true kaya ako dito lang ako sa bahay ang best friend ko ang asawa ko 😂 we can go out anyrime at i love spending time with him in our garden and taking care of my flowers at my front yard.
@@ernieagustinbakerjetandfri7682 yup, some kababayans are toxic. But we’re in the land of the free. Just focus on your own life, especially finances. At least dito wala utang utang. Be cool on your own way and dont get bothered by material things.
Relate here in Australia!tagal kona Po dto sa Australia at daming experiences dto sa mga pinay. Only can count few who are very honest Dahil sa bad experience ko dto sa Australia sa mga plastic,I stopped cummicating with them. Sa ngayon I'm. Happy being with my hubby and being with our daughter spending time together always. No more toxic people pinays! Yong supposed to be my friend n pinay kinonsabo ang friend nya n mg flirt sa hubby ko. She's from Bacolod! She even goes to the church! She's pretender nice kunwari!
Over 50 years na ako dito sa US, nagsasalita pa ako ng diretsong ilokano at tagalog wala akong masyadong pilipino friends,kasi dahil sa tsismisan, inggitan, at payabangan, i would rather hangout with my family and I’m much happier ❤
Relate ako kay elycayaban5773. 1968 ng umalis ako sa Pinas. Dko naranasan martial law, 1968 teenager pa lang ako, pero hanggang ngayon gamit ko pa rin ang Pilipino at mahusay akong magsulat pa. Dito sa Southwest Florida nkabili ng bahay retirado na po ako (military & Federal jobs), walang mga Pinoy dito sa Subdivision kya inglesero ako (walang makausap eh). Pero sa tagal ko na dito, wala akong nakita puro intsik, Italyano, Frances at ibang lahi ang bukod tanging mga pilipino ang inglishan kung sino ang mas Magaling! Bakit ganun?
proud ako sa mga pilipino na tulad mo ilokano at marunong magtagalog, karamihan kasi na ilokano na kilala ko dito sa amerika hindi masyado nagsasalita ng tagalog, either ilokano lang at english, parang walang respeto sa wikang pambansa natin.observation ko lang naman.
I feel a bit embarrassed. We were still so very young when we 1st arrived in the 70s. Me & my siblings used to speak fluent ilocano & tagalog. But we've been surrounded by english speakers daily & suddenly one day we just realized we lost the ability to speak both dialects fluently. Although, thank goodness, we can still understand, since our parents still speak to us in our "native tongue" 😊😊
I am 62, 40 years na ako dito sa US pero ni minsan hindi ako nag english kapag kinakausap ako ng tagalo. Marami ngang pinay dito na kahit kausapin mo ng tagalog, puro english ang sinasagot tapos kapag tinanong ko kung gaano na sya katagal dito, e 2 yrs lang pala. Mayabang ang marami dito sa US.
I understand what are you saying……Ganyan din ako, kung PURO filipino ang mga nasa paligid ko at nagtatagalog sila, sasagot din ako ng Tagalog…pero as a sign of respect para sa akin, kung May mga foreigner na nasa paligid , I managed na magsalita ng English and Tagalog para hindimagpagkamalang pinag-itsisismisan sila. That’s my way. especially graduated pa ako sa HRM, Isa sa mga “ethics” na natutunan ko sa HRM class handling different kind of races, iyan ang itinuro sa Amin. Isa pa, as a Filipino, iyan ang mga katangian na meron tayo….respect!
Pls don’t judge, I’m a pure CEBUANA and I prefer to speak ENGLISH kasi barok ang tagalog ko. Alangan nmn magbisaya ako sa tagalog? PS: Totoo yung sinabi nya na maraming mayabang. Yung alam kong nag rerent lang sya pero nagfflex ng mga luxury brands grabe tlga insecurity nya alam mong masyadong mahangin.. housewife ng puti at hindi nagwwork pero grabe hambog 😂
Yun sinasabi mo hindi mayabang yan....baka di mo alam speaking Englis na cya sa pinas .diba.... At saka meron mga visaya hindi fluent sa tagalog....yun iba college grad pa. .mas proper cila mag english ang kausap nya tagalog. ..ko lang kapa sa experience ....
Kahit dito mismo sir sa pilipinas kahit hindi naman tagalog or taga manila or luzon kung saan tagalog yung salita 😮nagtatagalog sa mismong kababayan niya na hindi naman tagalog napaka awkward pakinggan.
Depende sa situations if we are in a work place and if someone talk to me na filipino mag english talaga ako as a sign of respect. If kami2x lang I will ask if they speak tagalog kasi I am also bisaya so I would rather talk to them in English kasi I am more comfortable baloktot din yung tagalog ko hahhahah
Hindi naman lahat na "suplado" dahil mayabang. Don't judge other Filipinos if they're not warm it is possible if they're introvert, shy, and have trust issue due to their past experience.
My first thought actually. Hindi sa suplada, just introvert lang. Also, I would love to talk to other Filipinos...pero na-i insecure ako sa tagalog ko and feeling ko expected nila na fluent ka at pag nag english ka naman mayabang ka. So, minsan mahirap din.
Sa totoo lang, you'll recognize if the person is just introvert or aloof. Meron talagang tao na hindi responsive or warm towards their kababayan. It could be that they feel their more superior over them. Yan ang feeling mayabang
No offense meant. but a smile back kahit mahiyain would make a difference. Im an ambivert minsan nag eexude ang confidence but there are times tinatamaan ako ng hiya and when that moment happens I still smile back and just look down keeping my smile a bit longer. or I would smile back and just nod. pag kinamusta ill simple say ok naman po kayo ho? then after whatever her response is I would exit gracefully with a smile para di bastos looking. I think ang byword is just to be respectful to people who are polite di ba? again no offense meant just an opinion😊
Filipina from Norway here. I don’t agree with you 100% 1. Sa tingin ko po hindi ka suplada or arrogant kapag hindi mo pinansin agad agad kapwa mo Filipino in public places. We’re all busy with our lives & with our own problems that I think it’s wrong to expect na i welcome ka kapwa mo Filipino with open arms agad or mag smile sila sa yo. Wag tayo mag assume ng worst dahil lang d tayo na greet or nag eye contact kapwa natin Filipino. Better to give others the benefit of the doubt than assume the worst especially when we are unaware of what others have experienced in their lives2. Kung gusto po ng Filipino o kahit sino man gumamit ng LV, Hermes, Gucci, Rolex, Cartier etc & credit card po ginamit nila who cares? Kasi po pera po nila yun sila po nagpakahirap na mabayaran credit nila & most of us Filipinos (& generally asians) like to use designer goods anyways. I mean if one chooses to buy a bag from Macys for 10 $ or a bag from Chanel for 10,000 $ there’s nothing wrong with that. 3. Be a law abiding citizen at all times that way may mag report man sa yo then you have nothing to hide coz you didn’t do anything wrong. 4. Discrimination happens all the time, unfortunately most of the people discriminate regardless of where they are from (this is not just exclusive to Filipinos).
I think envy is good as long as in the constructive way than destructive (destroy others), this is human behavior even other nationalities, even worst. In the bible it says every talent is God given, not everyone becomes a Doctor, attorney etc. It's probably boring. Be content what you have and make the most of it, that will bring you money, happiness and don't forget to pray to thank the Lord always and help others.
Gnyn din ngyare sa min nung nasa US kming mg asawa kapwa pinoy ngsisiraan sipsipan sa amo me napasok kmi kaibigan at pinsan ng mr ko sa work nmin sa huli kmi pa masama mga walang utang na loob now that we are here in pinas retired my kids all professional n living a good life while those people na tinulungan nmin still there working till their old age.
I can totally relate.39 years na ako dito sa Ca.Maraming filipino na ganyan sa work at sa mga places na may filipino.Kaya ako,i only hang out with my family here.Ang mga kaibigan ko ay ibang lahi.
Sa awa ng Diyos, mababait mga Pinoy na nameet ko dito sa Georgia. Nung bagong salta pa lang ako galing Pinas, eh sila pa yung nag ooffer maghatid sundo sakin at nililibre pako sa mga kainan. Karamihan sa kanila mga born again Christians kya mababait.
Bahala sila kung may branded stuff sila 58 years old na ako been living in uk for 22 years di ako apektado sa kalakaran ng buhay ng ibang tao,,di ako gumagamit ng bag,lagay ko lang sa bulsa ko ang pitaka ko nakaraos na,never been fascinated with branded things been doing things my own way i dont have any problem wih people who's showing off let them be sabi nga trip nila yon hayaan mo sila.none of my business. I'd rather spend time for something more important.to somebody who's idle and had nothing to do,try to have a hobby,i do enjoy gardening, painting,embroidery and reading interesting books is a pleasure 😊
Your first encounter I think is your presumptions, kc ako eh tahimik din na tao but if you talk to me I will talk back. The couple may have their own problems to deal with na hindi mo alam at may be hindi sila marunong mag handle how to deal with other people. Isipin mo na lang n baka may pinagdadaan, we don't know were they coming from. It's good na somebody are their to reciprocate you energy. Choose to be happy and avoid downers, but always smile and be a blessing to anybody who will take it or not.
Not only sa US.kahit sa middleast.tatlo sakit ng pinoy..tsismosa/tsimoso at mayabang(di lahat) lalo na sa tingin nila na mas nakakaangat kesa kaharap nya
I had the same experience. !!! They looked at me from head to toe! And to think that they had a bible study meeting in the house where I was a bed spacer
Similar tayo…I’m here naman sa Kentucky..konti lang din ang Filipino. I am also married to an American (vet) and I’m currently a SPED teacher. Additional insight din don sa mga Filipinos na medyo masungit..I can understand them also..there must be a reason why they reached that level of skepticism sa kapwa nila..Baka they experienced something really bad kaya super ingat n sila. First time ko Umalis ng bansa to teach in Thailand, I was very young then and I was one of those people na sobrang naive at super enthusiastic pag nakameet ng kapwa Filipino..sadly, I experienced lots of negative things..so time and experience taught me to be really really careful..to the point minsan siguro na nagiging quiet lang ako pag may filipinos around me.
Hello sissy ! New subscriber niyo po ako ! I like your blog sissy ! It’s an eye opener ! God bless your channel po ! Amen 🙏! Watching you now from New York USA 🇺🇸
29 years na ako sa US. Di ako nag hanap ng kapwa Filipino. Because of these reasons. I make sure to be kind and ako una bumabati kapag may nakikita ako sa stores or kung saan man. Very on point assessment. Sana we can be better as Filipinos. Great job! God bless you!
Kahit matagal kana jan Pilipinong Pilipino pa din ang tuno ng pagsasalita mo.Kahit nagsasalita ka pa ng English tunong Pilipino pa din.Proud of you sis dahil hindi mo tinatalikuran ang tunong Pinoy.
