I think that packing away the things that they left behind is not rude, it may actually be very helpful for them as they may feel overwhelmed from moving out.
My mom straight up told all of us to come and get our stuff or she'll be tossing it. She wanted to make the room into a pantry room. It was our stuff and she was nice enough to pack our stuff up too. No hard feelings of course. She gave us plenty of time to get it.
@@budgetwithcat8207 she's always been blunt lol I couldn't be mad, it was our stuff and I can relate now that we have our own home. My daughter did the same to me when she got married. Left stuff here. I politely brought it with me when I went to visit her and casually left it at her home 😆
The tornado that hit Pasadena was so scary!! We don’t get tornadoes down here!! Glad you guys stayed safe. I know I’m a week and a half behind, but I don’t believe it’s rude at all! That’s YOUR room/space. If you need it and their stuff is in the way……neatly boxing some of it up is not rude at all. That is so kind of you to worry about that❤
No it’s not rude to reclaim your space. It took 5 years to get my daughters stuff out of my home. No one got mad we agreed it had been here long enough. Love having my own space. Especially if you are using your bedroom to work. Congrats on completing a savings challenge. Your awesome
It’s not rude. They moved, and they can take their stuff with them. That’s nice that you’re helping them pack something they should have done. Do you want me to help you, Sister Girl? 😂
Hey Cat, Nope it’s not rude at all! I think they’ll understand since they know how much work you do! And you’re packing it up for them so that’s less packing they have to do. 💜🤗
I don't think it would be rude at all to help them pack their stuff. I don't use trackers or scratch offs either.. I just use a piece of paper.. but I think it is a fun way to save.. you can see the progress.. I think for me tho.. its just too extra. I just stuff my envelopes, write it down, then forget it's in there til the next time I stuff. Haha. It's just for me anyway. I do find it fun to watch others to do the scratch offs and fill in the trackers. Thanks for the video
I would tell them your room is not a free catch all space,and charge them for use of your room. That way,they will be motivated to move out. Sharen Nothing is free,and they are taking advantage.
That’s what our kids do. They move out and leave stuff. I would pack it up and invite them over for dinner, and before they eat say, oh take these boxes out to your car please. You accidentally left these boxes. Thanks. 😂
What do you do for a living? I like to purchase the savings trackers because it helps me to stay focused as I save money. Otherwise I get bored. This way I'm spurred on to finish completing each one.
So happy I subscribed to your channel and this video is very inspiring with the small challenges for quick wins to add towards a sinking fund So thankful
Ask them first. My sister did that to me after she kicked us out of her house. She threw stuff in boxes and put them closer to the door. I thought it was petty, she thought she did such a nice thing.
Hi Cat, I don ' t think it is rude. But ask them if it is ok to put the stuff in boxes for them. They might decide to do the packing themselves and bring it to there new home.💖
No, not rude. We did that with our kids. It frees up space and ours were grateful that they did not have to do it! :) How do you decide what is a "mini savings challenge" like the medical versus a sinking fund? Or can they be both?
Thanks Kelli! Well at first my mini savings challenges were tied to smaller amounts. But really they are mini because they are small in their actual size. They fit inside the envelopes making them “mini.” So you could have both, I guess! 💗💗
I dont think your in the wrong for packing their stuff. Its rude they didnt ask if they can leave their stuff there while they get settled. great video! just subscribed.
Always love ur videos Cat!! And no it’s not rude to help them pack😊! I cant wait for my daughter and son n law to move out😂😂😂😂 I can’t wait to decorate my space the way I want and I’ll Gladly help them pack😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hi Cat, when you finish a challenge do you start a new one that is similar to the one that you finished? Do tyou just pick what ever feel right? i have been doing this for 1 month and just finish my first one!
