Everything about this message!!! Thank you Pastor Jerry!!! Restoration and release is here… peace is non-negotiable… exiting anything that disturbs my evolution, unapologetically!!!
LORD JESUS!! This is the very reason why I know the spirit of the Lord have led me to stop talking to most of my aunt's and my mom. Especially not over the phone. They say and do to much. I can't allow their toxicity to mess up my joy, peace, sanity, wholeness, and healing process.
I'm learning to redirect the conversation to a positive with the toxic people in my life and now I hardly hear from them. If you do have to talk, wear them out with the goodness of God.
This is my go to message when my mother come with the craziness and negativity throughout the day because I have to get unbothered from that and continue to focus on my son and myself.
& I love how Jesus already knew the value he had 👏🏾🤞🏾❤️ he didn't even have to flex...he was not bothered by the ones choosing to act in ignorance . Iktr Jesus 🗣️😌
YES, the explanation! Usually I would clapback or be smart but I just shut it down completely and don't even respond to the nonsense. My God has shown me, I don't have to argue or explain.
The Holy Spirit said, when we know our assignment. We know that we have to let our flesh die. Then when can learn to hold our tongue more, when people try to come to you with foolishness. The Lord have taught me that I don't lose anything when people try to attack me verbally or what not. So, there is no need to attack them back, or go back and forth with them.
Yes. We put way too much energy in trying to explain ourselves to people. That will choose to not receive you in the first place, no matter what. That is because a lot of people like to use anger, bitterness, and foolish behavior and mindsets as a coping mechanism. You don't have to always feed into it. The spirit of the Lord will even tell me to not say or do things to respond to my teenage son when he choose to act a certain way.
This is the service I listen to everytime I'm dealing with anger or bitterness .It helps me so much and is helping me change a very stubborn part of myself I haven't been able to let go. Thank you Jesus for putting this pastor and his ministry in my life .God bless you and your ministry Jerry. It is so special!
Pastor Flowers you are beyond blessed and I look forward to every time you teach. I have been watching for months now. I love how you constantly pull from scriptures. ur an amazing teacher and I learn so much. Thank u!!
SUCH AN AWESOME AND PHENOMENAL SERMON PASTOR IT WILL ALWAYS BE APPLIED TO MY DAILY LIVING AS THESE SERMONS HAVE HELPED ME MATURE AND GROW IN MANY AREAS OF MY LIFE!!!!! THANK YOU MY BROTHA FOR BEING GOD'S MESSENGER AND SERVANT AND MAY HE BLESS YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!
I am out of service to petty... I am definitely out of service to what people think about me! It is none of my business about the thoughts people have about me! Amen!!
Yep. The Lord taught me that awhile ago, and I try to share that with others often. Even if what they said or did bothered you, it don't mean you have to respond in the way they want you to.
@@ladennayoung2939 The sermon really spoke to me because I'm dealing with my toxic sister who constantly wants to get in my face and provoke a fight. I don't speak to her at all and try my best to keep my peace.
Proverbs 15:28 The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things. This right here. We no longer make time to ponder how to answer
I’ve been dealing with this. I can’t believe what I’ve been Accused of. I haven’t been able to clear my name. I just don’t say anything. Because it’s ok.
Trust God to clear your name and bring confusion to their plans. Psalm 56 was a game changer for me! I even said it silently when the person was speaking negativity in a phone call, and in a matter of minutes their tone changed! God's Word is powerful 🙏🙌🙏🙌
God will handle it in Jesus' name. Amen. I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN. Like he said, when you know yourself, you don't have to respond. Let peace be still. ALL IS WELL REGARDLESS IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.
33:36 Whew, that hit my very SOUL when he said, everytime I get off the phone with you I get nightmares... because that has literally happened. But I’m glad to be pressing forward and seeking God’s face. 🙏🏽😇 All praise, honor and glory to the Most High ❤️😇 🙌🏽
Good Lord did this sermon come just in time. Everything you said is what I have been dealing with. It is so hard not to respond sometimes but I know I do better in not letting shade and digs people take get to me. I'm above the immaturity and pettiness. Thank you Pastor Jerry. 👏🏽
This is a right now word Sir!!!, you have no idea how this is blessing me right now!!!! I was feeling like a door mat, but I used to respond to the toxicity and you have just broke down that it’s spiritual maturity that allows me to not respond to the nonsense.