Pag ako nginitian ng kapwa ko pinoy ay ngitian ko din but not to intrude na sa mga personal na buhay nila gaya ng pagtatanong kong saan sila nakatira espicially kong first time mo silang ma meet . May mga tao kasi na private sila mahirapmag assume na makikipagtsikahan agad sayo kahit di ka naman nila gaano kakilala . I dont socialize too , im more focused sa family ko . Ganoon talaga hindi lahat ng tao parepareho ang ugali .
I agree. Pag kasama ko ang American husband ko or anyone na hindi marunong mag Tagalog, I always speak in English because it’s rude to speak in a language that they cannot understand. After more than 20 years in the US, na acquire ko na rin ang ilang ways ng mga Americans gaya ng pagiging private, independent, minding my own business and being wary of people who are too friendly or forward, dahil baka may masamang binabalak or intention. Ok lang maging friendly agad if someone I trust introduced him/her to me.
meron talagang mga pilipino na masungit but since im a home health nurse and visited different houses. i think some filipinos go through different stages in life such sick family members, caregiving issues and endless work schedule while paying mortgage. kasi napansin ko medyo masungit din ako but i realized that lahat ng tao sa america may pinag dadaanan sa buhay.
Kahit na anong lahi may ugaling pangit. Dahil nakasaad sa Bible that “ we all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”. Yong pride, jealousy, yan nasa nature ng tao kahit anung lahi. Ang maliit na bata di mo turuang mainggit.. naiingit. Nature ng tao yan. Lahat yan ay sinful nature natin. Ang kailangan ng bawat isa ay yong personal relationship kay Jesus Christ. Hindi lang head knowledge. Yong need to know Him in personal level. Dahil kung kilala mo si Lord at alam mo why He died on the cross. Mapapahumble ka at matutunan mong live for Him everday. If you are walking with the Lord mababago ang pangit ng ugali ng kahit anong tao.
I agree with the guy that says iba iba Ang ugali ng bawat isa. It is what it is. It doesn't matter what color or nationality. Move on and try to think positive. It is really have to do with ego. All of us have idols. Idols means idolizing money, fame, material things, beauty. I believe Louie Vuitton are for poor people. You don't need brand name to show you are rich. Take a note that the real rich people don't wear brand names. They don't try to impress people that they are rich. Move on girl. Put your energy on positive thinking. Focus on forgiving your brothers and sisters.
Agree...It doesn’t matter if you wear a Rolex or a budget wristwatch; they tell the same time. Similarly, whether you carry an expensive or more expensive purse, they serve the same purpose. What’s important is having enough cash to spend, not just relying on plastic cards.
Naka tira ako sa California for the past 38 years. Ang aking hanap buhay ay bilang isang IT professional. Sa tingin ko, hindi matatangal ang "crab mentality" sa ating kapwa Pilipino dito sa US. Dati dati myembro ako ng mga Filipino organizations dito sa California. Pero tumigil na ako, kasi puro pasikatan lang naman ang mga members. Nag concentrate na lang ako sa pag buo ng social connections sa mga kapwa Pilipino sa Online groups sa Facebook, Google Meet.
Been in the US for 26 years. Fortunately, many of the Pinoys I’ve encountered are nice (mostly IT professionals). Yes, you see some wearing LVs, driving a Tesla, have nice houses, traveling to Europe, etc. But this does not necessarily mean they are bragging. Some people like high end things and if hindi ka naman ginambala for them to buy those things, be happy for them and don’t judge immediately na nagyayabang.
May pagka introvert ako, wala ako nakikita na problema sa pagiging suplado o suplada i mean yung hindi umiimik. Pero iba na siguro yung pinansin ako pero dedma ko lang kadalasan pinapansin ko rin pero hindi ako yung nagsisimula ng kwentuhan.. Huwag lang maging traydor at Talangka. Social climber sila ok lang yan huwag lang sila uutang o magbayad ng utang. Tama ka doon sa sumbongero o sumbungera. Maalala ko yung kumanta ng "Selos" mismong Pinoy pa nagsumbong. Unless kung Crime ang nagawa ng kapwa Pinoy ay maiintindihan ko ang nagsumbong. Pero yung isusumbong dahil TNT, nagtratrabaho sa ibang companya as sideline, nag-iinuman (bawal dito sa ME) ay pangit talaga. Yung sipsip sa boss na nagsusumbong kahit hindi siya apektado o wala naman effect sa kompanya like minsan naiidlip sa work.
I have both Filipino as well as foreigner friends ! But what can I say is that , some Filipinos don’t talk to you nor greet at all ! I try to smile and say , hello kabayan ! Then that’s it ! If they don’t smile back at me, it’s their loss! I don’t care ! Some are not helpful at all instead , they put you down and don’t support you at all ! They’re proud too ! That i can attest to ! Mostly are marites too! Hallelujah! God forgive them for they know not what they are doing ! Amen 🙏! Crab mentality ! They have too!
Apart from that , they gossip about you yes it’s Marites! I hate that ! Mind their own business and scratch their own galis! Also , competitive sissy ! That’s very obvious ! And , nanunumbong sa mga walang mga papel magkapera lang ! That’s so horrible ! Father forgive them for they don’t know what they’re doing ! In Jesus Christ name! Amen 🙏
Your behavior is a description of your personality. It doesn't matter where you're at. Kung insecure ka sa Philippines insecure ka anywhere. Ang difference lang, pag na punta sa ibang bansa un insecurities nila nag manifest sa being arrogant. Kaya palawakin na lang natin ang pang unawa. May kasabihan na " you can take the Pilipino out of the Philippines but you can not take Philippines out of the Pilipino. Let's just take the good and the bad, and don't lose any sleep over it.
short kwento lang’po. Cambridge University Alum here in short classmates ibat ibang lahi. Pag mag dine out kami If a French classmate meets French lets say tourist in a bar or resto …kamustahan ang saya! an American classmate meets an another American… Kamustahan may tanong pa where in the US …ang saya. Japanese classmate meets another Japanese may bow pa before magusap… ang saya.. Me naka meet ng pinoy sa Primark, I smiled and asked if pinoy…naku nang-snub, kinuha phone, nag text then iwas tingin na sa akin… ang saya😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with you na snub Ang mga PINOY diyan way back 2001 Dinalawanamin Ang panmangkin namin sa Toronto, on that time Canada day dumalo KAMI sa isang park na KUNG saan maraming Pinoy Ang nagtitipon - tipon to make it short WALA man lamang NAGKAROON ng interest na makipag--usap sa amin Ibang iba sa aming taga LONDON everybody is welcome,
😊. Ka relate. Been here decades ago. At marami na kong na experience na ganyan. Buti lumabas yan dahil sa YT. Nun araw pa yan di lang na post dahil wala pang YT nga. At im used to it na. Ignore na lang namin. 😊😊Mabuhay po tayong lahat. 👏👏👏
It’s better to have a simple handbag but full of money rather than LV ka nga, wala naman datung! Oh my ! Stop being boastful guys ! Be humble na lang and God will lift you up! Amen 🙏! Some people what I know is, simple but rich ! They’re so humble ! But those who are mayabang, ay Wala namang ipagmamalaki! So just be simple guys.
Lahat ng sinabi mo ay totoo. I’m here in London, UK for 24 years already. Mas OK pang wala kang kasamang Pinoy/ Pinay sa work. Kc most of the time ay sya pa ang mag turn down sa yo sa work para lang siya ay ma promote after ng tinuruan mo sya sa work especially ay nauna kang nag work sa job na yon.
Since 1968 ako dito sa US, as a teenager. Pero proud ako magsalita ng wika natin at magsulat. Retirado nko (2 pa, military & Federal job + SSS). Cguro trip ng mga Pinoy mag inglish! Pero sa travelled ko, abroad, wala akong nakita ibang lahi kausap ang KA LAHI nila na nag iinglishan. Bukod tanging mga Pilipino lang talaga! Bakit kya? Cguro likas na mayayabang lang talaga! Dinadaan na lang doon, “feeling” mas mataas sila at may pera!
Ayaw ko makipag usap sa mga English sero/English sera po. Feeling ko pinag ya ya ba ngan po ako porke magaling sila msg English. Probinsya na po ako at Hindi used msg English ang lahat ng Tao sa lugar namin. Kaya pilipit dila ko mag English though my ancestors were French English but that was 15th century distant away to my present life. I was born in a simple hut in the Philippines while my ancestors were born in the palaces and castles 😂. But when I’m talking with my American cousin, he said he wanted to live in the Philippines and wants to marry a Filipina po.😂😘😍
I also experience that too, I recon mostly are nurses, hindi ko nilalahat, normally ako yong super friendly at unang mag hello. Now wait muna ako kung sila mauna pumansin bago ako mag response, kasi parang na trauma ako. I also have one friend that akala ko we were happy for years of friendship now unfriend nya ako, kasi she met a new friend. I’m still healing kasi sobra ako nasaktan. Kasi we built a strong relationship na. No closure whatsoever.
Dati po palagi ako ngumingiti basta nakakasalubong ako ng Pinoy kaso ang daming suplada kaya bago masira ang magandang araw ko makikiramdam ako bago ako mag approach or ngumiti😂
Correct! Best thing to do. Marami kasing mga insecure na pinoy sa ibang bansa. Nalulula sila sa pagtapak nila sa ibang bayan, kung baga, feel na feel nila ang pagka-imported nila. Kaya ganyan nalang ang tingin nila sa ating kapwa, as if mas mataas o mas mabuti pa ang kanilang estado (baka hindi . . .). Ito yung mga 'deprived' sa Pinas.
Tama ka! Pero minsan, hindi pla Pinoy eh. Bka taga Thailand o Indonesian mukhang Pinoy lang. May nkasama ako Pinoy n Pinoy (sa US Navy) pango ang ilong cya daw ay isang Guam-enio (born/raised sa PH). Trip nya mag inglish so ok lang pero di ko na kinakausap. Lumalayo ako sa mga Pinoy na inglishero at mayabang. Wala pa akong sakit ng ulo.
Relate ako jan ‘te. Matagal nako dito sa US since 11yrs old pa lang. I’m now 50 pero nagtatagalog padin ako and very friendly when I meet other pinays. Noong 2015, narerember ko padin itong eksena nato, haha. I onced got invited by a new friend sa church nya. May mga pinay yung new friend kong pinakilala sakin. Yung isang pinay matangkad at maputi may itsura sya. When we were introduced, inuri ba naman nya ako from head to toe. Matapobre ang dating, haha. Later, nabanggit ng friend ko na dati daw worker sa Hong Kong, I’m not sure what kind of worker but maybe DH? Well, anyway nakarating sya dito sa US dahil nakakilala ng US navy na afam at pinakasalan sya. She’s very lucky kasi now she has a good life. Pero sana naman maging humble sya kasi galing din sya sa hirap.
