2:10 Carla is really pulling the work in to not get the ick, or am I imagining it? She's been so accommodating and gorgeous about it all, and our girl deserves more
Showrunners said these two would have a bit of drama but a happy union. Im going to try and believe them 😂 Betsy actually seemed to defend Carla a bit which was nice to see. Lisa is definitely struggling, hopfully she opens up to Carla and stops all this hot and cold
I hope so. She's got a lot going on. She didn't take the time to grieve. She has a high pressure job, an unruly teen(who is also grieving), someone new has come into her life who she clearly adores and she's still throwing herself into her work rather than focusing on herself. And she has all of these insecurities and fears because of it. And she has to be clear in boundaries about what she can share with Carla but open up to her . I think Carla will help her but it won't help by lying to her about being sick. I know we think we're trying to protect people but it's not really.
Becky was her wife, her partner of at least 15 years. She knows her murder hasn't been solved correctly so she's bound to want justice. She just needs to get that before she can move forward. She adores Carla.
Even though I’m sure that she didn’t mean it that way, maybe Carla’s comment (‘The one that got away’) hit a little too close, somewhere still too raw? Like I said, I’m sure that Carla didn’t mean it that way, simply that the case file escaped and got away from Lisa, but Lisa may not have interpreted it that way.
I agree. I don't think she's abusive but she's finding it hard to separate herself from work & personal life. She has a lot of unhealed anger & grief over what happened to her wife. I think it's hard for her as the case is closed and she's doing her own digging and there's only so much she can tell Carla. But everything she is bottling up is starting to come out in other ways and the people she really cares about are getting hurt. I think Carla will help her heal and soften her heart. She has a lot of rage right now.
She was already struggling before she got together with Carla. She needs help and she needs to lean on Carla more. She just needs to learn how to ask for help.
I was so excited for today , thinking will be a lovely one between Carla and Lisa, my surprise was…. Lisa was cold to Carla I dislike the way she pulled the files from Carla’s hands and give her a strange look , I hope she doesn’t break Carla’s Heart will be the end for me to watch the show , and I’m sure will be more stopping .
Lisa need' some sort or counselling she is obviously a very broken person after what happen her wife she never allowed her self to grief properly and now it all come back up again
She is just dealing with too much. Either she is going to realize that she needs help, or she is going to nose-dive. I sincerely hope it is the former.
. I don't think she's abusive but she's finding it hard to separate herself from work & personal life. She has a lot of unhealed anger & grief over what happened to her wife. I think it's hard for her as the case is closed and she's doing her own digging and there's only so much she can tell Carla. But everything she is bottling up is starting to come out in other ways and the people she really cares about are getting hurt. I think Carla will help her heal and soften her heart. She has a lot of rage right now
and i don’t understand why people are confused? she’s trying to solve her wife’s murder (which she can’t talk to anyone about), her flat god flooded and and now she has to work new year’s eve. i’d be mad too
I haven't liked Lisa for a while. I was so upset when she went crying to Carla when Carla was hurt in hospital. Then, accosting Carla's client?? Nope. Then, she got upset at Carla for keeping their relationship private and announcing it. She's been inconsistent and self-centred. I've been saying for months that she and Betsy need therapy. Every time she called herself a bad mom, I agreed. But Carla's happy, so 🤷 Plus, watching Alison perform has been a JOY! (I'm saying this before even watching this. I've just been so frustrated for Carla)
@@SweetExposethere's a lot more than that going on for her but this shows when we don't deal with it, it comes out in other ways and we hurt the people we care about the most.
I think Mattie and Logan are involved in a lot more shady activities than already suspected (or similarly shady; a lot of organized crime.) I think she is being very careful to protect Betsy and Carla from getting pulled into that. Don’t forget, she doesn’t yet know about Betsy’s involvement in the attack on Carla, but does know that these boys murdered her last wife and tried to hurt Carla, too. I think these two cases are just the tip of the iceberg regarding Mattie and Logan’s criminal records. It also explains a lot about her hostility towards Betsy’s boyfriend.
@@PikachuMannequinShe seemed to get dysregulated really quickly and a mix between it being confidential & not being sure how much to share with Carla. She can't tell her much because the case is meant to be closed and she's taking it upon herself to dig deeper.
she’s trying to solve her wife’s murder (which she can’t talk to anyone about), her flat god flooded and and now she has to work new year’s eve. i’d be uptight too
@@juliemcgugan1244I get that but a simple thank you would suffice and they really ought to be locked up. She can say, I need somewhere safe to keep these as they are private police info.
She has a lot going underneath which she hasn't dealt with. Everything is building up on top of her. Death of her wife, rushing back to work, not giving herself time to grieve, high pressure job, a grieving and badly behaved teen, falling for someone new when she's terrified of loss, knowing who killed her wife but trying to dig it up on her own, no-one to turn to really, a bust pipe, and working on new year. She's not coping or being rational.