It’s not rude, but I’d ask them first, only because they might have some stuff that is an order or if you’re like me. I want to know where everything is at 😂
To be honest I would love someone to help. But as well intended that is … it could look like something else to others. I would make a list by room of basic items such as tumblers like you said…. And then make realistic dates for each section and ask them to come over to pack and take these items and let them know if that date comes and they haven’t picked up them you will be boxing it up and what and where you intend to put them. The reason I suggest this is that I saw someone not make a list and it exploded. She didn’t think it would be any issues since she was close to kid and their partner. Most kids think it’s okay to leave it at their parents house and parents wouldn’t do anything to their items….
If I was in your I would do that because it is taken up your personal space and if you need your personal space back didn't take your personal space back with all due respect you're not stepping over your toes but they are stepping over your toes.
No, no my friend it's not rude to want to reclaim your space but I would ring them first and just say "Hey I'm keen to reorganise this room - I feel like I need a little more space to do what I need to . I have the time to box up your resin things, would you like me to do that for you, or would you prefer to do it?" Balls in their court that way - although I'm a New Zealander and we're kind of known for straight shooting but being super polite because we don't really like confrontation. Edit: I just would say it that way, because sometimes children just don't realise that it bothers you and they appreciate the chance to 'adult' and take care of things themselves. You know Will and Sydney best, if they're feeling overwhelmed right now it might be a welcome helping hand.
Thanks so much for the advice! I did talk to them first and they were totally ok with it. The boxes are still sitting in the hallway though! Now I’ve got to get them out of my house!💗💗
It's not rude let them know they have 30 days to pick up everything. You are losing money by not being able to use your space. I work faster with more clean space
I think that packing away the things that they left behind is not rude, it may actually be very helpful for them as they may feel overwhelmed from moving out.
Not only is that not rude, it’s awesome that u r willing to help them pack!
I agree. I would probably ask them to pack it themselves and have it out by a certain date. Then if they didn’t, I would pack it for them.
My mom straight up told all of us to come and get our stuff or she'll be tossing it. She wanted to make the room into a pantry room. It was our stuff and she was nice enough to pack our stuff up too. No hard feelings of course. She gave us plenty of time to get it.
Lol! That’s amazing! I don’t think I’ve ever said that! I need to be more like your mom!💗💗
@@budgetwithcat8207 she's always been blunt lol I couldn't be mad, it was our stuff and I can relate now that we have our own home. My daughter did the same to me when she got married. Left stuff here. I politely brought it with me when I went to visit her and casually left it at her home 😆
In any situation, communication is key!
The tornado that hit Pasadena was so scary!! We don’t get tornadoes down here!! Glad you guys stayed safe.
I know I’m a week and a half behind, but I don’t believe it’s rude at all! That’s YOUR room/space. If you need it and their stuff is in the way……neatly boxing some of it up is not rude at all. That is so kind of you to worry about that❤
Absolutely. Not rude! Its your home and workspace.
I think its amazing you allowed it in the 1st place.
Well done with the savings. Doing great 👍
Thank you! Lol! I know it’s my space but I want them to feel welcome, but sometimes I go overboard!💗💗
I love how encouraging you are with the money challenges! ❤️
No it’s not rude to reclaim your space. It took 5 years to get my daughters stuff out of my home. No one got mad we agreed it had been here long enough. Love having my own space. Especially if you are using your bedroom to work. Congrats on completing a savings challenge. Your awesome
Thanks Matthew! It’s good to know I’m not the only one! How are feeling these days?💗💗
I’m here for it my friend❤ love mini savings challenge day😊
Am starting my own little Mimi savings am so excited! I’ve been seeing yours and everyone else’s am in this!
I don’t think it’s rude to help pack, they probably will be needing the stuff for their business. Love watching your videos 🥰🤙🏼🌺💜
Thanks Cherish! 💗💗
Nope, not rude. I would and have done that with adult kiddos
It’s not rude. They moved, and they can take their stuff with them. That’s nice that you’re helping them pack something they should have done. Do you want me to help you, Sister Girl? 😂
Omg! I wish you could help! My house went from empty and uncluttered to a hot mess!💗💗
Another great cash stuffing
I don’t think it’s rude. You are being very nice in helping them move out of your space
I love mini challenges 😊
Loved this!
