dear diary...i don't want to grow up. (turning 21 in nyc)

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    i don't want to grow up. i do. i don't. i don't know. i may not want to, but i'm grateful that i can.
    not everyone has the chance to get older. the mere fact that we are alive together is a miracle!!! there are so many beautiful moments and opportunities we couldn’t even begin to imagine to look forward to in our lives. at least, that's what i'm trying to remind myself on the days that are more difficult.
    until next time,
    deborah ♡
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 293

  • @ziya31
    @ziya31  +546

    I’m turning 16 in two months and even I’m still young I still resonate with “I don’t wanna grow up”

  • @taeitadori

    idk why but i cried a little while watching the beginning, me who just turned 20, those words hit hard. love you dobo and a very happy birthday 💞

  • @lorena_sang

    This channel has become a corner of peace and calm on yt for me.

  • @princessofslytherin4495

    I'm turning 19 tomorrow, and starting college a few days later and it feels so surreal. I'm still not ready to be an adult and start making these life altering decision. Hopefully if I just take things at my own pace and make decisions as the need arises, everything will turn out good. I'm excited to see what the next year will bring us <3

  • @TatianeAlves

    I just turn 37 and I can assure to you that we have the same feeling about adulting... I love listening Brazilian songs in your vlogs... Thanks for the good inspiration! Big Hug From Brazil!!! 💛✨

  • @omosav
    @omosav  +5

    I don't want to grow up either- I feel like my classmates and friends all ache for that sensation of growing up, to be more adult like, to be more "cooler"- But I never saw the reason for it, or cared.

  • @thecreatorlaurenchi

    as someone going into their senior year of college I feel you. The fear of the unknown future is BAD but luckily we aren’t alone. Happy freaking Birthday girl and thanks for the video!

  • @giuloss
    @giuloss  +22

    I’m turning 20 in a little over two weeks! I’ve been looking for internship opportunities here in my country, I started to drive myself to college, and a lot of changes have been happening. At the same time that I’m excited for all this new experiences, I also don’t want things to change (and have a little bit more time to be a teenager, to be honest). But as my therapist would say to me: life changes, it’s inevitable, and the best we can do is embrace them and grow with them! It’s a comforting way to think for me, and has helped me a lot to process everything 😊

  • @disconnectedconnected

    i never thought about how scary growing up could be until now, it feels so alien. it is so scary to take of of your life, making big decisions..i dont feel like im ready for it, but was i ever ready? i wasnt ready to graduate to middle school, and i definitely wasnt ready for high school, when you think about it you can never be ready for life, and that's the charm. there are some friends you outgrow and make new ones same goes hobbies and your passions. what is important is to keep your family and morals close to you..live in the moment and let life go on

  • @babyorangutan

    thank u for this vlog deborah,,, as someone who turned 18, 19, and now 20 during covid times i find it rlly important to talk about the fact that many of us don't feel connected with our new age, and are kinda stuck in our old pre-covid age. i really resonate with not feeling like an adult either, even though i am now, and it was really refreshing to hear you talk about it in this way. <3~

  • @fromneptune7254

    You're not alone on this :") We might have a different age, different experiences but I'm going to my senior year of high school rn, yet I've felt like I've grown too fast and now I seem to be out of place everytime... It doesn't feel right to grow up, I don't want to grow up and i wish i could be like peter pan. I've been following you since the pandemic and seeing your videos almost every week has been one of the most constant things in my life. Somehow it feels like I've grown up "with" you. You have done INCREDIBLE things deb, and as irrelevent as it may sound, i am extremely proud of you and how far you've gone. Your birthday has already passed but I will say it again because you deserve to celebrate your life every singlay, happy birthday!! I wish you all the best and all the smiles you've given me x 100000 (that means infinite smiles). I also wish you meaningfull and non meaningful moments too and that your life is filled with all the emotions possible, even the bad ones because they help us see how valuable the good ones are :3 Love you

  • @mollyannzhihua04

    As a Swedish person I’m proud to see DESENIO sponsoring her video. I have three prints from there and I love them 😊❤️

  • @Grimlooper

    I turn 24 this year. Honestly? I didn’t think I would live past 16. Life has always been tough, but it’s been worth it. Even the horrible things, I wouldn’t change to ensure I have the people I have now. But it’s still so crazy to look back and see, “wow. I actually made it.” 😅❤

  • @daisydudu

    She always comes up with such good videos I can literally feel the words in my soul

  • @vankaay
    @vankaay  +11

    "I don't feel like an adult but does anyone really" is so real. I wonder if it's just us that lived through the pandemic or if everybody feels like that at some point. Happy belated bday doby!!<3

  • @itsavianyways

    I can relate so bad to this. My 20th birthday was on Wednesday, and before the day came I spent it crying because I didn’t want to grow older, and honestly I am really scare of my future… but this year was actually one of the best days of my life. Thank you for posting this 🫂 And i wish you the best in life, happiness and love too 🤍🧡

  • @053shamaelashabonti5

    I'm 22 (soon to be 23) but still don't feel like 22 :") May be all the adults who are in their 20s are still a kid :3 also cheers to your first drink! It's good to see you grow & it's more like we are growing together!

  • @lisamgreenleaf

    I've just turned 41 and it really hits me at times how quickly the last 20 years and gone, and in another 20 I'll be 61! But it also makes me take a deep breath, grab my life (even the scary bits) and keep moving, keep laughing and keep living 🎉❤

  • @aleah8577

    I just turned 18, and it was really strange. Because all of a sudden I'm an adult with more responsibilities, but I want to be a happy child. It sucks. But it's also amazing and freeing at the same time.

  • @kittyphom

    I’m turning 17 in a month. Each year, I feel like I’m getting old and even more depressed. I feel like I’m running out of time. But… Happy 21st Birthday🎂