Size 8 is wise. Thanks for validating my concerns all along I feel you, mimi hukuwa moody on Sundays when I have no house girl and the man just sits woi Nikiosha vyombo he can put the baby to sleep, or feed him. Lazima umrequest surely na Monday to Friday niko job pia kama yeye alaaaa. Men step up to the plate and style up
This is a very healthy discussion! I have been married over 30 years and it is good that you are open to discuss this. Only thing I would add is it's good to see each other from the perspective of when the kids are grown and have left. Will your current relationship and the way you interact, handle empty nest years? The kids grow so fast. Before you know it they will be gone but where will you be? At my age, we are losing spouses, separating, divorcing cos of the very things you are talking about! Having a couples group where we met every month and having these kinds of discussions was very beneficial and I totally wish more people could get such forums. May your marriage and the others you influence learn and grow!!
Have learnt alot. We have two kids and no nanny buy my husband helps especially in school things, dropping them and picking them. Going to supemarket, taking the girl to the salon and boy to kinyozi. Funny thing if anyone need help at night no kids call me they call their dad
Size 8 is talking on behalf of all women 👏🏾. Men stop having the man’s ego. House chores are not helping, it’s your own survival skills as a human. Why do you want a woman to take over your survival duties.
Moh remember mtoto ni wa baba na mama, mama mtoto hufeel mtoto ako safe mikononi mwake ama mikononi mwa babake. Aky it really feels good ukijua mtoto akiwa na babake anaezamlisha na kumshughulikia hata kama mama hayuko.
Wow this was an exciting conversation. I feel like dj Mo and Size 8 reborn should read the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman. Mo is hearing but he is not listening to Size 8. As much as he does other things right, they are not the things that Size 8 really needs and care for. The book says you can think you are loving your partner well by doing the things for them you enjoy but if those are not the things they enjoy, they still end up feeling unloved or not well loved. You have to love your partner the way they want to be loved because that's how they feel most loved and not the way you want to love them. Love is about serving each other not "this is how I am" otherwise being rigid is being selfish. It was a nice watch though 👌🏾
@@TheMwaisCircle please read it together too and take the test. It will save your marriage from a lot of unnecessary fights. I promise. You will enjoy love even more!! it is an easy read very few pages :)
One thing I don't understand is why the man is being asked to help where he can. He's supposed to be able to do everything the woman does coz these children are also his. I don't like the way Mo is saying ati get your wife all the help she needs so she can rest. Meaning he's handing over the duty of raising his children to the house helps and those auties and sisters he's saying are always around the house while he and his wife are the ones supposed to take care of their children with a little help from other people.
Marriage is a very dynamic institution, I feel the comparison will do more harm than good , people are very different my hubby helps around the house and the kids especially during the xmass holiday when we had no nanny , now that the nanny is around I don’t require him to do any of this things now he has other acts of service that he fulfills for me , like running errands for me ,driving me around since I don’t have my own car for now, taking me out to recharge the list is endless
Oh my God...Moh na is such a typical husband's.These are the people who makes us afraid of this thing called marriage.... Money is nothing..sitoki kwetu nikapewe phsychological torture na mtu mm😭
Wewe Mwai Acha kucelebrate Moh akiwa hivo defensive sana hivo... You're doing bad sana kwanza imagining that the wife is Not happy... Marriage is a scam😭
My husband is Mo x2. We both work, he does zero house chores and we have twins 3 years. Ive learnt to sing along as I do the chores coz am tired of asking him.
Naskia kuongea as I listen.... We waaaàaant more .....we want moreeeeeee please...... Tukitoka huku tunaenda next channel tunapata ingine.....tunaingia Kila channel.....juu weeeeeeeh napenda
Uwee this topic🔥🔥new sub🔥💯am glad i came i cross this channel😘😘nafeel size 8 akiongea this is me with my two kids😭😂😂alafu nimemaliza kuprepare everything babies food na our food nimeserve nakaa chini kuanza kufeed mtoi thn nikule nikikaa chini hubby ananishow nipikie kahawa naskianga kulia😂😭Mara mob mi ata hukula food ikiwa imepoa plus syke ile appetite ishapotea😭😭nikipewa huku invite naweza furahia🙈🙈😅hata catch😂😂
akikwambia upike kahawa si ukatae in a polite way useme you are extremely tired, he must have noticed you are available to be overused so he takes full advantage of that.
