It's funny how all people saying this is not a worry in the comments are fans, this should mean something uh? It's always a worry when you let someone you don't know in person (aka idols) affect your daily life. She used her mother credit card, spent all her money, she didn't care about her friends, she skipped her job, this isn't fangirling is obsession. It's ok to love an idol and admire him, but it's making a mess in her life, this is a concern.
Same here. We are FANS because we support their music and should have limitations and boundaries when it comes to their private life. We can be amuse but being affectionate is too much.
So not worthy of friendship. She chose a guy she came to know through UA-cam ect only for a year over 10yrs friendship. Friend like this, I would rather be friendless
stephanie tyson by “your mental illness” I’m assuming u are referring to the girl in the video. And I’d say it’s more amplified by the artist itself. As u can see, she described many things that she loved about him.
Melak Alezairej yeah being like that means you were never a real friend and you're not worth anyone's friendship. I wouldn't want someone like that as a friend either. Dumping your friends for a guy especially a guy that doesn't even want you makes you an exceptionally shitty friend.
12:50 That part got me really mad tbh. Like a good 60% of people who like an artist in korea they obsess over them and the companies demanding idols to not date isn't helping at all because it makes delusional fans think they have a chance. ( my opinion )
don't get me wrong, sung si-kyung is a whole MAN and i can see why she's so into him but... this ain't it sis. i also kinda blame si-kyung because he was TOO sweet during the phone call, giving her hope and stuff that will only encourage her further until the next time she gets to meet him
@Rene S I think when he said because of his older age, he doesn't get many fans that are this crazy "supportive," it may have been a welcomed attention.
@@StephJ0seph obviously he's not gonna tell her to piss off, he just said what he had to say as an artist interacting with a dedicated fan but because she's so obsessive she's going to take that as if it was an encouragement or that it meant something deeper
Im 23, when the fan described sikyung i immediately nod in agreement. Sikyung is really dreamy. Hahahahha but then again its okay to admire, just not obsess. Hahahaha
When the episode started I thought I can relate lol I remember sending a friend of mine a clip of Sung Si kyung singing and said that he's my crush lol. She never replied my message 🤣🤣😂 anyway as the episode went on I was like, that's crazy, even for someone like me that admires him so mucho
No it's not, sassaeng fans do the following: Shove their phone into idols faces Try to touch them at every moment Stalks them and tries to find out personal info that the artist has not yet said They are WAY too obsessed that they harm idols and dont care about their saftey The fan in this show is just an overreacting fan she doesn't try to hurt him, she doesn't stalk him to his house/hotel but she is very protective of him in a bad way... A sassaeng fan is willing to hurt their idol just for a picture/video I hope this helped you understand a little better💚💚
I think she is one of those many fan who keep up with their idol in every small activities they do and doesnt like their idol to date anyone ..they want to live in their fantasy n lil more obsessed than the normal fan ...I see maself relate to every other conversation with my fav idol. But I don't go overboard .. and happy with dating stuff .. I guess part of those fans who always want to see their idol single and loyal to them ..I often see those type of fan in the comments ...
at first i thought she's in 30s.... and then when she's making a video message to sung sikyung, i was shocked that she's only 25..... gurl I'm almost 30 and i love him as much as you do but please control yourself... that part when sung sikyung said 'i planned to get married this year/next year, but because of Areum, I'd break it off' seriously dude????? you shouldn't pamper her that much.
@@reshmi5333 That's really not the case.. He's trying to be nice because she's his fan, she did nothing to harm him so there's no reason to possibly hurt her feelings with being unnecessarily blunt.. He did tell her to take it down a notch..
His fans know that he once said that he don't want to get married. I guess that when he said that he wanna get married that year, he was only joking. He's a guy that likes to joke so please don't blame him too 😂😂
Agree Sung Si Kyung is nice man but there is a big necessity in Korea to put a clear line between fan and themselves. they will be the one who will be sending death threats when you get married. They will harm you and your family. Yeah seen all that happened with my own eyes. This is the reason Sasaeng fans feels entitled. How dare she can demand when anyone should get married. Girl worry about your life and friends who will leave you soon.
This is why companies should let their idols date freely. So that we don't have any delusional fans like this thinking they actually have a chance. It'll be really depressing for her when he eventually gets married.
I'm liking Sikyung and he is my motivator at work. You know when things get rough and burn you out? He has been my outlet for 2 mos now and will support him all through out. No high hopes but I look forward to attending his concert in the future and that's the goal.
These kind of fans are very delusional. Idols are human as well. They can go dating whoever they want or get married to their love one. But because of these fans,idols life are getting harder.
Those friends need to drop the obsessed girl. There's no excuse for someone to be staring at a celebrity when you're trying to have a serious conversation about your real life.
I’m a huge fan of Bts and Stray kids and I don’t think this is healthy at all. I honestly am waiting for the day they marry someone they love and see them happy. There’s a difference with loving a group or idols music and overall obsession
If I were her friend, I would have cut the friendship long time ago.. 🤷🏻♀️ And not letting him marry someone in the future unless it was you? girl, you're nothing more than a fan to him 🙄 ps: thank you jackson wang for making us, ahgases as your friends, not a princess or a lover 💚🙏🏼🙌🏼
I am a fan of SSK. Despite his crooked teeth, he exudes manliness with his sweet and soothing vocals. I understand the fan. She might appear to be obsessive but I am sure her answers to the questions in the show were meant to be interesting. I appreciate SSK talking to her and giving advice. His statement about not getting married was meant to be a joke so do not misjudge him.
