I can't imagine people saying horrible things to or about you because you are literally one of the sweetest most gentle souls I've ever watched. Shame on them. I know it's easier said than done but please try not to let the negative people get you down. You're too beautiful and nice of a person to be crying over hateful people. 🩷
Caitlin your vlogs makes me so calm and peaceful, Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful vlogs for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💗
Your vlogs are my fav form of relaxation❤ and just wanna tell you look like the sweetest mom ever (the coolest is mine sorry lol) so don't let anyone make you question it. I've been watching your vlogs for 2 years now and I remember how you've always felt lost and anxious but once you've had greyson I felt like : this is exactly what she is meant for , you're a natural ❤
Listen, do what is best for your child and your family. If that means co sleeping, go for it. If that mean vaccines or no vaccines or some vaccines, go for it. Don’t let random strangers on the internet decide what you should and should not do in your household. You’re Greysons mom and you get the option, not them. You’re doing great!
11:01 this!!! It’s so baffling people will comment the most cruel and disgusting things on a random persons video just because they don’t agree with it or it struck a nerve…… especially TikTok because it’s so easy to be anonymous…. People need to talk about it more and thank you so much for sharing your story and experience
Caitlin you are lovely and your a lovely mom, all I can think is that some people are jealous and will always be horrible, I love your videos and your baby is gorgeous, I love the way you are not possessive of him, we are lucky that you have share him with us, I thank you for that, sending you love from the UK, keep doing what your doing you are fine xx
Caitlin I love your videos and they make a lot of people happy. I’m a highly sensitive person (I feel like you may be as well, you should look into it, there’s a lot of great books and assessments you can do) which is a real strength because you are such a kind, gentle and creative person, but negativity and the meanness of others really affects us. You can’t help it, but remember This will pass - focus on your beautiful baby and beautiful life 🩵 thanks for making such calming and lovely videos xx
Do not let the negative affect and impact your life. You know yourself inside out. Ppl can be miserable and push that on to you. You do what is best for your baby and family.. you are strong, your baby deserves a great mom like you. Love your videos.
Caitlin 🥺 don't listen to the bad comments. That's so horrible!!! You are doing amazing and I look up to you soo much!! You know what's best for your son, not them. We love you and I am so proud of you for continuing to post and do what you love despite the awful comments. You are so brave💗💗
Just breathe girl. You got this. You are a great mother and your son is so lucky to have you. Remember those people who are giving you hate comments don’t know the real you like we do. Ignore the hate comments. Don’t let it bring you down. If co sleeping helps you get sleep then let it be that. I did it to idc what anyone had to say to it. Social media can be very hard dealing with negative people. They have nothing better to do than to trash talk influencers that they don’t even know. They only see a small piece of your life. You got this girl just breathe. If you ever need a friend to talk to you know where to reach me. ❤️❤️ I mean it too. I will always have your back. We should totally have the boys have a playdate one day.
I don't understand why people deem it right to taunt or say such nasty and rude things about a mom or a parent. Cait, you don't need to feel bad. You're a good Mom and that's all that matters. Just remember that you're doing a good job! ❤
Sending lots and lots of love to you and your cutest little family Cait ❤️🧸❤️🧸. I was literally at loss for words hearing how mean some people were treating you omg, it broke my heart 💔
Girl, I’ve been co-sleeping with my baby since nearly the beginning. The best decision I I’ve ever made! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for having a natural instinct to be close to your baby 💗 I know it’s easier said than done though
What I’ve learned since becoming a mom is that a lot of moms are judgemental. My advice would be to limit the amount you share regarding your parenting decisions. While more often than not you’ll receive helpful advice, and comments, you’ll also receive a fair share of hate and criticism. Social media is a blessing and a curse. Always trust your mom instincts, the fact you’re researching and stressed/worried already means that you are an awesome mom!! ☺️
People can be so horrible, sitting behind their keyboard. I feel the sense of decency, empathy and compassion has gone out the window. Even if you don’t agree with someone else, there is no need to be brutal. So sorry you have dealt with this.