@@kazmorich i will try sijui why i find it difficult kukataa when am told to do something when i dont want to heri kujifos nibaki nimejam na mafilings ndani🙈
I Agree with Muraya,,,There is a difference between reciprocity & Transaction. He does not have to do for Size 8 exactly what size 8 does for him. Mo can have his own version of healthy Masculinity,,, its ok👏👏👏
You ALL are agreeing that serving your spouse is crucial. Where you are conflicting is HOW the serving should be done. The reason you are differing is because of different factors: e.g. Different upbringing (Moh's case in point) and Different gender (Women and Men all act differently because of how God intrinsically created them). However way we look at service, let's be inspired by Jesus' words: "The greatest of them all is he who serves another."
Treating your wife is something that should come naturally because you love her Respect her and she is also human men take your positions in marriage and accept correction pride comes before a fall
I've loved the conversation and everything. But truth be told every marriage is different in it's own ways. My husband of 5years also helps both with the baby and the chores and I truly appreciate that. But I also feel this other kind of a husband should be equally appreciated, the fact that he provides and helps where he can is something worth appreciating. Tusikubali comparison ikuonyesha your own spouse is not good enough. There's something Milka is not getting fully from peekay that Kate or size 8 is getting. Let's appreciate our spouses as long as they are trying of course.
Such a sweet and nice topic,but each man has he's own way of showing love to his wife.size 8 and other women should accept that.nd still men should try so hard to show there wives how much they love and value them.
Nice convo bt I think hio argument mlikuwa n the answer the whole tym .........juh the point is don't look at wat other partners can do that your partner can't......juh possibly the other couples thinks the same thing .....that they something your partner is doing that his or hers is not doing ............then mnaingilia DJ Moh sana juh according to your conversation nilicome understand that you should be intentional and if he is not all about changing diapers and all then I don't think he should do it because it won't be intentional...........I feel n kama with tym ataona kama n chore
Very insightful video,however I think it’s important how effective one is in conveying information.When your passive aggressive it becomes difficult for the other party to understand what your saying. That said it shows that one is a boy and girl first before they get into a marriage..so conflict resolution techniques are very critical. My mum tells me pray first before you address a burning issue in marriage with the idea of dealing with the issue without undressing your partner.Coz you will end up wasting energy pointing fingers and the other person atakuwa ako busy ana defend there ego..All in all..know your person,understand their love language n needs,go to therapy if necessary n above all put God first.
Men are different..mine can't change a diaper but he contributes in other ways and I'm content with what he does. Never compare your marriage to another persons
she is lucky he is a present dad some of us even our kids teachers dont know their Dad,yet someone is complaining abt breakfast in Bed?this life no balance
Size 8 as much as you are talking the truth makesure you are not making your man look so bad infront of other men it makes the man feel so bad,just play it cool even those who are treated so well sometimes have secrets untold
people are different and raised diff,instead of wanting ur hubby to be like someone else appreciate the much he tries;have always seen mo take wambo to schl
It's quite unfortunate that Size8 dominated this entire conversation. I wish we could hear other couples' perspectives . It's a very noisy video because most of ya'll are talking over each other. It's also rude to keep interrupting others when they are talking.
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Size 8 is wise. Thanks for validating my concerns all along
I feel you, mimi hukuwa moody on Sundays when I have no house girl and the man just sits woi
Nikiosha vyombo he can put the baby to sleep, or feed him. Lazima umrequest surely na Monday to Friday niko job pia kama yeye alaaaa.
Men step up to the plate and style up
Talk it out
Aki
This is a very healthy discussion! I have been married over 30 years and it is good that you are open to discuss this. Only thing I would add is it's good to see each other from the perspective of when the kids are grown and have left. Will your current relationship and the way you interact, handle empty nest years? The kids grow so fast. Before you know it they will be gone but where will you be? At my age, we are losing spouses, separating, divorcing cos of the very things you are talking about!