Congratulations it on finishing another challenge!!. 👏
Thanks Richard. I hope you are doing well!💗💗
I totally love watching you finish challenges
Thanks Carmen! It happens so fast and I get excited every single time!💗💗
Hey Cat, Nope it’s not rude at all! I think they’ll understand since they know how much work you do! And you’re packing it up for them so that’s less packing they have to do. 💜🤗
Thanks friend! Lol! It’s easier to pack other people’s stuff than your own! Lol! 💗💗
I don't think it would be rude at all to help them pack their stuff.
I don't use trackers or scratch offs either.. I just use a piece of paper.. but I think it is a fun way to save.. you can see the progress.. I think for me tho.. its just too extra. I just stuff my envelopes, write it down, then forget it's in there til the next time I stuff. Haha. It's just for me anyway. I do find it fun to watch others to do the scratch offs and fill in the trackers.
Thanks for the video
I would tell them your room is not a free catch all space,and charge them for use of your room.
That way,they will be motivated to move out.
Sharen
Nothing is free,and they are taking advantage.
That’s what our kids do. They move out and leave stuff. I would pack it up and invite them over for dinner, and before they eat say, oh take these boxes out to your car please. You accidentally left these boxes. Thanks. 😂
Lol! This made me laugh! Omg! It’s a great idea! 🤣🤣💗💗
What do you do for a living? I like to purchase the savings trackers because it helps me to stay focused as I save money. Otherwise I get bored. This way I'm spurred on to finish completing each one.
Hi Katie! I work in the education field. Thanks for watching!💗💗
Great video ❤️
Great savings cat! Really enjoy watching these videos!!
So happy I subscribed to your channel and this video is very inspiring with the small challenges for quick wins to add towards a sinking fund
So thankful
Thank you so much Sasha! You’ve made my day!💗💗
Ask them first. My sister did that to me after she kicked us out of her house. She threw stuff in boxes and put them closer to the door. I thought it was petty, she thought she did such a nice thing.
Gotcha! I could see where it could be misunderstood. 💗💗
Have you been to the bahamas on a cruise, try celebrity reflection if you ever go on a cruise again. Just got back .
Congratulations on completing another challenge 🎉
Thank you! I love your UA-cam name! I am a Hot Mess all the time!💗💗
Just let them know, your putting their stuff in the garage. If they want it,they will come and get it
Help your son and dil by packing their stuff up.🤗 Great cash stuffing 💙 ☃️
Hi Cat, I don ' t think it is rude. But ask them if it is ok to put the stuff in boxes for them. They might decide to do the packing themselves and bring it to there new home.💖
Thanks Paola! I did ask but didn’t wait very long to pack their stuff up!💗💗
I hope 🙏🏼 everyone is OK. I love your channel ❤️ 💕 ♥️ 💛
Thank you!💗💗
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We got hit with at least 6inches of snow today. Crazy!
Wow! 💗💗
Another way to do your "Created to Shine" challenge is to multiply the amount for a much larger amount.
Wow! That’s amazing! I’ll have to do that next! Thanks for the suggestion!💗💗
Love these videos!
Glad you like them! 💗💗
No, not rude. We did that with our kids. It frees up space and ours were grateful that they did not have to do it! :) How do you decide what is a "mini savings challenge" like the medical versus a sinking fund? Or can they be both?
Thanks Kelli!
Well at first my mini savings challenges were tied to smaller amounts. But really they are mini because they are small in their actual size. They fit inside the envelopes making them “mini.” So you could have both, I guess! 💗💗
Congratulations on finishing another savings challenge.
Thank you!💗💗
When my mother in law moved out and left all her crap I boxed everything up. I looked at it as of she wanted to box them herself, she would’ve.
