good friend as you. You may not be able to get through to everyone but look at the ones you have helped and gave them such hope such as the mother with the three disabled children. Look at how far they have come and how happy they've become. God bless you and your working to help those who truly want to improve their lives and their families lives too. Everyone makes their own choices in life. You can only offer them a life of better choices, it is up to them to change. No reflection on you or anyone else who tries to help. Love your channel and your father who helps you. A wise man.
I thought it was so very disrespectful of Tanya to ask you for beer money with that sly grin on her face. After all you've done for her. She really has a lot of nerve. There are plenty of other more deserving people that will actually appreciate your concern and help.
I agree with you 👍🏼Sergei should pay attention to your comment and learn from it. The woman mentioned that a guy tried to str@ngle and kįll her. Sergei literally reacted to the abused woman that she deserves him 6:00🤮😡😱
I agree about the possibility that Tanya and her sister have Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. This is from their mother drinking while they were in utero. If that’s the case, there are certain mental issues which affect their decisions and abilities. So sad Pasha is drinking and may loose his beautiful daughters. Difficult encounters for you, Sergei.
Yes , fetal Alcohol sounds about right. I adopted a baby 35yrs ago who has F A S .He has no motivation and no concept of consequences. Now I have my grandsons who are also affected. ❤
@@meatavoreNana Dealing with loved ones with FAS can be devastating. My nephew was adopted and he has problems with self control because his mother abused drugs while she was pregnant. We love him. He’s ours. It’s heartbreaking to see him suffer from his own struggles. 😢💔
Sorry, Sergei. Some people make the choice of what is bad for themselves. Some people do not want to get better. It’s no reflection on you. It’s a reflection on them. For every one who makes a bad choice, there are those who are good. You keep spreading your Love and Kindness. Alas, trust cannot be freely given, it must be earned. Their Actions tell the truth about people, not their words. Many Blessings to you and yours. ❤❤❤❤. ✌🏼💜
People like this don't have what it takes, the wherewithall, the basic foundations one needs to stay on top of their situation and keep it better. Especially when other influences are around them. Those influences take them down because misery demands company. They think they're helping the other person at the expense if their own life. It's not easy and it's worse when these people have no Drs and the medication they may need. I had a severe emotional breakdown and it was Zoloft, no generic, that helped me in the 90% range ❤️
I am so sorry Sergei. You have worked so hard to help these people and they dont seem to appreciate it at all. The elderly patients were very happy for all the things you brought. Tanya has had so many chances. Please try not to be too upset. You can only help those that want help. Bless you Sergei. You have such a kind soul. Thank you for giving them a chance. Many blessings to you.
Everyone destroys himself Out of choice. Because it's funny to die from your own vomit, or because you where to drunk to notice that your House catches fire. People what you do Here IS the Just World fallacy. It's totaly unacceptable. I have seen a German streetworker in big big Trouble for something that was harmless compared against the "you deserve strangling remarc".
One bright spot of the video was the visit to the nursing home. It looked clean, and the residents seemed well cared for and moderately content. Another bright spot is how the storekeepers are trying to look out for the people in their community. Life ebbs and flows with trouble and blessing, and some people are unable to cope with trouble without drinking or doing drugs. You can "hate the sin" but "love the sinner" as some people say, but please don't loose hope for the people whose lives you touch.
This IS the Just World fallacy. It's a known fact that Many traumatized people Turn to drugs. She Said she was strangled and Not for the First time. There might be a question of Limited financial means to aid. In that Case IT might make Sense to Help those that are easier to Safe because their illness IS Not so progressed. A little bit Like what a doctor calls "triage". But to say something is "undeserving" IS a Moral judgments that blames all the burden on the victim.
It would be easier to take if Tanya didn't look so darned pleased with herself. You help so many people in genuinely dire conditions that I really can't see of what further help you can be to either Tanya or her sister at present who are happily destroying themselves. Yes, stopping drinking is hard, but they are not in the right mindset to even genuinely want to turn it around and the last thing they need is anyone offering the means to continue drinking alochol (meaning, any financial help). Tanya only says she wants to be coded, because you just found her out! Same with Pasha, but there are his children to consider. It certainly wouldn't be right to offer them funds donated by people worldwide. Some people really can't be helped and even though we know life's hard and challenging, no one can save someone who won't be saved. And then you have those old folk who are happy with a bar of chocolate.....
@@tanyabrown9839 Happy to defer to you on that one. Drunkenness isn’t something I’ve ever done over the course of my lifetime, but perhaps you have personal knowledge of how it looks and feels?
Sergei, you're a wonderful man! As I always say, an angel on earth to the needy. Your heart is full of love and kindness. I can see how deeply you carry the burdens of others within your soul. I learned a long time ago, we can't save everyone. All we can do is try to help. The rest is up to them. It's both a blessing and a curse to have such a big heart and love others so easily. Guard your heart and mind. Stay strong for yourself and your beautiful family. Sending you prayers and love from the US!✨️❤️🩹
She always has such a creepy smirk and smile on her face even when talking about such heavy shit. She says someone started strangling her sister while looking damn near giddy.
I thought the exact same thing. Poor little kitten. Every vid I see with Tanya or her sister , every time they have different cats. I don’t know if they leave them behind when they change houses 😔
I think Pashas cow is hungry/ thirsty… those little girls could be on a dangerous situation, with all those drunk men around them… no one is caring about them… maybe they would be safer somewhere else… their father could visit( supervised) & /or when he PROVES WITH ACTIONS, his sobriety…
Sergei you have the kindest heart ❤ thank you for all you do to help these people. I love that you went to the nursing home to give the elders some gifts, I’m certain you made their day happier by being there. As for Pasha please don’t give up hope, I think he’s just having a rough time and using drinking as his escape. I believe your visit will set him on the right path again. I’m not sure about Tanya tho, maybe it’s time to cut her loose and let her find her OWN WAY to get help, if she truly wants it. She didn’t seem very regretful to me and even asked for money to buy beer. 🙄 It’s a shame she’s choosing this way of life again 😢
At 6:00 Sergiej tells to a abused women that she deserves the beating. They need to stop to talk to Sergiej! He showed his real face, once he felt he lost control and narrative of "I'm so great I make people stop to drink", so his mask slips and he shows his real, agresive side.
@@Ma-oh6xoI noticed it as well 🤮 Faster than ⚡️, he tries to tone down his words afterwards. For a moment, daylight shone on his true nature. I don’t understand people (specially women) praise him as a Saint. No matter who you are or whatever addiction you have, no one deserves to be str@ngled or kil*ed. And nobody deserves to be humiliated by a blogger in front of thousands of subscribers. What a role model 👎🏻
Cu toti am crezut ca poate fi salvata .. bine cu forta , nu se poate face ..e modul de viata care i place ...pacat ..e alegerea ei .. cu ea , e pierdere de timp ...te urmarim constant , sustinem canalul ❤️📣📢
Just because she's an alcoholic doesn't mean she deserves to be abused by her husband !! They both clearly have fetal alcohol syndrome ,this would effect their IQ and brain 🧠 and development etc. so this is something to remember. I agree it's very frustrating though
5:59 Very disturbing reaction from Sergei 🤮saying she deserves this guy. Faster than lightning, he tries to tone down his words afterwards. For a moment, daylight shone on his true nature.