Well common yan sa mga organization like couple of Christ, before mag prayer meeting puro tsismiss, pagkatapos ng sharing nila, backbiting sa kapwa nila. lol 😂😂😂😂😂
We're almost the same. Except, I grew up here, went to college abroad, then came back to work. I've already been established for 15yrs BEFORE I finally met my spouse. And it took me 5yrs to finally agree to even get married. We used to live in the west coast, where there are already so many Asians. So I never noticed the negatives in your list. But I'm also aware that there are less Asians, let alone Filipinos, in Michigan or east coast in general. So maybe that's the difference, the more Filipinos < less competition > friendlier.
I just read some of the other comments & realized, my entire life I've been surrounded mostly by Caucasians + Asians & various other races, who also either grew up or were born here. So we're not aware of the "crab mentality epidemic" since me & my closest family/relatives/friends/coworkers never experienced it ourselves. It's sad to think there are some who will treat their fellow Filipinos badly just to make themselves feel better.
@walkerlamebrain it really is a thing…the crab mentality. Check out the history of “MAKAPILI” during Japanese invasion in the Philippines…those group who turned against Filipinos. I’ve been told that here in the US it is the fellow Filipinos who would tell on fellow Filipinos who do not have legal status and end up getting deported. It is a sad reality.
Dapat kasi, adjust the way things are done in your adopted country. Some Pilipinos just don’t want to associate with other Pilipinos. They asked too many questions about your personal life which is too invasive. It’s their way of gauging your status in the community which I think of being competitive. There are two categories of Pilipinos, 1. An individual born in the USA (first generation) and 2. Pilipino immigrants. There is also such a thing as 1.5 generation. Those that were brought in the USA at a young age ie. 1 to 5 yrs old. These are some emphasis on some Pilipinos.
i don’t judge people who love branded items.. thats their preference. i don’t even think they’re showing off..they must like nice stuff as i said that’s their preference. how they got hold of expensive items..as long as they did not steal it , good for them! i always see other people’s actions in good faith esp if their actions do not affect me adversely. best to live and let live and not be affected by what make others happy. ..as long as they don’t affect me...go!
Totally agree. Kanya kanya tayo gusto sa buhay. Halimbawa ako , gusto ko ng branded na mga bag. Pero it doesn’t mean na mayabang ako. I just want to reward myself for working twelve hrs everyday 6 days a week. That’s for. And it’s not being arrogant.
i agree, there are people who are exactly as how u described it. but there are also ones where its obvious that they are showing off. i suppose its just awareness on how to identify those who are similar to what u mentioned and those that are mayabang talaga.
Hello po! Just bump into your video, happy to watch it.😊 12 years na po ako dito, I’m here at Georgia. Pero wala akong friends na Filipino, mga acquaintances lang, hi hello lang if may makita sa public places. I worked in a medical field po sa isang hospital dito at ang daming Filipino nurses which were hired from Philippines through agencies, I actually let them know po that they are brave to go here alone without knowing anyone just to work, I appreciate all of them. Even though Maraming pinoy sa workplace ko, I’m the only Filipino sa department namin so I don’t really have a chance to mingle with them. But sa na observe ko po they are hard workers and respectful.🎉 minsan may marinig ako mg chismisan sila sa isa’t isa. As for me hi, hello lang talaga ako sa kanila, I don’t join if they have chismis or if may e share ang isa sa akin, I just smile and I don’t feed the negativity. And even though Maraming pinoy, I also understand that we are there to work so Hindi lahat dapat friendly agad or iba iba ang characteristic, may shy, introvert, extrovert etc so I don’t think of it as offensive if Hindi sila mg smile or Hindi friendly.. I act professional sa work but I smile whenever may ma encounter ako however I don’t usually ask na are you Filipino or start to chat personally or ask questions except if uunahan nila ako. And yes it is true na most Filipinos ngyayabangan ng mga gamit but I don’t really get into it, I’ll just say masaya ako para sayo, or wow! Bongga naman ng car mo, like I just keep praising them and most of them if one has a new car, the other one will have a new one after a month, it’s crazy! Ang isa ng start ng trend kasi kumuha ng Tesla car, ngayon most of them have one, I honestly don’t know how they do it being here for 4 years or less. Pero I guess that’s how they spend their income as nurses through things, I’m cool with it and I don’t mind.. especially when one shares sa akin oi may bago akong car tapos sabay pakita sa picture or may new house or whatever, I just smile and say wow congratulations!😅 may isa din na she wanted to sell her Louis vuitton sa akin kasi daw may bago syang bag and I just smile and say sorry ha, wala po akong pera sa ganyan then she will stop.😊 hala, ang haba na nito, pacensya na po.. by the way I easily speaks English po kasi nahirapan ako mag Tagalog. Ingat po kabayan!😊
Haha! Oh my! I can’t live my life that way especially you and I both know how expensive it is to live here in the US! Also, now that I’m Getting older, me and my husband are seriously focusing on putting money in our retirement fund. Now is not the time, with our age, to be getting into more loans or utang. At 42, I only have about 20 years max to work so I must save tlaga for our older age era. I like your energy and you seem wise and mature. ☺️
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Relate ko rin yong experience mo. Maraming pinoy na suplada at snob sa america.Pero kung pansin nila na medyo may kaya sa buhay yon napakabait nila.Pero marami rin pinoy na mababait sa america.
nag wowork ako sa panda express dito sa Seattle Washington at madalas my mga na eencounter akong mga kapwa pinoy, pag na notice na pinoy cla sinasabi ko agad pinoy po with a big smile in my face at tagalog agad ang ginagamit kong wika , kaya masaya din ako dahil mababait din cla
absolutely true! just dont mind them.and just be i dont care attitude.kahit na designer bag the thing is is it GENUINE! kahit na cheap bags lang its ok at least ORIGINAL! JUST dont mind.that's all ! so then you wont get so much affected.
If something is bought with a credit card, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes people pay using cc for the benefits - cashback, mileage, 0% APR, purchase protection, etc.
Ganun din dito sa Netherlands at ganyan na ganyan ang mga qualities ng iba nating kababayan at mula ulo hanggang talampakan branded ang kagamitan pati bahay pinaganda pero lubog sa utang, ako mismo naka experienced sa kapwa pinay dito ng hindi maganda.😥
OK ka Pinay in Michigan. On point mga sinabi mo. Marami pang pwede I-dagdag sa mga observations mo. Nakakalungkot talaga. Mga Ibang lahi dito sa North America hindi naman KAGAYA natin. Nag tutulungan pa sila. Ako po si Pinoy in Vancouver dating Pinoy in Honolulu. US and Canadian citizen po at Democrat.
I live in Australia. Actually everytime I see pinoys here, specially if they're older than me, I always say "Hello po." Or I smile at them. Some of em ignore me, I juz brush it off.. minsan they stare at me and my baby (my baby's half caucasian) then they'll stare at my husband. I actually feel good kasi i know there's nothing wrong with me, i have no hatred, i have no insecurities.. baka sila meron.. 😂 Some say "Hi!" naman and super friendly, they even tell us gawa pa ng isang baby kasi maganda ung daughter namin.. hehe
VERY TRUE! I HAVE FIL-AM CHILDREN PERO THANKS TO GOD NAPAKAHUMBLE AND GROUNDED KAHIT NA NAPAKALAKI NA NG ACHIEVEMENTS NILA. HINDI SILA NAGBAGO AT VERY FOCUS AND DEDICATED SA PAGIGING CHRISTIAN. SA PINAS PA LANG, SINASAMA KO NA SILA SA BIBLE STUDY AND CHRISTIAN CHURCH. UNTIL NOW, HIN DI SILA BUMITAW SA PAGIGING CHRISTIAN. HINDI SILA MATERIALISTIC DAHIL HINDI KO SILA PINAMULAT SA GANUN NA BUHAY.
Same here I'd rather be home on my day off and do my chores rather than be with other pinays here in NC kc pag sobrang dikit na tendency nagpapa siklaban at nagsisiraan ... I work at Costco sa entrance and exit doors yung department ko so relate talaga ako dun sa sinabe mo na excited ka makakita ng mga kabayan at lahat ng mga sinabe mo ay yun talaga ang tinatanong ko san ka dito at san ka satin ... sabi nga don't trust your kapwa pinoy here kc sila rin ang mag dadown sayo.
Hi new subscriber here I just wanna say I agree with you. And what your saying is true. Marami talagang Filipino dito sa US na mayayabang. I was in California mall one time and this two couple na filipino pinag tatawanan nila ako sumama talaga ang pakiramdam ko hindi na ako nag continue na mag shopping I just went home. Sana we treat everyone with resfect and just treat everyone with kindness. ty for this video. I thank God that Im not that ignorant I hope not.👍🏻❤️🙏❤️
Sorry to read about your experience, but don't let them affect you. You will encounter those kinds occasionally whatever country you are in, even in the Phil.
Ever since na dumating ako dito busy ako sa work at kahit sa pamilya ko wala na akong time dahil sa casino po ang trabaho ko. Madalas ako na e invite sa mga party pero lagi ako hindi nakaka attend dahil mas mahalaga na kumita ako kaysa mag attend pa sa party dahil ako ang bumubuhay sa family ko. Kaya pala hindi n ko pinansin dahil yün pala hindi ako unattended sa party ng friend ko
mas gusto ko pa yung mga kababayan natin di namamansin kasi yang mga yan ayaw nila ng magkaron ng problema sa ibang tao...kaysa makakita ka ng mga kabayan natin sobrang friendly nakupo dadalhin ka sa kapahamakan. kaya mas mainam ng wag masyado magtiwala sa mga kababayan natin.
Exactly!!! Yon bang masyadong mapagkaibigan yon pala scammer. Mas ok na lang yong hindi masyadong pinapansin. Ako nandito sa Europe kung hindi ako pinapansin ok lang hindi ako affected.
Tama ka diyan. Parang 'Kapwa mo, Lokohin mo' di ba? Sino pa bang lolokohin ng pinoy? Yung mga puti, pagniloko mo, ay kakasuhin ka agad; Pag-pinoy ang niloko, takot magkaso (mahal-ang-abogado mentality). So, wag magpa-utang o maglabas ng pera, kahit kanino.
@merilee-ak My experience is that the majority of Filipinos first asked: how you got here in the U.S.; and if you own a house. Due to these initial encounters with most Filipinos, I don’t interact with them anymore. And I don’t speak Tagalog because I am from the Visayas region, so I, typically, speak in English because it is understandable to everyone, including those who are not Filipinos who are around you.
