How to Make New FRIENDS in College? | 5 Easy Tips
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Madam beginning level ka video banao hamare jaise introverts ke liye
😄😂
Same bro
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If you are introvert then you are good analyser, take time & don't run for friendship, books are best friends. After college it's your own life and you have to handle it alone
Same bro
Hard truth - Aap college friends banane nahi jaate, apne goals ko achieve karne jaate hain.
Types of friends -
1. Casual friends
2. Comrade
3. Confidants
Tips to make good friendship -
1. To take initiative
2. Ask Questions
3. Quantity and Quality
4. Attend parties and societies
5. Alone is not always lonely
Bonus point - Spend most of your time in self growth.
Thank you so much Di!❤
Time saver😁
If you feel lonely, you're not friends with yourself.
-Me
@@kashishsharma2033 yeah atmanirbhar. Hand is gf wala
What does comrade means??
@@nikhilsingh4615 comrade means close friends at your class..
When your friends are rich but you are not... somewhere you will feel it's okay to not have friends..just an experience
Agreed
Can you explain it little bit??
Agreed
;-)
I still experience the same
Most of my friends are rich (they are among the richest in our town) and i am low income middle class...
Make friends but don't make anyone your priority. Do everything for your friend, help them, encourage them! But don't rely on them for your own emotions. Learn that friends are just part of your life, not your whole life. And with time everyone is gonna hurt you, so don't expect anything from anyone. Do things selflessly..and try to accept the reality and keep moving with the flow.
Wishing you All the best✨
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The exact thing happened with me during 10th, 12th
But in college, I never rely on my friends to be my priority💯
Whatever you said is exactly true🙌
it's the truth
thanks
It’s for life…even ur own parents and kids hurt u eventually
College is the place where you can talk to the people without knowing their names😍
Shi h I am doing same😊😂
Even new admission in school lets u to talk to the people without knowing their names so stop saying rubbish, according to me school life is most memorable childhood memories and u can also called school as ur 2nd home
Ohh🤣
Same 😅
Indian railways be like. Hello brother idhr..
I used to be an extrovert in my childhood but eventually I became an introvert and I stopped expressing myself to others. Covid made it even worse. Now talking to people became a task for me as it is leading to an awkward conversation. Even when I am talking to them they are not talking to me. It hurts me very badly. I am trying to mingle with people.Hope I will find friends and lead a life I dreamed of....
Hey there.... Can we be friends?? 😃
Same here😕🙂
@@cabhimanyu3483 For sure.
@@durgavaishnavi7501 yeah and you will reply after 9 days... Itna introvert kaun hota hai be🤣🤣... Yaar 9 days ke baad reply
@@melitajm4286 you also be my friend
Today was my first day of college and I felt so sad as I didn't know anyone and was alone the whole day. I couldn't make any friends today and most of the people in my class already knew each other and had their own groups so I felt like an outsider . after watching this video, I feel so much better . thank you so much Shraddha di
just introvert things XD
Same ..mera bhi kl first day tha but class kafi din se start thi sbb ek dusre ko jante thai but yesterday i also felt outsider ..and felt alone
Omg, the exact Same here😢
Same 🥲
Same for me at ycc college
In my college not a single person is of my type currently I'm in the 2nd year but have no friends because I can't find any similarity in them they join college for hook up while I want to pursue my dream after 2years. Sometimes it's ok to be alone rather then being with wrong people 😊
Last line ❤❤
Very nice thinking❤❤❤
That's a good thought but make a topper friend for just preparation of your exams.
Exactly
Need more videos on such similiar college like topics☺️
Note this please🤗
Yes right 🙃
My family always used to say that I have no friends, I don't talk to anyone, I am not good at all , I will stay alone always. But I want to make friends, i want to hangout but the problem is I don't get friends of my interest . I always get friends who use me for their benefits and later they make their new friends and I'm left lonely.😔
I know I'm alone. But being alone make me more stronger than anything.
Just make friends
Let them exploit you but once this is the only way to find the best
But you should have control over the level of exploitation
Bhai tuna manlo 5 friends banaya usma 1 ek hi issa karega Baki 4 to acha hi hoga
U should learn to. Exploit them as well
@@prateeksaini8553 yeh badia tha
Are you a shy person?