I understand what shes going through as a fan. Once i was obsessed looking for sung sikyung clips, really i cn spent whole just watching his videos and envied those people accompanying him., but now i get over him., liking or being fan girling is a way to relieve stress in everyday life
I am glad that she has some friends who are concerned about her. She is a sasaeng fan. Idols really hate such fans. They are not really considered fans.
I admit that sung si kyung is handsome, have good voice and a sweetheart (and i'm his fangirl too) but what she doing isn't fangirling but obsessive. She isn't succes fans but the annoying one. I hope sung si kyung getting marry and wake her up that your idol not responsible for your life.
At first I watched this video because of the title , it got me. Then while watching I saw euijin, he's a guest. It's my lucky day too. Euijin really suit in this show. Haha.
It's an obsession. All of us at some point have liked and even fantasised about meeting our idol irrespective of their age and relationship status but the major difference exists in the fact that we're able to accept any of their personal decisions no matter how it is.
Im a fan of a boyband but i really want to see them to get married with someone he loves and have kids. It just i want to see them happy with their own family. Idols are human too
Its scary what a die hard fan could do for the sake of their favourite idol 😱 Hope she'll be more of a productive fan in the future and does not force others on their interest
Yeaaaazzz KBS World finally uploaded an eng subbed version of this 💜 Being a huge huge fan of Si Kyung (who is 23 years younger than him;;) I rushed to watch this episode right after it aired and his voice makes me melt omg TT anyways while reading Korean comments I was wondering why no one mentioned about how annoying her voice makeup plastic surgery obsession sasaeng-ness was -.- everyone was jz talking about how big of a successful fan she is (?) and how they’re jealous of her like duh?? Now Si Kyung has a bad image of her and being his fan I’m pretty sure she knows how much he hates these kind of fans? He was just being nice in here. The real Sung Si Kyung would’ve scolded the sense out of her, although he loves young fans cz he thinks they’re endangered (no they’re not oppa) yea okay deep inside I’m selfish and for my own happiness I don’t wanna see him get married (he’s been saying this in his concerts for the past few years, that he gave up on getting married..) but for HIS happiness, I’d rather him get a really really pretty and perfect girl, and get married to her, for I can never be that girl xD I’m glad so many of the English comments are dissing this obsessed fan, instead of the ones I read previously saying that she’s a successful fan -.-
Honestly speaking, I am very jealous of her. She can go to all of SSK's gigs and whatnots and he actually knows her and then she got to talk to him on the phone and received sweet message from him, meanwhile here I am, SSK doesn't even know I exist. I really like him and I am a fan. He's soooo dreamy and ideal esp when he sings omgggg. But I personally would love it if oppa will get married soon :(((( Please fall in love with someone worthy of your love and who's kind-hearted and loves you sincerely and then get married :((( It would be nice if it's with me (LOL jk he's 20 yrs older than me HAHAHA) but the chance is very low lol hahaha. SSK oppa is not getting any younger and even if he's making it not a big deal that he's okay with not getting married, but it seems like he does. He wants to get married and it's my wish that he gets married soon with a nice woman. Ilysm oppa, always take care of yourself~~
This is why I don't like extreme fans I was so annoyed when she was so possessive with the idol. She should be thankful that her idol is understanding.
If anything I think if you truly adore and appreciate an artist in any medium (music, movies, online, etc.), you'll be happy if they're happy! That's being a true fan. If they find the love of their life, that is something to celebrate. I don't understand why so many fans get upset just because their idols aren't marrying them. It's sad, really. They are not Sims, you can't control their lives; they're human beings 🤦♀️
I somehow understand the fan. It is unlikely of me to fangirling Si kyung. I just recently know about him through Running Man, but I was captivated by his humor, then later on his voice. But there should always be a limit to everything. I just love how Si kyung approached the issue. He low key scolded her for affecting her work, but at the same time he still valued her as a fan. He is a man full of humor and talent. I just hope that later when he found the woman he'll marry, his fans will accept it. 💕
@@ciali.haokipstream_d_f_t_f7959 you're right. it is not healthy to get obsessed with someone. I am also fangirling Super junior since 2007, but i don't let my hobby affect my personal life. At the end celebrities are still human. They will get married and have a life. Hope she will understand soon and get over her obsession.
And what i can understand i mean is her falling for Sikyung so fast. I was shocked too by myself, I'm falling for this guy also..he is a man full of talent and wittiness.. But I would never support excessive obsession like that.