@@rakrega I think Sergei is a good guy and wants to help people but he needs to understand sometimes things arent so simple. Nobody deserves to be abused and domestic violence is complex and very dangerous for the person being abused. The most common time for the person being abused to be murdered,by their violent partner,is when they try to leave. Abuser's pray on vulnerable people, because they are easier to control.
It makes me sad to see you sad and disappointed Sergei. You do so much to help people, but some of them won't lift a finger to help themselves. After 5 years of doing this, you are getting wiser. You are a beautiful soul, hang in there, God will put the right people to help on your path. Much love.
I love it when you update us on all the people you have helped in the past like these two in this episode. I would still love to know what ever has become of the family who lived on somebody elses land out in the country with all the kids who basically lived in a tent & the kids never went to school. Also, you once showed of a Cuban family that had recently arrived in Russia. Curious as to how they are doing too.
Please stay strong. There will be disappointments but please focus on the positive impact you have had. The smiles on the faces of the boys with cerebral palsy and their sister who finally received the medication she needed are a prime example of what this channel is truly about. Thanks for all you do.
Sergei Don’t give Tanya any more money!!! I can’t see her wanting to get better.There are so many people who would really appreciate the help ❤You are doing such a wonderful service to those who are in need of true support…Thank you so much
I am so sorry that these people took advantage of your good and giving nature. You must feel so sad. Please Dr ont blame yourself, people can be do manipulative. Those elderly live in dreadful conditions. To say they give up 70%of their pension to live in those conditions, such a shame. Take care Sergei.
I doubt sociopathic. Tanya and her sister appear to have the facial features of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS), which can result in learning problems, lower cognitive abilities, and poor reasoning skills. If this is the case, it was due to parents who drank when they were in the womb. They will probably always need someone to check on them in order to help them navigate various situations and to live as independently as possible.
@@kristinab1078I thank you Kristina that you Bring objectivity into this Problem. Sadly this whole discussion section seems to be a Bit Party WHO Like to judge Others.
This is so tragic that these young women are living like this, my son died recently due to alcohol dependence and this brings at all back to me, I tried everything to distract him from his addiction but it is such a powerful force to them, you won’t solve their problems by giving them assistance to get more alcohol, they have to recognise the problem and want to reach out to get professional help and information it’s tough but they need to accept it in order to avoid alcohol.
I felt so sorry for that cute kitten, i hope it's alright. Such a shame when people who can't even take care of themselves, brings an animal into the family... ending up not taking proper care of it.
You carry a ray of light and hope. It is my prayer for you that you never lose that. There are not enough people in the world like you. May God bless you and keep you safe and well. ♥️🇨🇦
Opportunist. Drunks are manipulative and l think Dima had a more disciplined attitude to life and she didn't like that. She did him in or had it done without a doubt. I remember her even saying that it was HIM that had the drinking problem
Sergei, if you can lend a hand to more care homes, it would mean a lot. It's pretty sad that some folks end up there, and I think you could really brighten up their day.
16:23. NOOO Sergio.!! You we’re NOT rough on him.. YOU did what NEEDS to be done.. I too was VERY naive not so long ago but YOU did GOOD.!!! It’s hard situation ALL THE WAY around… Drugs and Alcohol RUIN PPL AND LIVES.!!! Thank you.. hugs 🤗 hugs KEEP UP YOUR WONDERFUL MINISTRY, so to speak.. May God continue to Bless You… 😊🙃
Oh what a video! I am sure you started your day Sergei with such great hopes and expectations for these people that you have helped over and over again, only to be shocked and disappointed. Tanya deserves no more help from you and your supporters. She has shown to be a failure time and again. Like you, I feel that Pasha is a good person and has fallen for whatever reason but will rise up for the love of his daughters. I am hopeful that he is a man of his word and he has promised not to drink so his character will be revealed with time. I have hope for him and pray that he and his girls wont be separated. I think that would be the end of Pasha. Wonderful to visit the elders and bring them some sunshine with your treats. From Washington State
My heart breaks for you! You are a beautiful, positive person and getting smacked in the face by the harsh, cold reality of the evil that exists in this world, is obviously painful for you! Please continue to be a light in this darkness! There are some problems that only the Lord can solve and even He cannot help them if they refuse to see! You can’t allow them to suck the life and joy from you! God bless you, dear.
Again, thank you for all the kind things you do. I wanted to think before I reacted to the first two. It was because of Dima that I started watching. You just couldn't help but to cheer him on. I was a bit apprehensive when he got together with Tanya. I don't know why, I guess I didn't want him to get hurt and there was something about Tanya that made me feel, apprehensive is the best way to put it. I know there is no magic place to take people one time and they stay away from alcohol forever after. Maybe the ones with that problem will one day find it in themselves to stay away from alcohol and not touch it again. It takes a strong person to say no and stick with it. I can only pray they find that inner strength.
Your channel is new to me. I have watched the episode of when you rescued Tanya and the episode of when you rescued and helped Dima from their horrible situations. I need for you to explain to me how Tanya met Dima. Tanya swore that she didn’t drink or wanted to be associated with a man who dranked, yet, she is an alcoholic. Moreover, where was Tanya’s sister when she was alone and abandoned in that sub standard house!
Don't be discouraged Sergei! You have helped many people. Some of them need to help themselves more. Can you explain in a video about this process of getting "coded" please? I do not understand how being "coded" or not helps an alcoholic.
@VASYA IN THE HAY: Sergei, you are a good man and it breaks my heart to see you learn such difficult lessons. Tanya instantly reminded me of my former alcoholic wife that put me, my sweet daughter and both of our families through hell before finally drinking herself to death. So many, many parallels between her and Tanya made me want to blow up the comment section of your many videos featuring her and criticize you for being naive. However, it is not my place to tell you or anyone else what to do. Your video of sweet Vika is why I subscribed to your channel. She and my daughter could easily be twin sisters...so beautiful and full of life in-spite of their hardships. Thank you! Please do not let your heart be hardened by those that have taken advantage of your kindness.
Dear Sergei, what about the cow! Its making a lot of noice I hope you check at it also!!! Animal welfare is important aswell as taking care of the girls!