Lisa never grieved properly for her wife when she died which has caused her to be emotional damaged hopefully Carla will help her and Lisa will get therapy.
@@whoami1654that all is true, but if she’s not careful, the one person who cares for her and who she can and does turn to for support will be gone 🤷🏻♀️
I’m hoping that once she’s got Becky’s case settled, things might look up for them. It has been very hard to watch, but I can tell how much Lisa is struggling.
Hate to see it, but Lisa is turning into a bit of a a-hole. She has suddenly become very controlling. She has so far had a go because Carla wouldn't come out to everyone overnight, shouted at her when she did come out, got aggressive when Carla was sat with another man,. Carla has been robbed, knocked out and given a brain bleed by the daughter. Lisa then came into the hospital, didn't ask how Carla was, then dumped all her troubles on her,. Carla has always been the most affectionate and has now offered up her home all whilst Lisa is thinking of her wife. If that was a male character we'd be thinking this was heading into an abusive relationship. If that's not where this storyline is going, this is bad writing.
I think she's really struggling with a lot. We've seen since April how overwhelmed she's been with grief, trying to juggle her job and a teenager who is also really struggling. And she hasn't really had any support for it. I disagree about her yelling at Carla for not coming out. She did express her feelings and they both were in conflict with one another. She did tell Carla she didn't want a big announcement but just to go out together. There's miscommunication on both sides. And when Carla accidentally dropped the files all she said was "don't touch them they're really important" She's totally dysregulated and needs to get it all out. All she has at the moment is her job, daughter and Carla. She doesn't really have a friend as that friend was Carla so I see why she went running to her. Carla is definitely the more secure out of them both. I hope it doesn't turn into an abuse story as they are very good together. I'm doubtful Lisa will say I love you back tomorrow though, I think it'll be too much, she'll be overwhelmed and scared. We've seen so many good and healthy scenarios between them. And I don't think the secrets and lies will help.
Iisa does not mean it your tell she is just a very damaged person who has not got over her wife's death once she gets the help she needs she will be able to heal.
I have been thoroughly enjoying Alison King's performance but I'm not a fan of the Lisa for her. I don't understand how people get to this age without learning how to effectively communicate. She needs therapy. Betsy needs therapy. They both just fling themselves into dangerous situations or get drunk instead of processing or communicating their feelings. Lisa needs to do better by her daughter.
I'm one of those people. And I'm in therapy. We get here because we were never shown or brought up in stable home's. I've saw Lisa communicate well often. However, I agree she needs some sort of help.
Hmm. I don’t mind angst and I am trying to give Lisa some grace bc she’s dealing with finding out there was more to Becky’s murder but idk. Lisa sucks at communicating (I know she can’t discuss the case) but still. Carla is very patient with Lisa and I’m starting to question if that patience is deserved is all I’ll say.
@@melissabell7139Charity and Vanessa actually have a scene together in tonight's Emmerdale the same week as Suki and Eve wedding in Eastenders and Carla Telling Lisa she loves her does this mean something probably not but one can dream
@@sineadslimmonvanityfaneves8385I'm not hopeful Lisa will say it back just yet. There's too much going on for her. And if she says I love you, it makes it all real
I have so many controversial opinions about this relationship that I'm sure fans will dislike me, LOL. However, Carla Connor, I absolutely see the constant, positive effort you display to loved ones and others, and for that, you'll always be my special woman. 🥹💚
Carla and Lisa have got me watching every episode again 😂❤
I feel you, Lisa! I’m working tomorrow too! Ugh! Just enough time to go home, shower and change, before I head out to celebrate for the evening!
This episode was good I love how Carla is handling things she has a good heart. She is a strong person with a heart of Gold.🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
Carla will help Lisa heal and melt her walls
Why are you ruining relationship I want them to be forever forever love is love 😢💖💖
2:10 Carla is really pulling the work in to not get the ick, or am I imagining it? She's been so accommodating and gorgeous about it all, and our girl deserves more
Showrunners said these two would have a bit of drama but a happy union. Im going to try and believe them 😂 Betsy actually seemed to defend Carla a bit which was nice to see. Lisa is definitely struggling, hopfully she opens up to Carla and stops all this hot and cold
I hope so. She's got a lot going on. She didn't take the time to grieve. She has a high pressure job, an unruly teen(who is also grieving), someone new has come into her life who she clearly adores and she's still throwing herself into her work rather than focusing on herself. And she has all of these insecurities and fears because of it. And she has to be clear in boundaries about what she can share with Carla but open up to her . I think Carla will help her but it won't help by lying to her about being sick. I know we think we're trying to protect people but it's not really.
@@whoami1654 Wait when did she lie about being sick?