My biggest issue is caring what my child mothers think. Being a good father but treated like a bad one does something to me because I’m trying to be different then what I had and it goes unnoticed or unrecognized by them. I give it to God and continue to live righteous!!
47:16 - *Amazing prayer!* , I needed to watch this as I have let offense take me further down the ditch than imagined. May Jesus have mercy on me and restore to me the joy of my salvation.
My son always tells me mom let go and let God. Pray for them mom they don’t know you are anointed child of God. Vengeance is Gods. Hallelujah silent says a lot.
I had an experience like this. I failed after several situations. I regret I got mad but I did. This has been a problem spot with me. So I admit I failed. I desire to do better. I'm adding this: leadership is one thing. Trying to force another from a point of control....to me that's wrong. I accept my fault of reacting incorrectly. I truly am going to stop letting people prompt me to anger...Jesus help me.
When we sink to their level, it's like failing a grade and having to repeat it, people outside looking in can see your growth, maturity, professionalism, etc for us it may feel like baby steps but they see it in a major way. Which is what it is MAJOR!!! Keep going, we people come for you, you are well on your way to accomplishing your Dream! 🙌🙌🙌🙌 #Peacemeter #Dontgetdistractedwiththedrama #Theyjusttryingtomakeyoustop
I can honestly & personally share from my own experience with trusting God & learning to be more obedient & learning to have self discipline... because bby I was one of the ones before where I had NO filter lol & it was something I struggled with , with popping off at the mouth & being nasty to ppl when ppl tried me but thank the Lord he took the time to be patient with me to teach me self discipline & teaching me on how to respond instead of reacting. Was a game changer for me to learn that & also learning how not to allow my emotions to get the best of me. So thank you Jesus I grew & learned & matured from the old me on that & applied to my life what I was taught
I’m out of service!!!! Yes Praise Jesus! I will not be keep up with the mental Games! I am Blessed Highly Favored in Jesus Name, Amen 🙏 IDC!!!! Standing on The Word of God! This hit right on time! I needed this thank U Pastor Jerry! God Bless Your Family and ministry this is helping me for sure! My Business is to advance the Kingdom of God and Maximize my Singleness 💪🏿🤙🏾❤️
THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS!!! Wow, I needed to hear this... right when I was about to give a piece of my mind, right when I felt a need to clap back at disrespect... thank God, I recorded this message.. I understand & I will continue to say nothing!
Lord Jesus the conviction I needed. Thank you Pastor Jerry for your obedience! I recieved so much. This is a part of the Spiritual armor I needed to repair in my life. Blessings and peace to you and your family! 🙏💜
Thank you for continuing The #Pressure series with us, we love you and it’s such an honor to serve you!
Offence is our emotions' defence mechanism to defend our pride...
When you know yo assignment, you don't have to engage people who say stuff abwt you
Thank you for these life altering series. They have blessed and empowered me immensely. Thank you Pastor Flowers 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
I'm out of service
@@healinghubwithPraiseMercy
“But Jesus Gave No Reply.”
I am reminded of a quote thats says "never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference"
I love this❤❤❤❤ I'm gotta keep this one in mind❤
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED
This episode hittttt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen!
@@zynekaroberts my zzz no
Yes Yes!
Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥! So true
Everything about this message!!! Thank you Pastor Jerry!!! Restoration and release is here… peace is non-negotiable… exiting anything that disturbs my evolution, unapologetically!!!
Holy Spirit help us. My people pleasing button is out of service. I live for one man and that is Jesus Christ of Nazareth!!!! Hallelujah.
LORD JESUS!! This is the very reason why I know the spirit of the Lord have led me to stop talking to most of my aunt's and my mom. Especially not over the phone. They say and do to much. I can't allow their toxicity to mess up my joy, peace, sanity, wholeness, and healing process.
I feel this ❤️
I'm learning to redirect the conversation to a positive with the toxic people in my life and now I hardly hear from them. If you do have to talk, wear them out with the goodness of God.