Please don't give up hope! You have helped so many good people along the way! Move on to someone that appreciate's your wonderful good deeds. You can't help every one. You have given so many people a chance of a better life. There are many more out there for you to save. Those older people love the fact that someone cares enough to try to bring some joy into their lives! Keep doing what you are doing, please! We have your back. 😍
You helped the father sign up for benefits and helped him in what you thought would be so great for his family. I was sad to see what happened. Before I became disabled myself,I worked with finding housing for ladies fleeing domestic abuse situations. They needed social help on many levels, sometimes those who had been on the lowest rungs of the socioeconomic scale once the finally received some money all types of friends & relatives tried to move in and drink or drug off of the money that was for other household purposes. Sometimes the mother would used her card to buy food & her friends would try to trade the kids food for money so they could get alcohol or drugs. I understand your frustration. But I have also seen people stop drinking after many years, some with treatment some without. The main thing that saved them was to stay away from bad company, don’t go to their house,don’t let them in yours.
Addiction is a powerful demon that keeps raising its head. It seems more powerful with a group than in a singular situation. I am sad that Pasha has gotten with a bad group. I know that it is not easy raising his 2 daughters by himself, but that isn't a good reason to drink continuously. Thank you Sergei for all that you do, and yes there are good people out there, but also many that have many deep issues.
Don't be discouraged, Keep helping, I too have learned some you can help, and some not. Living in a poor neighborhood I see a lot. But it's great when you see some rise above it all. Prayers ❤
Going to see grandmas and grandpas was a balm on your heart. What a shock to see those tirée drunk after all this time and energy helping them. You are an Angel. Keep doing and helping those in need. They deserve it. You are doing your best and that is enough. You are such à good person ànd that is the reason we love you so much.
I can see how much you care. You go above and beyond to help those in need. It is sad to see them repeating the same mistakes. Amazingly, you don't just help, you commit.
I am so sorry that with all your efforts everything didn’t turn out good….. yet. Don’t feel bad, all you can do is offer help and leave the rest to God. You are amazing and have helped so many, God bless you
As a rancher, I want to know what is going on with that bawling cow? Is she hungry or needs to be milked? I know cow bawls... and there was something wrong with that sound! Th minute you showed up at Pasha's house I wanted you to go check on that cow! As for people, I have been a volunteer counselor at a crisis pregnancy center for over 24 years and it is a rare thing to see a person who is not dependant on drugs or alcohol, STAY off of them. There is relapse after relapse... same with women who seem to fall for the same... worthless men who move in with these gals because they don't want to work.... allow the women to support them with their food stamps and housing they get from the government. It is truly depressing and discouraging to those of us who are spending money trying to help them.
You are a kind and caring man. Thank you for all you do. You try and help so many different people. Please know that you do make a difference and give support, love and hope to many people.
These people are shameless stop helping that kind people Sir Sirgie you just wasting your effort and resources to those people try to find people who are much deserving to receive help not them no matter how much you help them but they stuck on their oldways!i feel so bad that those people doesnt know how to value your effort/helps to them seems they're just taking it for granted!takecare with your self always Sir Sergie❤love from🇨🇦
I feel so sorry for the little kitten crying on the kitchen floor. They can't even take care of themselves, how are they supposed to care for a little kitten? 😢
The best use of your time and money is helping needy children, the elderly, nursing homes (people end up in those and the family rarely visits) and the orphanages.
These people need to be in a recovery facility. They will not get through this without counslers, physical help, and rules. She and her sister will continue to fail. Plus they have too want to get well.
Such a shame when people are drinking like that. You did your very best for Tanya now its up to her. That father for the children maybe he can be helped. And old people was so happy for your gifts 🤗so nice of you to help them
Tanya and her friends thought you would buy them food, I would not give them anything else. Pasha maybe will improve for his children but you never know. Thanks for helping the patients in the home. Much respect
I'm flabbergasted how some Russians treat their neighbors. I hope these sisters can stay together their entire lives if they wish to? And I hope they will get their very own flat along with never having to worry about food to eat. America wishes the sisters and all Russian ppl well.
Thank you for visiting the people in the home & bringing chocolates & goodies. They really enjoyed your visit. God bless you Sergei and your cameraman.
I'm sorry to hear about Tanya and Pasha. The girls must be devastated that their dad is drinking and it's especially bad since his brothers go to their house to drink. That can't be good for the girls. If he continues drinking it might be better that they're found somewhere else to live. As long as Tanya is with her sister she will probably continue to drink. Natasha really needs to see a dentist because she's living with chronic pain which doesn't help. You can't do anything for them. Hopefully one day Tanya will call and they'll be ready to get sober. Thanks for the glimpse of the nursing home. At least they have a place to live that cares for them. It's better than some of the old people you find that live alone. Keep doing your good work even if sometimes it doesn't work out. My brother was a terrible alcoholic and we never thought he'd get sober but it happened. 30 years later he's still sober. It can happen.
I do not think they need your help anymore just a waste of time. You did your best and this is the way they repay you. They are not trying hard enough. I think they are just using your kindness. maybe just go help foster kids and the elderly who really need it. I see Russia has a real bad drinking problem. I do not see them trying to better themselves. My hats off for you though, you are trying to help people and they are taking advantage of you. My deep respect for you and what you are doing. The children suffer the most from this alcholilism . I feel for you because I see great diappointment in you with these two sisters, than she has the nerve to ask you for money for beer no shame there on her part. Your kindness wasted there. God bless your kindness , sorry but I could not watch anymore. I fear or the man's daughter with these men hanging around there drinking, they are so vunerable
Thank you sir, we were just in the motherland a few weeks ago, and were able , praise God , to bless some people also. We also tried our best not to be bumbling American idiots, so they can see we’re all not insane. Again, thank you for what you do. It’s just beautiful.
So sorry for that one girl. You made her beautifull again she got married. Had a nice life and then he died😢😢😢😢. The cow wanted food Sergei. He was calling you for help. Hear his sound when he sees you and when you walk away. It broke my heart💔💔💔💔
Don't give her money. If she doesn't spend it on money, her sister will. She should NEVER haven't her sister in to live with her. Also, there's a poor cat caught in this Well. At least she was honest in the end with why she wanted money in the end Those poor daughters too with all those men about. I don't like it at all
And a poor cow with the guy. As a farmer myself, it was killing me hearing it moo. It was hungry. Very first thing I do at daylight is feed and water the animals. Poor cow.😞
Yes,,that poor cow crying,,Im so sad,,so sad in my heart hearing that,,also cows are not feeling good being alone,,they need a friend,,and let the poor cow food and go out.@@thekatt... Hope someone can help the cow,,dogs and cats,,I feel so sorry for them,,that I cry.🥺😢😭😫
The old man pasha was staying so strong before. Him driving the powered wagon with his daughters to school was one of my favorite. God help him find his way to stay strong for his daughters
@VASYA IN THE HAY, My Father was an alcoholic. My siblings all drink. 1 Sister and Brother passed away due to alcohol. I tried for 5 years to encourage another Sister to do Her best to stop drinking. She was in rehab and quit. I finally gave up trying because it began to affect my health and happiness. Dear Sergei you can lead a horse to water. Save your time and energy for those who Do appreciate you. God bless You for all you do
Tanya sealed her own fate. She had every opportunity to do well, but she chose to destroy her life. Very sad - I could see the emotion in your eyes, my friend - stay strong. You did the best anyone could. As for Pasha, I worry for those girls. They will miss their father if they are taken away, but what's most important is that they are cared for. You are a saint, be proud of your good deeds.