I get it. I think it’s important to consider nuance or context…it’s not ideal to just stick with one way of doing things kase there are still basic social awareness and way of dealing with people/ social interactions where hopefully you’re able to balance keeping things private, setting boundaries but still being polite and courteous. Para sa akin lang ha.☺️
Relate much sissy at talagang nangyari din yan sa akin dito grabe. Kaya now no friends hehe work bahay na lang din ako ngayon. Ito na lang din ang libangan ko ang mag Vlog, nice to meet you here
Tama may mga mayayabang talaga parang langaw na dumapo sa kalabaw at pakiramdam siya ay kalabaw na rin. Marami pang marites kapag kabiguan ay kalat na kalat yan pero kapag accomplishments ay may mga tao na parang ayaw mapag usapan.
Nakakalungkot Pero totoo! May iba lng pero hindi nman lahat. I still loved staying with Filipinos kc madaling makakasundo lalo na sa pagkain. My white friends are really good people. So respectful, kind and accommodating! Pero marami ding strangers na d mo kilalang mga pinoy na para bang ayaw ka nilang kausap. Lalo sa mga lugar na Sobrang maraming pinoy d talaga sila namamansin parang saten din sa pinas. But all of my daughter’s friends are also my friends!
Pumunta ako sa UK noon dahil dun nagwowork ate ko bilang nurse. Grabe, sorry po, pero parang mas insecure mga tao dun, mga pinoy pinay. Mas mayayabang sila, mas mga chismosa, mas grabe mang away at mang mata. Naku. Dun lang ako nakakita ng mga ganung klase talaga. Mas thankful ako na nasa US ako, kasi dito ang mentality ng karamihan ay work work work at may boundaries din kasi yun culture dito. Walang time masyado mag isip ng masama kasi busy ka sa buhay mo, busy ka magbayad ng bills, kasi ka sa mga anak mo na ikaw nag aalaga talaga. Unless hindi ka busy kasi hindi ka nagwo-work o wala ka talagang ginagawa, yun siguro, kung ano ano na nasa utak mo. So ayun, share ko lang. Kasi hirap ng experience ng ate ko dun. Lage siya inaaway mga Pinay porke may bahay siya, maayos work, pinoy din asawa, 4 anak nila (dami daw nila anak, tinatawanan sila). Lahat ng gawin niya ay pinu-pulaan siya. Naawa ako sa kanya dun. So kahit saan, madaming pinoy pinay na inggitera at mayayabang. Talagang ugale na ata ng mga pinoy yan kasi lumaki sa hirap. Again, mabuti na lang at sa US ay mas busy mga tao. At talagang uunlad ka kung masipag ka at matiyaga. Kahit itong sinasabi ko ngayon para akong nagmamagaleng lol pero iba talaga. Iba talaga pag mga ganung pinoy kasama mo, baka masira ulo mo kahit nananahimik ka sa buhay mo.
Agree po ako sa point #1 mo... and almost to all of the negative comments you mentioned 👍🏻🤗 Yun din ang experiences ko dito sa amin 🇨🇦... Sabi mo nga, mabuti kung... 😂😅🤣
@@pinayinmichigan6363- thank you, kabayan for reacting. i would suggest to all kabayans to learn how to react whenever we encounter those situations. we should tell ourselves not to get personally affected. let us keep in mind to focus more on the better things to make our day fun. siguro ipagdasal natin sila. I usually utter silently "Panginoon, patawarin mo po sila..." 😅🤣😂
Well for iver 40 years in germany wala akong problema ,kung snob sila or mayabang maski sa pilipinas ganyan din so let it be mga culture shock kang yan kung matindi man dito sa abroad
Back in the Philippines, did you know many Filipinos were racist to their own color? Yes! you exactly right!, mayaban, competitions, but I could say, that they're were hardworking people. Miss Pinay in Michigan, let me say. it's your own opinion and you own preference. I do agree some of your comments. I hope, you didn't generalized all Filipinos. Nextime, make a content about the qualities and how good we are.
Madalas ako mapagkamalan na Mexicano 🤣. One time I ate in an Asian Buffet then before I leave the lady gave a fortune cookie, to my surprise the caption in the cookie is in Spanish 😅
I lived in AZ and Pinoys are more friendlier and approachable there when moved to CA and said hello to some Filipinos they looked at me like “who are you don’t talk to me” but I still believe that not all are like that. Was in Fremont and had a good chat with senior couple while on line for a movie. It is always a treat to find some kind souls and friendly Filipinos in America.
You're absolutely right pagod mag deal sa mga mayayabang😅 grabe uyyy....keep up the good job..47 yrs na ako dito..retired na but happy na walang 😊friends
Same situation here, i dont have a pinoy barkada as i grew older. I learned to stay away from folks who ask intrusive questions on alien status, salary, relationship status. As for folks wearing luxury brands, its fine as long as they dont ask questions that fish for compliments on the brands they're carrying versus what I have (which is usually a sports brand). When purchasing anything, i apply my principles for buying a car- function, low cost to own, aesthetically pleasing. Will it take me from point A to B in safety, comfort while being reliable and looking good (Toyota/Subaru loyalist here)? I can never understand incurring debt to purchase luxury items like LV on 90% credit. I dont flaunt owning branded things, but might brag about getting a deal on mid range designer items for 60% off though😂.
Marami dyan ayaw patalo- kahit trabaho nila is pushing brooms or picking fruits. LOL. Do not bother w/ them. Just mind your own is all...and you will better off.
Agree ako sayo kabayan. Na experience ko some sa mga sinasabi mo about Pinoy abroad. Ingitera, insecure,mayabang, feeling better than anybody, competition, chismosa, etc. I'm 22 yrs.living here in NewZealand married to a British and NZ nationality. Im so tired of the Pinoy toxic culture😊Peace.❤❤❤
Inspired here po host sa way ng pag vlog mo..wala ako maraming kaibigan d2 sa Taiwan, masasabing 3 lang po pero two decades ng mga nakakasama…relate po ako sa mga ganyang ugali ng ibang pinoy at yan ang dahilan kaya 3 lang mga kaibigan pero happier at tunay
@@pinayinmichigan6363 naku yes po. Sa DHS. Tinawagan akonsa bahay at itigil ko daw ang pagluluto ko kasi may nagsumbong daw sa kanila. I know it's pinoy din and I think I know her kasi sinabihan na nya ko before na meron syang license for her business and we can't do it.
Filipinos culture are asking personal questions. I live here for four decades in the US my thinking is like my American husband. I always mind my own business. Family and work.
May experience ako sa mga Filipino sa america, particularly sfo. Tinanong ako paano ako nakarating. Ano daw ang visa ko. Sinagot ko na sumakay ako sa plane. Tourist lang visa ko. Tanong kung may dkny sa manila. Haha. Mas malalaki pa mall namin sa phil
Recently, i bought "designer" bags from Shopee and Lazada and brought them back to England and now i'm feeling rich each time i crossbody those bags lol.... dat is my pagyayabang of the day, ok!
Haha! Ok lang naman po for me gamit fake. May mga ibang pinoy na may issue sa kanila kung fake gamit mo eh even po yung mayayaman nag fa-fake kase they’d rather use the money to invest than buy original na designer. 😂
I totally can relate with your experiences. Sad. Hey, I've just found your channel and it's funny, kahapon lang I was thinking of visiting Michigan because of Machinac island. I'd love to visit and stay there one day, I'd hit you up. Maybe we can hang. Salamat po.
Relate much,sometimes it's better to have a foreign friends rather than a toxic kababayan.
That's very true ❤
true kaya ako dito lang ako sa bahay ang best friend ko ang asawa ko 😂 we can go out anyrime at i love spending time with him in our garden and taking care of my flowers at my front yard.
Best friend ko din po ang hubby ko.❤️🥰
@@ernieagustinbakerjetandfri7682 yup, some kababayans are toxic. But we’re in the land of the free. Just focus on your own life, especially finances. At least dito wala utang utang. Be cool on your own way and dont get bothered by material things.
Relate here in Australia!tagal kona Po dto sa Australia at daming experiences dto sa mga pinay.
Only can count few who are very honest
Dahil sa bad experience ko dto sa Australia sa mga plastic,I stopped cummicating with them.
Sa ngayon I'm. Happy being with my hubby and being with our daughter spending time together always.
No more toxic people pinays!
Yong supposed to be my friend n pinay kinonsabo ang friend nya n mg flirt sa hubby ko. She's from Bacolod! She even goes to the church! She's pretender nice kunwari!
Over 50 years na ako dito sa US, nagsasalita pa ako ng diretsong ilokano at tagalog wala akong masyadong pilipino friends,kasi dahil sa tsismisan, inggitan, at payabangan, i would rather hangout with my family and I’m much happier ❤
Relate ako kay elycayaban5773. 1968 ng umalis ako sa Pinas. Dko naranasan martial law, 1968 teenager pa lang ako, pero hanggang ngayon gamit ko pa rin ang Pilipino at mahusay akong magsulat pa. Dito sa Southwest Florida nkabili ng bahay retirado na po ako (military & Federal jobs), walang mga Pinoy dito sa Subdivision kya inglesero ako (walang makausap eh). Pero sa tagal ko na dito, wala akong nakita puro intsik, Italyano, Frances at ibang lahi ang bukod tanging mga pilipino ang inglishan kung sino ang mas Magaling! Bakit ganun?
proud ako sa mga pilipino na tulad mo ilokano at marunong magtagalog, karamihan kasi na ilokano na kilala ko dito sa amerika hindi masyado nagsasalita ng tagalog, either ilokano lang at english, parang walang respeto sa wikang pambansa natin.observation ko lang naman.
I feel a bit embarrassed. We were still so very young when we 1st arrived in the 70s. Me & my siblings used to speak fluent ilocano & tagalog. But we've been surrounded by english speakers daily & suddenly one day we just realized we lost the ability to speak both dialects fluently. Although, thank goodness, we can still understand, since our parents still speak to us in our "native tongue" 😊😊
@@elycayaban5773 taga an dinni ka Ely? I grew up sa Mangatarem.
I am 62, 40 years na ako dito sa US pero ni minsan hindi ako nag english kapag kinakausap ako ng tagalo. Marami ngang pinay dito na kahit kausapin mo ng tagalog, puro english ang sinasagot tapos kapag tinanong ko kung gaano na sya katagal dito, e 2 yrs lang pala. Mayabang ang marami dito sa US.