This is my go to message when my mother come with the craziness and negativity throughout the day because I have to get unbothered from that and continue to focus on my son and myself.
'Petty people birth drama; it is thier oxygen. When you protect your peace, you take their breath away '
Jerry Flowers.
“I’m not a introvert...I’m in-to-peace” 🗣😌
luuuuuuuuuv....Im in-to-peace
Loooooove it
Lol
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Lordy!!! This message is for me. Lord deliver me from the spirit of offense 🙏🏾
Me 2
Me too
Amen🙏🙏 Help us Lord!
I'M OUT OF SERVICE TO THE ENEMY. AMEN🙏👏👏
& I love how Jesus already knew the value he had 👏🏾🤞🏾❤️ he didn't even have to flex...he was not bothered by the ones choosing to act in ignorance . Iktr Jesus 🗣️😌
Myself and this generation is in DEEP NEED of this sermon. Thank you thank you thank yoouu!!!
#SermonOnPOINT
Thank you Pastor Jerry 🙏
YES, the explanation! Usually I would clapback or be smart but I just shut it down completely and don't even respond to the nonsense. My God has shown me, I don't have to argue or explain.
Amen... Growth is a wonderful thing...
I may be surrounded by obstacles but I'm never trapped.. There's a way out.. Brother Jerry Flowers preaching...Exodus=God of Exits..
I gotta start coming to these sermons with a hat on my head so my edges can stop getting snatched! Lol Great sermon!
😅😂😅
A scarf or something! Jesus!
Let’s cultivate the edges
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Note to self: Bring a hat when Jerry preaches 😂 great word tho 🙏🏾
Amen!! Jesus gave no reply, not to a single charge!!! Being offended is a choice and I refused to give you that much power, I’m unbothered!
God directed me here today. I am too stressed out at work and I feel like they keep pushing me. And it's exhausting.
Two years later, I felt very lead to this as well. I pray things changed and worked out for you! ❤
I feel for you honestly.. but God has your back 💯
I ONCE LOST HAIR IN THE MIDDLE OF MY HEAD DUE TO THIS!!!!! NOT ANYMORE!!!! PRAISE GOD FOR BEING THE PRINCE OF PEACE!!!!!
The Holy Spirit said, when we know our assignment. We know that we have to let our flesh die. Then when can learn to hold our tongue more, when people try to come to you with foolishness. The Lord have taught me that I don't lose anything when people try to attack me verbally or what not. So, there is no need to attack them back, or go back and forth with them.
When I tell you God put this on you to speak DIRECTLY to me about a situation that just happened… down to the elevator reference. Whew!
Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power I am unbothered. Thank you lord!!!!
Man Pastor Jerry is always fly ! And word is always on point !! Hallelujah Glory B 2 God !!
Yes. We put way too much energy in trying to explain ourselves to people. That will choose to not receive you in the first place, no matter what. That is because a lot of people like to use anger, bitterness, and foolish behavior and mindsets as a coping mechanism. You don't have to always feed into it. The spirit of the Lord will even tell me to not say or do things to respond to my teenage son when he choose to act a certain way.
God, protect me from people who sin against me from causing me to give in to sin within me. What a word!!
This is the service I listen to everytime I'm dealing with anger or bitterness .It helps me so much and is helping me change a very stubborn part of myself I haven't been able to let go. Thank you Jesus for putting this pastor and his ministry in my life .God bless you and your ministry Jerry. It is so special!
Spiritual maturity is the ability to overlook!
Every black woman on the planet benefits from this message 🥰🥰 thank you for your awesome message
THERE'S A WAY OUT !!!✝
Pastor Flowers you are beyond blessed and I look forward to every time you teach. I have been watching for months now. I love how you constantly pull from scriptures. ur an amazing teacher and I learn so much. Thank u!!
SUCH AN AWESOME AND PHENOMENAL SERMON PASTOR IT WILL ALWAYS BE APPLIED TO MY DAILY LIVING AS THESE SERMONS HAVE HELPED ME MATURE AND GROW IN MANY AREAS OF MY LIFE!!!!! THANK YOU MY BROTHA FOR BEING GOD'S MESSENGER AND SERVANT AND MAY HE BLESS YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!