Its time to give up on Tanya as there are many other good people out there that could really use your kind help... I also believe, like many others she knows more about Dimas death. The gifts and chocolate for the elderly, loved that.
And I think Dima could still be alive, if it wasn t Tanya around him. I never liked her, as if she hides something and doesn t care that much about anything or anybody. I even think she never loved Dima, just wanted to live a better life without having to do much about that...
Agree, he said he wouldn't do any more videos on Tanya, and here we go again. I don't even bother to watch anything with her face in it she isn't worth people's donation money.
Tanya and her sister appear to have facial features of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. I suspect they both have learning disabilities and poor reasoning skills, which is also part of the syndrome. They need help because it's unlikely they can really live well by themselves without supervision and some support. They aren't functioning on all four cylinders and that needs to be a consideration.
We live in an impoverished rural area where there is unfortunately higher rates of alcoholism and drug addiction. America may be considered a developed country, but driving through our town it certainly doesn’t look like that. People living in run-down trailers/homes/buildings struggling to get by. We lived in a old rat/bug infested trailer that didn’t have any sort of air conditioning before we were able to save enough to get a small house that needs a lot of work but we are still blessed. Seeing your videos makes me realize how similar people’s struggles are everywhere.Praying for you. We’ve as well as people in our church tried to help many drug/alcohol addicted people but haven’t been very successful. I’ve gotten to the point where I will only help to get them into a rehab and help them afterward only if they stay clean and follow strict rules.
Its not really a thing in western europe at all
@@thomashovgaard3134 oh yes it is!
The root of substance abuse is unhealed trauma. So many have been sexually abused as children or toddlers. Listen to the backgrounds of substance abusers on Soft White underbelly.
I admire your family's effort to pull yourselves up by your straps. Never stop improving yourself, you can do it. And you get my respect for trying to help others. I agree with you and Sergei not to trust the addicts' words and promises. Actions, only actions.
You said that beautifully! It's so true, I live in a trailer and am surrounded by poverty and addiction and despair in this community, in this entire country, really, as of lately! It's everyone for himself these days in America, it seems 😮😢
I am so sorry to see this. You have put in a lot of effort to help these people. Unfortunately, not everyone is strong enough to escape their demons or they would need additional long-term professional help that's simply not available. Please know that you are still making an enormous difference, despite these disappointments.
They need a change of environment
They had to bee fri,and then havre something to do,was was. It in the syringe?
They need to have help from a psycholog😢
This was very hard for me to watch.😢
I am convinced dima lost his life due to his wife mixing with her old boyfriend. Now she can't change her behavior because vasya feels responsible for her. She slso needs her sister in her life. This is reality. Where is their brother.?
It's a shame that most of these people that you try to help, just keep going back to their old ways. Keep your chin up Sergei because you are able to help some of these people out. Thank you for caring.
Sergei, you may be getting played, but I think your smart enough to know that.
As an old lady, who lives for chocolate and sweets, bless you for what you do.
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🤣🤣 why oldry love chocolat and sweets🍫🍭?? 🤔
@@mr.riffian9507 "oldry"?🤔🤣🤣
Amen sister!
Velvet from Toronto. 🇨🇦
What are you laughing at? Seriously? Did you find something here to laugh at?
@@cliffontheroad Thank you for answering me. No why should i delete my comment? You shouldnt either! I just cant find anything here to laugh at. Sergej can delete what he wants but he wont. All the best to you!🌷
I'm wondering if both women were born with fetal alcohol syndrome. I haven't followed everything in this channel, only a bit here and there and probably the audience knows more. The facial features of both are very similar to FAS, the eyes far apart and the lack of philtrum. If this is the case then their issue and alcohol dependence may have a neurological basis and they suffer pathologies more than the rest of us do.
Good observation and explanation. ❤
Or they smoking crack or doing dope
@@JonDoe-wo3ec that doesn't change the spacing between your eyes, it is undoubtedly FAS
It ssems like it
Yes I thought Tanya definitely had some facial abnormalities. It’s so sad that they are sadly continuing the cycle of their family.
You remind me of myself 10 years ago, Sergei. I used to be a trusting person, too. Then some things happened and I learned not to believe much of anything I hear and not to waste my care on drunks and druggies. It was hard and depressing to go through that process, but my life is good and peaceful without their drama. I especially love when you help the elderly. Your caring isn't wasted on them. ❤
I have 2 cousins that refused to stop drugging and are in their 60's.
They've burned all their bridges long ago
That's the problem you cannot help people that don't want to help themselves. Unless they want help and we have the skills or training to help those that ask of us.
People do change, but not at the pace we wish they would. I understand the burden and frustration, though.
Ex druggie here. WE DO RECOVER
@@spunkysparks1779same was an IV heroin, coke and smoked crack for 10 years, lived on the street. Been clean 22 years, I’m proof it is possible.
So, the sweetest thing is to take care homes even the small things like candy as most have no family visit them. A hug, handshake and a little conversation means the most to them!
Thank for visiting the Care homes. Thank you for giving the old ladies chocolate and kind words.
Bless you! And also the precious kitten. Take care.
There is only so much you can do for someone.
don't analysis toomuch.
At 6:00 Sergiej tells to a abused women that she deserves the beating. They need to stop to talk to Sergiej! He showed his real face, once he felt he lost control and narrative of "I'm so great I make people stop to drink", so his mask slips and he shows his real, agresive side.
@@Ma-oh6xo This is the first time I've seen this channel. So I don't know anyone in the film. But there may be other reasons why he said that. It must be painful, frustrating and very disappointing to find these people going backwards after a lot of effort has been made to help them before.
I agree it isn't a nice thing to say, but maybe a part of it is a shock tactic, when one doesn't know what else to do. Later on, the apparent harshness he shows to Pasha (the father who is drinking, has two daughters who were not in this film/episode) may actually be needed to push Pasha to stop drinking. He asks him his age, then says that Pasha needs to stop drinking, raise his children and then when the children are grown, the father will be free to do what he wants with his life. Good advice.
All of these people need additional support, some of it professional/medical but I doubt those kind of services exist there, sadly.
I have been sober for 23yrs. It wasn’t easy to get sober, but I’m so grateful for the help I got in AA& meeting with others with the same illness. Watching this video brought it all back to me, & served as a painful reminder. Now I say I’ll die as an alcoholic but I won’t die OF it, God willing. It is an illness that will stay dormant if you don’t go back to drinking. My heart goes out to these people.