I cant really understand people who are fangirling / fanboying the idols like they are kings / queens🤦🏼♀️ (anyway, stan seventeen and support their cb soon)
Girl, there's limit to like or loving someone. A true love is to see our love ones happy not to put more pressure though. What u doing are so selfish. U just care about ur own happiness. Not ur families, friends or even the one u say u love. This applies to all fans of celebrities or idols. Do not mind their personals. They should get married if they want to. Let respect their life and privacy. Just keep supporting them if you are able to. I'm a fan of kpop and i know how we, fans like watching their photos, videos, fancams, buying albums, go to gigs,fansign events or concerts. But dont let it affect others. Like use ur own money, go with the ones that are willing to. That way, others will respect what u doing or what u love. Best regards,
Ok, I love Sung Sikyung too along with the rest of SK and rest of the world but please don't let our artists suffer just because of some crazy self obsession that person is yours 🙏 they are grateful for fans and fans love and support but they suffer and can't have their own personal lives if people get too obsessed, jebal love and respect them dont take it too far 🎧🎤🎶🙆♀️✌
Korean: I stand a chance... We never know what will happen.. Me: omg!! They look so damn hot but... Haha difference between Korean and international fans
I Stan Big Bang and iKon (2ne1too) and the most I e ever spent was on Big Bang concerts even buying $300 VIP tickets....they were worth it to me during that time. I'm glad I did it and got it out of my system. I still love and support them but there's always a limit. With all the scandals I was always thinking about it logically even if I was hurt by what came out. I was and am for a just consequence for their bad actions. Regardless of who they are they need to be humbled. I don't want Seungri to go to jail but if he does I hope it is for justice and what a standard punishment should be, nothing less nothing more. Even if it hurts my heart, I hope he learns to be honest.
15:14 I was getting chills from listening to her and then they mention Mino 💀😂😂😂 i uwu'ed for a moment. (like her friend twice as much 😆 W fans are the fxcking nicest i've seen like srsly 😳) But this girl tho. Bruh... Nope. 😦 Stalking. Stealing. Sacrificing your real-life relationships and REALITY is just overkill and not healthy af esp. THIS type of possessiveness. I'm glad her friend is there for her and all but if her way of living is threatened bc of her "bff" Areum and she still continue her saesang life then i guess its time to call it quits or just maybe distance herself from that type of toxicity or something. Areum needs professional help. Like rn.
I didn't like how she said that he can't marry and she would save him even if he knows how to swim and let her 10 years friend drown! What a successful saesang fan... she must understand that celebrity are humans and they have a heart too! He can like someone and marry and that might not be u!
there’s a difference between loving your fave because they’re amazing and deserve the world and actually wanting to be their significant other and getting martied... like i absolutely love and adore loona and stray kids with my whole heart but i KNOW that they’re celebrities and wouldn’t date anyone like us 😳 she definitely went way too far. dragging her friend to his gigs and stuff when she only has 4-5 free days off, taking to her only abt him, using her mom’s card to buy gifts, etc. and not wanting him to get married bc she thinks she has a chance... like ???? yeah i say “i love kim hyunjin w my whole heart be my girlfriend pls” or “i want to hold seungmin’s hand and put him in my pocket 🥺” but like,,,, i wouldn’t get mad if they started dating anyone because it’s rly their happiness that matters to me .
As a fan girl (a normal one) I think this is a huge worry. She'll hurt herself over this and she will not even be aware what she's missed as she gets older
Well.. I don't find him handsome as heck but if you really appreciate smooth, stable, and soothing vocals and/or heart wrenching ballads, not stanning Sung Sikyung would be a mistake..
This is definitely a concern. It's borderline obsessive. Showing up to places he goes, only talking about him in conversation, saying he can't get married, and showing up to every event is creepy 😭
I think some fans specifically sassaengs need to go to rehab to realign their mindset and figure out what it is that attract them to their stars. It could have been a result of trauma, family history, etc.
I'm a fan too, a 100% ARMY. But damn, if BTS wants to date or get married, then be it. If I don't have money to buy album or concert tickets, it's fine. Not that I will use my mom's money just to satisfy myself. She's obsessed.
I'm in my 20s and I like Lee Jaejin (SECHSKIES). But not as much as this lady likes Sung Sikyung. All I wanna do is see Lee Jaejin live and see his art in an art gallery. o-o It'll be even cool if his art was featured in art gallery in a major city in my area (San Francisco).
don't get me wrong I'm a fan and appreciate the artist I support but there's a certain extent. they also deserve to be happy and find love. this girl needs to get a reality check, she's 25 and should be working hard and appreciating her friendships because not a lot people are caring like her friends. Also with the whole idea of dating your favorite artist? seriously? there's seriously no chance, if they fall in love with someone let them be happy and get that crazy illusion of dating them because it's never going to happen.
I am such a huge fan of Sung Si Kyung, so I understand her crush on him. However she is being obsessive, but here the fault in not on the artist. It lays more on the culture of “fandom” that has been established in Korea, either be a Kpop group, actor, artist, etc.. fans go beyond normal behavior and actions when it comes to “support” their artist. This is a concern but not only about her, but about the whole obsessive fans that are out there. Is good to show support on the artist, but we should not make our lives around them. I hope she continues to support Sung Si Kyung but also that she would be more reasonable about her life and friendships.
when your friends send this video to you because *_they have the same concern_* ps : i just watched until the end but she’s so delusional lol.. it’s too much.. eye-
*the fact that she translate the script OMG this is respectfull and awsome . She is a good person but Hope this IS not turning into obsession . I'm not talking about my favorite actor , singer etc to my Friends because I don't want to be an annoying person each person have they taste*
It has already turned to an obsession! She is not going to work, is using her mom’s money to fund her addiction to him and puts him above real friends!
if this ain't what the fans culture in kpop society especially the ones who strictly against their idols having relationship...there is fine line between adores, cherish your fave and being mad obsessed that you turn into completely delusional.