I am out of service to petty... I am definitely out of service to what people think about me! It is none of my business about the thoughts people have about me! Amen!!
Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power; I’m unbothered.
I needed this right now. Glory to God. Thank you Jesus.
PEACE IS A KINGDOM EXCLUSIVE! ❤️☮️
AMEN PASTOR!!!!!!
Man oh man... I am so happy and blessed to have found this channel ❤️
Why is this right on time. So much confirmation for how my week has gone
Jesus gave no reply and neither should you! Is my new mantra❤
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER. I AM UNBOTHERED.!!
Yep. The Lord taught me that awhile ago, and I try to share that with others often. Even if what they said or did bothered you, it don't mean you have to respond in the way they want you to.
I agree but its so hard. I am having a hard time with this pray for me.
@@ladennayoung2939 The sermon really spoke to me because I'm dealing with my toxic sister who constantly wants to get in my face and provoke a fight. I don't speak to her at all and try my best to keep my peace.
Proverbs 15:28
The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.
This right here. We no longer make time to ponder how to answer
Literally PERFECT timing.
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED. 🔥🔥🔥
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; IM UNBOTHERED!
God bless each and everyone of you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Iam out of service.., to your thought 💭 about me!!!! What you think about me.., is not my business??? Amen 🙏🏽
I’ve been dealing with this. I can’t believe what I’ve been Accused of. I haven’t been able to clear my name. I just don’t say anything. Because it’s ok.
Trust God to clear your name and bring confusion to their plans. Psalm 56 was a game changer for me! I even said it silently when the person was speaking negativity in a phone call, and in a matter of minutes their tone changed! God's Word is powerful 🙏🙌🙏🙌
No weapon formed against you will prosper! Praying for you.
God will handle it in Jesus' name. Amen. I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN. Like he said, when you know yourself, you don't have to respond. Let peace be still. ALL IS WELL REGARDLESS IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.
A lot of us are arguing with people we aren’t going to reach because they major in misunderstanding us.
33:36 Whew, that hit my very SOUL when he said, everytime I get off the phone with you I get nightmares... because that has literally happened. But I’m glad to be pressing forward and seeking God’s face. 🙏🏽😇 All praise, honor and glory to the Most High ❤️😇 🙌🏽
BEING OFFERED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER;I'M UNBOTHERED..🙌🏽
Good Lord did this sermon come just in time. Everything you said is what I have been dealing with. It is so hard not to respond sometimes but I know I do better in not letting shade and digs people take get to me. I'm above the immaturity and pettiness. Thank you Pastor Jerry. 👏🏽
Praise God for this sermon I severely needed about 10 years ago. I'm grateful for it the same this mornin. Thank you and God Bless Y'all 💜
This is a right now word Sir!!!, you have no idea how this is blessing me right now!!!! I was feeling like a door mat, but I used to respond to the toxicity and you have just broke down that it’s spiritual maturity that allows me to not respond to the nonsense.
My biggest issue is caring what my child mothers think. Being a good father but treated like a bad one does something to me because I’m trying to be different then what I had and it goes unnoticed or unrecognized by them. I give it to God and continue to live righteous!!
47:16 - *Amazing prayer!* , I needed to watch this as I have let offense take me further down the ditch than imagined. May Jesus have mercy on me and restore to me the joy of my salvation.
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER...IM UNBOTHERED 🙌🏾
My son always tells me mom let go and let God. Pray for them mom they don’t know you are anointed child of God. Vengeance is Gods. Hallelujah silent says a lot.
Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power; I’M UNBOTHERED.
Good changing word for our lives today thank you,Jesus and thank you pastor 👏 🙌
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AnND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER I WONT BE BOTHERED
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; IM UNBOTHERED
Being offended is a choice i refuse to give you that much power. I’m unbothered
Being offended is a choice!! And I refuse to give you that much power.. I’m unbothered!!!
This guy is SPOT ON but hilarious. So thankful, I share with my kids.