You will see, in the new year…new trials are coming their way!
@@juliemcgugan1244 yes, I’ve seen the spoilers tho I’d rather avoid most of it.. sounds exciting and also unruly., don’t want anyone to be killed off
I am so glad they sorted out the sleeping arrangements i was quite concerned
Carla 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
watched all the episode, and nick and toyah said that mary told them, swain took delight in telling Leanne she's being charged.
Wow Lisa is really defensive over Becky! Poor Carla can’t do right for doing wrong
I feel until Lisa finds out who killed Becky she won't completely move on. Even though she loves Carla
Becky was her wife, her partner of at least 15 years. She knows her murder hasn't been solved correctly so she's bound to want justice. She just needs to get that before she can move forward. She adores Carla.
It’s guilt that is driving Lisa.
Even though I’m sure that she didn’t mean it that way, maybe Carla’s comment (‘The one that got away’) hit a little too close, somewhere still too raw? Like I said, I’m sure that Carla didn’t mean it that way, simply that the case file escaped and got away from Lisa, but Lisa may not have interpreted it that way.
Lisa heading for a Nervous breakdown 😢 in the next few weeks with all that has happened I am not surprised poor Woman.
I agree. I don't think she's abusive but she's finding it hard to separate herself from work & personal life. She has a lot of unhealed anger & grief over what happened to her wife. I think it's hard for her as the case is closed and she's doing her own digging and there's only so much she can tell Carla. But everything she is bottling up is starting to come out in other ways and the people she really cares about are getting hurt. I think Carla will help her heal and soften her heart. She has a lot of rage right now.
She was already struggling before she got together with Carla. She needs help and she needs to lean on Carla more. She just needs to learn how to ask for help.
Lisa needs to get over herself or she will destroy her magnificent relationship with the gorgeous Carla
@@JudithDArcy people who have Mental health problems cant just over it does not work like that
I was so excited for today , thinking will be a lovely one between Carla and Lisa, my surprise was…. Lisa was cold to Carla I dislike the way she pulled the files from Carla’s hands and give her a strange look , I hope she doesn’t break Carla’s Heart will be the end for me to watch the show , and I’m sure will be more stopping .
Lisa need' some sort or counselling she is obviously a very broken person after what happen her wife she never allowed her self to grief properly and now it all come back up again
She is just dealing with too much. Either she is going to realize that she needs help, or she is going to nose-dive. I sincerely hope it is the former.
I can't quite understand what's up with Lisa. Why are the writers doing this to her character. 😡
. I don't think she's abusive but she's finding it hard to separate herself from work & personal life. She has a lot of unhealed anger & grief over what happened to her wife. I think it's hard for her as the case is closed and she's doing her own digging and there's only so much she can tell Carla. But everything she is bottling up is starting to come out in other ways and the people she really cares about are getting hurt. I think Carla will help her heal and soften her heart. She has a lot of rage right now
and i don’t understand why people are confused? she’s trying to solve her wife’s murder (which she can’t talk to anyone about), her flat god flooded and and now she has to work new year’s eve. i’d be mad too
I haven't liked Lisa for a while. I was so upset when she went crying to Carla when Carla was hurt in hospital. Then, accosting Carla's client?? Nope. Then, she got upset at Carla for keeping their relationship private and announcing it. She's been inconsistent and self-centred. I've been saying for months that she and Betsy need therapy. Every time she called herself a bad mom, I agreed. But Carla's happy, so 🤷 Plus, watching Alison perform has been a JOY! (I'm saying this before even watching this. I've just been so frustrated for Carla)
@@SweetExposethere's a lot more than that going on for her but this shows when we don't deal with it, it comes out in other ways and we hurt the people we care about the most.
I think Mattie and Logan are involved in a lot more shady activities than already suspected (or similarly shady; a lot of organized crime.) I think she is being very careful to protect Betsy and Carla from getting pulled into that. Don’t forget, she doesn’t yet know about Betsy’s involvement in the attack on Carla, but does know that these boys murdered her last wife and tried to hurt Carla, too. I think these two cases are just the tip of the iceberg regarding Mattie and Logan’s criminal records. It also explains a lot about her hostility towards Betsy’s boyfriend.
It's hard be with a police officer you have be patience with the relationship and the partner has let go of her ex too move on
And she’s got a kid she has to put first, too. Lisa’s certainly got a lot on her plate!
Onde eu assisto??
Why is Lisa do uptight??!She snatched that off Carla
It was weird.. 🤔
@@PikachuMannequinShe seemed to get dysregulated really quickly and a mix between it being confidential & not being sure how much to share with Carla. She can't tell her much because the case is meant to be closed and she's taking it upon herself to dig deeper.
she’s trying to solve her wife’s murder (which she can’t talk to anyone about), her flat god flooded and and now she has to work new year’s eve. i’d be uptight too
Confidential files. She’s already been suspended and investigated for murder. Pretty sure she’s just being very careful where she steps, with her job.