From my opinion this is some what I would call "Obsession". It's bad actually because it affect not only her life but her mental health.I also like Sung Si Kyung since I was 10..now at age 23..I'm also followed every of his news and songs but actually for me is about controlling your emotion.
i'm willing to forgive her a little bit because she's probably still in the first stage of stanning but the going to restaurants and waiting for him to show up left a bad taste in my mouth. that's pretty stalkerish behaviour.
bruh all these delulus not wanting their idols to get married should wake up, like please you're the last person on earth they'd marry, stop this obsession and let them fall in love, let them be happy too.
You think intl fans are better? I know a lot of western fans with the same « my bias can’t date » mindset! Did you never see BTS and NCT fans who find their hotels when they have concerts overseas? It’s not a nationality or korean thing! It’s a delusional fan thing
Bro how can you just decide and tell him not to do the things he wants to be and stuff. You’re not his mom, you’re not related to him, you’re just a fan. You can’t control him that’s just messed up.
As for the case of love life,that areum is kind of delutional.if you like someone your wish should be their happiness and peace not your dominant spirit trying to rule their life
One reason I disliked BTS was bcos my best friend always spam me their pictures, music, variety shows and clips compilation and she will expect me to give feed back.however,if I don't reply or say I did not watch it,she will insult the hell out me until the day I have her serious warning to stop spamming me anything and if I'm interested I will check it out. Be a fan, enjoy it but don't use it to disturb my life,for me the best friend is nice,if it was me I will speak sense into her still being a fangirl
I can't resist myself to write a comment here. I wanna bet that if SSK do get married, this kind of fans will be the one destroying his albums and probably doing something worse, spreading something that it's not true about him, with the worst reasoning of all, "I dropped him not because he's getting married, but because how he handle the marriage" 🙄 in the end, it's because of him getting married. I truly feel sorry for idols and many celebrities in SK, because it seems being normalized there 😔
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It's funny how all people saying this is not a worry in the comments are fans, this should mean something uh? It's always a worry when you let someone you don't know in person (aka idols) affect your daily life. She used her mother credit card, spent all her money, she didn't care about her friends, she skipped her job, this isn't fangirling is obsession. It's ok to love an idol and admire him, but it's making a mess in her life, this is a concern.
Exactly
Agree...
True, fangirling and obsession are 2 different things
I agree.. and unfortunately this obsession will eventually lead to depression
Tell them baby 👏👏
she is literally a saseang.i mean the guy is more than 40 years old and she still doesn't want him to get a girlfriend
I am an ARMY..but I always wish that my BTS will find their soulmates and live a happy and free life
Same,all the best for our idols❤❤❤
God bless
Same here. We are FANS because we support their music and should have limitations and boundaries when it comes to their private life. We can be amuse but being affectionate is too much.
This is soo hard
Me too
So not worthy of friendship. She chose a guy she came to know through UA-cam ect only for a year over 10yrs friendship. Friend like this, I would rather be friendless
Love makes u do crazy things 🤧
stephanie tyson by “your mental illness” I’m assuming u are referring to the girl in the video. And I’d say it’s more amplified by the artist itself. As u can see, she described many things that she loved about him.
First Last what wrong with that I’m also like that and I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like you
Melak Alezairej Not like anyone would want to be friends with you either, let’s see how far you get in life with that attitude.
Melak Alezairej yeah being like that means you were never a real friend and you're not worth anyone's friendship. I wouldn't want someone like that as a friend either. Dumping your friends for a guy especially a guy that doesn't even want you makes you an exceptionally shitty friend.
13:41 That's kinda fudged that she would choose a man who she doesn't know at all over her bff of 10 years and her other friends.
12:50 That part got me really mad tbh. Like a good 60% of people who like an artist in korea they obsess over them and the companies demanding idols to not date isn't helping at all because it makes delusional fans think they have a chance. ( my opinion )
@Phoebe Ro Exactly!
i think thats the gimmick isnt it? thats why all of them are delusional~ its sad tho
Ikr those "delusionalies" need a slap to reality 😌
because those fans bring a constant flow of money, that’s why
I really wish idols could be free to date and that these obsessive Korean fans would stop them from leading a normal life 😕
don't get me wrong, sung si-kyung is a whole MAN and i can see why she's so into him but... this ain't it sis. i also kinda blame si-kyung because he was TOO sweet during the phone call, giving her hope and stuff that will only encourage her further until the next time she gets to meet him
she contributes to his income after all lmao
Lol but it seems that he didn't mind too much, he even said they should meet up and take a picture again some time.
@Rene S I think when he said because of his older age, he doesn't get many fans that are this crazy "supportive," it may have been a welcomed attention.