I understand what are you saying……Ganyan din ako, kung PURO filipino ang mga nasa paligid ko at nagtatagalog sila, sasagot din ako ng Tagalog…pero as a sign of respect para sa akin, kung May mga foreigner na nasa paligid , I managed na magsalita ng English and Tagalog para hindimagpagkamalang pinag-itsisismisan sila. That’s my way. especially graduated pa ako sa HRM, Isa sa mga “ethics” na natutunan ko sa HRM class handling different kind of races, iyan ang itinuro sa Amin. Isa pa, as a Filipino, iyan ang mga katangian na meron tayo….respect!
Pls don’t judge, I’m a pure CEBUANA and I prefer to speak ENGLISH kasi barok ang tagalog ko. Alangan nmn magbisaya ako sa tagalog?
PS: Totoo yung sinabi nya na maraming mayabang. Yung alam kong nag rerent lang sya pero nagfflex ng mga luxury brands grabe tlga insecurity nya alam mong masyadong mahangin.. housewife ng puti at hindi nagwwork pero grabe hambog 😂
Yun sinasabi mo hindi mayabang yan....baka di mo alam speaking Englis na cya sa pinas .diba....
At saka meron mga visaya hindi fluent sa tagalog....yun iba college grad pa. .mas proper cila mag english ang kausap nya tagalog. ..ko lang kapa sa experience ....
Kahit dito mismo sir sa pilipinas kahit hindi naman tagalog or taga manila or luzon kung saan tagalog yung salita 😮nagtatagalog sa mismong kababayan niya na hindi naman tagalog napaka awkward pakinggan.
Depende sa situations if we are in a work place and if someone talk to me na filipino mag english talaga ako as a sign of respect. If kami2x lang I will ask if they speak tagalog kasi I am also bisaya so I would rather talk to them in English kasi I am more comfortable baloktot din yung tagalog ko hahhahah
Hindi naman lahat na "suplado" dahil mayabang. Don't judge other Filipinos if they're not warm it is possible if they're introvert, shy, and have trust issue due to their past experience.
Korek, may iba tao lang talaga na very private or mahiyain.
My first thought actually. Hindi sa suplada, just introvert lang.
Also, I would love to talk to other Filipinos...pero na-i insecure ako sa tagalog ko and feeling ko expected nila na fluent ka at pag nag english ka naman mayabang ka. So, minsan mahirap din.
Sa totoo lang, you'll recognize if the person is just introvert or aloof. Meron talagang tao na hindi responsive or warm towards their kababayan. It could be that they feel their more superior over them. Yan ang feeling mayabang
No offense meant. but a smile back kahit mahiyain would make a difference. Im an ambivert minsan nag eexude ang confidence but there are times tinatamaan ako ng hiya and when that moment happens I still smile back and just look down keeping my smile a bit longer. or I would smile back and just nod. pag kinamusta ill simple say ok naman po kayo ho? then after whatever her response is I would exit gracefully with a smile para di bastos looking. I think ang byword is just to be respectful to people who are polite di ba? again no offense meant just an opinion😊
@thun8015 you’re so kind. ❤️
Filipina from Norway here. I don’t agree with you 100% 1. Sa tingin ko po hindi ka suplada or arrogant kapag hindi mo pinansin agad agad kapwa mo Filipino in public places. We’re all busy with our lives & with our own problems that I think it’s wrong to expect na i welcome ka kapwa mo Filipino with open arms agad or mag smile sila sa yo. Wag tayo mag assume ng worst dahil lang d tayo na greet or nag eye contact kapwa natin Filipino. Better to give others the benefit of the doubt than assume the worst especially when we are unaware of what others have experienced in their lives2. Kung gusto po ng Filipino o kahit sino man gumamit ng LV, Hermes, Gucci, Rolex, Cartier etc & credit card po ginamit nila who cares? Kasi po pera po nila yun sila po nagpakahirap na mabayaran credit nila
& most of us Filipinos (& generally asians) like to use designer goods anyways. I
mean if one chooses to buy a bag from Macys for 10 $ or a bag from Chanel for 10,000 $ there’s nothing wrong with that. 3. Be a law abiding citizen at all times that way may mag report man sa yo then you have nothing to hide coz you didn’t do anything wrong. 4. Discrimination happens all the time, unfortunately most of the people discriminate regardless of where they are from (this is not just exclusive to Filipinos).
Correction po high end store po ang Macys baka Walmart tinutukoy ninyo maraming $10 bag hehe
She was just expressing/sharing her opinion🙄🙄🤷♀️
I think envy is good as long as in the constructive way than destructive (destroy others), this is human behavior even other nationalities, even worst. In the bible it says every talent is God given, not everyone becomes a Doctor, attorney etc. It's probably boring. Be content what you have and make the most of it, that will bring you money, happiness and don't forget to pray to thank the Lord always and help others.
Gnyn din ngyare sa min nung nasa US kming mg asawa kapwa pinoy ngsisiraan sipsipan sa amo me napasok kmi kaibigan at pinsan ng mr ko sa work nmin sa huli kmi pa masama mga walang utang na loob now that we are here in pinas retired my kids all professional n living a good life while those people na tinulungan nmin still there working till their old age.
I don’t mind others people,
It’s none of my business. Let them be what they want to be.’peace😊
Correct!
Korek...kahit san bansa or lahi may mga di mgaganda ugali.
Korek
Agree
Correct
I can totally relate.39 years na ako dito sa Ca.Maraming filipino na ganyan sa work at sa mga places na may filipino.Kaya ako,i only hang out with my family here.Ang mga kaibigan ko ay ibang lahi.
Let them be, we don’t know what they are dealing with.
Protect your inner peace!
Sa awa ng Diyos, mababait mga Pinoy na nameet ko dito sa Georgia. Nung bagong salta pa lang ako galing Pinas, eh sila pa yung nag ooffer maghatid sundo sakin at nililibre pako sa mga kainan. Karamihan sa kanila mga born again Christians kya mababait.
Bahala sila kung may branded stuff sila 58 years old na ako been living in uk for 22 years di ako apektado sa kalakaran ng buhay ng ibang tao,,di ako gumagamit ng bag,lagay ko lang sa bulsa ko ang pitaka ko nakaraos na,never been fascinated with branded things been doing things my own way i dont have any problem wih people who's showing off let them be sabi nga trip nila yon hayaan mo sila.none of my business. I'd rather spend time for something more important.to somebody who's idle and had nothing to do,try to have a hobby,i do enjoy gardening, painting,embroidery and reading interesting books is a pleasure 😊
Your first encounter I think is your presumptions, kc ako eh tahimik din na tao but if you talk to me I will talk back. The couple may have their own problems to deal with na hindi mo alam at may be hindi sila marunong mag handle how to deal with other people. Isipin mo na lang n baka may pinagdadaan, we don't know were they coming from. It's good na somebody are their to reciprocate you energy. Choose to be happy and avoid downers, but always smile and be a blessing to anybody who will take it or not.
No offense, let’s admit ganyan ang Pilipino ugali yan lalo na pag they are here in the US. It takes more muscle to frown than to smile.
Not only sa US.kahit sa middleast.tatlo sakit ng pinoy..tsismosa/tsimoso at mayabang(di lahat) lalo na sa tingin nila na mas nakakaangat kesa kaharap nya
I had the same experience. !!! They looked at me from head to toe! And to think that they had a bible study meeting in the house where I was a bed spacer
Plastic po iyan kung tawagin! Hallelujah
Similar tayo…I’m here naman sa Kentucky..konti lang din ang Filipino. I am also married to an American (vet) and I’m currently a SPED teacher. Additional insight din don sa mga Filipinos na medyo masungit..I can understand them also..there must be a reason why they reached that level of skepticism sa kapwa nila..Baka they experienced something really bad kaya super ingat n sila. First time ko Umalis ng bansa to teach in Thailand, I was very young then and I was one of those people na sobrang naive at super enthusiastic pag nakameet ng kapwa Filipino..sadly, I experienced lots of negative things..so time and experience taught me to be really really careful..to the point minsan siguro na nagiging quiet lang ako pag may filipinos around me.
Hello sissy ! New subscriber niyo po ako ! I like your blog sissy ! It’s an eye opener ! God bless your channel po ! Amen 🙏! Watching you now from New York USA 🇺🇸
Thank you Sis! I appreciate you!❤️😘
Oh my goodness! You are so spot on with your observations about our kababayan. I have observed the same.
29 years na ako sa US. Di ako nag hanap ng kapwa Filipino. Because of these reasons. I make sure to be kind and ako una bumabati kapag may nakikita ako sa stores or kung saan man. Very on point assessment. Sana we can be better as Filipinos. Great job! God bless you!
Agree 100 percent sa iyo..
Kahit matagal kana jan Pilipinong Pilipino pa din ang tuno ng pagsasalita mo.Kahit nagsasalita ka pa ng English tunong Pilipino pa din.Proud of you sis dahil hindi mo tinatalikuran ang tunong Pinoy.
Pag ako nginitian ng kapwa ko pinoy ay ngitian ko din but not to intrude na sa mga personal na buhay nila gaya ng pagtatanong kong saan sila nakatira espicially kong first time mo silang ma meet . May mga tao kasi na private sila mahirapmag assume na makikipagtsikahan agad sayo kahit di ka naman nila gaano kakilala . I dont socialize too , im more focused sa family ko . Ganoon talaga hindi lahat ng tao parepareho ang ugali .
Agree. Tama na ang smile back. Pero yong makipag-kwentuhan ka pa na parang bestie kayo kahit kakakilala nyo lang that day, it’s not for me ,either.
@@Mikkel20249smile ako din, tapos kinausap ako, Indonesian pala! Hehehe tamime lang po!
I agree. Pag kasama ko ang American husband ko or anyone na hindi marunong mag Tagalog, I always speak in English because it’s rude to speak in a language that they cannot understand. After more than 20 years in the US, na acquire ko na rin ang ilang ways ng mga Americans gaya ng pagiging private, independent, minding my own business and being wary of people who are too friendly or forward, dahil baka may masamang binabalak or intention. Ok lang maging friendly agad if someone I trust introduced him/her to me.
agree
True!😊
meron talagang mga pilipino na masungit but since im a home health nurse and visited different houses. i think some filipinos go through different stages in life such sick family members, caregiving issues and endless work schedule while paying mortgage. kasi napansin ko medyo masungit din ako but i realized that lahat ng tao sa america may pinag dadaanan sa buhay.
