How To Lose All Of Your Fears
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to lose your fears of approach anxiety & other people so you become confident & more successful with women.
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From my heart to yours,
Corey Wayne
I lost all my fears from almost dying. It taught me that life is very short, can end at anytime, and fear and doubt are great killers of the human spirit. Don't waste your life wishing you asked pretty girls out, just do it. There are far more things to be afraid of.
I must ask what happend car crash ?
Seth Pomeroy
thanks 🙏🙏
Thank you for this.
Regret is far worse...
hah yes man!
"No progress can be made by someone without stepping out of their comfort zone"...One of my favorite quotes of yours
The cost of inaction is far higher than the price paid for possible failure.
3:30 *** how to overcome fear
5:10 ***your fear of the unknown is always greater than doing what you actually feat
5:36 confidence comes from, multiple successes, sucess comes from taking action
Thank you; of all the videos I've listened to; this one helped me the most!
I’ve never been a good fighter so I invested money and time into boxing 1v1 sessions and classes and have gotten into weapons training. The confidence of knowing what you’re capable of diminishes that fear.
Coach Corey Wayne is 100% right fellas. Listen up. 10-15 times!!!
I didn't understand what it was like to have no fear. It took chronic kidney failure to act towards women with no fear. There was nothing they could do that could come close to the other shit I was dealing with. During that time when I was the sickest, I got laid more than I ever had in my life. That was an important lesson.
That one guy who emailed you needs to do the following: Buy a pull up bar, and do 3 sets of 10 pull ups and push ups every day. I do 200 pull ups and 200 push ups every other day (to let my muscles recover) and I'm in the best shape of my life. I also feel very secure of my ability to defend myself.
200-200 every other day is a great idea. I shall try it out
The biggest thing that helps me with anxiety is shifting/changing my mindset from being hunted by my fears and responsibilities (what most rational fears are) to being the "hunter" and approaching my problems on my own terms. Waking up early and getting up on your first alarm really helps because I feel like I can tackle the day right on from the start. When I sleep in I wake up in an anxious state because I'm running away already.
Dang this hit home frfrfr
Powerful if one can really understand what u just said
5:40 Confidence is nothing more than doing something that you know how to do, and doing it really, really well. Confidence comes from having successes, and successes come from taking action and practicing. *Repetition is the mother of skill.*
6:05 Martial arts practice (Hapkido)
Your absolutely right!! Im a HapKido practitioner for 13yrs!!!
Corey has been a great source of influence to my life! I never had such a good mentor regarding relationships! Thank you so much Corey!
Coach you are literally saving my life you are god sent
Listen to Corey this is so awsome. One of the best.
Just visualize all women without any hair.
Zachary Feider lmaoo haha 😂 doesn’t that actually work for you? Lol
🤔 hmmm maybe you're into bald women
imagine them with hairy body
hell yeah, that could actually work, but then u even lose any desire to ask em out cause they are actually turning into something u call disgusting lol
Lawl😂
Agoraphobia is a serious problem that you need to work on daily, pickup can be part of that.. in fact it helps immensely.. but with anxiety of being out amongst people you need to GO OUT EVERYDAY even if it has to be with people or a counselor at first.. your brain becomes desensitized to the fact that the public is safe 99% of the time
if you’re going to learn martial arts pick one that is actually effective like boxing, jiu jitsu, kick boxing or muy thai. aikido will not teach or how to throw a punch or defend yourself against a take down. i would argue that jiu jitsu is probably the best one to learn because most one on one fights end up on the ground at some point. its even effective for defending against punches and kicks
Yup! 100%
Aikido looks cool, sounds cool, but the majority of the time, it won't be affective at all.
I swear the song at the intro gets better and better every video hahaha!
In a previous life I was killed by a Bison, I now fear the beast.
hint: you dont have a previous life. youll be dissolved by maggots, but the maggots are life, and out of maggots and plants sb will be created again (human)
forget what they said. eat some bison burgers
Are you serious?
Yes though I have since realized that fear is a false and limiting belief. And that Bison burgers really do make a delicious meal.
Ahah that's great man!
Thank you for posting this video, I feel even better about myself then usual. Now to see how things turn out.
Been following Corey along time and it took me by surprise he mentioned aikido. I have been practicing since childhood with my father.
"The Chronicle's of corey wayne"
Thanks for all your videos Corey. They've really helped me a lot.
My greatest fear on life is losing my self that is such terrifying idea ,iam myself everything honestly , all other fears i got is a picnic comparing to this fear .
Coach Corey Wayne hey coach. i bought your book. So if I'm afraid of beautiful women or approaching beautiful women is that what I am going to attract. It sure seems that way.
Krav Maga is great.Also learn to box and do bagwork, hit the gym a few times a week and lift heavy ass weights.Thats my routine and i feel like a million dollars :)
Krav maga is a gimmick. The stuff that works, is the stuff that has organically come to the forefront in MMA, because we found out real quick that it's the best... people who came ti MMA with gimmicks, got smashed. Maui thai, boxing, wrestling, BJJ... dont even bother with anything else, cos its gimmicky crap. I say this as a fighter.