@@CB-cw9yt she's gonna be contributing to his anxiety soon if she keeps getting more obsessive
@@StephJ0seph obviously he's not gonna tell her to piss off, he just said what he had to say as an artist interacting with a dedicated fan but because she's so obsessive she's going to take that as if it was an encouragement or that it meant something deeper
Her whole vibe is not cute at all. He’s not your husband. Bruh these fans are delusional.
Im 23, when the fan described sikyung i immediately nod in agreement. Sikyung is really dreamy. Hahahahha but then again its okay to admire, just not obsess. Hahahaha
When the episode started I thought I can relate lol I remember sending a friend of mine a clip of Sung Si kyung singing and said that he's my crush lol. She never replied my message 🤣🤣😂 anyway as the episode went on I was like, that's crazy, even for someone like me that admires him so mucho
Sung sikyung sounds so niceeee
Isn't she..... lowkey stalking him tho? Waiting at his favorite restaurant until he show up??
HIGHKEY
That’s not really stalking it’s pretty common. A lot of idol fans do that...she’s obsessive for sure tho
Is this how idol die hard fans aka ssasaeng fan acts?!! Its scaring me.. 😣
No it's not, sassaeng fans do the following:
Shove their phone into idols faces
Try to touch them at every moment
Stalks them and tries to find out personal info that the artist has not yet said
They are WAY too obsessed that they harm idols and dont care about their saftey
The fan in this show is just an overreacting fan she doesn't try to hurt him, she doesn't stalk him to his house/hotel but she is very protective of him in a bad way... A sassaeng fan is willing to hurt their idol just for a picture/video
I hope this helped you understand a little better💚💚
She's obsessed, not a ssasaeng. Her acts aren't even on a ssasaeng level lol
I think she is one of those many fan who keep up with their idol in every small activities they do and doesnt like their idol to date anyone ..they want to live in their fantasy n lil more obsessed than the normal fan ...I see maself relate to every other conversation with my fav idol. But I don't go overboard .. and happy with dating stuff .. I guess part of those fans who always want to see their idol single and loyal to them ..I often see those type of fan in the comments ...
alondra FF I’m not sure if this makes me feel better because she was scary.
Not quite but she has the makings of one. Hopefully she won't cross that line.
at first i thought she's in 30s.... and then when she's making a video message to sung sikyung, i was shocked that she's only 25..... gurl I'm almost 30 and i love him as much as you do but please control yourself...
that part when sung sikyung said 'i planned to get married this year/next year, but because of Areum, I'd break it off'
seriously dude????? you shouldn't pamper her that much.
Alivia Putri R. . He gave her false hopes.. he is basically enjoying the attention
@@reshmi5333 That's really not the case.. He's trying to be nice because she's his fan, she did nothing to harm him so there's no reason to possibly hurt her feelings with being unnecessarily blunt.. He did tell her to take it down a notch..
lol why he do that he is supposed to get married to me LOL jokes aside I agree with you. I'd like to think she knows the reality though.
His fans know that he once said that he don't want to get married. I guess that when he said that he wanna get married that year, he was only joking. He's a guy that likes to joke so please don't blame him too 😂😂
Agree Sung Si Kyung is nice man but there is a big necessity in Korea to put a clear line between fan and themselves. they will be the one who will be sending death threats when you get married. They will harm you and your family. Yeah seen all that happened with my own eyes. This is the reason Sasaeng fans feels entitled. How dare she can demand when anyone should get married. Girl worry about your life and friends who will leave you soon.
This is why companies should let their idols date freely. So that we don't have any delusional fans like this thinking they actually have a chance. It'll be really depressing for her when he eventually gets married.
I'm liking Sikyung and he is my motivator at work. You know when things get rough and burn you out? He has been my outlet for 2 mos now and will support him all through out. No high hopes but I look forward to attending his concert in the future and that's the goal.
Im honestly shocked by the guests that doesn't think this is a big concern. It's also concern for the artist itself to have obsessed fans like this.
These kind of fans are very delusional. Idols are human as well. They can go dating whoever they want or get married to their love one. But because of these fans,idols life are getting harder.
I’m just a casual fan that supports and stream and buys and album in a blue moon 😂
ARMY
They have such a good friendship. I wish they become closer after this. I wish I had a bff like her too
I love Sung SiKyung as much as she does, but still I wanna see him get married soon.
Those friends need to drop the obsessed girl. There's no excuse for someone to be staring at a celebrity when you're trying to have a serious conversation about your real life.
Real friends don't just drop her off,they help her first but if its too much then whatever
I think she's normal before she met him
I’m a huge fan of Bts and Stray kids and I don’t think this is healthy at all. I honestly am waiting for the day they marry someone they love and see them happy. There’s a difference with loving a group or idols music and overall obsession
If I were her friend, I would have cut the friendship long time ago.. 🤷🏻♀️
And not letting him marry someone in the future unless it was you? girl, you're nothing more than a fan to him 🙄
ps: thank you jackson wang for making us, ahgases as your friends, not a princess or a lover 💚🙏🏼🙌🏼
I am a fan of SSK. Despite his crooked teeth, he exudes manliness with his sweet and soothing vocals. I understand the fan. She might appear to be obsessive but I am sure her answers to the questions in the show were meant to be interesting. I appreciate SSK talking to her and giving advice. His statement about not getting married was meant to be a joke so do not misjudge him.