@janisnicol8666 I'm nearly 20 years sober. AA saved my life. Love your post ❤
23 years here also. Life is wonderful again. But...I still have one horribly expensive habit.... diet Dr. Pepper!!😉😉😉. My prayers go out to these sick people🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
Stay strong you people! All power to you! 💪 ❤
My deepest respect to all of you! Enjoy your life to the full and be happy!❤
It's so good to hear about the success stories like yours and the others who have commented. Well done to all of you as your hard work, tenacity and determination has obviously given you all a much better life. I sincerely think anyone who is able to overcome addiction of any type is marvelous. Take care from Australia.🇦🇺
a clear example of co-dependency. Such a shame and so frustrating for Sergei
It is extremely frustrating to help people with an addiction, I agree. But I believe that every deserves a chance
@@mathildewesendonck7225 Yes. However frustrating never give up having hope for recovery. At the same time know when to back away if the frustration and negativity makes you feel "low". Recharge yourself mentally before continuing to offer help again.
Sergei, you do great work. Sadly, you cannot always change alcoholism, it is such a mountain of a problem. But listening to the old people and giving them treats and things they need was a nice ending to this sad video. We never really know who to believe, but your kindness is sowing seeds and you may never see all the good you are doing.
Alcohol is a bloody devil.
Thank you Sergei for visiting the elderly in the care home. They are the ones who are truly grateful for your help. I understand your frustrations in trusting people. As you have said it is not the appearance of the person that shows their true soul, it is in their actions. I truly hope for those two beautiful little girls that their father Pasha can right his ways and continue to make a better life for them. Having drunken men around them is not safe, and hopefully the talk you gave him was enough to make him realize this. As for the two drunken girls, I have no words that I can say here. Take care and stay safe Sergei. Once again thank you for all you do🙏 sending ❤️ from 🇨🇦
The daughters having drunken men in their home scared me. That’s how most children are sexually abused. 💔
You are absolutely correct, I grew up with an alcoholic dad, he always had his buddies around, at least 3 of them tried to lure me and my sister.
@@shamrock4500 I 🙏 you both made it through unscathed. So sad so many children haven't.
Yea Tanya is hopeless and time to cut bait with her. I think Sergei needs to concentrate more on helping the elderly and orphans etc rather than trying to rehabilitate the alcoholics. And I do hope the father of the girls cleans up his act quickly or else they should be removed from the home. Hopefully the community will keep a close eye on the situation and contact the authorities if the father keeps up the drunken behavior and neglect. From the previous videos about this family I am shocked that he turned like this is really sad.
@@mikem9892 It shocked me as well that he was so easily swayed into drinking because his brother and others showed up. The ladies in the store seemed very concerned about the girls, hopefully they are keeping a close eye on them and let authorities know.
Look how much you helped Dima. Who was a wonderful man. You made it possible for his last days to be so happy and blessed to have such a good friend as you. You may not be able to get through to everyone but look at the ones you have helped and gave them such hope such as the mother with the three disabled children. Look at how far they have come and how happy they've become. God bless you and your working to help those who truly want to improve their lives and their families lives too. Everyone makes their own choices in life. You can only offer them a life of better choices, it is up to them to change. No reflection on you or anyone else who tries to help. Love your channel and your father who helps you. A wise man.
I loved Dima it was wonderful , unfortunate ending . I wonder if he hadn't met Tanya , he would still be alive.
I thought it was so very disrespectful of Tanya to ask you for beer money with that sly grin on her face. After all you've done for her. She really has a lot of nerve. There are plenty of other more deserving people that will actually appreciate your concern and help.
I have never liked her manipulative smirking, didn't trust from the beginning.
Yip sneaky wee rat.
That's what Addicts feel compelled to do - manipulate until they get their drug of choice.
Ilya's family for one.
It never hurts to be kind to anyone ever. You may be the only happiness they ever encounter 😇
I agree with you 👍🏼Sergei should pay attention to your comment and learn from it.
The woman mentioned that a guy tried to str@ngle and kįll her. Sergei literally reacted to the abused woman that she deserves him 6:00🤮😡😱
I agree about the possibility that Tanya and her sister have Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. This is from their mother drinking while they were in utero. If that’s the case, there are certain mental issues which affect their decisions and abilities.
So sad Pasha is drinking and may loose his beautiful daughters.
Difficult encounters for you, Sergei.
I was sat thinking that as they do have certain features that indicate it.
Yes , fetal Alcohol sounds about right. I adopted a baby 35yrs ago who has F A S .He has no motivation and no concept of consequences. Now I have my grandsons who are also affected. ❤
@@meatavoreNana Dealing with loved ones with FAS can be devastating. My nephew was adopted and he has problems with self control because his mother abused drugs while she was pregnant. We love him. He’s ours. It’s heartbreaking to see him suffer from his own struggles. 😢💔
The father sperm can also pass FASD
@@meatavoreNana yes no consequences, and they are narcissists.
Sorry, Sergei. Some people make the choice of what is bad for themselves. Some people do not want to get better. It’s no reflection on you. It’s a reflection on them.
For every one who makes a bad choice, there are those who are good. You keep spreading your Love and Kindness. Alas, trust cannot be freely given, it must be earned. Their Actions tell the truth about people, not their words. Many Blessings to you and yours. ❤❤❤❤. ✌🏼💜
This woman ( I believe she was once married to Dima who died of mysterious circumstances) seems to be unable to shake off her demons. So sad.
People like this don't have what it takes, the wherewithall, the basic foundations one needs to stay on top of their situation and keep it better. Especially when other influences are around them. Those influences take them down because misery demands company. They think they're helping the other person at the expense if their own life. It's not easy and it's worse when these people have no Drs and the medication they may need. I had a severe emotional breakdown and it was Zoloft, no generic, that helped me in the 90% range ❤️
I am so sorry Sergei. You have worked so hard to help these people and they dont seem to appreciate it at all. The elderly patients were very happy for all the things you brought. Tanya has had so many chances. Please try not to be too upset. You can only help those that want help. Bless you Sergei. You have such a kind soul. Thank you for giving them a chance. Many blessings to you.
Everyone destroys himself Out of choice. Because it's funny to die from your own vomit, or because you where to drunk to notice that your House catches fire. People what you do Here IS the Just World fallacy. It's totaly unacceptable. I have seen a German streetworker in big big Trouble for something that was harmless compared against the "you deserve strangling remarc".
One bright spot of the video was the visit to the nursing home. It looked clean, and the residents seemed well cared for and moderately content. Another bright spot is how the storekeepers are trying to look out for the people in their community. Life ebbs and flows with trouble and blessing, and some people are unable to cope with trouble without drinking or doing drugs. You can "hate the sin" but "love the sinner" as some people say, but please don't loose hope for the people whose lives you touch.
Help those who help themselves.
She is taking advantage of you,of your kindness
There are lots who deserve to be helped
Please do an update of Ilya's family.