Kahit na anong lahi may ugaling pangit. Dahil nakasaad sa Bible that “ we all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”. Yong pride, jealousy, yan nasa nature ng tao kahit anung lahi. Ang maliit na bata di mo turuang mainggit.. naiingit. Nature ng tao yan. Lahat yan ay sinful nature natin. Ang kailangan ng bawat isa ay yong personal relationship kay Jesus Christ. Hindi lang head knowledge. Yong need to know Him in personal level. Dahil kung kilala mo si Lord at alam mo why He died on the cross. Mapapahumble ka at matutunan mong live for Him everday. If you are walking with the Lord mababago ang pangit ng ugali ng kahit anong tao.
I agree with the guy that says iba iba Ang ugali ng bawat isa. It is what it is. It doesn't matter what color or nationality. Move on and try to think positive. It is really have to do with ego. All of us have idols. Idols means idolizing money, fame, material things, beauty. I believe Louie Vuitton are for poor people. You don't need brand name to show you are rich. Take a note that the real rich people don't wear brand names. They don't try to impress people that they are rich. Move on girl. Put your energy on positive thinking. Focus on forgiving your brothers and sisters.
Agree
Agree...It doesn’t matter if you wear a Rolex or a budget wristwatch; they tell the same time. Similarly, whether you carry an expensive or more expensive purse, they serve the same purpose. What’s important is having enough cash to spend, not just relying on plastic cards.
Plastic card is king! There are business establishments that doesn't even accept cash.
Naka tira ako sa California for the past 38 years. Ang aking hanap buhay ay bilang isang IT professional. Sa tingin ko, hindi matatangal ang "crab mentality" sa ating kapwa Pilipino dito sa US. Dati dati myembro ako ng mga Filipino organizations dito sa California. Pero tumigil na ako, kasi puro pasikatan lang naman ang mga members. Nag concentrate na lang ako sa pag buo ng social connections sa mga kapwa Pilipino sa Online groups sa Facebook, Google Meet.
Hello po, sad po talaga itong crab mentality na meron po ang pinoy culture.
Been in the US for 26 years. Fortunately, many of the Pinoys I’ve encountered are nice (mostly IT professionals). Yes, you see some wearing LVs, driving a Tesla, have nice houses, traveling to Europe, etc. But this does not necessarily mean they are bragging. Some people like high end things and if hindi ka naman ginambala for them to buy those things, be happy for them and don’t judge immediately na nagyayabang.
Spot on! Great vlog. Agree ako sis. Thanks for sharing. God bless.
Ay relate na relate ako sa mga topics mo. Naku ang dami ko ding experience dito sa Italy. Ang sarap ding i-share. Hahaha😂
Share mo na din. Haha! Thanks for watching!
Oo nman po
May pagka introvert ako, wala ako nakikita na problema sa pagiging suplado o suplada i mean yung hindi umiimik. Pero iba na siguro yung pinansin ako pero dedma ko lang kadalasan pinapansin ko rin pero hindi ako yung nagsisimula ng kwentuhan..
Huwag lang maging traydor at Talangka. Social climber sila ok lang yan huwag lang sila uutang o magbayad ng utang.
Tama ka doon sa sumbongero o sumbungera. Maalala ko yung kumanta ng "Selos" mismong Pinoy pa nagsumbong. Unless kung Crime ang nagawa ng kapwa Pinoy ay maiintindihan ko ang nagsumbong.
Pero yung isusumbong dahil TNT, nagtratrabaho sa ibang companya as sideline, nag-iinuman (bawal dito sa ME) ay pangit talaga. Yung sipsip sa boss na nagsusumbong kahit hindi siya apektado o wala naman effect sa kompanya like minsan naiidlip sa work.
Mga mareres po mga Pilipino
@@shirleytemple9842Anu yun mareres mga Pinoy? 58 years nko sa US (out of the loop).
I have both Filipino as well as foreigner friends ! But what can I say is that , some Filipinos don’t talk to you nor greet at all ! I try to smile and say , hello kabayan ! Then that’s it ! If they don’t smile back at me, it’s their loss! I don’t care ! Some are not helpful at all instead , they put you down and don’t support you at all ! They’re proud too ! That i can attest to ! Mostly are marites too! Hallelujah! God forgive them for they know not what they are doing ! Amen 🙏! Crab mentality ! They have too!
Apart from that , they gossip about you yes it’s Marites! I hate that ! Mind their own business and scratch their own galis! Also , competitive sissy ! That’s very obvious ! And , nanunumbong sa mga walang mga papel magkapera lang ! That’s so horrible ! Father forgive them for they don’t know what they’re doing ! In Jesus Christ name! Amen 🙏
Your behavior is a description of your personality. It doesn't matter where you're at. Kung insecure ka sa Philippines insecure ka anywhere. Ang difference lang, pag na punta sa ibang bansa un insecurities nila nag manifest sa being arrogant. Kaya palawakin na lang natin ang pang unawa. May kasabihan na " you can take the Pilipino out of the Philippines but you can not take Philippines out of the Pilipino. Let's just take the good and the bad, and don't lose any sleep over it.
May chinese proverbs
First impressions last,,,
At foreign quotations
What you see is what
You get,,,,
Kahit anong lahi mayroon talagang tao na ganyan. Hindi lang Pilipino. Peace 🕊️
short kwento lang’po. Cambridge University Alum here in short classmates ibat ibang lahi. Pag mag dine out kami If a French classmate meets French lets say tourist in a bar or resto …kamustahan ang saya! an American classmate meets an another American… Kamustahan may tanong pa where in the US …ang saya. Japanese classmate meets another Japanese may bow pa before magusap… ang saya.. Me naka meet ng pinoy sa Primark, I smiled and asked if pinoy…naku nang-snub, kinuha phone, nag text then iwas tingin na sa akin… ang saya😂😂😂😂😂😂
Everything you said ay tama no sugarcoating kahit dito sa Canada. Most of us Filipinos are racist bato bato sa langit ang matamaan wag magagalit😂✌❤
Ha ha! Salamat Sis. Salamat din for commenting and watching. Ingat ka. 🌷🙏🏻❤️
I agree with you na snub Ang mga PINOY diyan way back 2001
Dinalawanamin Ang panmangkin namin sa Toronto, on that time
Canada day dumalo KAMI sa isang park na KUNG saan maraming
Pinoy Ang nagtitipon - tipon to make it short WALA man lamang
NAGKAROON ng interest na makipag--usap sa amin
Ibang iba sa aming taga LONDON everybody is welcome,
This is good blog..... I agree what you say.... I experience po.... In the eyes of God, we are equal..
😊. Ka relate. Been here decades ago. At marami na kong na experience na ganyan. Buti lumabas yan dahil sa YT. Nun araw pa yan di lang na post dahil wala pang YT nga. At im used to it na. Ignore na lang namin. 😊😊Mabuhay po tayong lahat. 👏👏👏
Hi, im from CA relate 100% sa observation about our kababayan here in the US.😂
It’s better to have a simple handbag but full of money rather than LV ka nga, wala naman datung! Oh my ! Stop being boastful guys ! Be humble na lang and God will lift you up! Amen 🙏! Some people what I know is, simple but rich ! They’re so humble ! But those who are mayabang, ay Wala namang ipagmamalaki! So just be simple guys.
Lahat ng sinabi mo ay totoo. I’m here in London, UK for 24 years already. Mas OK pang wala kang kasamang Pinoy/ Pinay sa work. Kc most of the time ay sya pa ang mag turn down sa yo sa work para lang siya ay ma promote after ng tinuruan mo sya sa work especially ay nauna kang nag work sa job na yon.
Tama
You forget the tsismusa backstabbing had morethan my share of their attitude putting Ina Nila I salute you for speak up I am a Filipina
Obvious ba?
Since 1968 ako dito sa US, as a teenager. Pero proud ako magsalita ng wika natin at magsulat. Retirado nko (2 pa, military & Federal job + SSS). Cguro trip ng mga Pinoy mag inglish! Pero sa travelled ko, abroad, wala akong nakita ibang lahi kausap ang KA LAHI nila na nag iinglishan. Bukod tanging mga Pilipino lang talaga! Bakit kya? Cguro likas na mayayabang lang talaga! Dinadaan na lang doon, “feeling” mas mataas sila at may pera!
Ayaw ko makipag usap sa mga English sero/English sera po. Feeling ko pinag ya ya ba ngan po ako porke magaling sila msg English. Probinsya na po ako at Hindi used msg English ang lahat ng Tao sa lugar namin. Kaya pilipit dila ko mag English though my ancestors were French English but that was 15th century distant away to my present life. I was born in a simple hut in the Philippines while my ancestors were born in the palaces and castles 😂. But when I’m talking with my American cousin, he said he wanted to live in the Philippines and wants to marry a Filipina po.😂😘😍
I also experience that too, I recon mostly are nurses, hindi ko nilalahat, normally ako yong super friendly at unang mag hello. Now wait muna ako kung sila mauna pumansin bago ako mag response, kasi parang na trauma ako. I also have one friend that akala ko we were happy for years of friendship now unfriend nya ako, kasi she met a new friend. I’m still healing kasi sobra ako nasaktan. Kasi we built a strong relationship na. No closure whatsoever.
I know that awful feeling po
Dati po palagi ako ngumingiti basta nakakasalubong ako ng Pinoy kaso ang daming suplada kaya bago masira ang magandang araw ko makikiramdam ako bago ako mag approach or ngumiti😂
Correct! Best thing to do. Marami kasing mga insecure na pinoy sa ibang bansa. Nalulula sila sa pagtapak nila sa ibang bayan, kung baga, feel na feel nila ang pagka-imported nila. Kaya ganyan nalang ang tingin nila sa ating kapwa, as if mas mataas o mas mabuti pa ang kanilang estado (baka hindi . . .). Ito yung mga 'deprived' sa Pinas.
Tama ka! Pero minsan, hindi pla Pinoy eh. Bka taga Thailand o Indonesian mukhang Pinoy lang. May nkasama ako Pinoy n Pinoy (sa US Navy) pango ang ilong cya daw ay isang Guam-enio (born/raised sa PH). Trip nya mag inglish so ok lang pero di ko na kinakausap. Lumalayo ako sa mga Pinoy na inglishero at mayabang. Wala pa akong sakit ng ulo.