Cate, i just found your channel :) You are the parent, you make the decisions for your child. Ignore the toxic and remember the source (social media, people behind a screen, saying garbage they would never say to your face). If its better to co sleep right now, you do it. I would advise against doing it when he is a toddler too much because its tough to get them out of your bed lol. The journey of parenthood is your personal journey to take. There is no specific way to do any one thing. Considering how badly many of today's youth have been raised, and that many of the ipad babies have ipad parents, it wouldn't surprise me if thats where the nasty comments came from on your tiktok. I mean, what kind of parent would say some of those things anyway? Not anyone you'd ever consider taking parenting advice from. Heck, some of them may not even be parents in the first place. I get that it hurt, but try not to let it weigh on you. As for the vaccinations, i agree with you. Hopefully you plan to homeschool so they wont be an issue. I wish you the best!
Don’t beat yourself up over the co-sleeping. More ppl do it than is publicly talked about online. And it’s not bad to co-sleep with your child. At the end of the day you instinctively know what’s best for your baby and your family. Ppl have slept with their babies since the beginning of time. And anyone who thinks it’s better to allowing a baby to have reflux and not sleep at all is out of touch. Keep doing what you believe is best for your family 🩷
I'm sorry you're dealing with hate! My best friend co-sleeps with her daughter. She's an only mom and has had to move around a lot and that's just what works for her and her daughter. I personally wouldn't co-sleep but that was based on my own anxieties and personal wants for my children. But I would never treat my best friend or anyone else like a bad parent for choosing differently than we did! You are not a bad mom! You know what's best for YOUR children, and no one has the right to tell you differently. Also, I'm glad you brought up the vax, my husband and I talked about this before we got pregnant with our first and what we felt we wanted for our children. We also both agreed that some are necessary, and some are not so I just made sure to only get the ones we wanted for him. I'm happy you talked about doing research and looking into things before just taking someone else's words for it; if it had been up to my in-laws our son would have every single shot every single year no questions asked, but I grew up with only the necessary vax and I was never sick even around other sick kids. Of course everyone's immune system's are different and genetics all make a difference in decisions like these. Some people can't even get vax because of how their body reacts to them.. I just think it's unnecessary for people to act like their way is the only way and not be willing to actually do some research for their own families and lifestyle ❤
Thank you so much for sharing all of this with me❤️Being a parent means making difficult decisions almost every day. It is the hardest job but more rewarding❤️I appreciate your support so much!!!
im not a mom but i gave a sibling 14 years younger and so i have seen what my parents did with him. all babies are different and different things work. my parents did that with my baby brother and it was completely fine. if he is comfortable sleeping with yall i don't see the issue haha. but people can keep their comments to themselves because nobody is ever going to believe every little thing and thats okay. love this vlog they're always so cute and relaxing. praying for you💗
Cait, I wish I had the words to make you feel better about all the hate you get on social media but, I just don't because this is the sometimes sad world we live in now. All I can say is that I am double your age and can honestly say that watching you and everything you do at your age is commendable because many young women and shit even older women do not have their shit together like you do. The fact that anyone would jump on and say evil things to you is just beyond me because you are the sweetest, most gentle, and caring person I've ever followed on social media. First, what you do with your life and how you choose to live it is none of their damn business. Second, they envy everything you have achieved at such a young age. Just block those people. Those comments are not welcoming nor do they support your growth and the audience that you are trying to target. Unfortunately, no matter how old you are, people will always talk shit. I pray and hope that you do not shed one more tear over anyone else's insensitive comments ever again. I love your content; you are amazing and doing a great job while learning and navigating so many new things! I promise you that you have way more followers on your side than you think you do! Keep at it! You're killing it! 🧡
I am so sorry you are getting huge backlash. You are a great mom are doing what is best for your family. I think maybe get away from TikTok for a while. I think protecting your peace and mental health is a top priority.
I guarantee that all those mean moms were American, because Americans are dense to the fact that literally most of the other cultures around the world co sleep with their babies from the time they're new borns through toddlerhood. But at the end of the day - who cares? Both methods are perfectly acceptable and safe (when done right). Parenting isn't linear. So sorry you had to go through this attack.
keep your head up cait!! at the end of the day, you know what's best for grayson 🤍 you are so strong and you are such a good mama. you are still learning as a first time mom and ppl only know what you LET THEM see on tiktok, social media, etc. they don't really know you nor your life. i'm so sorry you're dealing with this :(
You shouldn’t have to explain why you make the decisions you make for your child. Every parenthood and child is different so as parents we know best what works for our family. Just know you’re doing your best and that’s what your baby needs ❣️
Здравствуйте милая Caitlin!я из России,мне 56 лет,у меня 2 сына и 6 внуков и я вам авторитетно заявляю что вы чудесная и очень заботливая мама!Я всегда очень жду ваши видео,не бросайте нас,пожалуйста,из-за дураков.А ещё,если позволите,я хотела бы дать вам совет-никогда не обращайте внимания на слова людей,у которых вы бы не спрашивали совет.Я желаю вам терпения,мудрости и удачи.Пожалуйста,продолжайте радовать нас своими чудесными видео с таким сладким Грейсоном.Просто чудо,а не ребёнок)))Когда он с вами,то кажется что похож на вас,когда с папой,то кажется что он на папу похож...Успехов вам во всём и любви вашей семье!)))