Having a couples group where we met every month and having these kinds of discussions was very beneficial and I totally wish more people could get such forums. May your marriage and the others you influence learn and grow!!
Thank you so much Coach Korry. We will continue to learn and grow🙏
Size 8 is trying to communicate but Mo's ego won't let him listen and understand
fact
That's why I said peekay needs an award. Size 8 u r right we hardly get that nice treatment
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Dj mo, they say the little things matter much much more. Little surprises will light her up. Love this conversation it’s healthy
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Have learnt alot. We have two kids and no nanny buy my husband helps especially in school things, dropping them and picking them. Going to supemarket, taking the girl to the salon and boy to kinyozi. Funny thing if anyone need help at night no kids call me they call their dad
It’s a good thing when people work together. Makes things way easier.
Dj mo is akikuyu man is no go zone awezy ingia kitchen but java ndo zake,am in love with the topic 😘
Asante sana. Typical kikuyu men 😂
My husband is exactly like pekay....a very kind guy
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The peekays you are a wise man God will continue to lift up your marriage men should learn from you😊
Size 8 is talking on behalf of all women 👏🏾. Men stop having the man’s ego. House chores are not helping, it’s your own survival skills as a human. Why do you want a woman to take over your survival duties.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 wameskia
Eeeh the peekays marriage is on another level little things really count I want your God😘
Absolutely 💯
Moh remember mtoto ni wa baba na mama, mama mtoto hufeel mtoto ako safe mikononi mwake ama mikononi mwa babake. Aky it really feels good ukijua mtoto akiwa na babake anaezamlisha na kumshughulikia hata kama mama hayuko.
Wow this was an exciting conversation. I feel like dj Mo and Size 8 reborn should read the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman.
Mo is hearing but he is not listening to Size 8. As much as he does other things right, they are not the things that Size 8 really needs and care for.
The book says you can think you are loving your partner well by doing the things for them you enjoy but if those are not the things they enjoy, they still end up feeling unloved or not well loved.
You have to love your partner the way they want to be loved because that's how they feel most loved and not the way you want to love them. Love is about serving each other not "this is how I am" otherwise being rigid is being selfish.
It was a nice watch though 👌🏾
I 100% agree but most men don't grasp..loving someone they way they want to be loved,rather than how you want to love them .
Thanks Janice 😉
This is what i wanted to comment...Mo pliz love size 8 the way she wants to be loved not the way you want to love her
@@TheMwaisCircle please read it together too and take the test. It will save your marriage from a lot of unnecessary fights. I promise. You will enjoy love even more!! it is an easy read very few pages :)
@@Janice_M we will 😉
Following this series in the three UA-cam channels....team marriage works.
Marriage Works 💪💪💪
Content after content 😻 tunaaanza Wajesus 2:30 alafu tuingie uku pap ! 🔥
More coming your way 😉
Advice to moo..learn n change ..don't be rigid
One thing I don't understand is why the man is being asked to help where he can. He's supposed to be able to do everything the woman does coz these children are also his. I don't like the way Mo is saying ati get your wife all the help she needs so she can rest. Meaning he's handing over the duty of raising his children to the house helps and those auties and sisters he's saying are always around the house while he and his wife are the ones supposed to take care of their children with a little help from other people.
Seems every couple is different. Couples handle things differently.
Marriage is a very dynamic institution, I feel the comparison will do more harm than good , people are very different my hubby helps around the house and the kids especially during the xmass holiday when we had no nanny , now that the nanny is around I don’t require him to do any of this things now he has other acts of service that he fulfills for me , like running errands for me ,driving me around since I don’t have my own car for now, taking me out to recharge the list is endless
Yes… people are different. Every marriage is different 🙏
This is so rich🙏🏾. The channel is so enriching. I'm blessed by this asanteni
Karibu tena 😉
Peekay🥰🥰🥰🥰, size 8 you are a superwoman , this conversation was real , kudoz to you all , the mwais circle we love you ,thank you
Asante sana 🤩
Oh my God...Moh na is such a typical husband's.These are the people who makes us afraid of this thing called marriage.... Money is nothing..sitoki kwetu nikapewe phsychological torture na mtu mm😭
Wewe Mwai Acha kucelebrate Moh akiwa hivo defensive sana hivo... You're doing bad sana kwanza imagining that the wife is Not happy...