This IS the Just World fallacy. It's a known fact that Many traumatized people Turn to drugs. She Said she was strangled and Not for the First time. There might be a question of Limited financial means to aid. In that Case IT might make Sense to Help those that are easier to Safe because their illness IS Not so progressed. A little bit Like what a doctor calls "triage". But to say something is "undeserving" IS a Moral judgments that blames all the burden on the victim.
It would be easier to take if Tanya didn't look so darned pleased with herself. You help so many people in genuinely dire conditions that I really can't see of what further help you can be to either Tanya or her sister at present who are happily destroying themselves. Yes, stopping drinking is hard, but they are not in the right mindset to even genuinely want to turn it around and the last thing they need is anyone offering the means to continue drinking alochol (meaning, any financial help). Tanya only says she wants to be coded, because you just found her out! Same with Pasha, but there are his children to consider. It certainly wouldn't be right to offer them funds donated by people worldwide. Some people really can't be helped and even though we know life's hard and challenging, no one can save someone who won't be saved. And then you have those old folk who are happy with a bar of chocolate.....
.. And she dared to ask for money for beer. Sad situation. The sis needs dental work, tooth pain is horrible.
She looked the way she did due to the affects of the alcohol... I'm sure that wasn't her true self
@@tanyabrown9839 Happy to defer to you on that one. Drunkenness isn’t something I’ve ever done over the course of my lifetime, but perhaps you have personal knowledge of how it looks and feels?
@@tanyabrown9839 yes, having grown up knowing an alcoholic I recognise the expression. They are so far removed from reality.
What does "coded" mean?
So terribly sad to watch. Thanks for not giving up dear Sergei. You are a blessed human being.
Sergei, you're a wonderful man! As I always say, an angel on earth to the needy. Your heart is full of love and kindness. I can see how deeply you carry the burdens of others within your soul. I learned a long time ago, we can't save everyone. All we can do is try to help. The rest is up to them. It's both a blessing and a curse to have such a big heart and love others so easily. Guard your heart and mind. Stay strong for yourself and your beautiful family. Sending you prayers and love from the US!✨️❤️🩹
She always has such a creepy smirk and smile on her face even when talking about such heavy shit. She says someone started strangling her sister while looking damn near giddy.
I’m worried about that little kitten. He sounds hungry. Poor little baby.
I thought the exact same thing. Poor little kitten. Every vid I see with Tanya or her sister , every time they have different cats. I don’t know if they leave them behind when they change houses 😔
As a person with 22 years sober experience myself, there is a fine line between helping and enabling. Please help those who are willing ❤
Dont let them get you down Sergei , move on to people who deserve help .
I think Pashas cow is hungry/ thirsty… those little girls could be on a dangerous situation, with all those drunk men around them… no one is caring about them… maybe they would be safer somewhere else… their father could visit( supervised) & /or when he PROVES WITH ACTIONS, his sobriety…
So so sad to see how many people struggle with addiction.
When you gave the chocolate to the elderly ladies and they thank you I cried
Sergei you have the kindest heart ❤ thank you for all you do to help these people. I love that you went to the nursing home to give the elders some gifts, I’m certain you made their day happier by being there. As for Pasha please don’t give up hope, I think he’s just having a rough time and using drinking as his escape. I believe your visit will set him on the right path again. I’m not sure about Tanya tho, maybe it’s time to cut her loose and let her find her OWN WAY to get help, if she truly wants it. She didn’t seem very regretful to me and even asked for money to buy beer. 🙄 It’s a shame she’s choosing this way of life again 😢
At 6:00 Sergiej tells to a abused women that she deserves the beating. They need to stop to talk to Sergiej! He showed his real face, once he felt he lost control and narrative of "I'm so great I make people stop to drink", so his mask slips and he shows his real, agresive side.
@@Ma-oh6xoI noticed it as well 🤮
Faster than ⚡️, he tries to tone down his words afterwards. For a moment, daylight shone on his true nature. I don’t understand people (specially women) praise him as a Saint.
No matter who you are or whatever addiction you have, no one deserves to be str@ngled or kil*ed. And nobody deserves to be humiliated by a blogger in front of thousands of subscribers. What a role model 👎🏻
@@rakrega well said!
Cu toti am crezut ca poate fi salvata .. bine cu forta , nu se poate face ..e modul de viata care i place ...pacat ..e alegerea ei .. cu ea , e pierdere de timp ...te urmarim constant , sustinem canalul ❤️📣📢
Is it Romanian?
Yes.@@anonymouse527
@@anonymouse527 yes, @lucianilie9401`s reply is in Romanian.
Just because she's an alcoholic doesn't mean she deserves to be abused by her husband !! They both clearly have fetal alcohol syndrome ,this would effect their IQ and brain 🧠 and development etc. so this is something to remember. I agree it's very frustrating though
hope it is made sure (by the state?) that people like this don't procreate. Otherwise the cycle will continue.
@@grundgesetzart.1463 so your a fan of Hitler and stallin 🤣🤣🤣
Comments like that just make you sound incredibly uneducated!
5:59 Very disturbing reaction from Sergei 🤮saying she deserves this guy. Faster than lightning, he tries to tone down his words afterwards. For a moment, daylight shone on his true nature.
@@rakrega I think Sergei is a good guy and wants to help people but he needs to understand sometimes things arent so simple. Nobody deserves to be abused and domestic violence is complex and very dangerous for the person being abused. The most common time for the person being abused to be murdered,by their violent partner,is when they try to leave. Abuser's pray on vulnerable people, because they are easier to control.
@@grundgesetzart.1463 I disagree.
Eugenics is not something I'd ever agree with
It makes me sad to see you sad and disappointed Sergei. You do so much to help people, but some of them won't lift a finger to help themselves. After 5 years of doing this, you are getting wiser. You are a beautiful soul, hang in there, God will put the right people to help on your path. Much love.
I love it when you update us on all the people you have helped in the past like these two in this episode. I would still love to know what ever has become of the family who lived on somebody elses land out in the country with all the kids who basically lived in a tent & the kids never went to school.
Also, you once showed of a Cuban family that had recently arrived in Russia. Curious as to how they are doing too.
Thank you for all that you're doing to help these poor people Sergei. May God bless you and your man who's helping you abundantly.❤
Please stay strong. There will be disappointments but please focus on the positive impact you have had. The smiles on the faces of the boys with cerebral palsy and their sister who finally received the medication she needed are a prime example of what this channel is truly about. Thanks for all you do.
Sergei Don’t give Tanya any more money!!! I can’t see her wanting to get better.There are so many people who would really appreciate the help ❤You are doing such a wonderful service to those who are in need of true support…Thank you so much
I feel sorry for the kittens!
I am so sorry that these people took advantage of your good and giving nature. You must feel so sad. Please Dr ont blame yourself, people can be do manipulative. Those elderly live in dreadful conditions. To say they give up 70%of their pension to live in those conditions, such a shame. Take care Sergei.
The way she avoids eye contact and smiles to herself. Something sociopathic going on. You've done enough. Her failure not yours Sergei.