Relate ako jan ‘te. Matagal nako dito sa US since 11yrs old pa lang. I’m now 50 pero nagtatagalog padin ako and very friendly when I meet other pinays. Noong 2015, narerember ko padin itong eksena nato, haha. I onced got invited by a new friend sa church nya. May mga pinay yung new friend kong pinakilala sakin. Yung isang pinay matangkad at maputi may itsura sya. When we were introduced, inuri ba naman nya ako from head to toe. Matapobre ang dating, haha. Later, nabanggit ng friend ko na dati daw worker sa Hong Kong, I’m not sure what kind of worker but maybe DH? Well, anyway nakarating sya dito sa US dahil nakakilala ng US navy na afam at pinakasalan sya. She’s very lucky kasi now she has a good life. Pero sana naman maging humble sya kasi galing din sya sa hirap.
totoo po lahat yung sinasabi mo ma'am, mayroon din na akala mo friend kayo pero pagtalikod mo ikaw pala ay laman nang kanilang tsismisan😊
Well common yan sa mga organization like couple of Christ, before mag prayer meeting puro tsismiss, pagkatapos ng sharing nila, backbiting sa kapwa nila. lol 😂😂😂😂😂
@allanbalbuena3659 wow!😮
Yan ang sakit sa mga filipino pero hinde naman lahat, ingat nlng pipiliin mo ang mga tao na mamabait.
Agree po ako sayo ate, siguro mahirapan po sila maging humble sa buhay!!. Palaging kinukumpara ang buhay nila sa iba!!..
New subscriber here. Keep it up! More power to you and to your Channel.
Yehey! Thank you po!❤️
We're almost the same. Except, I grew up here, went to college abroad, then came back to work. I've already been established for 15yrs BEFORE I finally met my spouse. And it took me 5yrs to finally agree to even get married. We used to live in the west coast, where there are already so many Asians. So I never noticed the negatives in your list. But I'm also aware that there are less Asians, let alone Filipinos, in Michigan or east coast in general. So maybe that's the difference, the more Filipinos < less competition > friendlier.
I just read some of the other comments & realized, my entire life I've been surrounded mostly by Caucasians + Asians & various other races, who also either grew up or were born here. So we're not aware of the "crab mentality epidemic" since me & my closest family/relatives/friends/coworkers never experienced it ourselves. It's sad to think there are some who will treat their fellow Filipinos badly just to make themselves feel better.
@walkerlamebrain it really is a thing…the crab mentality. Check out the history of “MAKAPILI” during Japanese invasion in the Philippines…those group who turned against Filipinos. I’ve been told that here in the US it is the fellow Filipinos who would tell on fellow Filipinos who do not have legal status and end up getting deported. It is a sad reality.
@@pinayinmichigan6363 wow that is just sad. Like the gestapo 😖😖😖
Ok am believe t0 your story for same Pilipino thank you for your comments
True 💯 Glad I found your video
Hello! First time ko lang napanood yung vlog mo. True lahat ng sinabi mo. Kahit dito sa amin sa Australia, ganun din mga pinoy
amen. i'm from australia too.
Kahit dito MISMO sa pilipinas.
Ay oo I agree, Dami din mayayabang yun iba, pag mayabang iniiwasan ko
Just true.same here in our place.seattle,wa.for me I ignore it.who cares di ba.
Dapat kasi, adjust the way things are done in your adopted country. Some Pilipinos just don’t want to associate with other Pilipinos. They asked too many questions about your personal life which is too invasive. It’s their way of gauging your status in the community which I think of being competitive. There are two categories of Pilipinos, 1. An individual born in the USA (first generation) and 2. Pilipino immigrants. There is also such a thing as 1.5 generation. Those that were brought in the USA at a young age ie. 1 to 5 yrs old. These are some emphasis on some Pilipinos.
i don’t judge people who love branded items.. thats their preference. i don’t even think they’re showing off..they must like nice stuff as i said that’s their preference. how they got hold of expensive items..as long as they did not steal it , good for them! i always see other people’s actions in good faith esp if their actions do not affect me adversely. best to live and let live and not be affected by what make others happy. ..as long as they don’t affect me...go!
I totally agree❣️ GB🙏
So true kung dun sila masaya wala na tayong paki.. as long as hindi ka nila inaano..
Totally agree. Kanya kanya tayo gusto sa buhay. Halimbawa ako , gusto ko ng branded na mga bag. Pero it doesn’t mean na mayabang ako. I just want to reward myself for working twelve hrs everyday 6 days a week. That’s for. And it’s not being arrogant.
i agree, there are people who are exactly as how u described it. but there are also ones where its obvious that they are showing off. i suppose its just awareness on how to identify those who are similar to what u mentioned and those that are mayabang talaga.
always be humble and kind. Help others if kaya. Kaloka yung mga may attitude nakakaturn off.
Hello po! Just bump into your video, happy to watch it.😊 12 years na po ako dito, I’m here at Georgia. Pero wala akong friends na Filipino, mga acquaintances lang, hi hello lang if may makita sa public places. I worked in a medical field po sa isang hospital dito at ang daming Filipino nurses which were hired from Philippines through agencies, I actually let them know po that they are brave to go here alone without knowing anyone just to work, I appreciate all of them. Even though Maraming pinoy sa workplace ko, I’m the only Filipino sa department namin so I don’t really have a chance to mingle with them. But sa na observe ko po they are hard workers and respectful.🎉 minsan may marinig ako mg chismisan sila sa isa’t isa. As for me hi, hello lang talaga ako sa kanila, I don’t join if they have chismis or if may e share ang isa sa akin, I just smile and I don’t feed the negativity. And even though Maraming pinoy, I also understand that we are there to work so Hindi lahat dapat friendly agad or iba iba ang characteristic, may shy, introvert, extrovert etc so I don’t think of it as offensive if Hindi sila mg smile or Hindi friendly.. I act professional sa work but I smile whenever may ma encounter ako however I don’t usually ask na are you Filipino or start to chat personally or ask questions except if uunahan nila ako. And yes it is true na most Filipinos ngyayabangan ng mga gamit but I don’t really get into it, I’ll just say masaya ako para sayo, or wow! Bongga naman ng car mo, like I just keep praising them and most of them if one has a new car, the other one will have a new one after a month, it’s crazy! Ang isa ng start ng trend kasi kumuha ng Tesla car, ngayon most of them have one, I honestly don’t know how they do it being here for 4 years or less. Pero I guess that’s how they spend their income as nurses through things, I’m cool with it and I don’t mind.. especially when one shares sa akin oi may bago akong car tapos sabay pakita sa picture or may new house or whatever, I just smile and say wow congratulations!😅 may isa din na she wanted to sell her Louis vuitton sa akin kasi daw may bago syang bag and I just smile and say sorry ha, wala po akong pera sa ganyan then she will stop.😊 hala, ang haba na nito, pacensya na po.. by the way I easily speaks English po kasi nahirapan ako mag Tagalog. Ingat po kabayan!😊
Haha! Oh my! I can’t live my life that way especially you and I both know how expensive it is to live here in the US! Also, now that I’m
Getting older, me and my husband are seriously focusing on putting money in our retirement fund. Now is not the time, with our age, to be getting into more loans or utang. At 42, I only have about 20 years max to work so I must save tlaga for our older age era. I like your energy and you seem wise and mature. ☺️
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I agree, "Nanguuri" is the right word ate
It’s what we Filipinos called crab mentality 🙄
Totoo
❤ yep!
Smiles beget smiles.
Relate ko rin yong experience mo. Maraming pinoy na suplada at snob sa america.Pero kung pansin nila na medyo may kaya sa buhay yon napakabait nila.Pero marami rin pinoy na mababait sa america.
nag wowork ako sa panda express dito sa Seattle Washington at madalas my mga na eencounter akong mga kapwa pinoy, pag na notice na pinoy cla sinasabi ko agad pinoy po with a big smile in my face at tagalog agad ang ginagamit kong wika , kaya masaya din ako dahil mababait din cla
absolutely true! just dont mind them.and just be i dont care attitude.kahit na designer bag the thing is is it GENUINE! kahit na cheap bags lang its ok at least ORIGINAL! JUST dont mind.that's all ! so then you wont get so much affected.
True. Kya kht saan po tyo mapadpad, Alisin natin ang pagiging ma attitude and entitled.
If something is bought with a credit card, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes people pay using cc for the benefits - cashback, mileage, 0% APR, purchase protection, etc.
Ganun din dito sa Netherlands at ganyan na ganyan ang mga qualities ng iba nating kababayan at mula ulo hanggang talampakan branded ang kagamitan pati bahay pinaganda pero lubog sa utang, ako mismo naka experienced sa kapwa pinay dito ng hindi maganda.😥
So far hindi ko naranasan yan d2 sa Georgia laging masaya ako pag nakatita ng pilipino.
You are lucky. Cross your fingers you don't meet them and good luck!
OK ka Pinay in Michigan. On point mga sinabi mo. Marami pang pwede I-dagdag sa mga observations mo. Nakakalungkot talaga. Mga Ibang lahi dito sa North America hindi naman KAGAYA natin. Nag tutulungan pa sila. Ako po si Pinoy in Vancouver dating Pinoy in Honolulu. US and Canadian citizen po at Democrat.
I live in Australia. Actually everytime I see pinoys here, specially if they're older than me, I always say "Hello po." Or I smile at them. Some of em ignore me, I juz brush it off.. minsan they stare at me and my baby (my baby's half caucasian) then they'll stare at my husband. I actually feel good kasi i know there's nothing wrong with me, i have no hatred, i have no insecurities.. baka sila meron.. 😂 Some say "Hi!" naman and super friendly, they even tell us gawa pa ng isang baby kasi maganda ung daughter namin.. hehe
VERY TRUE! I HAVE FIL-AM CHILDREN PERO THANKS TO GOD NAPAKAHUMBLE AND GROUNDED KAHIT NA NAPAKALAKI NA NG ACHIEVEMENTS NILA. HINDI SILA NAGBAGO AT VERY FOCUS AND DEDICATED SA PAGIGING CHRISTIAN. SA PINAS PA LANG, SINASAMA KO NA SILA SA BIBLE STUDY AND CHRISTIAN CHURCH. UNTIL NOW, HIN DI SILA BUMITAW SA PAGIGING CHRISTIAN. HINDI SILA MATERIALISTIC DAHIL HINDI KO SILA PINAMULAT SA GANUN NA BUHAY.
Same here I'd rather be home on my day off and do my chores rather than be with other pinays here in NC kc pag sobrang dikit na tendency nagpapa siklaban at nagsisiraan ... I work at Costco sa entrance and exit doors yung department ko so relate talaga ako dun sa sinabe mo na excited ka makakita ng mga kabayan at lahat ng mga sinabe mo ay yun talaga ang tinatanong ko san ka dito at san ka satin ... sabi nga don't trust your kapwa pinoy here kc sila rin ang mag dadown sayo.
Hi new subscriber here I just wanna say I agree with you. And what your saying is true. Marami talagang Filipino dito sa US na mayayabang. I was in California mall one time and this two couple na filipino pinag tatawanan nila ako sumama talaga ang pakiramdam ko hindi na ako nag continue na mag shopping I just went home. Sana we treat everyone with resfect and just treat everyone with kindness. ty for this video. I thank God that Im not that ignorant I hope not.👍🏻❤️🙏❤️
Bakit po kayo pinagtawanan? Sorry that happened to you.🙏🏻🌷
Napakarupuk niyo naman po? Wag niyong pansinin ang mga sira-ulong yun. Mag-enjoy kayong mag-malling.