I’m a fan too
Si-kyung is so adorable XD
I understand what shes going through as a fan. Once i was obsessed looking for sung sikyung clips, really i cn spent whole just watching his videos and envied those people accompanying him., but now i get over him., liking or being fan girling is a way to relieve stress in everyday life
I am glad that she has some friends who are concerned about her. She is a sasaeng fan. Idols really hate such fans. They are not really considered fans.
I admit that sung si kyung is handsome, have good voice and a sweetheart (and i'm his fangirl too) but what she doing isn't fangirling but obsessive. She isn't succes fans but the annoying one. I hope sung si kyung getting marry and wake her up that your idol not responsible for your life.
At first I watched this video because of the title , it got me. Then while watching I saw euijin, he's a guest. It's my lucky day too. Euijin really suit in this show. Haha.
I think this puts me in a hard place assuming how much annoying I am to my friends about my fandoms 😂😂😂
Areum is so lucky to have a friend like her
Seeing this clip makes me hope that Sikyung get married soon, just to give that psych a wake up call
I used to see this girl smiling in the audience on a battle trip show... it was scary😨
Which video is it?? If u dont mind answering, i kinda wanna see it. Her uhm.. Face.. 😁
In conclusion this whole video is about exposing a sasaeng fan of sung sikyung.
I think they just made it worse not better, considering she's going to be talking about that phone call to her friends forever now LOL
It's an obsession.
All of us at some point have liked and even fantasised about meeting our idol irrespective of their age and relationship status but the major difference exists in the fact that we're able to accept any of their personal decisions no matter how it is.
his voice is👌👌👌👌👌👌
before u want to stan a celebrity or kpop idol, pls remind yourself that whatever happen he was never going to marry you. Don’t act like we own them.
Gurl be Sung Deokmi, work hard play hard and stay loyal with her friend
My friend is obsessed with ruel. She listens to him every day and everytime she has free time.
This is not fangirling, this is toxic obession
Im a fan of a boyband but i really want to see them to get married with someone he loves and have kids. It just i want to see them happy with their own family. Idols are human too
she’s such a delulu Fan the song is about me gurlll plsss eye-
Its scary what a die hard fan could do for the sake of their favourite idol 😱 Hope she'll be more of a productive fan in the future and does not force others on their interest
Yeaaaazzz KBS World finally uploaded an eng subbed version of this 💜 Being a huge huge fan of Si Kyung (who is 23 years younger than him;;) I rushed to watch this episode right after it aired and his voice makes me melt omg TT anyways while reading Korean comments I was wondering why no one mentioned about how annoying her voice makeup plastic surgery obsession sasaeng-ness was -.- everyone was jz talking about how big of a successful fan she is (?) and how they’re jealous of her like duh?? Now Si Kyung has a bad image of her and being his fan I’m pretty sure she knows how much he hates these kind of fans? He was just being nice in here. The real Sung Si Kyung would’ve scolded the sense out of her, although he loves young fans cz he thinks they’re endangered (no they’re not oppa) yea okay deep inside I’m selfish and for my own happiness I don’t wanna see him get married (he’s been saying this in his concerts for the past few years, that he gave up on getting married..) but for HIS happiness, I’d rather him get a really really pretty and perfect girl, and get married to her, for I can never be that girl xD I’m glad so many of the English comments are dissing this obsessed fan, instead of
the ones I read previously saying that she’s a successful fan -.-
And this ladies and gentlemen is how saesangs are developed
And now if he gets a girlfriend, fans like this will get upset, start rumors and eventually ruin the idol's career
Honestly speaking, I am very jealous of her. She can go to all of SSK's gigs and whatnots and he actually knows her and then she got to talk to him on the phone and received sweet message from him, meanwhile here I am, SSK doesn't even know I exist. I really like him and I am a fan. He's soooo dreamy and ideal esp when he sings omgggg. But I personally would love it if oppa will get married soon :(((( Please fall in love with someone worthy of your love and who's kind-hearted and loves you sincerely and then get married :((( It would be nice if it's with me (LOL jk he's 20 yrs older than me HAHAHA) but the chance is very low lol hahaha. SSK oppa is not getting any younger and even if he's making it not a big deal that he's okay with not getting married, but it seems like he does. He wants to get married and it's my wish that he gets married soon with a nice woman. Ilysm oppa, always take care of yourself~~
It is my ardent wish for him as well. May he find a very good woman as his wife who will give him more happiness in life.
This is why I don't like extreme fans I was so annoyed when she was so possessive with the idol. She should be thankful that her idol is understanding.
That's y knets grow up pls.. accept if ur bias will get married ok.. now forgive Lee sungmin for getting married. Ok 👏👏👏
That's not fan's love. It's called obsession.
If anything I think if you truly adore and appreciate an artist in any medium (music, movies, online, etc.), you'll be happy if they're happy! That's being a true fan. If they find the love of their life, that is something to celebrate. I don't understand why so many fans get upset just because their idols aren't marrying them. It's sad, really. They are not Sims, you can't control their lives; they're human beings 🤦♀️
I somehow understand the fan. It is unlikely of me to fangirling Si kyung. I just recently know about him through Running Man, but I was captivated by his humor, then later on his voice. But there should always be a limit to everything.