I doubt sociopathic. Tanya and her sister appear to have the facial features of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS), which can result in learning problems, lower cognitive abilities, and poor reasoning skills. If this is the case, it was due to parents who drank when they were in the womb. They will probably always need someone to check on them in order to help them navigate various situations and to live as independently as possible.
Duper's Delight caught by the camera.
AS authist would do too and traumatized people, and people with affective disorders. Thanks for the distance diagnosis of sociopathy.
@@kristinab1078I thank you Kristina that you Bring objectivity into this Problem. Sadly this whole discussion section seems to be a Bit Party WHO Like to judge Others.
This is so tragic that these young women are living like this, my son died recently due to alcohol dependence and this brings at all back to me, I tried everything to distract him from his addiction but it is such a powerful force to them, you won’t solve their problems by giving them assistance to get more alcohol, they have to recognise the problem and want to reach out to get professional help and information it’s tough but they need to accept it in order to avoid alcohol.
NEVER GIVE UP SERGEJ.. IF YOURE ABLE TO HELP JUST 1 PERSON YOU WILL DO A DAMN GOOD JOB. KEEP GOING.. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO CAN USE SOME HELP.
I felt so sorry for that cute kitten, i hope it's alright.
Such a shame when people who can't even take care of themselves, brings an animal into the family... ending up not taking proper care of it.
You carry a ray of light and hope. It is my prayer for you that you never lose that. There are not enough people in the world like you. May God bless you and keep you safe and well.
♥️🇨🇦
This who video was heartbreaking 💔. Including poor cow in background, likely starving!!😢
Please help the poor cow crying,,and the dogs and cats...😭😢😓😫
I said ages ago Tanya was a waste of time and yet here we are........ She knows more about Dima`s death too.
She absolutely does. She never loved him either - she loved the gifts
@@thomashovgaard3134 Exactly, well said.
oh shut up
Opportunist. Drunks are manipulative and l think Dima had a more disciplined attitude to life and she didn't like that. She did him in or had it done without a doubt. I remember her even saying that it was HIM that had the drinking problem
She always has a smirk on her face
It's so sad. Addiction is a terrible, hard thing.
Sergei, if you can lend a hand to more care homes, it would mean a lot. It's pretty sad that some folks end up there, and I think you could really brighten up their day.
16:23. NOOO Sergio.!! You we’re NOT rough on him.. YOU did what NEEDS to be done.. I too was VERY naive not so long ago but YOU did GOOD.!!! It’s hard situation ALL THE WAY around… Drugs and Alcohol RUIN PPL AND LIVES.!!! Thank you.. hugs 🤗 hugs KEEP UP YOUR WONDERFUL MINISTRY, so to speak.. May God continue to Bless You… 😊🙃
Thank you Sergei. You do wonderful things for these people. Sending many prayers to all.🙏🙏
May blessings continue to rain down on you for your love of mankind.
Don't get discouraged. Keep doing the right thing, good Soul.
Oh what a video! I am sure you started your day Sergei with such great hopes and expectations for these people that you have helped over and over again, only to be shocked and disappointed. Tanya deserves no more help from you and your supporters. She has shown to be a failure time and again. Like you, I feel that Pasha is a good person and has fallen for whatever reason but will rise up for the love of his daughters. I am hopeful that he is a man of his word and he has promised not to drink so his character will be revealed with time. I have hope for him and pray that he and his girls wont be separated. I think that would be the end of Pasha. Wonderful to visit the elders and bring them some sunshine with your treats.
From Washington State
My heart breaks for you! You are a beautiful, positive person and getting smacked in the face by the harsh, cold reality of the evil that exists in this world, is obviously painful for you! Please continue to be a light in this darkness! There are some problems that only the Lord can solve and even He cannot help them if they refuse to see! You can’t allow them to suck the life and joy from you! God bless you, dear.
Again, thank you for all the kind things you do. I wanted to think before I reacted to the first two. It was because of Dima that I started watching. You just couldn't help but to cheer him on. I was a bit apprehensive when he got together with Tanya. I don't know why, I guess I didn't want him to get hurt and there was something about Tanya that made me feel, apprehensive is the best way to put it. I know there is no magic place to take people one time and they stay away from alcohol forever after. Maybe the ones with that problem will one day find it in themselves to stay away from alcohol and not touch it again. It takes a strong person to say no and stick with it. I can only pray they find that inner strength.
All I can say is that Tanya is taking you for ride! She will not change. How many times you have helped her
You are a truly amazing human being. Bless you always 🙏
Your channel is new to me. I have watched the episode of when you rescued Tanya and the episode of when you rescued and helped Dima from their horrible situations. I need for you to explain to me how Tanya met Dima. Tanya swore that she didn’t drink or wanted to be associated with a man who dranked, yet, she is an alcoholic. Moreover, where was Tanya’s sister when she was alone and abandoned in that sub standard house!
Don't be discouraged Sergei! You have helped many people. Some of them need to help themselves more.
Can you explain in a video about this process of getting "coded" please? I do not understand how being "coded" or not helps an alcoholic.
@VASYA IN THE HAY: Sergei, you are a good man and it breaks my heart to see you learn such difficult lessons. Tanya instantly reminded me of my former alcoholic wife that put me, my sweet daughter and both of our families through hell before finally drinking herself to death. So many, many parallels between her and Tanya made me want to blow up the comment section of your many videos featuring her and criticize you for being naive. However, it is not my place to tell you or anyone else what to do. Your video of sweet Vika is why I subscribed to your channel. She and my daughter could easily be twin sisters...so beautiful and full of life in-spite of their hardships. Thank you! Please do not let your heart be hardened by those that have taken advantage of your kindness.
Dear Sergei, what about the cow! Its making a lot of noice I hope you check at it also!!! Animal welfare is important aswell as taking care of the girls!
Yes help the poor cow, cats and dogs..😫😓😭😢
Please don't give up hope! You have helped so many good people along the way! Move on to someone that appreciate's your wonderful good deeds. You can't help every one. You have given so many people a chance of a better life. There are many more out there for you to save. Those older people love the fact that someone cares enough to try to bring some joy into their lives! Keep doing what you are doing, please! We have your back. 😍
You helped the father sign up for benefits and helped him in what you thought would be so great for his family. I was sad to see what happened.
Before I became disabled myself,I worked with finding housing for ladies fleeing domestic abuse situations. They needed social help on many levels, sometimes those who had been on the lowest rungs of the socioeconomic scale once the finally received some money all types of friends & relatives tried to move in and drink or drug off of the money that was for other household purposes. Sometimes the mother would used her card to buy food & her friends would try to trade the kids food for money so they could get alcohol or drugs. I understand your frustration. But I have also seen people stop drinking after many years, some with treatment some without. The main thing that saved them was to stay away from bad company, don’t go to their house,don’t let them in yours.