Im your new subscriber 😊
Ty po
Sorry to read about your experience, but don't let them affect you. You will encounter those kinds occasionally whatever country you are in, even in the Phil.
Ganyan talaga ang buhay, nay kasabihan nga, ,'You cannot please everyone no matter how good you do to others ' ,God see"s each one's heart. .
History said that during the Japanese war, Filipinos TNT (tago ng tago… Filipinos turo ng turo). Bet that’s still true nowadays.
Makapili.
Ever since na dumating ako dito busy ako sa work at kahit sa pamilya ko wala na akong time dahil sa casino po ang trabaho ko. Madalas ako na e invite sa mga party pero lagi ako hindi nakaka attend dahil mas mahalaga na kumita ako kaysa mag attend pa sa party dahil ako ang bumubuhay sa family ko.
Kaya pala hindi n ko pinansin dahil yün pala hindi ako unattended sa party ng friend ko
mas gusto ko pa yung mga kababayan natin di namamansin kasi yang mga yan ayaw nila ng magkaron ng problema sa ibang tao...kaysa makakita ka ng mga kabayan natin sobrang friendly nakupo dadalhin ka sa kapahamakan. kaya mas mainam ng wag masyado magtiwala sa mga kababayan natin.
Thank you for your comment and for watching. 🙏🏻❤️
Exactly!!! Yon bang masyadong mapagkaibigan yon pala scammer. Mas ok na lang yong hindi masyadong pinapansin. Ako nandito sa Europe kung hindi ako pinapansin ok lang hindi ako affected.
Tama ka diyan. Parang 'Kapwa mo, Lokohin mo' di ba? Sino pa bang lolokohin ng pinoy? Yung mga puti, pagniloko mo, ay kakasuhin ka agad; Pag-pinoy ang niloko, takot magkaso (mahal-ang-abogado mentality). So, wag magpa-utang o maglabas ng pera, kahit kanino.
Huwag u ng intindihin ma hyblood u..just keep busy ur self..basta wala kang inaapakan..horrayy be happy what u have!!
Hello watching from North BC PG Canada. Thanks for your insights😊
Thanks for your time and for watching po!🙏🏻❤️
@merilee-ak
My experience is that the majority of Filipinos first asked: how you got here in the U.S.; and if you own a house. Due to these initial encounters with most Filipinos, I don’t interact with them anymore. And I don’t speak Tagalog because I am from the Visayas region, so I, typically, speak in English because it is understandable to everyone, including those who are not Filipinos who are around you.
I get it. I think it’s important to consider nuance or context…it’s not ideal to just stick with one way of doing things kase there are still basic social awareness and way of dealing with people/ social interactions where hopefully you’re able to balance keeping things private, setting boundaries but still being polite and courteous. Para sa akin lang ha.☺️
Relate much sissy at talagang nangyari din yan sa akin dito grabe. Kaya now no friends hehe work bahay na lang din ako ngayon. Ito na lang din ang libangan ko ang mag Vlog, nice to meet you here
Tama may mga mayayabang talaga parang langaw na dumapo sa kalabaw at pakiramdam siya ay kalabaw na rin. Marami pang marites kapag kabiguan ay kalat na kalat yan pero kapag accomplishments ay may mga tao na parang ayaw mapag usapan.
Nakakalungkot Pero totoo! May iba lng pero hindi nman lahat. I still loved staying with Filipinos kc madaling makakasundo lalo na sa pagkain. My white friends are really good people. So respectful, kind and accommodating! Pero marami ding strangers na d mo kilalang mga pinoy na para bang ayaw ka nilang kausap. Lalo sa mga lugar na Sobrang maraming pinoy d talaga sila namamansin parang saten din sa pinas. But all of my daughter’s friends are also my friends!
Pumunta ako sa UK noon dahil dun nagwowork ate ko bilang nurse. Grabe, sorry po, pero parang mas insecure mga tao dun, mga pinoy pinay. Mas mayayabang sila, mas mga chismosa, mas grabe mang away at mang mata. Naku. Dun lang ako nakakita ng mga ganung klase talaga.
Mas thankful ako na nasa US ako, kasi dito ang mentality ng karamihan ay work work work at may boundaries din kasi yun culture dito. Walang time masyado mag isip ng masama kasi busy ka sa buhay mo, busy ka magbayad ng bills, kasi ka sa mga anak mo na ikaw nag aalaga talaga. Unless hindi ka busy kasi hindi ka nagwo-work o wala ka talagang ginagawa, yun siguro, kung ano ano na nasa utak mo.
So ayun, share ko lang. Kasi hirap ng experience ng ate ko dun. Lage siya inaaway mga Pinay porke may bahay siya, maayos work, pinoy din asawa, 4 anak nila (dami daw nila anak, tinatawanan sila). Lahat ng gawin niya ay pinu-pulaan siya. Naawa ako sa kanya dun.
So kahit saan, madaming pinoy pinay na inggitera at mayayabang. Talagang ugale na ata ng mga pinoy yan kasi lumaki sa hirap. Again, mabuti na lang at sa US ay mas busy mga tao. At talagang uunlad ka kung masipag ka at matiyaga. Kahit itong sinasabi ko ngayon para akong nagmamagaleng lol pero iba talaga. Iba talaga pag mga ganung pinoy kasama mo, baka masira ulo mo kahit nananahimik ka sa buhay mo.
MARAMING MATERIALISTIC.
Agree po ako sa point #1 mo... and almost to all of the negative comments you mentioned 👍🏻🤗
Yun din ang experiences ko dito sa amin 🇨🇦... Sabi mo nga, mabuti kung... 😂😅🤣
Hahah 🤣
@@pinayinmichigan6363- thank you, kabayan for reacting. i would suggest to all kabayans to learn how to react whenever we encounter those situations. we should tell ourselves not to get personally affected. let us keep in mind to focus more on the better things to make our day fun. siguro ipagdasal natin sila. I usually utter silently "Panginoon, patawarin mo po sila..." 😅🤣😂
Well for iver 40 years in germany wala akong problema ,kung snob sila or mayabang maski sa pilipinas ganyan din so let it be mga culture shock kang yan kung matindi man dito sa abroad
Back in the Philippines, did you know many Filipinos were racist to their own color? Yes! you exactly right!, mayaban, competitions, but I could say, that they're were hardworking people. Miss Pinay in Michigan, let me say. it's your own opinion and you own preference. I do agree some of your comments. I hope, you didn't generalized all Filipinos. Nextime, make a content about the qualities and how good we are.
Madalas ako mapagkamalan na Mexicano 🤣. One time I ate in an Asian Buffet then before I leave the lady gave a fortune cookie, to my surprise the caption in the cookie is in Spanish 😅
I lived in AZ and Pinoys are more friendlier and approachable there when moved to CA and said hello to some Filipinos they looked at me like “who are you don’t talk to me” but I still believe that not all are like that. Was in Fremont and had a good chat with senior couple while on line for a movie. It is always a treat to find some kind souls and friendly Filipinos in America.
You're absolutely right pagod mag deal sa mga mayayabang😅 grabe uyyy....keep up the good job..47 yrs na ako dito..retired na but happy na walang 😊friends
Same situation here, i dont have a pinoy barkada as i grew older. I learned to stay away from folks who ask intrusive questions on alien status, salary, relationship status.
As for folks wearing luxury brands, its fine as long as they dont ask questions that fish for compliments on the brands they're carrying versus what I have (which is usually a sports brand). When purchasing anything, i apply my principles for buying a car- function, low cost to own, aesthetically pleasing. Will it take me from point A to B in safety, comfort while being reliable and looking good (Toyota/Subaru loyalist here)? I can never understand incurring debt to purchase luxury items like LV on 90% credit. I dont flaunt owning branded things, but might brag about getting a deal on mid range designer items for 60% off though😂.
Marami dyan ayaw patalo- kahit trabaho nila is pushing brooms or picking fruits. LOL. Do not bother w/ them. Just mind your own is all...and you will better off.
Agree ako sayo kabayan. Na experience ko some sa mga sinasabi mo about Pinoy abroad. Ingitera, insecure,mayabang, feeling better than anybody, competition, chismosa, etc. I'm 22 yrs.living here in NewZealand married to a British and NZ nationality. Im so tired of the Pinoy toxic culture😊Peace.❤❤❤
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Spot on yong #4 na experience ko yan dito sa Australia ayoko ko sanang isipin na nainggit sa akin pero yon talaga
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Inspired here po host sa way ng pag vlog mo..wala ako maraming kaibigan d2 sa Taiwan, masasabing 3 lang po pero two decades ng mga nakakasama…relate po ako sa mga ganyang ugali ng ibang pinoy at yan ang dahilan kaya 3 lang mga kaibigan pero happier at tunay
Same thing happened to me!! I live in Michigan din po and started cooking Filipino food. Naku, naisumbong din po ako hahaha
Ay grabe!!! Talaga ba? Saan sila nagsumbong?!
@@pinayinmichigan6363 naku yes po. Sa DHS. Tinawagan akonsa bahay at itigil ko daw ang pagluluto ko kasi may nagsumbong daw sa kanila. I know it's pinoy din and I think I know her kasi sinabihan na nya ko before na meron syang license for her business and we can't do it.
Filipinos culture are asking personal questions. I live here for four decades in the US my thinking is like my American husband. I always mind my own business. Family and work.
May experience ako sa mga Filipino sa america, particularly sfo. Tinanong ako paano ako nakarating. Ano daw ang visa ko. Sinagot ko na sumakay ako sa plane. Tourist lang visa ko. Tanong kung may dkny sa manila. Haha. Mas malalaki pa mall namin sa phil
Hahahaha 😅😂
Recently, i bought "designer" bags from Shopee and Lazada and brought them back to England and now i'm feeling rich each time i crossbody those bags lol.... dat is my pagyayabang of the day, ok!
Haha! Ok lang naman po for me gamit fake. May mga ibang pinoy na may issue sa kanila kung fake gamit mo eh even po yung mayayaman nag fa-fake kase they’d rather use the money to invest than buy original na designer. 😂
Ate marami rin ganyan kahit dito sa Pinas. Sabi nga wherever you go, there you are. 😊
I totally can relate with your experiences. Sad. Hey, I've just found your channel and it's funny, kahapon lang I was thinking of visiting Michigan because of Machinac island. I'd love to visit and stay there one day, I'd hit you up. Maybe we can hang. Salamat po.