I can't imagine people saying horrible things to or about you because you are literally one of the sweetest most gentle souls I've ever watched. Shame on them. I know it's easier said than done but please try not to let the negative people get you down. You're too beautiful and nice of a person to be crying over hateful people. 🩷
I appreciate this so much thank you!!!🥺🥺❤️❤️
Caitlin your vlogs makes me so calm and peaceful, Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful vlogs for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💗
You’re always the sweetest I appreciate you so much!!!❤️
I have the same pumpkin pillow!!!
Aren’t they so cute!???
Your vlogs are my fav form of relaxation❤ and just wanna tell you look like the sweetest mom ever (the coolest is mine sorry lol) so don't let anyone make you question it. I've been watching your vlogs for 2 years now and I remember how you've always felt lost and anxious but once you've had greyson I felt like : this is exactly what she is meant for , you're a natural ❤
This is so sweet. Thank you so much I appreciate it more than you know!!!🥹
Listen, do what is best for your child and your family. If that means co sleeping, go for it. If that mean vaccines or no vaccines or some vaccines, go for it. Don’t let random strangers on the internet decide what you should and should not do in your household. You’re Greysons mom and you get the option, not them. You’re doing great!
Appreciate this so much. Thank you!!❤️🥺
11:01 this!!! It’s so baffling people will comment the most cruel and disgusting things on a random persons video just because they don’t agree with it or it struck a nerve…… especially TikTok because it’s so easy to be anonymous…. People need to talk about it more and thank you so much for sharing your story and experience
TikTok can be SO brutal!!!! It’s crazy what people say.
I love your vlogs💞 your baby is so cute ! And you don’t deserve that hate you’re getting on tik tok, stay strong 💕
Thank you lovie!!❤️🥺
your little family is so beautiful ❤
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Dont take criticism from people you would never go to for advice. Forget about them trolls.
Need to get that tattooed LOL. Thank you❤️🥺
You are an amazing person and mom🩵🩵🩵 love you!!
🥺🥺🥺love you!!
Caitlin you are lovely and your a lovely mom, all I can think is that some people are jealous and will always be horrible, I love your videos and your baby is gorgeous, I love the way you are not possessive of him, we are lucky that you have share him with us, I thank you for that, sending you love from the UK, keep doing what your doing you are fine xx
I appreciate this so much!! Thank you for your support ❤️🥺😭
That’s terrible you need to try to ignore mean people,you both do what works for you both and your son! You’re both doing a great job❤️
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Caitlin I love your videos and they make a lot of people happy. I’m a highly sensitive person (I feel like you may be as well, you should look into it, there’s a lot of great books and assessments you can do) which is a real strength because you are such a kind, gentle and creative person, but negativity and the meanness of others really affects us. You can’t help it, but remember This will pass - focus on your beautiful baby and beautiful life 🩵 thanks for making such calming and lovely videos xx
Thank you so much for this!!❤️🥺
Do not let the negative affect and impact your life. You know yourself inside out. Ppl can be miserable and push that on to you. You do what is best for your baby and family.. you are strong, your baby deserves a great mom like you. Love your videos.
Thank you so so much.❤️❤️🥺🥺
Caitlin 🥺 don't listen to the bad comments. That's so horrible!!! You are doing amazing and I look up to you soo much!! You know what's best for your son, not them. We love you and I am so proud of you for continuing to post and do what you love despite the awful comments. You are so brave💗💗
I love you more!!!! Thank you so much for your sweet words ❤️🥹
Been waiting for this vlog!
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Just breathe girl. You got this. You are a great mother and your son is so lucky to have you. Remember those people who are giving you hate comments don’t know the real you like we do. Ignore the hate comments. Don’t let it bring you down. If co sleeping helps you get sleep then let it be that. I did it to idc what anyone had to say to it. Social media can be very hard dealing with negative people. They have nothing better to do than to trash talk influencers that they don’t even know. They only see a small piece of your life. You got this girl just breathe. If you ever need a friend to talk to you know where to reach me. ❤️❤️ I mean it too. I will always have your back. We should totally have the boys have a playdate one day.