Lol! Well I boxed everything up and even volunteered to bring it to them! The boxes are still in the foyer! Lol!💗💗
I miss my kids I've always had kids grandkids around for 45 years it's strange my house is quiet and I'm lost lol😂
That’s not rude at all. They know your growing as well as they are so there is nothing wrong
Thanks Chelsea!💗💗
Did you notice that you placed a $1 ⭐️ note in your mini envelope challenge. The first envelope in your binder
NO!!!! I DID NOT! Thank you! I’ll look for it!💗💗
I would be appreciative of helping me pack! I hate to pack 😂
Your videos are always so encouraging! I appreciate them ❤
I hate to pack too but packing their stuff is motivating me! Lol 💗💗
I dont think your in the wrong for packing their stuff. Its rude they didnt ask if they can leave their stuff there while they get settled. great video! just subscribed.
Thank you so much! I appreciate you so much!💗💗
Hi Cat, I love your choose happy plague. May I asks you if you are selling it or where did you purchase it from?
Hi Kim! Thanks! To be honest, I think I received the “Choose Happy” as a gift!💗
I don't think it's rude but I do think you should communicate to them that you will reclaim your space so it's not a huge surprise to them either (:
Always love ur videos Cat!! And no it’s not rude to help them pack😊! I cant wait for my daughter and son n law to move out😂😂😂😂 I can’t wait to decorate my space the way I want and I’ll Gladly help them pack😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
See…you understand me! I love them to pieces and I’m glad I could help them, but it’s nice to get my space back!💗💗
Hi Cat, when you finish a challenge do you start a new one that is similar to the one that you finished? Do tyou just pick what ever feel right? i have been doing this for 1 month and just finish my first one!
Hi Ruthann! I do both! Sometimes I repeat one and sometimes I start new ones! They are so much fun!💗💗
It’s not rude, but I’d ask them first, only because they might have some stuff that is an order or if you’re like me. I want to know where everything is at 😂
Hey girl, heyyyyyyyy
Hey! You’re first!!!💗💗💗
Packing it up would not be rude. You are reclaiming your space.
I would put that $100 into a debt payment.
Agreed! I just want all of the debt to go away!💗💗
Not rude at all, it’s your house do what you want in it lol 😂
To be honest I would love someone to help. But as well intended that is … it could look like something else to others.
I would make a list by room of basic items such as tumblers like you said…. And then make realistic dates for each section and ask them to come over to pack and take these items and let them know if that date comes and they haven’t picked up them you will be boxing it up and what and where you intend to put them.
The reason I suggest this is that I saw someone not make a list and it exploded. She didn’t think it would be any issues since she was close to kid and their partner.
Most kids think it’s okay to leave it at their parents house and parents wouldn’t do anything to their items….
Great advice. Thank you!💗💗
🎉🫶🏼🙌🏼👍🏼 great video
Not rude. It's your house!
I don’t think it’s rude, but maybe let them know first because they might take it the wrong way! Great stuffing ❤
Thanks Kayli!💗
If I was in your I would do that because it is taken up your personal space and if you need your personal space back didn't take your personal space back with all due respect you're not stepping over your toes but they are stepping over your toes.
No, no my friend it's not rude to want to reclaim your space but I would ring them first and just say "Hey I'm keen to reorganise this room - I feel like I need a little more space to do what I need to . I have the time to box up your resin things, would you like me to do that for you, or would you prefer to do it?" Balls in their court that way - although I'm a New Zealander and we're kind of known for straight shooting but being super polite because we don't really like confrontation. Edit: I just would say it that way, because sometimes children just don't realise that it bothers you and they appreciate the chance to 'adult' and take care of things themselves. You know Will and Sydney best, if they're feeling overwhelmed right now it might be a welcome helping hand.
Thanks so much for the advice! I did talk to them first and they were totally ok with it. The boxes are still sitting in the hallway though! Now I’ve got to get them out of my house!💗💗
@@budgetwithcat8207 😂 good luck with that 💜
Not rude to reclaim your space.
It's not rude let them know they have 30 days to pick up everything. You are losing money by not being able to use your space. I work faster with more clean space
No it want be rude, you just making room
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