being against something someone can't help is NOT an opinion. Also, the 2nd part concerns me like, love for a kid is unconditional, while love for a spouse is conditional. If you're gonna choose your spouse over your kid, don't have kids.
Your values are strange, I understand a part of your point of view but it doesn't make sense that you see your wife metaphorically holding a knife to your son and still side with her Think about it this way, if he listen and let her do whatever she wants, she would cause psychological damage to his son, He tried his best to save the relationship by hiring someone neutral and giving her what she needed to change but she didn't want to.
Does OP have other kids as well ?
So the wife can't have her own opinion if its against yours, its her house as well, i don't understand why someone will pick the kid over their spouse
It's the love of a parent I guess? It out weighs the love of the spouse tou rather have your child safe than your wife constantly belittling him
F that opinion. I would love my child if it was gay. Just because i dont understand it doesnt mean its bad. He isnt hurting anybody by being gey.
being against something someone can't help is NOT an opinion. Also, the 2nd part concerns me like, love for a kid is unconditional, while love for a spouse is conditional. If you're gonna choose your spouse over your kid, don't have kids.
Your values are strange, I understand a part of your point of view
but it doesn't make sense that you see your wife metaphorically holding a knife to your son and still side with her
Think about it this way, if he listen and let her do whatever she wants, she would cause psychological damage to his son,
He tried his best to save the relationship by hiring someone neutral and giving her what she needed to change but she didn't want to.
nope she can. but she cant harmm your child with it. btw you have to pick the child It is your duty. and duty is the death of love