WHAT AN IN-DEPTH WORD, HALLELUJAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
Totally agree with this 💯
I had an experience like this. I failed after several situations. I regret I got mad but I did. This has been a problem spot with me. So I admit I failed. I desire to do better. I'm adding this: leadership is one thing. Trying to force another from a point of control....to me that's wrong. I accept my fault of reacting incorrectly. I truly am going to stop letting people prompt me to anger...Jesus help me.
Being offended is a choice, and I refuse to give you that much power I am unbothered!🙏🏾
Being offended is a choice & I refuse to give you that much power I’m unbothered
Texas is in the house.
Being offended is a choice and I REFUSE to give you that much power; I'm unbothered..
Watching from Belize 🇧🇿
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾👏🏾👏🏾
'BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED!!
Have the spiritual ability to OVERLOOK.❤
Spiritual Maturity is tied to the condition of your heart and your mind! Spiritual Maturity is the ability to overlook!
My peace is nonnegotiable!!! AT ALL! I felt that!
‘I’m gunna give you Bible, cause ya’ll are hot tonight.’ 🙌🏻
When we sink to their level, it's like failing a grade and having to repeat it, people outside looking in can see your growth, maturity, professionalism, etc for us it may feel like baby steps but they see it in a major way. Which is what it is MAJOR!!! Keep going, we people come for you, you are well on your way to accomplishing your Dream! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
#Peacemeter
#Dontgetdistractedwiththedrama
#Theyjusttryingtomakeyoustop
There's sooo many power points in this, this is straight teaching word, 🙏🙏🙏🙏 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This word is perfect timing! Thank you Lord for using Pastor Jerry to deliver your timely word
I can honestly & personally share from my own experience with trusting God & learning to be more obedient & learning to have self discipline... because bby I was one of the ones before where I had NO filter lol & it was something I struggled with , with popping off at the mouth & being nasty to ppl when ppl tried me but thank the Lord he took the time to be patient with me to teach me self discipline & teaching me on how to respond instead of reacting. Was a game changer for me to learn that & also learning how not to allow my emotions to get the best of me. So thank you Jesus I grew & learned & matured from the old me on that & applied to my life what I was taught
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God Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power! I Am Unbothered!🙌🏾
That's not having a whole vibe, that's immaturity 🙏. Spiritual maturity is the ability to overlook.
Don't argue with demons.. you don't owe them an explanation. Good word!
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER, I'M UNBOTHERED! THANK YOU JESUS, thank you and GOD bless you bro Jerry!!!
I spent so much time moving out of offense! Thank You Jesus! Thank you for being obedient to God. This message was for ME!!!!!!
This is definitely for me Lord help me to apply this to my life
I’m out of service!!!! Yes Praise Jesus! I will not be keep up with the mental Games! I am Blessed Highly Favored in Jesus Name, Amen 🙏 IDC!!!! Standing on The Word of God! This hit right on time! I needed this thank U Pastor Jerry! God Bless Your Family and ministry this is helping me for sure! My Business is to advance the Kingdom of God and Maximize my Singleness 💪🏿🤙🏾❤️
This is such a word, and I thank the Lord for what I've been seeing on UA-cam these last few days because it has been the word I've been needing.
Your thoughts that you have of me is none of my business! 🙌🏾
BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER . I AM UNBOTHERED! 💯🙏🏽🙏🏽
My PEACE IS NON NEGOTIABLE!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
🔥🔥🔥💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 YAHUAH continue to use and bless brother and sister Flowers!!!! 💞 🙌🏾💪🏾
Lord help me to normalize what people think about me it's none of my business
THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS!!! Wow, I needed to hear this... right when I was about to give a piece of my mind, right when I felt a need to clap back at disrespect... thank God, I recorded this message.. I understand & I will continue to say nothing!
Amen bro my peace is non-nongotional
I'm above that
Lord Jesus the conviction I needed. Thank you Pastor Jerry for your obedience! I recieved so much. This is a part of the Spiritual armor I needed to repair in my life. Blessings and peace to you and your family! 🙏💜
Petty people birth drama it's their oxygen 😳😳 and when we protect our peace it takes their breath away 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Amen!!!!!! Glory ❤