I m also like you ...i like simple friend who are not psychos ..overattitude ..having simple funny ...is ok
But i did not find anyone like that😵
Now, I feel relax 💆
Earlier I thought that, "I am the only who is introvert"
But now by 👀seeing the comments
There are so many people who are introvert like me & so many have this problem...
I am happy to know that " I am not only who is introvert in this world"😜😜
....
Btw kuch english mai galti ho gyi hogi to bata dena.... I am trying to improve my english 😊😇☺
English to shi hai 😅
@@amaanullah13 ooo really....then appreciate me😁😁
@@yuvti2656 Appreciated 😅👋💯
@@amaanullah13 thanku 😄
keep it up ☺️ improve your English
🤣😂me one who thinks
Friendship is waste of time
As well as key to success in life is a friend one who shares everything with u
Remember one thing : Don't consider your casual friends as the real ones. I repeat NEVER. Instead of that, try to be a lone warrior with acquaintances. U guys will shine.
And yes, I'm too at the first year of my college.
Yeah that's exactly what I am doing. I am in 2nd year
@@hello.667 Oh great ✨
I am also in 1st year, going to college next month. I will do the same as you said , Thank you. Hii , BTS army 💜💜💕.
That hits hard thanks for advice✌️
Hii ,I m.1st year student as well, and an army as well ,nice to me you
"College hum future bnane jaa rhe dost nahin".
true💯
Exactly 💯. Agar dost ban jaate hain to theek hai aur agar nahi bante hain to bhi theek hai. Uske bina life aur career khatam to nahi ho jaate. Logon ne college friendship ko itna hype banakar rakha hai
@@hello.667 tumara clg hogaya tho thoda experience share kare
@@Daily_1percent College pura nahi hua. 2nd year complete hua hai abhi
Bhai future kaise banega logo se baat nahi karni aygi to kitna bhi padle koi fayda nahi kabhi na kabhi to baat karni hi padegi
*A 1st year student asked me "Bhaiyaa Principal office kahan hai?"*
*2nd Year Student Me : Bro Tum bhi jahan hum bhi wahan.😂*
*All credits to COVID-19.*
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😂😂😂 amazing
Bhai bhai 🤣🤣🤣
Same condition
Lol
This friendship thing cannot be learned from one video or many videos.
We had to learn it through our life expieriences. That's the truth.
Yes you're absolutely right i have also learnt this thing in my collage 🙂
Microsoft wali didi has a seperate fan base ❤️🙌
First day first class of clg jo baju me aake baitha vahi best friend for engineering student 😊😂❤️🔥🔥
Shi bole
Jiske paas Paisa zyada, uske paas dost zyada. Yahi friendship ka sad truth hai 🙂
No bro I don't agree
School friends let me introduce myself
Naa aisa kuch nahi hai
True in college this is true
Yes,it is right
Moral: Be the best version of yourself, don't waste your time pretending to be cool .😊
💯
Asli dosti school mai hoti hai.. Dosti ka matlab Jaha dimaag na ho! Lines by respected avadh ojha sir.. 🙌
when u start working with great people like Aman bhaiya, u become them. She reflects his personality.
best advice: At initial stage focus on quantity of friends and thereupon u will realise who is matching your vibes
I'm glad to see the timing of these videos , I have just got into BTech and the videos from this channel are soo helpful . Great work👍🏻 . Keep growing team Apna College.
Just loved the video , it was so knowledgeful on friendships. Am a dropper and i was facing friendship losses and having fake friends but this vdo helped me out from this friendship problem which I was suffering from almost a year now. Thank u so much mam for providing me with a new outlook on friends
The only problem with me is my dreams detoriate with time because of my groups and friends ..i know it's my fault but it's not only my fault bcz my circle is not that competitive and when you live woth small minded people your dream definitely detoriate !
Same bro....thats why I just prefer to be casual friends with everyone....ocassionaly hanging out with some of them....giving first priority to my dreams and spend majority of my time alone....