Marriage is a scam😭
My husband is Mo x2. We both work, he does zero house chores and we have twins 3 years. Ive learnt to sing along as I do the chores coz am tired of asking him.
Poleeee 😅😅😅
This mentality of men”can’t” do certain things need an evolution. There is nothing we cannot do.
Every couple is different 😉
Naskia kuongea as I listen.... We waaaàaant more .....we want moreeeeeee please...... Tukitoka huku tunaenda next channel tunapata ingine.....tunaingia Kila channel.....juu weeeeeeeh napenda
Moooooore coming 🤩🤩🤩
Learn your Love language, communicate & consider the other, is what everyone in a relationship needs to do.
Kabisa 💯💯💯
Good conversation lakini one person at a time, sio huyu yule. Acheni mtu mmoja aongee amalize kwanze. Good job guys
Asante
Woow this was so amazing....now l can get married too ndio nijuwe vile naeza iface with no problems...
Glad you’ve learnt 😉… Tafuta mtu usiogope 😅
Uwee this topic🔥🔥new sub🔥💯am glad i came i cross this channel😘😘nafeel size 8 akiongea this is me with my two kids😭😂😂alafu nimemaliza kuprepare everything babies food na our food nimeserve nakaa chini kuanza kufeed mtoi thn nikule nikikaa chini hubby ananishow nipikie kahawa naskianga kulia😂😭Mara mob mi ata hukula food ikiwa imepoa plus syke ile appetite ishapotea😭😭nikipewa huku invite naweza furahia🙈🙈😅hata catch😂😂
akikwambia upike kahawa si ukatae in a polite way useme you are extremely tired, he must have noticed you are available to be overused so he takes full advantage of that.
@@kazmorich i will try sijui why i find it difficult kukataa when am told to do something when i dont want to heri kujifos nibaki nimejam na mafilings ndani🙈
Karibu sana to The Mwais Circle 🤩🤩🤩… Show him this video labda ataanza kusaidia kidogo. Also talk it out 😉
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Talking solves a lot 😉
I Agree with Muraya,,,There is a difference between reciprocity & Transaction. He does not have to do for Size 8 exactly what size 8 does for him. Mo can have his own version of healthy Masculinity,,, its ok👏👏👏
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I really like you guys your dress code all is amazing
Asante sana 🤩
Moh has some type of attitude anywho
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You ALL are agreeing that serving your spouse is crucial. Where you are conflicting is HOW the serving should be done. The reason you are differing is because of different factors: e.g. Different upbringing (Moh's case in point) and Different gender (Women and Men all act differently because of how God intrinsically created them). However way we look at service, let's be inspired by Jesus' words: "The greatest of them all is he who serves another."
Very well said 🙏
Wow wow wow
Its the first time am watching this channel and already in love with this episode...a new subscriber pap💯
Karibu sana 😉
@@TheMwaisCircle thankyou
size8i feel u, ur such a phenomenal woman
Moh is defensive😢 he should understand size 8's point it's very important ❤
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Great conversation!! We need more of this well done guys
More coming. Asante 😉
Treating your wife is something that should come naturally because you love her Respect her and she is also human men take your positions in marriage and accept correction pride comes before a fall
Very well said. But every couple has different ways of doing things 😉
We need next episode also according to me i have learn alot from you couples be blessed ❤❤
More to come 🤩
You guys never disappoint....keep on pushing we are jere to support you to the end.
Asante sana 💪
Dj moh ni wale wazee wakitambo hawaingiangi jikoni.