Thats what i started to do, krav maga. The break up with my ex 1 month ago made me reinvent myself started doing things out of my comfort zone really enjoyed the practice lessons and take action for joining it. It's really great building my confidence up from to protect myself and friends/family.
I have performance anxiety and I’m always afraid of getting into sexual encounters because I fear that I won’t be able to perform or even have sex at all.
Are you ok now?
I am a short 5’3 guy, walking home at 1am after work, with tips I made in my pocket
A guy gets out of his car, in an empty parking lot, right when I was about to pass his car, tall and strong, wearing a hoodie, I slowed my walking speed so I can let him go ahead of me, the guy turns back, I am looking into his eye
The guy says, what are you looking at?
I said “I am looking at you, because you were looking at me, isn’t it a normal thing to do?”
The guy stopped to think for a comeback, I made a safe distance between him and me.
I felt like James Bond, not giving a fuck about the aggressor, because the last thing I wanted is to get inside my head and get anxious. It loses you the fight
Why is being single for the rest of your life a “painful thought”? I enjoy my life and I enjoy being single. Not being able to do that sounds much more painful to me.
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself".
Franklin D. Roosevelt
Most of our "fears" are just in our heads and not real.
No one to blame but yourself
Someone recommended me your channel as I was talking about my struggle with meditation but it all seems focussed on relationships :S
It’s true, a confident Man is very attractive but if he shows so much, it then makes her feel insecure and she feels he’s attractive to all woman.
Then I can’t be asked, I leave 🤔
True, there's huge a blessings when someone faces fear
Corey don’t you dare say Akido is an effective martial art!
He needs boxing, wrestling and Bjj!
One of your best vids. Love it.
great video, appreciate it. feel the fear but take small actions anyway!
Thank you coach
Hey Corey i noticed you made a reference to Aikido on this video. You were correct in your analogy of it. I studied for 10 yrs. Was wondering if you ever practiced it before?
Why do men assume in order to be happy you have to have a woman? All women have ever done is shit on my party. You can’t pay me enough to have a relationship with a woman. I have my own successful business and I’m having the time of my life. Just spent eight weeks doing nothing but jeeping, camping outdoors and doing man things without some bitch Interfering! I have no drama policy, whether it comes to men or women, you cause shit! you’re out of my life! By doing this I have the best most reliable trustworthy friends and no deadbeats! This weekend I start another jeep trip for another four more weeks heading all over the west. Don’t get me wrong, I can have a pleasant conversation and even go out on a date with a Woman. But that’s as far as it will ever go!
⚡️Happy 2021⚡️
"Human beings tend to fear the unknown." What are the consequences of accepting fear as a barrier?
I guess a feeling of being unfulfilled in life. This is where I'm at at the moment. I've been forced to recognise my fears as they are, but I still have to summon the courage to face them (like many I've used alcohol and other things to distract myself from them for many years).
@@snakedogman The first step is being honest with yourself and self aware about what needs to change.
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Aikido for self-defense lol. Corey, you are awesome, but no one who has been in multiple blood-and-teeth-flying-everywhere fights gives that advice. Boxing, kick-boxing, BJJ and combat (not sports) karate rule that world. Watch some ufc. What works on trained killers is what works on everyone else. Otherwise, sound advice, that the guy should take up on some self defense class.
Yess!!! This is me
for the body issue do some yoga or supple leopard shit that amazing
Is it fear or the fact that you fed up with people judging and pointing fingers when you make a mistake but get offended and still judge you for calling them on their bullshit.
Almost commiting suicide brought a lot of stuff into perspective. Once you get to that point nothing matters
Aikido is not effective , learn MMA - Mixed Martial Arts ! Thanks Corey for the point though
I grew up in leg braces and was relentlessly picked on by others even my friends and family. I feel afraid often. I have has girlfriends but I am always the one missing them in the end. I listened to your book but did not grasp it I guess.
I love all his advice except for aikido. Boxing, Muay Thai, wrestling, jiu-jitsu are far more effective styles.
I would go for MMA. Works like a charm.
Life isn't a spectator sport. You have to play whether you want to or not.
you are great
I dunno if the guy will see this but the arts that work and well are all used by mma fighters i.e. ( Muay Thai kickboxing, boxing, Brazilian jujitsu, judo ) watch the old PRIDE fights. You will see the karate, tae kwon do etc guys lose and lose badly
tank5617 The message is about disarming your opponent by not actually engaging in a real fight. In that sense Aikido is different from other martial arts.
To give you some idea about what Corey Wayne means, this short video is a great example. This is the exact same principle behind Aikido.
ua-cam.com/video/DZZ9EV-8AgQ/v-deo.html
I got people took me from granted my family has done this to me they ignore me no help so my world was torn apart no support no nothing and my boyfriend said your parents did that all to you now I’m to where my sucks
Sorry to hear that. You can still be the strong one and everyone will soon notice and wonder how its possible
You are such a fucking inspiration, thanks. God bless!
wait, wait, wait, whaaaaaa? "in life we tend to attract what we fear , and what we fear we attract? but what you look at? disappears?