@@real_name_hidden3782 same bro 👍. I do not hang out with my friends or watch h movies with them. But sometimes they force me to do so
same bro
We can't change our personality overnight. We need to take initiative to make that happen. In order to make friends, we need to socialize as much as we can ( atleast in 1st year).
Bonus tip from my side : Don't judge a person too quickly cz sometimes ppl might not seem as they are.
Get your academics right & extend your help towards your classmates. Just help & appreciate others. You'll find the best results.
Your right.
I am a Jee 2023 aspirant
I hope that I would have a great college life
Your bonus tip works 👌. I realized it.
@@Suraj-ew6gd All the best!
@@hello.667 All the best!
@@DivyanshiMishra-tb2sr Thanks Sis
By the way in which college/ year are u studying right now ?
Please make a vjdeo on how to be good at side hustles and still mantain 75% attendance coz in some colleges it is very much compulsory to mantain 75% attendance..i am just getting into the college and i am fearful about it..
Really Man!!
i find you with my same name same query
Thank you guys for making me feel that my name is not that bad that only i in the world have it...please like this comment as much as possible ,so that aman bhaiya makes a video on it....
@@happyprabalsingh 🤣🤣🤣🤣👆
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It's needed for introverts & especially now. After being isolated for almost two years, socialising seems to be a herculean task!!
"Never allow loneliness to drive you into the arms of someone you know you don't belong with." -Gautama Buddha
Oh 👍
I'm an introvert throughout my whole school life... But now in engineering, I'm a complete extrovert.... I've just concentrated on seminars and communication skills by which I gradually became an extrovert
How do you do that bro
I am same like you 😭😭😭
Note:- Never ever skip first day of college because then you will notice many squads and groups have already been done and then it will be hard for you to be a part of it
Nothing just from my experience i am sharing this :-)
Mai upgrade krungi clg toh orientation me Jane thodi denge?
@@BhartiChawla-ip8qpyou still can go if u want
@@BhartiChawla-ip8qp wtf is upgrade
True 🙂💯 am also facing this.
Yeah you are right it's very difficult
I completed my one year of collage and not made single friend in offline mode but I had all of them are friend on social media as following.😅
Same here bro thank god Mai hi Akela nhi Hu yaha 😢
Same here😅😅😅
Introverts zindabaad! 😁
@@khushalingole5931I'm also one of them.. don't worry ek time ke baad sb apne busy hi ho jate h after completed college
@@khushalingole5931 same here
Full marks for the reminder - college mein ham goals pura karne jaate hai, not for making friends . I was thinking the same
College hum Carrier banane ja rahe hai, na ki dost banane ! Amazing line
Thank god 4 your valuable suggestion. 🙂 Aap jaise people hi logo ko distract nhi hone de te.
Kya zamana aagya ha...dost bnane ke liye bhi video dekhna par rha ha
acha hai ki me andha hu
Dost vo acche hote h jo apne aap bn jaate h...bnaye hue dost kisi kaam ke nhi hote...... note my words😇
Very helpful! Thank you so much di!
Never change a goal for another friendship role
But frienda ke masti karnte karte padne me maja alag hi hey 😇😊
Watching this as an introvert 🥲✌
Same🥲
Me 😭😭😭
I never thought ...we need a vedio on how to make friends.... It's a flow just go with it... Good or bad life and time teaches you the Best
Best advice would be dont take anybody serious in the first year. Spend a year in the college and then decide who is right for you.
Ye comment maine phle q nahi dheka🙂😭😭😭
Thank u soooo much👍👍Helped alot😍😍
Hmlog sirf online hi incentive le skte real life. M muh hi nhi khulta h😂😂😂😂
It's really Ossam Video didi. U told here Practical things and the most important truth also tht we have to go there not for making friends but for completing our Goals! ✨☺️
AMAZING INDEED REQUIRED . THANKYOU SHRADDHA DI
Thanks di☺️ I always get a solution to my problem from you You are my real mentor
Every point is soo true. I've faced similar situation in my college
Perfect!
Honest and genuine
Not compromise with self respect and goals.
