It is a easy answer. He LIED. He ACCUSED YOU OF DRIVING RECKLESSLY. He has shown you he doesn't care about you. He cares about HIMSELF ONLY. STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM.
S3: Sounds like she got out of that relationship in the nick of time. There might already have been elements of controlling behaviour, but that sort of violent outburst suggests that DV could’ve easily become part of her life otherwise. Good luck to the OP!
Story 2 reads like ragebait about "boy moms", the parents are just so comically open about their favoritism towards their their sons and male cousins, the focus on gender and "girly" activities, the random parentification thrown in like checking a box off a list
I dunno, I kinda believe it. I've seen this shite irl. They would never admit to it in public, but to OP, when nobody else can hear? They won't even bother to pretend to give a crap.
I've seen wilder toxic boy mom sh*t first hand. One of my aunts was like that, to the point where her precious sociopath openly abused his younger sister and even tried to st*b her, but she got in trouble for screaming as he chased her with a butcher knife. She sold her daughters soccer gear to pay for her precious boy to do his extracurriculars and treated that girl like a servant at the beck and call of herr lazy pos son. People are horrific. Toxic Boy moms are some of the worst people, and they raise their sons to be either spineless momma's boys or monsters.
I’m not saying all drag racers are bad, but the guy already had a history of reckless driving and property damage there’s no way he presented himself in any kinda of way as a good person. He’d been so cocky because he was never truly punished for his actions beforehand. What did she see in him because the parents tapped out early. She needs some intensive therapy.
Story two: Please, OP, I know you didn't plan kids, but please, do take this child away from her pathetic excuse of a mother, possibly adopt the girl, I don't know, just please take the girl out, she's being alienated and de-voided of any kind of affection just because she is a girl and your sister is the typical boy mom, just... give the girl the affection she desperately craves
You have to be separated for 2 YEARS? Give me a break. I am so tired of government sticking their noses in marital affairs. I guess they think if they make couples live separately for that amount of time, they will just give up and stay together. Government has no place in peoples marriages!!
Story 3: Personal injuries. Slamming into another car. BF and OP both have bruises. The location of those injuries depicts where they were in the car. Those are solid proof that OP wasn't driving.
It's criminal to have to live apart two years before you can divorce. Oh, and not stated in the story, simple interactions can reset the clock.
Story 2: OP is MVP. Her sister will wonder in the future why her daughter wants nothing to do with her.
It is a easy answer. He LIED. He ACCUSED YOU OF DRIVING RECKLESSLY. He has shown you he doesn't care about you. He cares about HIMSELF ONLY. STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM.
Story 3:
I don't know how many red flags she needs to see in a person to know to avoid them like she so slow
Story 2: Sister a few years later, "Why won't Legacy call me or give me money"
Me: This post
S3: Sounds like she got out of that relationship in the nick of time. There might already have been elements of controlling behaviour, but that sort of violent outburst suggests that DV could’ve easily become part of her life otherwise. Good luck to the OP!
St 3 is extra wild!!
Those police don't deserve their jobs!
Story 2 reads like ragebait about "boy moms", the parents are just so comically open about their favoritism towards their their sons and male cousins, the focus on gender and "girly" activities, the random parentification thrown in like checking a box off a list
I dunno, I kinda believe it. I've seen this shite irl. They would never admit to it in public, but to OP, when nobody else can hear? They won't even bother to pretend to give a crap.
I've seen wilder toxic boy mom sh*t first hand. One of my aunts was like that, to the point where her precious sociopath openly abused his younger sister and even tried to st*b her, but she got in trouble for screaming as he chased her with a butcher knife. She sold her daughters soccer gear to pay for her precious boy to do his extracurriculars and treated that girl like a servant at the beck and call of herr lazy pos son. People are horrific. Toxic Boy moms are some of the worst people, and they raise their sons to be either spineless momma's boys or monsters.
I’m not saying all drag racers are bad, but the guy already had a history of reckless driving and property damage there’s no way he presented himself in any kinda of way as a good person. He’d been so cocky because he was never truly punished for his actions beforehand. What did she see in him because the parents tapped out early. She needs some intensive therapy.
Story two: Please, OP, I know you didn't plan kids, but please, do take this child away from her pathetic excuse of a mother, possibly adopt the girl, I don't know, just please take the girl out, she's being alienated and de-voided of any kind of affection just because she is a girl and your sister is the typical boy mom, just... give the girl the affection she desperately craves
You have to be separated for 2 YEARS? Give me a break. I am so tired of government sticking their noses in marital affairs. I guess they think if they make couples live separately for that amount of time, they will just give up and stay together. Government has no place in peoples marriages!!
Story 1: "We could do it to get back at her."
And then they took their imaginations srsly like what the heck??
Story 3: Personal injuries. Slamming into another car. BF and OP both have bruises. The location of those injuries depicts where they were in the car. Those are solid proof that OP wasn't driving.
New Zealand hit me when mentioned, because my friend is frol New Zealand.
story 3 is just getting worse