❤️❤️🥺🥺Thank you SO much Steph!! I appreciate your kind words. We definitely should one day and keep in touch!! ❤️Message me!
@@CaitlinDeChiara yes of course will do
@@CaitlinDeChiara for sure. Sounds good. I message you on instagram
I don't understand why people deem it right to taunt or say such nasty and rude things about a mom or a parent. Cait, you don't need to feel bad. You're a good Mom and that's all that matters. Just remember that you're doing a good job! ❤
Thank you so much!!❤️🥺
You know your baby and you are the best mama for your sweet boy! Sorry people have been so mean. I love watching your videos! 🫶🏼
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Sending lots and lots of love to you and your cutest little family Cait ❤️🧸❤️🧸. I was literally at loss for words hearing how mean some people were treating you omg, it broke my heart 💔
Thank you!!❤️❤️🥹
Whatttt!!! No way I love you girl don’t listen to the haters ❤❤❤❤
Girl, I’ve been co-sleeping with my baby since nearly the beginning. The best decision I I’ve ever made! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for having a natural instinct to be close to your baby 💗 I know it’s easier said than done though
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What I’ve learned since becoming a mom is that a lot of moms are judgemental. My advice would be to limit the amount you share regarding your parenting decisions. While more often than not you’ll receive helpful advice, and comments, you’ll also receive a fair share of hate and criticism. Social media is a blessing and a curse. Always trust your mom instincts, the fact you’re researching and stressed/worried already means that you are an awesome mom!! ☺️
Judgement for SURE😂😫Thank you so much for your support I appreciate it so much!!❤️🥺
@@CaitlinDeChiara ❤️
People can be so horrible, sitting behind their keyboard. I feel the sense of decency, empathy and compassion has gone out the window. Even if you don’t agree with someone else, there is no need to be brutal. So sorry you have dealt with this.
Cate, i just found your channel :) You are the parent, you make the decisions for your child. Ignore the toxic and remember the source (social media, people behind a screen, saying garbage they would never say to your face). If its better to co sleep right now, you do it. I would advise against doing it when he is a toddler too much because its tough to get them out of your bed lol. The journey of parenthood is your personal journey to take. There is no specific way to do any one thing.
Considering how badly many of today's youth have been raised, and that many of the ipad babies have ipad parents, it wouldn't surprise me if thats where the nasty comments came from on your tiktok. I mean, what kind of parent would say some of those things anyway? Not anyone you'd ever consider taking parenting advice from. Heck, some of them may not even be parents in the first place. I get that it hurt, but try not to let it weigh on you. As for the vaccinations, i agree with you. Hopefully you plan to homeschool so they wont be an issue. I wish you the best!
Don’t beat yourself up over the co-sleeping. More ppl do it than is publicly talked about online. And it’s not bad to co-sleep with your child. At the end of the day you instinctively know what’s best for your baby and your family. Ppl have slept with their babies since the beginning of time. And anyone who thinks it’s better to allowing a baby to have reflux and not sleep at all is out of touch. Keep doing what you believe is best for your family 🩷
Thank you so much!!❤️🥹
I'm sorry you're dealing with hate! My best friend co-sleeps with her daughter. She's an only mom and has had to move around a lot and that's just what works for her and her daughter. I personally wouldn't co-sleep but that was based on my own anxieties and personal wants for my children. But I would never treat my best friend or anyone else like a bad parent for choosing differently than we did! You are not a bad mom! You know what's best for YOUR children, and no one has the right to tell you differently.
Also, I'm glad you brought up the vax, my husband and I talked about this before we got pregnant with our first and what we felt we wanted for our children. We also both agreed that some are necessary, and some are not so I just made sure to only get the ones we wanted for him. I'm happy you talked about doing research and looking into things before just taking someone else's words for it; if it had been up to my in-laws our son would have every single shot every single year no questions asked, but I grew up with only the necessary vax and I was never sick even around other sick kids.