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Wuueh! 😁. Cjui ni wache kufuata kife
Marriage Works 💯🙏
Dj mo haelewi Ata kidogo coz defense mechanism yake iko juu,kupeleka bibi out na sio hivyo anataka is all in vain coz atakuwa mind yake iko home
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I just watched this and sorry to say lakini Mo is mtoxic
Amazing conversation and i have learnt a lot. More marriage conversation please 😍
Asante sana. More coming your way 🤗
my fav couples getting to know you is amazing
all the way from karatina
Asante sana 🤩
Keep on pushing and please upload more videos like this 🙂
Asante sana. We will be bringing more content your way 😉
I've loved the conversation and everything. But truth be told every marriage is different in it's own ways. My husband of 5years also helps both with the baby and the chores and I truly appreciate that. But I also feel this other kind of a husband should be equally appreciated, the fact that he provides and helps where he can is something worth appreciating. Tusikubali comparison ikuonyesha your own spouse is not good enough. There's something Milka is not getting fully from peekay that Kate or size 8 is getting. Let's appreciate our spouses as long as they are trying of course.
Makes a lot of sense. I hope people understand this.
This one looks 🔥🔥🔥....can't wait
It’s fire 🔥🔥🔥
The last born couple
Yeeey! Nimewacrushia
Asante 🤩🤩🤩
Such a sweet and nice topic,but each man has he's own way of showing love to his wife.size 8 and other women should accept that.nd still men should try so hard to show there wives how much they love and value them.
Absolutely 💯
Good conversation. I like size 8
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Wueeh, mmesema hatutatulia ? Am loving this 😍😍😍
Hakuna kutulia 🤩🤩🤩
Helping ur wife doesn't make u less of a man ...
Very true 🤩
Tupo site salamikeni yote 😍💃💃💃💃💃❤
Hello hello 👋🤩
Aki more ni another version of my husband..waah house chores he can never
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The content we need yenye narelate, yenye nakapitia 😅😅
Good job
Asante 🤩
Size for me, she's so real to all women
So real 🔥🔥🔥
I love her and she's talking while holding a sick child , she's the best 🥰
Nice convo bt I think hio argument mlikuwa n the answer the whole tym .........juh the point is don't look at wat other partners can do that your partner can't......juh possibly the other couples thinks the same thing .....that they something your partner is doing that his or hers is not doing ............then mnaingilia DJ Moh sana juh according to your conversation nilicome understand that you should be intentional and if he is not all about changing diapers and all then I don't think he should do it because it won't be intentional...........I feel n kama with tym ataona kama n chore
Very well put. Asante 🙏
moh what you do not change is what you choose
People are different
What a woman needs in marriage should just have talk on its own by you guys and I think Richie should be on the leading line.
Talking solves a lot 👍
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Akina Kabi na Milly walikua wapi? Would've have loved for them to be part of this
Tutawatafuta soon 😁😁😁 @theWaJesusFamily
Wewe DJ Mo sikiliza u learn leo. If a woman does something for you she expects it done to her
Well said
Very insightful video,however I think it’s important how effective one is in conveying information.When your passive aggressive it becomes difficult for the other party to understand what your saying.
That said it shows that one is a boy and girl first before they get into a marriage..so conflict resolution techniques are very critical.
My mum tells me pray first before you address a burning issue in marriage with the idea of dealing with the issue without undressing your partner.Coz you will end up wasting energy pointing fingers and the other person atakuwa ako busy ana defend there ego..All in all..know your person,understand their love language n needs,go to therapy if necessary n above all put God first.
Very well put 💯💯💯
This is very true...
Size 8 is a whole vibe 🤣🤣
Kabisa 💯💯💯
She's really a Woman of God...Mungu amsaidie tu
This woman has a lot of wisdom.. she is so blessed
Men are different..mine can't change a diaper but he contributes in other ways and I'm content with what he does. Never compare your marriage to another persons
Never compare 💯
From Moh and Kymo .... Wanaume hawapendi mambo ya pupuu .... Diapers na Choo 😂😂😂😂
Bana 🤣🤣🤣
I support DJ Mo a hunnid💯 you are representing a big percentage of men out here,na usichange!!!