I just love how Si kyung approached the issue. He low key scolded her for affecting her work, but at the same time he still valued her as a fan.
He is a man full of humor and talent. I just hope that later when he found the woman he'll marry, his fans will accept it. 💕
Me being an exo fan for more than 6yrs l can't understand.. she's obesessed,not Normal fan
@@ciali.haokipstream_d_f_t_f7959 you're right. it is not healthy to get obsessed with someone. I am also fangirling Super junior since 2007, but i don't let my hobby affect my personal life. At the end celebrities are still human. They will get married and have a life. Hope she will understand soon and get over her obsession.
And what i can understand i mean is her falling for Sikyung so fast. I was shocked too by myself, I'm falling for this guy also..he is a man full of talent and wittiness.. But I would never support excessive obsession like that.
I cant really understand people who are fangirling / fanboying the idols like they are kings / queens🤦🏼♀️ (anyway, stan seventeen and support their cb soon)
Might just go to this show and expose my obsession for Kim taehyung and get a voice call 🙈🤪
I love sung si-kyung and pretend that I will married with him someday 🤭
Girl, there's limit to like or loving someone. A true love is to see our love ones happy not to put more pressure though. What u doing are so selfish. U just care about ur own happiness. Not ur families, friends or even the one u say u love.
This applies to all fans of celebrities or idols. Do not mind their personals. They should get married if they want to. Let respect their life and privacy. Just keep supporting them if you are able to.
I'm a fan of kpop and i know how we, fans like watching their photos, videos, fancams, buying albums, go to gigs,fansign events or concerts. But dont let it affect others. Like use ur own money, go with the ones that are willing to. That way, others will respect what u doing or what u love.
Best regards,
I love my idols so much but when seeing her say that she won’t let him marry a girl that he loves in the future is too much 🙂
Now I can understand the lyrics of "STEP BACK" It's for fans like her😂
Ok, I love Sung Sikyung too along with the rest of SK and rest of the world but please don't let our artists suffer just because of some crazy self obsession that person is yours 🙏 they are grateful for fans and fans love and support but they suffer and can't have their own personal lives if people get too obsessed, jebal love and respect them dont take it too far 🎧🎤🎶🙆♀️✌
Korean: I stand a chance... We never know what will happen..
Me: omg!! They look so damn hot but... Haha difference between Korean and international fans
I Stan Big Bang and iKon (2ne1too) and the most I e ever spent was on Big Bang concerts even buying $300 VIP tickets....they were worth it to me during that time. I'm glad I did it and got it out of my system. I still love and support them but there's always a limit. With all the scandals I was always thinking about it logically even if I was hurt by what came out. I was and am for a just consequence for their bad actions. Regardless of who they are they need to be humbled. I don't want Seungri to go to jail but if he does I hope it is for justice and what a standard punishment should be, nothing less nothing more. Even if it hurts my heart, I hope he learns to be honest.
15:14 I was getting chills from listening to her and then they mention Mino 💀😂😂😂 i uwu'ed for a moment. (like her friend twice as much 😆 W fans are the fxcking nicest i've seen like srsly 😳)
But this girl tho. Bruh... Nope. 😦
Stalking. Stealing. Sacrificing your real-life relationships and REALITY is just overkill and not healthy af esp. THIS type of possessiveness.
I'm glad her friend is there for her and all but if her way of living is threatened bc of her "bff" Areum and she still continue her saesang life then i guess its time to call it quits or just maybe distance herself from that type of toxicity or something. Areum needs professional help. Like rn.
I didn't like how she said that he can't marry and she would save him even if he knows how to swim and let her 10 years friend drown!
What a successful saesang fan... she must understand that celebrity are humans and they have a heart too! He can like someone and marry and that might not be u!
This is the best solition, have the root of the problem sort the issue😊😁🤦♀️👍
AHHHHH EUIJINNNN MA BABBYYYYY
*Euijin so handsome* ^^
there’s a difference between loving your fave because they’re amazing and deserve the world and actually wanting to be their significant other and getting martied...
like i absolutely love and adore loona and stray kids with my whole heart but i KNOW that they’re celebrities and wouldn’t date anyone like us 😳
she definitely went way too far. dragging her friend to his gigs and stuff when she only has 4-5 free days off, taking to her only abt him, using her mom’s card to buy gifts, etc. and not wanting him to get married bc she thinks she has a chance... like ????
yeah i say “i love kim hyunjin w my whole heart be my girlfriend pls” or “i want to hold seungmin’s hand and put him in my pocket 🥺” but like,,,, i wouldn’t get mad if they started dating anyone because it’s rly their happiness that matters to me .
I can only imagine her feelings when he gets married and has kids
As a fan girl (a normal one) I think this is a huge worry. She'll hurt herself over this and she will not even be aware what she's missed as she gets older
Love is truly blind. Some might not fancy sung si kyung but some find him handsome as heck. I'd prefer fangirling over someone else. 😉
Well.. I don't find him handsome as heck but if you really appreciate smooth, stable, and soothing vocals and/or heart wrenching ballads, not stanning Sung Sikyung would be a mistake..