Of course everyone's immune system's are different and genetics all make a difference in decisions like these. Some people can't even get vax because of how their body reacts to them.. I just think it's unnecessary for people to act like their way is the only way and not be willing to actually do some research for their own families and lifestyle ❤
Thank you so much for sharing all of this with me❤️Being a parent means making difficult decisions almost every day. It is the hardest job but more rewarding❤️I appreciate your support so much!!!
im not a mom but i gave a sibling 14 years younger and so i have seen what my parents did with him. all babies are different and different things work. my parents did that with my baby brother and it was completely fine. if he is comfortable sleeping with yall i don't see the issue haha. but people can keep their comments to themselves because nobody is ever going to believe every little thing and thats okay. love this vlog they're always so cute and relaxing. praying for you💗
Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate your sweet words so much!❤️🥺
I thought I had blackheads all over my nose but a facialist once told me they were just tiny freckles! Could be the case for you too..
OMG no way!! Unfortunately the esthetician said they were blackheads 🤣
Cait, I wish I had the words to make you feel better about all the hate you get on social media but, I just don't because this is the sometimes sad world we live in now. All I can say is that I am double your age and can honestly say that watching you and everything you do at your age is commendable because many young women and shit even older women do not have their shit together like you do. The fact that anyone would jump on and say evil things to you is just beyond me because you are the sweetest, most gentle, and caring person I've ever followed on social media. First, what you do with your life and how you choose to live it is none of their damn business. Second, they envy everything you have achieved at such a young age. Just block those people. Those comments are not welcoming nor do they support your growth and the audience that you are trying to target. Unfortunately, no matter how old you are, people will always talk shit. I pray and hope that you do not shed one more tear over anyone else's insensitive comments ever again. I love your content; you are amazing and doing a great job while learning and navigating so many new things! I promise you that you have way more followers on your side than you think you do! Keep at it! You're killing it! 🧡
I can’t even thank you enough for writing all of this. I appreciate this more than you know!!!!🥺❤️😭
@@CaitlinDeChiara ❤❤❤
I am so sorry you are getting huge backlash. You are a great mom are doing what is best for your family. I think maybe get away from TikTok for a while. I think protecting your peace and mental health is a top priority.
Such good advice, I'm not on tic toc because I know that sometimes people can be horrible on there xx
Sorry tik took you can tell I'm not on it can't even spell it lol x
TikTok can be such a negative space sometimes! I appreciate this thank you so much ❤️❤️🥺🥺
I guarantee that all those mean moms were American, because Americans are dense to the fact that literally most of the other cultures around the world co sleep with their babies from the time they're new borns through toddlerhood. But at the end of the day - who cares? Both methods are perfectly acceptable and safe (when done right). Parenting isn't linear. So sorry you had to go through this attack.
❤️❤️Thank you for supporting me.
Sending you my kind thoughts and prayers
keep your head up cait!! at the end of the day, you know what's best for grayson 🤍 you are so strong and you are such a good mama. you are still learning as a first time mom and ppl only know what you LET THEM see on tiktok, social media, etc. they don't really know you nor your life. i'm so sorry you're dealing with this :(
Thank you thank you so much!!❤️🥺
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You shouldn’t have to explain why you make the decisions you make for your child. Every parenthood and child is different so as parents we know best what works for our family. Just know you’re doing your best and that’s what your baby needs ❣️
Thank you so much for your support!!❤️🥺
Please don't give a shit about what people say. Use your perfect mom's intuition and you're doing great. Peace 🕊️
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Toner, witch hazel or micellar water will clean out and close the pores on your nose.
Oh yes I used to use that!! Need to grab more
Здравствуйте милая Caitlin!я из России,мне 56 лет,у меня 2 сына и 6 внуков и я вам авторитетно заявляю что вы чудесная и очень заботливая мама!Я всегда очень жду ваши видео,не бросайте нас,пожалуйста,из-за дураков.А ещё,если позволите,я хотела бы дать вам совет-никогда не обращайте внимания на слова людей,у которых вы бы не спрашивали совет.Я желаю вам терпения,мудрости и удачи.Пожалуйста,продолжайте радовать нас своими чудесными видео с таким сладким Грейсоном.Просто чудо,а не ребёнок)))Когда он с вами,то кажется что похож на вас,когда с папой,то кажется что он на папу похож...Успехов вам во всём и любви вашей семье!)))
Im 63 so if i come off as assertive its because im old school.😂
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People on the internet can be really opinionated about everything it’s very hard 😊
Bigelow tea...a hard 'g' like 'big'.
Ohmygod it's been sooooo long since I watched your videos, like wdym you have a child 😅😭😭
AHAHAHAHA surprise!!!!