Addiction is a powerful demon that keeps raising its head. It seems more powerful with a group than in a singular situation. I am sad that Pasha has gotten with a bad group. I know that it is not easy raising his 2 daughters by himself, but that isn't a good reason to drink continuously. Thank you Sergei for all that you do, and yes there are good people out there, but also many that have many deep issues.
Don't be discouraged, Keep helping, I too have learned some you can help, and some not. Living in a poor neighborhood I see a lot. But it's great when you see some rise above it all. Prayers ❤
I would like to see more help for the old persons home ❤, thank you for your kindness
Going to see grandmas and grandpas was a balm on your heart. What a shock to see those tirée drunk after all this time and energy helping them. You are an Angel. Keep doing and helping those in need. They deserve it. You are doing your best and that is enough. You are such à good person ànd that is the reason we love you so much.
I can see how much you care. You go above and beyond to help those in need. It is sad to see them repeating the same mistakes. Amazingly, you don't just help, you commit.
I am so sorry that with all your efforts everything didn’t turn out good….. yet. Don’t feel bad, all you can do is offer help and leave the rest to God. You are amazing and have helped so many, God bless you
You wear your heart on your sleeve. Your a good person.
As a rancher, I want to know what is going on with that bawling cow? Is she hungry or needs to be milked? I know cow bawls... and there was something wrong with that sound! Th minute you showed up at Pasha's house I wanted you to go check on that cow!
As for people, I have been a volunteer counselor at a crisis pregnancy center for over 24 years and it is a rare thing to see a person who is not dependant on drugs or alcohol, STAY off of them. There is relapse after relapse... same with women who seem to fall for the same... worthless men who move in with these gals because they don't want to work.... allow the women to support them with their food stamps and housing they get from the government. It is truly depressing and discouraging to those of us who are spending money trying to help them.
The cow and also Tanya's cat and kitten 😪
Yes I noticed that also, poor animals prob starving 😟
Yes it's better to help the animals
I think you should visit Seniors more so we can hear their stories. I enjoy the Grandmothers and Grandfathers.
You are a kind and caring man. Thank you for all you do. You try and help so many different people. Please know that you do make a difference and give support, love and hope to many people.
These people are shameless stop helping that kind people Sir Sirgie you just wasting your effort and resources to those people try to find people who are much deserving to receive help not them no matter how much you help them but they stuck on their oldways!i feel so bad that those people doesnt know how to value your effort/helps to them seems they're just taking it for granted!takecare with your self always Sir Sergie❤love from🇨🇦
I feel so sorry for the little kitten crying on the kitchen floor. They can't even take care of themselves, how are they supposed to care for a little kitten? 😢
The best use of your time and money is helping needy children, the elderly, nursing homes (people end up in those and the family rarely visits) and the orphanages.
I'm sorry they were such a disappointment for you. Don't lose heart. People are weak.
the cow is bawling, she needs care.
help the poor cow....
This was a very hard day for you!! I can see the disappointment in your face. You do such good things... Please don't get discouraged.....
You cant help her anymore! You did everything you can! And she just laughs about her drinking problem!
😮💨 Seriously she has been giving so many chances.
These people need to be in a recovery facility. They will not get through this without counslers, physical help, and rules. She and her sister will continue to fail. Plus they have too want to get well.
Great video as always Sergei! I am also learning the language slowly but surely 😂💯
Such a shame when people are drinking like that. You did your very best for Tanya now its up to her. That father for the children maybe he can be helped. And old people was so happy for your gifts 🤗so nice of you to help them
Tanya and her friends thought you would buy them food, I would not give them anything else. Pasha maybe will improve for his children but you never know. Thanks for helping the patients in the home. Much respect
God bless you for your kind heart.
I'm flabbergasted how some Russians treat their neighbors. I hope these sisters can stay together their entire lives if they wish to? And I hope they will get their very own flat along with never having to worry about food to eat. America wishes the sisters and all Russian ppl well.
Thank you for visiting the people in the home & bringing chocolates & goodies. They really enjoyed your visit. God bless you Sergei and your cameraman.
I'm sorry to hear about Tanya and Pasha. The girls must be devastated that their dad is drinking and it's especially bad since his brothers go to their house to drink. That can't be good for the girls. If he continues drinking it might be better that they're found somewhere else to live. As long as Tanya is with her sister she will probably continue to drink. Natasha really needs to see a dentist because she's living with chronic pain which doesn't help. You can't do anything for them. Hopefully one day Tanya will call and they'll be ready to get sober. Thanks for the glimpse of the nursing home. At least they have a place to live that cares for them. It's better than some of the old people you find that live alone. Keep doing your good work even if sometimes it doesn't work out. My brother was a terrible alcoholic and we never thought he'd get sober but it happened. 30 years later he's still sober. It can happen.
I agree with you Sergei, do not give addict money or help. It will only go to alcohol or drugs.
Just help the cats,,buy food.
I do not think they need your help anymore just a waste of time. You did your best and this is the way they repay you. They are not trying hard enough. I think they are just using your kindness. maybe just go help foster kids and the elderly who really need it. I see Russia has a real bad drinking problem. I do not see them trying to better themselves. My hats off for you though, you are trying to help people and they are taking advantage of you. My deep respect for you and what you are doing. The children suffer the most from this alcholilism . I feel for you because I see great diappointment in you with these two sisters, than she has the nerve to ask you for money for beer no shame there on her part. Your kindness wasted there. God bless your kindness , sorry but I could not watch anymore. I fear or the man's daughter with these men hanging around there drinking, they are so vunerable
Thank you sir, we were just in the motherland a few weeks ago, and were able , praise God , to bless some people also.
We also tried our best not to be bumbling American idiots, so they can see we’re all not insane.
Again, thank you for what you do.
It’s just beautiful.
So sorry for that one girl. You made her beautifull again she got married. Had a nice life and then he died😢😢😢😢. The cow wanted food Sergei. He was calling you for help. Hear his sound when he sees you and when you walk away. It broke my heart💔💔💔💔
I still believe it could have been Tanya’s foolish ways that landed dear Dima into such trouble. Wish he’d never met her.
So sad, but they must walk their path...you have given them light, now they need to carry it themselves...thank you for your efforts ❤
Don't give her money. If she doesn't spend it on money, her sister will.
She should NEVER haven't her sister in to live with her.
Also, there's a poor cat caught in this
Well. At least she was honest in the end with why she wanted money in the end
Those poor daughters too with all those men about. I don't like it at all
And a poor cow with the guy. As a farmer myself, it was killing me hearing it moo. It was hungry.
Very first thing I do at daylight is feed and water the animals.
Poor cow.😞
I agree . 5 drunk guys and 2 minors is doomed to lead to abuse
Yes,,that poor cow crying,,Im so sad,,so sad in my heart hearing that,,also cows are not feeling good being alone,,they need a friend,,and let the poor cow food and go out.@@thekatt... Hope someone can help the cow,,dogs and cats,,I feel so sorry for them,,that I cry.🥺😢😭😫