Very true. People are different 💯
she is lucky he is a present dad some of us even our kids teachers dont know their Dad,yet someone is complaining abt breakfast in Bed?this life no balance
Good job size 8 hapo uko na point my dia
Kabisa 💯💯💯
Mwais Tunawalove sana ♥️
Tunawalove pia 🤩
I understand dj mo ,size 8 should appreciate
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Muraya ni muthuri wa Kiama fiu😂😂..mzee mkikuyu karinga
Fiu Fiu 🤣🤣🤣
You are all very right 💯
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the conversation was barely clear , everyone was talking on top of each other.
We’ll work on that
Kiambu men hukuwa kama Moh. Mnaingilia Moh kwake🤣🤣
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Lakini MOH kubali kufagia hao twendelee mbele🤣🤣🤣
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Vile Moh anajitetea😂😂😂
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You are speaking for all of us guys 🤣🤣🤣
Asante🤩
Raych umesema point niko na watoi wawili and baba yao akitoka job wanamtaka but baba yao analenga
Talk it out 😉
Very intresting
Asante sana 🤩
This was really a good conversation 👌
Asante 😉
This is a very beautiful conversation
Thanks a lot Elizabeth 🤩🤩
Nice topic 👍
Asante 🤩
Wee need everyday your videos ama 4 times aweek
We will try add the number of videos we drop per week 😉
Dj moh is right..do it yr way.
your way ni kwenda supermarket na kudrop watoi na kuwalalisha hahhaaa...what about feeding them washing them and changing their diapers?
Do it your way ✍️
Size 8 as much as you are talking the truth makesure you are not making your man look so bad infront of other men it makes the man feel so bad,just play it cool even those who are treated so well sometimes have secrets untold
Hii nayo ni ukweli
Moh ni twin wa hubby wangu wueh 🥲
Wanashare characteristics ? 🤣🤣🤣
Wangu pia ako hapo... typical kamba man
@@muuwowambua1310 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dj mo ni mvivu wa kupika 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sana 🤣🤣🤣
Sii Size 8 apee wengine chance ya kuongea. Ako na mudomoo sana NKT!
And the other couple is just quiet, size eight plus diana b will be 🔥
Peronalities ni different
Tutawatafuta wote siku moja 😂
Ana attack Moh sanaaa
Mouthy sana...Mo ana kazi sana
I fully support Dj Mo
Every person has there way of supporting there spouse. Ladies wachaneni na Alhandro
True 💯
people are different and raised diff,instead of wanting ur hubby to be like someone else appreciate the much he tries;have always seen mo take wambo to schl
@@marionwambui2102 yes … People are different 🤗
Moh is so full of himself.
People are different 🤣
Aiiii ati pple are different...He's so different then
It just depends vyenye umekuwa raised... He can't cook coz he has been raised knowing men shouldn't enter the kitchen
Why am I laughing at Mo 😅😅😅
Why is too hard to understand this type of men😅😅
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Mo is scaring ata..
The Peekays🥰🥰
IKR 🔥🔥🔥
But if moh cant funga dipper he can do somethings na elewa moh sana
Ukweli kabisa 💯
Mo honestly anakaa haezi saidia😢, but anataka afanyiwe.soo sad
Watu huwa different. There are things he still does for his wife zenye some of us hatufanyi. Marriages ni different and we appreciate that 🙏
@@TheMwaisCircle so u saying even if his wife is not around and there’s no one to change diapers he can’t? Because watu huwa different?
Wife ya Peekay ni Vibee
Sanaa 😉
😂😂eti hakuna time yakustruggle
Manze 🤣🤣🤣
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For size 8 it became personal
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She's venting
She's in a sad situation...
Imebidi nmemuombea...
Ako against Bibi yake tu...
This is so sad😭
still following and learning good job guys
Thank Linn 😉
It's quite unfortunate that Size8 dominated this entire conversation. I wish we could hear other couples' perspectives . It's a very noisy video because most of ya'll are talking over each other. It's also rude to keep interrupting others when they are talking.
If you know psychology... You'll know that she's unhappy and was venting