Basically he means that instead of noticing what is real and present, we only see what could happen (your fear). So your actions are in response to your fear rather than what is happening, which results in your fear coming true.
Hi I am on a diet and have lost a lot of weight and soo my cloaths are to big but when I buy new cloaths after a month or to it is also too big soo how can I still look good
God's Soldiers thats seem like a good problem rather than a bad one good job dude for losing wait
add muscle if your a guy.
Learn a striking style(Muy Thai, Karate, Kickboxing) plus a ground and pound style(wrestling, BJJ), aside from getting a gun that's all you need for self defense.
Can women use this advice too ? 😅
I fear bee's, straight phobia!!!! I see a bee and I'm like the kid from home alone
Haha, bees are harmless. It's the WASP'S that are the a-holes.
Julian Rosas Getting stung by both sucks
Coach Corey, are the emails you read in your videos ONLY from paying clients/coaching customers? Or can anybody send you an email (not expecting a response because I don't have the cash for an official emergency email response from you, and you have to make a living somehow). I'm going to try and save up for an EER from ya. Love your work, sensai.
Shawn O'Brien anybody can send an email
i thought judo was using your opponents momentum against em and akido is the art of sword fighting...
no, it's aikido, judo comes from aikido
*****
Almost, judo actually comes from jujitsu
Sources:
web-japan.org/kidsweb/virtual/judo/judo01.html
www.worldjudoday.com/en/The-History-of-Judo-55.html
judoinfo.com/jhist4.htm
MrJlouisky The art of sword fighting is actually:
Bobudo
Iaido
and of course
Kendo
i practice capoeira
If you want confidence do boxing or MMA. Aikido will get you messed up.
Please no aikido haha try train with us! :)
Have you considered taking bitcoin donations?
Im not afraid at all about the not being able to protect me or my girlfriend, im actually afraid of kissing her even tho I know she wants it and I know I want it but it’s still so hard for me to do, anyone have some tips?
Kiss her
Kossette Readitte wow great advice thank you so much
Kossette Readitte funny thing is it worked
Akido? What about the Steven Seagal version, bullshido?
Ok coach.....you truly are a master of your craft; but I’m calling absolute bullshit on your opinion on Aikido.
Aikido !!
LOL
Aikido? 🤣 how about jiu-jitsu. Just a tiny bit more effective lol
Akido??? Come on man.
I practice Aikido
Just do KravMaga
Go to a good mma school
Aikido?? No! Jiu Jitsu jiu Jitsu
Guy's...DO NOT GO WITH AIKIDO. Lol. Aikido doesn't have a ground base to martial arts nor does it have proper punching techniques. There's a reason why it isn't used in mma. The movements are far too obvious and if you have a keen eye or even six months of mma experience, you're gonna fuck em up. Do Bjj or mma or boxing. Those are proven bases that have the most success in and out of the octagon.
How to lose all your fears? Do NoFap
The line between being the creepy guy that talk to randoom women in the mall is not thick so go about it with confidence and smile dont do it creepy Thanks
Come on man! Akido? This is possibly the worst answer for what martial art to train. A small amount of research will confirm this.
jiu jitsu
Sounds like Judo.
I always have a lot better things to do than wander over to a mall to chat up random chicks. That seems like a purposeful waste of time...something a dude with no life does.
5:00 I'm afraid to not use a condom and get a girl pregnat and have to ghost her , the truly unknown!
Aikido is not a functional martial art.
FACTS
Aikido is horrible advice for a marital art choice. BJJ/Boxing or Muy Thai. Never once has Aikido worked in an actual fight.
Jesus! That aikido as a means for self-defense bullshit should be stopped finally. It may be a way for self-development (as a person), but in an actual situation all it brings is false confidence, and subsequently getting your ass kicked.
You hurt your credibility when you recommend a useless martial art like Aikido. I say this as a fighter. You dont see people in the UFC using Aikido. The stuff you wanna recommend is the stuff that works in reality, not in movies. Just knowing he has a robust arsenal of weapons, under a credible martial art would change his whole demeanor. I know this is a really old video, but for anyone watching this today, dont take up Aikido... it's useless.
BJJ
Go learn some BJJ.
Aikido is the worst martial art for self defense. Take boxing or kick boxing, then wrestling, bjj. Nobody in the UFC uses aikido for a reason. It's one of the least effective martial arts. Might as well spend your time on the more effective arts if you're going to do it.
Aikido won't help you with shit! Fake self defense!
how to lose all fears? well.. first step, don't try.
Coke.
Im not afraid at all about the not being able to protect me or my girlfriend, im actually afraid of kissing her even tho I know she wants it and I know I want it but it’s still so hard for me to do, anyone have some tips?
Just go for it and see how you feel..