@@juliemcgugan1244I get that but a simple thank you would suffice and they really ought to be locked up. She can say, I need somewhere safe to keep these as they are private police info.
What is up with Lisa? I’m sure most new lovers don’t behave like this ….. not if they want their relationship to endure, anyway. 😮
She has a lot going underneath which she hasn't dealt with. Everything is building up on top of her. Death of her wife, rushing back to work, not giving herself time to grieve, high pressure job, a grieving and badly behaved teen, falling for someone new when she's terrified of loss, knowing who killed her wife but trying to dig it up on her own, no-one to turn to really, a bust pipe, and working on new year. She's not coping or being rational.
Lisa never grieved properly for her wife when she died which has caused her to be emotional damaged hopefully Carla will help her and Lisa will get therapy.
@@whoami1654that all is true, but if she’s not careful, the one person who cares for her and who she can and does turn to for support will be gone 🤷🏻♀️
@@salh-salniateddefinitely
She was so off with carla 😢
i want better for Carla.
I’m hoping that once she’s got Becky’s case settled, things might look up for them. It has been very hard to watch, but I can tell how much Lisa is struggling.
Why is Lisa so distanced?
She was really closed off
Hate to see it, but Lisa is turning into a bit of a a-hole. She has suddenly become very controlling. She has so far had a go because Carla wouldn't come out to everyone overnight, shouted at her when she did come out, got aggressive when Carla was sat with another man,. Carla has been robbed, knocked out and given a brain bleed by the daughter. Lisa then came into the hospital, didn't ask how Carla was, then dumped all her troubles on her,. Carla has always been the most affectionate and has now offered up her home all whilst Lisa is thinking of her wife. If that was a male character we'd be thinking this was heading into an abusive relationship. If that's not where this storyline is going, this is bad writing.
I think she's really struggling with a lot. We've seen since April how overwhelmed she's been with grief, trying to juggle her job and a teenager who is also really struggling. And she hasn't really had any support for it. I disagree about her yelling at Carla for not coming out. She did express her feelings and they both were in conflict with one another. She did tell Carla she didn't want a big announcement but just to go out together. There's miscommunication on both sides. And when Carla accidentally dropped the files all she said was "don't touch them they're really important" She's totally dysregulated and needs to get it all out. All she has at the moment is her job, daughter and Carla. She doesn't really have a friend as that friend was Carla so I see why she went running to her. Carla is definitely the more secure out of them both. I hope it doesn't turn into an abuse story as they are very good together. I'm doubtful Lisa will say I love you back tomorrow though, I think it'll be too much, she'll be overwhelmed and scared. We've seen so many good and healthy scenarios between them. And I don't think the secrets and lies will help.
I liked Lisa at first but I am not liking how she just treated Carla
Iisa does not mean it your tell she is just a very damaged person who has not got over her wife's death once she gets the help she needs she will be able to heal.
I have been thoroughly enjoying Alison King's performance but I'm not a fan of the Lisa for her. I don't understand how people get to this age without learning how to effectively communicate. She needs therapy. Betsy needs therapy. They both just fling themselves into dangerous situations or get drunk instead of processing or communicating their feelings. Lisa needs to do better by her daughter.
I'm one of those people. And I'm in therapy. We get here because we were never shown or brought up in stable home's. I've saw Lisa communicate well often. However, I agree she needs some sort of help.
I hope we learn more about Lisa Backstory next year and maybe that will explain why she acts the way she does
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I love swarla but Carla deserves better. I said what i said.
Lisa's going to come through for Carla.
Hmm. I don’t mind angst and I am trying to give Lisa some grace bc she’s dealing with finding out there was more to Becky’s murder but idk. Lisa sucks at communicating (I know she can’t discuss the case) but still. Carla is very patient with Lisa and I’m starting to question if that patience is deserved is all I’ll say.
How would you have liked her to communicate?
Looks like kate brooks is changing lisa for the worst. She's turning into kit lol
It’s really giving charity and Vanessa
I knew this was Kate Brooks writing. She never allows a happy ending.
@@melissabell7139Charity and Vanessa actually have a scene together in tonight's Emmerdale the same week as Suki and Eve wedding in Eastenders and Carla Telling Lisa she loves her does this mean something probably not but one can dream
@@sineadslimmonvanityfaneves8385I'm not hopeful Lisa will say it back just yet. There's too much going on for her. And if she says I love you, it makes it all real
I have so many controversial opinions about this relationship that I'm sure fans will dislike me, LOL.
However, Carla Connor, I absolutely see the constant, positive effort you display to loved ones and others, and for that, you'll always be my special woman. 🥹💚
I want to hear them