This is definitely a concern. It's borderline obsessive. Showing up to places he goes, only talking about him in conversation, saying he can't get married, and showing up to every event is creepy 😭
I think some fans specifically sassaengs need to go to rehab to realign their mindset and figure out what it is that attract them to their stars. It could have been a result of trauma, family history, etc.
I'm a fan too, a 100% ARMY. But damn, if BTS wants to date or get married, then be it. If I don't have money to buy album or concert tickets, it's fine. Not that I will use my mom's money just to satisfy myself. She's obsessed.
I'm in my 20s and I like Lee Jaejin (SECHSKIES). But not as much as this lady likes Sung Sikyung.
All I wanna do is see Lee Jaejin live and see his art in an art gallery. o-o It'll be even cool if his art was featured in art gallery in a major city in my area (San Francisco).
OMG! Meeeeeeee! Literally.
its like sasaeng fans. wait sung sikyung until he come to restorant, its not one time but twice. OMG!
don't get me wrong I'm a fan and appreciate the artist I support but there's a certain extent. they also deserve to be happy and find love. this girl needs to get a reality check, she's 25 and should be working hard and appreciating her friendships because not a lot people are caring like her friends. Also with the whole idea of dating your favorite artist? seriously? there's seriously no chance, if they fall in love with someone let them be happy and get that crazy illusion of dating them because it's never going to happen.
I am such a huge fan of Sung Si Kyung, so I understand her crush on him. However she is being obsessive, but here the fault in not on the artist. It lays more on the culture of “fandom” that has been established in Korea, either be a Kpop group, actor, artist, etc.. fans go beyond normal behavior and actions when it comes to “support” their artist. This is a concern but not only about her, but about the whole obsessive fans that are out there. Is good to show support on the artist, but we should not make our lives around them. I hope she continues to support Sung Si Kyung but also that she would be more reasonable about her life and friendships.
when your friends send this video to you because *_they have the same concern_*
ps : i just watched until the end but she’s so delusional lol.. it’s too much.. eye-
I mean, Si-Kyung does have really good music and is really cool, but no need to call him your bf or husband.
I am the biggest Once,Blink,Midzy,WithU,Army etc
*the fact that she translate the script OMG this is respectfull and awsome . She is a good person but Hope this IS not turning into obsession . I'm not talking about my favorite actor , singer etc to my Friends because I don't want to be an annoying person each person have they taste*
It has already turned to an obsession! She is not going to work, is using her mom’s money to fund her addiction to him and puts him above real friends!
@@esml373 OMG 😣😣😣😣
Stalker and her voice is weird. Please go back to reality this is only fantasy
She would def love Yunho from Ateez
if this ain't what the fans culture in kpop society especially the ones who strictly against their idols having relationship...there is fine line between adores, cherish your fave and being mad obsessed that you turn into completely delusional.
She's so young but ruined her face with too much plastic surgery, she looks over 40, not 25.
8Clowny true
She become Obsessed fan
From my opinion this is some what I would call "Obsession". It's bad actually because it affect not only her life but her mental health.I also like Sung Si Kyung since I was 10..now at age 23..I'm also followed every of his news and songs but actually for me is about controlling your emotion.
The friend looked like she was so pretty at one time but now looks way overly plastic. I think that's a bigger concern than her fangirling.
I would just ignore my friend lol
시경오빠 덕후 ㅎ 저 도 있어요 ㅎ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i'm willing to forgive her a little bit because she's probably still in the first stage of stanning but the going to restaurants and waiting for him to show up left a bad taste in my mouth. that's pretty stalkerish behaviour.
Everything she liked about him was his looks only😮😮😮
bruh all these delulus not wanting their idols to get married should wake up, like please you're the last person on earth they'd marry, stop this obsession and let them fall in love, let them be happy too.
He's touring in North America now... I wonder if she followed him or not
another proof why some kfans are so toxic
I agree.
You think intl fans are better? I know a lot of western fans with the same « my bias can’t date » mindset! Did you never see BTS and NCT fans who find their hotels when they have concerts overseas? It’s not a nationality or korean thing! It’s a delusional fan thing
Bro how can you just decide and tell him not to do the things he wants to be and stuff. You’re not his mom, you’re not related to him, you’re just a fan. You can’t control him that’s just messed up.
As for the case of love life,that areum is kind of delutional.if you like someone your wish should be their happiness and peace not your dominant spirit trying to rule their life
One reason I disliked BTS was bcos my best friend always spam me their pictures, music, variety shows and clips compilation and she will expect me to give feed back.however,if I don't reply or say I did not watch it,she will insult the hell out me until the day I have her serious warning to stop spamming me anything and if I'm interested I will check it out.
Be a fan, enjoy it but don't use it to disturb my life,for me the best friend is nice,if it was me I will speak sense into her still being a fangirl
I can't resist myself to write a comment here. I wanna bet that if SSK do get married, this kind of fans will be the one destroying his albums and probably doing something worse, spreading something that it's not true about him, with the worst reasoning of all, "I dropped him not because he's getting married, but because how he handle the marriage" 🙄 in the end, it's because of him getting married. I truly feel sorry for idols and many celebrities in SK, because it seems being normalized there 😔