The best video on UA-cam
I had a problem I thought has anyone even made video on this
When I entered in college I made two friends they were very closed to me I shared almost everything to them and they also
Now I’m in 3rd year and I broke my friendship with them because at the end I came to know they were think totally opposite to me
Negative depressed and back bitching were their habits
I felt very bad tht I ruined my college life with such type of friends
It happens
I've almost experienced the same scenario in an early stage though, maybe it's for our best, an experience. Life still goes on, we indulge and connect to more people, these experiences that we faced will help us to filter the forthcoming people we meet. Never lose hope bruda !❤️
This will definitely helps college students 😊
Thanks!
Very informative!!
I will pass my College in 3month, still it's in my recommendation and I'm happy to see this...🙂😍
Thank you so so much for this. Needed a guidance of a senior, was really intimidated regarding this. Thank you so much❤
Aaah looking at this video my anxiety is kicking me !!
Feeling feared that i may not make good friends
Same here 😔
Thank you for this video 🙏
What a amazing video i really enjoyed.❤❤❤❤
Thanks for motivation ❤
Didi aise hi first year freshers keep liye aur tips please
Madam thank u to tell about our friends in college ....
I like this very much ........!!!!!
Wow didi !
Just awesome ❤❤
Quality of friends are important than quantity of friend. They take your useful time of life if you value the importance of time in your life.
Felt funny after reading the title, but trust me i feel this video should have come 3 year back... as i am in 4th year now...if u guys understand or know my pain please give this comment a thumbs up... atleast some motivation here xD
Mera hal bi yahi hai Mai final year me hu Mera koi best friends nahi hai
Mam aapne boht achha samjhaaya hai... This video is really helpful for me ....
Mam thanku soo much for this video
Bohot helpful rhi ye video ❤ 😍.
This is one of my favorite videos as I'm a first year college student....😇
Aapka expression and body language video me Aman dhattarwal bhaiya jaise hoti ja rahe h , jo aman bhaiya ka realisation dilata h 🔥
Thank you so much ma'am....! great ful video...i like it...
Thank you so much for the video. Kafi informative video thi ❤️👍
good timing..hihi..starting my college life from monday
Very late.. , my MST exams of 1st sem starting from Monday
Congo🥳🥳
Mine is starting from 30th of nov😁
@@shraddhajalandre9541 😂
@@Unknown-kk7lk haha..I meant to say that physical classes starting from monday..though college had started in may be september..so will meet people face to face in true terms of college life from monday..and good luck for ur exam :-)
You are the best . Actually you are our motivation
mam aapke har ek video se kuch na kuch sikhne ko jarur milta hai.....
thanks lot you mam....
Thanks a lot🤗🙏🏻
Best as always
Love you didi❤️
So basically I went to college 3 weeks after it started and its been 1 week I m going to college....its really hard that everyone has group and friends and you are a loner...
Helps Introverts like me
Thanks a lot...😊😊
Thanks for this didi!!
I'm so much anxious regarding making friends in cllg.
Im gonna join cllg in next few months, will keep ur points in my mind. Thnq Di!
I hope my next yr wud be productive nd wud make few friends.
Bestest advice: Never compromise with your self respect and goals.
Thank you didi 🤗
I appreciate your work ❤
Requesting a video on some good project ideas on blockchain (in detail) please.
this totally sums up my anxiety
Perfect video for me. Thank you shradha ma'am ❤
Thank youu! Sraddha Didi 💖
I was with a freind group of 4 others including me, but where ever they went or whenever they talk to, they always used leave me out. Ig just because I'm not on any of the trending social media apps.
that is the thing, even when I'm with a frnds group I still felt alone and that was basically for a week.
After that I slowly slipped out of the group but when I was doing that I came to know that they didn't even cared 🤷♀😒
My seniors are way better than them tho, and recent friends actually motivate me alot.
Please make a video on Mac vs windows for cse students
thank you so much 😊
Thank mam I really need it😊
ua-cam.com/video/5gHUgIAC8Wo/v-deo.html C language
Some hard truths revealed.❣️🥺
Thank you for suggesting that book at 9:49
Thank you di ❤️
Wow!
Same what i feel
Generally People make friends who are similar to your personality
Absolutely right ma'am I wish what you are saying I am applying on this for making new friends. ⚡
Outclass... 👍
Best session ever💟💟💥